I’m concerned about James safety because she has unsupervised over nights with him. She has talked about blackouts when she doesn’t remember what she did and said. She also has manic episodes and does god knows what. A 6 year old little boy can’t protect himself. A loving mother would protect her child even from herself
Kristina adopting Leah is going to be one of the sweetest things to ever happen to Leah. Ambers "friends" need to understand that this isnt about Ambers life, its about Leahs....are they Leahs friends?
People need to stop worrying how things affect Amber and start worrying how things affect Leah!! Sick of Amber being a crap mom and blaming it on her mental health!!
It is NEVER the responsibility for a child/teen to ‘fix’ the relationship with an absentee parent. If Leah doesn’t want to respond then that’s her right and the way Amber is talking about Leah and the situation is disgusting. Amber is NOT someone I’d want my kid to spend time with but I get that Gary wants there to be a relationship there if there can be
Leah is old enough to think and make that choice for herself about her mom. If Gary really wanted to be mean he doesn’t need Amber’s permission to adopt Leah. Leah is almost grown Amber has abandoned and neglected her. Amber uses her mental health as an excuse I can’t believe she is still on the show. She is clearly a drug addict
Atp Amber needs to let Leah go. She's done and said so much I think it's just more traumatizing knowing she is in her 40's and still messing up in her life and Leah's. Amber won't change and is stuck in her ways. Leah will have a good life with her bonus mom and a dad who is present along with her siblings.
I don’t understood why people are constantly attacking the way Cate looks. This is why we have bullies in schools because of parents like you. Get a life
OK. What do the kids want? That's the ONLY question that matters. And I know. I've had a judge and child psychologists ask me what I want from my parental dynamic. I do not stand for anything that profits off of the plight of children. To me, attention is profiting. Abuse isn't as simple as what is shown on camera. You can be well fed, dressed, physically safe, and still experience abuse. This is as bad as Steve Wilkos without the need for anything being considered. Garbage.
I guarantee if leah had a deadbeat dad and amber raised leah, amber would most definitely put her hands on leah. No doubt in my mind after reading that text message.
I’m sorry, Amber is excluded????? She excluded herself. Who says they’re going to “beat the s***” out of their teenage daughter? I’m glad Maci & Catelynn Have compassion for Amber, but I don’t. Ambers poor relationship with Leah is her fault. Even if Kristina were to try to adopt Leah, Amber would fight it tooth 🦷 and Nail and make it all about her. That’s wonderful Devon takes Stella as well as His daughter, I have mad respect ✊ for that.
I use to be a fan of maci cause she was the only normal one, but her sticking up for amber even tho she is a dead beat is a double standard, knowing dang well she would of done the same thing if Taylor wanted to adopt Bentley cause Ryan was a dead beat. She starting to get on my nerves now
3:06 Maybe I know too much teen mom stuff but anyone remember when amber told Gary to hit Leah and that maybe if he smacked her she would learn? It was on teen mom when she was still in diapers and amber was in her skinny crackhead stage
Plus the fact Gary was her driver, tgey watched James sge had them on Speed dial to pick, clean her trash bag hat. I bet she attacked Gary #2 and drug him to counseling, to save face. I believe imo she attacked him?
I think bri just needs drama and likes to complain, she’s always gotta pull the disadvantaged single mom card - and Chey is always making up some poor black girl story line like shut up you and your family are more privileged than any white people on the show and 99% of the world. Cait and Maci are being messy drama queens. And amber - who cares. Kristina is Leah’s mom and always has been. She will be the one dancing with Leah at her wedding. Amber won’t be invited or will show up late and making it about herself. She’s been on the same poor me I’m mentally ill and imma good mom even tho I abandoned both my children and can’t even be involved in my daughters life even tho I’ve had 15 years and live like 5 minutes away. She’s a poor excuse for a woman and mother.
Briana is annoying. Where the hell is Louis and why isn’t he doing his job? I love how Devoin looks at Stella as his own even though she isn’t his. Leah is better off without Amber. I know how it feels for your parent to be in and out your life and eventually you grow numb to it.
Who cares about ambers feeling she doesnt give a shit about anyone elses. Mh or not doesnt give her the right to treat people and her child the way she does. Bri drives me crazy with her drama needing immaturity. As for kate and macy i have lost so much for respect for them not thinking about the trauma has dealt with because of amber.
ABOUT adopting- why do they go that route? why can’t they continue parenting that child as they are doing it now? Gary has primary we all see, i feel as if they doing it to rub it in her face more- we all know Mom Amber has MH we all know this Leah will eventually learn as she gets older she does not understand why mom continues to act irresponsible and immature and unstable just like a teenager these are symptoms of her MENTAL illness BPD, and the adults KNOW THIS , this can even affect her more mess with her more.. so again why mess with her ???? Leah don’t know she maybe hears but the gravity of her moms situation is serious they gotta becareful it can affect Amber , they can just continue to PARENT HER PUT BOUNDARIES AS THEY BEEN DOING A PERFECT JOB❤.
Please don’t adopt Leah Kristen’s you are her stepmother already and you have been raising her for years amber is a problem but let her be her own problem I don’t add to it you and Gary has all you need to continue to raise this child you has the upper hand she will be grown shortly don’t give amber more reason too blame you two for her mistakes you see what James dad is doing amber needs to try harder to fix her self she is a spoiled young woman.
I think it’s a little too late to want Kristina to adopt Leah, I mean people forget amber was raising and taking care of Leah until Gary took over custody after being with Kristina. Yeh Amber has been a screw up no doubt and has major issues indeed, but Gary was no saint in the beginning. I will say Amber deff needs to put men on the side and focus on Leah and keep fighting to be with her as much as possible.
All this shit talking but if Amber died or something horrible happened then everyone would feel like assholes for talking so much shit. Leah would be heartbroken. I just always think about these kind of scenarios because my child's father died and everyone thought he was a Saint and I was the bad one, but when he died the REAL truth came out and people finally started listening to me!
Amber is not a mother
she just has kids
I feel this. My baby daddy is the same way...my child does so well without him around. He is 16 and starting college in a month!
@FattyButterBits 16 and graduting congrats
Amber would have to give up her parental rights in order for Christina to adopt Leah and we all know she will never do that.
Depending on the state law, if she has not seen Leah in several months it’s considered abandonment.
@@NessaGee-hx1et I've heard of this
@@NessaGee-hx1ethas to be over 12 months with ZERO contact minimum
Does Amber have rights ? Like she has no custody or visitation.
I’m concerned about James safety because she has unsupervised over nights with him. She has talked about blackouts when she doesn’t remember what she did and said. She also has manic episodes and does god knows what. A 6 year old little boy can’t protect himself. A loving mother would protect her child even from herself
I think it’s a good idea. Christina should adopt her. She’s been her mom anyway, and Amber has always checked out.
I’m so sick of how MTV bankrolls amber while all she does is sit on her couch whining about what a victim she is!
Kristina adopting Leah is going to be one of the sweetest things to ever happen to Leah.
Ambers "friends" need to understand that this isnt about Ambers life, its about Leahs....are they Leahs friends?
Exactly! 👏💯
People need to stop worrying how things affect Amber and start worrying how things affect Leah!! Sick of Amber being a crap mom and blaming it on her mental health!!
Exactly!! Leah’s feelings should always be put first. Amber is NOT going to change. That is obvious.
@@jujubeedavis agreed
I have mental health issues and I am still a parent so it’s not an excuse!!!
It is NEVER the responsibility for a child/teen to ‘fix’ the relationship with an absentee parent. If Leah doesn’t want to respond then that’s her right and the way Amber is talking about Leah and the situation is disgusting. Amber is NOT someone I’d want my kid to spend time with but I get that Gary wants there to be a relationship there if there can be
10:32 Gary is such a 360 from his debut I’m proud of him lol
Leah has more common sense than Amber. 😂😂😂
Low key Gary doesn’t want her to adopt Leah because he wants Amber to keep paying him that teen mom child support
Briana is a spoiled brat.
Under the circumstances and Leahs age I think a judge would terminate amber’s rights
Love your recaps keep up the good work!!!
Leah is old enough to think and make that choice for herself about her mom. If Gary really wanted to be mean he doesn’t need Amber’s permission to adopt Leah. Leah is almost grown Amber has abandoned and neglected her. Amber uses her mental health as an excuse I can’t believe she is still on the show. She is clearly a drug addict
Atp Amber needs to let Leah go. She's done and said so much I think it's just more traumatizing knowing she is in her 40's and still messing up in her life and Leah's. Amber won't change and is stuck in her ways. Leah will have a good life with her bonus mom and a dad who is present along with her siblings.
Cate looks old asf
I don’t understood why people are constantly attacking the way Cate looks. This is why we have bullies in schools because of parents like you. Get a life
0:40 STOP NOT THE GLASSES 😂😂
OK. What do the kids want? That's the ONLY question that matters. And I know. I've had a judge and child psychologists ask me what I want from my parental dynamic. I do not stand for anything that profits off of the plight of children. To me, attention is profiting. Abuse isn't as simple as what is shown on camera. You can be well fed, dressed, physically safe, and still experience abuse. This is as bad as Steve Wilkos without the need for anything being considered. Garbage.
I guarantee if leah had a deadbeat dad and amber raised leah, amber would most definitely put her hands on leah. No doubt in my mind after reading that text message.
Why do they care about Amber's mental health? Isn't Leah's more important?
Yes Christina would be a better mom
Some school districts charge to take the bus and they ARE public school
I’m sorry, Amber is excluded????? She excluded herself. Who says they’re going to “beat the s***” out of their teenage daughter? I’m glad Maci & Catelynn Have compassion for Amber, but I don’t. Ambers poor relationship with Leah is her fault. Even if Kristina were to try to adopt Leah, Amber would fight it tooth 🦷 and Nail and make it all about her. That’s wonderful Devon takes Stella as well as His daughter, I have mad respect ✊ for that.
I use to be a fan of maci cause she was the only normal one, but her sticking up for amber even tho she is a dead beat is a double standard, knowing dang well she would of done the same thing if Taylor wanted to adopt Bentley cause Ryan was a dead beat. She starting to get on my nerves now
3:06 Maybe I know too much teen mom stuff but anyone remember when amber told Gary to hit Leah and that maybe if he smacked her she would learn? It was on teen mom when she was still in diapers and amber was in her skinny crackhead stage
Yup!!!
Plus the fact Gary was her driver, tgey watched James sge had them on Speed dial to pick, clean her trash bag hat. I bet she attacked Gary #2 and drug him to counseling, to save face. I believe imo she attacked him?
It’s not confirmed but she probably did
Amber's a horrible mother
I think bri just needs drama and likes to complain, she’s always gotta pull the disadvantaged single mom card -
and Chey is always making up some poor black girl story line like shut up you and your family are more privileged than any white people on the show and 99% of the world.
Cait and Maci are being messy drama queens.
And amber - who cares. Kristina is Leah’s mom and always has been. She will be the one dancing with Leah at her wedding. Amber won’t be invited or will show up late and making it about herself. She’s been on the same poor me I’m mentally ill and imma good mom even tho I abandoned both my children and can’t even be involved in my daughters life even tho I’ve had 15 years and live like 5 minutes away. She’s a poor excuse for a woman and mother.
I REALLY hope she doesn’t invite her to her wedding! She would make it all about herself. Narcissists are good at ruining every important day!
I Hope Kristina Adopts Leah 🙏🙏
As a Mainer, I've never heard of a snow go either 🤣🤣🤣
I agree with ur comments 100 percent
Hardup for a story line
Briana is annoying. Where the hell is Louis and why isn’t he doing his job? I love how Devoin looks at Stella as his own even though she isn’t his. Leah is better off without Amber. I know how it feels for your parent to be in and out your life and eventually you grow numb to it.
Who cares about ambers feeling she doesnt give a shit about anyone elses. Mh or not doesnt give her the right to treat people and her child the way she does. Bri drives me crazy with her drama needing immaturity. As for kate and macy i have lost so much for respect for them not thinking about the trauma has dealt with because of amber.
7:54 LMFAOOO 😂😂😂
Love your channel
ABOUT adopting- why do they go that route? why can’t they continue parenting that child as they are doing it now? Gary has primary we all see, i feel as if they doing it to rub it in her face more- we all know Mom Amber has MH we all know this Leah will eventually learn as she gets older she does not understand why mom continues to act irresponsible and immature and unstable just like a teenager these are symptoms of her MENTAL illness BPD, and the adults KNOW THIS , this can even affect her more mess with her more.. so again why mess with her ???? Leah don’t know she maybe hears but the gravity of her moms situation is serious they gotta becareful it can affect Amber , they can just continue to PARENT HER PUT BOUNDARIES AS THEY BEEN DOING A PERFECT JOB❤.
She's already a teenager she's not a child to be adopted she's going to be adult in a couple years lol wt?
Storyline.
I know people that get adopted as an adult. They just want their mom to be mom on paper.
Please don’t adopt Leah Kristen’s you are her stepmother already and you have been raising her for years amber is a problem but let her be her own problem I don’t add to it you and Gary has all you need to continue to raise this child you has the upper hand she will be grown shortly don’t give amber more reason too blame you two for her mistakes you see what James dad is doing amber needs to try harder to fix her self she is a spoiled young woman.
I think it’s a little too late to want Kristina to adopt Leah, I mean people forget amber was raising and taking care of Leah until Gary took over custody after being with Kristina. Yeh Amber has been a screw up no doubt and has major issues indeed, but Gary was no saint in the beginning. I will say Amber deff needs to put men on the side and focus on Leah and keep fighting to be with her as much as possible.
Gary matured and Amber got worse 🤷♀️
@@kcar8974exactly, he grew up, she regressed.
@@kcar8974 agree
All this shit talking but if Amber died or something horrible happened then everyone would feel like assholes for talking so much shit. Leah would be heartbroken. I just always think about these kind of scenarios because my child's father died and everyone thought he was a Saint and I was the bad one, but when he died the REAL truth came out and people finally started listening to me!