Youniversity | Phlegmatic and Melancholy | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024
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Комментарии • 161

  • @chikitos5192
    @chikitos5192 21 день назад +1

    Perfect teaching, pastor K you are blessed to have pastor M God bless your family❤❤❤

  • @lizzyfresh07
    @lizzyfresh07 Год назад +4

    I’m 100% Melancholic. My melancholic nature is also melancholic. 😊
    Perfectionist, excessive planner, organized, analytical, and with the help of the Holy Spirit, I am perfect in Christ. ❤

  • @ellaobans8727
    @ellaobans8727 3 года назад +41

    Mel-Phleg here, I used deny it but while researching for my book I published last year, I had to accept it because that's the first step to live above my temperaments.
    Thank you so much ma, this is comprehensive enough.🌹

  • @tomiwafaith
    @tomiwafaith 2 года назад +18

    I’m definitely phlegmatic.. so calm & chilled. I don’t like problem or whenever people are upset too. I like to take things easy with no stress either

  • @korankyewaa247
    @korankyewaa247 3 года назад +33

    Thank you so much ma!
    Please we would like another version that teaches temperament compatibilities for marriage and teamwork. Thank you once again

  • @ibfrancistoomuch
    @ibfrancistoomuch 3 года назад +58

    When you train humans to understand human behaviors they’ll start living in peace

  • @PureWellness_Hub
    @PureWellness_Hub 29 дней назад

    Thank you Ma
    And God bless my pastor's wife for recomeding this video.

  • @uncledotun
    @uncledotun 3 года назад +37

    Read 'Why you act the way you do' by Tim Laye. He described the temperament nature of human very well.

    • @oluwasanmiidowu
      @oluwasanmiidowu Год назад +3

      The book changed my life. The blessed part is that the author kept emphasizing how important the Holy Spirit was for balance notwithstanding the temperament.
      God bless Pastor Mildred for doing a great job explaining this too.

  • @user-ur7km9fx2c
    @user-ur7km9fx2c 3 года назад +31

    The way pastor M brings the bible home is for fantastic! The way she described the bible stories is just 👌

  • @eyes9860
    @eyes9860 3 года назад +48

    I’m definitely phlegmatic...in fact I’ve never ever heard a more accurate description of my personality and how I am inside. This is actually crazy spot on.

  • @olaoluwaokewole1615
    @olaoluwaokewole1615 3 года назад +11

    Brilliant message!!
    Love how she tied scriptures (with precision) to each temperament!!
    God blessed Pastor.K with this woman!!
    Pastor.M is another 5Bs woman {Born again; Baptised in the Holy Ghost; Beautiful; Brains; and Bonds well}.
    Who said 5Bs women no dey?
    Another proof that: you will find who you're looking for!!

  • @HikatekileTshimbana
    @HikatekileTshimbana 3 года назад +7

    I'm definitely a melancholy!❤

  • @thelilinuel
    @thelilinuel 3 года назад +9

    I've been a little unsure about my temperament until today. She discribed me in minutes. I'm a proud Mel! Thank you Pastor M! ❤️

  • @toyinayanwole
    @toyinayanwole Месяц назад

    Wow! This is great 👍👍👍
    Thank you so much ma'am ❤️

  • @chidinmaoti8025
    @chidinmaoti8025 2 года назад +3

    Thank you ma for this message l have gotten so many revelations about myself@melancholy, yes ma carry everything on my head but the holy spirit is helping me reduce so many of this especially on the side of depression, and now l enjoy peace of mind despite everything and knowing fully well that perfection does not exist, thank you for this beautiful message and God bless you.

  • @chiomadayo-matt6901
    @chiomadayo-matt6901 3 года назад +18

    So I've been a Melancholy all these years and thought I was sanguine. Thank you ma for opening my eyes

    • @TheHelpedWoman
      @TheHelpedWoman 3 года назад +5

      Lol a sanguine and mel are opposites, how do you confuse that?

    • @uncledotun
      @uncledotun 3 года назад +2

      Everyone has a portion of each temperament. You can't be a full melancholy, sanguine, choleric and phlegmatic. Two of it that you developed will be dominant while the others will be recessive. Read this book by Tim Laye "Why you act the way you do". It will help you know how you relate with human.

    • @agnesadeoye5418
      @agnesadeoye5418 3 года назад

      @@uncledotun Yeah. And spirit controlled temperament by the same author🥰

    • @matildaafifetse2649
      @matildaafifetse2649 Год назад

      😂

  • @LoisPrunelle_
    @LoisPrunelle_ 9 месяцев назад

    I love this Woman❤️🔥. You are blessed Pastor M.

  • @parbeyphyllis5590
    @parbeyphyllis5590 3 года назад +4

    Mum you are a gem 🤗🤗🤗full of grace and wisdom. More grace upon grace 😍much love Pastor M

  • @emmanuelgilbertnwizi7859
    @emmanuelgilbertnwizi7859 3 года назад +22

    I'm just laughing all through the video watching this woman describe my life in 30minute.

  • @aweleanigekwu8291
    @aweleanigekwu8291 3 года назад +2

    I neva even watch am...I just Love Pastor M🤗...oya make I settle down watch am. Pastors K and M we love una for Connecticut oooo.. come and bless us here. You are welcome. My Pastor knows una but neva meet una!😊

  • @kemisjourney
    @kemisjourney 2 года назад +4

    Finally learning to accept my MEL-PHLEG temperament. Thank you PM ❤

  • @AshAbe7
    @AshAbe7 6 месяцев назад

    Noone taught this tittle better!!!!
    Thanks pastor❤️

  • @morahsheryl.i.1313
    @morahsheryl.i.1313 3 года назад +9

    Mel-phleg here.
    I just love yhu ma. Most times I feel you are talking to me directly. Thank you for the insight always.

  • @AshAbe7
    @AshAbe7 6 месяцев назад

    Wow!!!
    I'm so blessed by this!! Thank you so much

  • @HBrifo
    @HBrifo 3 года назад +3

    I watched this last 2 Fridays ago and my life have been changed 🤯.. This message is like the Gospel... very liberating..
    I didn't know how key it was to know and understand oneself until I watched this. I'm a MelPhleg, but stronger on the Mel.. and I've been so hard on myself and blame myself a lot that it was driving me into depression ..
    Please let's not just watch this but share as well

    • @HBrifo
      @HBrifo 3 года назад

      Let's know that it is only God that can change us.. So let's lean to God to receive strength and Grace to overcome our various personality and personal weaknesses... and His grace and Wisdom on how to harness our Strengths for His glory..and his Kingdom ... we have eternity in mind😍.
      And if you're sharing to an unbeliever be sure to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ to them.. no amount of motivational talk can change a person but Christ, so teach them give themselves to Christ and to lean in to the Holy Spirit to help them overcome their weaknesses not just those "you can do it" motivations

    • @HBrifo
      @HBrifo 3 года назад

      For my Mels here 😃👋🏾, this song by for KING & COUNTRY titled "Control" really taught me that, I have to learn to GIVE UP CONTROL to God.. I won't always get it PERFECT, so in all my plannings, I have to give up Control to God, and be FLEXIBLE to His leadings🙏🏾.
      One of the duo, Joel Smallbone, opened up about his control addiction and how God taught him which led to the production of the song "CONTROL"
      This version of song was recorded in a Concert, and Joel shared his story at time stamp 22:09.. link ruclips.net/video/RLk66XHE3ak/видео.html. Song itself starts at 25:25 during the concert
      The song only, CONTROL recorded is on this video link ruclips.net/video/E4wusq61dmw/видео.html
      But do well to follow his story from the concert show at the beginning.
      God bless you Joel for sharing, God bless you For King & Country

  • @Nuellalove
    @Nuellalove 3 года назад +23

    I waited so long for this 🥺
    I’m phlegmatic btw

  • @qmina1
    @qmina1 3 года назад +6

    Originally Mel-Phelg ... now with a dash of Chol which I truly believe has been a blessing in balancing/strengthening my personality more 🤗

    • @joshuaadeolu5553
      @joshuaadeolu5553 Год назад

      Yes exactly same here too. I was just saying now is it possible for one to have a bit of 3 temperaments. This is a lovely confirmation 😊

  • @florencenkiru7274
    @florencenkiru7274 3 года назад +2

    My personality is melancholy
    Very well detailed message
    Thank you for sharing ma'am

  • @demaestro012
    @demaestro012 3 года назад +6

    I am definitely a Phleg-Mel.

  • @toyinayanwole
    @toyinayanwole Месяц назад

    This is powerful

  • @eyitayosharon1546
    @eyitayosharon1546 2 года назад +3

    Over the Years, I alwys asked myself! Why I'm so hard on myself, why I alwyz find fault in everything 😪 why if I have issues with people, they usually never bothered to call me or want me back, all my exes wen we had quarrel alwys accused me that I'm too hard on them, I don't appreciate them, I looked down on them & I wondered whenever we broke up, they will be very happy & blocked me everywhere & nvr make frds with me again😭💔 Now I know I'M A MELANCHOLY & nvr knw! I'm jst myself with this character. Oh God help me to work on myself & give me someone that will help me to Change for good. I'm so sad😥😔 & depressed

  • @Dworkchannel
    @Dworkchannel 3 года назад +2

    Oh Pastor M! The way you break down the scriptures🔥🔥❤️ I am blessed watching this.

  • @Emma4dfuture
    @Emma4dfuture 3 года назад +11

    Before I even begin to watch, let me just say that I was about checking for videos on temperaments. Then I was about checking PK's channel. Then the Holy Spirit nudged me to type just your name, and boom! The first item in the search result is this video.
    Thank you for this! E get why.

  • @patrakirungi4851
    @patrakirungi4851 2 года назад +1

    Thank u for this. Blessings from Uganda 🇺🇬 🙏

  • @EttaDaniel
    @EttaDaniel 2 года назад +2

    Thank you momma.... You just blessed my life this night

  • @agnesadeoye5418
    @agnesadeoye5418 3 года назад +68

    Melphleg please gather here😄😄😄😄

  • @suzanpaul1860
    @suzanpaul1860 2 года назад +1

    God bless you ma.
    You described me perfectly. I am phlegmatic.

  • @samgtabu
    @samgtabu 2 года назад +2

    This teaching was so well delivered.

  • @olowolafeoluwatoyin3881
    @olowolafeoluwatoyin3881 3 года назад +5

    Proudly PhlegSan

  • @gladnessparadiso2412
    @gladnessparadiso2412 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Pastor M...I'm really enjoying this sermon and getting to know my own temperament and those of my family and friends....
    I am a phlegmatic and I no like wahala 😍

  • @patricia.nasike
    @patricia.nasike 3 года назад +7

    "He that believeth shall not make haste" 😄😄😄😂 yesss.

  • @amakachukwu2304
    @amakachukwu2304 Год назад

    Wow 😲.. this is really me. Now I am sure I am a melancholy.

  • @akinwaletosin8619
    @akinwaletosin8619 2 года назад +1

    God bless you greatly Pastor M.

  • @joshuaarthur-yartel1553
    @joshuaarthur-yartel1553 3 года назад +1

    Amazing exposition. I'm really blessed by your teaching. God bless

  • @blessingsbelle7619
    @blessingsbelle7619 3 года назад +6

    😆 OH BOY...VERY REVEALING! I LOVE HOW YOU USE SCRIPTURE TO DESCRIBE EACH TEMPERAMENT, & HOW YOU'VE LEFT US WITH HOPE VIA THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT. KNOWLEDGE OF TEMPERAMENTS, LIKE THE LANGUAGES OF LOVE IS GREAT ON PERSONAL & CORPORATE LEVELS. THANK YOU!!! 💃

  • @giwajohn847
    @giwajohn847 2 года назад

    Everything said about Melancholy is so true...

  • @kellynjinkeu6320
    @kellynjinkeu6320 2 года назад

    I just love the way you dissect the Word Ma'a

  • @mimatakon
    @mimatakon 3 года назад +2

    Can’t wait 😇😇
    I’m a melancholy 🥰🥰

  • @Thetanyael
    @Thetanyael 3 года назад +2

    melancholic as charged Ma’am

  • @Its_lady_tee
    @Its_lady_tee 2 года назад

    Thank you so much Pastor Mildred.

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 3 года назад

    Greater you go mummy, I 'm melancholy you just preach me 😄💯 thanks

  • @dessyonoja7025
    @dessyonoja7025 3 года назад +1

    Reminder set! I can't wait

  • @rekiyaE
    @rekiyaE 3 года назад +4

    I'm a choleric-melancholic. Though my melancholic is 32% but i really appreciate it, it helps with my dominant choleric side.

  • @scriptureandsongs
    @scriptureandsongs 3 года назад +1

    Wow thank you pastor M for youniversity... It was really eye opening to me and has made me understand me better

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola 3 года назад

    THANK YOU, Pastor M!♥️🙌🏾

  • @VanEssa-el7so
    @VanEssa-el7so 2 года назад +5

    😂 l now understand why l like sitting on the fence every time. 80% phlegmatic l remember the day l was forced to buy tickets to go to club l just agreed and bought the ticket(expensive) for peace to reign. l knew l was not going but l planned with them and went missing on the day. 🤣🤣🤣 l am always in trouble

    • @ChristabelFelix-rc8tz
      @ChristabelFelix-rc8tz 4 месяца назад

      Now I know why I procrastinate a lot🤔 and why I can please everybody and displease myself 🤦 #phlegmatic#

  • @faustinanyarkokoduah6634
    @faustinanyarkokoduah6634 3 года назад

    God bless you woman of God

  • @adebanjofolashade8165
    @adebanjofolashade8165 2 года назад +2

    I am so melancholic even my melancholic is melancholic

  • @erinmaonwuchekwa
    @erinmaonwuchekwa 3 года назад +6

    Melancholy +Choleric

  • @danielvifa510
    @danielvifa510 5 месяцев назад

    Very interesting

  • @BlessedLPT.
    @BlessedLPT. 3 года назад +5

    Where are all my MelChors🗣🗣🗣

  • @dammymelaye6376
    @dammymelaye6376 3 года назад

    Blessing Osogbue

  • @donbaker007
    @donbaker007 Год назад

    Bravooooooo

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare Год назад

    Well explained insights 👍

  • @Ellaceeceebee
    @Ellaceeceebee 2 года назад

    Beautiful message. I'd really love it if the prayer sessions are also included

  • @nokulungamoyo2296
    @nokulungamoyo2296 2 года назад +2

    I'm Melancholy + Choleric. I get shocked a lot by the things people do... or do not do 😅

  • @chinyereotaka7517
    @chinyereotaka7517 3 года назад

    Amazingly inspiring

  • @mindbuilders6147
    @mindbuilders6147 3 года назад +1

    You just disected me as a phlegmatic

  • @faustinangozichukwu1343
    @faustinangozichukwu1343 2 года назад

    Thank you so much ma

  • @nana_ama_rose
    @nana_ama_rose 4 месяца назад +1

    The way I condemn myself to God I think He is seeing me as Moses reincarnated 🥲.

  • @peterfrancanationtv2830
    @peterfrancanationtv2830 2 года назад

    Thank you PM

  • @damolaibraheem9283
    @damolaibraheem9283 3 года назад

    I am definitely a melancholy..

  • @ifeyinwaobienu
    @ifeyinwaobienu 3 года назад +12

    It's unique that men and women have different traits, now throw in temperament into the mix🤦🏽‍♀️... Jeez! It's no wonder you're given a marriage CERTIFICATE 🤷🏽‍♀️
    Only God can give you "expo" to succeed in that institution 😌😏

  • @ineokujagu8795
    @ineokujagu8795 2 года назад

    Great knowledge

  • @sapphire78blue
    @sapphire78blue 2 года назад

    I am definitely a melancholi

  • @patiencemagoola101
    @patiencemagoola101 3 года назад

    Thank u

  • @davefx_
    @davefx_ 3 года назад +6

    Thank you mama, please my question is can someone's temperament change as they grow?

  • @ireenchewe8261
    @ireenchewe8261 2 года назад +2

    Just realized am a melancholic 😅😅no wonder I find it difficult to socialize

  • @tehillarbanda1930
    @tehillarbanda1930 2 года назад +1

    Phlegmatic for life🤣🤣🤣peace!!

  • @IamTheRarestGem
    @IamTheRarestGem 3 года назад +6

    I am primary a Phlegmatic and secondary a melancholy.
    I can't understand why someone will not put things back in the place I put them in the first place. At home they think I am dominantly melancholy because of this 🙆🙆🙆
    "If you cannot do it the way I do then its not good enough." Is that a perfectionist there 🤔

    • @agnesadeoye5418
      @agnesadeoye5418 3 года назад

      😂😂😂😂 my children are tired of me already. No matter what i told them to do i will still do it all over again🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @IamTheRarestGem
      @IamTheRarestGem 3 года назад +2

      @@agnesadeoye5418 😂😂😂😂😂
      The Holy Spirit is working on me reminding me of our uniqueness and that we are not born knowing everything, we all learn and with time perfect our craft.
      I pray He helps you too.

    • @agnesadeoye5418
      @agnesadeoye5418 3 года назад +1

      @@IamTheRarestGem Amen🙏🏾 Thanks for sharing🥰

  • @ayivisusan6284
    @ayivisusan6284 3 года назад +2

    That is the word, we loss out a lot. Melancholy, I can tell from experience

  • @zaria2turay968
    @zaria2turay968 3 года назад +1

    The phlegmatic in me ehn😂🙌🏽

  • @nwajuoginikachy7952
    @nwajuoginikachy7952 3 года назад +1

    I think I'm a blend of San+phlegmatic

  • @idowumarvellous5881
    @idowumarvellous5881 2 года назад

    I think we should add HolyGhostmatic

  • @blessingandrew1751
    @blessingandrew1751 3 года назад +1

    I didn't even know what my temperament was before now.... 😂😂😂 I'm phlegmatic
    Wow😂

  • @DestineCaius
    @DestineCaius 2 года назад

    Mel-San. Definitely a Mel-San

  • @chidiebereamujuogu4417
    @chidiebereamujuogu4417 2 года назад

    I'm a perfectionist

  • @mindbuilders6147
    @mindbuilders6147 3 года назад +4

    I am a phlegmel

  • @binuefabiolag9907
    @binuefabiolag9907 2 года назад +1

    Melphlegsang 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Dey like I even get small choleric traits 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @AdaobiObi_n
    @AdaobiObi_n 3 года назад +1

    I think I am phlegmatic. Then again, mama explains that phlegmatics always have the backs of their loved ones and can do anything which I agree but then again, they are self preserving?

  • @Joshua99911
    @Joshua99911 8 месяцев назад

    Question please.
    Is it proven that someone can function in the realm of these four temperament?
    I seem to alternate between the four temperaments; depending on who and what I am dealing with.

  • @rumeokodili5063
    @rumeokodili5063 3 года назад +1

    Im melancholy and hubby phlegmatic

  • @DrEzinneErhirhie
    @DrEzinneErhirhie 3 года назад +4

    Phlegmatic women are what people call wife material.They'd never argue or be career conscious

  • @dackwiszytv9368
    @dackwiszytv9368 Год назад

    Im a phlegmatic and you just described me A to Z😅

  • @olaoluwaokewole1615
    @olaoluwaokewole1615 3 года назад

    Lovely community, please I'd like to ask if one of your mantras is: '#Do You; knock yourself out; just don't touch me or cross into my private space or boundary' is that a phleg, a Chol or a mel? And is that mantra faulty? If it is why?

  • @emmanuelajenny22
    @emmanuelajenny22 3 года назад +1

    My temperament well defined....peaceful phlegmatic lol...

  • @tina09eg
    @tina09eg 3 года назад +3

    I am both phlegmatic and melancholy.

  • @mela_tyibz
    @mela_tyibz 3 года назад

    Yhoo I'm such a phlegmatic 😭

  • @scriptureandsongs
    @scriptureandsongs 3 года назад +2

    Oh by the way they stole my biology note in school. Very detailed with drawings

  • @AshAbe7
    @AshAbe7 6 месяцев назад

    Where can we get the one where she taught the previous one about the extroverts. Please help