That being said when those kinds of accusations are made you have to take it seriously. It is innocent until proven guilty in terms of punishment, but not in terms of precautions.
"We understand if you don't want to talk to us after what happened, but please listen" You mean like how they listened to OP? That line took a lot of nerve. Edit: Also, how in tf can you not be able to tell the difference between a dream and a real-life SA? I mean I know some dreams can seem real, but you don't just forget that it was a dream and not real.
The parents failed and they should cut cousin out of the family and OP is a doormat for not calling them out when they texted him about them making the cousin confess. They need to know they failed as parents for not making the cousin confess that probably would have taken a couple minutes to get out of the cousin.
In this situation, I see several possible responses: Has eve been kicked out and disowned? No? Try again when she has. Or Sorry, committed suicide due to the abandonment of his family awhile back. He left me a note asking me to keep this and tell you he held you responsible for his death. Or We haven’t heard from OP for awhile. Last thing we heard was him saying something about if his mental health and life were going to be destroyed over something he didn’t do, he might as well go out and do it. If you haven’t heard from eve lately, you might want to check on her and give her a heads up.
“E gave such a detailed description…” Lemme stop you right there. It doesn’t take a detective or psychologist to know that lies and fabrications are usually very detailed. If someone is telling the truth, they start with the most important part and stick with that. Imagine a murder investigation. Someone who’s been framed will stick with their alibi because every other detail is superfluous. Meanwhile, a liar has to create a narrative, so they have to start with specifics that no one asked for.
People get mad at me for saying it, but I don't care: *_This sort of story is precisely why it ALWAYS is a bad idea to immediately "believe all women"!!)_*
I'll bet that they haven't offered to kick E out of the family. not that it would have the same impact that it has on someone just starting out in their adult life.
Honestly, i won't forgive them but won't ignore them, your treament towards them shouldn't be harsh but accusative and stern.Treating them harshly will only cause unecessary drama.So meet them as people and visit every once in a while
There is a good reason the concept of "innocent until proven guilty" was created. Screw anyone who won't have it.
I thought he blocked his mother
That being said when those kinds of accusations are made you have to take it seriously. It is innocent until proven guilty in terms of punishment, but not in terms of precautions.
@@rightmunted7538 Even then, the stigma of being accused never goes away.
The only thing that your family needs to hear after this is "you chose your side" and then abandoning them. Even thats too good for them imo.
"We understand if you don't want to talk to us after what happened, but please listen" You mean like how they listened to OP? That line took a lot of nerve.
Edit: Also, how in tf can you not be able to tell the difference between a dream and a real-life SA? I mean I know some dreams can seem real, but you don't just forget that it was a dream and not real.
@religionisevil8850 1000% facts.. narcissist dweebs would do that....
It amazes me that someone could do something outrageous and feel entitled to unlimited forgiveness.
The parents failed and they should cut cousin out of the family and OP is a doormat for not calling them out when they texted him about them making the cousin confess. They need to know they failed as parents for not making the cousin confess that probably would have taken a couple minutes to get out of the cousin.
In this situation, I see several possible responses:
Has eve been kicked out and disowned? No? Try again when she has.
Or
Sorry, committed suicide due to the abandonment of his family awhile back. He left me a note asking me to keep this and tell you he held you responsible for his death.
Or
We haven’t heard from OP for awhile. Last thing we heard was him saying something about if his mental health and life were going to be destroyed over something he didn’t do, he might as well go out and do it. If you haven’t heard from eve lately, you might want to check on her and give her a heads up.
i like the way you think
Not to play devil's advocate, but that third one is _technically_ a crime (the best kind of crime).
“E gave such a detailed description…”
Lemme stop you right there. It doesn’t take a detective or psychologist to know that lies and fabrications are usually very detailed. If someone is telling the truth, they start with the most important part and stick with that. Imagine a murder investigation. Someone who’s been framed will stick with their alibi because every other detail is superfluous. Meanwhile, a liar has to create a narrative, so they have to start with specifics that no one asked for.
You need to ask for solid proof before abandoning someone.
I gotta agree with most of these comments. You seriously can't forgive something like that.
Wait, the one were they reconcile is fake? God dam it
I’m actually happy it’s fake cause they don’t deserve to reconcile with him.
I often say such dysfunctional families can have reconciliation if they pay 10x what they cheated people out of.
You mean "thank god",right?
I've heard this version and the other one where he responded to his parents so many times. I don't know which one to believe.
yeah. the first text didn't even have a apology. they just had family chat as if nothing were wrong.
He should have repliesmd, "New phone who dis? Or 'kay.' Or thumbs up emoji. Or Do you honestly expect me to give a shit about my sisters' brood?"
Never give traitorous backstabbers a second chance to screw you over.
People get mad at me for saying it, but I don't care: *_This sort of story is precisely why it ALWAYS is a bad idea to immediately "believe all women"!!)_*
You are right, some women will do false accusations to ruin someone's life
Don't forgive them
E should be locked up for the rest of her life!
The reconciliation is fake op never updated
Yeah that was brought up that it was a fake tik tok
Op should've just wrote back :" Wrong number dont contact me again"......
I really would like an update. I just hope OOP finds a loving family and happiness.
I'll bet that they haven't offered to kick E out of the family. not that it would have the same impact that it has on someone just starting out in their adult life.
Why did you repost this same story?
In order to get the channel running I had to delete some videos. So I will upload them again once in a while
That's not how shit works
Honestly, i won't forgive them but won't ignore them, your treament towards them shouldn't be harsh but accusative and stern.Treating them harshly will only cause unecessary drama.So meet them as people
and visit every once in a while
go NC continues, if youre okay without them then you should just continue
If I was in his shoes I would’ve said get out of my life and never contact me again also this story might be 99.99% fake
I would’ve responded as follows. I don’t know who this is and would appreciate if you can stop texting me.
all of this is fake
Don't forgive them
Don't forgive them