Let's Get Vulnerable | Chloé Lukasiak

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
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Комментарии • 309

  • @Elizabeth-xf7yu
    @Elizabeth-xf7yu Год назад +697

    I think you should write about your experience as a child on a reality show. Not something you publish, just something for you. If you do it for yourself you don't have to worry about hurting feelings, you can just purge all of your feelings. Under the circumstances, it had to be something that impacted your life both negative and positive.

    • @SpencerSalt
      @SpencerSalt Год назад +11

      I would read this book! This is such a good idea!

    • @OhCrumbs96
      @OhCrumbs96 Год назад +33

      ​@@SpencerSaltI don't think that was the point.

    • @SpencerSalt
      @SpencerSalt Год назад +3

      @@OhCrumbs96 oh, sorry :(

    • @kayluvsmusic1121
      @kayluvsmusic1121 Год назад

      yes i constantly write letters and poetry etc of my raw emotions for therapy. it helps a lot to just put it all out there and give it to someone like my therapist who doesnt judge and wants to help. i ❤ therapy everyone should do therapy

    • @alyssagreene9210
      @alyssagreene9210 Год назад +1

      ​@@kayluvsmusic1121 I really want to but I'm flat broke 😩 I wasnt allowed to do therapy as a kid because my parents took it personally and felt they did something wrong, but I'm 18 now trying to get away from all of it, im lost if I'm being honest :/

  • @cviolet7373
    @cviolet7373 Год назад +416

    The people who are calling her perfect aren’t helping her feelings around perfectionism. Nobody is perfect and THAT IS OKAY. She is allowed to not be good at things, make mistakes, etc. that’s human and that’s beautiful

    • @jenniferhalf1650
      @jenniferhalf1650 Год назад +1

      My opinion. Get over it!!

    • @jennaspencer460
      @jennaspencer460 Год назад +15

      @@jenniferhalf1650 it is your option and that’s okay but again it is NOT helping her and her mental health journey.

    • @user-zp5ls5ve7u
      @user-zp5ls5ve7u Год назад

      @@jenniferhalf1650exactly

    • @user-zp5ls5ve7u
      @user-zp5ls5ve7u Год назад

      @@jenniferhalf1650it is your opion

    • @theredcupcake
      @theredcupcake Год назад

      @@user-zp5ls5ve7u
      opion?

  • @samiemily7467
    @samiemily7467 Год назад +515

    I’m glad you spoke about this.. a lot of ppl like to force the dance mom cast to speak on the show. Some are comfortable but others are of course not. I really appreciate you being vulnerable and open to us.. NEVER feel forced to participate or speak on something that truly makes you uneasy💘

    • @mevdjemal
      @mevdjemal Год назад +6

      Any
      Ppl on tiktok still bombard her woth questions about the show and she don't even wanna talk bout it

    • @paulocosta795
      @paulocosta795 Год назад +2

      She spoke about nothing, the whole video was made as an ad for better help. She just needed to get paid

  • @oddlyoptimistic
    @oddlyoptimistic Год назад +76

    You managed to remain kind despite you being treated harshly throughout your adolescence. You're impressive for the right reasons that can't be taught, your heart is good

  • @donnalee2112
    @donnalee2112 Год назад +141

    You Miss Chloe, are a pure Soul, it shone through when you were a child, and you Shine so bright as an adult. Thank you for just being Chloe. Xo

    • @leahlor
      @leahlor Год назад +2

      Ugh literally I love her 😭

  • @Theglortube
    @Theglortube Год назад +191

    I’m shocked you girls weren’t offered therapy automatically…a lot of shows in the uk give their cast therapy because they understand how difficult it can be mentally…and that’s for adults. Kids need it more!

    • @corimoon3360
      @corimoon3360 Год назад +8

      They were offered therapy but it wasn’t the best therapy

  • @lounamntt
    @lounamntt Год назад +44

    i just watched maddie’s podcast with emrata, I’m so proud of both of these girls and the way they’re opening up and feel valid to talk about it

  • @ccrew22
    @ccrew22 Год назад +34

    You are probably the one member of the Dance moms crew that has been open and vulnerable about this ❤ You're amazing.

  • @sheameg
    @sheameg Год назад +43

    growing up with you has probably been one of my fav things about my life :) we are the same age and i just feel like we always go through the same things around the same time. everytime u said "if that makes sense" or "I'm not making sense" i totally understood you! love seeing vulnerable chlo bird, and love you endlessly girl

  • @violetkessler8925
    @violetkessler8925 Год назад +21

    Thank you for being real! You are a very very kind person and people really appreciate how open you are! On another note, those cookies looked SO GOOD!

  • @tiffaniholcomb3633
    @tiffaniholcomb3633 Год назад +15

    Chole your such an inspiration & don’t ever feel like you can’t ask for help when ya need it, asking for help makes you a stronger person! Your so beautiful don’t ever forget these things honey❤

  • @amaalladha1657
    @amaalladha1657 Год назад +145

    Heads up that Better help has caused a lot of harm by not screening for licensed counselors/therapists. Much love to you though Chloe!

    • @carenarizzotti4935
      @carenarizzotti4935 Год назад

      ive heard only horror stories and they aren't HIPAA compliant and were selling patients data... there are def way better legit ones out there thx for pointing it out!!

  • @carolinealson2164
    @carolinealson2164 Год назад +9

    Thank you so much for this, I want to talk to someone, but I was always too scared. Your voice is so soothing, and you seem so kind. ❤

  • @bellapell9026
    @bellapell9026 Год назад +4

    I’m so happy to know that all of the people from dance moms are still OK I love you guys ❤ you guys were amazing dancers and it’s really OK. Some people left dance moms when they wanted to.

  • @morrisonhannah
    @morrisonhannah Год назад +29

    I relate so much to this. It's interesting how you really do tell yourself that it's fine and a certain traumatic or all-consuming thing in childhood didn't affect you in the few years after it, but I think after a certain point that defense mechanism breaks down and it gets crazy... growing up I guess! Much love

  • @qu3e_n
    @qu3e_n Год назад +25

    chloé, your videos are so relaxing. its amazing that you've come to the realization that it's okay to lean on others when you need it. keep you, and keep being the wonderful person you are 🤍

  • @georgiaemily
    @georgiaemily Год назад +1

    I’ve had things come up recently that I thought I was healed from but haven’t as well. I think it’s the universe telling us it’s time to heal and start a new life chapter. It’s the best feeling when you get to the other side!

  • @jlkraynik2
    @jlkraynik2 Год назад +31

    girl as a fellow perfectionist, you make perfect sense to me when it comes to following through with doing something you enjoy

  • @emilylloydcontu
    @emilylloydcontu 11 месяцев назад +1

    im so glad that you talk openly about it. You and brooklinn have helped me so much and continue to inspire others to not be afraid to speak out. If you need it, seel help. I promise its okay and it doesnt make you weak. Its normal, and okay.

  • @thestubbins138
    @thestubbins138 Год назад +27

    Glad you’re figuring stuff out, and I’ve also been dealing with perfectionism for most of my life so what you said made perfect sense. I constantly have to tell myself when I’m trying something new or making art etc…. that it’s ok to make mistakes and that we have to fail before we can get better.

  • @danascheidt2731
    @danascheidt2731 Год назад +1

    You are one of the most well rounded grounded young ladies ever... I adore your sweet and gentle mannerisms and seem to still have a lovely relationship with your mother. Keep doing you friend 😊

  • @April_Song
    @April_Song Год назад +15

    Hey Chloe! Your videos are so genuine and refreshing to see amongst a huge crowd of extra/fake content! Love you~

  • @CassGaff
    @CassGaff Год назад +10

    How it instantly brought up tears shows what a trauma it was for you and your response was immediately to tell people that it didn’t affect you is a trauma response. Be gentle with yourself. ❤❤

  • @kyribun
    @kyribun Год назад +8

    you've been such an inspiration to me

  • @kenedidipietra5115
    @kenedidipietra5115 Год назад +4

    I loved this. Thanks for sharing 🥹💜 you are so genuine

  • @gracemiller3861
    @gracemiller3861 Год назад +1

    I am happy you're in a place where you feel ready and better equipped to address and process what happened to you. it's ok that you weren't and I'm glad you had therapists who didn't force you to confront that when you weren't ready. I think it's important to remember that you will probably have to grieve many aspects of the things that you went through and grief is a process of processing that sometimes doesn't end. That doesn't mean you will always be unable to think about it or you will constantly be sad, but rather there will be things that sting to think about and there will be days where you feel more sad about what happened. Don't expect yourself to be completely "healed" or to feel one way or another about your experiences. It's ok to be mad, angry, happy, sad, resentful, or whatever emotions you feel. Wishing you the best of luck in your healing journey!

  • @heyheyheyheyhey269
    @heyheyheyheyhey269 Год назад +2

    chloe you are my favorite from dance moms i am on season 7 on the witches cauldron dance episode and im literally watching the group dance rn and you are absolutely incredible i give u so much credit for all those years you delt with abby and u slayed coming back to the girls and winning EVERY SINGLE NUMBER you did with MVP ( or mbp ? im not sure oop) but anyway keep doing what you’re doing you are incredible and such a happy and bright person

  • @goofball2228
    @goofball2228 Год назад +7

    I love you Chloe. You’re so beautiful and you are such a talented dancer. It’s ok to not be perfect because nobody is.

  • @BexleyBug1214
    @BexleyBug1214 Год назад +1

    You an amazing person and a inspiration I am 13 and have been a dancer for 10 years and finally get to perform at Disneyland with my performance team thank you for being inspiring

    • @glowinqlu
      @glowinqlu Год назад

      That’s so awesome!

  • @briellegirl4875
    @briellegirl4875 Год назад +2

    Hey Chloe this is my first time realizing you have a RUclips channel! And I just wanted to know I’m your biggest fan because you were my favorites dancer in dance moms I love you!

  • @jessieliana
    @jessieliana Год назад +11

    I couldn’t even handle the stress of seeing an abusive dance teacher yelling at kids with adults not stopping it and continuously letting it happen so i had to stop watching. I cant even imagine going through it!!

  • @beckyh1802
    @beckyh1802 Год назад +1

    You are aloud to do things just for the fun and experience, your doing great! No one is perfect and that should def be shown more! Just be yourself ❤

  • @jenniferclancey2514
    @jenniferclancey2514 Год назад +9

    Keep it up Chloe. Your videos are awesome

  • @Liv_Laugh_Lovex
    @Liv_Laugh_Lovex Год назад +4

    Chloe is the definition of beautiful 🫶🏼

  • @lvega5606
    @lvega5606 Год назад +1

    As soon as I saw the title and a candle being lit, I knew this was a disguised commercial for BetterHelp.

  • @joseajohnson5722
    @joseajohnson5722 Год назад +4

    1.What's Chloe Lukasiak - Ethnicity, Race, & (Origin)-Nationality?
    2.What's Chloe Lukasiak - Parents, Grandparents, & Siblings?
    3.What's Chloe Lukasiak - First, Middle, & (Nicknames)-Last Name?
    4.What's Chloe Lukasiak - Birthday & (Home/Hospital)-Birthplace?

  • @Jennalover-4
    @Jennalover-4 Год назад +1

    she was my favriot on dance moms and she still is

  • @jenniferwooten3590
    @jenniferwooten3590 11 дней назад

    Hey, Chloe, you make sense ❤ look into neuroscience. It talks about teaching the brain like a muscle, as it is the only organ that can exponentially heal. The things that neuroscience talks about is getting "addicted" with the process and journey, more than the results. It helped me heal myself in my journey of chronic illness and my childhood. Keep healing and love seeing this 🥰

  • @katelynmorgan2621
    @katelynmorgan2621 Год назад +2

    I love you Chloe and you will always be one of my favorites ❤

  • @meredithyoung186
    @meredithyoung186 Год назад +2

    giiiiirl you should talk to a therapist about it! WE LOVE YOU.

  • @ariannapeterson1195
    @ariannapeterson1195 Год назад +1

    I love you Chloe. You and all the other girls from dance moms are sooooo strong. I promise girly you can get through anything. You've put up with Abby lee miller I know you can face any mountain out there after facing that avalanche.

  • @gracie9256
    @gracie9256 Год назад +1

    Omg same with the cookies, I don’t like to much chocolate chips, most people do so I just thought I was weird

  • @pinkdoggo6224
    @pinkdoggo6224 Год назад +1

    I hope things get better for you luv u chloe

  • @xlilirae
    @xlilirae 7 месяцев назад

    I love how she talks to us like we’re her friends.

  • @marleefayez9118
    @marleefayez9118 Год назад +7

    Hi Chloe, love the content! Please film more makeup videos! I love the authentic lifestyle vibes

  • @user-ob5qr5bq5m
    @user-ob5qr5bq5m Год назад +1

    You were always my favorite in dance moms Chloe

  • @dasilvalara188
    @dasilvalara188 Год назад +2

    We def should have one "Cooking with Chloe" 💝

  • @mevdjemal
    @mevdjemal Год назад +2

    Love this chloe
    Ur amazing
    Ty 4 being u queen
    Such a great role model ❤

  • @davidjerrett8019
    @davidjerrett8019 Год назад +3

    Honestly we all thought it was just a show, but it really wasn't "just a show". So many people had panic attacks on that show and were so insecure. I believe that it was scary. And you girls got body shamed and got called names. I mean, there's more drama off camera than on camera. And just know that there is no perfect. And thats okay. Love you chloe 💙💙

  • @speechlessedits6432
    @speechlessedits6432 Год назад

    She is my comfort RUclipsr like to the point I go insane when I don’t watch these vids to Iv watched this three times this is my third 😀

  • @chasealexissss4781
    @chasealexissss4781 Год назад +2

    why is no one talking about how incredibly long her classes are????? WOW like unless i misunderstood when she said 4-10….she’s got so much willpower because omg.😭😭😭i can barely make it through my 3hr asl class.

  • @Nataliemcfarland
    @Nataliemcfarland Год назад

    omg chloe i love you so much i just lost my grandpa and i ❤ you and you were amazing on dance moms i love you and im 10 years old my grandpa died from heart attack and i am speechless right now you are my idoli can’t tell you how much i love you❤❤

  • @emmawills4112
    @emmawills4112 Год назад

    You’re really a cool person. I enjoy just hearing you talk about what you’re up to. :)

  • @Eviehoughton6696
    @Eviehoughton6696 Год назад

    You are my fav dancer from dance moms I love your turns and everything about you your even on my lock and home screen

  • @celesterodriguez9135
    @celesterodriguez9135 Год назад +1

    I love her so much❤❤

  • @yoodlepoodle69
    @yoodlepoodle69 Год назад

    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH CHLOE PLEASE LOVE YOURSELF YOURE AMAZING ❤

  • @fannychmelar3574
    @fannychmelar3574 Год назад

    I 100% get what your saying. ❤ letting yourself feel everything is the first step to processing. Well done!
    You seem lighter.
    Also have to say, from my childhood I also developed perfectionist tendencies, and telling myself it was ok to make mistakes and not be perfect was life changing. In fact it’s good for you and makes life way funner. Keep going your doing amazing.
    Love your videos.

  • @elsie26
    @elsie26 Год назад

    chloe, you are such a beautiful, kind young woman with such a pure heart, both as a child and now. you deserve all the best

  • @hollyblackwell6919
    @hollyblackwell6919 Год назад

    You have such a beautiful soul Chloe

  • @777.navaeh
    @777.navaeh Год назад +2

    chloe, u dont know how much i missed u since u have left dance moms. i know that u came back later in the seasons, but after u left in s4 (i think) i had stopped watching dance moms completely. im so suprised that u have a youtube channel!! super excited to explore moremof ur channel!! u are such a huge inspiration to me and my little sister. we love youu!!! 💓🥂

  • @ZoeyTaylor-wl9kk
    @ZoeyTaylor-wl9kk Год назад

    Chloe I’ve been your big fan since you were in dance moms! I LOVE YOU

  • @TennisballAnimations
    @TennisballAnimations Год назад

    I'm so happy ur back🪻

  • @elmostourguide
    @elmostourguide Год назад +2

    chloe i love your videos they calm me down alot, ❤️

  • @kaciandjessie
    @kaciandjessie Год назад

    GIRL SLAY YOUR DANCES I LOVED THE BLACK SWON DANCEE

  • @Alessandra-xk7ss
    @Alessandra-xk7ss 11 месяцев назад

    omg this girl is so pretty ong

  • @buriedinthestars
    @buriedinthestars Год назад +2

    i love your videos, they mean so much

  • @shirleybartolo59
    @shirleybartolo59 Год назад +2

    Practice makes perfect just have fun baking sweetie 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @makennatimpson1602
    @makennatimpson1602 Год назад +5

    No offense to anyone else on "dance moms" but you and your mom were always my favorite. And something I really just related to was being in someone else's shadow. but I love you sooooo much and you are sooooo pretty.

  • @amypearsall
    @amypearsall Год назад +1

    Maybe find a sugar cookie recipe you like; you'll be able to change them up by sprinkling sugar and cinnamon on them, or frost them, or add nuts or shredded coconut sometimes.

  • @nicolebenton9090
    @nicolebenton9090 Год назад +2

    So proud of you ❤

  • @theredcupcake
    @theredcupcake Год назад

    chloe, you deserve a million hugs!! ❤❤

  • @camrentoorealcam8437
    @camrentoorealcam8437 Год назад +1

    Love your content Chloe! Keep it up! 💖 Greetings from MX 🇲🇽

  • @justinfelt748
    @justinfelt748 Год назад +2

    Hi, Chloe! Welcome to the second season of Summer!😊😊😊😊😊💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖💖🎇👍. Those chocolate chip cookies looks delicious!😍⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐👍

  • @Adi-mf1fv
    @Adi-mf1fv Год назад

    I love that you trusted your supporters enough to talk about this. You were a child on that show. You have grown so much and are doing completely different things, so I wish you didn’t have to hear about it so much. I’m so glad you’re planning for therapy tho!! Try to be as open as you can so you can get the full help you need. We love you Chloe! So many people stand behind you 🫶🏼
    Btw for anyone reading this, you are loved and you MATTER 🤍

  • @wakeupitsnya
    @wakeupitsnya Год назад +1

    Youre so cool I look up to you ily chloe

  • @venuskane4796
    @venuskane4796 Год назад

    im so happy for you, that you have come to this place where you realize what you need and that you have the tools to better yourself. i wish you the best chloe

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa Год назад +1

    Hi Chloe good morning happy Friday morning and happy weekend and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

  • @LisaML1970
    @LisaML1970 Год назад +2

    Feels like I watched a infomercial

  • @bellamarquis8753
    @bellamarquis8753 Год назад

    I have a long drive to work and it’s helped me so much in terms of reflection 😂

  • @JRB12
    @JRB12 Год назад +20

    The fact that she can bake cookies from scratch like girl, I could never, like I have to use the boxes that you get from the store and it still turns out depressing

    • @gru8205
      @gru8205 Год назад +1

      it's very easy! give it a try 💗

    • @JRB12
      @JRB12 Год назад

      @gru8205 wheat do you mean it’s easy

    • @JC-qr6fc
      @JC-qr6fc Год назад +2

      If baking is something you like to do, just keep trying! Automatically saying you can’t do something sets the tone for the experience. I’ll tell you something, I’m a mom, I never baked, my husband did. I always told my kids I couldn’t. That their dad had to. One day, my daughter begged me to help her make a cake for her dads bday. I was so mortified. But I did it for her. It wasn’t perfect, BUT, it wasn’t that bad!!! You don’t have to be great at something to enjoy it. ✌🏽😊

    • @JRB12
      @JRB12 Год назад +1

      @@JC-qr6fc hi thank you so much for giving me a better mindset on baking I only said I couldn’t because I feel I can’t because when I was younger I loved to bake but I started getting compared to my older sister you was a great baker and I guess it just gave me the wrong mindset and I grew up negative about it but by the way I love my older sister I’m not upset at her it wasn’t her fault she was just great at it

  • @jenniferhalf1650
    @jenniferhalf1650 Год назад +13

    Chloe, I doubt there's anything you aren't good at. You are....perfect....or close to it. You are just a talented human being.

  • @BoneheadGirl_
    @BoneheadGirl_ 6 месяцев назад

    God loves you Cloe John 3:16 he’ll never leave you nor forsake you, love.

  • @laylagaston3364
    @laylagaston3364 Год назад

    She looks like her mom ❤

  • @catied2319
    @catied2319 Год назад

    I LOVE U SO MUCH YOUR LIKE THE BEST!you made me get though hard times ur so nice and caring! I hope you have a good future,day,week,year,!

  • @Cooww
    @Cooww Год назад

    Tysm for this and I’m so happy u posted❤

  • @LIL_P2006
    @LIL_P2006 Год назад

    Man do i miss you being on dance moms. You looks so pretty!

  • @annie1779
    @annie1779 Год назад +8

    I don't trust titles like this because it always ends up being a sponsored post with half the video just being an ad lol

  • @AlinaBorcea-sn9mq
    @AlinaBorcea-sn9mq Год назад

    this happened to me, my friend in summer camp. We were together the whole year and we were best friends and then at the end of the day at summer camp, and we had to leave each other forever.

  • @burkieeggertsen98
    @burkieeggertsen98 Год назад

    It Chloe I was on RUclips and I see this video and know I so happy and she is so pretty

  • @user-mw8do3ck9z
    @user-mw8do3ck9z Год назад

    I love you so much Chloe 💕💕

  • @IHeartCats.345
    @IHeartCats.345 Год назад

    I just found your audition video for dance moms from 12 years ago😭❤

  • @Its.daisy.xoxo.
    @Its.daisy.xoxo. Год назад

    yet your still kind 💗

  • @YourBdayGirlAsher
    @YourBdayGirlAsher Год назад +1

    Not gonna lie i wanna restart dancing because i stopped but like now i wanna restart because of 2 persons its you and nia yall were the one i think i loved more and im also named chloe 😜

  • @jaclynjackson6388
    @jaclynjackson6388 Год назад

    Lysm Chloe remember your so amazing💖🥹🫶🏻

  • @BARBIE....24
    @BARBIE....24 Год назад

    ,,,,i want to eat ur cookie....😂lol

  • @JamesRocks920
    @JamesRocks920 Год назад

    You’re amazing Chloe ❤

  • @alexasings
    @alexasings Год назад +1

    THANK YOU FOR CHOPPING OUT THE EATING NOISES OMG♡♡♡

  • @ravanarussell
    @ravanarussell 9 месяцев назад

    Hi Chloe i really like watching your videos on your RUclips channel

  • @Mals_Paradise
    @Mals_Paradise Год назад

    Hey chole u prop don't know be but ur my idol and I just want to say the tho your amazing and believe in your self bc your self is amazing I will never stop like you ❤❤

  • @rosaliriosa
    @rosaliriosa Год назад

    off topic but i love the aesthetic of your videos 🌼🥺💕