Women could always just go for guys who want to be in relationships with them, but in reality they spend more time trying to get guys with rosters to want to commit. They love trying to tame a bad boy and will inevitably get hurt
The guys who are relationship material don't have game in general. Unfortunately that's what you have to do in 2019 keep a woman guessing. Not answering her calls/texts for days. You just cant be consistent and reliable that is boring to women. Its not logical but what is logical about women.
I thought the whole point of a relationship was to balance each other out , maybe he knows how to cook and she doesn’t , but she’s willing to learn , maybe he doesn’t know how handle money but she does so she teaches . Maybe they both hate kids but end up having some and raise them together with morals they have built together . So to answer the question , it depends on the people . Some men do expect a lot , some women expect a lot but why put us against each other when we’re suppose to be supporting/ helping each other , what you lack , I can give , what I lack , he can give me . Learn to love not to fault each other for not having the things we expect when we can both bring them to the table or learn to
So people should existed only to cover your fuck up side and clean your mess? That mean people are nothing but utility. Don t want to be treated like that? Don t do it on others The comment above is the exemple type of the hypocrisy of women. Support each others mean you do whatever the fuck you want while he s paying for everything. And you can see that straight from the first date. If she expect her bum ass to get free meal , she want it that way for everything
What's so hard to understand about 50/50? Some women want to argue just to argue. Some of these women think that traditional female roles are degrading but want male traditional roles to be upheld. These women were so combative always wanting to argue everything
It’ll never be 50/50 dealing with some of these women out here. All I hear from them is I, I, me, me. Narcissism at its highest level. So if anyone can time stamp where any of these women said they’ll do something for their guy let me know. 😂😂😂 You’re right everything is an argument. How are you going to ask the guy what he wants and then have a problem with it. 🤦🏾♂️
Diablaa So if he's that old fashioned does he expect you to not work, stay at home with the kids,make sure that your husband has 3 meals prepared daily as well as never refusing him sex?
Diablaa The point that you're missing about the whole 50/50 thing is what it actually means. 50/50 just means equal effort. You can only have 100% of anything therefore both parties out in equal effort to make the relationship whole.
NONE of these women get it... and I don't entirely blame them because of how our generation has been raised us to be entitled. Feminism has us thinking we are being oppressed and men are the enemies and it's a whole lie. I used to fall for it but now that I see it for what it is, it just makes me sad for the state of relationships. Women, stop trying to be men if you want to be happy!!!! There are roles for a reason and you're unhappy because you're fighting against it and putting energy into being something that you're not naturally inclined to be.
I don’t understand why cooking,cleaning, sex and being presentable is so hard. I do that on a regular basis so to me that’s not that serious!!! I’m already adding that to the table. To attract a high quality man, u must be a high quality woman.
Sta Sea why I am what? Married!!! hahaha try again lonely! 😂😂😂😜😜😜. Take some notes from me you may can get you a ring boo 😘. You right I am a PICK ME.... and guess what I got picked by a wonderful man and the 👰🏾 💍. What does my profile pic have to do with anything? You talk about women being attacked , yet you’re judging me based off a profile pic, which is old lol. The hypocrisy and contradictory of your words. Go play in someone else’s playground sandbox hunny, cause you’re obviously immature. You right your bad... cause you tried and failed. #offmypost ✌🏾
Sta Sea yet u under my post bye girl... do something else with your time! Btw I didn’t read none of that BS 😭. This my last response to a troll with no picture! Enjoy your day Salty Suzy!
These different conversations make alot of sense as to why breakups/divorce is at a high rate. The true natural roles of man and women coming together has been lost and so many people are confused. And not to mention we don't respect eachother and always are on the defense instead of listening from a place of love. Man's nature= stronger physically, faster/straight forward thinker, driven, and one track minded(not always a bad thing),leader. Women's nature= loving, nurturing, detail oriented, spiritual teacher, introspective, supportive, emotional, stronger emotionally. There might be some I left out but these natural characteristics we have are supposed to come together to create perfect balance. We are opposite for a reason. Which is why women used to stay home and raise the kids while men went out and hunted/worked to bring home food for the family. This structure actually works perfectly in a loving healthy environment where both people accept their natural roles. 2 people working when there are no children is fine. But when children are involved it is my belief that they should be raised by the mother to instill love, proper growth, and learning for the child.
Ryan Phillips You're probably right and that's unfortunate for them. I don't mind making my own money but I would rather be around my child at home atleast till they're 4 or 5. They need the mother the most at that time when their brain is growing at a rapid rate. I understand not everyone is in the position to do this but that is why we should wait till we are stable and married to have children.
ThePrettySweety Thank you. And I agree. When you go against natural order it will be disorder. I'm not saying women shouldn't make money also but if you decide to have children it would benefit the child if the mother stayed at home in their first few years. And the father worked to maintain the income.
I can say with out a shadow of a doubt that non of these women entertain men that are whole, established, responsible, and have real goals. Because tbh, the men I surround myself with have little to gain by adding the avg woman to their lives. We cook, clean, take care of our own household and bills, build our careers, save for our future(retirement, kids), and make efforts to heal emotionally, eat healthy, and stay in shape. smh..
FacelessMan this is what the girl in the green was saying but people seem to think that she isn’t making since. You two individually need to be whole and complete within yourself.
I've been trying to find out why the girl with the braids even wants to be in a relationship… what's the point? If you 100% why would a man feel needed. She sounds like she needs a girlfriend
I was talking with some friends and I said a woman meets my standards if she has a credit score of 750 or more and makes at least $50k. Now all the females said I was too picky. Meanwhile the females were talking about the guy has to drive a benz, be 6 feet, make 6 figures, etc.
@Jhay Thagreat yo I don't want to have to take care of someone unless they are my child or are carrying my child/taking care of them. If we are dating and even moving in together, unless we are raising a child or carrying one she better be working
Shes right though. Broken people need to stop getting in relationships and expecting to become whole because then you're wholeness is attached to another person. The codependency is dangerous. It makes the difference between needing someone and wanting them. Needing someone clouds judgements more than they should in relationships.
Because everyone has narcissistic tendencies. Everyone always seems to only see what they’ve done and brought to a relationship. They never acknowledge the other person. It’s called keeping tabs and ANYONE who does that, male or female (partner, family, co-workers, boss or friends) RUN. It’s toxic and will never have a good outcome. If someone can count all the things they’ve done, but can’t acknowledge hardly a damn thing you’ve done. It’s about them and will never be about you.
The lightskinned guy in black is the 1% frfr lol...I've seen only 1 guy that afforded everything and bucked against me trying to spend a dollar. He wanted to take care of me, if he truly needed help then I could- he said that. Most guys will either not have the money, wanna penny pinch and/or try to make you feel guilty for having the money. What he said, I don't see in reality. He was raised right. He seems like a good man.
Another thing after listening to this whole video i conme to a conclusion that its to much expectation on the other rather than accepting the person. Because soon as the other not meeting one thing then it create a fault in the other but we have to understand we all have faults. It really about picking up where ther other lacks. team work, selfishness will be in both sexes but have to understand to sacrifice for the other. But thats why so many ppl dont make it
Exactly, people don’t understand that serious relationships/marriages are partnerships between two grown people working to build a life together. It’s a give and take thing, there’s definitely deal breakers but you just need to find that one you’re willing to work with in the long haul for whatever you want to work toward whether it’s building a family, wealth or w.e
“Do men expect more than they’re willing to give in a relationshit(p)” No because according to the video you shouldn’t expect anything from your women, but expect to give, give, give and take it on the chin with a smile 😂
The best advice is ... be the best of yourself ... and the right man that likes that will want to be apart of that ... if you are a woman that is whole , happy , cook , clean , intuned to what you want sexually ... embrace that first and the right man will notice and come to you .. and then you remain your self and include him in your world .. same for the man .. he will include you in his world with what he has to offer ... that's how you become equal ... and if 1 is offering more than the other ... you will know .. and you can bounce ✌
Kenny right... we as men dont want much and dont get ourselves much but sure our woman and family have what they need and more. I know for a fact. Thats how i am. I rarely shop for myself... matthew bruh 😂 you right gotta make sure they loyal
Societal norms dictate that men give more than women in relationships in western culture. This is a sociological fact with special credence to American women.
These women are so sad... Like the 4 things he asked for he is going to provide back plus more. And we don’t demand it we just say what we like. If you can’t provide it than don’t expect us to wife you up...
Look at the divorce rate laws against men we lose most or all of everything to the ex wife. Women's entitlement goes unchecked will ruine the relationship.
Needing someone to need you is nothing but an ego stroke. Most people are not even equipped for someone to need them. Even these guys don't want to be in control of everything. They dont want that pressure. No one does.
@@mr_knowitall Each partner should pay as they can. Unless both people have the same income, they cannot both pay the same amount of money. It's immoral and it's actually a law where I come from, when it comes to official stuff like paying for your kid. This is of course subjective, but most couples I know pay separately. One pays phones, the internet, gas, electricity and what not. The other pays for food. In restaurants they take turns. At the end of the day, I doubt they even know who paid how much.
I know a lot of women that don’t work. And if they do they work very little hours. Most of the women in my office work work 2-3 days out do the week and they have children. I only work two days a week and my fiancé works 7 days a week. It depends if you and your partner wants that. You can live off one income, people just don’t want to make the sacrifices to be Able to do so.
Guy with the red head. I completely understand his point. Men already know how to change a tire, he doesn’t need another person to change a tire (money) Sometimes women think that just because they can do the same as men it makes them valuable. Men want what they don’t already have. That “I don’t have to lack to learn” girl is something else. Definitely not a mathematician, actually not any person that would benefit children in the school system. Considering we don’t have to lack to learn
It’s apparent that the people that are at the table have different experiences and that they are not compatible. What he would provide she never seen before (Kenny table) it’s a debate vs educational.
Guy at 5:15 really is a rarity which is sad because most (not all) males really do the bare minimum, most their actions with their own benefits in mind Look I'm not about to watch this entire video but I'm just going to say this. From my experience, many men go into a relationship expecting a woman that's going to clean for them, cook for them, do their laundry, take care of the kids, sex them down daily, look good every single day, have a nice body which is usually a big behind and small waist, and go to work. Guy in the red hoodie is a prime example. But from what I usually hear in relationships.. Men can't/don't/and refuse to learn how to cook, don't do their part cleaning up, don't equally take care of their kids, I.e. changing diapers, getting up in the middle of the night, don't really fix themselves up I.e. wearing basketball shorts everyday, and the only thing they really have to offer is good D (if even that) and going to work. And most of the time won't even invest any of their money into their girl so that she can get her nails done or even taking her out on dates on the regular because then she's considered a gold digger. But that's just something I've noticed across the board. Most Men expect a lot and give the bare minimum but want their girl to be their lover, their maid, and their mother at the same time. And thats just what the average man looks for in a woman. The average woman usually looks for a man with a good job, a good height, attractive, loyal and someone who respects her. The women that go around looking for a guy with a benz or fancy watches isn't your average woman tbh.
no he's not. rememeber the guys that were worshipping you. they would do it. and like the girl who were listening you would do the same face of "what kind of shit is that?" but oh well it passes for a time with the light skin guy cause women likes him. what abotu the others? same story as usual. there is litterally groups of men named and identified that put women on pedestals (simp , cuck, fuckboi, etc) and yet women have the arroagance of saying men don't do enoguh for them. Fuck that entitled, ungrateful noise.
The girl in the jeans jacket is speaking on behalf of what percentage of females? Changing the rules of engagement and is forgetting that men are happy without that unnatural scenario.
He’s right...(can’t remember his name) but the 50/50 vs 100/100 girl in the green jacket.... there’s only 1 relationship so each person brings themselves to a relationship and that makes it one relationship/marriage. Also, I believe men eventually end up taking on the cooking. I believe that. Maybe not in the beginning but eventually they take on a lot of it while we handle other things. (Usually the kids)...
She’s contradicting herself, because at first she said ain’t nobody on earth is perfect, than she said in a relationship both individuals have to bring 100%, so my question is this what’s her definition of 100%? 🤔
See how foreign the concept of staying home with the kids, and NOT working, seems to be to these young women?... They don’t understand their Primary role and the Gift that that is!👀👀Wait, what??🤯. WW see it.
The female in the green jacket is over the top she does not need to be in a relationship with anyone. She projects all the negative stereotypes of black women. Also, I don't beleive in paying all the bills so a woman can blow her money on whatever she wants. However, I do believe in both of us working towards goals together.
See he gave her four things that are easy to understand and she had to flip the shit to are you going through something. Then before that it was we do all that and men still cheat
Men don't step out because of another. They step out because they want to do. It is a child that blames others for their actions. Wither your relationship works or it does not. Handle that accordingly. Have honor, integrity & discipline. A male talks more about what he wants vs what he gives. A man is about service to his partner & family otherwise he is simply male.
The girl in the blue jean jacket smh ... the concept is “Do men expect more than they’re willing to give ..” He named HIS expectations , he’s willing to give whatever is required . SHE EXPECTED him to name both his and her requirements and he didn’t EXPECT that from her . Smh the irony .
I agree with her. Men do expect more than they give often. They can very quickly forget or not acknowledge what a woman has done with time spent with them. They quickly forget when noone else would talk with them you, yourself did. Or they use you up until something "better" comes along especially if they are lust driven.
Now this chick talking about its a hundred a hundred but what she wants is to be loved the way another woman loves. She cannot comprehend the differences between men and women so she expects things to be given in the exact manner she puts them out... she will always feel short changed and become a pure feminist in my opinion
I have yet to see someone realistic people with enough self-reflection to actually admit something negative about themselves. Of course people are gonna say no to this. This is actually a great question because it hits the nail on the head and triggers some real emotion for many people. It's kinda how it is - women are willing to go in, do everything for love and all... and then there's their man, kinda standing there like meh and saying "Don't ask too much of me." As people come and leave our lives, this gets more and more ingrained in our heads. Women get disappointed and leave the relationship to search for another man who cares enough. Men get more and more used to women trying too hard, which creates this expectation of women putting more effort in the relationship. It makes sense. It wasn't a thing when I was a teen but boy, is it a thing now in guys who are near/little over 30. I don't believe it's intentional, it's a conditioned habit. Majority of us grow up in these conditions - mom's going crazy at home after work, while dad's drinking somewhere with friends because oh god, what if that shrew at home actually expected me to do something. It's especially noticable in families, when shit hits the fan. And with time I'm starting to realize life would be easier if I could just care less and not invest too much in relationships. But it feels impossible for me. Just to point out, since I mentioned conditioning, I don't believe this is how all people are or that it's permanent. Of course it comes down to our experiences and surroundings. Sometimes two people, who love and expect the same amount of effort, get together and that's when it actually works out perfectly. If you have disagreements, communicate and try to be a better person for your partner. That's all it's about.
I feel like a young black woman I bring a lot to the table. I've been single for 22 years of my life and I only know how to take care of myself. While guys were looking for hoes to date, I learning how to build online business when I was 20 years old. I build my own fan base and I have my youtube channel of my work where if I made a lot of videos in the future then I could be getting another paycheck from RUclips. Amazon wants to partner with me about selling their merchandise. I have multiple income so I don't depend on one paycheck like the rest of the girls in town. Now, I able to travel whenever I like. All of the things I am saying I done it with a man's help!
@@msj8216 I mean I'm happy for you congratulations keep up the good work, but that's not stating what you bring to the table that's just speaking on your accomplishments. You even said I'm been able to take care of yourself which is fine but that's not contributing. Also with all your accomplishments you never mention you are willing to share your accomplishments with your man accomplishments. You spoke on I got all this stuff with out a man, which is cool, but not stating what you are willing to do in a relationship and they are different for different people and they may even change at some point but men and women need to have that understanding in the beginning and during relationships
@@tc4203 I am happy being single because relationship stress me out that I have never feel happy in relationship. The real question, what a man could bring to the table where I want to share my accomplish with him? I've done these things for myself and no guy ever help or contribute in my ideas. Most guys would think I was crazy if I told them my ideas. My own dad thought I sound crazy if I told him I made $200 from one item.
The first female is so wrong it's not funny! The man isn't broken when they get in a relationship. Women usually are and women want a man to be perfect right of the bat!! When they gave baggage coming in. Nobody is perfect. It's 50/50
Awww hell no! If I’m letting you pay for everything, one day your insensitive ass is gonna throw it in my face. “I pay all the bills, so what I say go.” “It’s my money” don’t lie
Edit your comment and fix your spelling error. In this context it's spelled guest. You're a moron. You originally used guess instead of guest. Fix your idiotic behavior before you think about being on this show.
first of all , that's no such thing of 50\50 . Can you be half / half with a child . this why I date only Latino women . This chick with the braids don't know what she talking about . Black men date others. drop these chicks quick ....
SMUV's advice and scenarios are just awful! He definitely sounds like hes been hurt and hes never letting it go. I hope it's all jokes but even then, its not even funny sooo lol
Women could always just go for guys who want to be in relationships with them, but in reality they spend more time trying to get guys with rosters to want to commit. They love trying to tame a bad boy and will inevitably get hurt
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The guys who are relationship material don't have game in general. Unfortunately that's what you have to do in 2019 keep a woman guessing. Not answering her calls/texts for days. You just cant be consistent and reliable that is boring to women. Its not logical but what is logical about women.
Pat johnson your comment is dead on ....🤔
@@targetegrat Again, huge generalization but it's no surprise coming from a mysogynist like you.
@@May04bwu you're a woman so you don't understand.. Mostly all men have had these experiences
These women clearly don't need men. Just stay single.
These are the same women that will keep name-calling men while their single lol.
@Sta Sea most of the men on here married
Its sad these women are really broken.
I thought the whole point of a relationship was to balance each other out , maybe he knows how to cook and she doesn’t , but she’s willing to learn , maybe he doesn’t know how handle money but she does so she teaches . Maybe they both hate kids but end up having some and raise them together with morals they have built together . So to answer the question , it depends on the people . Some men do expect a lot , some women expect a lot but why put us against each other when we’re suppose to be supporting/ helping each other , what you lack , I can give , what I lack , he can give me . Learn to love not to fault each other for not having the things we expect when we can both bring them to the table or learn to
So people should existed only to cover your fuck up side and clean your mess? That mean people are nothing but utility. Don t want to be treated like that? Don t do it on others
The comment above is the exemple type of the hypocrisy of women. Support each others mean you do whatever the fuck you want while he s paying for everything. And you can see that straight from the first date. If she expect her bum ass to get free meal , she want it that way for everything
I liked this comment four years ago, but I came back and this is still such a beautiful perspective and the most correct way.
What's so hard to understand about 50/50? Some women want to argue just to argue. Some of these women think that traditional female roles are degrading but want male traditional roles to be upheld. These women were so combative always wanting to argue everything
It’ll never be 50/50 dealing with some of these women out here. All I hear from them is I, I, me, me. Narcissism at its highest level.
So if anyone can time stamp where any of these women said they’ll do something for their guy let me know. 😂😂😂
You’re right everything is an argument. How are you going to ask the guy what he wants and then have a problem with it. 🤦🏾♂️
This facts
Diablaa So if he's that old fashioned does he expect you to not work, stay at home with the kids,make sure that your husband has 3 meals prepared daily as well as never refusing him sex?
Diablaa The point that you're missing about the whole 50/50 thing is what it actually means. 50/50 just means equal effort. You can only have 100% of anything therefore both parties out in equal effort to make the relationship whole.
NONE of these women get it... and I don't entirely blame them because of how our generation has been raised us to be entitled. Feminism has us thinking we are being oppressed and men are the enemies and it's a whole lie. I used to fall for it but now that I see it for what it is, it just makes me sad for the state of relationships. Women, stop trying to be men if you want to be happy!!!! There are roles for a reason and you're unhappy because you're fighting against it and putting energy into being something that you're not naturally inclined to be.
I don’t understand why cooking,cleaning, sex and being presentable is so hard. I do that on a regular basis so to me that’s not that serious!!! I’m already adding that to the table. To attract a high quality man, u must be a high quality woman.
You're part of the 1%.Keep it up Mama.
Trey Trey lol why thank you!
You're welcome!!
Sta Sea why I am what? Married!!! hahaha try again lonely! 😂😂😂😜😜😜. Take some notes from me you may can get you a ring boo 😘. You right I am a PICK ME.... and guess what I got picked by a wonderful man and the 👰🏾 💍. What does my profile pic have to do with anything? You talk about women being attacked , yet you’re judging me based off a profile pic, which is old lol. The hypocrisy and contradictory of your words. Go play in someone else’s playground sandbox hunny, cause you’re obviously immature. You right your bad... cause you tried and failed. #offmypost ✌🏾
Sta Sea yet u under my post bye girl... do something else with your time! Btw I didn’t read none of that BS 😭. This my last response to a troll with no picture! Enjoy your day Salty Suzy!
Off top I already know all these women hard to deal with. Real women don’t need to be that aggressive. He’ll already know what it is.
Yet these men chose to be with these women.
@@May04bwu no we don't. If we do we leave quickly. We don't stay with headache's.
These different conversations make alot of sense as to why breakups/divorce is at a high rate. The true natural roles of man and women coming together has been lost and so many people are confused. And not to mention we don't respect eachother and always are on the defense instead of listening from a place of love.
Man's nature= stronger physically, faster/straight forward thinker, driven, and one track minded(not always a bad thing),leader.
Women's nature= loving, nurturing, detail oriented, spiritual teacher, introspective, supportive, emotional, stronger emotionally.
There might be some I left out but these natural characteristics we have are supposed to come together to create perfect balance. We are opposite for a reason. Which is why women used to stay home and raise the kids while men went out and hunted/worked to bring home food for the family. This structure actually works perfectly in a loving healthy environment where both people accept their natural roles. 2 people working when there are no children is fine. But when children are involved it is my belief that they should be raised by the mother to instill love, proper growth, and learning for the child.
JadeSmith I agree with you but the average woman won't.
Ryan Phillips You're probably right and that's unfortunate for them. I don't mind making my own money but I would rather be around my child at home atleast till they're 4 or 5. They need the mother the most at that time when their brain is growing at a rapid rate. I understand not everyone is in the position to do this but that is why we should wait till we are stable and married to have children.
Beautifully said. Traditional roles will make a comeback I have a feeling because the way things are right now aren’t working
ThePrettySweety Thank you. And I agree. When you go against natural order it will be disorder. I'm not saying women shouldn't make money also but if you decide to have children it would benefit the child if the mother stayed at home in their first few years. And the father worked to maintain the income.
introspective and women don't work
I can say with out a shadow of a doubt that non of these women entertain men that are whole, established, responsible, and have real goals. Because tbh, the men I surround myself with have little to gain by adding the avg woman to their lives. We cook, clean, take care of our own household and bills, build our careers, save for our future(retirement, kids), and make efforts to heal emotionally, eat healthy, and stay in shape. smh..
FacelessMan this is what the girl in the green was saying but people seem to think that she isn’t making since. You two individually need to be whole and complete within yourself.
@@taliaa7856 She was contradicting herself.
Legend has it green jacket is still single
Actually women want more than they are willing to give
I've been trying to find out why the girl with the braids even wants to be in a relationship… what's the point? If you 100% why would a man feel needed. She sounds like she needs a girlfriend
#SayItAgain
I was talking with some friends and I said a woman meets my standards if she has a credit score of 750 or more and makes at least $50k. Now all the females said I was too picky. Meanwhile the females were talking about the guy has to drive a benz, be 6 feet, make 6 figures, etc.
Yes I do. Since women like to claim they are equal to men, they should sure this in their actions.
@Jhay Thagreat So why should a man be with one woman?
@Sta Sea And those who aren't pick mes are prostitutes?
@Jhay Thagreat yo I don't want to have to take care of someone unless they are my child or are carrying my child/taking care of them. If we are dating and even moving in together, unless we are raising a child or carrying one she better be working
Jhay Thagreat you're proving his point. More is expected of men
Green jacket should marry herself. Lol
I was thinking the same thing
for realzzz lol..she whole, she dont need no man
I N D E P E N D E N T.
Shes right though. Broken people need to stop getting in relationships and expecting to become whole because then you're wholeness is attached to another person. The codependency is dangerous. It makes the difference between needing someone and wanting them. Needing someone clouds judgements more than they should in relationships.
@@sarahj4598 broken is not the same as someone’s weaknesses being their mates strength. She was hearing what she wanted to. We all have weaknesses
You do have to lack to learn. You can’t learn what you already know
Kushfromthe8 right 😂
Exactly lmaoooooo
facts! I was like wth is she talking about?! shorty wants a finished product aka a perfect man! that shit doesn't exist! man or woman!
say that again for the people in the back
The way the women overtalk the men you would think they were the men they got ALL the awnsers sway 😂😂😂
Dude. The relationship isn't about her only stop catering to women like they're gods.
A man cant have an opinion around none of these females🤦♂️the guys are chill🤷♂️why the gals so damn agressive🤷♂️
Cause they don t want a discussion. They only want to circlejerk how only the sun is above them
@@unlimited971 EXACTLY
Because they have had their egos bruised
Because everyone has narcissistic tendencies. Everyone always seems to only see what they’ve done and brought to a relationship. They never acknowledge the other person. It’s called keeping tabs and ANYONE who does that, male or female (partner, family, co-workers, boss or friends) RUN. It’s toxic and will never have a good outcome.
If someone can count all the things they’ve done, but can’t acknowledge hardly a damn thing you’ve done. It’s about them and will never be about you.
The lightskinned guy in black is the 1% frfr lol...I've seen only 1 guy that afforded everything and bucked against me trying to spend a dollar. He wanted to take care of me, if he truly needed help then I could- he said that. Most guys will either not have the money, wanna penny pinch and/or try to make you feel guilty for having the money.
What he said, I don't see in reality. He was raised right. He seems like a good man.
Another thing after listening to this whole video i conme to a conclusion that its to much expectation on the other rather than accepting the person. Because soon as the other not meeting one thing then it create a fault in the other but we have to understand we all have faults. It really about picking up where ther other lacks. team work, selfishness will be in both sexes but have to understand to sacrifice for the other. But thats why so many ppl dont make it
Exactly, people don’t understand that serious relationships/marriages are partnerships between two grown people working to build a life together. It’s a give and take thing, there’s definitely deal breakers but you just need to find that one you’re willing to work with in the long haul for whatever you want to work toward whether it’s building a family, wealth or w.e
Relationships are high risk and low reward for men. Yes, I expect more than I’ll ever give
“Do men expect more than they’re willing to give in a relationshit(p)”
No because according to the video you shouldn’t expect anything from your women, but expect to give, give, give and take it on the chin with a smile 😂
SiddVuiicos Shouldn’t expect nothing but for her to expect something. 😂
K Spoonie you damn right 💯
Nobody’s 100 out here. If that was the case you wouldn’t need the opposite sex to create a child. God made us that way so we can come together
This is funny. Girl with the braids isn't listening at all. Its like she's trying to drown dude out
Men And Women Love Differently. It's Never 50 50.
The best advice is ... be the best of yourself ... and the right man that likes that will want to be apart of that ... if you are a woman that is whole , happy , cook , clean , intuned to what you want sexually ... embrace that first and the right man will notice and come to you .. and then you remain your self and include him in your world .. same for the man .. he will include you in his world with what he has to offer ... that's how you become equal ... and if 1 is offering more than the other ... you will know .. and you can bounce ✌
Kenny right... we as men dont want much and dont get ourselves much but sure our woman and family have what they need and more. I know for a fact. Thats how i am. I rarely shop for myself... matthew bruh 😂 you right gotta make sure they loyal
Sounds like these women use to lil boys cus they missing the point these “men “ making 🤦♂️
Societal norms dictate that men give more than women in relationships in western culture. This is a sociological fact with special credence to American women.
Combativeness is passive aggressive form of disrespect. Girl with braids is on level 10 with the disrespect lmao
She’s just expressing herself
These women are so sad...
Like the 4 things he asked for he is going to provide back plus more. And we don’t demand it we just say what we like. If you can’t provide it than don’t expect us to wife you up...
You don't have to lack to learn? But you do have to lack to learn
Green jacket is getting confused by maths. Give 100% of yourself which is going to be 50% of the relationship as it is an equal partnership
I’m weakkkk “are you going through something at home. Because this sound really personal” 😂😂😂
Look at the divorce rate laws against men we lose most or all of everything to the ex wife. Women's entitlement goes unchecked will ruine the relationship.
This girl in green is annoying lol the dude in pink is making sense and shes not
Right lol
Needing someone to need you is nothing but an ego stroke. Most people are not even equipped for someone to need them. Even these guys don't want to be in control of everything. They dont want that pressure. No one does.
Idk any women that don't work. 2 incomes are better than 1.
But does she pay the bills 50/50? If not, then she's working for herself, not the relationship.
@@mr_knowitall Each partner should pay as they can. Unless both people have the same income, they cannot both pay the same amount of money. It's immoral and it's actually a law where I come from, when it comes to official stuff like paying for your kid. This is of course subjective, but most couples I know pay separately. One pays phones, the internet, gas, electricity and what not. The other pays for food. In restaurants they take turns. At the end of the day, I doubt they even know who paid how much.
@@May04bwu That's the way it should be.
I know a lot of women that don’t work. And if they do they work very little hours. Most of the women in my office work work 2-3 days out do the week and they have children. I only work two days a week and my fiancé works 7 days a week. It depends if you and your partner wants that. You can live off one income, people just don’t want to make the sacrifices to be Able to do so.
Not when one is a money sink for useless shit
Green jacket wasn’t getting what he was saying 🤦🏾♀️
26:40 Says it all. Her brain almost broke trying to understand his point.
Guy with the red head. I completely understand his point. Men already know how to change a tire, he doesn’t need another person to change a tire (money) Sometimes women think that just because they can do the same as men it makes them valuable. Men want what they don’t already have.
That “I don’t have to lack to learn” girl is something else. Definitely not a mathematician, actually not any person that would benefit children in the school system. Considering we don’t have to lack to learn
Like bruh what's good with some of these females...you can't learn without lacking the knowledge of what you didn't know!🤦🏾♂️DUH!!
Red sweatshirt translation:
A chef in the kitchen
A lady in the street
A freak in the bed
Girl in the green jacket ain’t listening 😂😂 listening to respond lol
It’s apparent that the people that are at the table have different experiences and that they are not compatible. What he would provide she never seen before (Kenny table) it’s a debate vs educational.
it's 100/100 until we go out to dinner and then her % drops to ZERO lol.. funny how that works
Guy at 5:15 really is a rarity which is sad because most (not all) males really do the bare minimum, most their actions with their own benefits in mind
Look I'm not about to watch this entire video but I'm just going to say this. From my experience, many men go into a relationship expecting a woman that's going to clean for them, cook for them, do their laundry, take care of the kids, sex them down daily, look good every single day, have a nice body which is usually a big behind and small waist, and go to work. Guy in the red hoodie is a prime example. But from what I usually hear in relationships.. Men can't/don't/and refuse to learn how to cook, don't do their part cleaning up, don't equally take care of their kids, I.e. changing diapers, getting up in the middle of the night, don't really fix themselves up I.e. wearing basketball shorts everyday, and the only thing they really have to offer is good D (if even that) and going to work. And most of the time won't even invest any of their money into their girl so that she can get her nails done or even taking her out on dates on the regular because then she's considered a gold digger. But that's just something I've noticed across the board. Most Men expect a lot and give the bare minimum but want their girl to be their lover, their maid, and their mother at the same time.
And thats just what the average man looks for in a woman. The average woman usually looks for a man with a good job, a good height, attractive, loyal and someone who respects her. The women that go around looking for a guy with a benz or fancy watches isn't your average woman tbh.
Men give more if we feel you deserve more. If you feel entitled to more yes bare minimum all day
no he's not. rememeber the guys that were worshipping you. they would do it. and like the girl who were listening you would do the same face of "what kind of shit is that?" but oh well it passes for a time with the light skin guy cause women likes him. what abotu the others? same story as usual. there is litterally groups of men named and identified that put women on pedestals (simp , cuck, fuckboi, etc) and yet women have the arroagance of saying men don't do enoguh for them. Fuck that entitled, ungrateful noise.
You just want attention
Taco's Do Count it Requires Prep Work.
Do a video on things men/women need to feel secure in a healthy relationship
The girl in the jeans jacket is speaking on behalf of what percentage of females?
Changing the rules of engagement and is forgetting that men are happy without that unnatural scenario.
He’s right...(can’t remember his name) but the 50/50 vs 100/100 girl in the green jacket.... there’s only 1 relationship so each person brings themselves to a relationship and that makes it one relationship/marriage. Also, I believe men eventually end up taking on the cooking. I believe that. Maybe not in the beginning but eventually they take on a lot of it while we handle other things. (Usually the kids)...
She’s contradicting herself, because at first she said ain’t nobody on earth is perfect, than she said in a relationship both individuals have to bring 100%, so my question is this what’s her definition of 100%? 🤔
Mot a single woman here I would consider datable.
Ryan Phillips Agreed
100% of him and 0% from her. Only from time to time so she cant feel bad from leeching of him
All these chicks are in denial and living in a fake social media world lol
I need a Kenny in my life…hahahaha!!! This gahdamn $26K MBA program ain’t wassup…LMAO…😆😂🤣!!!
See how foreign the concept of staying home with the kids, and NOT working, seems to be to these young women?... They don’t understand their Primary role and the Gift that that is!👀👀Wait, what??🤯. WW see it.
Yes you have to lack to learn
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These people are clueless, but hilarious. 😂😂
All these women sound single AF
Cardi said she cheated too 😑
The female in the green jacket is over the top she does not need to be in a relationship with anyone. She projects all the negative stereotypes of black women. Also, I don't beleive in paying all the bills so a woman can blow her money on whatever she wants. However, I do believe in both of us working towards goals together.
See he gave her four things that are easy to understand and she had to flip the shit to are you going through something. Then before that it was we do all that and men still cheat
Women really don’t listen 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Green and Jean jacket is annoying af!!!
Men don't step out because of another. They step out because they want to do. It is a child that blames others for their actions. Wither your relationship works or it does not. Handle that accordingly. Have honor, integrity & discipline. A male talks more about what he wants vs what he gives. A man is about service to his partner & family otherwise he is simply male.
The girl in the blue jean jacket smh ... the concept is “Do men expect more than they’re willing to give ..” He named HIS expectations , he’s willing to give whatever is required . SHE EXPECTED him to name both his and her requirements and he didn’t EXPECT that from her . Smh the irony .
This jeans jacket lady does not listen, it is clear lol
That .1percent a lot bigger than she think
Green jacket was only listened to respond
Any money bet that chick with the jean jacket ends up alone
Why did shirt hair take what he said out of context then present it as facts.
I agree with her. Men do expect more than they give often. They can very quickly forget or not acknowledge what a woman has done with time spent with them. They quickly forget when noone else would talk with them you, yourself did. Or they use you up until something "better" comes along especially if they are lust driven.
Some do some don’t....
Now this chick talking about its a hundred a hundred but what she wants is to be loved the way another woman loves. She cannot comprehend the differences between men and women so she expects things to be given in the exact manner she puts them out... she will always feel short changed and become a pure feminist in my opinion
I have yet to see someone realistic people with enough self-reflection to actually admit something negative about themselves. Of course people are gonna say no to this. This is actually a great question because it hits the nail on the head and triggers some real emotion for many people. It's kinda how it is - women are willing to go in, do everything for love and all... and then there's their man, kinda standing there like meh and saying "Don't ask too much of me." As people come and leave our lives, this gets more and more ingrained in our heads. Women get disappointed and leave the relationship to search for another man who cares enough. Men get more and more used to women trying too hard, which creates this expectation of women putting more effort in the relationship. It makes sense. It wasn't a thing when I was a teen but boy, is it a thing now in guys who are near/little over 30. I don't believe it's intentional, it's a conditioned habit. Majority of us grow up in these conditions - mom's going crazy at home after work, while dad's drinking somewhere with friends because oh god, what if that shrew at home actually expected me to do something. It's especially noticable in families, when shit hits the fan. And with time I'm starting to realize life would be easier if I could just care less and not invest too much in relationships. But it feels impossible for me.
Just to point out, since I mentioned conditioning, I don't believe this is how all people are or that it's permanent. Of course it comes down to our experiences and surroundings. Sometimes two people, who love and expect the same amount of effort, get together and that's when it actually works out perfectly. If you have disagreements, communicate and try to be a better person for your partner. That's all it's about.
So here's a better question what do wome bring to the table what do women bring in a relationship besides sex and Bill's ?
I feel like a young black woman I bring a lot to the table. I've been single for 22 years of my life and I only know how to take care of myself. While guys were looking for hoes to date, I learning how to build online business when I was 20 years old. I build my own fan base and I have my youtube channel of my work where if I made a lot of videos in the future then I could be getting another paycheck from RUclips. Amazon wants to partner with me about selling their merchandise. I have multiple income so I don't depend on one paycheck like the rest of the girls in town. Now, I able to travel whenever I like. All of the things I am saying I done it with a man's help!
@@msj8216 I mean I'm happy for you congratulations keep up the good work, but that's not stating what you bring to the table that's just speaking on your accomplishments. You even said I'm been able to take care of yourself which is fine but that's not contributing. Also with all your accomplishments you never mention you are willing to share your accomplishments with your man accomplishments. You spoke on I got all this stuff with out a man, which is cool, but not stating what you are willing to do in a relationship and they are different for different people and they may even change at some point but men and women need to have that understanding in the beginning and during relationships
@@msj8216 and my next question and please don't take this as a insult are you really happy ?
@@tc4203 I am happy being single because relationship stress me out that I have never feel happy in relationship. The real question, what a man could bring to the table where I want to share my accomplish with him? I've done these things for myself and no guy ever help or contribute in my ideas. Most guys would think I was crazy if I told them my ideas. My own dad thought I sound crazy if I told him I made $200 from one item.
@@msj8216 You seem to think men are after your money. Men don't think like women.
They make seem it like Every man can playfield not ever man can play field
Short hair girl is my type 😛😛😛
Oh boy is a lie.....the one sitting with the red head girl.....come on bruh......😆
yeah he was sellin big dreams! lol
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Why does women not to support their guy and buy a meal for him every now and then
The first female is so wrong it's not funny! The man isn't broken when they get in a relationship. Women usually are and women want a man to be perfect right of the bat!! When they gave baggage coming in. Nobody is perfect. It's 50/50
Plenty of men get into relationships broken.
@@Brandiisbeloved little boys go in relationship broken not grown men.
A part of being a wife is cooking and cleaning - why women don’t get that?
Repeat the question 😂😂😂
Awww hell no! If I’m letting you pay for everything, one day your insensitive ass is gonna throw it in my face. “I pay all the bills, so what I say go.” “It’s my money” don’t lie
How old are these women I wonder
Dam I wish I could be a guess in one of your sessions.
Edit your comment and fix your spelling error. In this context it's spelled guest.
You're a moron. You originally used guess instead of guest. Fix your idiotic behavior before you think about being on this show.
@@lyonmadit5015 🤣🤣
Green jacket just gone and be writing some fairytale. If going into a relationship is that miserable from the get go I'll pass.
21:18👏🏽👏🏽
The girl in the jean jacket next to the guy in the red don't know how to be feminine
first of all , that's no such thing of 50\50 . Can you be half / half with a child . this why I date only Latino women . This chick with the braids don't know what she talking about . Black men date others. drop these chicks quick ....
She watch shit on Twitter all day lol
SMUV's advice and scenarios are just awful! He definitely sounds like hes been hurt and hes never letting it go. I hope it's all jokes but even then, its not even funny sooo lol
Right
They all sound hurt. The way they view the opposite sex is exhausting.
Light skin dude crazy he ain real
Is this a parody?
These men are weak... they answering all the questions but the women are not... the just arguing...