The dad style is your typical American dad where they treat their daughter like a Princess. But the daughter has an attitude problem and her Mom isn’t helping much as she thought.
kid are kid.. i deal with alot of spoil fuckind adult and they don't see to understand that they can try to be rude but it won't end up well for them...
I'm no doctor but some of the behavior the daughter is displaying (uncomfortable around adults, the behavior, and not doing what is told) I have seen with the kids on the spectrum. I think the parents should do more evaluations on the daughter just to make sure. Of course, she is very young and still has a lot to develop but around the 3rd grade is the age parents get the testing done. I hope the parents are keeping note of the things she does.
I was about to say this. She also had a hard time maintaining eye contact and wasn't able to do what the doctor asked. I am also autistic and she acts a lot like I did when I was that age.
I have adhd and acted the exact same way as the girl as a child. It may seem like she's acting spoiled, but it could possibly be that she feels frustrated at others breaking her focus. As a kid (and still now) I used to get extremely frustrated when my mom would hover over me when I was working on something because I was either having a difficult time already focusing on what I was doing & she was distracting me; or I was hyper focused on something and my brain literally could not focus on anything else. Whilst I feel like it's wrong to judge other peoples parenting styles, I do feel the girl could possibly benefit from getting tested for adhd. That being said, I don't think she's "spoiled".
I think both the parents acted the wrong way when playing the game. The mom showed the child that she did not trust her and the dad helpt her way to mutch. You need to show your kids that you think they can do stuff on ther own.
you hoping too much... parent forget that kid had mind of their own and had to adjust accordingly... if they think they can forcce the kid... they are so wrong.... when they go older they won't trust their parent....
The comments about the little girl were WAY too nice 😂😂 She knew she wasn't going to get scolded in front of the cameras etc. So she was going to test the waters and see what she can get away with. I would never have even looked at my parents cross-eyed.
It seems like she's not getting the structure she needs. Kids need direction and guidance but not too much.. You can have a "free", respectful child and still have structure.
ChristinaQueenHeart what kind of structure, if you don’t mind me asking? cause there’s always a thin line between discipline and letting the kid run loose that i’ll never understood. my husband and i are thinking of having a kid but i’m too afraid of raising a kid >
Depends on the parent's morals honestly. Lots of people want a respectful child but over or under discipline. So for instance, when a child questions why you want them to do something, just explain to them instead of going off immediately and saying "because I said so!". A kid doesn't know a bunch and is generally curious and interested to know more. If a child is giving attitude and being an ass, it's apparent they're acting out, that's the time to be stern and give guidance that's non-negotiable. What you do next is up to you. Make the punishment/discipline match the behavior. The little girl is WILD. It's fine for a kid to run and play but they need to listen and respect when their parent or elder is talking. You can tell that she hasn't had much guidance or direction. She's loved but she does what she wants, when she wants to. Just FYI, I'm a parent and a PhD level psychologist.
She has sensory issues maybe a mild form of ASD. I was disappointed the doctor missed that. She needs therapy and not discipline. She has difficulties with transitioning, she was very upset and unable to follow simple commands.The screaming along with poor eye contact also is a good indicator that she might me under the spectrum. Nothing do with her being naughty.
@@lenasims3085 keyword MIGHT. Kids under the spectrum still need discipline. Having a disorder doesn't excuse a kid from being brought up under some type structure. It's harmful, detrimental even because then when they are placed in the world, they can't function even further and adjustment is bad.
it was kind of messed up seeing her not want to talk about her family...I hope that they're able to find a method that works for her bc she seems to be too hard on her and he seems to not want her to do things by herself.
@@praem9597 um...duh. 🥴🥴🥴 the point is that when you ask kids to speak about their families (smth they typically really like to talk about) and they start whining about how they dont want to talk about the family then there's usually an issue. 🤦🏾♀️
The mom has typical asain method which im used to it doesnt work as well as they think they are like we will be strict so the child is disciplined while the opposit happens and the child acts out
Yeah sometimes i feel they need to chill out a little. Cause my mom still treat me like I'm 12 when I'm already 25 for god sake. But then again if they do it too lenient I'm might growing up as brat. It's need balance
If my husband and I were to be evaluated on the same test, our results will probably be the same as this couple. I'm home all day so I am mainly in charge of raising the kids and he is definitely more lenient with them. I also think it's down to cultural differences - we were just raised differently in some aspects and when it comes down to raising our children, there's certainly some compromising that needs to happen. But at the end of it, parents need to be on the same page and present a united front so the kids don't end up being confused.
most imprant isnot about your authority... my dad isa police so he like to order... i can just left him... and he had to deal everything himself now since he never take care of me.... nor paid money...
this is just my 1 cent and as a former child. (In Asia, if this info is relevant.) I do think that you should let the kids do whatever they want so that they can explore and can use their imagination. BUT, when it comes discipline, you don't have to punish a child "physically" or get angry. BE STERN AND TRY TO MAKE HER REALIZE THAT WHAT SHE'S DOING IS WRONG AND THE CONSEQUENCE OF HER ACTIONS. My parents are the typical asian parents. I've seen my mom how she handles my 5 years old cousin. The fact that my cousin is scared of her really tells that she doesn't know how to handle a child. If you explain to a child their bad behavior and make them realize that it's bad then, they will like you, respect you and mostly, follow your teachings. Thankfully, my parents didn't raise me when i was a child, it was my grandparents. If they did raise me, i would pretty much despise them.
@@pancakeninja445 I would never do the things that my parents did to me to my kids. Period. I find it funny that people think that "physically hitting them" is effective. Like, good luck on your future relationship with your kids when they grow up. So sad, they have to tolerate with that toxic behavior.
Parents should always agree BEFORE a baby is born on what parental styles they will do. Parents should be on the same linr even if they both have to compromise
I feel like they comple needs to reach 50/50 % to see good results. Like for example the dad step up more (be a bit more steadfast/firm) to take some of the child care off of mom so she can relax. And mom to be a bit more trusting of her daughter and dad; but mostly this stems off with good communication between the parents (being on the same page on parenting; discipline; rewarding the child, how to build her confidence) etc. They both love their daughter alot I feel like with good direction/advice, she will grow well & happy.
I feel like she's very spoiled, some parents unintentionally encourage their kids to act younger or like they need help for everything and this girl seems to be acting this way for attention
I hope your other kids don’t not hold a pencil till their 4 or else they’ll never hear the end of it from you on how they don’t compare to their sister
Hey holding a pencil is not the same thing as development overall. I love learning and am now second year university student (only 15% of our country succeeds in going there) but I was like 5 or 6 when I could hold a pencil properly. I was also unable to draw between the lines of a colourbook later than my peers even though my mom always drawed and painted with us. Some kids are just later and that's completely fine. You cannot compare kids and it absolutely blows my mind that you have children but dare to put your daughter above other children when it comes to something like holding a pencil. Please everyone is equal and that is exactly what you should be teaching your kid. That they are nothing more than strangers so they should help out others every single day and spread love and kindness. It seriously irks me that it seems like you did not do your research of child development by the way that you are talking about other children. I am also able to conclude that you are immature enough to not take my advice and improve yourself but instead you are going to attack me so do whatever you want but be aware that you have a big responsibility as a parent and it's embarrassing to compare children
Kbs please sub! this seems like such an interesting episode. I think both parents need to meet each other half way, I don't think its fair at all that the dad gets to be the cool fun one while the mom has to take on the authority role. that's going to create resentment between the parents, and the daughter will have a rocky relationship with her mother if this continues.
Being anxious that the tower is gonna fall is putting pressure on the performance? I disagree with that. I think it is a good way to show that you are engaged in the activity the child is performing.
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The dad style is your typical American dad where they treat their daughter like a Princess. But the daughter has an attitude problem and her Mom isn’t helping much as she thought.
kid are kid.. i deal with alot of spoil fuckind adult and they don't see to understand that they can try to be rude but it won't end up well for them...
campkira true lmao it didnt turn out well for my
campkira adults are spoiled because no one corrected those behaviors when they were kids.
@@campkira those same kids grow up to be the adults you hate
lol hes my english teacher and ya he's not the strict type
I'm no doctor but some of the behavior the daughter is displaying (uncomfortable around adults, the behavior, and not doing what is told) I have seen with the kids on the spectrum. I think the parents should do more evaluations on the daughter just to make sure. Of course, she is very young and still has a lot to develop but around the 3rd grade is the age parents get the testing done. I hope the parents are keeping note of the things she does.
i noticed that too
This was exactly what I was thinking, I went right to the comments to see if anyone had said anything yet
It’s gonna be a mess if they can’t fix it
you're not a doctor, don't diagnose people
I was about to say this. She also had a hard time maintaining eye contact and wasn't able to do what the doctor asked. I am also autistic and she acts a lot like I did when I was that age.
I have adhd and acted the exact same way as the girl as a child. It may seem like she's acting spoiled, but it could possibly be that she feels frustrated at others breaking her focus. As a kid (and still now) I used to get extremely frustrated when my mom would hover over me when I was working on something because I was either having a difficult time already focusing on what I was doing & she was distracting me; or I was hyper focused on something and my brain literally could not focus on anything else. Whilst I feel like it's wrong to judge other peoples parenting styles, I do feel the girl could possibly benefit from getting tested for adhd. That being said, I don't think she's "spoiled".
You can't always tell you're doing the right thing raising a kid until they've grown up.
external and internal theroy... sometime it is better just adjust accordingly.. the kid will had to adjust to life...
I think both the parents acted the wrong way when playing the game. The mom showed the child that she did not trust her and the dad helpt her way to mutch. You need to show your kids that you think they can do stuff on ther own.
you hoping too much... parent forget that kid had mind of their own and had to adjust accordingly... if they think they can forcce the kid... they are so wrong.... when they go older they won't trust their parent....
Yeah probably.
My Neighbor Charles and Hello Counselor - my two favorite shows, hope they bring HC back.
The comments about the little girl were WAY too nice 😂😂 She knew she wasn't going to get scolded in front of the cameras etc. So she was going to test the waters and see what she can get away with. I would never have even looked at my parents cross-eyed.
Interesting to see the analysis of the different patenting styles.
It seems like she's not getting the structure she needs. Kids need direction and guidance but not too much.. You can have a "free", respectful child and still have structure.
ChristinaQueenHeart what kind of structure, if you don’t mind me asking? cause there’s always a thin line between discipline and letting the kid run loose that i’ll never understood. my husband and i are thinking of having a kid but i’m too afraid of raising a kid >
Depends on the parent's morals honestly. Lots of people want a respectful child but over or under discipline. So for instance, when a child questions why you want them to do something, just explain to them instead of going off immediately and saying "because I said so!". A kid doesn't know a bunch and is generally curious and interested to know more. If a child is giving attitude and being an ass, it's apparent they're acting out, that's the time to be stern and give guidance that's non-negotiable. What you do next is up to you. Make the punishment/discipline match the behavior.
The little girl is WILD. It's fine for a kid to run and play but they need to listen and respect when their parent or elder is talking. You can tell that she hasn't had much guidance or direction. She's loved but she does what she wants, when she wants to.
Just FYI, I'm a parent and a PhD level psychologist.
She has sensory issues maybe a mild form of ASD. I was disappointed the doctor missed that. She needs therapy and not discipline. She has difficulties with transitioning, she was very upset and unable to follow simple commands.The screaming along with poor eye contact also is a good indicator that she might me under the spectrum. Nothing do with her being naughty.
@@lenasims3085 keyword MIGHT. Kids under the spectrum still need discipline. Having a disorder doesn't excuse a kid from being brought up under some type structure. It's harmful, detrimental even because then when they are placed in the world, they can't function even further and adjustment is bad.
it was kind of messed up seeing her not want to talk about her family...I hope that they're able to find a method that works for her bc she seems to be too hard on her and he seems to not want her to do things by herself.
Its was her choice to not talk about her family.
@@praem9597 um...duh. 🥴🥴🥴 the point is that when you ask kids to speak about their families (smth they typically really like to talk about) and they start whining about how they dont want to talk about the family then there's usually an issue. 🤦🏾♀️
The mom has typical asain method which im used to it doesnt work as well as they think they are like we will be strict so the child is disciplined while the opposit happens and the child acts out
Yeah sometimes i feel they need to chill out a little. Cause my mom still treat me like I'm 12 when I'm already 25 for god sake. But then again if they do it too lenient I'm might growing up as brat.
It's need balance
Why doesn't KBS post the full episodes anymore?
If my husband and I were to be evaluated on the same test, our results will probably be the same as this couple. I'm home all day so I am mainly in charge of raising the kids and he is definitely more lenient with them.
I also think it's down to cultural differences - we were just raised differently in some aspects and when it comes down to raising our children, there's certainly some compromising that needs to happen. But at the end of it, parents need to be on the same page and present a united front so the kids don't end up being confused.
most imprant isnot about your authority... my dad isa police so he like to order... i can just left him... and he had to deal everything himself now since he never take care of me.... nor paid money...
Everybody’s an expert on parenting 😅😂🤣
I can relate to this. My husband and i we have different parenting style and it is very conflicting. Keep up the good job mum😊
KBS please continue to upload the full episode!
this is just my 1 cent and as a former child. (In Asia, if this info is relevant.)
I do think that you should let the kids do whatever they want so that they can explore and can use their imagination. BUT, when it comes discipline, you don't have to punish a child "physically" or get angry. BE STERN AND TRY TO MAKE HER REALIZE THAT WHAT SHE'S DOING IS WRONG AND THE CONSEQUENCE OF HER ACTIONS.
My parents are the typical asian parents. I've seen my mom how she handles my 5 years old cousin. The fact that my cousin is scared of her really tells that she doesn't know how to handle a child. If you explain to a child their bad behavior and make them realize that it's bad then, they will like you, respect you and mostly, follow your teachings.
Thankfully, my parents didn't raise me when i was a child, it was my grandparents. If they did raise me, i would pretty much despise them.
Do you have kids ?
@@pancakeninja445 I would never do the things that my parents did to me to my kids. Period.
I find it funny that people think that "physically hitting them" is effective. Like, good luck on your future relationship with your kids when they grow up. So sad, they have to tolerate with that toxic behavior.
90s version seemed so much easier for parents and kids. smack in the head, mom's slippers or the death stare of 4 foot 11 Mom.
Parents should always agree BEFORE a baby is born on what parental styles they will do. Parents should be on the same linr even if they both have to compromise
I feel like they comple needs to reach 50/50 % to see good results. Like for example the dad step up more (be a bit more steadfast/firm) to take some of the child care off of mom so she can relax. And mom to be a bit more trusting of her daughter and dad; but mostly this stems off with good communication between the parents (being on the same page on parenting; discipline; rewarding the child, how to build her confidence) etc. They both love their daughter alot I feel like with good direction/advice, she will grow well & happy.
What's that doctor's speciality
Expert in child development maybe, i have seen many parents in Korean reality show bring their kids to this kind of doctor to be observed
She is a child psychologist, i assume.
kid doctor...
Thanks guys I was asking beacause my speciality in an Institute for Health Careers is similar to this but Im not a doctor instead a Psychomotricien
Behaviorist too
Where is the full ep of this episode??
she doesnt hold her pencil properly. how old is she? my almost 6 year old daughter has been holding her pencil properly since she was 3.
I feel like she's very spoiled, some parents unintentionally encourage their kids to act younger or like they need help for everything and this girl seems to be acting this way for attention
I hope your other kids don’t not hold a pencil till their 4 or else they’ll never hear the end of it from you on how they don’t compare to their sister
Hey holding a pencil is not the same thing as development overall. I love learning and am now second year university student (only 15% of our country succeeds in going there) but I was like 5 or 6 when I could hold a pencil properly. I was also unable to draw between the lines of a colourbook later than my peers even though my mom always drawed and painted with us. Some kids are just later and that's completely fine. You cannot compare kids and it absolutely blows my mind that you have children but dare to put your daughter above other children when it comes to something like holding a pencil. Please everyone is equal and that is exactly what you should be teaching your kid. That they are nothing more than strangers so they should help out others every single day and spread love and kindness. It seriously irks me that it seems like you did not do your research of child development by the way that you are talking about other children. I am also able to conclude that you are immature enough to not take my advice and improve yourself but instead you are going to attack me so do whatever you want but be aware that you have a big responsibility as a parent and it's embarrassing to compare children
Kbs please sub! this seems like such an interesting episode. I think both parents need to meet each other half way, I don't think its fair at all that the dad gets to be the cool fun one while the mom has to take on the authority role. that's going to create resentment between the parents, and the daughter will have a rocky relationship with her mother if this continues.
Being anxious that the tower is gonna fall is putting pressure on the performance? I disagree with that. I think it is a good way to show that you are engaged in the activity the child is performing.
Divorce is coming
One year later and still together. 10 year anniversary soon Trolololololololo
@@jayclaytor White guys with asian fetishes stick together.
brat
Damn skippy.
the dad is too soft, a problem with a lot of western men today
Nah western men have always been soft on their daughters and tough on their sons
Yeah, I'm a bit of a pushover. I'm away from home working so much when I get to spend time with the kids I prefer to be soft. Guilty as charged.