First story: my guess is she is some kind of nurse or front office person in a clinic and this "new guy" was a hot single doctor. Second story: I didn't bother.
Call me a pessimist, but I've seen too many situations like this where there ended up being a physical affair. She has a crush on the guy, is motivated enough to lose 80 lbs, and he suggested going out for dinner and then getting a room afterward - that all adds up to one very strong opportunity for cheating. Sorry, but Op is naive.
First story: my guess is she is some kind of nurse or front office person in a clinic and this "new guy" was a hot single doctor.
Second story: I didn't bother.
Call me a pessimist, but I've seen too many situations like this where there ended up being a physical affair. She has a crush on the guy, is motivated enough to lose 80 lbs, and he suggested going out for dinner and then getting a room afterward - that all adds up to one very strong opportunity for cheating. Sorry, but Op is naive.
that guy is a simp !