Girl not many people can say they worked their asses off and lost 100lbs, you've shown you can do the work and have the ability, but you do not need to be a martyr for this. You do not need to spend your life fighting for this and weight loss surgery is a tool to improve your life!
My friend has a sleeve 3 months ago and so far all is going well. She was told that after the surgery she would need b12 injections for life and have to take certain vitamins. She was late on getting her first b12 shot and started getting deficiency symptoms which was shocking to me as it is still early on in her journey. Anyway, like I said, she is doing well and has lost a lot of weight so as long as there are no complications down the line, the surgery definitely has its benefits. On the other hand, it hasn’t stopped her eating junk food, but she is working on it and there are definite improvements. It’s worth mentioning that there are foods that are labelled ‘slider foods’ such as chips, (crisps UK) which are easy to over eat so she still needs to exercise control. My observation is this, if my friend wants to get to goal and remain there, she still needs to do some work. Surgery isn’t a fix all solution.
I got to my heaviest weight AFTER my gastric sleeve. I got up to 384 lbs. I got my act together, got a personal trainer and started eating super healthy. Now I've lost 180 lbs and still going! Don't rely on your surgery. You have to do your part for the rest of your life. Lifestyle change is the key to success.
I am sure your surgery was very helpful in your 180-pound weight loss. You gained the weight because you weren't following the instructions in order for the tool to work for you. Congratulations on your weight loss! Great job!👏
I am so freaking happy for you. I had Roux-en-Y gastric bypass surgery over 15 years ago. I lost over 150 pounds, became a distance runner and an avid weight lifter. I had to completely change my lifestyle and eating habits, but I’ve kept it off and have built a lot of muscle. Everyone else I know that has had the surgery, has unfortunately gained all the weight back, plus some. However, I know that you can lose all the weight and keep it off. I’m so excited for you. You’re going to do amazing!
Thanks so much for sharing your experience with me Briana and for the encouragement! I love hearing your success and about the hard work you put in to make this tool work for you to lose and sustain the weight loss!! That is so wonderful! Sending lots of love!! ❤
3 years post op RNY! I think most of us say we will not have surgery. Then something happens and we change our minds! Good for us! You say you are the problem when it comes to not making vids. I see you as the solution. You have never given up!
April, I totally identify with your journey. I suffer from depression and will likely take meds for the rest of my life, but therapy and understanding the why's, challenging your negative thoughts, knowing your pattern and getting tools to help you break out of the cycle are all really important pieces to unlock to contribute to your success. I am also someone who never wanted surgery, but am seriously considering it since I am speeding towards 50 years old but am in worse shape physically than my 80 year old parents. I want a better quality of life from here on out and I wish that for you too. Your past dedication proves you can do this! But please, continue to explore your mental health as way to take care of yourself and staying healthy.
Thank you for your vulnerability here! I know that probably wasn't easy to share! Praying things are lighter and easier for you in the coming days. I'm glad you found something that has worked for you! 💟
This is why I love your channel - You are just real -- A lifetime of losing weight and you have done very well -- This surgery is another tool for you -- So excited to see your journey!
Good luck with your journey. I had a RNY 20 years ago and lost 170 lbs (300 to 130) I kept it off for about 10 years until slowly weight started to creep back on (about 70 ) The thing is once I decided to get back to my post-op diet and habits that weight also came off. Like you said it is a tool! I would also like to thank you because your channel actually help me get back to those habits.
I'm hoping for my WLS date this summer. I'm much much older than you, Lauren. The most common regret I hear is "I wish I had done it sooner." So glad you're claiming your health and life back as a young woman with many many years ahead of you. Walking the journey along side you and wishing you all the best.
Thank you for being so real with the struggle. I lost 100lbs a few years ago over the course of 2 years. I felt healthy and strong but then I regained 75lbs in 6 months due to a new medication and immense stress. I am still angry at myself for backsliding but your story makes me feel less alone. Thank you.
Girl!! I was JUST thinking about you the other day and wondering what was going on and if you were doing well. I'm sooo glad to see this video. You got this lady!
April, I recently checked on you and I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw your new video! I also had a yo-yo effect when I moved to another country and I failed to establish a new healthy routine. I’m glad you got help and you’re still fighting. I’m also impressed with your hubby’s support during the hospital stay! Best of luck!!!
I’m so glad you updated us, April! I have been wondering how you are doing but I totally get needing a break from videos to get back on track. After watching you workout harder than I have in my life and making giant life changes, I can tell you that you probably know your body better than most of us know our bodies and you made the best choice for you. And wow, do I get the life changes = weight gain. I’m dealing with it a bit myself but your positive attitude and openness are is so inspiring, so thank you!
I’ve struggled with weight gain and loss my entire adult life and in the past few years have been really struggling with depression (took a while to figure out that was what was going on). Don’t ever forget you are not alone. Don’t ever think it’s your fault or that you’re too weak. Lots of us understand and struggle with you. Thank you for sharing your challenges and successes. You’ll never know how many people you’ve touched or helped on a particularly bad day. I wish you the best and peace with yourself.
I've missed you❤❤❤please know that just because you choose to share some of your life with us does not mean that you have to justify your choices to us. The only person who knows what's best for you is you! It sounds like you have a wonderfully supportive doctor by your side and that's the only person who should have any input in your health choices
Nothing to do with anyone else, this is your weight loss journey and you have nothing to be sorry/guilty about. Good luck with your journey ❤. Big hugs. Jo UK 🙂
I know there will be weirdos out there who tell you that you took the easy way out. Don’t listen to that crap bc they haven’t been there. Those of us who have had WLS know it’s so much work. I had the lap band 11 years ago and lost 150 lbs. I got comfortable and eventually gained 100 back. I’ve since lost that 100 plus 10 lbs. I’ve got 45 lbs to go and it’s hard work especially as you get smaller. For the first time in my life I enjoy exercising and feel so much stronger. Do you think you’ll ever get back to hiking and running? Also, your husband seems great. It’s so important to have a supportive spouse.
Oh April, you have always been such a doll. So beautiful, so smart, so interesting snd engaging. My heart hurts for your struggle. I know you will get through this and come out the best version of you. Never give up! ❤❤❤
Congratulations for doing what's best for you. People will tell you that you will gain the weight back and it's not true, if you use it the way you're supposed to. I got weight loss surgery almost 8 years ago. Last year I gained 30lbs and I've lost about 25 of them, easily. My suggestion is to focus on your diet so you can form your new lifestyle. Keep your food to single ingredient things, don't try and find ways to have your favorite things, at least not at first. Keep it very simple, give yourself a year. After the year then have what you want in moderation. Moderation we are talking bi monthly and monthly NOT WEEKLY OR DAILY. You can do this
I had my DS 2009. I lost & have maintained my over 200lb weight loss. It’s a big & powerful surgery. It’s the Cadillac of wls. I’ve had many struggles. I had years of battling malnutrition. I had years of chronic illnesses where my intestines would block off. I’ve had two revisions to my original surgery to increase my common channel for more absorption to keep my weight and nutrients. I think it’s an amazing surgery but it requires dedication and commitment to following your plan and getting vital nutrients. I think wish you the absolute best with your new DS!
You’re welcome April. If you ever have a question, I’d be happy to help. I have one warning, medical professionals, for the most part, will not quite understand your surgery. Keep a copy of a diagram in your purse with your surgeons info. I just recently had this experience with a gastroenterologist 🙄 I was set up for a colonoscopy and mentioned during consultation that there’s a portion of my intestines they cannot see with that test. Completely ignored. I had the test and during the time he met with my husband and I to give results, My husband mentioned my common channel again and you could finally see it CLICK- ohhhhhh, and he immediately said I’d need a different test ordered called a bowel series. Trust me, you will encounter this with all types of professionals and you have to advocate for yourself. Anyway, so PROUD of you! 👍🏻 let’s rock this DS!
I would not have thought of this... That is such awesome advice! (And, it makes so much sense.) Thank you so much! And thank you for offering to answer questions for me! You are wonderful!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Oh April I'm so happy to see you're back! The clip you filmed right before your surgery made me tear up. You're so brave and I'm so so proud of you. Weight gain is such a complex thing and it's so frustrating sometimes trying to fight it on your own. The society wants to reduce it down to "just eat less and move more" but it's never quite as simple as that, is it. Asking for help is so important and should be normalized! Thank you for sharing your journey and lots of love ❤
Nobody really gets it except those of us who struggle. It isn't simple. And I have a friend who struggles to keep weight on. We are all different! We are all worthy of a great life no matter what!
Yep, even the most famous of her "just eat less, move more" naysayers can't fake that not all calories are the same. They pretty much do keto. So fine, say you follow keto and good for you. But don't pretend that everyone who's not losing weight isn't losing it bc of eating too much.
Girl, you are a fighter and a champion. Mental health is such a huge part of overall health, and I'm glad you have really focused on addressing that. Beyond that, how you work on your physical health is really a decision made between you and your doctor, and I am glad you are feeling confident about it, and hopeful about the road ahead. A lot of us have been thinking about you and wondering how you're doing, and I'm so glad to see that you're emerging stronger and more hopeful than before. I hope you will continue to bring us along on the journey.
Glad that you took steps to improve your overall health. Accepting help when you're struggling is such a huge victory. People don't realize how difficult it is to admit out loud to someone else that they need help. Hope your renewed journey is one full of true success and happiness
Welcome back Lauren! I remember when you first moved- it was easy to see how upsetting that was for you. I recall thinking how people always thank military families for their services but don’t always realize just how hard these sacrifices can be. So glad you’ve gotten help for your depression. We’ve missed you!
I’ve missed you and your journey! You’ve done and will continue to do amazing! I had surgery in 2016 and successfully kept my weight off in addition to two healthy pregnancies! You got this!
Omgosh!!!!!! I literally looked for you every day! I believe in you and know you will be successful. My dear amazing Lauren, I’ve lived with depression for almost all my life along with ADHD. It’s been a struggle to keep weight off. I understand the struggles and will support your choices. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
April this is probably the most honest and authentic I have ever seen you. This was obviously not an easy decision for you. You seem to be in the right frame of mind to really use this tool to change your life. Rooting for you!
April, you’ve been in my heart and I’ve worried about you since you were gone. I’m happy you’ve made this choice. You weren’t born to suffer! You are allowed to be happy and experience joy 💕
I'm just happy to see you!! ETA: And Kenny's narration at the end, what a wonderful husband and human being, I missed you both so much! Be well my friends!! ❤❤❤
Aww, I'm so happy to see your comment! I have missed our interactions. He is the best! His sillyness cheered me up so much in the hospital and then again when I saw the footage back. I loved it! ❤❤❤
Fellow Prozac girly here! For me, therapy/other nonpharmacologic measures were never enough, I needed medication. It almost enabled my brain to respond to therapy better. We all need what we need. Good luck to you ❤
Good for you!! Having WLS is NOT the easy way out. I worked for many years as a nurse for inpatient post op WLS patients in the 1-2 days postop. It is HARD. And a lifelong change. You are taking control of your health and your life.
April, I had to comment after I heard you say that you keep failing. Everyone will agree that you are no failure, in fact you have been an inspiration to many people. I am lucky that I have never had over thirty pounds to lose but I know how hard that is for me. And I know it isn't just eating and exercising right, if it was, well girl you would be at your goal a long time ago. The body is a complication machine, and we are daily enticed with food and drink,, and it's so F ing unfair that we can't at least eat what we want without gaining weight. Anyway, I have watched your channel because I saw a strong, determined woman with the sweetest personality and cheered for her. It doesn't matter how you achieve your weight loss as long as it is healthy, and I am pulling for you.
I was just thinking about your videos today, so I came to the channel and saw this one posted the same day! I am happy for you, this will help with your weight loss journey, and you will maintain your results, because you know what to do, just needed the help with your depression, and now that you have the correct tools, and continue with the proper nutrition, things will come along, you got this!
Lovely to see you April. I, like lots of folks have thought of you and hoped you were managing OK. My last move led to a complete breakdown and my worst depressive episode. 3 years later I finally feel able to move again for work. Just to say that being depressed when your world is moving in a direction against your will is completely natural. Glad to see you getting back to yourself.
Welcome back!! So happy your back and doing well!!!! My daughter, who used to watch you, had that surgery 1 years ago almost to the day. She has lost over 100 pounds and is doing very well. Good luck to you!!
So glad for an update. One thing we know about you April, you’ve motivated us. Girl you did things that those that weigh less than you Can’t do! April you have come so far. I’m glad you are showing up & sharing your story. So glad you did what you felt you needed to do 💛 We love you April 😊
April, Thanks for creating and posting this video. I’m always so impressed by your thoughtfulness and self-knowledge. I wish you all the best on this leg of your journey, especially in making a decision that works for you. Any time you feel like making videos, I’ll be here watching.
I have missed you so much! So happy to see you back, Thank you for coming back, looking forward to being here for your journey, sending so much love and support!!
So glad to see an update and hope you’re back!! Would still love to watch videos of your life and now weight loss surgery journey. Please keep posting videos!!
I'm happy to see you! I've been following your journey from the beginning! Take care of yourself sweetheart, know that you're loved. I wish you the best in your health journey ❤
I'm really excited for you April! Weight loss surgery has been helpful for so many people, and treating your depression has got to be a huge benefit across lots of parts of your life. Thank you for updating us. I've had you in my thoughts over the months. ❤
So happy to see you’re back and you’re okay! Girl you are so brave and such an inspiration. You have been kicking butt, but now you have more tools in your arsenal to kick even more but and stay that much more consistent. You’ve got this and I’m praying for your well being and success ❤️
so happy to see your back!! have missed the videos and weight loss is so hard no matter how you choose to do it and you have to do what works for you!!!! Cant wait to follow your journey!!!
I’m so grateful you shared this! As someone who had weight loss surgery, I was saddened by your prior opinions on it. I know it’s not for everyone, but I do believe many are closed minded about it without enough research. I’m so glad you were able to research and get all your questions answered by your medical team. I’m also so happy you shared this for people who may share your previous mindset. Wishing you all the best and am looking forward to more videos when you want to make them ❤
April I really hope the best for you and all the weight loss but your main problem is the food you eat and how much. I have suffered with depression my whole life and when I started eating whole foods and resistance training it's sooo much better and no medication! And loss weight very easily its not hard just eat whole foods. Please know that food is the problem!!
Keep working on your mental health. Even with weight loss surgery, if you don't fix that, you will still gain it back. You're on the right track though. I'm rooting for you.
I'm so glad to hear from you April- I have missed you and was worried about you! I support you fully in this surgery and am looking forward to following you again as you continue on your weight loss journey.
Ive been thinking of finally getting help with my fat loss. Im going to give myself another year to try completely naturally to change my relationship with food and my lifestyle. And if i still need help, then im getting it. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Im so glad you have such a loving and supporting husband. We are loving and supporting you from afar. Thanks for being brave enough to post. I feel less alone.
Oh April, I missed you! I am so happy to hear how you are moving forward with your weight loss journey! I wish you great success going forward.. I look forward to more frequent videos again!
So glad you’re back! Youve been an inspiration from day one and you still are. Thank you for sharing your journey no matter the ups and downs with the us. You owe us nothing but know you are appreciated and I’m cheering you on♥️
Welcome Back and Congratulations! 🎉 You know yourself better than anyone! I am proud of you for the hard work and dedication you have given to your own health. I too was 350+ pounds at one time in my life and want you to know YOU GOT THIS! I have been watching your videos for a long time when I was first started out. I am cheering for you and so happy you are back. Do not let anyone bring you down during your journey. If you need someone to cheer you on please reach out because I too need it some days! I look forward to watching your journey and changes over the next year. Good Luck!!!❤
Oh my goodness April! I’ve missed you so much- the video is still playing the opening ad so I haven’t seen it yet yet but I’m so overjoyed to see you! I hope you and your family are doing well. I’ve been listening to your podcast weekly and watching your vids when I can ever since I gave birth last November. You and your content has gotten me thru some tough times for so long, I’m so grateful to you. Okay I’ll stop talkin and get into the video. Sending so much love to you! 💛
I'm so happy to see your smiling face today!! Thank you for sharing with us ! I hope you know you are not alone, and we will continue to pray for you ❤️ Can't wait to see more videos and your new path! Glad you came back !!!
So glad to see you back! And good for you for getting help in treating your mental health first! I had WLS (bypass) over a year ago and working with a therapist for years before during and after has been so critical to success. I wish you all the success in your journey! WLS is a fantastic tool
SO glad to see you back. Been missing your honesty and vulnerability. Gettin your mental health on track is so hard and takes time. I had post partum depression and it took years for me to get back on track and find what worked for me. Give yourself grace during this experience
Oh April! I'm so very happy to see you! I have missed you so very much! So happy that you are doing whatever is the very best thing for you! You will shine no matter what! So proud of you!!
April, thank you so much for sharing this part of your journey with us! Your videos have always been such an encouragement to me, and I am thankful for your positivity and inspiration! You have definitely been missed! 💕
HI APRIL!!!!! So happy to see you again, and happy that you are doing well. You are so inspiring and I am amazed by you every day. I totally hear you, and understand where you are coming from. If it means anything, you have my support no matter what!!!
I have been waiting for you!!! You were missed!! I am so proud of you for making the decisions to help you heal, mentally and physically. YOU GO GIRL!!!
April we love you so much, it’s so nice to have your spirit on my phone screen again💙 I am praying for a speedy recovery and peace in your transition. I suffer from depression as well, so I know that empty space- know that you have built an army of people rooting for you and cheering you on!!! I will grab my scepter and march with you anywhere!!!!! #TeamWakeUpBright
I saw you at a restaurant in Hawaii and I wanted so badly to say hi, but I wasn’t sure if that would’ve felt like an invasion of privacy. I think I might have stared a little too hard. If I could’ve said something in that moment, it would have just been that I love you and you’re amazing! I fell in love with your RUclips channel because of the essence of ~you~. You are an incredible person. We are here for ~you~. We support you in your journey. Every part of it.
OH my goodness, I would have loved for you to say hi! Do you live here or were you just visiting? What restaurant? I've only met a couple people over the years, but it always feels like I am catching up or talking story with a friend! Sending lots of love!
So happy you're back and are looking after yourself and healing, you deserve it and we’re here for you. I gained a lot after my Dad died in October but over the last 8 weeks I've been on track and motivated again and lost 34lb. You've got this x
I will speak for everyone and say WE HAVE MISSED YOU!!
Yup
Aww, thanks for your sweet comment Jennifer! I've miss y'all! ❤
Indeed!
Mwah!!! Hugs!! My little sister in light!!
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Yes!!! I was worried about her!
Girl not many people can say they worked their asses off and lost 100lbs, you've shown you can do the work and have the ability, but you do not need to be a martyr for this. You do not need to spend your life fighting for this and weight loss surgery is a tool to improve your life!
Amen and hallelujah to what you wrote 💐 ❤ 💐
This Comment is just PERFECT -
Agree.
100% agree!
Yes. This is spot on. April just needs a solid foundation. She has the drive! I am all for it!
Lauren, Lauren, I have been thinking about you and was hoping we would see you again!
I clicked right on this, we've been waiting for you girl!
Girlfriend, I had gastric bypass last winter and it was the best decision of my entire life.
Hey how is it going? This is so motivating xox
@@AsMr-km6ex I have lost over 140lbs!
I'm thinking about doing it but I'm so scared!
My friend has a sleeve 3 months ago and so far all is going well. She was told that after the surgery she would need b12 injections for life and have to take certain vitamins. She was late on getting her first b12 shot and started getting deficiency symptoms which was shocking to me as it is still early on in her journey. Anyway, like I said, she is doing well and has lost a lot of weight so as long as there are no complications down the line, the surgery definitely has its benefits. On the other hand, it hasn’t stopped her eating junk food, but she is working on it and there are definite improvements. It’s worth mentioning that there are foods that are labelled ‘slider foods’ such as chips, (crisps UK) which are easy to over eat so she still needs to exercise control. My observation is this, if my friend wants to get to goal and remain there, she still needs to do some work. Surgery isn’t a fix all solution.
Give carnivore a try first!!! The craving go away after a week or two!
I’m so glad to hear that you got treatment for your depression! Mental health is just as important as our physical health ❤❤❤
You can change your mind. No justification for others is needed. You do what is right for you.
I got to my heaviest weight AFTER my gastric sleeve. I got up to 384 lbs. I got my act together, got a personal trainer and started eating super healthy. Now I've lost 180 lbs and still going! Don't rely on your surgery. You have to do your part for the rest of your life. Lifestyle change is the key to success.
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She literally said at just over 2 minutes in, she knows it's a tool.
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I am sure your surgery was very helpful in your 180-pound weight loss. You gained the weight because you weren't following the instructions in order for the tool to work for you. Congratulations on your weight loss! Great job!👏
That's wonderful!! Thank you for your advice and for sharing your journey! I agree lifestyle change is the key to success! Sending lots of love! ❤❤❤
I am so freaking happy for you. I had Roux-en-Y gastric bypass surgery over 15 years ago. I lost over 150 pounds, became a distance runner and an avid weight lifter. I had to completely change my lifestyle and eating habits, but I’ve kept it off and have built a lot of muscle. Everyone else I know that has had the surgery, has unfortunately gained all the weight back, plus some. However, I know that you can lose all the weight and keep it off. I’m so excited for you. You’re going to do amazing!
Thanks so much for sharing your experience with me Briana and for the encouragement! I love hearing your success and about the hard work you put in to make this tool work for you to lose and sustain the weight loss!! That is so wonderful! Sending lots of love!! ❤
3 years post op RNY! I think most of us say we will not have surgery. Then something happens and we change our minds! Good for us! You say you are the problem when it comes to not making vids. I see you as the solution. You have never given up!
April, I totally identify with your journey. I suffer from depression and will likely take meds for the rest of my life, but therapy and understanding the why's, challenging your negative thoughts, knowing your pattern and getting tools to help you break out of the cycle are all really important pieces to unlock to contribute to your success. I am also someone who never wanted surgery, but am seriously considering it since I am speeding towards 50 years old but am in worse shape physically than my 80 year old parents. I want a better quality of life from here on out and I wish that for you too. Your past dedication proves you can do this! But please, continue to explore your mental health as way to take care of yourself and staying healthy.
2.5 months post op from my sleeve surgery! SO WORTH IT! Excited for you!
Thank you for your vulnerability here! I know that probably wasn't easy to share! Praying things are lighter and easier for you in the coming days. I'm glad you found something that has worked for you! 💟
I am so grateful for your prayers and encouragement! ❤❤❤
I've missed you so much April I'm so happy to see you
This is why I love your channel - You are just real -- A lifetime of losing weight and you have done very well -- This surgery is another tool for you -- So excited to see your journey!
Aww, thanks Elaine! ❤❤❤
Oh, April! I have missed you! I am so grateful that you are getting the help you need! The world needs your brightness!
Damn April. You have faced the dark hard parts. I am so proud of this…
APRIL!!! I’ve missed you!
I love seeing the ultra supportive crew showing up this video!! 💖💖💖
Aww, I've missed you too my friend! ❤
Good luck with your journey. I had a RNY 20 years ago and lost 170 lbs (300 to 130) I kept it off for about 10 years until slowly weight started to creep back on (about 70 ) The thing is once I decided to get back to my post-op diet and habits that weight also came off. Like you said it is a tool! I would also like to thank you because your channel actually help me get back to those habits.
I'm hoping for my WLS date this summer. I'm much much older than you, Lauren. The most common regret I hear is "I wish I had done it sooner." So glad you're claiming your health and life back as a young woman with many many years ahead of you. Walking the journey along side you and wishing you all the best.
I will be crossing my fingers for you and sending lots of love! ❤
Thank you for being so real with the struggle. I lost 100lbs a few years ago over the course of 2 years. I felt healthy and strong but then I regained 75lbs in 6 months due to a new medication and immense stress. I am still angry at myself for backsliding but your story makes me feel less alone. Thank you.
Girl!! I was JUST thinking about you the other day and wondering what was going on and if you were doing well. I'm sooo glad to see this video. You got this lady!
April, I recently checked on you and I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw your new video! I also had a yo-yo effect when I moved to another country and I failed to establish a new healthy routine. I’m glad you got help and you’re still fighting. I’m also impressed with your hubby’s support during the hospital stay! Best of luck!!!
I’m so glad you updated us, April! I have been wondering how you are doing but I totally get needing a break from videos to get back on track. After watching you workout harder than I have in my life and making giant life changes, I can tell you that you probably know your body better than most of us know our bodies and you made the best choice for you. And wow, do I get the life changes = weight gain. I’m dealing with it a bit myself but your positive attitude and openness are is so inspiring, so thank you!
I’ve struggled with weight gain and loss my entire adult life and in the past few years have been really struggling with depression (took a while to figure out that was what was going on). Don’t ever forget you are not alone. Don’t ever think it’s your fault or that you’re too weak. Lots of us understand and struggle with you. Thank you for sharing your challenges and successes. You’ll never know how many people you’ve touched or helped on a particularly bad day. I wish you the best and peace with yourself.
I've missed you❤❤❤please know that just because you choose to share some of your life with us does not mean that you have to justify your choices to us. The only person who knows what's best for you is you! It sounds like you have a wonderfully supportive doctor by your side and that's the only person who should have any input in your health choices
Nothing to do with anyone else, this is your weight loss journey and you have nothing to be sorry/guilty about. Good luck with your journey ❤. Big hugs. Jo UK 🙂
I know there will be weirdos out there who tell you that you took the easy way out. Don’t listen to that crap bc they haven’t been there. Those of us who have had WLS know it’s so much work. I had the lap band 11 years ago and lost 150 lbs. I got comfortable and eventually gained 100 back. I’ve since lost that 100 plus 10 lbs. I’ve got 45 lbs to go and it’s hard work especially as you get smaller. For the first time in my life I enjoy exercising and feel so much stronger. Do you think you’ll ever get back to hiking and running? Also, your husband seems great. It’s so important to have a supportive spouse.
Oh there's our beautiful April!💞 You've been missed! Hugs to you and prayer for you on this new weight loss journey. XO😘XO
Oh April, you have always been such a doll.
So beautiful, so smart, so interesting snd engaging. My heart hurts for your struggle. I know you will get through this and come out the best version of you. Never give up! ❤❤❤
Congratulations for doing what's best for you. People will tell you that you will gain the weight back and it's not true, if you use it the way you're supposed to. I got weight loss surgery almost 8 years ago. Last year I gained 30lbs and I've lost about 25 of them, easily. My suggestion is to focus on your diet so you can form your new lifestyle. Keep your food to single ingredient things, don't try and find ways to have your favorite things, at least not at first. Keep it very simple, give yourself a year. After the year then have what you want in moderation. Moderation we are talking bi monthly and monthly NOT WEEKLY OR DAILY. You can do this
I loved reading your advice and thoughts!! Thanks so much for sharing!! ❤❤❤
April, I’m so happy for you. You made up your mind and you went for it. Your reality will now change for the better. I missed you!
I had my DS 2009. I lost & have maintained my over 200lb weight loss.
It’s a big & powerful surgery. It’s the Cadillac of wls. I’ve had many struggles.
I had years of battling malnutrition.
I had years of chronic illnesses where my intestines would block off.
I’ve had two revisions to my original surgery to increase my common channel for more absorption to keep my weight and nutrients.
I think it’s an amazing surgery but it requires dedication and commitment to following your plan and getting vital nutrients.
I think wish you the absolute best with your new DS!
Thank you so much for sharing part of your story and experience with me! I am so grateful for your encouragement and support. Sending lots of love! ❤
You’re welcome April. If you ever have a question, I’d be happy to help.
I have one warning, medical professionals, for the most part, will not quite understand your surgery.
Keep a copy of a diagram in your purse with your surgeons info.
I just recently had this experience with a gastroenterologist 🙄
I was set up for a colonoscopy and mentioned during consultation that there’s a portion of my intestines they cannot see with that test.
Completely ignored.
I had the test and during the time he met with my husband and I to give results,
My husband mentioned my common channel again and you could finally see it CLICK- ohhhhhh, and he immediately said I’d need a different test ordered called a bowel series.
Trust me, you will encounter this with all types of professionals and you have to advocate for yourself.
Anyway, so PROUD of you! 👍🏻 let’s rock this DS!
I would not have thought of this... That is such awesome advice! (And, it makes so much sense.) Thank you so much! And thank you for offering to answer questions for me! You are wonderful!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Oh April I'm so happy to see you're back! The clip you filmed right before your surgery made me tear up. You're so brave and I'm so so proud of you. Weight gain is such a complex thing and it's so frustrating sometimes trying to fight it on your own. The society wants to reduce it down to "just eat less and move more" but it's never quite as simple as that, is it. Asking for help is so important and should be normalized! Thank you for sharing your journey and lots of love ❤
Nobody really gets it except those of us who struggle. It isn't simple. And I have a friend who struggles to keep weight on. We are all different! We are all worthy of a great life no matter what!
Yep, even the most famous of her "just eat less, move more" naysayers can't fake that not all calories are the same. They pretty much do keto. So fine, say you follow keto and good for you. But don't pretend that everyone who's not losing weight isn't losing it bc of eating too much.
Girl, you are a fighter and a champion. Mental health is such a huge part of overall health, and I'm glad you have really focused on addressing that. Beyond that, how you work on your physical health is really a decision made between you and your doctor, and I am glad you are feeling confident about it, and hopeful about the road ahead.
A lot of us have been thinking about you and wondering how you're doing, and I'm so glad to see that you're emerging stronger and more hopeful than before. I hope you will continue to bring us along on the journey.
April great to see you,how are the dogs,and your husband doing? wishing you luck in your new process!!!!!!!!
My hubby and pups are doing so good! We are all enjoying Hawaii and the sunshine! ❤❤❤ Thank you for wishing me luck, sending lots of love your way!
Your husband is so sweet. I’m so happy to see a video from you. You’ve got this! 💪🏼 🎉 God is good.
Glad that you took steps to improve your overall health. Accepting help when you're struggling is such a huge victory. People don't realize how difficult it is to admit out loud to someone else that they need help. Hope your renewed journey is one full of true success and happiness
A friend of mine chose surgery and she said it was the best decision she ever made for herself. Wishing you the best!!!
I had WLS about 10 years ago. It was the best decision of my life.
I am so glad to hear time has only increased your resolve! That gives me even more hope and faith in the process! Sending lots of love your way! ❤
Welcome back Lauren! I remember when you first moved- it was easy to see how upsetting that was for you. I recall thinking how people always thank military families for their services but don’t always realize just how hard these sacrifices can be. So glad you’ve gotten help for your depression.
We’ve missed you!
Losing weight is so hard, and depression makes it so much harder. You've been on my mind lately. I'm glad you're back.
I’ve missed you and your journey! You’ve done and will continue to do amazing! I had surgery in 2016 and successfully kept my weight off in addition to two healthy pregnancies! You got this!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me!! Congratulations on your babies and your weight success!! Sending love your way!! ❤❤❤
You took the time off YT that you needed; good for you. Happy you’re back. Here’s to your WLS journey! 💚🐝
Omgosh!!!!!! I literally looked for you every day! I believe in you and know you will be successful. My dear amazing Lauren, I’ve lived with depression for almost all my life along with ADHD. It’s been a struggle to keep weight off. I understand the struggles and will support your choices. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
April this is probably the most honest and authentic I have ever seen you. This was obviously not an easy decision for you. You seem to be in the right frame of mind to really use this tool to change your life. Rooting for you!
April, you’ve been in my heart and I’ve worried about you since you were gone. I’m happy you’ve made this choice. You weren’t born to suffer! You are allowed to be happy and experience joy 💕
I'm just happy to see you!! ETA: And Kenny's narration at the end, what a wonderful husband and human being, I missed you both so much! Be well my friends!! ❤❤❤
Aww, I'm so happy to see your comment! I have missed our interactions. He is the best! His sillyness cheered me up so much in the hospital and then again when I saw the footage back. I loved it! ❤❤❤
@@AprilLauren "It's vital, vital for survival" 🤣🤣🤣
@@AprilLauren ❤
Fellow Prozac girly here! For me, therapy/other nonpharmacologic measures were never enough, I needed medication. It almost enabled my brain to respond to therapy better. We all need what we need. Good luck to you ❤
Good for you!! Having WLS is NOT the easy way out. I worked for many years as a nurse for inpatient post op WLS patients in the 1-2 days postop. It is HARD. And a lifelong change. You are taking control of your health and your life.
I've never had any luck with depression meds, they generally male things worse long term, but I'm SUPER thankful they are working for you !!!
Wishing you the best April
April, I had to comment after I heard you say that you keep failing. Everyone will agree that you are no failure, in fact you have been an inspiration to many people. I am lucky that I have never had over thirty pounds to lose but I know how hard that is for me. And I know it isn't just eating and exercising right, if it was, well girl you would be at your goal a long time ago. The body is a complication machine, and we are daily enticed with food and drink,, and it's so F ing unfair that we can't at least eat what we want without gaining weight. Anyway, I have watched your channel because I saw a strong, determined woman with the sweetest personality and cheered for her. It doesn't matter how you achieve your weight loss as long as it is healthy, and I am pulling for you.
Wishing you all the best on this next stage of life, April!
I was just thinking about your videos today, so I came to the channel and saw this one posted the same day! I am happy for you, this will help with your weight loss journey, and you will maintain your results, because you know what to do, just needed the help with your depression, and now that you have the correct tools, and continue with the proper nutrition, things will come along, you got this!
Lovely to see you April. I, like lots of folks have thought of you and hoped you were managing OK. My last move led to a complete breakdown and my worst depressive episode. 3 years later I finally feel able to move again for work. Just to say that being depressed when your world is moving in a direction against your will is completely natural. Glad to see you getting back to yourself.
So happy for you Lauren! We are all rooting for you ❤❤
Welcome back!! So happy your back and doing well!!!! My daughter, who used to watch you, had that surgery 1 years ago almost to the day. She has lost over 100 pounds and is doing very well. Good luck to you!!
I'm glad you had the support you needed to go through this. I wish you the best of luck, please continue your videos!!
You seem so anxious in this video! It’s okay! Relax! Deep breath! You’ve got this!
you are GLOWING! way to go girl. its so good to see you.
So thrilled you’re back on here!! But I’m also happy you’ve taken time to heal and be happy❤ you are such an inspiration! Thank you 😊😊
So glad for an update. One thing we know about you April, you’ve motivated us. Girl you did things that those that weigh less than you Can’t do!
April you have come so far. I’m glad you are showing up & sharing your story. So glad you did what you felt you needed to do 💛
We love you April 😊
April, Thanks for creating and posting this video. I’m always so impressed by your thoughtfulness and self-knowledge. I wish you all the best on this leg of your journey, especially in making a decision that works for you. Any time you feel like making videos, I’ll be here watching.
I have missed you so much! So happy to see you back, Thank you for coming back, looking forward to being here for your journey, sending so much love and support!!
So glad to see an update and hope you’re back!! Would still love to watch videos of your life and now weight loss surgery journey. Please keep posting videos!!
It is your journey no other persons opinion matter. Glad you are back.
MADE MY DAY TO SEE YOUR POST!! clicked right away!
I’m just so happy to see you!!
I'm happy to see you! I've been following your journey from the beginning! Take care of yourself sweetheart, know that you're loved. I wish you the best in your health journey ❤
I'm really excited for you April! Weight loss surgery has been helpful for so many people, and treating your depression has got to be a huge benefit across lots of parts of your life. Thank you for updating us. I've had you in my thoughts over the months. ❤
So happy to see you’re back and you’re okay! Girl you are so brave and such an inspiration. You have been kicking butt, but now you have more tools in your arsenal to kick even more but and stay that much more consistent.
You’ve got this and I’m praying for your well being and success ❤️
so happy to see your back!! have missed the videos and weight loss is so hard no matter how you choose to do it and you have to do what works for you!!!! Cant wait to follow your journey!!!
I’m so grateful you shared this! As someone who had weight loss surgery, I was saddened by your prior opinions on it. I know it’s not for everyone, but I do believe many are closed minded about it without enough research. I’m so glad you were able to research and get all your questions answered by your medical team. I’m also so happy you shared this for people who may share your previous mindset. Wishing you all the best and am looking forward to more videos when you want to make them ❤
April I really hope the best for you and all the weight loss but your main problem is the food you eat and how much. I have suffered with depression my whole life and when I started eating whole foods and resistance training it's sooo much better and no medication! And loss weight very easily its not hard just eat whole foods. Please know that food is the problem!!
Keep working on your mental health. Even with weight loss surgery, if you don't fix that, you will still gain it back. You're on the right track though. I'm rooting for you.
I worked on my mental health and being more emotionally balanced made me gain more weight
I'm so glad to hear from you April- I have missed you and was worried about you! I support you fully in this surgery and am looking forward to following you again as you continue on your weight loss journey.
Imagine my joy when I saw your face pop up! So happy to have you back! ❤❤❤
Ive been thinking of finally getting help with my fat loss. Im going to give myself another year to try completely naturally to change my relationship with food and my lifestyle. And if i still need help, then im getting it. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Im so glad you have such a loving and supporting husband. We are loving and supporting you from afar. Thanks for being brave enough to post. I feel less alone.
Oh April, I missed you! I am so happy to hear how you are moving forward with your weight loss journey! I wish you great success going forward.. I look forward to more frequent videos again!
When I watch this video, I see a person who is hurting. I will say a prayer for you.
So glad you’re back! Youve been an inspiration from day one and you still are. Thank you for sharing your journey no matter the ups and downs with the us. You owe us nothing but know you are appreciated and I’m cheering you on♥️
April I'm so glad you are ok!!! God bless you and I cannot wait to hear more about the surgery and journey. You got this, we got this! ❤
Omg I’m so glad you’re ok and back! Good for you! I’m so glad you got something you wanted to help. You’re gonna do great!
Welcome Back and Congratulations! 🎉 You know yourself better than anyone! I am proud of you for the hard work and dedication you have given to your own health. I too was 350+ pounds at one time in my life and want you to know YOU GOT THIS! I have been watching your videos for a long time when I was first started out. I am cheering for you and so happy you are back. Do not let anyone bring you down during your journey. If you need someone to cheer you on please reach out because I too need it some days! I look forward to watching your journey and changes over the next year. Good Luck!!!❤
Oh my goodness April! I’ve missed you so much- the video is still playing the opening ad so I haven’t seen it yet yet but I’m so overjoyed to see you! I hope you and your family are doing well. I’ve been listening to your podcast weekly and watching your vids when I can ever since I gave birth last November. You and your content has gotten me thru some tough times for so long, I’m so grateful to you.
Okay I’ll stop talkin and get into the video. Sending so much love to you! 💛
Have checked for your videos so often in the last few months! So glad to see you back and doing well!!
I'm so happy to see your smiling face today!! Thank you for sharing with us ! I hope you know you are not alone, and we will continue to pray for you ❤️ Can't wait to see more videos and your new path! Glad you came back !!!
SO HAPPY to see you are back online! please continue these videos... have missed you!
So glad to see you back! And good for you for getting help in treating your mental health first! I had WLS (bypass) over a year ago and working with a therapist for years before during and after has been so critical to success. I wish you all the success in your journey! WLS is a fantastic tool
I’m so happy you’re back. I had WLS in 2021. I’m so happy to see you and can’t wait to watch you shine.
SO glad to see you back. Been missing your honesty and vulnerability. Gettin your mental health on track is so hard and takes time. I had post partum depression and it took years for me to get back on track and find what worked for me. Give yourself grace during this experience
Oh April! I'm so very happy to see you! I have missed you so very much! So happy that you are doing whatever is the very best thing for you! You will shine no matter what! So proud of you!!
April, thank you so much for sharing this part of your journey with us! Your videos have always been such an encouragement to me, and I am thankful for your positivity and inspiration! You have definitely been missed! 💕
HI APRIL!!!!! So happy to see you again, and happy that you are doing well. You are so inspiring and I am amazed by you every day. I totally hear you, and understand where you are coming from. If it means anything, you have my support no matter what!!!
I have been waiting for you!!! You were missed!! I am so proud of you for making the decisions to help you heal, mentally and physically. YOU GO GIRL!!!
I have been so worried about you. So happy I saw you come up on my feed! Hope you are well so so so good to see your sweet smile.
April we love you so much, it’s so nice to have your spirit on my phone screen again💙 I am praying for a speedy recovery and peace in your transition. I suffer from depression as well, so I know that empty space- know that you have built an army of people rooting for you and cheering you on!!! I will grab my scepter and march with you anywhere!!!!! #TeamWakeUpBright
I am SOO glad you’re back, I’m a new subscriber so I’ve been watching older videos but I’m so happy to see you’re recording again!!
I saw you at a restaurant in Hawaii and I wanted so badly to say hi, but I wasn’t sure if that would’ve felt like an invasion of privacy. I think I might have stared a little too hard. If I could’ve said something in that moment, it would have just been that I love you and you’re amazing! I fell in love with your RUclips channel because of the essence of ~you~. You are an incredible person. We are here for ~you~. We support you in your journey. Every part of it.
OH my goodness, I would have loved for you to say hi! Do you live here or were you just visiting? What restaurant? I've only met a couple people over the years, but it always feels like I am catching up or talking story with a friend! Sending lots of love!
So happy you're back and are looking after yourself and healing, you deserve it and we’re here for you. I gained a lot after my Dad died in October but over the last 8 weeks I've been on track and motivated again and lost 34lb. You've got this x