This is an very interesting aspect to me. I have a lot of 7th and 5th house placements, I think about love and relationships a lot, daydreaming and making up scenarios in my head. This aspect feels so unfair to me because love is such a big theme in my life and at the same time I always wondered why it's so hard to be open to love
Your message resonates 😅 I have Moon Opposition Saturn Moon Opposition Uranus Venus Opposition Saturn Venus Opposition Uranus Venus Opposition Neptune So many lessons to learn about relationships. It’s not been easy. Can anyone relate.
Thank you Maneesha, with this aspect there is a real opportunity to find a beautiful and very meaningful relationship, just have to overcome the inner distance created probably in childhood 🙏
You are stunning! I'm glad you over came it...I love your hair...reminds me of Storm from The comic book X-Men 😊🌀🌀 I have it in cancer/cap haha i wish my parents got divorced 🤣
Thank you for the compliment about my hair 😂 yap, I know what you mean about your parents… anyway, it’s your journey now and you will heal this 🙏 and will grow wiser and more integrate
Thank You for being so clear. But what i don't know is how to overcome the effect. I mean, i know that if i realize which is My pattern this helps me to change, but in fact i don't know what i have to do in a relationship, must i be opened? I dont have to put any distance? When you explain this it seems Easy to understand, but Is difficult to me to get in practice.
I think that the first step is realization. Realizing what it is that you would like to have/be/feel/receive. Then you can ask yourself- what do i need in order to feel ....loved/accepted/open/ ......and see how you answer. Maybe you'll say - I need to be more open, more hones, allow more intimacy, allowing more vulnerability, so you will get an idea of what is the area that you need to work on. Then you can either read more about it, get some help to process it, watch videos about it...I hope that helps.
I noticed though that other people who do not have this aspect but are insecure about themselves (self esteem issues etc) still do not experience the same “hardships” in love. So I am not sure whether the advice “learning to love yourself” is specific enough. I mean does it now apply to everybody?
It really is the only way to see a better reflection of love in your relationships. I know it sounds generic and it can imply to everyone, but especially for those with a hard aspect it can be a game changer. I know that it was true, and still is, for me, that the deeper i allow myself to love and accept myself, the better my relationships are!
@@astrologydome interesting… I did not see that it made the same difference in the relationships for me. What it did change though is that I was able to notice signs in some of my partners that they needed to love themselves more. So kind of the reverse. Not sure if I make sense? For example, I realised I did attract a few ppl that would self sabotage. It took me some time but then overtime I realise that they would “self sabotage” because they needed to love themselves before they could love me in a “healthy” way. It just made me more understanding of others essentially.
@@geminimademoiselle3261 Makes sense I have similar sometimes and there may be truth in that about the other, or you might be projecting your own judgement of yourself onto them? How can you be sure you have built your own self worth enough to not apply this judgement to yourself?
sometimes when we know we really need to learn something ourselves it is easier to put this onto others and say 'they need to do this!' than actually do the work to improve something in ourselves. I catch myself doing this too we all do it so it's very normal.
I have saturn opposite Venus AND saturn in the 7th house and saturn opposite my rising sign. I just thought i was awkward because of my autism, ha. Saturn seems like it REALLY wants to make my life a living hell because all i really want is positive healthy connections and love. And i really want to express myself well. But what i got is isolation, a load of rejection, and difficulty forming connections because of autism . I still have hope though..
With Saturn in the 7th house you may attract the right partner later than sooner. I know many people with this position that may have struggled with finding the right partner, but when they did, it is a true and beautiful relationship and a good fit! Keep being hopeful, if you want something, it will happen. And of course, work on becoming better in relating.
My husband has this .. this is our second marriage as him and I were married before in synastry my saturn is opposite his venus and his venus sextiles my saturn our relationship feels unreal it gives me so much Anxiety I never experienced love so satisfying .. I didn’t much believe in love before him bc I had a controlling marriage before it feels like he is created for me I feel so self conscience about being perfect for him and before him I was I guess more of a heartbreaker type bc I never really cared for commitment but attract people serious about commitment . I love him so much and I feel he loves me the real me . I’m a Virgo sun scoprio moon libra rising venus in leo my mars squares venus and my moon conjuncts uranus I’ve done much work before even meeting him . His ex that cheated on him in their marriage over and over I was surprised I mean she was a cheater seemingly ugly on the inside and I would say the same on the outside only bc I thought cheaters were drop dead gorg ignorant ugly thinking I know just saying that bc he aimed pretty low and still done horribly wrong .
@@blakeunderwood1075I left him and it’s been a week of are final ending .. he ended up going to jail for a few days because I kept my place for a year after our marriage and moved in after 6 weeks his insecurities took over and his range and anger showed I loved right back out .. I also cheated a few times emotionally . I’m healing and changing now . So it has overall Ben an awful Experience and I see him as a piece of crap now
@@divyaamohan3743 I highly suggest finding a good therapist. I find that this is a deep pattern that would be best to explore and heal with a professional - it would be the quietest and most beneficial way to heal from it and find the love that you want.
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This is an very interesting aspect to me. I have a lot of 7th and 5th house placements, I think about love and relationships a lot, daydreaming and making up scenarios in my head.
This aspect feels so unfair to me because love is such a big theme in my life and at the same time I always wondered why it's so hard to be open to love
Your message resonates 😅
I have Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Opposition Uranus
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus Opposition Uranus
Venus Opposition Neptune
So many lessons to learn about relationships. It’s not been easy. Can anyone relate.
Great video! I have this aspect natally (Saturn in Aquarius and Venus in Leo) and also transit right now.
Thanks for sharing!!
Thank you Maneesha, with this aspect there is a real opportunity to find a beautiful and very meaningful relationship, just have to overcome the inner distance created probably in childhood 🙏
I have transiting Saturn opposing my natal Venus throughout 2021 (retrograde - three passings) and this video helped a lot. Thank you 🙏
I am so glad that this helped you! Thanks for your feedback.
This was amazing thank you !!
Thank you so much!
You are gorgeous. Love you so much and thank you so much 😘♥️
Thank you Hadis, hope this video helped you understand more about Saturn and Venus relationships.
Beautiful video ❤️ thank you
Thank you!
Thank you so much 🙏♥️🙏
Glad you liked it
You are stunning! I'm glad you over came it...I love your hair...reminds me of Storm from The comic book X-Men 😊🌀🌀 I have it in cancer/cap haha i wish my parents got divorced 🤣
Thank you for the compliment about my hair 😂 yap, I know what you mean about your parents… anyway, it’s your journey now and you will heal this 🙏 and will grow wiser and more integrate
What if my Saturn is retrograde?
Thank You for being so clear. But what i don't know is how to overcome the effect. I mean, i know that if i realize which is My pattern this helps me to change, but in fact i don't know what i have to do in a relationship, must i be opened? I dont have to put any distance? When you explain this it seems Easy to understand, but Is difficult to me to get in practice.
I think that the first step is realization. Realizing what it is that you would like to have/be/feel/receive. Then you can ask yourself- what do i need in order to feel ....loved/accepted/open/ ......and see how you answer. Maybe you'll say - I need to be more open, more hones, allow more intimacy, allowing more vulnerability, so you will get an idea of what is the area that you need to work on. Then you can either read more about it, get some help to process it, watch videos about it...I hope that helps.
I noticed though that other people who do not have this aspect but are insecure about themselves (self esteem issues etc) still do not experience the same “hardships” in love. So I am not sure whether the advice “learning to love yourself” is specific enough. I mean does it now apply to everybody?
It really is the only way to see a better reflection of love in your relationships. I know it sounds generic and it can imply to everyone, but especially for those with a hard aspect it can be a game changer. I know that it was true, and still is, for me, that the deeper i allow myself to love and accept myself, the better my relationships are!
@@astrologydome interesting… I did not see that it made the same difference in the relationships for me. What it did change though is that I was able to notice signs in some of my partners that they needed to love themselves more. So kind of the reverse. Not sure if I make sense? For example, I realised I did attract a few ppl that would self sabotage. It took me some time but then overtime I realise that they would “self sabotage” because they needed to love themselves before they could love me in a “healthy” way.
It just made me more understanding of others essentially.
@@geminimademoiselle3261 Makes sense I have similar sometimes and there may be truth in that about the other, or you might be projecting your own judgement of yourself onto them?
How can you be sure you have built your own self worth enough to not apply this judgement to yourself?
sometimes when we know we really need to learn something ourselves it is easier to put this onto others and say 'they need to do this!' than actually do the work to improve something in ourselves. I catch myself doing this too we all do it so it's very normal.
@@sophiecomo I am not sure you understood my point…
4th house saturn 21 sag , venus 7 gemini (conjunct midheaven / sextile uranus in Leo for fun)
Probably you had a feeling of taking responsibility at an early age, but it would need to be related to the rest of the chart.
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I have saturn opposite Venus AND saturn in the 7th house and saturn opposite my rising sign. I just thought i was awkward because of my autism, ha. Saturn seems like it REALLY wants to make my life a living hell because all i really want is positive healthy connections and love. And i really want to express myself well. But what i got is isolation, a load of rejection, and difficulty forming connections because of autism . I still have hope though..
With Saturn in the 7th house you may attract the right partner later than sooner. I know many people with this position that may have struggled with finding the right partner, but when they did, it is a true and beautiful relationship and a good fit! Keep being hopeful, if you want something, it will happen. And of course, work on becoming better in relating.
I've got it
My husband has this .. this is our second marriage as him and I were married before in synastry my saturn is opposite his venus and his venus sextiles my saturn our relationship feels unreal it gives me so much Anxiety I never experienced love so satisfying .. I didn’t much believe in love before him bc I had a controlling marriage before it feels like he is created for me I feel so self conscience about being perfect for him and before him I was I guess more of a heartbreaker type bc I never really cared for commitment but attract people serious about commitment . I love him so much and I feel he loves me the real me .
I’m a Virgo sun scoprio moon libra rising venus in leo my mars squares venus and my moon conjuncts uranus I’ve done much work before even meeting him .
His ex that cheated on him in their marriage over and over I was surprised I mean she was a cheater seemingly ugly on the inside and I would say the same on the outside only bc I thought cheaters were drop dead gorg ignorant ugly thinking I know just saying that bc he aimed pretty low and still done horribly wrong .
How’s it going?
@@blakeunderwood1075I left him and it’s been a week of are final ending .. he ended up going to jail for a few days because I kept my place for a year after our marriage and moved in after 6 weeks his insecurities took over and his range and anger showed I loved right back out .. I also cheated a few times emotionally . I’m healing and changing now .
So it has overall Ben an awful
Experience and I see him as a piece of crap now
Saturn Leo opposite Aquarius Venus
Ha, I have Venus in Leo opposite Saturn in Aquarius.... I hear you....
@@astrologydomeeven I have the same 😭😭I’m 28 and still struggling
@@divyaamohan3743 Don't loose hope, just keep on re-programming your inner self talk towards a more positive one and you will see results!
@@astrologydome can you please suggest how to handle these situations like rejection and craving for permanent love
@@divyaamohan3743 I highly suggest finding a good therapist. I find that this is a deep pattern that would be best to explore and heal with a professional - it would be the quietest and most beneficial way to heal from it and find the love that you want.
Off topic but you look good lol
I was abused emotionally and sexually iny childhood