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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- This is a Heart To Heart Conversation Between Me and You. You say you want to find your person and you want to experience love. I want that for you. But I’ve been watching and there is something you need to know.
Today there are no bells and whistles; no descriptive headlines or humorous pictures on the right side of the screen. This one is just me and you, and I hope you will not only listen but hear the message, It will be good for you. I really hope so.🤎
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This is by far your most significant video. Too many people expect instant gratification and perfection in others but don't recognize their own flaws. I've seen lots of connections go nowhere because of this attitude. The fairy tale romance is just that..a fairy tale. Your dates are not perfect and neither are you. Would you give your twin self a chance knowing how imperfect you are??? Of course you will overlook your imperfections but not those of others.
@@bencalloway3908 and often people don’t and won’t overlook their own imperfections.
I won't live in a world without love, as Peter and Gordon once sang. Don't cheat yourself. There are nice people out there.
If that’s what you want. Some people are perfectly helpful and prefer without.
Brilliant analysis of where those lists come from.
And where they should go. ;)
I learned my lesson the hard way. "Love" is until someone better comes along. I SWORE: No one will ever be able to do me dirty again. Been true to my pledge for over 50 years 👍😁
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I've been a widower since 2010. My wife and I had only 2 years together before a very aggressive form of cancer stole her away from me. The first year without my darling-of-darlings was brutal. However, what doesn't kill you only serves to make you strong. For another matter, with me, there's always a joker in the deck which I never knew about. I'll never fight another guy over a gal - only if she was in peril. Over the years, I've kept busy volunteering, caring for other family members, playing 1960s music in a band with some trusted pals, and attempting to write the quintessential American novel of the 21st century. Put God first, others second and self in last place. I know I'll see you in Glory and that means "Forever." Barb (RIP). Ciao. 🙏✝🎸✏
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@@CoffeewithCarey Many thanks. ☕🫖
Loved this one, Carey! Straight from the heart and to the heart!!! This one is well worth listening to twice - or even 3 or 4 times, because I caught myself alternating between nodding and wanting to say "But Carey,..." and then nodding again when another nugget dropped while I was still "But Carey-ing" in my mind.
Of course we are all flawed. Men and women alike - each on different sides or opposite sides of the equation. When we can balance out the sums of the total - it can maybe - just maybe actually work. Now off to find someone to do the math with! Wishing you all a wonderful weekend.
PS.: No chess lessons today, I am going dancing tonight - for the first time in a gazilllion years! I'm not sure that I still can, LOL - but I've been practicing swaying + sashaying my hips all week long [no twerking though!]. If you guys never hear back from me, I either had a heart attack on the dance floor, dislocated my hip, or got myself abducted and ran away with an alien... Have fun ya'll ♥
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Sometime it takes a while to get to know someone. Usually who you end up with is someone you would never think of. 😊
I knoooow! 😳
Regarding a list of qualities and attributes, be flexible and find flexibility where it allows.
Items not to compromise on:
A common vision for a future together.
Kindness
Respect
Thoughtfulness
Not a quitter
Laugh, good sense of humor
Doesn’t expect perfection
Desire sex with each other
Prioritizes you 🎉
If all of the above, do not need a 10th!
Excellent video, Carey! You always make really good points regarding dating advice. I am so glad I found your channel.
Glad you are enjoying the conversations here. 🤎
The timing of this is interesting because I was thinking about said "list' the other day. I turned 50 this summer and wrote the list in college. I've mostly forgotten about it, but of course it's still somewhere in my subconscious. For some reason it popped into my head as I was falling asleep and the thought I had was, "I think your list describes yourself." hmmmm. Thank you for sharing your heart and wisdom.
So sweet.
That list of yours is in your bones. Glad I reminded you to take another look at it to see what will work and what does not represent who you are now. 🤎
One of the best video i have ever watch in my life❤😊
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You are my favorite RUclipsr now:) I am ready to start dating again and as we say in France I am “drinking your words”
Very very helpful!!! Thank you a lot for your work🙏❤️
Thank you. 🙏
I’m glad my words resonate with you all the way in France! ;-)
Great video.. Love the 9 items on that list.
Thank you. Me too.
❤ #10
Thanks Carrie for always being real with us.
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One of your best episodes yet, thank you. Especially the top nine at the end!
@@sethtenrec I feel like it was too. Thank you for recognizing that I put my heart into this one.
I can't wave a magic wand to help someone, but, I regularly got lots of offers for first dates and all went to offers for second dates ..... Firstly, I didn't have a list ..... Secondly, I went on dates to have fun and not to interview ..... Thirdly, I ensured that my weight was low, my attire was feminine, and my hair/makeup was simple and clean ..... Fourth, I let them do the running and date organization.
Thanks for sharing what has worked for you, Alexandra! 🤎
Been having difficulty 10 years now. Probably a bit of knowledge lacking. Never known hurt like being cheated on from your wife. So needing to know is desperation to understand. Now it is a house with me in it. It is lonelier than that, it seems. Im pre-this video. No ideas
The marriage ended 10 years ago?
Excellent video. I keep my mind and heart open. Was having great phone conversations with a man from match; we were going to meet but then the hurricane happened and things got postponed. Then.........he ghosted me. I've been wracking my brain to find out why or what did I do but came up empty. Stings and I've got to move on as I saw the potential with him. I'm very accepting of who a man is that I may be interested in...and have in the past allowed a few "deal breakers"........no one is perfect and that includes myself. But even though I'd want to have a mate to couple up with, I'm also very content being alone.
So just to be clear all of this message is about one guy who you never met? You never even had one date with him, right? I think maybe I’m confused by the term ghosting which I would not use for somebody I’ve never met in person.
@@CoffeewithCarey Well there was consistent phone calls and texting almost every day until it just stopped so yes, I'd define that as ghosting where it all stopped never to be heard from again.
@@PossumLover1111 this is one of the main reasons that we don’t commute with people in between making plans with them and the actual date.
The only texting or calling should be sharing specifics on when and where you will be meeting in person, and confirming that you are still “on” before heading out to meet them.
@@CoffeewithCarey Yes, I hear you. We both were dealing with the fallout of the hurricane here in Houston and had to deal with all that and never made plans to meet again. Oh well, live and learn and move on. It hasn't crushed my hope of still finding someone eventually.
@@PossumLover1111 you’ve got more grit than that! I’m sure it was good company but pinning your hopes on a person you’ve never met is definitely not your style! 🤎
Fantastic real world practical advice. Thank you.
🤎you’re welcome. 🙏
Carey I'm sharing your videos to my college friends also❤
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Love this! You are truly helping so many.
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I think the biggest deal breaker for me is religion. Carrie, what are you thoughts on a potential couple not see I eye to eye on religion?
I always make sure, as a matchmaker, that I am aligning clients’ values. So that would include religion for some people. 👍
Hey Tom, “eye to eye” is a bit narrow isn’t it?
It is a big deal when religion [or the lack of it] is a big part of your daily life, and especially if it's who you essentially identify yourself as and all your other actions & interactions, friends, work, etc are entwined around your religion and religious beliefs. I think it can be overcome and compromised if you are parts or subsets of the same religious branch [i.e. Christian], but once you include fundamentally different religions and include atheist or agnostic into the mix, it's pretty much a no-go zone.
I'm dealing with this myself right now, and I know there is simply no meeting in the middle as a compromise. We have basically friend-zoned each other for that reason - most other things are very well aligned but this one thing, and I simply can't go where he is at and not loose myself in the process, and I refuse to pretend to be someone I am not.
@@ssiegreen5292 wow, to me religion is a non-event. I really don’t care unless you’re an extremist, whether that’s Christian, or atheist, just don’t be extreme about it and I’m fine.
@@sethtenrec I totally agree with you on this one. It's him - not me. He's a deacon in his church, does a lot of work for his church, and needs/wants someone who is also as much into it as he is and who will support him in his advancement [or whatever]. My belief system is very different, and while I am tolerant towards what you believe in, I am not about to be converted and conscripted into service, to make you happy.
You want to do church on Sunday mornings instead of having an amazing morning in bed with me? Fine - go! No problem. Just don't expect me to go as well. I'm going to have leftover pizza for breakfast and jugs of coffee, and read a book or get some work done, while you listen to sermons and praise the lord.
You want to be buried in a cemetery, with a grave stone and a service? Fine! No problem. I want to be cremated, have them play jazz at the viewing and when you're ready to let me go, take a trip into the mountains on a windy day - and let my ashes go.
I am the most laid back person when it comes to religion, as long as it doesn't discriminate between the sexes or subjugates women into lesser people AND you don't try to get me to convert into what you believe or how you feel I should feel, believe or behave. And by the way - that has nothing to do with moral values, not at all. I wish I could find a man with good moral values + honor + integrity, without it also being tied to religion.
Great, as usual. I hope you're okay. I sensed a "disturbance in the force " about midway, just before you excused yourself. 🫂
Yeah, I feel for all my friends out there who want to find their person and have love… but keep getting in their own way. 🙃
That's definitely me. I've been married twice. Thanks for sharing your passion@@CoffeewithCarey