My family adopted a girl child some years back. She came certified deaf at 4 months old. But when she came to us her grand ma and everyone interacted with her and talked to her all the time. My brother got all medical tests redone and no issues were found with her hearing. Now she talks all day like a little parrot , very smart and very active. The whole house is wrapped around her little fingers. Turned out in the orphanage they don’t interact at all with babies and because she didn’t respond much to them they certified the baby as deaf !!!!!
In a joint family this is a very common situation where mother in laws always want their daughter in laws to be always busy with house cores rather than wasting their time with baby. Sad but true ☹
similiary, happened with my sis, she started speaking at age of 5 year because she was born black and not beautiful...my mom said that-"no one played , talked and expanded time with her😞"....now, i understand it's meaning🤔.
I hold hands and beg everyone to follow what is told in video and take good care of child. If you don't spend time with your child till 2 years then u would end up spending rest of your time and child's time in therapy centers, child development clinics and so on..
I love and wholeheartedly support this ad..... No matter how 'forward' thinking we feel we are...but all MIL's are about doing household chores, having strict discipline and a strict routine.... Nobody cares if we are giving enough time to our kids or not. In this way, I am glad my MIL is not living with me..so I have full freedom to manage chores however I want to while giving lots of time to my baby girl ❤️
The first two minutes each day immediately after waking, coming back from school and before sleeping- are very crucial for emotional well-being of a child 👶🏻
🤯🤯🤯 seriously I’ve never thought about it like this but it makes perfect sense!!!! Thank you so much for sharing. I taught along side a teacher who would screech, yell, and drop things on the floor to make loud noise just to wake the kids up from nap time. She didn’t wanna walk around and gently tap the children, or to gradually increase her movements and noise level while moving around the room. 😔 I always thought that was sooo disrespectful. Also my mom would yell throughout the house to wake us kids up. I started waking up in a panic, heart racing. I resented her for that. I thought I was being too sensitive when I would desired a softer approach. But truly it’s absolutely horrible to be woken up day after day with stress, coldness, and urgency. I most certainly know it took a toll on our relationship and my mental health. Little does she know that she was promoting horrible sleep practices. We wouldn’t eat dinner til 9pm or later and was expected to go to sleep right after. Not to mention how the childhood depression made feeling well rested and energized difficult. I wish more people knew about and respected these simple little 2 minute and how it can truly help to build a beautiful relationship centered around respect.
I’d also like to add that by incorporating these intentional 2 minutes into a child’s day (3x). They will have accumulated 73 HOURS of healthy relationship building time in just 2 years! 🤯🤯🤯
My mom also practiced the “cry it out”method for bed time. And from a very early age we were with nannies, babysitters or went to daycare after school. Spent many long evenings after school away from home until I was old enough to be a latch-key kid. Which meant late dinners right before bed 😔 it also meant that my mother was “too tired” for the 2 minutes B4 bed. But her long nights were worth sacrificing family time… She was able to afford a Lexus and a Cadillac and to struggle to seemingly keep up with her white counterparts in THEIR neighborhood that we moved into. Fun Times 😑
Ye information milte hi husband ki thakavat door ho gyi aur wife ka kam aadha ho gaya. This is a very useful piece of information but who does not want to spend time with their children ( except few). There should be proper holidays and work timings. People are literally working for 12 hours a day for a small salary. Something should be done about that.
My mom always says never leave him alone, talk to him, play with him, sing for him...but when I get back to my husband's house I can't spend time with him, bcus of jobs of a wife, daughter in law, sister in law....😔 Now I decided never ever gonna leave him alone.
The importance of first 1000 days and responsibilities of of the parents for the overall growth and development of the child are highlighted in this video. Thanks to the MOHFW, GOI for producing such a nice video. We should share it with maximum number of parents . Everybody should view it particularly the parents of children less than 2 years age and would be parents.
I remember the childhood of my poor sister in law. She was born in a joint family as a first child. But no one talked or cuddled her because she is a girl. Her mom(my mother in law) couldn't care her because of the heavy household chores. Fortunately she didn't get affected by this. No baby should go through it 😢😢😢
TEARS WHELLED OUT... SEEING THIS CLIPPING.... GREAT JOB... SENDING MESSAGES TO PARENTS LIKE THIS COZ IN OUR INDIAN SOCIETY GIVES IMPORTANTS TO GIVING BIRTH TO A CHILD BASICALLY TO PROVE A MAN HIS MANHOOD & WOMEN SAVING HER FACE UNDER PRESSURE.... BUT I FELT TEARS FOR THE INNOCENT BABIES .... SO HELPLESS EVEN WITH FAMILY AROUND....OTHER COUNTRIES TAT WAY ARE SO MATURED TO TAKE CARE OF LITTLE ONES WITH EXTREME CARE & LOVE.... !!!!
This is from this message I got the knowledge that first 1000days of a kid are very important. But it is too late I have 3 kids above 3 years...they are all silent and shy type..now I think that it may be because of my carelessness. As in this film, me too was busy with householdchores and their papa never interested in playing with kids! I feel guilty now😓
No dear ,you dont have to feel guilty .A child is like a sponge upto 7 years.you can edit them correct them ,boost them and give them support an they will have a good foundation. After age 7 it will be difficult .
I can understand what you are saying, many husbands don't give priority to their children neither they are interested in helping wife for household chores or hire maid, it's very difficult for a woman to take care of everything at once..these things have very deep impact in child psychology..I believe parents should bring children only if they have proper understanding amongst themselves and ready to invest time
Truth., In real-time we used to see so many kids who are struggling to speak. It's everyone responsibility in the family. If you see a child, just speak & play with her/him. Do support. Let's spread for goodness❤️
I'm proud tht my husband didn't allow me to go to work after having our baby We r soooooo proud that we gave her the best pet of her life in a best way ever N she is 2.3 now n she is a very naughty n happy baby
So, this is one of the perks of living in a big family with Aunts and Uncle and grandma and grandpa and all those. They keep the child busy and with more people in house the child is well taken care of. I am not against neutral family. I grew up in one. But I believe a big family is better when a small baby is involved.
Its very imp for parents to hv a gud bond wid kids,so make sm time to b wid ur child,I knw house chores wil never finish,bt make sm time for ur baby nd u wil cherish those memories forever,gud luck to u
Forget the chores, its OK if some things are not done everyday. Spending time with your baby is more important than cleaning the house. Don't worry about what other people say, so what your heart tell you
Ekdum meri sister ke jaise. Meri sister ki beti abhi sirf 18 months ki hai. Aur meri sister ne usse Ato Z .English No. Hindi No. Yaha tak Nursery rhymes and Hindi ke vyanjan bhi shika diya hai 1 to 30 in English or Hindi Dono aate hai usko. Aur Ab uske aage bhi sheekh rahi hai. Jabki vo premature born hui thi .
I wish your boy to be healthy and successful 😊 through his life... Best of luck to him and your family and try to make your husband understand the importance of being with his son❤️🙏
I really appreciate this But the real truth in every family is when a new member comes to the house the competition between everyone to come closer to the baby is like competition to get the CM chair in Indian states😌
I watched this with tears rolling down...I was so sad when my son was born that I am not getting enough time to interact with him and my husband also refuses to hold the baby...
Humare jese ghareeb mulko mai to log apni hawas puri krne ke chakr mai bache paida krte hain ,bacho ke future ki ghanta koi planing ki hoti hai in logo ne
Why is no one talking about the in-proportionate amount of work the daughter in law is being subjected to? Why is the Indian health ministry propagating this idea!?
I came down to comment section just to see if someone has brought up this point. I'm happy to find your comment. Also, the sister-in-law (amrita in this video) herself could have helped the mother in household chores. Instead she plays with the child & let's mother handle all chores. Later she is explaining that parents should spend time with children. How can a mother spend time with children when no one in the house is helping her finish her work?
@@shaziyamuzaffar5437 Its because she has come home for short stay. After she leaves then who will help. And generally such families wont let their daughter work in first place. I just think they were trying to depict typical Indian families. Lets start with one step at a time and hopefully these things will change.
Clearly they are 'NOT' promoting this ideal at all.. that's what the whole ad is about .. to not burden the new mother and make sure she has enough time to spend with her baby
What a beautiful message ...but some people are like the ones of videos...my sister's in laws n husband are too selfish even to talk to my niece ...so first 2 years most of time my di came to our home .. though we were in jobs n College ...we all interacted with the baby n she would be too happy and even use to tell her grandmother that she will go to her masi home ...😌I wonder how her grandparents who are retired and wate ample time watching tv ..etc...do not do a single conversation with her nor her father .....her mother tries but has no time in household work.this is so useful to prove it that we are not to blamed to make our niece talkative n extrovert..🥺
we parents as well other family needs to interact with the child then they can have physical and mental development but nowadays everyone is soo busy thay just put there child in playgroup and shows Mobile putting all there responsibility on others by paying fees
My family adopted a girl child some years back. She came certified deaf at 4 months old. But when she came to us her grand ma and everyone interacted with her and talked to her all the time. My brother got all medical tests redone and no issues were found with her hearing. Now she talks all day like a little parrot , very smart and very active. The whole house is wrapped around her little fingers. Turned out in the orphanage they don’t interact at all with babies and because she didn’t respond much to them they certified the baby as deaf !!!!!
Im happy she found a good family. And its actually sad that this happens in Orphanages
😱 omg
Idk why but your comment made me so happy !!!
I am looking to adopt as well. Can you please guide me with the procedure ?
Respect🙏
If only adults understood a lesson in 4.46 minutes.
Their arrogance and ego gets in the way.
Beautiful message!!
Real truth of indian family....being pediatrician......i appreciate this short film
Being short.... I appreciate this pediatrician
Being....
I appreciate yourself
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@@narendrachauhan9306 ye kya farishto ke bhasa bol rhe ho yaar?
Remembering doordharsan adds,they had quality message to public welfare,now a days 😭😭😭
Thats why people who used to watch doordarshan were more aware and responsible citizen than today's generation
Today's parents :give this kid a mobile phone 📱.
Absolutely
And will complain when the kid treats them like an app.
@@dishaa683 😂😂 exactly.
Parents should give football instead of mobile
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
In a joint family this is a very common situation where mother in laws always want their daughter in laws to be always busy with house cores rather than wasting their time with baby. Sad but true ☹
A very important message is depicted in this video! A must watch and a must share one
So glad that my parents did this with me and i did it with my son although we didn’t know how helpful it was🙏🏼
similiary, happened with my sis, she started speaking at age of 5 year because she was born black and not beautiful...my mom said that-"no one played , talked and expanded time with her😞"....now, i understand it's meaning🤔.
So sad to hear this 🙃
Who said black isn't beautiful?Whoever says black isn't beautiful ask them look at the mesmerizing night sky
Lovely short film. Truth of every Indian house. Every one wants a child from their bahu but no one wants to spend time with the child.
I hold hands and beg everyone to follow what is told in video and take good care of child. If you don't spend time with your child till 2 years then u would end up spending rest of your time and child's time in therapy centers, child development clinics and so on..
I love and wholeheartedly support this ad..... No matter how 'forward' thinking we feel we are...but all MIL's are about doing household chores, having strict discipline and a strict routine.... Nobody cares if we are giving enough time to our kids or not. In this way, I am glad my MIL is not living with me..so I have full freedom to manage chores however I want to while giving lots of time to my baby girl ❤️
What a tight slap to the society
The first two minutes each day immediately after waking, coming back from school and before sleeping- are very crucial for emotional well-being of a child 👶🏻
🤯🤯🤯 seriously I’ve never thought about it like this but it makes perfect sense!!!! Thank you so much for sharing.
I taught along side a teacher who would screech, yell, and drop things on the floor to make loud noise just to wake the kids up from nap time.
She didn’t wanna walk around and gently tap the children, or to gradually increase her movements and noise level while moving around the room. 😔 I always thought that was sooo disrespectful.
Also my mom would yell throughout the house to wake us kids up. I started waking up in a panic, heart racing. I resented her for that. I thought I was being too sensitive when I would desired a softer approach.
But truly it’s absolutely horrible to be woken up day after day with stress, coldness, and urgency.
I most certainly know it took a toll on our relationship and my mental health.
Little does she know that she was promoting horrible sleep practices. We wouldn’t eat dinner til 9pm or later and was expected to go to sleep right after. Not to mention how the childhood depression made feeling well rested and energized difficult.
I wish more people knew about and respected these simple little 2 minute and how it can truly help to build a beautiful relationship centered around respect.
I’d also like to add that by incorporating these intentional 2 minutes into a child’s day (3x). They will have accumulated 73 HOURS of healthy relationship building time in just 2 years! 🤯🤯🤯
My mom also practiced the “cry it out”method for bed time. And from a very early age we were with nannies, babysitters or went to daycare after school.
Spent many long evenings after school away from home until I was old enough to be a latch-key kid. Which meant late dinners right before bed 😔 it also meant that my mother was “too tired” for the 2 minutes B4 bed.
But her long nights were worth sacrificing family time… She was able to afford a Lexus and a Cadillac and to struggle to seemingly keep up with her white counterparts in THEIR neighborhood that we moved into. Fun Times 😑
Glad that you appreciated those early bonding times😊
Always interact with the newborn baby. It boost his/her intellect.
It's never too late for good starting
Are you dumb , baas do saal tak hota hai physical and mental development
Ye information milte hi husband ki thakavat door ho gyi aur wife ka kam aadha ho gaya. This is a very useful piece of information but who does not want to spend time with their children ( except few). There should be proper holidays and work timings. People are literally working for 12 hours a day for a small salary. Something should be done about that.
Glad to see Amrita Rao back in a movie. lovely actress
I wonder how can one resist playing, spending time with and holding a baby . I would rather hold the baby whole day and play with him or her 😍😍
@@drbh6331 I am sure you are a male!!!
@@poulamimitra9467 the fact that this person has "Dr" in front of their names... is saddening.
@@akshi.b I am not sure though if it’s real!!!
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maa bap ka bacho ko tym.dena or baten.krna or khelna bachy k bht zrori ha aj hm ph dety ha, khelono k ahmitat h ni rai km.zrori ha ... great lession
It's true.....try to spend more time with your baby you will notice the change when they are with other kids....
My mom always says never leave him alone, talk to him, play with him, sing for him...but when I get back to my husband's house I can't spend time with him, bcus of jobs of a wife, daughter in law, sister in law....😔
Now I decided never ever gonna leave him alone.
The importance of first 1000 days and responsibilities of of the parents for the overall growth and development of the child are highlighted in this video. Thanks to the MOHFW, GOI for producing such a nice video. We should share it with maximum number of parents . Everybody should view it particularly the parents of children less than 2 years age and would be parents.
The initiative is great but govt should also focus on making these reach the maximum people.
It's very educational and neatly made video .
nice to see Amrita Rao after many years
Good actress.
I remember the childhood of my poor sister in law. She was born in a joint family as a first child. But no one talked or cuddled her because she is a girl. Her mom(my mother in law) couldn't care her because of the heavy household chores. Fortunately she didn't get affected by this. No baby should go through it 😢😢😢
TEARS WHELLED OUT... SEEING THIS CLIPPING.... GREAT JOB... SENDING MESSAGES TO PARENTS LIKE THIS COZ IN OUR INDIAN SOCIETY GIVES IMPORTANTS TO GIVING BIRTH TO A CHILD BASICALLY TO PROVE A MAN HIS MANHOOD & WOMEN SAVING HER FACE UNDER PRESSURE.... BUT I FELT TEARS FOR THE INNOCENT BABIES .... SO HELPLESS EVEN WITH FAMILY AROUND....OTHER COUNTRIES TAT WAY ARE SO MATURED TO TAKE CARE OF LITTLE ONES WITH EXTREME CARE & LOVE.... !!!!
Ppl are taking their child for granted & slowly destroying their childhood !
I didn’t know about this. Thank you
Beautiful film...spreading awareness....so true...its needed so much for an infant...a warm cozy interactive welcome in the fmly
Good one..It should be followed by every parents of new born baby
This is from this message I got the knowledge that first 1000days of a kid are very important. But it is too late I have 3 kids above 3 years...they are all silent and shy type..now I think that it may be because of my carelessness. As in this film, me too was busy with householdchores and their papa never interested in playing with kids! I feel guilty now😓
Don’t feel guilty. Even now you can engage your kids, talk to them, involve yourself in their activity. It is never late to participate.
No dear ,you dont have to feel guilty .A child is like a sponge upto 7 years.you can edit them correct them ,boost them and give them support an they will have a good foundation. After age 7 it will be difficult .
It's never too late, start from now they will blossom
I can understand what you are saying, many husbands don't give priority to their children neither they are interested in helping wife for household chores or hire maid, it's very difficult for a woman to take care of everything at once..these things have very deep impact in child psychology..I believe parents should bring children only if they have proper understanding amongst themselves and ready to invest time
Truth., In real-time we used to see so many kids who are struggling to speak. It's everyone responsibility in the family. If you see a child, just speak & play with her/him. Do support. Let's spread for goodness❤️
Very important message 💖
I'm proud tht my husband didn't allow me to go to work after having our baby
We r soooooo proud that we gave her the best pet of her life in a best way ever
N she is 2.3 now n she is a very naughty n happy baby
So, this is one of the perks of living in a big family with Aunts and Uncle and grandma and grandpa and all those. They keep the child busy and with more people in house the child is well taken care of.
I am not against neutral family. I grew up in one. But I believe a big family is better when a small baby is involved.
What an Initiative! #GoodJob #LetsPromoteIt
Kaash aise film mujhe pehle dikha hota 😔
Kyu ?
Very nice msg given in this short movie... I think every parent should watch it..
Respectable story.
Heart touching
Thanks for giving this information
Love from Nepal 🙏🇳🇵 Beautiful message to our society
Love this ad.. who can resist a child ? 🥰🥰
🙏 thanks for knowledge
Very nice concept ❤️❤️
Playing time with kids is so relaxing 😊
Thanking you...Great
Beautiful message
Very very very good and important topic 🙏👍
Very thoughtful video, ..
Very very informative video 🥰❤️👌
Acting of little princess was fabulous ...love her 😍😘😘😘
Thank you for making this vedio .
awesome content. Never knew about this! A big Like to this video. Not sure why someone could dislike this video.
Touchable and heart melting massage
The persons giving 8 dislike are they not matured...
26 immatured ppl now 😂
@@isvariyaag1098 Now 36
@@ratto751 now 42
They must be narcists.
Still their no's are less and now 98 coz are ignored .
Very informative video👍
Lovely story. Baby beauty.
My baby is 4 month old I don't have much time to spend with him because of domestic chores😭
Its very imp for parents to hv a gud bond wid kids,so make sm time to b wid ur child,I knw house chores wil never finish,bt make sm time for ur baby nd u wil cherish those memories forever,gud luck to u
Forget the chores, its OK if some things are not done everyday. Spending time with your baby is more important than cleaning the house. Don't worry about what other people say, so what your heart tell you
Well it's a responsibility of both husband and wife to take of child, so if you are doing chores have child's father play with baby...
Very Good massage👌
Ekdum meri sister ke jaise. Meri sister ki beti abhi sirf 18 months ki hai. Aur meri sister ne usse Ato Z .English No. Hindi No. Yaha tak Nursery rhymes and Hindi ke vyanjan bhi shika diya hai 1 to 30 in English or Hindi Dono aate hai usko. Aur Ab uske aage bhi sheekh rahi hai. Jabki vo premature born hui thi .
my husband is doing same thing with my boy it hurts me alot
I wish your boy to be healthy and successful 😊 through his life... Best of luck to him and your family and try to make your husband understand the importance of being with his son❤️🙏
Hv a conversation
Great my favourite di
Beautifully explained
Wonderful message❤️❤️❤️
The baby is so cute. I would literally hold her in my hands and plat with her all day😍
Very informative 👌
Nice story 😍
I really appreciate this
But the real truth in every family is when a new member comes to the house the competition between everyone to come closer to the baby is like competition to get the CM chair in Indian states😌
Perfect it's reality of our life
Awesome Awesome.. We need All our Indian Babies to be totally fit, physically and Mentally❤️🙏 our Population should be Intelligent with High IQ
Nice info given by Amrita Rao
I watched this with tears rolling down...I was so sad when my son was born that I am not getting enough time to interact with him and my husband also refuses to hold the baby...
Lovely,amrita
Who identified her from Poonam from Vivah (Amrita Rao)
S it's amrita rao I identified her👍
I'm really crying 😭 hard churching video 😘
Very nice & very true
VERY TRUE !!!
The baby is so cute 😘😘😘😘😘
Best film. Same thing I face as I m working mom and expect family member to play with child.
Very well depicted
Very important information. Interaction not cell phones
Great work
Too good content
Such a beautiful and resourceful advertisement
Humare jese ghareeb mulko mai to log apni hawas puri krne ke chakr mai bache paida krte hain ,bacho ke future ki ghanta koi planing ki hoti hai in logo ne
pr ap Mt krna kyuki change hamse hi shuru hota hai
Why is no one talking about the in-proportionate amount of work the daughter in law is being subjected to? Why is the Indian health ministry propagating this idea!?
I came down to comment section just to see if someone has brought up this point. I'm happy to find your comment.
Also, the sister-in-law (amrita in this video) herself could have helped the mother in household chores. Instead she plays with the child & let's mother handle all chores. Later she is explaining that parents should spend time with children. How can a mother spend time with children when no one in the house is helping her finish her work?
@@shaziyamuzaffar5437 Its because she has come home for short stay. After she leaves then who will help. And generally such families wont let their daughter work in first place. I just think they were trying to depict typical Indian families. Lets start with one step at a time and hopefully these things will change.
@@shaziyamuzaffar5437 Ditto.
I had seen this video on FB earlier. It just made my blood boil when I watched the video
Clearly they are 'NOT' promoting this ideal at all.. that's what the whole ad is about .. to not burden the new mother and make sure she has enough time to spend with her baby
This is worth.....
I'm that princess guys... But still God has blessed me in those aspects...
Excellent
Nice Adverisment 🥰
Real story of my life
👌🏻😊😊🥰
🤗💕
💯👍
👍
What a beautiful message ...but some people are like the ones of videos...my sister's in laws n husband are too selfish even to talk to my niece ...so first 2 years most of time my di came to our home .. though we were in jobs n College ...we all interacted with the baby n she would be too happy and even use to tell her grandmother that she will go to her masi home ...😌I wonder how her grandparents who are retired and wate ample time watching tv ..etc...do not do a single conversation with her nor her father .....her mother tries but has no time in household work.this is so useful to prove it that we are not to blamed to make our niece talkative n extrovert..🥺
Thank
Very true
we parents as well other family needs to interact with the child then they can have physical and mental development but nowadays everyone is soo busy thay just put there child in playgroup and shows Mobile putting all there responsibility on others by paying fees