Pastors should be told that their relationship with God depends on how they treat their loved ones. You cannot serve God and fail to take care of their family.
This lady is 100% correct. This should be a lesson to the family men who get soooo busy n forget the family duties... A woman needs a husband! Take care of your family too
I concur with you. But does that mean if you cheat you do it on the matrimonial bed? what if it was the other way round? Honestly our society is a mess
So we stop working ndio we sexually entertain our wives.then ,they will still complain that we dont provide.talk of praying stupid games expecting nice prizes.
Not only them am married seven years.since niolewe sijawahi kaa more than two day na husband.niliongea nikachoka cz he is so rude.huwezi ongea.ndio niweze kulea mtoto wangu niliamua kukaa kama niko single.aje asije am ok jamaa ako busy in business biashara iko mbele ya family yake am feeling for this man
I support this woman 100%, how can you go building people homes' and your's is collapsing? Satisfy your wife first why did you marry her in the first place 😢Family comes first
Man of God you did the right thing by chasing her away akapararie huko Western. She just didnt cheat but had a child in the process and thought it was a laughing matter until now.
True 💯....i also dobt condone cheating but imagine you are seeing it daily na unanyimwa.....isitoshe ma slay queen wa kanisa wanapewa attention hadi wanapelekwa out ba past in the name of doing God's work........
@@h3yguys1526 if you know how to analyze things to her she says she is not given attention but church pple get his attention ,now this is jealousy n such insecurity leads to cheating in order to revenge
Family comes first regardless, the pastor is too proud to even listen. He is the cause of everything by neglecting the family in the first place . I think he is preaching water and taking wine
As a married woman l have always thought that our families are small heavens " mbingu ndogo" here on earth so tusijifanye we are fighting to go to heaven while this small heaven here on earth hatuwezi maintain. Waah hii ni complicated may God please intervien.
Huyu mwanamke ni kichwa ngumu hawezy nyenyekea na yy ndio amekosea .But huyu mwanamke alianza kumcheat pastor tangu kitambo sana na ni mazoea yake no excuse pastor don't reunite na huyu wacha aende zake huko western akae na Kimathi wake mbona huyo Kimathi saa hii hamsaidiii
@@christinewanjiru1158 let me ask you can u stay with a man under same roof in one bed n don't have sex for a month,,,,, better long distance but this one nikumtesa ,,,,,then being lazy in bed in Jesus name
@@dawexmetoo couples do reunite regardless of what separated them, the kids are innocent. In any disagreement it's not automatic that couples must separate, they can reunite after both sides relaxed their minds and accept their mistakes which is very possible with these couples here despite the fact that the wife is a devil well to the husband.
Huyu c bibi kabisa ju kama alizaa nje na mtu mwengine pastor Achana tu naye aende kwao don't reunite with these lady ju atakucheza tena c umesmuskia last born c wako
Sister before ucheat,..ungekaa chini kwanza na bwanako umwelezee pahali alikuwa anakosea..ama ungetuma rafiki wake wa karibu. Maybe angerekebisha..maoni yangu tu.pia hungecheat kwa bed yenyu..mungeenda inje
Men at 30s and early 40s usually focus on material and career development unlike ladies who are at the time sexually aroused and emotionally settled. That's why cheating in marriage is prone in 30s.
That's the reason I don't trust marriages... Alll benefits go to the woman and all the hard work goes to the man. The man chases things to continue to provide and ensure security for his family, the woman settles in, becomes comfortable in that provision and security but starts having entitlement feeling to it. She develops scorn for her man and starts chasing her desires instead. Am not against long term relationships (this keeps both partners on their toes.. You mess up you are out) and but marriages (entitlements and security so you feel you don't need to sacrifice anything)...? No way!
Wish my hubby is committed to God like that that would be asweet gift for me from God than to have hubby busy outside doesn't have time for God wah earth is hard
I agree with the Pastor. He's 100% right. Though the woman has a valid point, she went overboard, especially doing those things in their house.. That was very wreckless. And she's not genuinely remorseful.
This man has built wall around his mind and thinking, he is not the type that will accept apologies and advise easily & hiding under the umbrella of church... I wonder if he is born again
this pastor should be reminded that however much He is busy rescuing souls out there, it's the right of every woman to have the conjugal rights, attention hehe🤓😂
No way huyu mwanamke ni mjinga sana ety Kimathi mbona sasa hyo Kimathi hakusaidii utashangaa sana enda kwenu Western utaparara sana utatamani maisha pastor alkuwa anakupea mpaka gari
"People will come and go" well said pastor some us we get into depression ,anger,bitterness and loose ourselves cz we are not ready for disappointments with the people we loved ,we need to learn that you can let someone go.
Such men of God serving God wholeheartedly go through spiritual battles this one being among them. Think about those women even in church who envy him but due to spiritual discipline he has to say no. Think about the spirit of being violent which he has conquered as a man of God. Think about struggle to provide and protect both the family image and church image. As a man you may not seem to have rights but you are God's possession as Leviticus indicates. I know healing is not easy but may God give you peace that surpasses human understanding. The bible indicates they left because they were not part of us. If she was yours she could have fought the battle with you. Listen to TD Jakes about LETTING GO. It is what it is. As a man of God I cannot fight a wounded soldier. I pick u up to stand again. May God give you wisdom to handle this with all fairness
I wish I could get such man of God I have no problem I remember I got married at early age 15yrs and I was left Kwa boma and a so called husband went for 2yrs but I respected My self,,ooh God May you secure marriages
This pastor has unteachable heart. He also needs to listen and hear the other side. He is covering his weaknesses by speaking and over riding/ shutting others out. He needs more counseling
Earth is hard. Who and what is superior? Do we have controls over our natural feelings? Who's cord of conduct supervises the other? Who dictates? What dictates? Who has a right? Delicate!!!
This lady is not even shame of herself...how can you bring another man in your matrimonial bed....there is nothing like hakuwa anapewa attention and all that
In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered. 1 Peter 3:7 NLT
Kubali mama ulifanya makosa mbele ya mungu na mbele ya mtumishi na mbele ya watu kwani six ww itakufikisha wapi hata ukifanya na bwanako mbna watu hatufikirii maisha tunafikiria ujinga
@PASTOR JOSHUA KALI ata huyu pasi tena hamefanya makosa sana astahili kwasa a satisfied bibi yake kwasa then kwa church. Hakuna kuhubili hapo. First family second church always. Mama aende children office she will be given and this pasii will feed them😢
Pastor is truly in need of restoring his family, but until he heals, with time this family will stand again, wife has the fear of losing him also but her mouth better be silent and apologize, pastor has already realized his mistakes, salute to him
Pastor has explained himself, everyone in life needs time handle healing and stress itself.i support him. Matrimonial bed A BIG NO!! Before cheating also remember the REBURCATION, i see where the woman minds is set to.
I think marriage counselling and communications should be done frequently among couples to understand each others love languages to atleast increase openness and faithfulness
@@vincentchoge2790 I watched it,and Everytime when women caught cheating they has a planned excuses in case wapatikane....she's just a street woman,Hadi akazalia caretaker mtoto,nothing to understand on this woman 😏😎
He should have ear 👂 to hear his wife too I'm pastor too when you neglected your family 👪 it's problem he has to have time for the family let him hubble herself and forgive her wife I know to be pastor your are the eyes 👀 of people but forgiveness is key to to healing
Am shocked how some people are defending this woman, if the husband did not separate her from kids could live knowing all kids are his. I have read the bible from Genesis to Revelation and nowhere the Bible justifies adultery. What if the caretaker was hiv positive, even if it was cheating better use protection. If the husband could not listen to her, better she could involve church elders or parents but to go out of wedlock to an extent of becoming pregnant and giving birth. That is too much
She's really struggling to justify and it is annoying! When did she seek dialogue to mention she was getting less attention? Cheating is so serious honestly! She's not remorseful at all in my view. She's just blaming the man. I'm a woman lakini hapana. Akisema you don't even allow me talk, does she really mean this same man mwenye tunamskiza saa hii? Mimi sioni.
Pastor can never fail the mission with God being a man if God ain't easy a lot of war is ahead of him he also need to pray pay more attention to God ...he also have a lot of souls to save it's not easy manze kuwa mtumwa ni kazi
No wisdom here. Zero wisdom! He has neglected his duties as a father and husband for the sake of the flock. What she did was very much understandable. Also he has no right to stop the lady from seeing her kids.
My God comes first, then my Family then the Church..it should never be Church before family. Our first mission ground, our Jerusalem, is our Home. U see most men of God forget this and that's why the Pastors kids and even wife are the most neglected. Finally God may have called u, but may have not called ua spouse. That's why it's important man of God, to consider if ua partner is also called in ministry before u are yoked for life otherwise ule upendo wa awali uyeyuka. And if there will be no love of God and commitment, that marriage won't last. Not with lady or any other.
The only thing she deserves here is a caretaker...akwende na uko ..am not perfect but at all coast I don't advocate cheating..ukichoka na marriage toka kwanza then get ur balls another man..nonsense
@@shemmosoti2808 🤣🤣🤣 ata president ako na mypi nje ya nfoa and he still sees his kids, watu wengi sana..and guys hii entitlement ya your kids and the best thing you guys did was to shoot some mucus..women ndo wanapitia so please shuuuuuush
wamechoka woote ,wataendelea kuchokeshana wakikaa pamoja bado..They should talk for the sake of the children that's all that matters . pastor got carried by pastorate thing and forgot the wife. The wife on other hands felt neglected and left out.the gap prolonged hence this outcome. Sad bit it's the reality .if you are in marriage you ll understand this.may they find peace
The biggest challenge that had broken this Marriage is COMMUNICATIONS & UNDERSTANDING and above all this woman has Noo reason to go over board...She really messed it all by herself
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Hauko.serious wewe mtu anasema mpaka mtoto inje alafu unaongela mambo ya kutreat mtu sijui nini
We will be waiting for kimathi
Part 3 ni muhimu sana
@@juliusmwongela6249 iko wapi am waiting for it like jana
Walai this woman is just a sample of satan
Pastors should be told that their relationship with God depends on how they treat their loved ones. You cannot serve God and fail to take care of their family.
Thankyou
Well said
Let it also be known that u can't satisfy a cheater.
@@victormaindson5143 yes is true.
@Victor Maindson You cannot ignore your spouse feelings and expect to have a good marriage. Relationships are cultivated.
Both of them full of wisdom, the man , a poor listener, the woman, a poor communicator. May God help marriages
„(If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?)“
1 Timothy 3:5
The pastor is right, don’t accuse him
This lady is 100% correct.
This should be a lesson to the family men who get soooo busy n forget the family duties... A woman needs a husband! Take care of your family too
I concur with you. But does that mean if you cheat you do it on the matrimonial bed? what if it was the other way round? Honestly our society is a mess
Hahaha okay but our busy belongs to our family....so tuwelewene coz sex is nots everything.
So we stop working ndio we sexually entertain our wives.then ,they will still complain that we dont provide.talk of praying stupid games expecting nice prizes.
How can a pastor be told to take in a cheating wife, just because she is the wife who cheated?
This man has wisdom,,,, Mungu amtunze he is in the right path ni vile tu hakukua na good communication kati yao.
Pastors, soldiers and doctors need wives who understand the work...
True
Very true. Know what you getting yourself into first from the word go
Nicely put
Until someone else is given what uve been begging for
Not only them am married seven years.since niolewe sijawahi kaa more than two day na husband.niliongea nikachoka cz he is so rude.huwezi ongea.ndio niweze kulea mtoto wangu niliamua kukaa kama niko single.aje asije am ok jamaa ako busy in business biashara iko mbele ya family yake am feeling for this man
Kimathi should take responsibility and marry this lovely lady. She should let the man of God continue rescuing souls
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Yes
Kimathi hatambui huyu saa hii coz he knows she will cheat with someone else na amtoe kwake pia. She's cheap this lady
right now kimathi is running away from eating pasta's sambusa, she'll be dropped like a hot potato 🥔
I support this woman 100%, how can you go building people homes' and your's is collapsing? Satisfy your wife first why did you marry her in the first place 😢Family comes first
Because it is his calling.Haka kama ni kamalaya hata haya hakana.
Joseph....no woman will ever EVER....be satisfied....take that to bank...and cash 💸 💰 it...
Ijus wonder how awhole man thinks awoman can be satisfied...
So he think wake ako satisfied?
They only keep kuul n hide
Mmmh let her settle eith kimathi stop judging pastor mr.yesu
Yeah even the bible says so mtu yeyote asiye tunza wa kwake nyumbani hafai kw utumishi
Never thought we had such pastors out here ...wisdom and knowledge...great man. Sex is never everything buana...we can't prioritize that buana
Man of God you did the right thing by chasing her away akapararie huko Western. She just didnt cheat but had a child in the process and thought it was a laughing matter until now.
By God's grace,he is a pst,but also he is a human being.
Very true
The Lady hasn't been living her life, she has been there to impress the man of God.. People should not fake
Exactly
True 💯....i also dobt condone cheating but imagine you are seeing it daily na unanyimwa.....isitoshe ma slay queen wa kanisa wanapewa attention hadi wanapelekwa out ba past in the name of doing God's work........
Exactly 💯. You'll find this in the previous video when she mocked a pastor for being serious to Church.
Faking fails you in a time where you can't change n be real.
@@h3yguys1526 if you know how to analyze things to her she says she is not given attention but church pple get his attention ,now this is jealousy n such insecurity leads to cheating in order to revenge
Sister ndoa ni kuvumilia and Dedicated it to God,,,,ungesema dada,,,,, kuliko ujiamulie ,,,,,,amua sasa
Apn uyo dada apewe haki yake kama mwanamke kweri
@@peterwanjohiwangirasta8734 siku mke wako akicheat useme hivo
Streets waiting for her
This guy is mature and be blessed with your wisdom .
Hakuna maturity hapa alioa bibi wa nini
@@joycejames2563 true the guy even don't give this wife to speak her self ....he ain't mature at all 😊
Family comes first regardless, the pastor is too proud to even listen. He is the cause of everything by neglecting the family in the first place . I think he is preaching water and taking wine
Pastor, your family comes first,your relationship with God will prosper depending on how you take care of your family,truth be told
As a married woman l have always thought that our families are small heavens " mbingu ndogo" here on earth so tusijifanye we are fighting to go to heaven while this small heaven here on earth hatuwezi maintain. Waah hii ni complicated may God please intervien.
Its not a justification of cheating
This man sio pasta and he isn't married I know him very well
@@preciousmueni1605 so he's lying
@@joychege2543 acting is not lying...🤣🤣
Serving God starts by taking care of family
Mtu wa kucheat ni wa kucheat tu
Huyu mwanamke ni kichwa ngumu hawezy nyenyekea na yy ndio amekosea .But huyu mwanamke alianza kumcheat pastor tangu kitambo sana na ni mazoea yake no excuse pastor don't reunite na huyu wacha aende zake huko western akae na Kimathi wake mbona huyo Kimathi saa hii hamsaidiii
@@christinewanjiru1158 let me ask you can u stay with a man under same roof in one bed n don't have sex for a month,,,,, better long distance but this one nikumtesa ,,,,,then being lazy in bed in Jesus name
But also the lady must take thingsin Godly way not cheating .you can't mess up to solving your mistake their is agood way
Stop defending cheating…. That’s rubbish!
The pastor is positively speaking that they can be reunited while the lady is in a hurry to the extent that is not ready for that.
How with a bastard in between
@@la-ry1ms 😂😂😂😂😂😂
She has already revealed that the last born belongs to Kimathi..there is nothing like being reunited here.this woman is a big snake in the house.
@@dawexmetoo couples do reunite regardless of what separated them, the kids are innocent. In any disagreement it's not automatic that couples must separate, they can reunite after both sides relaxed their minds and accept their mistakes which is very possible with these couples here despite the fact that the wife is a devil well to the husband.
Huyu c bibi kabisa ju kama alizaa nje na mtu mwengine pastor Achana tu naye aende kwao don't reunite with these lady ju atakucheza tena c umesmuskia last born c wako
This world is unfair, ukipata mmoja ni loyal mwingine ni joker
The pastor is a real gem, very mature and cool
Huyu mama akwende huko. Now, pastor never gave him enough time. So did the man who was giving her sex give her time.
Ni ile tu staki kuwa stepmother huyu tungeoana
From this video I have learnt to be a better Man, I have to always be there for and squeeze as much time as it is humanely possible
Napendaaa
yah man👍
Sure
Thank you man.
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Sister before ucheat,..ungekaa chini kwanza na bwanako umwelezee pahali alikuwa anakosea..ama ungetuma rafiki wake wa karibu. Maybe angerekebisha..maoni yangu tu.pia hungecheat kwa bed yenyu..mungeenda inje
Ushasema
Ukweli kabisa inabidi mketi chini B4 uanze kucheat
The pastor is well dressed , well mannered , truly a servant but he should not be too busy aki
His love for God is top notch
mm mtu akininyima sex nacheat
Communicate when not oky before any act.
Communicate when not oky before any act.
Too busy isn't the truth... A cheater always looks for a reason why they cheated
I love this lady, and her timing is perfect!
The pastor has been taking care of the kids; in the eyes of the law, the kid is his.
Dont be a stupid like that woman. Think first
Hio imeeenda
Whips for you.
It's better to be open to your spouse about your feeling than making adultery in man's house.
With right counseling this marriage can easily be restored,we are all human.
Sure this is true
😂😂😂 after cheating and a kid who is not a fruit union. You are just a weak man.
It will not happen!
Dear pastor run for your dear life🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
This Pastor is a very practical person...i like him...i actually love his stable reasoning
It's only today he is reasoning,last episode he was talking too much that he couldn't even listen to his wife.
Nahh... that dude is talking too much and he's about to lose a good wife even though she cheated
This man can’t communicate at all, both are talking to be heard and not to understand the other one
Akapigwa character development pap
@@berylakinyi6211if u have never been lonely in marriage don't make such comments. U have no idea.
Eti last born si wa pastor wueh ! earth is hard
Once trust is lost ,relationship can never be the same.
Being calm and hurt at the same time,,,its a plus to ths man
Kabisaaa! That's what I've been mapping since episode 1. He has honestly mastered self control.
Or a master manipulator.
These are the pastors we need in kenya
At least someone can see pastor's point..mama..unakataa mumeo na mungu. 😭😭
Wa kuchapiwa mabibi
A very mature pastor...may God protect you .. Endelea kufanya kazi ya Mungu
Very true💯🙏
The pastor is really speaking much sense it's just the ignorance of the woman for me
Men at 30s and early 40s usually focus on material and career development unlike ladies who are at the time sexually aroused and emotionally settled. That's why cheating in marriage is prone in 30s.
Usijidanganye bro if so hkungekua na the rise of wababaz cheating haina rika even both the rich and poor cheat
@@kennedykariuki4546 ain't ruling out such. I stand corrected. Marriages break mostly in 30s. Partners need to find proper balance.
@@kennedykariuki4546 but he said mostly...
That's the reason I don't trust marriages... Alll benefits go to the woman and all the hard work goes to the man. The man chases things to continue to provide and ensure security for his family, the woman settles in, becomes comfortable in that provision and security but starts having entitlement feeling to it. She develops scorn for her man and starts chasing her desires instead.
Am not against long term relationships (this keeps both partners on their toes.. You mess up you are out) and but marriages (entitlements and security so you feel you don't need to sacrifice anything)...? No way!
True very true men look for cash at that time women don't care what men go through without cash
This man is talking sense💯I really feel for the innocent kids when such kind of things happen children suffer the most
fOOL
Silly
True
This statement of urs has made many pple die in those so called marriages...kama haiwork u quit..kids will adapt
The lastborn child belongs to another man
Life never never gives the perfect. Be contented with what you have.
True
Wish my hubby is committed to God like that that would be asweet gift for me from God than to have hubby busy outside doesn't have time for God wah earth is hard
Simply co-parent.Kimathi has his cake and the pastor aendelee na kuchunga kondoo
In life we all have an unspeakable secret, an irreversible regret, an unreachable dream and unforgettable love.. Hugs mama 😍❤️❣️
To all married men, make it a habit of doing DNA, unaeza kua unalea mtoto wa caretaker.
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Enyewe....Mimi nitaanza kufanya huu mwezi....kwanza Ile wa mwisho
I support you men wake up, care takers wame Chukua ushukani nowardays
@@nalvic77 😂😂😂
Pastor you're really a servant of God stand Firm, God is first in everything
I agree with the Pastor. He's 100% right.
Though the woman has a valid point, she went overboard, especially doing those things in their house.. That was very wreckless. And she's not genuinely remorseful.
This guy is a gentleman is has real senses the real man is talking
A man who goes to cause drama in the plot after finding out his wife is cheating?😂 nothing gentle about that
@@RascalEd-hw6yw so you wanted him to go do a party?
@@RascalEd-hw6yw are you sane?
@@RascalEd-hw6yw yiure insane bro😂😂💔
What gentleman??? Walahi😮
This lady has the right to see kids think he is a dictator
Imagine amezaa hadi na yule mwanaume wa kando..na anataka warudiane byforce..aki hayuko hata sorry
Are you trying to justify cheating ama mko group moja
Wewe Betty uko group moja tu na huyu cheater. I hope you're not married, and if you are, am very sorry for that poor hubby.
Says a fellow cheater
@@kiprotichkirui9356 Wako group moja🤣🤣
One's she realize you love your kids she attack you with what you love coz ungekataa angekuwa kwa fida.
This man has built wall around his mind and thinking, he is not the type that will accept apologies and advise easily & hiding under the umbrella of church... I wonder if he is born again
This pastor is not ready for marriage life; he should continue saving lifes.
this pastor should be reminded that however much He is busy rescuing souls out there, it's the right of every woman to have the conjugal rights, attention hehe🤓😂
Louder please
That was not the case, she is a professional cheater, amesema kid wa mwisho sio wa pastor.
No way huyu mwanamke ni mjinga sana ety Kimathi mbona sasa hyo Kimathi hakusaidii utashangaa sana enda kwenu Western utaparara sana utatamani maisha pastor alkuwa anakupea mpaka gari
Right of being run through ama she knew wat she doing
@@Maureennthenya children Do Not Pick Their Fathers, The Mother Does
This is a real one...may God guide him through this trying time..
The reason why the relatives from your mum's side are closer and love you than those from your dad's side is coz they are sure wewe ni wao
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I second
Weuwe this is deep... now I know
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I like this
"People will come and go" well said pastor some us we get into depression ,anger,bitterness and loose ourselves cz we are not ready for disappointments with the people we loved ,we need to learn that you can let someone go.
True.
Thats reality...usipo kumbali hayo utakufa mbure...sasa huyo mburungenge atanjua hanjui.
Such men of God serving God wholeheartedly go through spiritual battles this one being among them. Think about those women even in church who envy him but due to spiritual discipline he has to say no. Think about the spirit of being violent which he has conquered as a man of God. Think about struggle to provide and protect both the family image and church image. As a man you may not seem to have rights but you are God's possession as Leviticus indicates. I know healing is not easy but may God give you peace that surpasses human understanding. The bible indicates they left because they were not part of us. If she was yours she could have fought the battle with you. Listen to TD Jakes about LETTING GO. It is what it is. As a man of God I cannot fight a wounded soldier. I pick u up to stand again. May God give you wisdom to handle this with all fairness
I wish I could get such man of God I have no problem I remember I got married at early age 15yrs and I was left Kwa boma and a so called husband went for 2yrs but I respected My self,,ooh God May you secure marriages
*Love your family just the way you love God....* The husband need to come to his senses
Come to his senses and share his wife with caretaker in his bed?
Huyu pastor anaongea sana,,huyu mke wake ameyapitia mengi
@@winniemumami9931 yes
@@winniemumami9931 the husband is very useless
Kwangu uyu pastor ana date wasichana wa kanisa I support the lady coz haipikiwi uji
Once trust is broken it takes forever to rebuild it
Kabisa dear
Trust is like an egg once broken no repair😂😂
it's so hard for someone to forget nor forgive am sorry but when trust is broken its something unforgivable
This pastor has unteachable heart. He also needs to listen and hear the other side. He is covering his weaknesses by speaking and over riding/ shutting others out. He needs more counseling
Earth is hard. Who and what is superior? Do we have controls over our natural feelings? Who's cord of conduct supervises the other? Who dictates? What dictates? Who has a right? Delicate!!!
No man will ever forgive a cheating woman no matter how weak you think he is
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But women are allowed to forgive cheating men, donge?
So only men should cheat
@@zuritash8799 Who said that? He just said that men do not forgive cheating women.
Kuna wengine tunaona hapa tufukiswiii, they forgive ,. ... I think you didn't watch the "Telemundo" couple. 🤭🤭🤭
Trust, once lost, could not be easily found. Not in a year, perhaps not even in a lifetime.”
Xx pasta ataki Fack uyo dada anataka afanye nn
it's unforgivable going out of marriage you should even get stoned if possible not right.
This lady is not even shame of herself...how can you bring another man in your matrimonial bed....there is nothing like hakuwa anapewa attention and all that
Just excuses poko ni poko tu
To a point ta kusema last born ni wa kimathi
Pastor endelea.na kazi ya mungu tuachie huyu tumnyoroshe in six months utapata report kamili
Marion muturi ..imgn
Hafai kupewa attention acha tu mzae ampe time yake na msee anadai na alee watoto
In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.
1 Peter 3:7 NLT
Kubali mama ulifanya makosa mbele ya mungu na mbele ya mtumishi na mbele ya watu kwani six ww itakufikisha wapi hata ukifanya na bwanako mbna watu hatufikirii maisha tunafikiria ujinga
@PASTOR JOSHUA KALI ata huyu pasi tena hamefanya makosa sana astahili kwasa a satisfied bibi yake kwasa then kwa church. Hakuna kuhubili hapo. First family second church always. Mama aende children office she will be given and this pasii will feed them😢
Pastor is truly in need of restoring his family, but until he heals, with time this family will stand again, wife has the fear of losing him also but her mouth better be silent and apologize, pastor has already realized his mistakes, salute to him
This is a real man of God the devil couldn't nab him out there he had to utilize this woman to do his bidding
Wafula • humans stop blaming devil always. Humans should balance energy
@@nancymuseve3249 the devil has been using his agents(women ) for sometime now.
Wafula. Humans we're so powerful than people think everything is within us..stop looking outside yourself
May GOD give pastor strength and grace to take in what his wife is saying. I hope he gets to know even the child that isn't his was lied to as well.
Mami we love you and we understand. May God intervene.
This man is a real mature ,,,I like the way is talking
reality well served,pastor kubali makosa n swallow your pride
Pastor has explained himself, everyone in life needs time handle healing and stress itself.i support him. Matrimonial bed A BIG NO!! Before cheating also remember the REBURCATION, i see where the woman minds is set to.
N kind alioeleka juu y se
Nimekwama apo kwa reburcation😂😂
Hiyo problem ya kutosikiza ni shida mbaya sana hiyo ni main problem in marriages plz solve with your woman
@@EuniterMumbua 😂😂
I think marriage counselling and communications should be done frequently among couples to understand each others love languages to atleast increase openness and faithfulness
yeah but not to tell these two to come back together,never forgive a cheating woman and stay together in the same roof,haiwezekani kabsaa ..
@@jonathankasembi9217 Watch part one b4 you comment man.
@@vincentchoge2790 I watched it,and Everytime when women caught cheating they has a planned excuses in case wapatikane....she's just a street woman,Hadi akazalia caretaker mtoto,nothing to understand on this woman 😏😎
He should have ear 👂 to hear his wife too I'm pastor too when you neglected your family 👪 it's problem he has to have time for the family let him hubble herself and forgive her wife I know to be pastor your are the eyes 👀 of people but forgiveness is key to to healing
Am shocked how some people are defending this woman, if the husband did not separate her from kids could live knowing all kids are his. I have read the bible from Genesis to Revelation and nowhere the Bible justifies adultery. What if the caretaker was hiv positive, even if it was cheating better use protection. If the husband could not listen to her, better she could involve church elders or parents but to go out of wedlock to an extent of becoming pregnant and giving birth. That is too much
This woman is crazy! hati last born sio wa pasi? wee people are really sick in this Nation. generation of pretenders.
Big up pastor for your advice;tafuta kuimarisha uhusiano wako na Mungu, maana watu uja na kuenda lakini Mungu hawezi kuacha.
May God heal the heart of the pastor and give him the peace he needs
How about the Lady,but communication is very important in the family/Relationship.i think So 🤗
And also heal the heart of the lady
I love this pastor.. strong men like Samson... And adam Perrished because of a woman.... Bro don't loose focus.... Life after death is more important
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Sure,he's the only pastor in these streets of sanitisation who has been faithful to his wife
Alaa
😂😂😂😂😂
There is no Justification when you do wrong,the only way is to Apologise and ask for forgiveness.
I agree 💯
Very true but this lady is not apologetic ju kama angekuwa hvyo pastor angemsamehe but ana kichwa ngumu sana na yy ndio amekosea
She's really struggling to justify and it is annoying! When did she seek dialogue to mention she was getting less attention? Cheating is so serious honestly! She's not remorseful at all in my view. She's just blaming the man. I'm a woman lakini hapana. Akisema you don't even allow me talk, does she really mean this same man mwenye tunamskiza saa hii? Mimi sioni.
She's just selling sympathy za sex and kids. Sio poa. Aombe msamaha, hata akienda.
You are wise... nothing justifies wrong doing
She don't want to be called "such a woman" 🤣🤣🤣hata huyo pastor ana heshima angekuita "Such a harrot" 😂😂😂
A Woman with multiple baby daddies is a 304, a man with multiple baby mamas (he can support) is a hero.
Pastor can never fail the mission with God being a man if God ain't easy a lot of war is ahead of him he also need to pray pay more attention to God ...he also have a lot of souls to save it's not easy manze kuwa mtumwa ni kazi
this pastor is a man of wisdom very humble , keep it up bro
No wisdom here, you can't neglect the basic unit and pretend to manage a church,
@@everythingkate97 Watch part one. No wisdom at all.
@@Googz. The man is so arrogant
Wisdom can never let a man fail in life especially in marriage,maneno mingi tu ndiyo pst ako nayo
No wisdom here. Zero wisdom! He has neglected his duties as a father and husband for the sake of the flock. What she did was very much understandable. Also he has no right to stop the lady from seeing her kids.
For sure the streets have taken a new twist. That one of Kimathis kid has come as a shock.
Its good u've realised that Kimathi is caused of Lack of Attention excuse from the woman.
Mbona sasa Kimathi hajamchukua mbona alirudy Western kwa wazazy wake mjinga sana ameharibu nyumba yake kwa mikono yake
It did hit him hard
Kimathi might reject the kid coz hayuko sure
Man of God ,just remember that church starts at home,I like the decision of the pastor to someone who will understand what he is trying to say.
This woman will regret loosing such a good man .
Everything begins with family. Family first before church
Family family family!
family Family
Man of God I wish I would speak to you as a fellow Yoke fellow; sit down with yourself and consider everything. May Yehova grant u the inner peace.
You are talking bullshiiit 👌
Mkae nini sasa
@@hildanyambura1641 I set ajiketishe, na kutafakari. Nadhani mke wake pia alikuwa na point muhimu licha ya kuwa kweli alifanya makosa
I agree! He needs to reflect on his behaviour. Acknowledge his behaviour (neglect his wife’s needs) and seek God’s grace and mercy.
My God comes first, then my Family then the Church..it should never be Church before family. Our first mission ground, our Jerusalem, is our Home. U see most men of God forget this and that's why the Pastors kids and even wife are the most neglected. Finally God may have called u, but may have not called ua spouse. That's why it's important man of God, to consider if ua partner is also called in ministry before u are yoked for life otherwise ule upendo wa awali uyeyuka. And if there will be no love of God and commitment, that marriage won't last. Not with lady or any other.
Truly mama ndio ujua baba watoto
God is the one who started the family so please pastor you re the cause of this, love your wife first ,give her the best and be there for her
Wah,,noma hii.sina la kusema hapo wacha mungu ajitukuze Kwa hiyo ndoa
Mama Pambana Naahari Yako Ulisema Umemchoka Sasa Unarudi Kwa bwana Ambye Umemchoka Salut Broo💪💪💪🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿
But yeye amesema ako na haja na watoi
@@roxana309 amefukuzwa kwao na hajui ataenda wapi.
I'm also asking the same question
The lady needs her kids. She has a right. Pastor ,whatever you preach start from your home.
Sio tu kids, anataka warudiane but anapitia kwa watoto..hajui kuomba msamaha..hata hujasema sorry 😞. Bwanake angemurudisha
Shame on u if u can't see what this lady did was wrong
Someone immoral has no right to see or stay with the children
The only thing she deserves here is a caretaker...akwende na uko ..am not perfect but at all coast I don't advocate cheating..ukichoka na marriage toka kwanza then get ur balls another man..nonsense
@@shemmosoti2808 🤣🤣🤣 ata president ako na mypi nje ya nfoa and he still sees his kids, watu wengi sana..and guys hii entitlement ya your kids and the best thing you guys did was to shoot some mucus..women ndo wanapitia so please shuuuuuush
Wueeeeeh, huyu mama kanisa ss ameamua achome nyumba😂😂😂 Baki na mtoto wako unipee wangu..... Wueeeeeh, us women....
Huyu pasta Dio aliteta shinda yote juu agemfack bibi yake
This is a very straight forward man. Connect me with him
When I grow up I want to be this man, so calm and collected even when the lady is admitting being chewed n fertilized outside🙆♂️🙆♂️🙆♂️🙆♂️
Hii yako ni irony🤣
Don't make me laugh 😄😄
Welcome back my dear sister to this world of fantacy,but i hope you won't regret letting go of your marriage
Atajua niku moto,she had car to drop kids home weeh women joke too much
She's gonna regret throwing this away
She will definitely regret
She will regret...no matter how r/ship is bad don't cheat just move out and go... huku nje ni 🔥 dada
Hiki kimama kinapenda sex sana,pastor kunja tuoane sitakukatanza hata kulala kwa church😅
wamechoka woote ,wataendelea kuchokeshana wakikaa pamoja bado..They should talk for the sake of the children that's all that matters . pastor got carried by pastorate thing and forgot the wife. The wife on other hands felt neglected and left out.the gap prolonged hence this outcome. Sad bit it's the reality .if you are in marriage you ll understand this.may they find peace
She is a cheat, that's all. If she thinks that she was neglected why not take the opportunity and move with her perfect new man.
the woman is tired of pretending,,, this pastor is genuine, he is talking sense
Steve this drama has taken a different turn, kindly provide us with part 3,we need to know how the whole saga unfolded.
Ngai!!wah!!Hadi mtoi c wa pastor,,now I feel for the pastor,,God intervene
The biggest challenge that had broken this Marriage is COMMUNICATIONS & UNDERSTANDING and above all this woman has Noo reason to go over board...She really messed it all by herself
This man is a real man for sure . He needs a wife who understands his job as well.
What about sexing
Stive vipi kuhusu yule dada aliekiwa ananyimwa chakula mbona hujesema chochote??
update on this man stivoo
Kwakweli penye miti hapana wajenzi. Navyompenda Mungu na nilivyo busy na Mungu, nahitaji mume mcha Mungu kwelikweli. Natamani kwenda mbinguni baada ya taabu za kupita
Well said pastor,, its also good teachings pastor. For some of us