Treat him like a new pair of Jimmy Choo's. One day you love them, next day it doesn't suit your outfit. Next week you forget about them. Rotate them. Love them, yet Never outwear them or they'll hurt your 'sole 😌 Keep them on their toes. Be Unforgettable 👠
I was dating a man for 3 months and then I told him “I’m scared af of commitment but you make me want to change my mind.” Now he’s my man and we been together for almost a year 😌
Hey Alex. I just wanted to pay you a compliment. Out of all the dating coaches you're the only one I've watched that actually puts everything in the description. I enjoy listening to you but I retain information by reading it far easier. I appreciate that you take the time to do that and even if no one else tells you that I'm sure I'm not alone. So thank you. :)
This video is excellent! It is very simple. Be sexy, reveal some human, vulnerable things about yourself by showing some weakness, validate him, show him how he makes you feel, pull away from him and remove that security for a while, go in with you life by joining a class or doing a hobby and giving him space. This will create love for you, if it’s going to happen, if not, it was never going to happen. It’s actually quite simple and genius!
I’m doing all this completely naturally and whoa ....it’s working on the craziest levels. He’s pursuing me and taking control and chasing. And he’s sweet and respectful but at the same time...insanely hot and exactly what I’ve been missing out on. I’ve also been talking to a bunch of other guys on the side and guys can definitely sense this abundance mentality. Like I’ve been feeling like I have tons of options and everyone is replaceable... guys have been hitting me up like crazy. The minute I stopped wanting/needing a relationship things flowed so much! Thanks Alex 🖤 you’re videos are so spot on. Btw girls not all men are stupid. Some are... I have to admit that lol. Don’t hate all of them cause that doesn’t help you in attracting anyone at all. When you know what you want and know your value and worth- trust me the hottest guys ever will also feel the same way about you!
Ive been using your tactics, and my guy has finally told me he loves me..he told me first. He then went onto say he thinks we should stop seeing each other as hes falling for me, but then he still keeps on with his daily contact and good morning txts...Actions speak louder than words.
*While these tips can help foster a deeper connection, it's essential to remember that love is a complex and individual experience. It's about finding someone who appreciates and loves you for who you are, rather than trying to mold yourself into someone else's ideal. Use these tips as guidance, but always stay true to yourself and your values.*
Damn, does everything got to be a damn game? Are there any real people out there anymore just genuinely interested in one another that can be normal human beings and get along and develop a relationship the right way? I don't understand all this bullshit, I'm recently gone through a break up after 12 years and honestly, if I have to do all of this just to get his attention back and then make him fall back in love with me, I don't feel he's worth it if I got to do that. Love should flow naturally if someone don't love me or like me then it ain't meant to be. Wouldn't you say so?
Love should flow naturally? Life isn't so black and white and perfect and neither are people so no. It's a nice thought but no. I agree with you though he's not worth it.
you were in a relationship for 12 years and then broke up or you were in a relationship 12 years ago.... if 12 years relationship..how did you keep hi for so longg..? thats like a legacy!!
I’ve never asked him if he was in love with me . After a month , he told me he was in love with me :) not sure If love is possible that fast . But whatever the case, he said it first .
i'm currently 3 minutes in on ignoring his GM text and havent text him in over 36 hours..... lol. 1st time I unfriended him on fb and did not text.. 5 days later he finally text and inboxed me saying he cant believe that i unfriended him and that it was bothering him... i really enjoy him, but i am the one that is very expressive and i wear my feelings on my shoulders... i sense he feels the same way how i feel about him, but he isn't quick to say things... he thinks about it FOR A LONG TIME... wanting to make sure he is doing and saying the right thing... I mean he shows me, but I need to hear words and expression as well. Is that a bad thing
I just wonder why we like the people who aren't capable of loving us. But no matter how hard it is to make a man you like to fall for you, you should at least try to make him notice you. Approach him in a friendly manner, who knows, you will get along with each other.
I showed my other side alright. He said I scared him. I said, why, you are the one collecting guns, I just use my mouth? He got it. Men say they are afraid when women get angry but we need to tell them why we get angry and it has to do with their bad behaviors.
There are youtubers that read stories that their subscribers send to them or they go get it off story websites. You need to ask your fans to send in stories of their love lives past and present, mainly if it got better off what you are teaching them. Try to keep them all under the same topic on the same video. Tell them the topic you need stories for when you have short stories and you need more stories about the same thing to fill up the time you want to fill up. To keep their attention, try to keep each video between 15 to 30 minutes. Start with the story I wrote below. Let them know you got the story from one of your subscribers because you asked the question, what would you do to make your man feel special or what ever that question was. Go listen to the end of your video and you will hear how you asked the question. Let me know if I have any typos I my story so I can fix it before you read it. Good luck.
My bf dumped. Bl8cked me in everything and went back in the dating site and he has blocked me on that too. I guess there is no way back from that is there?
It's so fun listening to you Alex and listening to all of the ways you advise ladies to get "the man". But no matter what tactic is used, there HAS to be interest on his part in the first place or all of this is just one big huge waste of time.
question:how can i show him my love when i am not sure that he wants me the same like i want him?in any more ways then being at home together ,make love .do i tell him this?or show in other ways?my experience is that i like to feel that we want the same.i hate to tell him all this things again and again .then it lose meaning for me.so how i can act to find out this.?
wow okay im glad i listened to this. lots of advice out there is: ONLY be cool, laid back, never give a F., good mood, perfect princess, bla bla bla 🙄 im glad im showing glimpses of my shadow too-keepin it real!
Laura Short just fall back. Focus on you, hanging out with family and friends. Find a new hobby, and don’t respond to his calls/texts so quick. Take three hours to respond.
You are not alone girl. I do exactly the same when i am around the guy i am very attracted to. It takes practice, train your brain muscle. Just noticed when you want to react fast, breath and control your emotions
Interesting video! I see where you're coming with this, quite intriguing to me. Sexual aura... it's like when you "Netflix and chill" and you're pretending to watch the movie but what's really on your mind is the part when the tv will be switched off and shit gets dooown with like fucking sexual music in the background and both half naked... great stuff... brilliant 👍🏽hahah
these are good tips because it's true and it's something that I'm actually walking through right now with this very exceptional man that I met a few months ago. So you telling our experiences right now
What do we do when we are already in a love relationship. How do we keep them once they know they don't have to work hard to get us anymore? Do we have to continuously create fear and anxiety in them to make guys want us more. It would be exhausting I think to do this for so many years. What if he gets jealous to the point of thinking well I don't trust her so I might as well go cheat too.
Damn... Ur good... he confessed!!!!... He said he's in love with me... I didn't say "i love you" back cause i'm showing it with my actions not with my words, just following ur advices Father Alex 😄 but... He tried to make me say it and said he reciprocates the feeling... I said "you say it first then!! ", he said "me first? No, no, no...." 😄 Sooo now we assume we love each other but we shut the f**k up, we ain t saying it.... Where will this go? I m really in love with this guy so i don t wanna ruin everything... 😃 He still chasing, we still good, but he withdrawed emotionally a little after all this, maybe felt vulnerable...so... What next Father Alex?? P. S: You'r the best!!!
Alex, by doing the one video a day with notes, you have made yourself a little more organized, but you have taken away from the spontaneous part of yourself and freedom to just say whatever comes to you, that's the realness that I liked and admired about you and your coaching, but do whatever works best for you. Still, great content today.
My boyfriend of 2 years never mentioned marriage, so I brought it up and he said, "I don't ever want to get married again, but I love you, I just llike watching my T.V. shows and being alone as I am 76 y.o. now so why marry? I was deeply hurt. He is an alcoholic l year sober but now has started drinking again. I truly love this man. What should I do?
Has Alex done a video on how to tell a man no? I get two different stages, a stranger comes up to u strikes up a conversation then eventually asks the ? Do u have a man.... the best ans I have come up with is, 'thats end of discussion on this topic, would u like to talk about something else... I don't talk abt these things so I'm not inviting more discussion abt it.' then there is 2nd case, u go to a reoccurring salsa class or whatever & a dance partner tries to ask u out. well all I can come up with is 'hey, I see u as a friend / good acquaintance& I'm not looking for more in my life at this time.' that's the best I can come up with. In the 1st scenario it infuriates me when a stranger comes up to me, eventually asks the question, then asks More ?s about my answer, (like I have to dance around their persistence etc/ 'no, thank u' is Never enough, they always want to talk more about it).so I'm planning to be even more direct as stated
Very intuitive video, thank you Alex. However, I don't like the abrupt ending, as the questions you were answering from the comments were quite educative 😐
will this work when you want to get someone back? my middle school sweetheart and i started dating for a month and both of us were fresh out of long term relationships. his ex came back wanting to work things out. he went back, but felt uncertain about the decision because he developed feelings for me. I'm doing my own thing now, but i do miss him. lol....
Sacha Walton he wouldn't be a good candidate for a long term relationship because he'll always have his ex on the back burner in case it doesn't work out with you. So what you need to do is put him also on the back burner and find yourself a main man
This is me naturally... I like watching these videos to put things into perspective but I'm a cancer so I have the too strong too weak personality... sweet probably why I get bored with games quick
Treat him like a new pair of Jimmy Choo's. One day you love them, next day it doesn't suit your outfit. Next week you forget about them. Rotate them. Love them, yet Never outwear them or they'll hurt your 'sole 😌 Keep them on their toes. Be Unforgettable 👠
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This guy is turning me into a monster 😂
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I was dating a man for 3 months and then I told him “I’m scared af of commitment but you make me want to change my mind.” Now he’s my man and we been together for almost a year 😌
Damn let me use this on my man tonight lol
I will try this on my friends with benefits. I'll give a 1 month update.
@@PinkLaptop hey, any update ?
@@PinkLaptop any update?
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Hey Alex. I just wanted to pay you a compliment. Out of all the dating coaches you're the only one I've watched that actually puts everything in the description. I enjoy listening to you but I retain information by reading it far easier. I appreciate that you take the time to do that and even if no one else tells you that I'm sure I'm not alone. So thank you. :)
Branndy Hontz i second this
He’s awesome ..just not easy to get ahold of him
💯💯!!
This video is excellent! It is very simple. Be sexy, reveal some human, vulnerable things about yourself by showing some weakness, validate him, show him how he makes you feel, pull away from him and remove that security for a while, go in with you life by joining a class or doing a hobby and giving him space. This will create love for you, if it’s going to happen, if not, it was never going to happen. It’s actually quite simple and genius!
I’m doing all this completely naturally and whoa ....it’s working on the craziest levels. He’s pursuing me and taking control and chasing. And he’s sweet and respectful but at the same time...insanely hot and exactly what I’ve been missing out on.
I’ve also been talking to a bunch of other guys on the side and guys can definitely sense this abundance mentality. Like I’ve been feeling like I have tons of options and everyone is replaceable... guys have been hitting me up like crazy. The minute I stopped wanting/needing a relationship things flowed so much! Thanks Alex 🖤 you’re videos are so spot on.
Btw girls not all men are stupid. Some are... I have to admit that lol. Don’t hate all of them cause that doesn’t help you in attracting anyone at all. When you know what you want and know your value and worth- trust me the hottest guys ever will also feel the same way about you!
Ive been using your tactics, and my guy has finally told me he loves me..he told me first. He then went onto say he thinks we should stop seeing each other as hes falling for me, but then he still keeps on with his daily contact and good morning txts...Actions speak louder than words.
*While these tips can help foster a deeper connection, it's essential to remember that love is a complex and individual experience. It's about finding someone who appreciates and loves you for who you are, rather than trying to mold yourself into someone else's ideal. Use these tips as guidance, but always stay true to yourself and your values.*
Damn, does everything got to be a damn game? Are there any real people out there anymore just genuinely interested in one another that can be normal human beings and get along and develop a relationship the right way? I don't understand all this bullshit, I'm recently gone through a break up after 12 years and honestly, if I have to do all of this just to get his attention back and then make him fall back in love with me, I don't feel he's worth it if I got to do that. Love should flow naturally if someone don't love me or like me then it ain't meant to be. Wouldn't you say so?
Carole Marie thats not how the human body works. its al a chemical reaction .
Love should flow naturally? Life isn't so black and white and perfect and neither are people so no. It's a nice thought but no. I agree with you though he's not worth it.
you were in a relationship for 12 years and then broke up or you were in a relationship 12 years ago.... if 12 years relationship..how did you keep hi for so longg..? thats like a legacy!!
@@Sydney432hz That is a long time by many people's standards suppose but Most everyone in my family have been married 12+ years
@carol. Yeah i feel you. Seems like excessive
haha is that picture matthew, the other dating coach?!
I prefer Alex than Matthew.
Deffo they are both hot too which helps! Alex has some serious depth tho. gets right down to the core of things!
Yeah! Alex goes deeper in the mind of men!
Simone Randall I think Alex will interview Mathew.
Some one are waiting to hear nice words from you
"IF A PERSON DOESN'T LOVE YOU, THEY'RE NEVER GONNA LOVE YOU!" LUV YA ALEX YOU'RE AMAZING YOU REALLY ARE THE BEST! THANK YOU...♡♡♡
I just cant get used to watching other channels, I like yours the most :)
IMO - for most women, falling in love is an emotional rollercoaster full gut-wrenching twists and turns
You definitely outdid yourself on this video... One of your best.
I’ve never asked him if he was in love with me . After a month , he told me he was in love with me :) not sure If love is possible that fast . But whatever the case, he said it first .
how 😭
i'm currently 3 minutes in on ignoring his GM text and havent text him in over 36 hours..... lol. 1st time I unfriended him on fb and did not text.. 5 days later he finally text and inboxed me saying he cant believe that i unfriended him and that it was bothering him... i really enjoy him, but i am the one that is very expressive and i wear my feelings on my shoulders... i sense he feels the same way how i feel about him, but he isn't quick to say things... he thinks about it FOR A LONG TIME... wanting to make sure he is doing and saying the right thing... I mean he shows me, but I need to hear words and expression as well. Is that a bad thing
01:45 is where the video begins
I just wonder why we like the people who aren't capable of loving us. But no matter how hard it is to make a man you like to fall for you, you should at least try to make him notice you. Approach him in a friendly manner, who knows, you will get along with each other.
So far everything that you have said has worked!! I love listening to your infinite wisdom and knowledge about love and relationships!
I showed my other side alright. He said I scared him. I said, why, you are the one collecting guns, I just use my mouth? He got it. Men say they are afraid when women get angry but we need to tell them why we get angry and it has to do with their bad behaviors.
I get it...just be yourself. I do this stuff naturally. I don't put on airs
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My bf did she me really stressed out. Do that count for seeing another side. Mostly, I am sexual.
There are youtubers that read stories that their subscribers send to them or they go get it off story websites. You need to ask your fans to send in stories of their love lives past and present, mainly if it got better off what you are teaching them. Try to keep them all under the same topic on the same video. Tell them the topic you need stories for when you have short stories and you need more stories about the same thing to fill up the time you want to fill up. To keep their attention, try to keep each video between 15 to 30 minutes. Start with the story I wrote below. Let them know you got the story from one of your subscribers because you asked the question, what would you do to make your man feel special or what ever that question was. Go listen to the end of your video and you will hear how you asked the question. Let me know if I have any typos I my story so I can fix it before you read it.
Good luck.
My bf dumped. Bl8cked me in everything and went back in the dating site and he has blocked me on that too. I guess there is no way back from that is there?
Just don't do this if he is a narc. Then it will not be a reason to fall in love, but a way to control you.
love Matthew's pic on the thumbnail!
haha i thought it'd be funny lol
I took 2 days to watch all your videos. You are by far my fav
what if its long distance?
malika hammond You can very easily apply these techniques if it’s long distance.
You are a realist. Of all the dating coaches, your advice works best.
This is your most powerful most meaningful video, the sound of this video it is excellent, thank you.
It's so fun listening to you Alex and listening to all of the ways you advise ladies to get "the man". But no matter what tactic is used, there HAS to be interest on his part in the first place or all of this is just one big huge waste of time.
I love how you break it down
Love this technique! It's natural for me
Having a hard time getting past the blue fuzzy looking ice cream cone 🤣
question:how can i show him my love when i am not sure that he wants me the same like i want him?in any more ways then being at home together ,make love .do i tell him this?or show in other ways?my experience is that i like to feel that we want the same.i hate to tell him all this things again and again .then it lose meaning for me.so how i can act to find out this.?
If you're still not sure that means there is no trust in your relationship unfortunately and he is taking you for granted!
wow okay im glad i listened to this. lots of advice out there is: ONLY be cool, laid back, never give a F., good mood, perfect princess, bla bla bla 🙄 im glad im showing glimpses of my shadow too-keepin it real!
I think my problem is is that I show too much about how I FEEL. How can I calm down?
Laura Short just fall back. Focus on you, hanging out with family and friends. Find a new hobby, and don’t respond to his calls/texts so quick. Take three hours to respond.
You are not alone girl. I do exactly the same when i am around the guy i am very attracted to. It takes practice, train your brain muscle. Just noticed when you want to react fast, breath and control your emotions
I feel like I have been Mathew fished
He is better
Why is Matthew Hussey in the Thumbnail ahahahahahaa
you are amazing. wish i had found you sooner! keep it up
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One of ur best videos 👌 VERY well put together... Very articulate... Very structured
This was a great video! Glad I found it! Apparently I need to catch up some more.
Good one Alex now this one is definitely a good one. Ladies take note
You are amazing, very passionate and expressive in the exposition
Interesting video! I see where you're coming with this, quite intriguing to me.
Sexual aura... it's like when you "Netflix and chill" and you're pretending to watch the movie but what's really on your mind is the part when the tv will be switched off and shit gets dooown with like fucking sexual music in the background and both half naked... great stuff... brilliant 👍🏽hahah
That last jealousy question was the missing jewel!!! Thank you friend on the glass
I really enjoyed this video 😁
This video is still GOLD
This is the most powerful video you have
these are good tips because it's true and it's something that I'm actually walking through right now with this very exceptional man that I met a few months ago. So you telling our experiences right now
That girl in the background walking up and down is so annoying. I would get a private booth without windows.
Pity you hardly read comments...really great vid Alex👍
Hey,
What if he leaves you and then use the child as an excuse to visit and smiles and then goes cold. Respond.
Iesha Green lol
Love your videos they always make me feel better
I think I started Falling inlove with you dear.. You always make sense
Alex could we have a part 2 on this please loved this and someone rudely interrupted lol
i miss your hair
Omg I actually did that!! I work with a gay man and told him i kinda like him and he shows interest😂
6:27 i hide everything! it's such a struggle....
Did anyone else think he was holding a puppy at first? 🤣
What do we do when we are already in a love relationship. How do we keep them once they know they don't have to work hard to get us anymore? Do we have to continuously create fear and anxiety in them to make guys want us more. It would be exhausting I think to do this for so many years. What if he gets jealous to the point of thinking well I don't trust her so I might as well go cheat too.
+Tulip watch the newest vid
How are you such a genius!! God Bless your heart
True! This gaves me the best Results, in the past. The best Video 👌🏼 because I think authencity always wins.
How do you not have more views
thank you for the notes! this video came at the perfect time.
what about when a guy doesn't show much emotions? how can you tell how he feels?
Damn... Ur good... he confessed!!!!... He said he's in love with me... I didn't say "i love you" back cause i'm showing it with my actions not with my words, just following ur advices Father Alex 😄 but... He tried to make me say it and said he reciprocates the feeling... I said "you say it first then!! ", he said "me first? No, no, no...." 😄 Sooo now we assume we love each other but we shut the f**k up, we ain t saying it.... Where will this go? I m really in love with this guy so i don t wanna ruin everything... 😃 He still chasing, we still good, but he withdrawed emotionally a little after all this, maybe felt vulnerable...so... What next Father Alex??
P. S: You'r the best!!!
You are really good...great approaches.
is it a good i idea to fall in love with a younger guy?
katty sultan when you find out let me know... Wait..too late I've already fallen. 😢
Why not? What age are you and him?
@@mist__4974 I am 23, he is 21
@@mist__4974 help me
Baby Sloth that’s totally ok!! Hope you went for it!!
Love the flower mic 💮🎤
this was very good. thank you!
Alex, by doing the one video a day with notes, you have made yourself a little more organized, but you have taken away from the spontaneous part of yourself and freedom to just say whatever comes to you, that's the realness that I liked and admired about you and your coaching, but do whatever works best for you. Still, great content today.
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See, this is where I feel Alex looked his best...
Great video :)
LOL at the girl behind you with her cell phone
your twists are dangerous hehe
I’m to selfish to chase a man
Who dis? 😂😂 Love you!! Totally applying your advice and got 2 dates this week.
Gladyou have refreshed your self. Alex...!! Your voice also sounds stronger........ For real. Pam
You’re the beeeest 👏🏼
The poor girl who ALMOST got her questions answered 😵💔
You are it! new subscriber here. Thank you
sweden love you!
Thankyou ❤
My boyfriend of 2 years never mentioned marriage, so I brought it up and he said, "I don't ever want to get married again, but I love you, I just llike watching my T.V. shows and being alone as I am 76 y.o. now so why marry? I was deeply hurt. He is an alcoholic l year sober but now has started drinking again. I truly love this man. What should I do?
Love yourself....invest in someone...who will love you back...and invest in you...don't buy tickets for this roller coaster ride...get off!
love your videos
i will finish the video before talking to him again. aha!
pls someone should help me. when a guy sounds too harsh on a girl, but doesn't still wants to let the girl go, what does it mean?
Has Alex done a video on how to tell a man no? I get two different stages, a stranger comes up to u strikes up a conversation then eventually asks the ? Do u have a man.... the best ans I have come up with is, 'thats end of discussion on this topic, would u like to talk about something else... I don't talk abt these things so I'm not inviting more discussion abt it.' then there is 2nd case, u go to a reoccurring salsa class or whatever & a dance partner tries to ask u out. well all I can come up with is 'hey, I see u as a friend / good acquaintance& I'm not looking for more in my life at this time.' that's the best I can come up with. In the 1st scenario it infuriates me when a stranger comes up to me, eventually asks the question, then asks More ?s about my answer, (like I have to dance around their persistence etc/ 'no, thank u' is Never enough, they always want to talk more about it).so I'm planning to be even more direct as stated
Very intuitive video, thank you Alex. However, I don't like the abrupt ending, as the questions you were answering from the comments were quite educative 😐
Thank you Alex☺
Good stuff👍💋
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will this work when you want to get someone back? my middle school sweetheart and i started dating for a month and both of us were fresh out of long term relationships. his ex came back wanting to work things out. he went back, but felt uncertain about the decision because he developed feelings for me. I'm doing my own thing now, but i do miss him. lol....
Sacha Walton he wouldn't be a good candidate for a long term relationship because he'll always have his ex on the back burner in case it doesn't work out with you. So what you need to do is put him also on the back burner and find yourself a main man
Cool Chicka thank you
I like this baby boy look 👀 lol
Great video
Alex! Omg-if a person can’t hear you, they can’t!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Men who chose not to hear you toxic. Never chose them, protect yourself from these ego-whores.
YOUR AMAZING
This is me naturally... I like watching these videos to put things into perspective but I'm a cancer so I have the too strong too weak personality... sweet probably why I get bored with games quick
I promise their ain't a formula to a man's heart. But there is to a woman's one
You are full of wisdom
What if you are not on social media? What tactic can you use regarding that.....
i would have avoided a crazy suck the life out of you relationship a few years ago
I like your office 😊