I really want to help this gem of a lady. Please if she’s comfortable, share her contacts please. I am a fully qualified nurse in the UK specialised in learning disability and am hoping to move back home to Kenya this year. Please if she’s ok, share her contacts BMS
Count me in ...nta skip lunch yangu ya one day niwanunulie super ya siku moja..God bless all Team BMS..if your ready to join us .to surprise huyu mother..drop your comment down here.....Stevoh angusha number tuchangamke👏👏
"do you have a kid, is this the kind of life you want to live in 6 years to come.. do you know wht you will give birth to" leo comrades ana serve sense like no ones business ... Kudos stivo
She cant drop a tear because she has learnt to live with this pain. Oh God.!..i feel the pain especially for her disabled kids, taking care of them alone takes alot😢
STEVO KINDLY HELP ME WITH THE CONTACTS OF THAT LADY,I WILL GIVE EVEN THE LITTLE ASSISSTANCE THAT I CAN,AM DR.ODHIAMBO OKOWA OF OASIS HEALTH SIAYA.THANKS
22:20 I like this woman,amevumilia na bado hako na nguvu,may God see her through with your kids,God will perform a miracle and put a smile on your face,i pray for you,and for the side chick all the best and congratulations you now have a good husband mek sure umeshika mimba haraka ujionee matokeo,God si kamau
The more I see this video's as a young girl I learn alot,to make better decisions when it comes to a married man, it's very painful doing this to your fellow woman. God will see her through and her kid's, wish we can help her.
Hi,This one has touched me since I started watching you,if I had a way of helping this lady I would have done it,to my brother don't leave your kids suffer Remember God is control of us we are His children,love your kids the way you want Our almighty God to love, Never allow the woman to leave you will regret
I disagree with you. It is God who create and He doesn't use disability to punish. He just create all things and animals and behold He says 'it is good'.
Might be genetic and could be from either parent. My advice to both ,to get checked before having more children if they are finding it hard to care for the two kids.
The name you give to a child has power, Masumbuko is the genesis of it all. Seek God and change your name.Untill you do that, no matter where you run this will follow you
haunt how surely u people tend to give out your judgement with emotions ...huyu dem is innocent Ni huyo baba alimfuata and the lady is out of this Na huyu bwana ndo a make if anaacha huyu mama he should take full responsibility of his kid
@@carolinederi5690 utu aje pia huyu mschna ako Na roho anapaswa kupendwa and it's not her fault bwna akiamua kutafuta kwengine ...let's just be truthful the husband has not come to term that yy anazalisha watoi wako hvyo so Ni poa kumpea chnce aone if anaeza try with someone else...hizi vitu za kulazimisha ndo utaskia bwna ameua Bibi Na watoto wote...
Maze,atleast we can work together to ease her pain/burden, we may not always do it but maybe we can do sth fir her to sleep well for a night,I know of a place she can go for and relax her mind,and by that time she will have a nurse looking after her kids,even if it's only a night woiye
May God open doors for you mum.You are not alone am as well a mum of two disabled boys.i know the pain and stigma from people around us.worse from partners!Take heart and love them more.we can't do anything about it.all wat you mentioned i have been passing through.wear a smile we shall overcome this.
And may he find peace in Jesus name because that's the only reasonable way for him to find his way back... He seems like he loved his family but he's disappointed with life.
True @naomyachieng8444, Sometimes we feel lost and confused. The lady said the guy felt suicidal at some point. Leaving his family is not the way out but he also need help and counciling. Ain't easy for either of them.
If this man leaves this woman and gets a disabled child again what will he do. Disability is something that should not be faulted to one party. God will surely see this woman through but for the man, we leave it to God.
@@naomynanjala6469 On girls so many people get boys after changing the woman and vice versa.But with congenital conditions if the man is the cause there is a likelihood of recurrence with a different female.Though the move by this man is very wise he needs to try a different woman and see the results
The most mature and serious talk i have ever heard from Big Man, kudos👏 Mimi naomba tu ikiwezekana, huyu mama hata tungemchangia kama mia tano hivi ajipange nayo, akiendelea kulea watoto wake wawili na aweze kuwabutia hata dawa na vyakula for the time being, becouse I'm certain wasaidizi will come through. Please! Share her number tutume kakitu Big Man🙏🙏
When I am sad 😭, He holds me, when I cry 😭 He wipes my tears, when I am broken 💔 He puts me back together, when I fall He catches me. Thank you Lord for always being there for me ❤❤🙏.
Those last words from this woman will forever hunt this girl for the rest of her life. She will remember them each day the moment she will get a kid with that man. The best thing is walk away and not destroy someone else marriage
What hv learned from this life, sometimes bad things happens for the good one to happen and I believe this woman'that's the beggining of her life to change..
Thank you very much stevo for the good work you are doing.May God keep on blessing and guiding you.Your presence in the society has been so helpful to alot of people,keep doing what you do,and be blessed
May God's favour and blessings be upon her children..They will shine mama ..Ukiwa kwa situation ngumu hivi huwezi kua na rafiki but God will never forsake you❤
This lady is 💯 percent innocent whatever the situation is she is right, she only needs a helping hand 🙏 👍 to assist her she, and her children are all creatures of our God who created the world 🌍, the heavens all the creatures.
Not so innocent. The moment a man opens up and tells you he is married. A smart girl upstairs would break that connection. You don't go ahead and say niliona siwezi mwachilia. She will be very innocent if she is not aware he is married.
My everlasting and powerful God, stand with this lady,, heal her children and give them happy life,, suffering isn't her , her portion,her portion is to lead a happy life,, lord I trust you so much, in Jesus name I call upon your name to this lady Amen, 🙏🙏
This young lady is strong and victorious..she has battled depression for long..in my view ,the children might have developed complications from birth and may be the father wasn't responsible enough to Ensure that their welfare improve Steve if you have a paybill number bring it on board tum saidie ... Its not too late something can be done ✅
As much as people will criticize this young lady truth be told, she is just a character in that man's scrip. if she fell in love with him is because of what the man told het
The girlfriend is beautiful inside out. The wife is a resilient person who is totally at peace with herself. I can't blame the man at all. Life can as challenging as it can be incomprehensible.
💯 all of these people are dealing with their lack differently...one is longing for companionsship and love...the other is overwhelmed at home and this has found refuge and consultation in the hands of another woman....the wife is also overwhelmed if she found a shoulder to lean on she would also lean on it. All these three people are dealing with their emotions uniquely.They all are filling a void in their lives.They are all just human. Love and light to all of them and I pray they find healing in this difficult time.
These nabies who are differently abled is daunting...it needs lots of patience, acceptance and understanding.I am sorry lady.May God above give you the strength.
BMS thanks for the follow up. Hopefully this 24 year old side hen will listen to your very hearted sound advice. I couldn't have said it better. May the lord watch over those disabled kids and the loving mom. It's a lot for anyone to handle. Pole sana dada 😢
Hivi amuoni kama uyu demu piya anaskiya vibaya mbona muna mu judge sana,she still young and beautiful and Gold heart 💛 ingekuwa ungine angurusha mdomo,she will find someone else.
True infact all these words people are saying were for the man in questions but allover sudden people are now busy with the innocent one they have found ; too bad
@Flavour 001 Kindly note those children are not disabled but living with disability or Abled Differently. Us persons living with disabilities don't feel nice when we are called disabled.
That 24yr old lady should leave that guy to take care of his kids and wife. That revelation should also open up her mind coz the problem could also be from the man she calls heaven sent. BMS thank you for opening up the emotions of that young lady. I now know she'll leave that man.
I keep saying avoid girls under 25yrs, and under 25yrs avoid married men. hamuwezi mix hata kidogo. married men wanapenda juu mko confused easily. murife!!
I really want to help this gem of a lady. Please if she’s comfortable, share her contacts please. I am a fully qualified nurse in the UK specialised in learning disability and am hoping to move back home to Kenya this year. Please if she’s ok, share her contacts BMS
@flavour0018
Wow my God bless you dear
@Flavour 001 kuja hapa upeane connection huyo mama asaidiwe
Thanks brothe
Dm comrades flavour akuconnect na yeye...thank you for coming through for her May God bless you
As a Father of disabled child 😢 i can feel her
😢 hug dear
❤❤❤
Hug from me dad.We take them the way they are.am a mum of two as well.i don't have a reason to blame God.
I feel 😢for this lady aki two disable children,,BMS plis let’s do something to this lady aki hata kama atafungua job wether ni kibanda ❤
Count me in ...nta skip lunch yangu ya one day niwanunulie super ya siku moja..God bless all Team BMS..if your ready to join us .to surprise huyu mother..drop your comment down here.....Stevoh angusha number tuchangamke👏👏
Sure
I will support
Uniite wakieka no
@@linetnyamoita5795 poa dear
GOD PLEASE HELP THIS HUMBLE WOMAN.This is my only prayer today.No more.
Me working as a caregiver I can feel this mama it is not easy may God give her streghth
God have mercy and favor this woman and her children.
Let your face shine on her and her children.
Aaiii mungu saidia ndowa 😢
Amen 🙏
Amen
Amen amen amen 🙏🙏🙏
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"do you have a kid, is this the kind of life you want to live in 6 years to come.. do you know wht you will give birth to" leo comrades ana serve sense like no ones business ... Kudos stivo
She cant drop a tear because she has learnt to live with this pain. Oh God.!..i feel the pain especially for her disabled kids, taking care of them alone takes alot😢
STEVO KINDLY HELP ME WITH THE CONTACTS OF THAT LADY,I WILL GIVE EVEN THE LITTLE ASSISSTANCE THAT I CAN,AM DR.ODHIAMBO OKOWA OF OASIS HEALTH SIAYA.THANKS
Let's all remember this lady has we pray and her kids will be well 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Strong and beautiful lady....
The future is gonna be great for you
Amen
This man is accusing this lady for giving birth to disabled kids forgetting that he may be the problem😢
Aki imgne
God show mercy to this young lady 😢😢
stivo talking to the side chick as a parent should adress her daughter love it big man 😂
I really felt it. Good advice Steve
@@elizabethmagu8110 exactly he did as any parent would do
Very very mature, I loved it
@@wambuigitau8195 true.
May God bless this woman
Amen
22:20 I like this woman,amevumilia na bado hako na nguvu,may God see her through with your kids,God will perform a miracle and put a smile on your face,i pray for you,and for the side chick all the best and congratulations you now have a good husband mek sure umeshika mimba haraka ujionee matokeo,God si kamau
Kamau ametulia Tu then boom!
The more I see this video's as a young girl I learn alot,to make better decisions when it comes to a married man, it's very painful doing this to your fellow woman. God will see her through and her kid's, wish we can help her.
Hi,This one has touched me since I started watching you,if I had a way of helping this lady I would have done it,to my brother don't leave your kids suffer Remember God is control of us we are His children,love your kids the way you want Our almighty God to love, Never allow the woman to leave you will regret
Stivo mark my words whoever is going to have kids with this guy may end up in the same situation
Sure
True
I disagree with you. It is God who create and He doesn't use disability to punish. He just create all things and animals and behold He says 'it is good'.
Children are innocent.mzu God not use children to punish him.! Amen
Might be genetic and could be from either parent. My advice to both ,to get checked before having more children if they are finding it hard to care for the two kids.
The name you give to a child has power, Masumbuko is the genesis of it all. Seek God and change your name.Untill you do that, no matter where you run this will follow you
Very true
I agree. Even in Kikuyu we have names like Ng'endo(safari)Muriu(mlevi) and so forth. I know a lady by the name Shida, wee hata yeye amepitia
True
Exactly. Names have power and this is the genesis of the story.
Oh my God😮who gives such names to their children 😢
Can this young girl open eyes
Those tears will hunt her
haunt how surely u people tend to give out your judgement with emotions ...huyu dem is innocent Ni huyo baba alimfuata and the lady is out of this Na huyu bwana ndo a make if anaacha huyu mama he should take full responsibility of his kid
She'll never know peace together with that foolish man.
She'll never know peace together with that foolish man.
@@TashmimaAbdullahiBaada ya kujua ukweli kama yuko na utu kweli lazima aachane na huyo mwanamme
@@carolinederi5690 utu aje pia huyu mschna ako Na roho anapaswa kupendwa and it's not her fault bwna akiamua kutafuta kwengine ...let's just be truthful the husband has not come to term that yy anazalisha watoi wako hvyo so Ni poa kumpea chnce aone if anaeza try with someone else...hizi vitu za kulazimisha ndo utaskia bwna ameua Bibi Na watoto wote...
The questions asked by BMS are top notch..
I know God you will do something unfathomable to this mama i love God how you huddle things and one day mama you will smile
He might leave his wife and marry side chic but they may never know peace ..there is God in heaven😢
Hugs dear mom
BMS fanya jambo, we are one great family, tushike huyu mama mkono
Fun tusaidieni huyu mama kidogo kidogo
Aki 4 real
Very true her case is so genuine. She has gone through alot in those 6 years.
Maze,atleast we can work together to ease her pain/burden, we may not always do it but maybe we can do sth fir her to sleep well for a night,I know of a place she can go for and relax her mind,and by that time she will have a nurse looking after her kids,even if it's only a night woiye
How can we get her number
Very true akh
This episode has hit me hard, may God bless this woman and her kids, May she find happiness within.
May God open doors for you mum.You are not alone am as well a mum of two disabled boys.i know the pain and stigma from people around us.worse from partners!Take heart and love them more.we can't do anything about it.all wat you mentioned i have been passing through.wear a smile we shall overcome this.
May this man never find peace😪😪
Amen
Surely
how quick for you to judge. as long as you live dont!
And may he find peace in Jesus name because that's the only reasonable way for him to find his way back... He seems like he loved his family but he's disappointed with life.
True @naomyachieng8444, Sometimes we feel lost and confused. The lady said the guy felt suicidal at some point. Leaving his family is not the way out but he also need help and counciling. Ain't easy for either of them.
Ooh God remember this woman,comfort her heart and children,let your will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven
This mans name is "Masumbuko" Names hold deep meaning to our lives.
Thinking the same,he should pray over the name
The woman made me cry from inside out. She really needs support from every corner. I hope she emains strong and focused on raising her 2 kids.
Ameen.One day our government shall support such children so that families can be relieved.
If this man leaves this woman and gets a disabled child again what will he do. Disability is something that should not be faulted to one party. God will surely see this woman through but for the man, we leave it to God.
Very likely because alot of these genetic conditions especially autism originates from the male side of the family
Thank you sir😂, I rem one did it due to birthing gals,,, then he went up birthing another gal with the worst condition sickel cell😢
aki this side chick 😢
@@naomynanjala6469 On girls so many people get boys after changing the woman and vice versa.But with congenital conditions if the man is the cause there is a likelihood of recurrence with a different female.Though the move by this man is very wise he needs to try a different woman and see the results
I can feel the pain of this woman, getting abandoned at the hour of need. its heartbreaking😭
The most mature and serious talk i have ever heard from Big Man, kudos👏
Mimi naomba tu ikiwezekana, huyu mama hata tungemchangia kama mia tano hivi ajipange nayo, akiendelea kulea watoto wake wawili na aweze kuwabutia hata dawa na vyakula for the time being, becouse I'm certain wasaidizi will come through. Please! Share her number tutume kakitu Big Man🙏🙏
When I am sad 😭, He holds me, when I cry 😭 He wipes my tears, when I am broken 💔 He puts me back together, when I fall He catches me. Thank you Lord for always being there for me ❤❤🙏.
May Our Might God bless this woman with good wealth so that she can take care of her children
The lady is good humble may God give you wisdom to take care your kids much love ❤️
BMS, this is how you deal with such cases. I am satisfied with how you handled this
Those last words from this woman will forever hunt this girl for the rest of her life. She will remember them each day the moment she will get a kid with that man. The best thing is walk away and not destroy someone else marriage
May God heal the heart of that lady and help her to move on
This one made mi shade tears my God see this woman through please man stivo let's help this mama to bounce back please
May GOD bring peace n healing in this goat's wife life
What hv learned from this life, sometimes bad things happens for the good one to happen and I believe this woman'that's the beggining of her life to change..
My Dear having such children is not a bad thing. Disability just fine according to God.Tell Mama to stop complaining.
There's indeed power in a name..Masumbuko. ... No wonder ameleta masumbuko kwa life ya huyu madam...
Thank you very much stevo for the good work you are doing.May God keep on blessing and guiding you.Your presence in the society has been so helpful to alot of people,keep doing what you do,and be blessed
This is so painful,BMS please let’s do something for this mama, let’s also pray for her and the children
COMRADES FLAVOUR, you are doing a good job : to learn a truth love!, no hypocrisy. Thank you Bro!
Stevo help this lady,,,,much much pain,,she going through alot
Mama jipe Tu nguvu wacha mungu pekeake akupe nguvu mingi😢😢❤❤❤
Amen to everything you have manifested for this strong woman
Lord Jesus intervine for her. You sre the giver of all
May God's favour and blessings be upon her children..They will shine mama ..Ukiwa kwa situation ngumu hivi huwezi kua na rafiki but God will never forsake you❤
This lady is 💯 percent innocent whatever the situation is she is right, she only needs a helping hand 🙏 👍 to assist her she, and her children are all creatures of our God who created the world 🌍, the heavens all the creatures.
What are you saying?
Perfectly said.
Not so innocent. The moment a man opens up and tells you he is married. A smart girl upstairs would break that connection. You don't go ahead and say niliona siwezi mwachilia. She will be very innocent if she is not aware he is married.
Ooh God may this woman find solace in the Lord.hugs mamaa...healing for the kids🙏
I love how this sidechick is calm ✨✨✨I like the sidechick 's calmness, it's topnotch ✨
Teamsidechic
God show Thy face upon this lady n give her peace n strength to withstand all what she's going through.
My everlasting and powerful God, stand with this lady,, heal her children and give them happy life,, suffering isn't her , her portion,her portion is to lead a happy life,, lord I trust you so much, in Jesus name I call upon your name to this lady Amen, 🙏🙏
Their must be a strong attack behind this marriage. May this family be delivered in Jesus name
Start with the guys name?his foundation is questionable he should seek God
Deliverance is needed here and it shall be well with them in Jesus mighty name amen
Thankyou my brother God bless you, oh my God am crying..
When the lady spoke my stomach caught fire, lady she ain’t blessing you thunder is warming up run when you still got time
May God bless this woman and see her through
This young lady is strong and victorious..she has battled depression for long..in my view ,the children might have developed complications from birth and may be the father wasn't responsible enough to Ensure that their welfare improve
Steve if you have a paybill number bring it on board tum saidie ...
Its not too late something can be done ✅
Hio jina Masumbuko ndio shida aki. there is power in a name.
Ungeweka no yake tuweke hata 50bob jameni 🙏🙏🙏
I second u … inge msaidia sana tena
May God comfort you Madam, it will be well 🙏. Hugs❤
Things we women go through 😭😭😭😭😭 and hey, i dont mean men dont go through shit but some moms 😭😭😭😭😭May God do you justice mama❤
May GOD show mercy on her
As much as people will criticize this young lady truth be told, she is just a character in that man's scrip. if she fell in love with him is because of what the man told het
i had to look for this part , thank you Stevo for your insight and advice to this young lady.
I pity the wife it was soo emotional
The gal looks innocent aki hakua amepewa story na watoi 😢
Young gal don't even think of marrying him coz God will deal with u
Apitie hii comment itamsaidia huko mbeleni
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The girlfriend is beautiful inside out. The wife is a resilient person who is totally at peace with herself. I can't blame the man at all. Life can as challenging as it can be incomprehensible.
You must be a counsellor... understanding everyone
💯 all of these people are dealing with their lack differently...one is longing for companionsship and love...the other is overwhelmed at home and this has found refuge and consultation in the hands of another woman....the wife is also overwhelmed if she found a shoulder to lean on she would also lean on it. All these three people are dealing with their emotions uniquely.They all are filling a void in their lives.They are all just human. Love and light to all of them and I pray they find healing in this difficult time.
I love this reasoning ; infact the girlfriend is so cool and truly she is not the couse of this family problems
Lets support this lady with her children ❤
The story is soo touching, kindly tag Eric Omondi , through team ‘sisi kwa sisi’ she can get some help and take the kids to hospital
God forbid ...a fine woman like this ...May God brightened your days in Jesus name 👏👏
Dada man stevo isnyour.help.speaking.ouy is healing.Ni watoto wako mami.Hio gene inatoka kwake.Bms plz do a challenge we support mama 2
These nabies who are differently abled is daunting...it needs lots of patience, acceptance and understanding.I am sorry lady.May God above give you the strength.
Today's follow up is so touching. May the light of the God shine in your life and your kids
Amen
This is sad
Sio kupenda kwa mtu azae disabled aki
In The Mighty Name of Jesus may they stand up and given her joy in her heart.
BMS organise a live session we bless her
I second you kama venye naonanga tik tok akh😢
Masumbuko... What if this man is living up to his name
Asking same question,name also matters.
BMS thanks for the follow up. Hopefully this 24 year old side hen will listen to your very hearted sound advice. I couldn't have said it better. May the lord watch over those disabled kids and the loving mom. It's a lot for anyone to handle. Pole sana dada 😢
She is still a side chic....
May this dwanzi man never find PEACE IN JESUS NAME. shidwe shidwe .rip Manaaa never give up on your children no matter what.
Pain takes time to heal, God is with you and shall show you a way through. Pole mum
nafanya besty lady tao nauza wig nyef nyef kitakuramba
That wig is not favoring her at all!!! Shame!
Dear God.. Come over this woman
Hivi amuoni kama uyu demu piya anaskiya vibaya mbona muna mu judge sana,she still young and beautiful and Gold heart 💛 ingekuwa ungine angurusha mdomo,she will find someone else.
we so ease to judge this young lady didnt knowall this amejua tu hapa then now we brand all sorts of names . the husband ndo a demon .
True infact all these words people are saying were for the man in questions but allover sudden people are now busy with the innocent one they have found ; too bad
@Flavour 001 Kindly note those children are not disabled but living with disability or Abled Differently. Us persons living with disabilities don't feel nice when we are called disabled.
God does not sleep. Thank you Steve for asking the side chiq are those important questions
Bms the lady has known the truth ,no more excuses she either start her own life of searching new husband or stay single
May God give you strength mama 🙏 ❤ ,may He send destiny helpers to hold your hand. Amen Amen 🙏
This Girl is so Naive . I feel so sorry for her😭
First love
Ladies,,be careful when you choose a partner 😢today have really cried aki after watching this 😭😭May God see you through and the kids 🙏
Sometimes Steve does a lot....need to be appreciated bro
Very true
So painful,may the lord remember this mama,amen
😢😢😢😢stevo na tukichangia huyo mama apate tupesa twa kumsukuma akienda ushagu?
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That 24yr old lady should leave that guy to take care of his kids and wife. That revelation should also open up her mind coz the problem could also be from the man she calls heaven sent. BMS thank you for opening up the emotions of that young lady. I now know she'll leave that man.
I keep saying avoid girls under 25yrs, and under 25yrs avoid married men. hamuwezi mix hata kidogo. married men wanapenda juu mko confused easily. murife!!