lontalius - it's not love
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- From the debut album, “i’ll forget 17”, out now via Partisan Records.
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"It sinks into your head, how it hurts, but it's not love."
I think a lot of us, including me, relate to this.
ok taylor
*hell it hurts
(I made the same mistake)
@@alexbaribeault ik it's been a year but me too thought it was how it hurts and it should have been that way its just so much better than hell it hurts...
Remember guys theres a different between attachment and love. Attachment is how someone makes you feel, love is selfless. Before getting into a relationship make sure you love yourself first.
Have a good day x
how would you define loving yourself?
@@emmalevasseur5700 My definition would be that you don't care about what others think about you at all, since YOU want to do that certain thing or whatever. But honestly I don't know Emma, I don't love myself but it's something I'm working on. What would be your definition?
@@Eggdad I agree with that definition 100%. it shouldn't matter what others think about you, and in fact, it literally doesn't. I'm not here to impress anybody and I don't think anyone else should be either. we're not here to cater to others and take orders. we're here to fulfill our soul's purpose and live in our authenticity, and no one can take away from you.
as for whether I love myself, well, yes and no. we all have the things about ourselves that we wish weren't there. to truly love yourself, you have to embrace both your light and your darkness. our shadow selves carry all the things we repress about ourselves, both negative and positive. the shadow is everything unknown about yourself.
I'm in the midst of doing a whole lot of shadow work and I'm now seeing my own identity shift before my own eyes. it's very liberating as well as fear inducing, but that's simply because of old patterns and triggers that are coming up to be healed. very old patterns that my soul has been holding onto for lifetimes.
@@ruesylvester Beautiful put.
i’m just attached
I listened to this song on repeat at 6 in the morning after staying up all night sitting on a couch on someone else's porch while smoking a cigarette in the freezing cold and I felt the deepest loneliness I have ever felt
Damn me last night bro feels
oh wow
Did this while weeping infront of my lover
Had a similar experience but with a different song. Snuck out of a shared hotel room at like 3am to smoke a cigarette on the rooftop looking over the city's skyline. I was listening to "I'm Not Human At All" by Sleep Party People and that was the loneliest I ever felt. The awfully cold feeling still haunts me.
It's sad boi hours again
Galactic Wolf isn’t it always:/
Bro 😔
its always sad boi hours ;-;
Ayyy
It's always sad boi hours
Currently stuck in a hole of sad songs and this one made me feel a bit more at ease.
My heart broke so that's why I'm into sad songs.
I'm just wondering why you're listening to sad songs.
Anexys Alicea somehow, me too.. heard a bunch of sad songs, but this one .. this one actually calmed me a bit
Insanely relatable. This is comforting. The songs that lead me to discover it were just insanely depressing
It's 2021 I hope you're doing better
How did i not listen to Lontalius before?
Richelle Lim same here
Richelle Lim cause you didnt know of him
Same
@@l9rr955 well no shit smart one
If this isn't love, then why the hell is it so heartbreakingly beautiful?
Beautiful comment
I can kinda relate to this song. I loved someone who only saw me as a friend..problema was I didn't know it was love...I just couldn't breath everytime I thought of him and was on the verge of tears. My heart raced so much when he was around and I just wanted to hug him. This story does have a happy ending though, I've now been with him for 5 years now :) So now I do know it's love, it always was.
awwwweeee! :D
KyuubiNoNeko honestly brought me to tears (sorry I'm such a crybaby 😂)
ɪ'ᴍ ᴀʟʀɪɢʜᴛ awww have a hug (>n.n)>
I'm kind of in that situation first now where I like this guy and we have had a 'brother-sister' relationship for 7 years and I'm starting to develop feelings for him, i don't know
your story gave me hope
I want a happy ending someday
Nobody needs an actuall happy ending nor do we always get it. What the people want most is love without an ending
@@davidserrano2119 Not necessarily. For a blind man it would be to see the world, for a person with no legs it would be to finally be able to walk
What creates a happy ending is looking at how life was to the end. You don’t wait for your happy ending, you create it.
I hope you get your happy ending ❤️
If you are reading this by any chance... I wanted the same. And I got hurt so, so damn much... So I had to realize, that I don't- I-I don't have to strive for it, to exhaust myself for... For love. It'll come. It'll come in it's time. Until... I just have to wait and learn for her. Learn for her, when she does come.
Be patient my friend.
I've been in really bad depression and you really helped don't give up on music!
his music helps with my depression as well, very glad to know about him and his music cause everything he creates is somehow.related to how I feel and what I am going through
Same here, my friends..
Cassie Wiseman do you need some one to speak to ?
hi, now you're okay?
Cassie Wiseman it really does help
Damn this is relatable for me. I had a hard time coming to the realization that we couldn’t love each other because we’re on two entirely different paths in two entirely different places. That sacrifice wasn’t worth what we had.
fuck this hit me
stuck in a doorway
don't know where u are
if they had it your way
shooting stars
stuck in a doorway
don't know where u are
if they had it your way
shooting stars
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
stuck in a doorway
don't know where u are
if they had it your way
shooting stars
stuck in a doorway
don't know where u are
if they had it your way
shooting stars
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
it sinks into yr head hell it hurts but its not love
você é brasileira?
sim
Rafaela Nobre
Eu também! :-) ...
yaaay :)
I'll forget 17 and 18.. I'll forget him.. and the pain that I'm feeling right now.
I will too. We'll be okay, friend
And I will too...
I'll forget her and how she hurt me. It hurts it really hurts
Me too Goddammit
I will too
idk why but,, everytime i listen to this song and focus on the lyrics i just,,, feel,, sad. it hurts how much i can relate to the lyrics. i love people who don’t love me TOO much so when they go,,, i just feel sad and feel like i did something wrong.
every one of your songs takes me to a place i can't even find the words to describe. you're one of the only artists to have done that with just one song, and the only artist to have done that with all of them. please never stop doing what you do.
Bow talk with me
EDEN brought me here... EDEN ft.Lontalius & Crywolf... just do it!!!!!!!
Poptart Aka Donk Maymayz 💛💛💛
-a wild eden appears-
This collab would b legendary
yesss
Yess
hell it hurts
but its not love
Hi it's me
i love him, but the feeling will never be mutual. i'm wasting my time on him but i can't let go. i'm too afraid.
it's weird looking back on this comment. if only i knew shortly after i would find out he cheated the entire time (2&1/2 years). it's almost been a year without him and i still love him. i can't move on.
@@homeboundtrip i hope you find the right person for you
@@grey6545 thank you.
@@homeboundtrip Can I hug you
@@whydoineedthis. yes! giphy.com/gifs/XpgOZHuDfIkoM
Obsessed with this song at 16, extremely real at 22
It’s one of those nights boys
I like how the song makes you connect with the same verses...that’s talent
So raw and emotional. I'm glad I've run across Lontalius on Majestic - some of the best music out there
I just want a relationship that makes me truly happy. Not the toxic stumbling I continue to do into relationships.. I can’t even let myself be happy. I don’t know what I’d do without him.. I’m too scared to be without him. I can either be miserable and alone or miserable and a little less lonely.
I love the way the strands of his hair move. It’s so calming and peaceful
I thought I was seeing Shit wen he blinked XD
T& B holy shit I never noticed that😂
T& B righttt
Zariah M i didn't noticed it either😂
exactly! lol
Same
It's not love if they don't feel the same.
One sided love is a thing you know,,
The saddest, loneliest kind of love
your music has helped me through one of the hardest times in my life, amazing music.
"it sinks into your head, how it hurts, but it's not love"
it sinks into your head hell it hurts but its not love :(
toucanlx :(...
punpun
whoever reading this: u have a very good taste in music
I just discovered it and, wow, my ears are blessed now.
ITS BEEN TWO YEARS AND I NEVER KNEW ABOUT THIS SONG WTF IT HURTS IT IS LOVE I LOVE THIS SO MUCH
Thank God i came across this majestic piece of bliss;
this song (for me) can be describing an abusive relationship. Doesn't have to be a romantic one, but its just a relationship..
"It sinks into your head hell it hurts but its not love."
Abusive relationships are a huge deal when the victim can't see the difference between dependence and love.
(often the victims of abuse begging to form a 'need' for the abuser, or a sense of guilt when they arent with their abuser anymore. They start to feel that they depend of their abuser.)
But of course, it is my view of the lyrics, u can interpret the song has whatever you want.
I was in an abusive relationship a couple years back and this actually sounds really accurate wow. I didnt even think of it this way!
this makes me feel at peace, thank you
Love your music. It makes me feel somewhere else.
I just want to say, that I love the musical symphonies you create. Thank you for these songs. They're beautiful and have helped me not commit suicide so many times. Thank you so much, Lontalius. 🌸❤️
I'm in love with his voice 😍
this is beautiful
This song brings back so much memories
it sinks into your head hell it hurts but its not love
I just discovered this lontalius guy and I’m forever grateful for RUclipss algorithm
i love this style of music please keep on creating songs like this one ❤️
I always stumble upon this video every few years and its always a nice moment
You know it's fucking lit, when you're already subbed by 0:20.
I know this feeling, where I meet someone I like and they have a great personality. But regardless of the way may think I feel, my heart tells me that it’s not meant to be. I almost feel like I won’t ever know how to open up to someone again.
“We are healed of a suffering only by experiencing it to the full.”🤕
-Marcel Proust
Amazing music. Thank you for being a unique creator.
I dated a guy for two years all and all it was a hella toxic he was verbally abusive and he got into my head alot and i knew it i changed became closed off changed every little thing i did upset him but i told myself i love him and he loves me its fine I'm just overreacting we broke up half a year ago after a reallly big fight and i finally snapped back into reality realizing this wasn't love and i wasn't supposed to be treated this way and im finally glad to say I'm a bit happier now and am somewhat better still mentally cautious but better
You! Did the best decision! 😁 Same. She broke up with me 2 years ago. Now iam finally over her…. AND IAM FEELING GREAT!!! Keep going girl! Trust me, one day you meet someone and you will know he is the right one.
i used to listen to "ill forget 17" all the time, but ill actually be 17 in a couple hours and this album hits harder.
"We accept the love we think we deserve."
still can't get enough of this song
I love the instruments in the backround and I love the main lyrics that you repeat.
You make my heart cry with tears of love
stuck in a doorway
don't know where u are
if they had it your way
shooting stars
A haiku by Lonitalius
Literally this whole album would be the soundtrack if my life was a movie
Its crazy. How everyone has the same hearthbreaks but its just an other person. Trust me guys. One day, you will be over it. You will accept ur faith and everything will be fine. She really broke up with me 2 years ago and now i fixed my hearth all by myself. No one was there. It was just me and myself. Get friends with yourself, and a new world will appear :-)
This guy istg, his music make me calm, such amazing voice and music. All the best for your career!
It not love, but it still hurts like hell bc you dont even know if they feel the same or not. It not a relationship but it's also just a friendship. And deep down you still don't wanna let go.
ive just started listening to this and his voice is amazing
It reminds me of how I exactly feel.. no matter how much I try to suppress my inner self, it's always within me
I found this song from an edit and now im very glad i found this *sheds tears*
I thought it was saying "How it hurts but its not love" at first
is it not?
@@BlankNames111 it says hell it hurts but its not love
Maybe you can’t see a reality unless you feel it ?
im legit just crying listening to music, why is life so mundane
Your songs are wonderful! Wow, i'm in love with all of them; new favourite band... you just touch my feels so accurately
majestic brought me here! and I am not going back!!!😍😍😍
yup, me too :)
4chan ygyl - this song made me lose
Please please PLEASE put ‘sleep thru ur alarms’ ON ITUNES!!!!
averwhy I agree with him
Spotify*
you literally have such a beautiful voice!! don’t ever stop singing!!💗
my new album 'Someone Will Be There For You' is out now - lontalius.lnk.to/someone
here from a bunch of insta edits, absolutely love this song
I haven't gotten this much chills from a song in awhile. Damn.
This is beautiful. The music is exquisite and the lyrics move you. Keep up the good work
if you’re reading this you’re loved and you’re never alone 🤍. i love you stay strong!!
i had way too much hope for us
Jesus I thought I was tripping but the image moves
This really made me cry thing about Barry and iris on the flash❤️
Oml I still love this song! It’s so peaceful
Listening to your music make me feel home 💔💔 i belong to this sadnesses 🖤🖤
2 yrs later & still a good song
I'm glad you love her. I just wish you remember 'i loved you first'
It wasn't love. Its not love. It will never be love.
Be happy, please just be happy stay happy.
Damn i miss my ravioli real bad man 😭
Happy 4 years, guess I'll never forget 17. 💓
We all have heartbreaks the same way whether your a male or female it’s all the same
i think i just loved her cos i'm lonely. i was stupid to even let her this close.
I like music that makes me feel something. This song totally did that.
I find so much comfort in this
this came up on my suggested and i almost didn't click but i read the title and just felt it. i'm here for a reason and this song is just giving me what i needed. i don't need all the answers to life right now, i just need to be living. thank you.
Your welcome
it's probably not the intended purpose of the song but listening to this really helps me with healing from the abuse i've experienced.
Boy giving me life lessons.
crying whilst listening to this song. wowie
So glad I came across this kinda music. A perfect companion on warm nights
Can’t believe I just found this song, but I am glad I did and I’m obsessed
Ive been listening to sleeping thru ur alarms for over a year now and I'm kicking myself for not listening to you more, you make such beautiful tunes pls never stop, because shit like this is perfect
It really sinks in when that one person you don't know how they feel about you because they never respond to you and barely talk at all feels like this man.
Wow...y did it take me so long to find something so good
This song makes me feel like shit because I can't love anyone anymore like I'm supposed to.
I'm hurting all men I know because they fall in love with me and I can't love them back. :(
"It hurts but its not love" that's depressing.
Same here !!
Growing without growing apart is difficult ❤
I wish in everybody's story there will be happy ending. I hope everyone's fate and this society would be open minded and understanding.
This is utterly good. I can't express how I can relate to this song it makes me happy at the same time sad
I love this song 😭😭😩😔