Expected vs Authentic: Which Life Will You Choose?

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  • Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 88

  • @reneilwemaleka1645
    @reneilwemaleka1645 2 месяца назад +72

    I love how Thato allows his younger brother Lebo to be himself, if I didn't know that you are brothers I would say you guys are good besties ❤❤

  • @NasiphiCingo
    @NasiphiCingo 2 месяца назад +82

    Listening to this podcast was so crazy to me because I just finished Ecclesiastes and so much of what it's taught me was said here:
    - Life is like smoke , we invest so much on things that have no lasting meaning.
    - Death is an equalizer,poor or rich ,you will die . Accept that and just live your life.
    - Try to enjoy the simple things in life ,they will fulfill you.
    - Live life as it is not as you think it should be.
    - "Dead flies make the perfumer's ointment give off a stench"- a little bit of sin or going off, will affect you long term.
    - Fear God and keep His commands, that's your duty as a human

  • @nomondendwandwe53
    @nomondendwandwe53 2 месяца назад +33

    Yoh Thato I relate so much to the concept of seeing a balanced life with a partner. I’ve been battling with my abstinence journey(for religious purposes) mind you it’s been 4 years now and I recently started meditating on how easier life would be if I had a partner. Even my failures would be less stressful because I would have someone to motivate me to keep pushing.
    The living in isolation chat resonates so much with this generation, a lot of people, myself included, live so much in their head and that takes away the whole concept of community. We end up fantasising about life and not actively existing around people. I will try and incorporate watching historical stories maybe they could help.
    Love this episode, so relatable.❤️

  • @austin_XXV
    @austin_XXV 2 месяца назад +12

    'let's act like our lives are worth living' 💯

  • @thatomotlanthe1777
    @thatomotlanthe1777 2 месяца назад +31

    I honestly gain so much from these podcasts keep it up .

  • @_Montlenyana22
    @_Montlenyana22 2 месяца назад +94

    This notification slaps better than a bank notification 😂❤

  • @ZimasaModisane
    @ZimasaModisane 2 месяца назад +15

    This podcast is made for ama 2000❤❤❤

  • @ndooh_nsibande
    @ndooh_nsibande 2 месяца назад +28

    Now this is the consistency we need hear Thato, meditate on that please

  • @philiswasithole1604
    @philiswasithole1604 2 месяца назад +11

    Oh sana whatever Lebo said I needed to hear this 😭😭 I feel like I’m stuck and see no purpose of living 💔
    From now onwards I’ll live and not just exist man ♥️🥹

  • @kegorapeletse3124
    @kegorapeletse3124 Месяц назад +2

    “can you please just do tomorrow”🥺

  • @melz284
    @melz284 2 месяца назад +12

    Theeee best podcasters in SATAFRIKA... One thing about your talks, they always make one self-reflect and learn something about self. I appreciate the depth and vulnerability you both bring❤

  • @Beautiful-Creation
    @Beautiful-Creation 2 месяца назад +5

    I am impressed each day by Lebo’s takes on life, keep those thoughtful nuggets coming.

  • @kobebennette
    @kobebennette 2 месяца назад +11

    The topics y'all touch on 😮, I'm in awe. Many young man like yourselves hardly want to delve into these kinds of conversations. Big up my G's. ❤

  • @user-wz4ep9jk9g
    @user-wz4ep9jk9g 2 месяца назад +1

    I love what Thato said in regards to the ways of our forefathers, about the importance of community and the concept of protecting and distributing the wealth within the communities we have.

  • @Leonamakgatounfiltered
    @Leonamakgatounfiltered 2 месяца назад +1

    If I ever met one of you I’d hope its in a setup where we can have an open conversation. Such good thoughts!

  • @nganekwane2295
    @nganekwane2295 2 месяца назад +2

    For most of us knowing the type of life we want to live has gotten lost in the noise our loved ones have beeen making since we were little on how life is lived.
    IMO chances are most,like myself at one point, do not know what they want for themselves. Jim Rohn said that to solve this problem of not knowing what you want,start by identifying what you don't want for yourself.
    Mna I'll live a life where I never worry about finances, the people around me also. I have the ability to travel and experience things,people,cultures etc.. But most importantly I'll be a great father and spouse.

  • @VINC3PH
    @VINC3PH 2 месяца назад +2

    40:00 notice this people only know their grand fathers and 3 generations back not counting how many siblings their grandfather or siblings of great-grandfather had. and this disconnect usually happens because had less impact in life back then. your parents will be remember because he's gonna be the reference of a good life path.

  • @thanjwa
    @thanjwa 2 месяца назад +1

    I got so much, had to self introspect. Thank you. I enjoy all the episodes I've watched, but this one?! Thank you guys❤❤

  • @tshxpang._
    @tshxpang._ 2 месяца назад +3

    This consistency >> Thank you guys!!💕

  • @Bnele
    @Bnele 2 месяца назад

    43:04 "There is So Much More To Life"❤.
    Thanks Lebo👊

  • @DonaldMofubetsoana
    @DonaldMofubetsoana 2 месяца назад +2

    Its so amazing and funny that every episode i watched aligns perfectly with my current "becoming" stage and it always prepares me for my every week therapy session😂❤

  • @nondumisomazibuko2867
    @nondumisomazibuko2867 2 месяца назад +1

    What you guys are creating is world class. You will definitely be remembered!

  • @rosemah
    @rosemah 2 месяца назад +2

    You guys are really growing in a positive direction. Thank you for sharing pieces of yourselves with us. ❤️

  • @ItumelengLatakgomo
    @ItumelengLatakgomo 2 месяца назад +8

    You guys have been so consistent I'm actually impressed 🙌🏾❤️

  • @cjdliwayo5212
    @cjdliwayo5212 2 месяца назад

    Very relatable and fun to watch 💯 you guys are killing it, I have to say I'm not a fan of podcasts but this one is the one, Keep them coming gents 🙌💯

  • @AlodieMpho
    @AlodieMpho 2 месяца назад +2

    First thing I hopped onto after a hectic day at work ❤

  • @austin_XXV
    @austin_XXV 2 месяца назад +4

    Woah woahh woahhh, hold it!
    Thato Ramp-mpa-mpaa-dayyy, composed music😅🤣??

  • @nomtha_zwane
    @nomtha_zwane 2 месяца назад +1

    Life is worth living ❤

  • @Nhlonipho_presh
    @Nhlonipho_presh 2 месяца назад +1

    Lol I think Lebo should sing for us on the next podcast. That dance with my father again, sounds so fancy😂

  • @honeyb-NP
    @honeyb-NP 2 месяца назад +1

    Thato need to drop the "Skin care routine"
    Coz I mean

  • @gomolemobodiba
    @gomolemobodiba 2 месяца назад

    BEAUTIFUL EPISODE! as always 💗

  • @tebohonkgadima1774
    @tebohonkgadima1774 2 месяца назад +13

    As Thato is speaking about dogs I remembered that we haven't seen Narobi in a while.... is she still around?

  • @VINC3PH
    @VINC3PH 2 месяца назад

    sad reality for other who were kids of the great grandfather who were nothing back then, and had disconnect from their history ARE struggling with their identity and how to be in a society, and their spiritual being. you wouldn't know about this because you got you parents guiding you and giving you the information about your bloodline.

  • @pinkhappynesslady5331
    @pinkhappynesslady5331 2 месяца назад +2

    Thus show >>>

  • @VINC3PH
    @VINC3PH 2 месяца назад

    40:00 theres a problem alot of people who have a good life neglect information about their own history and causes the next generation to have a disconnect and suffer because you didn't care about passing down the history of your family

  • @ZimasaModisane
    @ZimasaModisane 2 месяца назад +6

    Pink looks so good on Malume

  • @mpumidlamini_5
    @mpumidlamini_5 2 месяца назад +9

    Besides Lebo being handsome…. I have been asking myself if i should even continue with this degree cause i really feel like i am gonna die young so is it even worth it even if i don’t die young i am going to die after all this hard work for me to die…I can’t even say i am working so that my kids live a good life I don’t want kids.

    • @agnesaggy1571
      @agnesaggy1571 2 месяца назад +8

      So sorry you feel that way, you're not gonna die young. Psalm 91❤Count me as that internet cousin rooting for you to get that degree

    • @sinegugumalungisa9945
      @sinegugumalungisa9945 2 месяца назад +2

      Is there a reason you feel you are going to die young Mpumi? Get the degree for yourself, you also deserve a good life.

    • @MentalFacility-u7o
      @MentalFacility-u7o 2 месяца назад +2

      Get that degree baby. Live in the present. Don't ever worry about death. The purpose of life is to live. it's not in your hands.

    • @mpumidlamini_5
      @mpumidlamini_5 2 месяца назад

      @@agnesaggy1571❤❤

    • @mpumidlamini_5
      @mpumidlamini_5 2 месяца назад

      @@sinegugumalungisa9945thanks ❤ will definitely continue I was really contemplating on deregistering fr

  • @tragiccrhonicles
    @tragiccrhonicles 2 месяца назад

    I love this podcast, like i really really love it 😭❤

  • @karabophillipine4454
    @karabophillipine4454 2 месяца назад

    43:55 😅❤ pick up yourself 🔥🔥

  • @Lunga_v33
    @Lunga_v33 2 месяца назад

    Great insights 💙🌿

  • @Michey_xx
    @Michey_xx 2 месяца назад

    This is refreshing ❤

  • @shaunellekulshekaran
    @shaunellekulshekaran 2 месяца назад

    Phenomenal topic 🙌🏼

  • @SibusisoMdiniso
    @SibusisoMdiniso 2 месяца назад +6

    I love watching you guys.
    I wanted to ask, how do you know for real what your purpose is? Like, you got all these skills you got and you curious about everything. Now, how do you know which of those skills is your god-given purpose?
    I'd appreciate the response either here or maybe have a conversation about that when you guys shoot another episode.
    Thanks

    • @RandomThoughtsRealInsights
      @RandomThoughtsRealInsights 2 месяца назад +4

      I'd say whatever makes you feel alive, the one thing that you do and it doesn't feel like a chore or something to get out the way, I believe it's something you were meant to do.

    • @MentalFacility-u7o
      @MentalFacility-u7o 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm a non believer, so naturally I don't think purpose is 'god-given'. I think that we define that for ourselves based on your environment, interests and passions. The purpose of life is to live, you really don't need to overthink it. Love the reply above.

    • @SibusisoMdiniso
      @SibusisoMdiniso 2 месяца назад

      @Naledi_Writes thank you so much. It makes sense. These skills make me feel alive, does that mean I do all of them until I master all of them, or do I pick one and master that one first? And if I do pick one, what if the ones I am putting a pause on are what I was born to do.
      Like it's a mess.

    • @SibusisoMdiniso
      @SibusisoMdiniso 2 месяца назад

      @MentalFacility-u7o I hear you. how do you define that?

    • @MentalFacility-u7o
      @MentalFacility-u7o 2 месяца назад +3

      @@SibusisoMdiniso Giving you my personal definition won't be helpful. Your purpose is whatever you want it be. I understand that maybe you won't grasp this because you think it's outside of yourself. It really is not. You are not 'born to do anything', you are born to live.
      Some people will go through a traumatic experience, and make healing their purpose by become psychologists or therapists... The Steve biko's purpose become freedom fighting because they recognized the injustice that was happening around them and wanted that to chage. People start foundations and ngos cause they recognize the inequality and lack of others, and, others collect pokeman cards because that's what they like. Others choose becoming parents... You are overthinkinking this so much.

  • @ZimasaModisane
    @ZimasaModisane 2 месяца назад

    My life is worth living 💌

  • @nellymohale1317
    @nellymohale1317 2 месяца назад

    needed this!

  • @AsemahleValela
    @AsemahleValela 2 месяца назад +1

    Waiting 💃🤭

  • @rorisang_nm
    @rorisang_nm 2 месяца назад

    Lebo is so funny omg 😭

  • @Dollykgakishe
    @Dollykgakishe 2 месяца назад

    Yaaaaay vlogs 😮‍💨🥹🎀

  • @lisi4502
    @lisi4502 2 месяца назад

    I always tell people that when I die, don't waste money for the funeral preparations . I genuinely do not mind even being burried in a cloth. When I am gone don't be crying for months, forget about me and live your life. I GENUINELY MEAN IT 😅

  • @EddianSekgobela
    @EddianSekgobela 2 месяца назад

    Asalways 10/10

  • @ofentsemonyele
    @ofentsemonyele 2 месяца назад

    ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐!!!!!!

  • @UnathiStungu
    @UnathiStungu 2 месяца назад

    S/O to Ragnar Lothbrok🤝

  • @NhlamuloHobyane-q1u
    @NhlamuloHobyane-q1u 2 месяца назад

    One thing about Thato, he doesn’t rate Gontse

  • @reabetswechauke6057
    @reabetswechauke6057 2 месяца назад

    Thato what do you mean you are single😮 when I heard that I was like heeee😮😮😮

  • @nganekwane2295
    @nganekwane2295 2 месяца назад

    Million Dollars Worth of Game😂

  • @realsibusiso9864
    @realsibusiso9864 2 месяца назад +1

    Gents why you hiding the amount you've spent, ain't we suppose to be transparent 😂

  • @zeealmanzar.4690
    @zeealmanzar.4690 2 месяца назад

    isn't Brenda Fassie still relevant guys???😭😭😭

  • @amogelangmokaila1011
    @amogelangmokaila1011 2 месяца назад

    writing my literature review while i listen so this pod

  • @namiesnature
    @namiesnature 2 месяца назад +1

    I’m loving these new thumbnails ❤️‍🩹

  • @lbaker_SA
    @lbaker_SA 2 месяца назад

    Every week podcasts? What happened to the lifestyle content bro? Damn😢

  • @khetho405
    @khetho405 2 месяца назад +4

    Thato, when you spoke about friends that want success for you, you didnt mention aboLucas. Hawu

  • @Lephoi
    @Lephoi 2 месяца назад +4

    What did we do to deserve such consistency!!?🥹 I love you guys. La ukwa? Kudu kudu!❤

  • @boity_content3838
    @boity_content3838 2 месяца назад +2

    love love love the podcast you guys but i think you could do better with the segues into ads🥹