Why we need to immediately stop all weddings
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
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As someone who works in fine dining and event catering, weddings are absolutely a scam. They’re so overpriced. Please keep having them. They’re the only reason I get to pay rent.
made me laff
As a musician, I agree. Please keep having them.
Haha, true. And your rent's pretty safe, since catering is probably the last thing people want to skimp on. You can easily skip live music or the professional photographer to lower your costs - no one complains because you make a Spotify playlist and I'm sure you have at least one friend who can take an ok photograph. But everyone with a working brain realises that making all of your own food for an entire wedding and serving it would be a stress-inducing logistical nightmare that just goes on and on for the entire evening.
They aren’t a scam
I know the feeling 😂😂 Same thoughts go for divorce attorneys
As an introvert the thought of a wedding makes me shiver.
Could you imagine paying all that money to spend a weekend with 100 people? If that's not the definition of hell idk what is
as an extrovert they seem fun ngl
I’m an introvert but I love throwing an occasional party on my own terms. That means my place and I can kick you out when I’m at my social limit😅 I can’t imagine having 100+ people there with their attention on me for the better part of a weekend😩
Shiver me Timbers
My wife and I are both introverts and yeah...having all of that attention on us had us both going through panic attacks leading up to it and even afterwards.
At my parents' wedding my dad straight up refused to pay the ransom for the joota churai and walked out barefoot. His shoes still are at my maternal grandparents' place it's been 25 years lmao
Cheap ass groom lmao
Your dad is a legend. 👍
Based
Tell your dad I think he's a legend. You can refer to me as "some weirdo on the internet".
Or just tell me you did it but don't actually do it. Or don't respond at all and I can pretend you did it.
@misstekhead listen I love him and hold him in v high regard but this was not his best moment a lot of effort goes into stealing them shoes (I was not present at my parents' wedding but I have been part of this ritual at my sisters' weddings and it's tons of fun!!)
I have been to some awful weddings, but they all worth it for my aunt and uncles; they rented out a top floor of an airplane museum because they’re both pilots, the ceremony was only like 20 minutes, they immediately proceeded to have a lightsaber duel with dramatic star wars music, there wasn't a lot of people and for basically the entire night we just danced to fun 80s songs with the family and explored the museum :)
Wait that sounds so fun-
That sounds lit as hell
The only venue i would consider is a museum
That sounds awesome! Like, truly friggin' AMAZING!
My mom is a photographer who charges more reasonable prices than others, but she does hike up the wedding price because she says its awful, having to go for hours, including the practice run thingy before the actual wedding, trying to get soo many people to be properly in the picture, having to deal with proper lighting, and all sorts of other junk
I've been to a few weddings now. They're horribly boring. But I went to one this past summer that was absolutely amazing. The bride and groom really wanted it to be a party for the guests. Ceremony was 20 minutes. The rest was open buffet, a dance floor, and some games. There was a place to put coats and a change of clothes if you didn't want to stay in your formal attire. There was a quiet room if anyone got overwhelmed. I have so much anxiety around social situations and had a great time.
Bro that actually sounds like an awesome wedding instead of long boring shit where you are in a super uncomfortable overpriced suit
That's my plan. 30 minutes of ceremony, hours of partying and fun. With a quiet area containing some board games and fidgets because I get overwhelmed easily.
That sounds like an amazing wedding c: love the quiet room. Sounds very chill
the quiet room is a genius idea, i already was thinking of having a dress change after the ceremony to appease my autism. and yeah, a long ceremony is awful. ive fallen asleep to enough hour long masses, 20 min is so much better
@K.C-2049 And they drove home afterward? Uh Oh, it seems a group of School Children are crossing the street! "We can't go under it, we can't go over it , OH NO, we'll have to go through it!"
My wife and I had a COVID wedding and honestly it was the greatest fucking thing, because it gave us an excuse to have exactly the wedding we wanted without having to cave to the wants of family. I haven't finished the video yet but one of the worst parts of having a wedding yourself is your immediate families' demands, including all the people (extended family you see once or less per year, family friends or otherwise) they expect you to invite. And the fact you apparently are not allowed to only invite the cousins you're somewhat close to and not the rest. So yeah we didn't have to fulfil any requests, our dress code was casual, everyone got personal make-your-own fajitas (and TONS of other food), we did fancy donuts instead of cake and the entire thing was only 4 hours long. I think we did a pretty damn good job all things considered.
Edit: I also have to share the best wedding I've ever been to (other than my own) that was a friend's wedding at a beautiful canoeing resort, and it was viking themed, and we were encouraged to dress up as vikings, so you bet your ass we dressed up as vikings. I have never been so comfortable and had so much fun at another person's wedding before.
Both weddings sound amazing ❤
Thats awesome to hear you had a good wedding. Im gonna die alone ❤
@@brettvale9432yes you are ❤️
@@brettvale9432 same
Ey, at least having good friends can still be pretty dang meaningful. True love is kinda overrated, considerin how expensive it is (and also how devastating the emotional impact is if the connection goes wrong somehow)@@brettvale9432
All the wedding traditions of other countries can be condensed into one. First, the Chinese bride is going to cry with her female relatives/friends, then as day of the wedding comes she can finally stop crying cause some Indian friends decided to steal her soon-to-be husband's shoes and demanded him to hand them money as a joke, then the South Korean bros come in, swoop the groom of his feet, and start beating that same feet. That's just hilarious.
It is sister of bride who steal the shoe not friends.
@@no-m8it depends because sometimes everyone wants to join in
I love this comment lmao
Meanwhile, as the boys are distracted, the girls get together to see who the bride can give hayfever to when she hurls a bunch of flowers at them before the limping groom and bride attack and murder a cake with a big knife.
I like how he completely left out the cost of wedding rings. Probably because it was just so obviously dumb it could be overlooked. Some can easily cost as much as an entire wedding. Of course they also hold no real value because diamonds are stockpiled. Then there's the engagement ring...
This is exactly why I don’t want a diamond ring. Hell maybe even forgo the ring, and make it something else more personal and heartfelt instead, I think that would be more personal
@@mangledfoxy2052 It doesn't even make any sense from a golddigging standpoint. If a woman is upset her man won't throw several thousand out the window for her, clearly it's not about the money. Because that could have easily been invested. Just a thought I had.
Get an opal ring. Lab grown and holds its value more than natural diamonds
@@bretth342 Get literally any gem and it has more character than glorified glass
@@JustSomeKittenwithaGunlove the emerald and gold color scheme. Reminds me of ba sing se from Avatar 🤌🏻
I’ve always hated weddings, I’ve always hated a lot of social occasions! Which makes me so goddamn grateful that my stepmom understood how much weddings suck when she married my dad because she actually made it kickass.
10 minute reception, no dress code besides the groomsman and bridesmaids (even then we got to choose which version of the suits and dresses we liked the best, no need to match,) literally just a dad barbecue for most of the time and you could leave whenever you want. It was also just in a cute park, didn’t even have to rent a single thing and only the cool family and friends were invited. Minimal effort, do whatever you want type event. Everyone thank my stepmom.
Your stepmom is smart in realizing your opinion of her is more important than everyone else’s besides her husband, but it’s the woman who cares anyway, so, smart. I respect the ceremony and would have done the same
Thanks Zoombeanie's stepmom
What about the ceremony itself?
Tugg always manages to make me view completely normal things as weird and nonsensical stuff, and to be honest it's starting to scare me
That's because they weren't normal to begin with, you were just raised to think they were and never questioned it. Comedians are really good for pointing this shit out.
You are scared because you're being shown the truth. Most people don't like that.
The Joker.
Nothing to fear, being baffled and exasperated by arbitrary social norms is just how autistic people exist at all times
@@imonyoutuberightnow2668 society....
This video is everything I ever thought about weddings lmao
I love the more chill, small or personal weddings in general.
Also yes. You could easily buy alot of stuff for much cheaper but the second you add "wedding" to it they jack up the price.
Just make a lasagna
@@HauntakuTV ok garfield
I'm currently helping my sibling plan their wedding and the goal is super chill fun vibes. Both bride and groom are socially anxious introverts who love each other very much and just want a small wedding with their favorite people there and wanna just be in love and have a fun time with minimal social pressure! Hell yes! They wanna keep the ceremony 30 minutes TOPS, less if possible, and then party the night away! There is a COOL ASS CUSTOM FORGED SWORD INVOLVED IN THE CEREMONY!!! And they're gonna be handfasted to the sword as they say their vows! (All done by them and the officiant, so its not very complicated.) and have a pretty, uncomplicated ceremony and have as minimal stressors as possible. Dope shit!
A custom forged sword is hella cool. Major props to both of them
4:37 you know what’s a funny thing my parents did their wedding was not religious at all, they included our cats in the vows, my dad had to do the thing you do where you declare that your wife’s kids are your kids now too, for our CATS, and the chapel was from “The Church Of The Dude” it was amazing.
That sounds like they have good priorities :) having fun is a way better idea than being all stuffy and fancy
The most good thing about realizing that the shadow of eternal slumber draws ever closer, and seeing the ambitious glimmer long gone from my eyes reflected in bright young souls not yet twisted by the abominations of this world...is reading about folks whose parents are my age or not much older sharing cool modern takes on things :). Will have to look into this church as it sounds- fuck what do the kids say? Uh. "Straight up boss?"
Cringe af
@@mexalcorta Not as cringey as a regular wedding.
@@eatatjoes6751incorrect
Hi, I was a wardrobe consultant for 3 years.
Renting is better _only_ if you think you’re only gonna wear it once or twice within the next 3 years.
If you have a few weddings, or some sick elderly relatives, or are nearing graduation, don’t waste your money renting.
Just buy a $300-$500 suit from a place like Jos A Bank, Men’s Wearhouse, or something.
You dip under $300 and it’s gonna be cheap polyester, itchy, and not fit right.
But like $300 and maybe $30 in tailoring and it’ll be comfortable, look good, and last you several _years_ if you take care of it.
Officiated my friend's wedding last year. They wrote such a short ceremony that the venue workers were stressed out because the guacamole wasn't done yet. It ruled
i saved about $41,500 and went to the courthouse 😂 cost $125 for the marriage license and to actually have it at the courthouse, went home and cooked dinner 😎that was our reception
Same. My wife and I went to the courthouse and the mayor of our smallish town happened to be there and free, so she married us. It was just 4 people but it was quick, easy, and pretty great.
Sounds so pleasant :)
Smart couple ❤
@@altusshow7574 ayyyeee the mayor being there and doing it is amazing and i had about 5 people at mines 😂 so that sounds about right 👍🏿
0:05 Booooo!! I was promised Tucker in a wedding dress 🤣
My best friend literally got married in our backyard and spent I think just over a grand on everything, all the decorations were from op shops, cheap shops or fb marketplace, and she had a bunch of friends and family help out with things like photography. As much as I don't see much point in weddings, it was kinda cool to see someone be so thrifty planning their own wedding
Weird wedding traditions from around the world: Poland's edition
In my country we have a tradition called "Brama" which means "Gate" and its whole point is for the [future] newlyweds to buy out their [future] spouse from the community.
Most commonly it's neighbors and some more distant acquaintances, close enough to know when youre getting married but not close enough to get an invite. In it's most basic form its a "gate" made by tying up a ribbon or a string on the way between bride's and groom's houses and church/wedding venue. It can be more decorative and elaborate, but it can be just a string hung between two lamp posts. The gate is guarded by the neighbors and acquaintances and the bride or the groom have to either pass some challenges or pay a "ransom" to them, to be allowed to pass - usually it's wine/vodka for adults and cady for kids. Basically anyone can make the gate, so it can be as little as one or none and as much as a dozen, multipled by both houses [since it's customary to start the wedding from your parents house], so best men and bridesmaids are expected to have several bottles of alcohol and a big bag of candy ready, just in case.
It can be annoying, because it can sometimes happen that some local drunks make one, even if they dont know the couple, but it's cutomary that the best man is supposed to negotiate the terms of the "ransom", to not spoil the day for the [future] newlyweds, if the gate keepers are more pushy and a nuisance.
One of my aunts was on house arrest at my parents wedding, ankle bracelet and all. That should've been the sign that things weren't gonna work out.
Lol I come from a line of mountain folks my aunt is a truck driver, at my mom's wedding before the ceremony got started she said "I believe this paneling would look good in my trailer" 😂
As I like to say, "she ain't got no act right" 😂
@@codemiesterbeatsOmg…Your holidays must be epic. I’m almost jealous. Take a page from MY book and make sure to film EVERYTHING! Especially if it gets messy. You will be the family hero.
In Austria one of the traditions is to saw a log together (which I think is very cute.. alone it's hard, but together with a two person saw its easier) 😊
One time I saw a saw saw salsa.
Southern Germany here and that is because you're not allowed to bring your god damn chainsaw. When you use those old ass saws ofc it's difficult to do alone. And I never really understood the symbolic of this except for what you just said and that seems a bit arbitrary as sole explanation
Oooo
I also live in austria but that must be a more rural tradition, bc I've never heard of it 🙈 also hi 👋 good to see some fellow Landsleute on a random video about weddings ^^
"and then you have to drive back to the penis man" (1:19) has to be one the funniest things i've heard in a while
WHEN A FLORISTS HEARS “WEDDING” THEY TRIPLE THE PRICE!! CRAZY! Never say that its for a wedding!!
The only cool wedding I attended was in a ghost town and since we were already somewhere pretty informal we had no dress code. We had no tables. We all had to bring our own food so it was basically like a potluck and the photographer was whoever brought a camera with them. It was a great time, albeit it was a bit sketchy.
I'm guessing the couple couldn't pay the expense of the food, venue and photography, but they still wanted to make it fun for everyone
I LOVE the idea of a wedding potluck tho.
THANK YOU!!! I’ve thought this for ages. It’s like many girls feel the need or desire to have a wedding that lives up to a royalty’s standard of wedding. A marriage is literally the most intimate relationship you can have with one other human being, and yet everyone else is involved with the 2 people kissing, for some reason? Then my dad had to drop money on the right kind of suit even though he had other suits that still looked nice. I was asked to as well, but didn’t comply. If you want me there, i’ll wear something affordable, thank you. It never even came up. But the money is so ridiculous. You NAILED IT!
Weddings are only horribly boring if you lack connection to the other people attending the wedding.
When my best friend got married, you bet your ass the wedding was fkcing AMAZING. And not because they arranged it better than any other wedding - it was the same deal, and I'm sure there were plenty of bored guests there who were too disconnected from everyone else to have a good time - but I personally had a blast mingling and partying with my friend's family (who I hadn't seen in a few years and was excited to reconnect with) and all her friends that I either knew from before or met at the hen do (and we're all still friends to this day). At the same time, it was fun to see what my friend's now-husband's family and friends were like, because when else would I get that opportunity? I arrived a day early to help out with preparations, so I'd gotten to know some of them before the wedding even started, which again made the wedding day more fun. KNOW YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY, and I promise weddings will be a lot less boring for you.
It makes perfect sense for the bride and groom to want to gather their beloved ones in the same spot, for once in their life, and have them meet and mingle. When else is that ever going to happen? It's actually a pretty cool concept. Shame weddings have gotten so expensive though. I feel like if you scaled the whole thing down cost-wise and focused on the actual point of a wedding - the joining of two families, and two friend groups - you'd have laid good groundwork for a wedding. After that it IS up to the guests to be good sports.
My spouse and I (we already got legally married this Halloween) are having a ceremony next May and it's gonna be fuckin lit. Gay, goth, and a dress code of "come as your most authentic self."
We cut down on costs by having it in my grandpa's garden and basically DIYing everything. I made our Save the Dates in Paint tool Sai and sent them via email/text. I plan to splurge about $400 on my wedding dress + accessories from Etsy, and we want to splurge on a cool looking cake, maybe a skull or a human heart. 😀
Ain't nobody walking me down the fucking aisle, either. I'll be blasting my air-guitar skills to "Crazy Train" by Ozzy Osborne.
Congrats and hope you have an amazing wedding ceremony!
@@naomih4716 thanks so much!!
Sounds like a badass wedding. Love the music choice btw!
Congrats! That sounds like a wonderful way to celebrate! I agree that you absolutely should splurge on something that will make you feel beautiful wearing it 🥰 I’m very happy for you and your partner and wish you a lifetime of love and happiness.
@FullBodyToupee thank you 😊 it's been one of my fave songs since I was like 5
That “bonding experience” Freudian slip had me spitting out my cereal 😂
My wedding was awesome. We had a short ceremony and then a dinner and party with a free bar. Kept it small, cheap, almost everyone is still friends and half the family ended a years long feud. Seriously all it should be is a fun party for everyone.
Covid weddings were definitely an unspoken gem.
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Everything about this is awesome, the content, the delivery, our Tugg, the Thumbnail. Amazing. Everything. Amazing.
I had a small ceremony with like, four family members (all were my spouse's family members) at a small church. We even paid for the ceremony on the same day. We then went to Red Lobster for a wedding dinner. Infinitely better than having an expensive wedding with hundreds of people.
they better have given you the good food then
I took a finance class two years ago and when I found out how much weddings cost I dropped the whole wanting to get married bs, and as someone with social anxiety, standing in front of a bunch of people just ain't it.
My friend was stressed about everyone looking at her on the day. On the day.. she was still stressed about it. For me, I saw myself as a symbol. People werent looking at me, they were looking at "the bride", so I didn't feel nervous about it. I just wish I had written a list of who to talk to in order so I didn't get stressed about being rude/snobbing guests
Always a good day when tugg posts
Saturday?
@@Adashofhawtsauc3 or Sunday if you happen to live in Australia
I never understood why weddings were always in the summer. Winter is just inherently romantic to me
Im in the process of planning a wedding, and my god are the prices insane!!!! I had a venue tell me that their food and beverage minimum was 15k-24k! Im only having 40 people at my wedding, and im not spending 15k for them to eat. Then i had another venue that was reasonably prices, but i had to pay a rental fee for each individual table and chair that i needed. Luckily, i found a venue that is a little out of the budget that i had in mind, but its worth it after the headache of everything else. It's 5,800 in total. I have access to their mansion, their lawn and gardens, and their barn, and i have it all day from 8am-12 midnight.
One of the only short creators who makes good long form content
Facts. I haven't finished the vid yet but Tugg always spits straight facts so... Facts.
“ You do a ceremony for a religion you haven’t thought about since middle school” is on fucking point 🤌🏽
Yeah, im definitely just gonna do an at home ceremony and eat ice cream cake when i get married cause there aint no way im gonna spend that much money when i can just eat ice cream cake with my partner
Tug’s social awkwardness would force him to drop this kind of video just to avoid a conversation with his spouse
"re-circumcision" 😅
THE FIRST WAS ENOUGH DOC! 😂
NEW TUGG VIDEO RIGHT AFTER I JUST BINGED ALL OF HIS VIDEOS THIS DAY COULD NOT GET BETTER LOVE YOU BIG TUGG I AM PROUD TO BE A TUGGLET
This video is another way to admit defeat and know we will forever live our lives as a virgin.
4:50 If I recall correctly, the Tujia crying tradition is to show how sad the bride's family is to let their daughter go. It's supposedly incredibly taboo if you're a woman and don't cry during the wedding.
Additionally, a bride's intelligence and virtue is kind of determined by how well she can sing while crying.
The channel "chinesewithmia" did a short on this not too long ago if want more details!
Keep the onion/wasabi mix at the ready then if you're not the greatest at leaking out of your eyes
Sounds horrible. 👍
"Not even sure if you're related anymore" 😂
I completely agree with you here. I went to a wedding this week and the exact same points were going through my head. I’m also underage so I can’t drink to escape, I just have to sit there and deal with it. Also, those prices are why I am never getting married and going to be alone forever
Watching this about 3 weeks before my secular wedding and glad it's very small and low-key. Extra glad we aren't doing any of the cheesy/cringey western wedding traditions.
never in my life did i think i would see tugg in a wedding dress
Danny Gonzales would be proud of your comedic wit! Anyway, if my partner wants to hold some big fancy-schmancy event of a wedding then I'm gonna have to tolerate it but then afterwards I would do my version of a wedding which is just making snacks and being lovey-dovey with said snacks. Maybe play some video games?
Big tugg never fails to impress and engage with us
Engage you say?🤨
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The second I saw the word wedding I was like "ope, we're gonna have a guess that obscene price segment" bc what the legitimate fuck
My Mom got in a fight with my grandparents because they didn’t like that she was living with my Dad out of wedlock, it was so bad that they weren’t even takings She was complaining about all of this bullshit to my Dad, who was like “well shit, you wanna just go down to the courthouse tomorrow?” And they did, and they DID NOT invite or tell my Grandparents, they had to find out weeks later from my aunt. It was a spite wedding, but it’s been 38 years and they’re still together and in love, so who cares? It just makes me laugh so hard, I guess weeks later my Grandma called and apologized and they ended up throwing my parents a gigantic party at their farmhouse with all the family, friends, potluck dinner, an open catered bar, a Led Zeppelin cover band, etc etc, and my parents got all these gifts and it was a fucking banger I guess(I’ve seen pictures, heard the stories, it was epic). That’s what I want honestly, let’s do the boring stuff alone, fill out some papers, pay a fee and *then* go celebrate with your people! Like traditional weddings don’t make any goddamn sense to me…..
I once went to a motorcycle themed wedding, where the dress code was a t-shirt and jeans. Fricken awesome
Guess that Obscene Price is one of my favorite bits in youtube history lol I’m always surprised at how expensive life is
The only good wedding I have ever been to was my gay uncles. There where like 30 people and it lasted like 2 hours then we went home at Like 8:30!
I’m from New Orleans, and while the wedding ceremony basically goes down the same way, and honestly so does the reception lol, but we have a tradition towards the last section of the reception where second line music (carnival/Mardi Gras) plays, and an entire band + Mardi Gras Indians come in and we all start dancing and waving handkerchiefs in the air while the bride and groom hold decorated umbrellas in the air. You can probably find videos of it on RUclips lol
Edit: We also do the same for funeral repasts but we walk down a few blocks outside with the band while dancing
We had a court house wedding during Covid. Then a few days later we had a reception at our house for close friends. Big weddings tend to get hijacked by the loudest narcissist that you "have to invite".
After licensing, fees, cake, food, and rings, I think we spent about $1500. Some of my friends are getting married now and want to have a small wedding, but they don't have the guts to say "no" to their families demands/ "wishes".
Bro you are amazing Idk how did I not know about this channel. Brilliant! Thank you.
Asian wedding are so fun ! Full of glamour and the whole wedding takes about a few days , many different traditions and customs and lots of shopping and gold jewellery. The food ? Delishous ! The customs and rituals ? Full of emotion, love , joy and fun for everyone involved. Its the best. No speeches, thr guests just arrive , meet eachother, eat, have fun and leave.
love this popping up mere minutes after my mom announced her engagement.
Romantic love is a dangerous illusions
I got an add for brides maids dresses 2 times in this video and underneath the video it tried to get me to buy a wedding dress 😂
This video becomes even more funny if you imagine this as a rambling wedding speech by the best man who really did not wanna be there.
My ideal wedding: It happens in a clearing in the woods, on the night of a full moon, we make our vows and plant a tree.
Casual clothes, but everyone gets a hat that they are encouraged to wear. Fewer than 30 people.
Food: Big pot of vegetable stew.
An acoustic ensemble gets to vibe all night- open mic for poetry or jokes or whatever.
Video idea : maybe talk about how much school sucks, you don’t have to but I just wanted to throw some suggestions.
Btw love your channel your hilarious 😂
“Eating the flesh of a demigod during your wedding service” Tugg, you aren’t helping your case against weddings with that line.
Wedding musicians could not be more eternally grateful for the existence of weddings. Please, understand that your contribution means keeping them off the streets and putting food on their table. 😉
8:53 from what I understand, the dress is fixed to fit the bride, so yes that's extra work and money for the labor.
you’re my spirit animal
My first wedding was in a courthouse, then applebees for dinner. It was a beautiful day, and a fun evening. When we renewed it was just in our backyard and was about 5000 dollars. And that was so stressful. Our next big anniversary is soo and I think we are going on vacation and wearing our wedding colors on a beach somewhere...people can call and wish us a happy anniversary.
I'm a wedding dance instructor and we had an option where, as a part of the wedding package, you get a dance and we send instructors to your wedding to teach lessons in whatever you want 😊 we also do line dances and stuff and we will perform 😂
I agree, more people should have entertainment at weddings
My wedding ceremony was an exhanging of I love yous before jumping over a broom, and then going back inside for dinner and a movie with some friends
A wedding can be literally anything as long as it brings you joy. Paperwork is so unnecessary and archaic.
The thumbnail is iconic.
As a South Korean I had no idea about the feet beating tradition and now I’m questioning my whole life
I'm Turkish. My cousin got married this week and we did 2 fun traditions when the groom came to the brides house to pick her up. First is one or two younger (preferably teenagers or children) female relatives lock the bride into a room and stall the groom with random excuses questions conversations or tricks (we guided him to the wrong room a couple times) and eventually signal to the groom that he needs to pay to get the door to open by doing a gesture as we tell him the door is stuck or the bride isn't ready yet. We also broke a ceramic vase filled with coins chocolate and candy after the bride and groom (The original tradition involves gold instead of regular coins). I'm not sure but my family told me this one comes from the Balkans. Both traditions are pretty fun especially for children.
Wedding fertografer
Edit : wedding stuff
My husband and I got married in the officiants living room with 4 friends and a dog the week before Covid lockdown. We had cheesecake at an Italian restaurant and it was absolutely my favorite wedding I’ve been in or around. We spent like 600 bucks all told and spent the money we were going to use for a big wedding on a house. 11/10, would recommend.
man i just broke up with my girlfriend and i thought that its over but everytime i watch your videos i just get trough with it you are one of the best youtubers out there
My mom keeps saying 'do whatever you want but NOT the hippie shxt' and im just standing here with my flower crowns and barefoot beach dreams, hoping ill grow out of it before i turn 30
This thanksgiving, I’m grateful for these long form videos. I would say it’s because I’m such a huge fan but I think its more about being too lazy to scroll up or down.
I hope Tucker sees this. Idk if you have checked Famous Birthdays recently, but you are now the #1 Most Famous Tucker in the world!
I’m happy to say that my “wedding” involved an intimate ceremony in the beautiful home of our officiate (who’s a writer) with just me, my hubby and our parents as witnesses. Weddings are nice and all but we hated the idea of putting on a show for other people when we were just happy to make the commitment to each other lol. Less complicated and made us happy 😊 plus I hate when the attention of an entire crowd of people are on me 😂
The price section makes me feel great cause I went CHEAP on everything but the catering and it was the best night of my life🎉
Well, now I have the advice of not telling the planners this is for a wedding. Thanks Tugg! 😂
They’re so much fun, I actually love wedddings
When (Or if) I ever get married I will be consistently cross-referencing this video when planning it. You're doing God's work Tugg.
that thumbnail needs to be in a museum
Best wedding I ever went to: no dress code, beach ceremony that lasted 20 minutes. Open bar and a buffet. Best part is busses shuttled us from our hotels, to the ceremony spot, to the reception and back to our respective hotels. It was the dopest. They thought of everything, and it was the best guest experience.
In my culture the groom and bride's families exchange goats/sheep. And the wedding is held at the bride's family home and then at the groom's family home. If its close enough the first one is on Saturday and the next one on Sunday
Great video, love the more frequent uploads recently 🫡
I live in New Zealand and weddings are more low-key here. I get the impression that American weddings are more of a status thing, an expression of wealth. We still had an engagement party, ceremony and seated reception with way too much alcohol (we had crates left over), but the end cost was about 8.5k. The wedding tax is more accurately expectations tax.
“…also, there’s cake.” 😂😂😂😂
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You obviously haven’t gone to a good wedding. I’m currently planning my wedding, the ceremony is going to be 25 minutes long with close family and bridal party(outside not religious). Then the reception is going to be at my grandparents cabin compound ( it’s like a lil neighborhood of my family’s 5 cabins in Montana) we’re getting a buffet style taco bar, free booze, free🍃. We’re having a wedding painter and disposable cameras at each table instead of a photographer. Also I’m only going to have 65 guests. And I handmade all of my wedding invitations ($30 spent at hobby lobby and micheals) and the dress code is more casual like a button up with dressy lookin pants and a tie. And my bridesmaids all bought their own dresses that they would wear again (kind of just went with pick a dress any shade of green except neon) and my bouquet is going to be mostly greenery with minimal flowers. Just got engaged 3 months ago and everything is already planned and underway and the wedding isn’t until next august lol.
I was the best man at my best friend's wedding, and I cried when I did my speech. The only bad part of the whole weddings was having all of the bride's extended Vietnamese family walk up to me and shout "Crying Boy!" for the rest of the night.
Market Basket plug! Let’s go!
And you’ve hit the final nail in the coffin for me and getting married to someone in the future, well done Tugg!
Yeah, wedding suck. Unless ur an oblivious innocent kid who's going to a close relative's wedding n gets to be the "flower girl" (put it in quotes because I'm a guy).
A story about my experience with being a wedding guest/part of the wedding kinda:
As a 6 yr old, I was the flower girl for my uncle's wedding. I had absolutely no clue about any of what was going on but I, being the autistic, innocent, way too outgoing thanks to mimicry, n untreated ADHD ridden child I was, gave a surprise speech during the reception when ppl were making speeches n they started asking if anyone else wanted to make a speech. I am still mortified by that fact as I have been ever since I learned social awareness. The fact that my speech was genuinely a good speech that got lots of very pleasantly surprised reaction from the drunk n annoyed adults is a miracle. Especially since it included a large majority of the extremely white side of my family that don't tend to like my mom, me, or my siblings. The other half of the family there were basically total strangers to me but were definitely surprised by my decisions as well. Just imagine it for a moment. I'm sure u can understand the absolute horror I feel knowing I did that, as well as the amazement I have at how everyone recalls the speech. I don't remember a word I said, n I barely remember any of that night cuz I was 6, but I do know just how frequently my family brings it up when discussing good things about different parts of the family or different events. The frequency makes it clear how impressive of a speech it was. The only times I made speeches were that once n when I was in a truancy meeting with ppl from the school I went to at the time n was absolutely DONE with the woman that was trying to get me taken from my family. I blew up on her with perfect reason and clear wording. Probably the most clear I've ever made a point in my life. N my mom compared it to the speech I gave when I was little afterward. So if that's comparable, then that wedding speech I made was epic n very much should not have been coming from a 6 yr old 😅. I'm far more of an introvert now, but I made that second speech after my social awareness started existing so I guess I have that superpower in my subconscious somewhere. I can give epic speeches when I really need to. Til then, Imma keep sticking to txts 😅.
the only wedding ive been 2 was in detroit. we lost our reservation at our hotel, completely missed the actual ceremony (thank god, i was unmedicated w adhd at the time i would have cried) so we only went to the reception. the cake was mid, i didnt know anyone there (the wedding was for one of my mom's coworkers), and once we were ready to leave at like midnight we realized our car was out of gas & we spent the next 3 hrs walking around trying to find a gas station in downtown detroit at midnight.
so to say the least; I'm scared of having to go to weddings bc the only experience ive had with one was weird and bad
I say too many words damn it