Why You Hate The Sound Of Your Own Voice
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- Опубликовано: 12 окт 2014
- If you've ever listened to yourself speak in a voicemail or video, you've probably wondered aloud "is that what I really sound like?" The unfortunate truth is: yes, that's what you really sound like. Find out why your voice sounds so different from what you hear in your head.
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Why do we hate our own voices while others don't even mind.
Let's say you like any burger more than any pizza. If I offered to buy a burger for you but it turned out to be a pizza, would that be somewhat disappointing? The same thing is going on here. You have a higher expectation of how your voice sounds, because you can hear it better. That is why it is disappointing when you hear how others hear your voice. On the other hand, other people never get to hear your bone conducted voice, so they don't expect to hear better than what they are hearing. Thus, they do not mind.
Others probably do mind, they just keep it to themselves.
this guy told me my voice is ugly and disgusting. I don’t usually take things personal but his comment got to me as I’ve always been insecure about my own voice
@@beautyladysaly4832 That's messed up. I would feel so bad about myself if someone said that to me since I'm sometimes insecure about my voice too.
Actually people mind how I say. They stay my accent is weird or why is my voice so weird.....
I cried when I heard my voice recorded
snowbow Hrt same
samememe
You emotional being
I bet it doesn't sound as horrible as mine, I'm embarrassed to speak.
Me too
you mean our real voice is awfull. others hear our awfull voice and not the one which we hear while talking
Suhaib Lone at least other people don't mind your voice because they hate their own! Lol
ikr it sucks
Literally every else sounds nromal. All these people sounded just fine. I feel like it`s just MY voice that`s really bad on a recording
That's how everyone feels about their own voices because of what we're used to hearing when we speak. However, to everyone else, you sound perfectly normal.
When I hear the sound of my own voice I literally question to myself why people actually like me and spend time with me
Bro me too even thought you can't understand me
That’s so funny and I’ve had that same thought.
😂😂😂
🤣🤣👍🏾 me too!! I think I sound like Kermit the frog
😢😢😢
0:40 Actually, your voice sounds deep and sexy to me, too...
+Myria83 And I'm not inside your skull. :-D
Myria83 not the maximum deepness though, that sexiness is reserved for the intimacy of his own mind...
Myria83 ewwww
that was quick and right to the point! thank you!
Oh hi I love ur videos I’m subbed to u lol
Leo Koutakis woah
I feel like people would appreciate me more if they heard my voice the way I hear it.
People be hating their own voices while Desiigner doesn't even give a Damn about his talking when he talks like he's possessed. #confidence
Mrgoodkenneth
😂😂
I think my voice sounds weird
Higher pitched version you say? Nah, wish I had that. I sound like a man, which would be great if I was a man.
im a man and id say my voice is too deep and croaky. i sound like a stereotypical deep voiced black guy but with a sore throat
I feel like I don’t belong here. My voice is normal for my age and gender.
Everyone says my voice is REALLY good, my aunt says I have a 'voice' and my friends say that my voice is good, when I record and try to post it, I say: "Eww.. Is that my voice..? It sounds a bit deep.." and then I delete it XD
Hi!
Same
Damn I hate my voice. I got a damn lisp kinda. It sucks.
Try having a stutter
Same here with a lisp... cant say "r" sounds, it sucks. Doesnt help that my voice is horrible too
Cristóbal Patton i have a lisp to I fucking hate it....I always stammer/ stutter all the time
Same but it's where I make my S's longer then what they need to be. cause I was in speech so I was cursed with my voice
I know, I hate my voice too.. when i sing I feel like I have a good voice but when I watch the video of me singing.. damn I want to freaking delete it. I cringe so hard. I wish I had Ariana’s voice, then I’d be proud of my own singing.
A lot of people says that my voice is beautiful
but everytime I listen to my own voice,
*I WANT TO DIE*
ikr
Same
Same
But guys when i will speak you can't listen to me
I really hate my voice tho 😂
I'm a singer so I've gotten used to hearing my voice over and over again. After awhile you just get used to it. But I still kinda hate it when I talk and I go 'wow do I really sound like this..?'
Thanks. I hate my voice. Now I know why (still hate my voice).
I speak like I have a deep voice but when i hear it through a recording i sound like an innocent girl with a cracking voice. (Im a girl) I always feel like my voice doesnt fit my face and i get anxiety from it omg help
Lqhua Lbwnkw i speak like a normal voice not too high not too low but when i heard my voice on recording holy shi- my self esteem got so so low now im so shy to talk, so ye i relate to the anxiety
this is so informative
I want to apologize to everyone who has heard me talk for the past 16 years.
How is this channel so tiny?! I can't believe this! Every now and then you release great content, which is relevant to nearly everybody. It's entertaining, straight to the point and interesting. You guys need to somehow collaborate with some bigger channels a few times and eventually you'll build up a bigger audience. Keep up the good work!
jyrolys6 3 years later almost at 1 mil lol
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Amazing thank you so much
Thanks, that was a great explanation
I actually always thought that I was squeaky and was really self-conscious of it up until about 16 where I was told that I have a very deep voice and in some cases I sounded black. The reason why I heard my voice like this though was probably because I always despised my extremely squeaky voice before I hit puberty, which I hit pretty hard.
this explains a lot
Lol! Yep. So familiar. It's a struggle.
But the thing is how to stop hating it , i want to sing.. and i want to like my voice when i hear it in a record whats the solution...
Dani Top hmm maybe getting used to it
I KNOW! That’s the thing.. I hear me sing in a video and I’m like OMF I HATE MY VOICE
Don't sing.
Shut up and tell me your life goal so I can spit on that like you just did
Dani Top same
I thought it was just me lol! Glad to know science got my back here 👍😂
Im gonna cry
Tried recording my voice one time ^^ got embarrassed on how deep my voice was when I listened to it x-x
“But to everyone else, this is what I really sound like”
*sounds the same but less muffled*
I like the video even tho it doesn't answer the question "why do you hate the sound of your own voice" but it explains WHY do you hear it different but ok.....
Its the otherwise for me. I have a bass voice, whenever I talk irl I feel my voice is quite high, but in a recording, it's damn low
haha "that's why I resort to texting" :D same
This was a great lil video that was both entertaining and thought provoking... but why did it feel so much longer than 2 minutes???
My voice is really deep in my head and I recently found out I sound like a mouse
Yeah it is a problem as I'm going into videos with commentary and I often don't enjoy editing or uploading them and I can get despired
I h8 my voice too!
People in the video are saying that they hear their voice deeper but I hear it more high pitched
The guy from 0:38's really handsome, he should join buzz feed nowxD
It’s even worse for me. I hate my voice, And so do the people around me😭
😅love this
Urgh I thought I was the only one I do audios with my friend them I barely listen to them cus it sounds so deep
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literally always hated my voice lol my cousin was on facetime with her friend & he was like ‘why is her voice so deep’ lol i felt like dying
0:40 wish i had your voice
I feel my voice just sounds so stupid whenever I listen to my recordings.
my voice in a video with a camera sounds spontaneous as ive been on camera before lucky this is not me
I effin hate my voice, i’d never thought that was something to be insecure about. My voice sounds childish yet deep
but how are your voices still really nice
and my voice is like a 7 yo voice when i thought its really deep
and gives me charisma
I Am Really Disappointed
and now i know why they tell me my voice sucks although i find it really cool
How the hell do Voice Actors live with themselves?
I had the same question! I mean what about film actors? Like both hearing and seeing yourself at the same time must be so weird!
In that case, it's makes sense why some hate watching their own movies.
I had to send a video of me saying happy birthday to my friend and it took me 8 takes because I thought I sounded like and idiot
"That's why I resort to texting" 😂😂😂
Then how the all bigger singer hear their sound?? Reply!!
Can we change the sound of our voices to sound like how we think we speak?
Everyone who is into fountain pens knows that quick Brown fox line. It’s a sentence that has every letter in the alphabet
I hate my voice because to me it sounds well balanced,not too deep not too high pitched and my friends always say i sound so cute and i have a high pitched voice.I hate it because i’m 14,a girl and i just to me high pitched voices are quite annoying...man i don’t even look like i’m 14
Diddyyap same I’m 13 and I feel the exact same way like I don’t even talk most of the time because I hate my voice and I feel like people will get annoyed by my high pitched voice it makes me sound like I’m like 9 😭
I’m 14 and I hate my voice it’s sorta deep but rlly ugly if u know what I mean 😂
Wtf so im not the only one i guess
I like your voice, but I hate mine.
next question, why do I hate myself?
I'm otherwise, I like how my voice sounds when is recorded
Cup your hands around your ears and you will hear your own voice differently.
Everydayyy I sit and ask myself
Why my voice so bad
Something whispers in my ear and says
That you are not alone
--Michael Jackson
I just got told I have a terrible voice on my vids so much its unwatchable so since I have anxiety over it so much I just searched up about it now im thinking my head bones are broken? Maybe it's ADHD
For people, if you are afraid of people making fun of your voice if you make youtube videos,
Try using a text to speech software instead
I don't particularly like my own voice but I don't dislike it
.tbh I don't rlly care
It's not that my voice is higher then when I speak, it's that j sound like completely different person on recordings
Appropriate title: Why you hear your voice differently than others.
I thought the music in the background was the Mii Theme
My voice sounds so whiny, shrill and nasally, hate it. Wonder if radio people like their voices
Me to i hate my own voice to when i sing like mad and to the outside is so weird my voice is like a 15 year old bully
De ce ti se pare ciudata vocea ta cand te auzi pe o inregistrare ??!
Vocea ta sună într-un fel pentru tine și în alt fel pentru restul lumii, de aceea ți s-a părut ciudată când ți-ai auzit-o pentru prima dată pe o înregistrare. Pe scurt, explicația este următoarea: ne auzim propriile voci cu urechea internă, urechea medie și cu urechea externă, iar dezorientarea vine atunci când ne auzim vocea doar cu cea externă.
În urechea medie se află trei oscioare ciocănaș, nicovală, scăriță (îți amintești de la biologie?) și este delimitată spre exterior de membrana timpanică. Vibrațiile membranei timpanice se transmit mai întâi la ciocănaș, apoi la nicovală și scăriță, iar de acolo la fereastra ovală, situată la limita dintre urechea medie și cea internă. Sunetul care ajunge în urechea internă este transmis prin intermediul oaselor craniului, ceea ce te face să crezi că vocea ta este mai joasă decât a altor oameni.
Unii dintre noi nu suportăm să ne auzim vocea pe o înregistrare în primul rând pentru că ni se pare prea străină și în al doilea rând pentru că refuzăm să o asociem cu noi înșine. E clar că din această categorie nu fac parte... cântăreții.
Dar nu-i nimic. Partea bună e că numai tu știi cum sună vocea ta pentru tine :)
Michael YKM ok mersi ca te ai chinuit sa scrii toata chestia asta la un video in engleza :)))
My voice definitely sounds better recorded, it’s deeper and less annoying than when I hear it just talking.
Me too
I don't
Damn, no wonder my soundcloud career hasn't taken off yet, I sound like shit
I kinda hate my own voice cuz it sounded pretty girly (girly but deep? idk somewhere between Kelly Rowland and keyshia cole voices lol) and i'm a dude. I'm approaching my 20 in 3 months time and i don't really wanna stuck with this kinda voice for another 10 years or so. I don't mind it to sound demonic but ughh (and some people i'm faking it wtf)
I hate recording my voice and i also hate singing on karaoke cuz i think my voice was not good
So our voices are actually higher than it sounds like to ourselves?
I dont hate my voice but hate a bit.
...cause it sounds like a kid..but its kinda cool
My voice sounds good on a mic but not on my phone mic why
i just realized that sentence have every letter in the alphabet
I can’t even speak properly. I hate it so much. The sound of it makes it worse :(
No one minds my voice but I feel bad I mind about my own voice
i recorded myself and no wonder people tell me to repeat myself i sound like im high af
Well yes, this explains why our voices sound different to ourselves, but it doesn't answer the title.
So what we hear inside of us it comes out by the same voice? 😐
I don’t hate my voice
Me recording myself speaking*
*EWWW*
Me on a discord call with someone for the first time*
Him: your voice is cute
Me: what I sound horrible-
Imagine what Vin Diesel sounds to Vin Diesel.
Why? Oh, because I’m a male teenager and still sound like a four year old girl mixed with a choking hamster
I actually like my voice.....I'm a very talkative person.
Same
I never wanted to speak again after I heard mine... It sucks
I hate my voice. I sound like an Asian guy sometimes, and other American. My friend say don’t think about it when talking.
Is it true i think my voice so awful.
my voice is so annoying ugh, i look a lot older then most of the people in my grade then i have a horrible raspy high pitched voice
I hate hearing my own voice because it sounds stupid and I hate seeing pictures or video of myself because I look stupid.
Bruh I know my voice is deep cause people always tell me but when I hear it on camera I sound like Darth Vader I hate it
😂😂
My shit sounds like slimy
I am Groot
My voice is actually deeper than I think lol