My Hysterectomy Changed EVERYTHING! Here's My One Year Post-Op Update
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- It's been a year since my total hysterectomy. I have a new perspective on surgical menopause, my hysterectomy experience and the estradiol patch for HRT. Let's get caught up!
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Hi Renee. I had a " forced " hysterectomy at 45 yeaes old, I'm 72 now. At 45, I started spit bleeding between periods. Had a uterine biopsy and it cane back as cells showing atipia, which are definitely precancerous cells. I could have wound up with full blown cancer at anytime 1 year or 20 years from then. So my wonderful Ob-Gyn did a lapriscopic hysterectomy at 45 years old. I never had to go thru menopause thank God. Right after leaving hospital I went on a low dose of estrogen. Stayed on it for a few years then my primary doc took me off. I've done completely fine ever since never any menopause symtoms. I DO NOT have MUCH SEXUAL DRIVE though. I did lose my husband 13 year's ago, so who cares. Haven't dated or had intimacy with anyone. If I get the urge or some drive lol, I just get out my MR. ELECTRIC haha😅😂
My friend pls go do research on taking statins. They are not good for women. Cholesterol is not the enemy. We need it. Pls pls go out and do research on cholesterol. Many good doctors out there on the subject. Most are against women taking statins. I say this in love.
This is so true, Renee.
Very true. Do all the digging to be fully informed. ❤
Yes please, do some research, maybe try a holistic doctor and not just your regular old school doctor who is only treating symptoms by happily prescribing drugs. I’m happy to hear that you are feeling well but not sure if using a hormone patch for the next 30-40 years is a good idea. Also have to agree that cholesterol is not a bad thing per se. Tryclycerines are a problem. Take a comprehensive blood test that shows the whole spectrum not only the usual 3 cholesterol markers. Talk to a doctor who undetstands all those issues and can explain them to you. It changed my life! I’m post meopause and do not take any drugs, just a couple of natural supplements. Yes, going through menopause is not fun but you get to know your body and work through it. I’m intermittent fasting, gluten free and low carb/low sugar. Yes it does take some adjustments but I feel healthy and happy and not deprived of anything This improved all my significant blood levels including thyroid antibodies and hormones. I highly recommend to listen to Dr Mindy Pelz on youtube! Best of luck ❤
Yes agree 💯
Absolutely agree. Statins mess with your brain and memory loss. Dr Cywes channel has a lot of information on this.
Hello
I have just had a hysterectomy this week and watching your videos, has confirmed I have done the right thing for my body.
I had exactly the same issues, enlarge womb and as I call it "Mr blobby" remove - which weighed 1.2kilos !!!
Truly thankyou for these amazing videos ❤
I had a hysterectomy about 15 years ago and kept my ovaries. I had a fibroid which was casing heavy blood loss and pain. It felt like the best thing ever to not have that problem every month. I’m 73 now
So, did you eventually go on early menopause because I heard a lot of people saying whether you leave the ovaries or not ,you will still go on early menopause?
@@josephineudogu2518 No if I remember rightly I didn’t go on early menopause. I had most of my symptoms before my op. Afterwards all I remember is getting sore breast like I would have had before my period once a month but that gradually went away away.
@@josephineudogu2518 you don’t when you keep your ovaries.
I had a hysterectomy 27 years ago at age 29 and it is definitely a game changer!!! 🎉
I want to thank you so much for posting your experience. I found your video by chance 3 weeks ago after being sent home from the hospital after a total hysterectomy and bowel resection all done robotically the same way your surgery was done. I was not given any information for after care, post op info, nothing. So grateful that I found your videos when I did! You eased my mind by sharing your experience and the info you got from your doctor. You should get an award for the films you shared.
Greetings Renee! I had my hysterectomy when I was 47 and it's been 20 years now. It really is a relief not to have all those issues from the extreme bleeding, etc. anymore. Congratulations on making it through the journey so far! Love and blessings ♥️🙏
Prior to deciding to have my own hysterectomy, I started searching for hysterectomy stories here on RUclips. Especially after I tried an ablation and it failed. That's how I found you and your wonderful channel!! I was also afraid that a hysterectomy would hinder intimacy, but it did the complete opposite. It is sooooo much better, especially as I don't have to plan around a very heavy and intense period any longer. I chose to have everything removed except my ovaries, and I'm very happy with the outcome. Mine was also a robotic surgery with 5 tiny incisions. Best decision I ever made!!!
Hello! What type of hysterectomy did you have?
I'm considering having a hysterectomy
or Ablation.
I had my hysterescopy biopsy last april 3 due to uterine abnormal bleeding for like 21 days.
Biopsy came back Benign,
Doctor didn't find any abnormalities in the uterus.
Started low dose of birth control pill mid of april. I still bleed for 21 days and i guess I'm having the breakthrough bleeding now, and having some side effects.
My provider wants me to give the birthcontrol pill 3 months to see how it will help.
I'm tired, exhausted, not much of energy, emotional and others.
Now i feel like i want it all gone.
Im 50-50 of keeping the ovary.
Did you have your uterus, cervix and fallopian tube taken out? And leave the ovary?
First I thought of the Ablation, but now reading some people having it failed makes me change my mind.
Thank you so much for time to answer my questions.
I'm trying to get information as much i can.
I am 45 & have a laproscopic robotic hysterectomy on May 24. Keeping my ovaries. Your page bas been amazing to me. You have given me hope & made feel not so alone in my feelings. ❤
I’ve just had a hysterectomy and best advise I can give is to make sure you clean out your digestive system. No one told me this and I read up on it and wished I had more time to cleanse before my surgery-believe me it will help so so much. Best of luck to you!
Hi how are you doing so far after your hysterectomy? And what type of hysterectomy?
I'm considering to have it or Ablation.
I had my hysterescopy biopsy last april 3 due to uterine abnormal bleeding for like 21 days.
Biopsy came back Benign,
Doctor didn't find any abnormalities in the uterus.
Started low dose of birth control pill mid of april. I still bleed for 21 days and i guess I'm having the breakthrough bleeding now, and having some side effects.
My provider wants me to give the birthcontrol pill 3 months to see how it will help.
I'm tired, exhausted, not much of energy, emotional and others.
Now i feel like i want it all gone.
Im 50-50 of keeping the ovary.
Did you have your uterus, cervix and fallopian tube taken out? And leave the ovary?
Thank you so much for time to answer my questions.
I'm trying to get information as much i can.
Hi Renee, I am having issues with my menstrual cycles etc... I have been mildly anemic for a few years. Well now I'm severely anemic. I had a blood transfusion earlier this week. I'm feeling better from that. I'm afraid I'll be told I will have to have a hysterectomy. I had a biopsy yesterday, so we will see. Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this. It is helpful.
I finally had my robotic assisted hysterectomy back in February. I had two fibroids, one was the size of a grapefruit and the other one was the size of a plum. They made me have to pee like crazy but I couldn’t fully empty my bladder every time. It also made eating and digestion difficult. Having the surgery has been a life saver. Quite literally. It’s only been 2 months but I can already tell that my CBC levels are getting better. And I can go for longer walks and exercises because I’m no longer in pain. I kept my ovaries so no menopause yet. But the perimenopause started about a year ago. Can’t say I’m a fan of it but I know it’s going to happen.
I have my hysterectomy when I was 37 years old and been a challenge with the menopause and all the medical problems I had, I love your channel blessings from Connecticut
Hi Renee, I am new to your channel am 48 years old - in fact subscribed only few days ago when I discovered your hysterectomy journey. Your video is coming out at the right time,as I was wondering how you are getting on now. Am on waiting list for hysterectomy ( robotic total laparoscopic hysterectomy with ovarian preservation ) - I am finally ready and actually really looking forward to it - as my quality of life is not great at the moment due to issues why I need my hysterectomy. Was trying to avoid it for last 3 years as I needed to accept the fact that I am ok without children and now I am genuinely looking forward to it. Thank you for your honesty and sharing your journey. Lots of love,Katarina x
Welcome! Like you, I put it off for a year or so because I simply was scared of the surgery. I'm now so glad I did it. I think you'll feel the same. Best of luck to you Katarina!
@WELCOMETOMYCURLS Thank you Renee! 😊
I hope you get what you want soon! I'm 38 and 6 months post hysterectomy, wasn't able to have children either. I'm feeling really really good. Quality of life is sooooo much better. I have endometrosis and I had severe adenomyosis. I still have my ovaries as well.
@stephaniehaile6541 Hi Stephanie,thank you for your reply. I really appreciate it. I have multiple huge fibroids as well as huuugely enlarged uterus, am in a lot of pain and pressure in my abdomen and my coccyx and bottocks where it radiates. One of my fibroids sits on a top of my bladder,much like Renee's. I genuinely can't wait. Next week I am going to get injection to temporarily shut down my ovaries, as to give me a relief as my stomach is all damaged from iron tablets ( due to anemia from heavy periods ) abd can't take any pain relief. The injection will also cause shrinkage of uterus and my fibroids,so surgery can be easier and less risky as I have 9 large fibroids. It may cause temporarily signs of menopause- so I guess I will get a glimpse of it what it feels like for 3 months. But my gyne surgeon told me,that not all women get menopausal symptoms,so guess we will see 😊.
@@stephaniehaile6541 Are your ovaries working normally after surgery?
Happy Friday Renee!! ❤
I had a total hysterectomy 9 months ago I was able to keep my ovaries I was 39 at the time. Your videos helped me prepare for my surgery. And entertained me during my recovery. Unfortunately my hysterectomy has caused a prolapse of my bladder and any time I have stool issues it effects my prolapse and makes my cuff sore and makes me feel very uncomfortable.
I am glad to hear your hysterectomy has helped you! I really wish I could say the same.
I'm sorry to hear that! That's very unfortunate...hope there is something your doctor can do for you.
I had a laparoscopic hysterectomy three days ago (kept only my ovaries), and your series of videos has been so helpful for guiding my own recovery journey. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us!❤
My hysterectomy changed my life only for the better as well! I actually found you through my own hysterectomy research. For me, intimacy and not having a period is phenomenal. My cervix used to dip very low and would interfere with my intimate life as would the constant pain I was in. Now everything is wonderful. BEST decision EVER! Your videos on hysterectomy gave me a lot of courage to go through with it! Thank you!!!!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your videos, you stood out by far on RUclips in bringing me peace of mind, education, and transparency. I am 36 yo and had a mass, severe PCOS and endo. I continue to share your videos with other women around me and again can’t thank you enough for your wisdom. 🙏🏼
You are so welcome! I'm glad my videos have been helpful. Thank you for letting me know.
So glad you feel much better! Anything that stops physical suffering is a blessing.
AMEN 🙏🏽 🙏🏽
AMEN 🙏🏽 🙏🏽
Good Morning Renee! Thank you for sharing your journey through your hysterectomy. I was very lucky...I sailed through menopause with few side effects...& like all the women in my family...we never had to take any HRT either. 👍🤞🍀 Just genetically blessed. I certainly have many girlfriends who went through horrific symptoms from their menopause. One of my girlfriends is 67 years old & still suffers hot flashes. 😳😕 She has been in post menopause & still suffers from that. Yikes! She just despises it. Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊
Renee, Thank you for sharing your journey with us from the get go. I watched you a year ago going through the blood transfusion, the hysterectomy diagnosis, the lead up to the hysterectomy, all of it. You have provided us with such a truthful, detailed account that we are fortunate to have. Thank you! I have to say I also had fun on the eclipse day! Seeing those ribbons of light on the concrete was something I've never seen before! We are blessed to have you and your husband sharing these videos with us.
Hi. I just had a laparoscopic sigmoid colon resection and total hysterectomy last Friday. I did keep my ovaries, by request, even though I will be turning 54. I have other medical issues and did not want to be plummeted into full menopause. All my pathology came back cancer free ( thank God) and I am hoping for a good longterm outcome. As soon as I am cleared, I will be looking to work with a PT to maintain and further strengthen my pelvic floor to try to prevent any issues.
BTW ladies: with either menopause or removal of your ovaries, your LDL will increase. Your body takes LDL and converts it to the hormones we need...estrogen, progesterone etc. With menopause, we slow and stop making the hormones, thus, the LDL is no longer being used up. The same thing for HRT. You are providing your body the estrogen it needs, thus the LDL is not being used in this situation either.
I had a hysterectomy last September, after a scare with a pre-cancerous polyp, and they took my ovaries, tubes and all (laparoscopic, but non-robotic, in my case). I recovered well and felt confident that I would be fine after seeing your story. And when I had to go on hormone therapy (Premarin, in my case), I was also positive and encouraged about that, thanks to your videos. Since I use pills but no patches, there's no need for me to worry about swimming or soaking in a tub without a waterproof bandage over top. I can attest that I, too, feel "flippin' fantastic" since my recovery and after starting on estrogen. My scars are still in the process of fading, but over time I'm sure they'll blend right in, and they're tiny already. Even my hair is looking better now, whether due to estrogen replacement or just no more blood loss from that pesky polyp. Overall, I'm glad I went through with it, and glad I found your channel to help me understand what to expect before I went in!
I had a tiny fibroid size of a pea. My heart goes out to those that suffer. The pain I had was unbearable.
Your info is a god send! I just booked my first appt thru your link below and couldn’t be more excited after my hysterectomy last week. You’re such a gift, keep the vids coming!
Can't wait to watch this! On Tuesday I'll be 6 months post hysterectomy.
I found you during my research for my exact same procedure for the same reason - also started growing out my gray hair at the same time! I’m six months behind you but soooo appreciate feeling less alone and scared because of your videos❤ Thanks girl ❤
Because of your videos sharing what you went through, I was able to go through a total hysterectomy as well. They took my uterus, my ovaries, my cervix, my lymph nodes around the area because I had endometrial cancer, a tumor and cysts. I found that out after the hysterectomy so I reckon it was right on time. Im doing great at almost a month out. Believe it or not but my pain prior to surgery was worse than post surgery pain and that's with Pain pills! Thats terrrible. God gave me so much peace. Gave me a good surgeon, on the 7th floor at suite 700. Its unreal how God planned it all. I still have to be watched though and Im living for better health. So thankyou for sharing your journey.
❤❤❤❤❤❤ &💚 7 Complete. God Bless You.. Thank you for sharing....
I agree! My hysterectomy was 20 yrs ago at age 43. It was a piece of cake compared to the pain I endured FOR DECADES. No HRT; it has been smooth sailing for me. I had hot flashes for 3-4 months after surgery and they disappeared. Absolutely no complaints and wish I’d done it much SOONER. P.S. during surgery it was discovered that not only did I have fibroids, but I had a horrific case of endometriosis and a chocolate cyst. All those years of feeling soooo bad, horrible mood swings, dragging myself to work, taking care of my family, battling constant anemia - I encourage you ladies, don’t live like that. My best years have been post-hysterectomy ❤
My Dear Renee, You are truly a blessing to U-Tube.. You did such a wonderful job discussing this personal and very important subject. Renee, It was so eloquently and most of all accurately demonstrated. Thank You....🌻
I am 57 and had a complete (everything!) hysterectomy at 40 due to heart & blood loss issues. I was thrown into surgical menopause. I had a couple months of depression-like symptoms (crying for no reason, moody as heck, etc) and then went on HRT for about 2 yrs. Decided to wing it & try life without HRT and it's been great for me! And as far as intimacy with my husband.... MUCH MUCH better for many reasons! Glad to find another hyster-sister Renee!!!
can we connect?
So ur not on any HRT? Did u have a complete hysterectomy?
Hello, your comment gives me hope . I’m 57 and just had total radical hysterectomy as well and worried about sex life with my husband , with no ovaries and no sex hormones , but you say it’s better than ever? Dud that just happen naturally for you?
@@embodiedrealization9377 YES! Without getting too specific, the fireworks are much brighter than before (if you get what I mean) I took HRT for 7yrs but havent now for almost 10yrs. Give it time, it wont happen super quick because you're still healing and likely very nervous about everything. But hopefully, it happens the same for you and 4th of July will happen way more often than 1x a year! Yes, keep that hope & positive thinking!
@@angelasmith257 I was on HRT (Premarin) for 7yrs....I've not been on anything for 10yrs. Yes, everything has been removed.
It’s hard to believe it’s been a year. I’m on HRT with estrogen patches, progesterone at night 200 mg and testosterone. ❤
Thanks so much for the update, I had my own radical hysterectomy three months after yours for very similar reasons.... your videos truly helped me so much in keeping a positive outlook. Ditto loving not having a period ever again and woohoo for bladder control. ;)
Thank you so much for all your hysterectomy videos they were so hopeful before I had my total hysterectomy due to cancer I’m really grateful to you. God Bless you keep the good work.
I’m so grateful to you, Renee, for your willingness to speak frankly with us about important subjects. As women, we need to share and encourage one another, especially about sensitive subjects that we may not even discuss with our closest friends. You are a blessing. ❤ Debbie
You are so welcome
Thank you so much for sharing your journey. You’ve helped me the most with your videos with being so open and honesty. I’m 56 and will be having a radical hysterectomy also, robotic Davinci. I still have monthly periods, with very little menopausal symptoms, but my fibroid uterus and recurring painful ovarian cysts has led me to this next chapter. God bless and peace be with be you.
I hope once I get over this hump, that my hysterectomy will be the best thing to happen. I had vaginal cuff dishesion with evisceration, the sutures dissolved before I was healed... I was 9 weeks out from my total abdominal hysterectomy. Everything was removed. It was pretty scary stuff. I hope I am on the mends...I want to have good report.
I had very painful menses from age 10-47. I had a radical hysto like you did. However, I'm allergic to the sticky patches so I switched to low dose Estradiol pill. Having this surgery was the best thing I've ever done! I finally got my life back.
My hysterectomy was six months ago and as you have stated life is so much better after the hysterectomy I have just recently started adding small amounts of testosterone to my HRT and OMG that was a game changer. The energy that I now have is amazing. My husband loves it, I feel like I am in my 20s again and not my mid 50s. I have to go through several doctors to get the testosterone and it does have to be compounded, but it was definitely a conversation that I’m glad I had with my wonderful doctor and she was willing to prescribe it for me.🤗😁
Oh wow! That's fantastic!!!
Can u get it if u don’t have a uterus cause I had a complete hysterectomy and my energy levels are terrible…
Thank you Rene! I’m having a total laparoscopic hysterectomy Oct. 8th, and looking forward to no more fibroids and bleeding!
@@carriemendezona2635 OCT 21st. I got my date today.
I don't know what you're doing, but you're looking great.
Awww thank you! 💗 I'm doing my usual thing and staying active. I'm feeling great!
Your channel continues to be inspiring! You are a must-watch for me. Thanks so much for sharing your journey! (BTW...cute sweater set!!!)
Thankyou for sharing. I'm scheduled to have a hysterectomy in June. Your videos are helping to relieve my worries.
You are so welcome!
Hi Renee, my hysterectomy is next week and you have made me feel so much better about the whole thing. Thank you for sharing your whole journey. ☺
You are so welcome! Best wishes to you 🌺
My estradiol patch cut my total cholesterol from 351 to 194 and my LDL went from 262 to 110. I"m extremely active and I eat healthy *most* of the time, but my cholesterol levels went crazy when I went into menopause. I didn't do anything else for my cholesterol, just the HRT. Btw, I am also from the Paducah area, Ledbetter to be exact, lol!! Thank you for the update and I love your videos!!
Oh wow! So we had the exact opposite happen. Interesting! Hey neighbor 💕
@@WelcomeToMyCurls I should've mentioned that I'm on the highest dose of 1 mg estradiol patch. Definitely helped my cholesterol and I just ordered the Niceful dressings, too. Thank you for recommendation :)
@@rachealparrish9266what are Niceful dressings?
@@rachealparrish9266do u find 13:23 being on that high dose patch has helped with weight gain? I just can’t seem to lose any weight since my surgery 🫤
@@rachealparrish9266have u lost or gained weight since on that higher dose of patch? I’m struggling to keep my weight down…
I found you through your hysterectomy videos. I had mine last year at 48 and followed a lot of your advice for post-care! I feel great since mine too and had no issues. Thank you!
Such a great update. I'm glad everything is going well. I remember when you first shared your journey. Thanks for sharing 🤗🤗
Thank you so much!
Yay, thanks, Renee for sharing your story! I purchased the NexCare bandages, for my cruise, because of your previous recommendation. They worked great! So, I'm going to give these new ones a try for the summer. 😃
Wonderful! I used the new bandages while on vacation in Mexico and they work beautifully! Plus since they don't have that cotton bandage section like the Nexcare, they. lay much flatter and are more comfortable. You'll love them!
So informative, Renee, and it wasn't a long video. It flew by because all of the subjects were pertinent and important. Thank you so much for this. I went into chemically induced menopause during and after my chemotherapy for breast cancer years ago when i was 40 but it seems more so that now while at the age of a more common age of natural menopause (i know that some go thru it earlier than later), I experienced the high cholesterol issue when diet wasn't a contributing factor, nor exercise. I too went on a very low dose of a statin, reluctantly, and it also reduced my levels to normal. Seeing your video made me feel better about some things that were happening. Thank you for your videos.
I am 43yrs old with 11cm Fibroids,will be going thru Hysterectomy shortly,One question,do you still have to care when you lift/move heavy things?
Your videos are so so helpful,thank you
Thank you sooo much!!! I am waiting for a call for my radical hysterectomy… I am so worried about the hormones after the surgery… you have helped my fears a great deal…
Thanks 🙏🏾 for the recap, you are an amazing woman ❤
I appreciate that 💕
Thanks so much for this update video. I went through menopause naturally, so it doesn't really impact me personally, but it is good to know and share with friends and family of the female persuasion. I referred a friend facing a hysterectomy to your videos and they really helped her a lot.
Thank you for sharing. I have scheduled an appointment with a menopause specialist and your comments have provided several questions I need to ask …especially about HRT patches. Also, as a curly headed person great insight into the before and after differences. Many thanks!
Glad it was helpful!
Thanks Renee, very important to talk about these things. I've suffered my whole adult life with Endometriosis, got help many years ago and have been fine. Not had a pariod since I was in my early thirties, I'm now 53. Went off the meds 6 months ago and no Manepaus symptoms 😊 well not yet, let's hope it stays that way! Great video, thank you for sharing. Have a great weekend! 🌞🐾🦴💛
Renee, thank you so much for updating your journey!!I have been meaning to ask how you have been since starting HRT. I had a hysterectomy (one ovary left) when I was 34, I am now 53. I have been on the fence about HRT because of what I heard regarding estrogen and the fact that I keep having cysts, calcifications and a lymph node in my breasts that they find during my mammograms and ultrasounds. I can't handle the hot flashes and sleepless nights to name a few of my symptoms. I have been thinking about going to my doctor and asking for HRT and I will make that appointment this week thanks to you! Thanks again for the update and your honesty with your journey!
I’m 46 and having one on weds yours videos were a big help thank you ❤
Thanks Renee! I just started HRT so I hope this helps my symptoms of menopause that I have been struggling with for a while! Fingers crossed.
I think every person's response to surgical or natural menopause is different. I had a radical hysterectomy at 42. I took bioidentical creams the first 3 years and then things leveled off and have not taken anything since. At 65 my cholesterol is still in normal levels, but my blood pressure is climbing, my hair did not change in any way until my 60's started thinning. My libido did go to zero. I developed osteoporosis. I have menopause symptoms on and off throughout the years. They come and go as far as hot flashes, sleeplessness and then go away. I am most concerned about my osteoporosis. I'm going to start on a low dose estrogen patch long enough to see if my bone density number stay stable. If I can prevent anymore bone loss I'll count it as a win. I'm also testing to see if my vaginal atrophy, dryness and bladder issues resolve. I wish I knew all that I now know and started and stayed on estradiol since my hysterectomy. I could possibly have avoided osteoporosis. Like any medication my dr and I will be watching for side effects. I agree with the concern for statins. They wanted to put my husband on statins since his 30's and after research I said no. Now in his 60's it hasn't gone any higher, but at times tests normal. Has had tests on his veins and heart and no indication of heart disease. Every single person is different and has to make their own decision. I am thankful that we can research everything and inform ourselves before we go to the Dr and just blindly take anything they tell us. Good luck to all who are in middle of making decisions about menopause peri-menopause and any other illness you might be dealing with. Most of all love and care for yourself as you would your child. Pay attention to your body, dont ignore it. ❤
Renee , your comments may very well be terrifying for someone who is entering menopause naturally. It doesn’t have to be scary or difficult at all! I entered into menopause naturally and when my hot flashes were bothersome just like they were for you for a few weeks I went to my doctor got on hormone replacement therapy and have been fine since😊. I would not say I struggled at all naturally with fluctuating hormones coming into menopause.
Now that summer is right around the corner, I thank you for the suggestion of the waterproof patch! They’re in my cart ❤
Ive been watching your videos because I just had a hysterectomy last week. I’ve also been on hormones for 3 years due to early menopause. My cholesterol also went high when the meno began. Get your hrt to an “optimal” level. You’re on a super low dose. You could definitely benefit from a higher dose. There are so many menopause symptoms besides hot flashes and mood issues and they will slowly sneak up. We aren’t told of all the terrible symptoms. Also add progesterone and testosterone. Once my levels were a little higher and I was on all 3 my cholesterol lowered back down to much better levels. Like others have said please research statins. Our brains need cholesterol. I wish you the best on your journey.
I also found your RUclips by looking for more understanding before my radical hysterectomy last November. I could have saved my ovaries but after a few stories of ladies having only total hysterectomy then getting ovarian cancer I didn’t even want to risk that so out with it all and after a few weeks adjusting to hormones I’m great I have so much more energy now and I am free to do things I used to have to stay home from, church camp with my kids, swimming all summer, intimacy on a whim, it has been the best decision and I am thankful for your videos that helped with my anxiety before surgery.
I have found your hysterectomy videos super helpful as i get ready for mine. I'll be 32 when i have mine done next year(or sooner if things get worse), i have my 3 kids and I'm honestly excited to not plan my life and my families lives around my bleeding. we'll be able to go to the beach and pool and hiking without me having to check my shark week calendar. my only hesitation is deciding between keeping my ovaries or getting everything totally removed but otherwise I'm honestly excited to be done with this stupid thing causing me sooooooo many issues.
Glad you are doing well! Just a comment for anyone worrying about going through a “natural” menopause. Not everyone has a terrible time. I managed mine with acupuncture and a natural supplement. I found the more I focused on my symptoms they worsened, so I used CBT and mindfulness to support with that. HRT wasn’t for me , it caused severe bleeding. Menopause (however it arrives) is a very individual thing, I am very grateful mine was not as bad as I thought it might be and very happy to be period free😀
Probably totally different if u didn’t have to go thru a radical hysterectomy..
Thank you for documenting your journey! I’ve gained valuable insight from this and able to take what applies to my situation and make sound decisions. Thank you for sharing.
The pain and the problems I had justified a hysterectomy. I feel better in that way. However, the procedure aged me greatly.
My doctor put me on a statin because the issues run In my family genetics I’m certain she is wise to help me I’m this way ❤
Hysterectomy at 30 due to endometriosis. My friends have had as well. Best thing we all feel we ever did. Patches hurt my skin so I take easy pill every morning . Best ever. 🌸🌸
Thank you for sharing. I've been wondering how you've been doing. Glad to hear all is well. I also have 2 fibroids that caused very heavy bleeding. I had a DNC and that took care of that problem. I'm in my sixty's and use estradiol patch & cyclic progesterone. I'm good to go, except I hate the days when I have to take progesterone because it makes me bloated and moody just like before your period.
Glad you're feeling well. I don't have to take progesterone because my uterus was removed.
I will have to go back and take time to listen to entire video, I just clicked on it, because I'm Loving your HAIR!!!!!!!!!
Thanks so much!!
I was on HRT for 16 years after my hysterectomy and developed breast cancer. My oncologist said more than likely the HRT caused it since I was on it so long and that I didn’t have any family history of breast cancer. You might want to rethink staying on it for the rest of your life. Surgical menopause is hard to go through and I hated the thought of all those symptoms returning because I had to abruptly stop the HRT but it was surprisingly easy and the severe hot flashes only lasted about six months. I wish you all the best.
But we’re 😊u on the patch or the old HRT pills they use to give out?did u gain or loss weight with out the HRT?
I went on the patch, I feel great.
That's fantastic!
glad you have solutions for your issues but sorry you have had to resort to a statin. I say this because I was on a baby does of a statin for 2 years - and unfortunately - the side effect of brain fog and energy issues were very bad . . . I am now off of the statin - have also researched and have dealt with my high cholesterol and high LDL through other means . . .I pray that this solution works for you - we have to be our own advocates and I'm glad you're not afraid to ask questions and do what is necessary !!!! BTW - just came by from my long weekend in Paducah - and it is a very nice place to visit. . . . . . . do have a question - the large, older "mansions" (for lack of a better term) that are near the historic district - what is the story behind these homes? They are so different from everything else anywhere near them and they are beautiful !!! My quilter friend was thrilled to have a Hancocks to shop at . . . . . . . alot of fun !!!! Thank you.
How are you handling your high cholesterol? If you don’t mind sharing 😊
I also had one 3 months ago. Recovered very fast and my body does feel different. No more periods.
I watched your videos before mine. Had ut April 1st 2024 so 18 days ago. I had the robotic assisted laperoscopic. Kept my ovaries. I'm 38 and otherwise healthy. Worse part for me was the pain from feeling like I had to pee but not being able to for the first couple hours just because I didn't have enough urine in my body to actually go.
I normally walk about 3 miles a day for exercise. Starting the day after surgery I started walking little bit more each day and I'm now back up to my 3 miles albeit about 10 minutes slower.
Other than the gas pain I didn't have much other pain at my incisions.
I'm probably doing too much already but I feel like I could be completely normal but I am following Dr's orders to not lift for at least 4 weeks but she eould prefer 6.
Had my 2 week post op and she said all was fine and I see her one more time in June which is 12 weeks post op and I wonder if it's that far out just so that she can make sure that nothing has been damaged after you've had some time to be in your normal routine.
I also went through a surgical menopause 18 years ago. All I can say, I was very fortunate that I didn't have any bad issues because I'm not able to do HRT to keep things in check. My only concern is osteoporosis that my doctor is monitoring.
Your bladder problem is also better because you’re on HRT. I only had my uterus removed and had an overactive bladder so my GYN put me on an Estring, and it took care of my bladder “talking to me” ALL THE TIME. It was a GODSEND
Renee, you can and should go higher with your estrogen. You are on a low dose and you will not need the statin. You need at least .50 mg to get the benefit for your bones.
I’m on the .50 and just bumped up to the .75 my cholesterol been border line…
I want to thank you for your series of hysterectomy videos. I just watched all of them and they were so very helpful THANK YOU SO SO MUCH! I am due for my total open abdominal on MAY 23rd so in 9 days and I am so nervous! I as well have a very large uterus full of fibroids. My uterus is the size of a 5 month pregnancy and I have large fibroids, many of them. I am nervous! I have the extremely heavy periods as well and am anemic from it :/
You will be ok I had exactly the same as you have. I'm in my 6 weeks after my hysterectomy just been at doctor today as healthy as ever. I had 5 fibriods
Thank you so much!! I'm having a hysterectomy at the end of September and reconstruction for bladder prolapse. I'm nervous, I haven't seen doctors often but knowing what to expect definitely helps. I know it may be different for me but forewarned is forearmed, right?
I've begun estrogen suppositories to strengthen the tissue in that area. I do have so many questions for my doctor regarding post-surgery. But I can tell you that your videos have helped so much. I'm doing my research to be ready for most anything that comes up.
Thankyou you so much sharing your experience with us its very helpful for me 🙏🏻🙏🏻God bless u dear
Renee, rather than go on a statin to lower your cholesterol, why didn't you just increase the strength of your estradiol patch? According to Dr. Barbara Taylor, .5 mg is the minimum we should be on. I'm having a hysterectomy in July. Thanks for all your helpful videos on this topic! ❤
My doctor gave me a big NO when I asked about that. The HRT dosage I'm on is correct for me but isn't effecting my cholesterol. She says raising the HRT level won't help but only hurt.
@WELCOMETOMYCURLS that's really interesting... Did she say HOW it would be harmful? (I'm asking because my cholesterol levels are up and I was going to ask about increasing the strength of my patch.)
She didn't explain why it would be harmful other than to say that I only need what my body needs.
My sister was on Estrogen for 15 years (I don't know the dose) and she developed a breast tumor; cancer. Small but she still had to have surgery & radiation. The Dr. said either too much or taking Estrogen for too long, feeds cancerous tumors to develop and grow. Please monitor yourself.
How kind of you to update! Thank you1
Really glad to hear you're doing so well😊
Hey, Renee. I have really enjoyed your videos and especially the ones concerning your hysterectomy. Thank you for sharing your experience! I’m 53 and have gone 12 complete months without a period, and just had the full laparoscopic hysterectomy using the DaVinci robot…I’m 3 days post op. I had a fibroid just as large as my uterus, a prolapsed bladder as well as a couple of cysts on my right ovary.
Oh I hope you are feeling well today! You've still got a few weeks ahead before you'll feel like you've turned the corner. Best of luck to you 🌷
Hello Renee, I was wondering when you were going to give us an update I am so glad you have. I had a radical hysterectomy in December of 23, and it has been the best thing I have ever done. I wish I would’ve had it done sooner. I am also on estradiol patch.075, my cholesterol has gone up which I will need to talk to my primary care provider after hearing you today, But all in all I feel great. My question for you today is what about your weight? Have you seen a weight gain or weight loss? And what are you doing about?
Hi Mary! Betting your cholesterol issue is same as mine. Your doctor should be able to help out. I'm taking 5mg of statin daily and it's brought my LDL down significantly. I've had no side effects from taking the medication. Since the surgery, I haven't gained any weight thankfully. Everything has remained steady. I do intermittent fasting 16:8 which I've done for a few years. Otherwise, I eat pretty much what I want. I am very active and get in some form of exercise every day (walking, yoga, pilates, swimming). That being said...I have noticed that my belly is more "round". I just think that's what happens in menopause because nothing I've done has made a difference. It's frustrating! Glad you're feeling well! 💕
@@WelcomeToMyCurls thank you for the info and update. I will be starting to be more active in my exercise! Thank you Renee have a GREAT WEEKEND 🏖️!
@@WelcomeToMyCurls can’t believe you’re taking a ‘statin!’ Now, idk if you’re here to help these women who’ve subscribed or not bc you should research, really research statins…..but you’ll learn soon enough in 2-3 years on
Even without ovaries taking progesterone could help with sleep…it did for me.
No Don't take statin! Do research... What's important is tryclycerides and hdl. Not LDL. Look up dr ovida, cardiologist
Thank you so much for sharing this valuable info! I have adenomyosis & was told I need hysterectomy. I’m 44 & Dr said I can wait until I can’t take it anymore. (I mainly have bloating /tummy looks prego but I try to hide it best I can). I’d like to not have to go with surgery. Dr said 20% chance that I could help my adenomyosis but still might need hysterectomy.
Thank you for the 1 year update! I had a laparoscopic hysterectomy Jan. 2, 2024. I did keep my ovaries. (I’m 65) I currently on Estradiol and progesterone. I was released from my Dr. 3/2/24. The only issue I have is I have extreme fatigue. Did you have this and if so how long did it last? I know everyone is different in their journey. 13:57
Glad you're on the other side of things now. I did not have any issue with fatigue other than for a few weeks after surgery. I've heard from many women who've experienced this...but fortunately I did not.
Please please please do not offer medical advice to someone already happy with their treatment plan. What works for Renee may not always work for someone else but Renee knows her body and I'm sure she has done her own research. She is sharing what has worked for her. Please respect her right to choose what works best for her own body.
I dread menopause symptoms. I work with several woman who battle hot flashes and it seems so miserable. Not to mention it’s so obvious to everyone in the room while they are stripping down to tank tops while bright red. They talk about how hard their nights can be. 😢 I hope I am a lucky one and have low symptoms. Didn’t I pay my dues with early menstruation and heavy periods that kept me out of life at times? 😂
I think the older we ladies get we automatically gain a little more weight. I'm 5'2 and weight 57 kilos. I think you look fabulous Renee for your age etc!💖
wonderful. I'm so pleased for you
Thank yu soo much yu have toch the most scariest point of Gm having surgery if suffer since 2014 from fibroods and endometriosis pain bleeding finaly decide to do it yu convince me thank you
I had a abdominal hysterectomy at 23. At 26 I had my ovaries removed as they stopped working. Hormone therapy didn't work as I have heart problems. I've never had any maniposal systems at all. I'm 56 now. Still no problems beside my heart problems.
I had robotic hysterectomy 9/9. I had prolapse. I’m almost 66 years old. I’ve been done with menopause for years. I also was retaining urine in my bladder. Couldn’t empty. Never had much of an urge to urinate. Had uro dynamics test in April. Anyway, 6 days after surgery, I’ve been experiencing incontinence. Terrible. Had urine tested 9/20 and I have a UTI. On antibiotics since 9/22. Still urinating in my pads. Dr visit for follow up this coming Tuesday. Anyone else experience this problem?
My cholesterol levels went high as well. Estantin? I’d have to talk with my doctor. Thanks for your videos 🥹
I had one of my ovaries removed years ago. That put me in menopause. I never remember any changes in anything except absent of periods. It has been 20 years now.
You were super lucky :)
Consider plant based Whole Foods as well! This does an amazing job without the need for a statin.🌱
Thank you for the 1 year update. My surgery is in 2 weeks and im curious about how long it took you to be able to sleep on side and stomach. I’m a side sleeper for sure. God bless you.
It took a month for me to sleep on my side again.
Thank you so much for all of your information ❤
I love your hair