answering your questions:🤰🏻 pregnant in residency!!
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- Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
- Last week I posted a pregnancy announcement video: • We're Pregnant! This week, I figured I would answer some of the questions you guys sent me on Instagram!
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
0:29 Were you on birth control? If so, how long were you off before trying?
1:06 How long did it take you to conceive?
1:27 Morning Sickness? Nausea?
2:01 Supplements during pregnancy?
3:04 Did you plan your pregnancy to coincide with last year of residency?
3:30 Is there a better time to start a family?
4:00 walking in the park
4:50 How is your residency supporting your pregnancy?
6:11 Has your pregnancy affected your study routine/concentration?
6:45 Stress of the Emergency Department affecting your pregnancy?
7:24 Is maternity leave allowed in residency?
8:19 Does pregnancy affect the transition timeline between residency and fellowship?
8:48 Epidural or brave the pain?
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As a German, this system is just bonkers to me. How can you expect pregnant people to work that long??? Insanity! In German you have to stop working 6 weeks before your due date and can start 8 weeks after giving birth (it can even be longer if you have twins or a premature baby). Really hope that the US will one day realise how insane this system is. All the best for you pregnancy!
Right?! Here in the UK, you can take up to a year off and your mat leave can start up to 11 weeks before your expected due date if you wish.
@@hattiebrazeley3351 yes it means, that time sm.g. mentioned is mandatory. after giving birth, u can elect to not go back to work for 3 years actually.
Crazy to think you need to work until the day you give birth!
Here in Belgium you have 15weeks of paid pregnancy leave. 1 week of that you are obligated to take the week before due date but can take up to 6weeks before due date and the rest you take after birth. So if you take only 1week before due date you would take 14weeks after birth and if you take 6weeks before you only get 9 after birth.
Also you can take up to 4months of paid parental leave (both mom &dad can take same amount) but also this you can also choose to split it up in for example part time for 8months or what ever suits you best and your work.
Love the video by the way❤️
I'm a Canadian HR student and I was literally just reading about the different maternity leave policies in different countries, including the US. The government in the US doesn't intervene with the citizens' personal lives, or offer financial aid, everyone being left to fend for themselves, in a way...Hearing her speak about the complexity of maternity leave seriously hurts my heart and brings my lectures to reality. 😔
I took hr class and health care law before. The system in here (USA) is suck. Depand on which state you live in and no fedaral law.
May I know how what it’s like in Canada? Planning to move there and for fellowship. Thank you very much 😊
@@thehunchbackgirl it really depends on what province you plan on going to! :)
ahhhh this video!! i love that you take us along your day while you answer questions, the film quality is so beautiful and it's so exciting to see you start this new chapter of your journey🥺
Thank you so much for being open about this and sharing your journey! As a future med-student that also wants to be a mom, I have so many questions, so it’s wonderful to hear from someone experiencing it!!! Thank you for sharing!!❤️
i've been following you for so long, i'm so so so excited for your new chapter!!! wishing only health on happiness to you and baby jamie
Oh yay, so happy a question of mine got included in this video! Congrats on the pregnancy 💕I’ve been watching your videos for years, and it’s been so amazing to learn from you as you go through your medical education.
I'm going to med school this fall and I worry about my timeline for having kids. Could you go more into detail about having kids as a woman in medicine and when the "best" years would be to start? Also any struggles you have faced as a woman and how to go about advocating for yourself. Thanks and congrats on the baby!!! ❤️
As a child of health professionals, there is no "best" time the more you wait the you'll stress. People make it work all the time you just have to be prepared. I remember my mom being in the hospital working long hours and come home to make sure we had breakfast and was on the school bus. It's all about what you want. A lot of people depending on what the demographic of your school, will already be in relationships or married with kids. You just make it work the best as you can. I'm sure you will make the of what you got, and take out loans if you need for help, you got to pay them back anyway so might as well use them if you need it. What is also important is a good support system so having family or people you trust you know what won't harm your kids is a great way to go. You got this and congrats on going to med school!
I’ve heard the best timing is in year 4 because it’s more relaxed and you aren’t doing as many important rotations.
8 weeks to me is insanity. In Ontario (Canada), we get up to 17 weeks of pregnancy leave (pre delivery) and up to 18 months of parental leave.
It's kinda crazy to me that a maternity leave of several months doesn't affect the timeline of residency. In italy all the months you're at home are added at the end of your residency because it's seen as months you were supposed to be learning and instead took off. The 2 colleagues of mine who had pregnancies will finish later on and even have the end of the year exam at a different time compared to everybody else because of the shifting in their timeline.
But anyway congrats for your wonderful news, in our field it's so tough because we're made to feel as if it's never the right time and you'll lose opportunities/learning experiences because of your decision but at the same time if you wait until you're completely settled that means you won't start your family until 35/36...
Happy for you jamie!
Congrats!!!! I'd like to hear about your exercise/what you eat in a day pregnancy edition!
Thanks for being a great example for women in medicine that we can have a family and a career :)
The U.S system is so crazy. How are women expected to work until their due date? That's messed up.
Great video tho.
It sucks:( I know multiple female physicians who scheduled a c-section so they could "fit" the birth into the hospital's schedule and return to work in ~6 weeks. It's brutal. Thankfully, the new generation of physicians are starting to demand better policies, and my hope is that things will change for the better.
@@emilyencapsulated9540 I sure hope it does get better. Otherwise the shortage of doctors will increase.
I'm so happy for you!!!!
Wow that is incredible that you are expected to work until the day that you give birth. Glad that your elective time work out in your favor, and that your timeline from delivery, graduation and fellowship is working out too.
I feel very grateful that we have 2 years of paid maternity leave 🙈 plus 8 weekes off, paid too, before giving birth. And residency seems to be a generally very good time of having children, here in Romania too. We do 6 years of medical school ( but directly after High School, at the age of 19 ) and 4 to 6 years of residency.
Thanks to all of you who asked these questions; They were great!
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American maternity leave and treatment of pregnant people/employees is so shocking to me… no leave till u give birth? So they want you to labour on the job?!
Great video! And thank you for sharing your journey. But the US system.... I'm from Sweden and for me it's crazy to plan to work up until due date, and to only have 8 weeks of parental leave. Here, it's norm... for the parent to take out 1 year each... And it's norm for the mom to go on pregnancy leave 6-2 weeks before due date
Congratulations Jamie! I've been following you for over a year now and I am also an aspiring med student. Your study with me videos have been super helpful!
One Question: When are you uploading your next blog on the site? I love reading them!
Thank you so much for doing this video and being so open, I’m a med student and have had a million questions about this! When you said how weird you thought it was that you’re scheduled until delivery day, YEAH THAT’S INSANE please tell me that’s negotiable and not an enforced norm in residency 🥺
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As a fellow med student that’s currently waiting for match, unfortunately the norm is to work literally up until delivery day. It’s nuts.
What are you planning to do your fellowship in? Love your vids! And wish you the best with your baby!
Congratulations!!!!
Love your videos so much, Do you edit all of your videos by yourself?
Can you make a video about your fellowship? What are the options for EM, etc
Planning to slow down my career and prepare for forming a family. Please could you let me know:
- What app do you use to track your period etc? What information will be useful to track?
- What books/websites are useful for preparing for pregnancy?
I want to be more prepared like you. Thanks
How do you figure out whether a program has parental leave or not when applying and matching?
can you give us more study sessions?? besides i LOVE your videos
Congratulations! 🤗 would you have time for another study with me upload? I love them…studying never ends 😊
I wish you all the best. Loads of wishes.
Hey did the fact of having parental time in your program factor in choosing that program?
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May I know what brand of mixer do you use???
Lots of love from Peru :)
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It works similar in Poland where your maternity leave starts the day you gave birth, but you can use your vacation days or go on sick leave even for the entire pregnancy and still get paid :) Over here we also have a paid maternity - 100% if you take 6 months and 80% if you take entire year, which is really good for new moms. I worked with both my boys until one week before due date because I was feeling really good. 8 weeks is not a lot of time for parental week and with moving to California - are you getting help with the baby over there? and even in NY :)
So her life is perfect
Congratulations
Welcome to california!! Trust me, you are going to love it! Best mexican food ever! (whatever new mexico.....lol!)
You cut your hair 🤩 beautiful ❤️
So does your residency program allow you to not make up the 8w from maternity leave?
Congratulations!
congratulations keep making more videos i enjoy them so much
Garsnte
8 weeks! Eight lousy weeks!!!
Yesporbes
you look more beautiful
As an Australian this is so crazy to hear. You can take up to 1-2 years off here and get maternity/paternity leave. Our health system isn't perfect but there is so much it offers to mums and dads to be, free healthcare, bulk billing, hospital fees waived etc. I hope one day the US will catch on with the many countries that have established this type of system. So much love to you and your bub that's arriving soon, all the best!
And then there is me...proudly managed to microwave a ready to eat meal during my pregnancy...
I cannot believe America, a first world country treats people so poorly. It's really tragic.
The music was so distracting…