My beloved husband and I were married for 52 years before he was transported to heaven. Our marriage was abundantly blessed because right from the beginning we decided to invite the Holy Spirit to be the third person in our marriage. All glory to our Heavenly Father. 🙏
Bro Tiff, I was married to my husband for almost 48 yrs before he went to his Heavenly home almost 2 yrs ago. Some days we DID NOT LIKE. EACH OTHER but. We ALWAYS AND FOR EVER LOVED EACH OTHER. I was so blessed with a CHRISTIAN husband
I was married to a very abusive psychopathic husband who tried multiple times to kill me, my mother and my child multiple times. He was found to have severe mental illness. The law advised me I had to leave him or we would all die. I had to leave him to save my life and my families life. I don’t think God wanted me to stay in that situation. I later found a wonderful husband who also came from a very abusive situation where his ex wife would beat him daily and would torment him emotionally, mentally and physically. He turned out to be the love of my life. A wonderful kind and very gentle soul. He just passed away from Covid and I am so heartbroken. My first abusive husband has passed away as well. I am now a widow 😭
I am so sorry for your loss. The loss of a loved one particularly a spouse is very hard.May God now watch over you and keep you. God Bless you and your family.🦋💒
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Thank you Pasto for preaching God's unadulterated word. By following your teachings on you tube ,I have found my way back to God . May God keep and bless you and your family.I faced many dark times in my live ,but God always gave me a way of escape .God bless your ministry.
Thank you brother Tiff ..I was so looking for an answer for my brother..i asked the Holy Spirit to give me a definite answer to my question.....the last few minutes you spoke was definitely for my brother ...my brother an unbeliever who was married to a believer gets divorced and after three years he becomes a believer....how you said becoming a new creation is so true and literal....God does not lie...what He says he does...Thank you Bro Tiff ..God bless you to speak the word of the Lord to millions...
Thanks to u and praised God thanks for explaining this to me and to us i am divorce and the the word give me chills but thanks once again in Jesus Name amen
I made a huge mistake when I was 19. I was manipulated by an older woman who was a professional con artist. After she got pregnant, I stayed in a horribly unhappy marriage for ten years. She eventually left me and took the kids. The moment she left, a huge black cloud left with her. I decided to file for divorce. I eventually married a beautiful lady who cannot be bettered; we’ve been together 20 years. The Lord told me years after I divorced the first wife, that she wasn’t truly saved; we were unequally yoked. That explains a lot that happened. I honestly believe He put it in her heart to leave me so I had a fighting chance at a proper life. Looking backwards, I realize she was likely cheating on me at various times as well.
she was probably.....that is thin ice.....and as adultery is not a Biblical reason, for divorce and remarriage....it is likely that you, too have been fooled by this speaker and are living in adultery....
If your first marriage was to a woman who had never been married, then she is your covenant wife. If after you divorced her and married another woman and your covenant wife is still alive, then you are in adultery. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” Anyone who does not repent and forsake an adulterous marriage will go to hell. “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 NKJV).” “Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: ADULTERY, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Galatians 5:19-21)." Please believe the Bible. Your eternal life depends on it.
@Janet HickeyMark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18, which also discuss what Jesus said about divorce and remarriage, do not have the clause "except for fornication." These two books were written to a Gentile audience. Because the book of Matthew is written to a Jewish audience, and does contain the clause, "except for fornication", you need to study the Jewish marriage customs during that time to understand why this clause is included. You will find that the Jews recognized two types of husbands and wives. They had a married husband and a married wife and a betrothed (or espoused) husband and a betrothed (or espoused) wife. A betrothed couple is similar to a couple that we say are engaged to be married. However, a betrothal was a legally binding "engagement to be married". It could only be broken if the betrothed wife committed fornication (sexual relations outside of marriage) with another man. She was to remain a virgin until her marriage to her betrothed husband. If she was found to have committed fornication, her betrothed husband could break the betrothal only through a divorce. This means that the Jewish culture had two types of divorce, one from a betrothal and one from a marriage. You can verify this in the Bible in Matthew 1:18-25 where Joseph was referred to as Mary's husband and Mary was referred to as Joseph's wife when they were only betrothed and not married. In these scriptures, Joseph was thinking about divorcing Mary because he thought she had committed fornication when he found out that she was pregnant with Jesus. So, the "except for fornication" clause in Matthew 19:9 meant that Jesus was only allowing a divorce from a betrothal and not a divorce from a marriage. Jesus did not have an exception clause for the Gentiles because they did not practice betrothal in their marriage customs. When people use their own cultural norms to interpret scriptures, they can often misinterpret them. I hope this helps your understanding.
@@eruiz1180 Haven’t you read in Mark 10:11-12 and Matthew 19:9 and Luke 16:18 where Jesus said that any marriage to another that happens after the divorce is adultery. It is adultery. It is not a marriage. Adultery will land anyone in hell if they do not repent and forsake the adultery (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 and Galatians 5:19-21). Only the death of a covenant spouse frees the surviving spouse from the marriage allowing him or her to get married again (1 Corinthians 7:39 and Romans 7:2-3).
Marriage is a covenant relationship, one man & one woman until death parts, the exception clause in Matthew is fornication, not adultery or all sexual immorality as some translations read. It is speaking about a betrothal divorce. Only the Jews had this marriage law. Mary & Joseph were considered husband & wife before the marriage was legal. but were only betrothed.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No. Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No. Under what circumstances can I get a divorce? None. The Bible is clear; only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and remain single. If things improve between us and our spouse, reconciliation is possible (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). What about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew's gospel: Once married, always married until death do us part, no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
This teaching is so vital to know and to understand, thank you Brother Tiff. This gave me a better understanding on the subject. Not many churches teaches this stuff anymore, very sad.
Thank you so much for this lesson . I fell away and married and into the marriage my husband was unfaithful . Finally after 5 years we parted . We have been separated for over 2 years and while at church my husband, ask me to take him back . I am solely trusting God in this matter .
My channel is to help those who are divorced to obey God to remain unmarried or else be reconciled. This teacher did not give the truth since he said there are biblical grounds for divorce and then remarriage is allowed. ONLY death or rapture ends the marriage covenant. Glad that you are coming back to Jesus, and I hope you are ready for the rapture. Maranatha.
@@marriageranger Hi, I'm a sister, but I didn't learn this truth about divorce and remarriage from a book other than THE BOOK and the Holy Spirit. March 2005 when I got born again, the Lord told me to read the Bible every day, and I know the Scriptures are completely true and inerrant that marriage is for life between only one man and only one woman. My channel has been teaching the truth for over six years, and I have listened to thousands of false teaching sermons too but I have a playlist of over 450 videos that have correct doctrine. There are about four or five books that are correct too. Sorry that you have found what your itching ears want to hear. There is no exception clause in Mark 10 or Luke 16, Romans 7:1-3 or 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 & 39.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysSorry, but 4 or 5 books, or 450 videos other than the bible will not do. No matter who the authors are. If they aren't the written word , it's a no, no. The scripture is complete and needs no added notes from another. Scriptures warn to not add, neither subtract.
I had to listen attentively to this teaching. I want to say thank you for taking the time to explain this to me. I am married to an unsaved spouse to which have been divorced more than once. This is my first marriage and I am a believer. I wrestled with this topic for quite sometime and could not understand the teachings of marriage and divorce in the bible. I tried to figure it out on my own but each time I tried, I became so afraid of what the truth will turn out to be that my mind could not comprehend what was right in the sight of God as it pertains to marriage to someone who has been divorced. I want to be ready to meet the lord and I am also helping my husband along the way. Lately he seem to be very interested in learning about Christ and how to be prepared for his return. It was amazing to hear you talk about that. Thanks for praying for me prior to your preparation of this sermon and after you were finished with it.
All that satanic cult believing pastors of sola scriptura has to say is to hate towards the the church of saints established by Jesus under the stewardship of Peter regardless of divorce or marriage they interpret Bible on their own wild imagination and use to add their wishful thinking.
You are living in adultery. Read your Bible and pray and seek diligently. God is not like man. Don't listen to what you want to hear but seek truth. Your husband is causing you to commit adultery because he has been married before. It is in the Bible. Who marry a person who is divorced commit adultery.. please seek God and not answers from men that will make us live comfortably in sin.
Everything I said is in the Bible.. in the book of Matthew never stated that anyone can remarry. Remarry in the Bible is only stated after death. Please do listen to something because it suits you. Anyway my advice to u is to listen to tough preaching that preach against sin. My heart has recently been pricked by a message I don't really like but it is the truth...listen to the links I sent you. Also Gino Jennings preach on that a lot, he preach hard but he preach truth. Don't go with what you want to hear but go with what God said..
When I see the headlines of this teachings I know God is speaking directly to me in this teaching it's such an on time topic I appreciate your on time teachings Always Evangelist Tiff I'm sure glad for you and your ministry Blessings 🙌 🙏
The words “not bound” in 1 Corinthians 7:15 are actually the Greek words “ou dedoulotai” which mean “not under bondage”. The root word for “dedoulotai” is Strong’s G1402 “douloo” which means to enslave; bring under subjection. Therefore to interpret “not under bondage” in v. 15 to mean that one can remarry would contradict the command that God had given in 1 Corinthians 7:11 which says that a wife must remain unmarried or reconcile with her husband if she leaves him and a husband is not to divorce his wife. The interpretation of “not under bondage” means if the unbelieving spouse leaves the believing spouse, the believing spouse is not under bondage or obligation to keep the marriage together. However, the believing spouse is not to drive the unbelieving spouse away.
Thank you so much for this teaching Tiff. You have given me biblical proof that I divorced my first husband due to all of the items you mentioned in No.2. I've always worried that I would not be forgiven for divorce. My second husband was God given as I prayed about this. With 2 small children, I didn't want to date various men. God led me to the man I met and started dating which started with marriage. We have been and are still going through a very difficult time but no biblical laws have been broken and we are working on our marriage. In July, we will be celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. Praise God!
Thank you for the lesson i was married to a man who was abusive and he wanted to kick me out so we separated. And then he wanted the divorce. So he gave me the divorce. I got remarried a year after our divorce.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Solid message. I respect that about you - that you’re an uncompromising AND loving teacher of the LORD’s Word. Extremely grateful that GOD put you in my path. Blessings to you and yours.
I was abandoned after a long marriage. Found out after he left that he had been with someone else. After a year I had to file for divorce to get the money settled as he didn’t want to give me support. The marriage was one of neglect and lies so him leaving me was actually a good thing in the long run. I have no intention to remarry. Too afraid and I’m not able to trust anyone. Thank you for speaking on this subject. There is a lot talked on in churches about reconciliation but not on divorce and remarriage.
This was so so good and informative. It definitely helps me to navigate the break down in my marriage better. I’m grateful to God for you and this message
I am sorry your marriage is having problems, but he's wrong that there are grounds for divorce that allow remarriage. Only death ends a covenant marriage.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysA man got married to a woman and after about a year the wife absconded. She never came back but got another and started bearing children. Sometimes back Ii heard her call the new man her husband. It is now over 20 years, is the first husband permitted to remarry since it has become apparent that his wife has left him and moved in with her life with a new husband and children?
This teaching is in error. You cannot divorce and remarry UNLESS your covenant spouse is dead. “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).” “A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39 NKJV).”
Thank you for clarification on this issue, my first wife committed adultery and so we divorced, I'm remarry now and I know for sure God has bless this one. Thanks...
Yes, but he also forgives it too. Jesus makes all things new! ‘Therefore if any man [be] in Christ, [he is] a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.’ 2 Corinthians 5:17
Thank you pastor my husband left me with my 6 weeks old while I was sick left me to pay rent when I did not have a job he moved on to have another child and now he is married again
I just went through another divorce. My husband left me for a man. This was extremely painful and I am still healing. This has been just over 2 years. Almost 3 year since I found out what was going on. I thought he was my forever.
Well if your first spouse wasn´t a divorcee and he is still alive, that is your covenant spouse. No divorce can dissolve a one flesh union; only death does that.
@@senderoestrecho9142 Did you not hear what the preacher just said? You have no idea what happened that lead to divorce of her first husband. It could have been one of the three reasons for divorce mentioned. In which cases she is no longer bound to her first husband or her second.
@@Dustandfuzz Did you not hear what Jesus Christ said? "he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery". There are no legal grounds to get remarried. Just because you can separate does not mean that person is no longer your spouse, in God's eyes. The word "bound" is either "deo" or "dooleo" in the Greek. One means "enslaved" and the other means "tied/joined." So you are not enslaved if your unbelieving spouse departs, that´s why you can let them depart. But you are still joined to them in God's eyes and CANNOT remarry unless you become widowed. God joins together in one flesh a man and a woman and they are tied in God's eyes until one of them dies, as per the scripture "a woman is bound by the law of her husband until death". So I don´t need to know the reason for the divorce. That´s what the Pharisees were trying to explain to Jesus and He wasn´t having it and took them back to the beginning, Genesis.
I need prayers and wisdom, I found out that my marriage is not Biblical and I have been living in adultery for over 30 years. You see I grew up in a strict Christian family and my wife was my first because I was taught that there's only one person out there for me and in time God will bring us together...that was mistake #1. It was love at first sight, but when I found out she has been divorced my heart broke. But after talking to several pastors from different denominations they all agreed that it was okay to marry her because she was abandoned by her first husband. So I thought I was doing everything right; we even had premarital counseling and after they listen to her story about her divorce, they agreed with her and determined that since he abandoned her she was free to remarry...Mistake #2, I should have asked for Biblical proof, because there is none. Right after our honeymoon I realized that she was changing, the lovebombing turned into rejection, manipulation and discard. But I hanged in there through the worst and just when I was about to throw in the towel, she would love bomb again riling me back in. So to make the story short, somehow we had 3 children and then she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Her psychiatrist warned me that there's also a manipulation behavior there hiding behind the bipolar, and advised me to leave because he said; "You need to take the children and leave, the stress can and will kill you, your children need a father not a hero, and this behavior can be passed on to the children!'' ...mistake #3, I didn't listen, I said that my faith doesn't permits divorce, and my God can and will heal any illness. But the healing didn't happen, it got worse and over the years I ended up I the emergency room several times with severe chest pains...and the doctors said that it was stress related. But I still didn't give up, I kept praying, and as the years went on I realized that my youngest daughter was developing similar narcissistic behaviors. Then I ran into a friend who knew her ex very well and what he said stunned me. I further investigated it and realized that the real reason her ex left her was obvious... he didn't leave, he was forced out of marriage by her behavior. So we went to Christian counseling and I confronted her, but she denied it and was able to get the consoler on her side. Looking back at my life I realized that I have been tricked to live in adultery for over 30 years and that is the reason my prayers were not answered... What do I do now, how do I fix this? I can't continue like this, now that I know, I don't want to go to hell...
My heart goes out to you and Im sorry that noone has responded to you. Find the most Biblically based pastor in real life and go and talk to them. I know whats its like to have this very troubling question on your heart.
You were not in adultery but you were tricked. God understands. Please stop beating yourself up. You and your kids needs to be safe and your wife needs real help.
First, are you under the blood of Christ. Have you asked forgiveness for any error you made? Then why are you accusing yourself of adultry? Don’t you believe that he died for our sins. Are these pastors suggesting that men and women who made mistakes early on can fix that by divorcing their current wives, husbands and children. So we fix divorce by divorcing. What really bothers me is that this pastor is ignoring the laws of Israel at the time. My husband (now dead) was transvestite. While dressed as a woman, he raped my 9 year old daughter. At the time of Jesus, he would have been taken outside the gates and stoned. That would have left the innocent party (me..I did not know about his perversion before marriage) free. But according to this man’s teaching, even though it would not have been that way in Jesus’s day, I would have to live alone the rest of my life. I guess since he raped my daughter you could say he was unfaithful. I have also read scholars who said that spousal abuse was a cause for divorce being granted in Israel, even to women. I’ll bet you abandonment was covered also under Jewish law because dowries were given. It is hard to believe that one sentence could possibly cover the whole complicated matter of marriage and divorce.
You are admiring false teaching regarding divorce and remarriage. Read the following scriptures: “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).” A person can only remarry if the covenant spouse is dead. If you divorce and remarry while your covenant spouse is still alive, you are committing adultery. Please study the Bible yourself so that you will know the truth.
For 7 years I was married even knowing my husband wasn't honoring our marriage, the day he told me that he wasn't sold 100% in the existence of God and Christ I asked for the divorce, because I have no say so in the relationship I didn't want raise my kids with he's opinion about that .For many years I struggle with this ,today I feel peace hearing that teaching! God bless you pastor Tiff Shuttlesworth
I hope you remain single... the only way not to commit adultery. I just learned that I have been living in adultery myself, my wife was unbiblically divorced and she lied about it. I am praying that I can find a peaceful way out since there are children involved and mental disorders on her side... living in sin can open doors for demons and no mater how much you pray nothing happens...
This is why preachers are leading people to hell saying that they can remarry, it’s not true! I feel so sorry for you and pray that he gives you guidance on the situation
This is why preachers are leading people to hell saying that they can remarry, it’s not true! I feel so sorry for you and pray that he gives you guidance on the situation
Maybe YOU are the one who is wrong? Isn't it possible that God reveals things differently to others? Every single person on this earth is different. The Bible teaches many things, different things in different scenarios. As individuals, we interpret things differently. God shows each of us what he wants us to see.
@@philipbuckley759I bet you would’ve stoned the woman in adultery bc it was the law huh? Or gotten mad when Jesus and his disciples didn’t wash their hands before eating. Or perhaps rebuked the discipleship for picking food on the sabbath. It’s a fine line between obeying the law and becoming a Pharisee.
Yes, thank you for stating physical abuse !!!!!!!!!!!! This is so necessary to get away from physical abuse , and can be so hard to get away from !!!!!!!!!!!!! God help individuals in these situations!!!!!!!
Yes, thank you. I'm divorce. I left my husband because of abuse. I was wrong for divorcing I should have left him...because I know God hates divorce. I
@@philipbuckley759if you seek repentance and the Lord’s help and guidance then he can turn any relationship round. The Lord performs miracles. ‘And the LORD said unto Moses, Is the LORD'S hand waxed short?‘ Numbers 11:23 (KJV)
God bless. I want to acknowledge how well you explain this topic, the best thing of all is that it is all through the Bible, not man understanding and knowledge. I saved it for a blessing to other believers to hear. I am Hispanic but dominate the English language. I was wondering if any of your teachings or sermon are translated into Spanish. I would like to share for Hispanic believers. God bless and May God continue to use you to reach others with the truth.
His teaching is in error. I have checked the Spanish translations too, and only "fornication" during the JEWISH betrothal permits divorce and then the fornicating wife was put to death. Fornication is premarital sex, not adultery.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysfornication actual refers to two people that are not married and are engaging in sexual activity. This means either pre marital or one person is married and the other is not
I receive your prayers. I would like to be remarried one day, but, I have decided not to seek marriage but rather allow God to build the house. I made poor choices in the past and I have no doubt I would again make another poor decision.
Romans 7:3 - So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
God will decide if he wants you remarried. I did the same, left it with God and he must want me to remain single because no one has ever bothered with me. I’m ok with it although it’s hard to go through life without someone. He knew I could never fully trust anyone again. I was used, neglected and finally abandoned. God knew me better than I knew myself.
@@senderoestrecho9142 A woman who has a husband is married. A woman who does not have a husband is not married. A marriage can be broken by sexual immorality by the other spouse or by desertion by an unbelieving spouse. Therefore, though divorce is not God's preference, it does exist and the Bible gives three reasons in which it can happen: death of the other spouse, adultery by the other spouse, desertion by the unbelieving spouse.
@@erwinbrubacker7488. The word is porneia which means more than fornication. In fact when Esau sold his birthright for soup, that was porneia. In the OT
Matt 12:30-31”31:Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men. 32:And whosoever speaketh a word against the Son of man, it shall be forgiven him: but whosoever speaketh against the Holy Ghost, it shall not be forgiven him, neither in this world, neither in the world to come. Know this according to his Word. We have all fallen short of the glory of God! We must realize that even Christians we have made mistakes, backslid, not to have excuses for what we have done wrong, or to make excuses, but God knows the heart we don’t even know our own heart he said the heart is desperately wicked! If your living in a marriage where both parties, have been in and adulterous relationship, and You both have repented , Do you not believe God will forgive or can? All anyone can do is totally rely on the Grace of God, when you have confessed that sin of Adultery and ask for forgiveness , then there is nothing left to do except Trust God, and just have to leave in his hands! Where sin abound Grace abound much more.. Marriage and Divorce is Very very serious. As the Minister says and yes God Hates Divorce, yet he hates all sin. But you have to repent is to turn away form that life style and have a change of Mind and heart about it….there is hope for the sinner and it’s only by forgiveness of sin that we can be restored Back to the right relation with God! And it’s only found in the atoning work of Christ on the Cross. Without his forgiveness there is no remission of sin! Today if you have made those mistakes or maybe your in this situation today ask God For his forgiveness and mean it and then put your faith and trust in him….and his Mercy..don’t continue to divorce and remarry. It’s Jesus’s Blood that cleanses us from all sin! Acknowledge the sin , and be sincere when repenting and depending On Christ to take care of the rest……once you have truly repented. Then continue to believe God for that cleansing! He has taken care of it on the Cross ! He who practices righteousness is righteous! And Jesus is our righteousness!
*Remarriage after Divorce while 1st Spouse Lives = Adultery* Romans 7:2-3 Adulterers Do Not Inherit the Kingdom of God: 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 Unless they Confess and Forsake: Proverbs 28:13; Luke 13:3
What do I do then? Is there no hope for me? Do i leave another marriage to not be in adultery? I am asking for answers. I repent of my failures. But i can't change them now.
I've listened to your services numerous times, and have learned quite a bit. What does the bible say about scientific research on the body? Thank you for your preaching
Tiffy, Tiffy, let people know that just because they are watching a recording, God still here's the recording and your prayers. It is still in real time with God.
This topic needs to be discuss and address to singles who want to be married to avoid having a lack of knowledge of what they are/ will get into. Marriage is ordained by God, a covenant between God, Man and his wife...until death. Divorce was NEVER of God, but it was permitted to Moses under the MOsaic law due to the hardness of man's heart. People who are on their 2nd marriage finds scripture or should I say twist scripture to satisfy their flesh so they dont feel guilty of committing adultery. Jesus clearly tells us about divorce and adultery in Matthew 5:32, Matthew 19:9, 1Corinthians 7:10-11. Fast, pray and read God's word for yourself to get a response from God on what to do. He'll speak to you.
Thank you. I married a divorced woman. My spouse went on to heaven before I remarried. She left her husband because of blatant emotional abuse. I never heard it explained this way. Thank you.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
So commendable on so many levels, that this video while may not be popularly accepted, is exactly biblical. Thank you for your boldness in proclaiming these truths.
This teaching is against the Bible. To divorce and remarry is adultery. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” Only death frees a person so that he can remarry. “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).” “A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39 NKJV).” Please study your Bible.
@@godgavemeeyestosee You’re absolutely right. I listened to it carefully a second time & did not realize he was saying there are ‘biblical’ grounds to remarry. The Bible states you can divorce if you so desire, but the marriage vows are what the persons agree to when they do their ceremonial vows, Until DEATH do us part. Having said that, to all contemplating marriage, do so with & only with much prayer & peace about it. If not, remember you will be ‘one’ with that person until either you, or they, die. Thank you for straightening me out on my comment. God bless!
@@Angel77_7 I am so glad that I could help. We are living in the end times and so many Christians will not make it into the kingdom of God because they are in adultery. “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 NKJV).” “Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: ADULTERY, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Galatians 5:19-21).” May God bless you as you seek His will for your life.
@@godgavemeeyestosee I know that some biblical truths are not at all popular, nor even welcome by most in this last generation, but Bible truths are not our truths but God’s. He will be the final judge, not us. Up to me anybody could do whatever they want, but what I want means nothing, only what our Creator wants will matter on our day of judgement. Thank You for your boldness in declaring them. God bless you too & all who read this.
I am recently separated from my wife. It's my fault that we are. She may take me back someday or she may not. I am learning some things about myself that I only recently discovered. I am willing to remain unmarried and celibate for the rest of my life if reconciliation is not achieved! Everyone is so afraid of the word celibacy. It is not a death sentence. I have lived most of my life single and celibate. I was married, but I may have to go back to the way I lived prior to marriage. If so God is good! I will be alright!
If you were not divorced because she committed fornication before you married her then she is still bound to you by law. The commandment for women are different from commandments of men
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
I am aware of the complexities. I certainly can’t do an exhaustive study in one setting. Send your questions to info@lostlamb.org. and I will address them asap.
There are no complexities in the scriptures regarding divorce and remarriage. Jesus made is plain and simple. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)” These are the words of Jesus. You either believe them or you don't. DO NOT BE DECEIVED!
Same here. I feel like I'm doomed to hell now and I feel like giving up. I was unfaithful. My husband divorced me. I thought I was saved. I married again. I have been so much closer to God in this marriage. We pray together and discuss biblical teachings. We consider ourselves saved. Now I'm left feeling that no matter if I confessed my sin of adultery to God and asked forgiveness I'm still not going to heaven. I'm heartbroken. Please help me understand why God cannot forgive me.
@@barbaramiller1412I have the same story as you. Did we sin, YES. Is it forgivable? YES! You are not doomed to hell if you have accepted Christ as your Savior and repented of your sins. Praise God that our sins are covered in the blood of Jesus. Your first marriage is over and you can’t go back. repent and know that you are forgiven and loved by God. Go forward and honor God in the marriage you have now. Much love to you Sister in Christ🙏🏻💜
If a husband tells you he no longer wants you to live with him and he is a believer…then is it considered abandonment/desertion? I think it is according to what I heard said around the 52-54 minute marker.
Well, I guess I might as well give up. I'm divorced after 33 years. I thought rejection of God, our Jesus Christ, and walking away from the Holy Spirit. 😢
Adultery violates the marriage not breaks the covenat. Only death dissolves a marriage. Romans. So if you get a divorce you are still married under God's eyes. So you must remain single or need to reconcile. Corinthians. Fornication is the only reason for divorce and that is an unmarried person sex sin.
So, if divorce and remarriage takes place during a time of a back sliddened condition of the one who was a believer , there remains no heavenly eternity for that one remarried , even after they came back to Christ years later after the remarriage ? No forgiveness after coming back to the Lord ? My second husband passed away 3 years ago . I once again repented of the sin of remarriage . You're saying there is no forgiveness for me ?
@@curiouscat9204 in verse 15, there usually is a mistranslation.....surprised....of bound, rather that the proper translation under bondage....that is the answer to your question...
I know I done wrong I was married and remarried if I would have been close to the Lord I would of never got devorced but thank you preacher for your preaching God's Word
Luke 16:18 conveys a clear message: "Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery." This uncompromising statement emphasises the severe consequences of attempting to dissolve a marriage through means other than death.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
When I got married in 1981, I was not a Christian. My husband had previously been a Christian but had fallen away. When we were married we already had one child and another on the way. We did not get married in a church but were married by a Justice of the Peace at the courthouse. I gave my life to Jesus on March 10, 2007, which was the best day of my life. My husband has still not rededicated his life to the Lord. My question is, are we married in the sight of God?
Hello Maxine, I am not Tiff Shuttlesworth but I can tell you absolutely 100% you are married in the eyes of God. God has been with you from the day you were born, and everyday since, He was there at your wedding. As for your husband's rededication to Christ, I would like to pray and for you to come into agreement with this prayer. Father, I come before you today in the name of your son Jesus whom you sent to cleanse us of all unrighteousness. Without delay I ask that you instill peace into the heart of Maxine by reclaiming that which is yours, specifically the heart and mind of her husband. Please Lord reignite in him the desire to please you through repentance and obedience to your will. Show us the Peace that comes from the Power of your Mercy. All Glory and Praise to you God of the Universe and of everything seen and unseen. In Jesus name, Amen
Great lesson. Full of reason. But there are as many different teachings on divorce and remarriage as there are people who teach. Some are very frightening and some very permissive. The scary ones are without mercy stating that leaving the second marriage and remaining celibate is the only thing to do. And others are figuratively a free for all. What if I get it wrong and believe the wrong guy. Now I'm under God's wrath. How can you know?
Do you believe what Christ Jesus accomplished for you on the cross? He died for the forgiveness of ALL SIN and rose again. Those who believe this truth have been transferred out of Adam (sin), baptized into Christ (righteousness) and are JUSTIFIED by His blood. We’ve died to the law by the body of Christ so that we can be married to another, even to Him who is raised from the dead.
I left an abusive husband. I never had any desire to reconcile with him. I saw no good reason to deprive myself of a happy life, including sexual satisfaction. I am now married to a man who loves me more than he loves his next breath, and I feel the same way about him.
@@grant2149 thou shalt not kill is a stronger commandment than staying together in a abusive marriage. 4 women are killed every day in the US by their husbands. FBI statistics - look it up. about 1,500 per year. God is against murder. if the women had children then the husband is in prison, the mother of the children is dead and they go to foster homes or who knows what - traffiking? God cares about the woman's life and the childrens even if legalistic Christians don't. wake up to reality and see the whole picture.
Sadly, you violated the biblical law - that is, except if your old marriage was an adulterous one and he was remarried. If that is not the case, your old marriage however was lawful and the new one is not. Then you must leave him. If possible, pray for the old husband's repentance - people CAN change! - and if it does not work, well, you must stay single
My first marriage of 13 yrs my husband cheated multiple times I tried to work this out but after the 12th woman he had been with, divorce was filed. Now I understand the sexual immorality , but what about the abstinence of sex in a marriage. When one person has absolutely no desire for sex with anyone?
You will not live a holy life if you divorce and enter a marriage that Jesus calls adultery. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).”
One question i dont think was covered in this teaching.... When people are divorced outside of what God allows and they hsve a remarriage that is considered adultey, would repentance require resolving that marriage?
I Samuel 11 and 12. You can, you just need to unalive the former partner like David did in 1 Samuel. After all God forgave David. Then your former partner isn't alive, so you can remarry. Easy Peazy, lemon squeezey.
This is what does not makes sense. King David had the husband of the woman he desired killed so he was okay to marry her. So does God forgive murder but not divorce. Or do we all have to arrange for our ex-spouses to be accidently killed to free us to remarry? That would make no sense in the kingdom of God. A rule is either absolute with no exceptions or it is open to the truth that God forgives those that truly repent and frees you from your sin.
When a Christian person is free to remarry after Biblical divorce or death of spouse enters a marriage of a umbilical divorce this is adultery. Once understand this is adultery and isn't an acceptable in God's definition of marriage, would they repent and separate legally by divorce? Base on your reference to rapture they would miss heaven. Do you believe they couldn't have been saved if they enter into this marriage? That there repentance is there real conversion.
AfterJesus's answer to the Pharisees' first question, they didn´t then ask Him as a follow up question "Then WHY can´t divorce be allowed for any reason?" nor "Then WHY is it allowed for any reason?". Instead they asked why Moses allowed divorce at all. That´s because Jesus didn´t believe in either of the two schools of thought that the Pharisees were divided on.
This is great a dr in colorado has a marriage counseling center left his wife without telling his staff. No biblical grrounds and married daystar widow. His x wife still works in his marriage counseling center
Adultery is grounds for divorce but it's up to the betrayed spouse to decide to work things out. Also if the spouse ia trying to kill the other spouse obviously I don't think God would want that. So separation in that case is obviously okay. And if needed divorce.
Not sound teaching just like most big ministries though he is a pre-Trib rapture believer like me. Fornication is not the same word as adultery in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19. And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another, committeth ADULTERY: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it. Matthew 19:4-12 KJV So nothing ends the one flesh covenant except for the death of the spouse. In those days the Jewish betrothal began the marriage, so divorce for fornication only applies to Jews like Joseph was going to DIVORCE Mary though she was really still a virgin- Thank you Father for sending your Son, Jesus Christ. But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth ADULTERY against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth ADULTERY. Mark 10:6-12 KJV (no exception) Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ADULTERY, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. Galatians 5:19-21 KJV Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and ADULTERERS God will judge. Hebrews 13:4 KJV For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: that no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 KJV Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. 1 Corinthians 7:2, 10-11, 39 KJV And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY. Luke 16:15-18 KJV Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no ADULTERESS, though she be married to another man. Romans 7:1-3 KJV
I dont get it. Forst he starts by explaining fornication and adultery gaily accurately. Than goes way off further in. Adultery covers all the srxual sins in marriage from beastiallity to homosexualty. Fornication does to. Beastiality to homosecmxuality half truths are the enemys favorite tools.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Question . Since my second husband has passed away ( now 3 years ago) but my first husband does not want to reconcile, just remain friends ( We are not living together) and I have repented of all of this , where does this put me in eternity ?
@marshalynn2712 If you have repented of your sin, then go and sin no more- living single and holy. I just uploaded a testimony of a woman in her third marriage who has come to repentance if you want to check it out.
I can honestly tell you everyone that I am not only the one who is preaching the truth But their are other preachers that will tell you the same. Romans is very forward about this 7:1-4
I was forced to divorce for unbiblical reasons even though I didn't want it! I have since remarried to a confessed Christian after18 yrs. She is remarried several times and doesn't want to divorce without taking me to the cleaners financially! She was taught thru the Baptist church that she is forgiven and is not committing adultery. What should I do because I know I am not right with God!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never! Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No! Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not! Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't! So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible). But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication. Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint. If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
@Arbogast454. Eve sinned in the Garden. So did Adam. Ezekial 18 :4. “Behold all souls are mine. As the soul of the father, so also the soul of the son is mine. The soul that sins, it shall die.” It is also in Jeremiah. He says, quite clearly, he does not punish children for the sins of their parents. How then are women punished for the sin of Eve? This is a doctrine made by men, not God. Nowhere in Gen 3 are children of Eve mentioned. Men believed this false doctrine because their society subjugated women. Then Moses wrote about the Garden of Eden and men jumped to a Scriptural interpretation that would justify it. Later, through two prophets, God corrected them. They did not listen, nor do they listen today. And it wasn’t just the Jews, the Greeks were worse to women. Aristotle published that women were “misbegotten”, something went wrong during conception, perhaps too much moisture in the south wind. These are the people Paul was converting. And Greek philosophers infiltrated the early church bringing their pagan vanity with them. I do not know what Paul himself thought of women though in many places he clearly worked with and admired them. But Corinth was Greek. 2Cor6:3 “ giving no offense in anything, that the ministry be not blamed.”. Some pastors try to explain that this church was out of line, people misbehaving during service. Others, like John MCArthur, actually think women are second rate citizens who have nothing worth saying. I think that Paul was not a social justice warrior. He believed Jesus would be back soon. The most important thing for him was to get the word out. He sent a run away slave back to face crucifixion. And he silenced women. And all of this in the cause of getting the word out because he didn’t think it would be for long. One Timothy chapter 2 starting in verse nine and ending in verse 15 is without excuse. I have heard so many people try to explain it away, but it’s beyond that. First he addresses how women are clothed. He never addresses how men are clothed, and men also among the Gentiles wore costly clothing and jewelry. Then there is that silent thing again and subjugation. Finally you get to verse 13 and here you find something that is not anywhere else in scripture. He is trying to justify God subjugating women….“For Adam was first formed, then Eve “. No where in the whole Bible does anybody try to justify what God does. God is the creator he has the right to do whatever he chooses but here is justification of subjugating women because they were created after Adam. This really makes me question whether Paul wrote this. Paul was a great debater… I find it hard to believe he would fall into this trap. In the beginning there were rocks and water, then came fish, birds, reptiles, mammals then Adam, then Eve. Adam being formed first is not a plus, it puts Eve in the position of supremacy. I just can’t believe the apostle Paul would write that. Then in verse 14 he goes on to say that Adam was not deceived but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. I’ve raised three children. A child who is disobedient because they are deceived is not nearly as bad as the child who knows exactly what they’re doing and doesn’t care enough about the parent to behave. Again we have a verse that’s supposed to make us look at Adam as supreme but which clearly shows that what he did was worse than what Eve did. Then comes verse 15 “not with standing she shall be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety. “This agrees with no scripture at all. I have seen so many people try to make this OK but it is not OK. We are saved men and women by the sacrifice of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. By grace through faith we are saved. Nobody is saved by childbearing if they continue in essentially what is good works. Nobody is saved by good works. I have seen pastors try and say this really applies to the Virgin Mary. That’s a stretch. It’s a stretch applying it to any human being. Women are saved by grace through faith in our Lord. How these verses got into scripture is a question to me. Perhaps some scribe back 2000 years ago was trying to help Saint Paul out by clarifying what he thought he meant. We have seen Wescott and Hort change the words in scripture in the 1800s. It happens. We have seen it happen. There is no sense sticking our head in the sand and saying it can’t happen. The fact is, it does. I would also like to see this pastor explain the “silence” of women, how the punishment of Eve is passed down to 1/2 of her children when God says he doesn’t do that. And what 1 Tim chapter 2 doesn’t agree with the rest of Scripture. And just for fun, why a run away slave was sent back to face crucifixion with nothing but a letter.
👍👍Thanks for the post. For more on this topic, No King But Caesar & The Return Of The Melchisedec is available online at Advantage Books. Peace to all.
My beloved husband and I were married for 52 years before he was transported to heaven.
Our marriage was abundantly blessed because right from the beginning we decided to invite the Holy Spirit to be the third person in our marriage. All glory to our Heavenly Father. 🙏
I have listened to countless preachers. This man is the best!
False teaching.
Then why is there lines drawn through the words I post?
@@ericdubose9311 explain?
Bro Tiff, I was married to my husband for almost 48 yrs before he went to his Heavenly home almost 2 yrs ago. Some days we DID NOT LIKE. EACH OTHER but. We ALWAYS AND FOR EVER LOVED EACH OTHER. I was so blessed with a CHRISTIAN husband
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You are all Lucky to be.married
Thats when you pray and be together its better stronger together
So if God wants you to marry than you.would marry from Australia?
😢nice uh
I was married to a very abusive psychopathic husband who tried multiple times to kill me, my mother and my child multiple times. He was found to have severe mental illness. The law advised me I had to leave him or we would all die. I had to leave him to save my life and my families life. I don’t think God wanted me to stay in that situation. I later found a wonderful husband who also came from a very abusive situation where his ex wife would beat him daily and would torment him emotionally, mentally and physically. He turned out to be the love of my life. A wonderful kind and very gentle soul. He just passed away from Covid and I am so heartbroken. My first abusive husband has passed away as well. I am now a widow 😭
I am so sorry for your loss. The loss of a loved one particularly a spouse is very hard.May God now watch over you and keep you. God Bless you and your family.🦋💒
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
My name is Anne and I need your prayers . My prayer is that God will change my husband .
Because I prayed for my husband to change but it was useless,he loved his mother's money and house and a woman that lived close to his mother.
Thank you Pasto for preaching God's unadulterated word. By following your teachings on you tube ,I have found my way back to God . May God keep and bless you and your family.I faced many dark times in my live ,but God always gave me a way of escape .God bless your ministry.
Thank you brother Tiff ..I was so looking for an answer for my brother..i asked the Holy Spirit to give me a definite answer to my question.....the last few minutes you spoke was definitely for my brother ...my brother an unbeliever who was married to a believer gets divorced and after three years he becomes a believer....how you said becoming a new creation is so true and literal....God does not lie...what He says he does...Thank you Bro Tiff ..God bless you to speak the word of the Lord to millions...
Tiff, I'm struggling to keep up with all your messages. Lol
Your a warrior for the Lord 👍
I want you to know that you have had a huge impact on my life..I will be forever greatfull for your faithfulness to God's word
Thanks to u and praised God thanks for explaining this to me and to us i am divorce and the the word give me chills but thanks once again in Jesus Name amen
I made a huge mistake when I was 19. I was manipulated by an older woman who was a professional con artist. After she got pregnant, I stayed in a horribly unhappy marriage for ten years. She eventually left me and took the kids. The moment she left, a huge black cloud left with her. I decided to file for divorce. I eventually married a beautiful lady who cannot be bettered; we’ve been together 20 years. The Lord told me years after I divorced the first wife, that she wasn’t truly saved; we were unequally yoked. That explains a lot that happened. I honestly believe He put it in her heart to leave me so I had a fighting chance at a proper life.
Looking backwards, I realize she was likely cheating on me at various times as well.
she was probably.....that is thin ice.....and as adultery is not a Biblical reason, for divorce and remarriage....it is likely that you, too have been fooled by this speaker and are living in adultery....
If your first marriage was to a woman who had never been married, then she is your covenant wife. If after you divorced her and married another woman and your covenant wife is still alive, then you are in adultery. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).” “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)”
Anyone who does not repent and forsake an adulterous marriage will go to hell. “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 NKJV).” “Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: ADULTERY, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Galatians 5:19-21)." Please believe the Bible. Your eternal life depends on it.
@Janet HickeyMark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18, which also discuss what Jesus said about divorce and remarriage, do not have the clause "except for fornication." These two books were written to a Gentile audience. Because the book of Matthew is written to a Jewish audience, and does contain the clause, "except for fornication", you need to study the Jewish marriage customs during that time to understand why this clause is included.
You will find that the Jews recognized two types of husbands and wives. They had a married husband and a married wife and a betrothed (or espoused) husband and a betrothed (or espoused) wife. A betrothed couple is similar to a couple that we say are engaged to be married. However, a betrothal was a legally binding "engagement to be married". It could only be broken if the betrothed wife committed fornication (sexual relations outside of marriage) with another man. She was to remain a virgin until her marriage to her betrothed husband. If she was found to have committed fornication, her betrothed husband could break the betrothal only through a divorce. This means that the Jewish culture had two types of divorce, one from a betrothal and one from a marriage.
You can verify this in the Bible in Matthew 1:18-25 where Joseph was referred to as Mary's husband and Mary was referred to as Joseph's wife when they were only betrothed and not married. In these scriptures, Joseph was thinking about divorcing Mary because he thought she had committed fornication when he found out that she was pregnant with Jesus. So, the "except for fornication" clause in Matthew 19:9 meant that Jesus was only allowing a divorce from a betrothal and not a divorce from a marriage.
Jesus did not have an exception clause for the Gentiles because they did not practice betrothal in their marriage customs.
When people use their own cultural norms to interpret scriptures, they can often misinterpret them. I hope this helps your understanding.
@@eruiz1180 Haven’t you read in Mark 10:11-12 and Matthew 19:9 and Luke 16:18 where Jesus said that any marriage to another that happens after the divorce is adultery. It is adultery. It is not a marriage.
Adultery will land anyone in hell if they do not repent and forsake the adultery (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 and Galatians 5:19-21).
Only the death of a covenant spouse frees the surviving spouse from the marriage allowing him or her to get married again (1 Corinthians 7:39 and Romans 7:2-3).
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Amen! Amen!
I found you about 7 months ago and have learned so much listening to your teaching. Understanding a lot of the Bible so much better.
Lord please forgive me for 3 divorces. You alone knows all the reasons. Thank you Lord for always being here for me ❤️ i love and worship you Lord 🙌
divorce is not the sin, remarriage is.....if you are not married to your original partner, and you are married, to someone else, that is adultery...
Marriage is a covenant relationship, one man & one woman until death parts, the exception clause in Matthew is fornication, not adultery or all sexual immorality as some translations read. It is speaking about a betrothal divorce.
Only the Jews had this marriage
law. Mary & Joseph were considered husband & wife
before the marriage was legal.
but were only betrothed.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No. Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No.
Under what circumstances can I get a divorce? None. The Bible is clear; only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and remain single. If things improve between us and our spouse, reconciliation is possible (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
What about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew's gospel: Once married, always married until death do us part, no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
Its hard when your alone in life:(
This teaching is so vital to know and to understand, thank you Brother Tiff. This gave me a better understanding on the subject. Not many churches teaches this stuff anymore, very sad.
They don't want to offend anyone because so many of us have been divorced. But, they should teach in it. We need to have the truth taught.
@@anitatomlinson9610 with utube we have more access to these types, of teachings.....
Thank you so much for this lesson . I fell away and married and into the marriage my husband was unfaithful . Finally after 5 years we parted . We have been separated for over 2 years and while at church my husband, ask me to take him back . I am solely trusting God in this matter .
My channel is to help those who are divorced to obey God to remain unmarried or else be reconciled. This teacher did not give the truth since he said there are biblical grounds for divorce and then remarriage is allowed. ONLY death or rapture ends the marriage covenant. Glad that you are coming back to Jesus, and I hope you are ready for the rapture. Maranatha.
@@marriageranger Hi, I'm a sister, but I didn't learn this truth about divorce and remarriage from a book other than THE BOOK and the Holy Spirit. March 2005 when I got born again, the Lord told me to read the Bible every day, and I know the Scriptures are completely true and inerrant that marriage is for life between only one man and only one woman. My channel has been teaching the truth for over six years, and I have listened to thousands of false teaching sermons too but I have a playlist of over 450 videos that have correct doctrine. There are about four or five books that are correct too. Sorry that you have found what your itching ears want to hear. There is no exception clause in Mark 10 or Luke 16, Romans 7:1-3 or 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 & 39.
The only book to go by is the Bjble.
Hell cheat again they all do
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysSorry, but 4 or 5 books, or 450 videos other than the bible will not do. No matter who the authors are. If they aren't the written word , it's a no, no.
The scripture is complete and needs no added notes from another.
Scriptures warn to not add, neither subtract.
I had to listen attentively to this teaching. I want to say thank you for taking the time to explain this to me. I am married to an unsaved spouse to which have been divorced more than once. This is my first marriage and I am a believer. I wrestled with this topic for quite sometime and could not understand the teachings of marriage and divorce in the bible. I tried to figure it out on my own but each time I tried, I became so afraid of what the truth will turn out to be that my mind could not comprehend what was right in the sight of God as it pertains to marriage to someone who has been divorced. I want to be ready to meet the lord and I am also helping my husband along the way. Lately he seem to be very interested in learning about Christ and how to be prepared for his return. It was amazing to hear you talk about that. Thanks for praying for me prior to your preparation of this sermon and after you were finished with it.
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All that satanic cult believing pastors of sola scriptura has to say is to hate towards the the church of saints established by Jesus under the stewardship of Peter regardless of divorce or marriage they interpret Bible on their own wild imagination and use to add their wishful thinking.
You are living in adultery. Read your Bible and pray and seek diligently. God is not like man. Don't listen to what you want to hear but seek truth. Your husband is causing you to commit adultery because he has been married before. It is in the Bible. Who marry a person who is divorced commit adultery.. please seek God and not answers from men that will make us live comfortably in sin.
@@anandocross6616 After listening to Tiff What you are saying here is conflicting.
Everything I said is in the Bible.. in the book of Matthew never stated that anyone can remarry. Remarry in the Bible is only stated after death. Please do listen to something because it suits you. Anyway my advice to u is to listen to tough preaching that preach against sin. My heart has recently been pricked by a message I don't really like but it is the truth...listen to the links I sent you. Also Gino Jennings preach on that a lot, he preach hard but he preach truth. Don't go with what you want to hear but go with what God said..
When I see the headlines of this teachings I know God is speaking directly to me in this teaching it's such an on time topic
I appreciate your on time teachings Always Evangelist Tiff I'm sure glad for you and your ministry
Blessings 🙌 🙏
The words “not bound” in 1 Corinthians 7:15 are actually the Greek words “ou dedoulotai” which mean “not under bondage”. The root word for “dedoulotai” is Strong’s G1402 “douloo” which means to enslave; bring under subjection. Therefore to interpret “not under bondage” in v. 15 to mean that one can remarry would contradict the command that God had given in 1 Corinthians 7:11 which says that a wife must remain unmarried or reconcile with her husband if she leaves him and a husband is not to divorce his wife. The interpretation of “not under bondage” means if the unbelieving spouse leaves the believing spouse, the believing spouse is not under bondage or obligation to keep the marriage together. However, the believing spouse is not to drive the unbelieving spouse away.
Be at peace
Thank you so much for this teaching Tiff. You have given me biblical proof that I divorced my first husband due to all of the items you mentioned in No.2. I've always worried that I would not be forgiven for divorce. My second husband was God given as I prayed about this. With 2 small children, I didn't want to date various men. God led me to the man I met and started dating which started with marriage. We have been and are still going through a very difficult time but no biblical laws have been broken and we are working on our marriage. In July, we will be celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. Praise God!
Thank you for the lesson i was married to a man who was abusive and he wanted to kick me out so we separated. And then he wanted the divorce. So he gave me the divorce. I got remarried a year after our divorce.
Just a year after divorce? you must have been cheating on him 😅
@@otisisuluh4060shut your mouth! Where are your manners??!!
@@otisisuluh4060wow wasn't expecting creepy people to be here!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Solid message. I respect that about you - that you’re an uncompromising AND loving teacher of the LORD’s Word. Extremely grateful that GOD put you in my path. Blessings to you and yours.
Well you in the wrong path. This Man is a liar.
I was abandoned after a long marriage. Found out after he left that he had been with someone else. After a year I had to file for divorce to get the money settled as he didn’t want to give me support. The marriage was one of neglect and lies so him leaving me was actually a good thing in the long run. I have no intention to remarry. Too afraid and I’m not able to trust anyone.
Thank you for speaking on this subject. There is a lot talked on in churches about reconciliation but not on divorce and remarriage.
The truth is God forgives divorce. Gods forgiveness, Gods Grace, and mercy will wash away every stain of divorce. Forgiven.
Amen 🙏🏻
This was so so good and informative. It definitely helps me to navigate the break down in my marriage better. I’m grateful to God for you and this message
I am sorry your marriage is having problems, but he's wrong that there are grounds for divorce that allow remarriage. Only death ends a covenant marriage.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways I wasn’t considering divorce. I am being obedient to Christ to stand for my marriage
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysA man got married to a woman and after about a year the wife absconded. She never came back but got another and started bearing children. Sometimes back Ii heard her call the new man her husband.
It is now over 20 years, is the first husband permitted to remarry since it has become apparent that his wife has left him and moved in with her life with a new husband and children?
This was such a thorough teaching. Done with love and honor. Thank you.
This teaching is in error. You cannot divorce and remarry UNLESS your covenant spouse is dead. “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).” “A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39 NKJV).”
It definitely is in error!
Thank you for clarification on this issue, my first wife committed adultery and so we divorced, I'm remarry now and I know for sure God has bless this one. Thanks...
That is my story too. I have been happily remarried to a never-married Christian woman for 26 years now.
God hates divorce!
Yes, but he also forgives it too. Jesus makes all things new!
‘Therefore if any man [be] in Christ, [he is] a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.’ 2 Corinthians 5:17
Thank you for preaching the word of God in our country and around the world
Thank you pastor my husband left me with my 6 weeks old while I was sick left me to pay rent when I did not have a job he moved on to have another child and now he is married again
I just went through another divorce. My husband left me for a man. This was extremely painful and I am still healing. This has been just over 2 years. Almost 3 year since I found out what was going on. I thought he was my forever.
I just found you today.
Well if your first spouse wasn´t a divorcee and he is still alive, that is your covenant spouse. No divorce can dissolve a one flesh union; only death does that.
@@senderoestrecho9142 Did you not hear what the preacher just said? You have no idea what happened that lead to divorce of her first husband. It could have been one of the three reasons for divorce mentioned. In which cases she is no longer bound to her first husband or her second.
@@Dustandfuzz Did you not hear what Jesus Christ said? "he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery". There are no legal grounds to get remarried. Just because you can separate does not mean that person is no longer your spouse, in God's eyes. The word "bound" is either "deo" or "dooleo" in the Greek. One means "enslaved" and the other means "tied/joined." So you are not enslaved if your unbelieving spouse departs, that´s why you can let them depart. But you are still joined to them in God's eyes and CANNOT remarry unless you become widowed. God joins together in one flesh a man and a woman and they are tied in God's eyes until one of them dies, as per the scripture "a woman is bound by the law of her husband until death". So I don´t need to know the reason for the divorce. That´s what the Pharisees were trying to explain to Jesus and He wasn´t having it and took them back to the beginning, Genesis.
What did Jesus say about divorce? You will stand alone before Jesus on Judgement day.
I need prayers and wisdom, I found out that my marriage is not Biblical and I have been living in adultery for over 30 years. You see I grew up in a strict Christian family and my wife was my first because I was taught that there's only one person out there for me and in time God will bring us together...that was mistake #1.
It was love at first sight, but when I found out she has been divorced my heart broke. But after talking to several pastors from different denominations they all agreed that it was okay to marry her because she was abandoned by her first husband.
So I thought I was doing everything right; we even had premarital counseling and after they listen to her story about her divorce, they agreed with her and determined that since he abandoned her she was free to remarry...Mistake #2, I should have asked for Biblical proof, because there is none.
Right after our honeymoon I realized that she was changing, the lovebombing turned into rejection, manipulation and discard. But I hanged in there through the worst and just when I was about to throw in the towel, she would love bomb again riling me back in. So to make the story short, somehow we had 3 children and then she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Her psychiatrist warned me that there's also a manipulation behavior there hiding behind the bipolar, and advised me to leave because he said; "You need to take the children and leave, the stress can and will kill you, your children need a father not a hero, and this behavior can be passed on to the children!'' ...mistake #3, I didn't listen, I said that my faith doesn't permits divorce, and my God can and will heal any illness.
But the healing didn't happen, it got worse and over the years I ended up I the emergency room several times with severe chest pains...and the doctors said that it was stress related.
But I still didn't give up, I kept praying, and as the years went on I realized that my youngest daughter was developing similar narcissistic behaviors. Then I ran into a friend who knew her ex very well and what he said stunned me. I further investigated it and realized that the real reason her ex left her was obvious... he didn't leave, he was forced out of marriage by her behavior. So we went to Christian counseling and I confronted her, but she denied it and was able to get the consoler on her side. Looking back at my life I realized that I have been tricked to live in adultery for over 30 years and that is the reason my prayers were not answered... What do I do now, how do I fix this? I can't continue like this, now that I know, I don't want to go to hell...
My heart goes out to you and Im sorry that noone has responded to you. Find the most Biblically based pastor in real life and go and talk to them. I know whats its like to have this very troubling question on your heart.
1 John 1:9
Pray and hear directly from the Holy Spirit to know the right steps to take.
You were not in adultery but you were tricked. God understands. Please stop beating yourself up. You and your kids needs to be safe and your wife needs real help.
First, are you under the blood of Christ. Have you asked forgiveness for any error you made? Then why are you accusing yourself of adultry? Don’t you believe that he died for our sins. Are these pastors suggesting that men and women who made mistakes early on can fix that by divorcing their current wives, husbands and children. So we fix divorce by divorcing.
What really bothers me is that this pastor is ignoring the laws of Israel at the time. My husband (now dead) was transvestite. While dressed as a woman, he raped my 9 year old daughter. At the time of Jesus, he would have been taken outside the gates and stoned. That would have left the innocent party (me..I did not know about his perversion before marriage) free. But according to this man’s teaching, even though it would not have been that way in Jesus’s day, I would have to live alone the rest of my life. I guess since he raped my daughter you could say he was unfaithful. I have also read scholars who said that spousal abuse was a cause for divorce being granted in Israel, even to women. I’ll bet you abandonment was covered also under Jewish law because dowries were given. It is hard to believe that one sentence could possibly cover the whole complicated matter of marriage and divorce.
I admire your teachings of the word of God -no more, no less.Thank You.
You are admiring false teaching regarding divorce and remarriage. Read the following scriptures:
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).”
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)”
“For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).”
A person can only remarry if the covenant spouse is dead. If you divorce and remarry while your covenant spouse is still alive, you are committing adultery.
Please study the Bible yourself so that you will know the truth.
For 7 years I was married even knowing my husband wasn't honoring our marriage, the day he told me that he wasn't sold 100% in the existence of God and Christ I asked for the divorce, because I have no say so in the relationship I didn't want raise my kids with he's opinion about that .For many years I struggle with this ,today I feel peace hearing that teaching!
God bless you pastor Tiff Shuttlesworth
I hope you remain single... the only way not to commit adultery. I just learned that I have been living in adultery myself, my wife was unbiblically divorced and she lied about it. I am praying that I can find a peaceful way out since there are children involved and mental disorders on her side... living in sin can open doors for demons and no mater how much you pray nothing happens...
This is why preachers are leading people to hell saying that they can remarry, it’s not true! I feel so sorry for you and pray that he gives you guidance on the situation
This is why preachers are leading people to hell saying that they can remarry, it’s not true! I feel so sorry for you and pray that he gives you guidance on the situation
I wonder how many will be lost, due to this teaching....
Maybe YOU are the one who is wrong? Isn't it possible that God reveals things differently to others? Every single person on this earth is different. The Bible teaches many things, different things in different scenarios. As individuals, we interpret things differently. God shows each of us what he wants us to see.
@@Chuck_S if this were so.....the Bible woud be meaningless.....
@@choch4075 the Bible is where one goes for guidance.....that is if it is properly taught...
so how does one know that....
@@philipbuckley759I bet you would’ve stoned the woman in adultery bc it was the law huh? Or gotten mad when Jesus and his disciples didn’t wash their hands before eating. Or perhaps rebuked the discipleship for picking food on the sabbath. It’s a fine line between obeying the law and becoming a Pharisee.
Glorious teaching especially the way you expanciate in this topic divorce and remarry may your anointing never run dry sir.❤
Yes, thank you for stating physical abuse !!!!!!!!!!!! This is so necessary to get away from physical abuse , and can be so hard to get away from !!!!!!!!!!!!! God help individuals in these situations!!!!!!!
Yes, thank you. I'm divorce. I left my husband because of abuse. I was wrong for divorcing I should have left him...because I know God hates divorce. I
No grounds for remarriage.
1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness
do you confess and continue, in the sin.....does confession change adultery to a valid covenant relationship...
@@philipbuckley759if you seek repentance and the Lord’s help and guidance then he can turn any relationship round. The Lord performs miracles.
‘And the LORD said unto Moses, Is the LORD'S hand waxed short?‘ Numbers 11:23 (KJV)
Thanks very much for what you you taught me through God's Holly Word...be forever blessed
God bless. I want to acknowledge how well you explain this topic, the best thing of all is that it is all through the Bible, not man understanding and knowledge. I saved it for a blessing to other believers to hear. I am Hispanic but dominate the English language. I was wondering if any of your teachings or sermon are translated into Spanish. I would like to share for Hispanic believers. God bless and May God continue to use you to reach others with the truth.
His teaching is in error. I have checked the Spanish translations too, and only "fornication" during the JEWISH betrothal permits divorce and then the fornicating wife was put to death. Fornication is premarital sex, not adultery.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysnot saying your wrong or right but betrothal is an engagement not a marrige
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysfornication actual refers to two people that are not married and are engaging in sexual activity. This means either pre marital or one person is married and the other is not
I receive your prayers. I would like to be remarried one day, but, I have decided not to seek marriage but rather allow God to build the house. I made poor choices in the past and I have no doubt I would again make another poor decision.
Romans 7:3 - So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
God will decide if he wants you remarried. I did the same, left it with God and he must want me to remain single because no one has ever bothered with me. I’m ok with it although it’s hard to go through life without someone. He knew I could never fully trust anyone again. I was used, neglected and finally abandoned. God knew me better than I knew myself.
@@senderoestrecho9142 A woman who has a husband is married. A woman who does not have a husband is not married. A marriage can be broken by sexual immorality by the other spouse or by desertion by an unbelieving spouse. Therefore, though divorce is not God's preference, it does exist and the Bible gives three reasons in which it can happen: death of the other spouse, adultery by the other spouse, desertion by the unbelieving spouse.
@@Thomas116-m2nthe Bible doesnot teach divorce based on adultery, fornication yes, but not adultery.
@@erwinbrubacker7488. The word is porneia which means more than fornication. In fact when Esau sold his birthright for soup, that was porneia. In the OT
Matt 12:30-31”31:Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men.
32:And whosoever speaketh a word against the Son of man, it shall be forgiven him: but whosoever speaketh against the Holy Ghost, it shall not be forgiven him, neither in this world, neither in the world to come.
Know this according to his Word. We have all fallen short of the glory of God! We must realize that even Christians we have made mistakes, backslid, not to have excuses for what we have done wrong, or to make excuses, but God knows the heart we don’t even know our own heart he said the heart is desperately wicked! If your living in a marriage where both parties, have been in and adulterous relationship, and You both have repented , Do you not believe God will forgive or can? All anyone can do is totally rely on the Grace of God, when you have confessed that sin of Adultery and ask for forgiveness , then there is nothing left to do except Trust God, and just have to leave in his hands!
Where sin abound Grace abound much more.. Marriage and Divorce is Very very serious. As the Minister says and yes God Hates Divorce, yet he hates all sin. But you have to repent is to turn away form that life style and have a change of Mind and heart about it….there is hope for the sinner and it’s only by forgiveness of sin that we can be restored Back to the right relation with God! And it’s only found in the atoning work of Christ on the Cross. Without his forgiveness there is no remission of sin! Today if you have made those mistakes or maybe your in this situation today ask God For his forgiveness and mean it and then put your faith and trust in him….and his Mercy..don’t continue to divorce and remarry. It’s Jesus’s Blood that cleanses us from all sin! Acknowledge the sin , and be sincere when repenting and depending On Christ to take care of the rest……once you have truly repented. Then continue to believe God for that cleansing! He has taken care of it on the Cross ! He who practices righteousness is righteous! And Jesus is our righteousness!
Thank you!
what about living in sin.....
Thank you Lord Jesus, you forgiven me..
There is only one unforgivable sin and it is not unscriptural divorce. It is the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit.
You can live a lifestyle of sin. Adulterous remarriage can lead you to hell. Repentance is required for salvation.
@@bradanderson4202you’re forgetting that breaking any of God’s law leads to Hell. Stop singling out divorce and remarriage.
@@ladypenelope99 wow, are you sure you know my Father? This does not sound like my loving Father at all.
*Remarriage after Divorce while 1st Spouse Lives = Adultery* Romans 7:2-3
Adulterers Do Not Inherit the Kingdom of God: 1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Unless they Confess and Forsake: Proverbs 28:13; Luke 13:3
AMEN
Praise the LORD!@@holzmann-
I really don't Care.I love my 2nd wife,but I can't stand U PHAIRASEE WHO APPOINTED U.
What do I do then? Is there no hope for me? Do i leave another marriage to not be in adultery? I am asking for answers. I repent of my failures. But i can't change them now.
Wow that's a perfect teachings about marriage and divorce. The biblical teaching of the century
I've listened to your services numerous times, and have learned quite a bit. What does the bible say about scientific research on the body? Thank you for your preaching
Tiffy, Tiffy, let people know that just because they are watching a recording, God still here's the recording and your prayers. It is still in real time with God.
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This topic needs to be discuss and address to singles who want to be married to avoid having a lack of knowledge of what they are/ will get into. Marriage is ordained by God, a covenant between God, Man and his wife...until death. Divorce was NEVER of God, but it was permitted to Moses under the MOsaic law due to the hardness of man's heart. People who are on their 2nd marriage finds scripture or should I say twist scripture to satisfy their flesh so they dont feel guilty of committing adultery.
Jesus clearly tells us about divorce and adultery in Matthew 5:32, Matthew 19:9, 1Corinthians 7:10-11.
Fast, pray and read God's word for yourself to get a response from God on what to do. He'll speak to you.
Thank you. I married a divorced woman. My spouse went on to heaven before I remarried. She left her husband because of blatant emotional abuse. I never heard it explained this way. Thank you.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Well if the Bible says you can’t divorce anyone we are all going to hell .
So commendable on so many levels, that this video while may not be popularly accepted, is exactly biblical. Thank you for your boldness in proclaiming these truths.
This teaching is against the Bible. To divorce and remarry is adultery. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).”
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)”
Only death frees a person so that he can remarry. “For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man (Romans 7:2-3 NKJV).”
“A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:39 NKJV).”
Please study your Bible.
@@godgavemeeyestosee You’re absolutely right. I listened to it carefully a second time & did not realize he was saying there are ‘biblical’ grounds to remarry. The Bible states you can divorce if you so desire, but the marriage vows are what the persons agree to when they do their ceremonial vows, Until DEATH do us part. Having said that, to all contemplating marriage, do so with & only with much prayer & peace about it. If not, remember you will be ‘one’ with that person until either you, or they, die.
Thank you for straightening me out on my comment. God bless!
@@Angel77_7 I am so glad that I could help. We are living in the end times and so many Christians will not make it into the kingdom of God because they are in adultery. “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 NKJV).”
“Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: ADULTERY, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Galatians 5:19-21).”
May God bless you as you seek His will for your life.
@@godgavemeeyestosee I know that some biblical truths are not at all popular, nor even welcome by most in this last generation, but Bible truths are not our truths but God’s. He will be the final judge, not us. Up to me anybody could do whatever they want, but what I want means nothing, only what our Creator wants will matter on our day of judgement.
Thank You for your boldness in declaring them. God bless you too & all who read this.
@@Angel77_7 May those who are truly looking for the truth find it no matter how difficult that truth might be. Be blessed!
I thank God for your teaching pastor. I am very pleased to find your video.
I am recently separated from my wife. It's my fault that we are. She may take me back someday or she may not. I am learning some things about myself that I only recently discovered. I am willing to remain unmarried and celibate for the rest of my life if reconciliation is not achieved! Everyone is so afraid of the word celibacy. It is not a death sentence. I have lived most of my life single and celibate. I was married, but I may have to go back to the way I lived prior to marriage. If so God is good! I will be alright!
If you were not divorced because she committed fornication before you married her then she is still bound to you by law.
The commandment for women are different from commandments of men
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Thanks Tiff, I am in Africa and would very much love to hear your take on LGBTQ and same sex marriage.
God bless
Can I PLEASE watch this video with a stupid ad popping up every 40 seconds
Amen!!! For God’s forgiveness!
WHAT SHOULD HAPPEN WHEN A BELIEVER SPOUSE DESERTS A BELIEVER SPOUSE without any biblical ground, no abuse whatsoever?
Man this just leaves me with so many questions I wish I could talk to this guy
I am aware of the complexities. I certainly can’t do an exhaustive study in one setting. Send your questions to info@lostlamb.org. and I will address them asap.
There are no complexities in the scriptures regarding divorce and remarriage. Jesus made is plain and simple.
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).”
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery (Luke 16:18 NKJV.)”
These are the words of Jesus. You either believe them or you don't. DO NOT BE DECEIVED!
@@TiffShuttlesworth Please stop leading people to hell.
Same here. I feel like I'm doomed to hell now and I feel like giving up. I was unfaithful. My husband divorced me. I thought I was saved. I married again. I have been so much closer to God in this marriage. We pray together and discuss biblical teachings. We consider ourselves saved. Now I'm left feeling that no matter if I confessed my sin of adultery to God and asked forgiveness I'm still not going to heaven. I'm heartbroken. Please help me understand why God cannot forgive me.
@@barbaramiller1412I have the same story as you. Did we sin, YES. Is it forgivable? YES! You are not doomed to hell if you have accepted Christ as your Savior and repented of your sins. Praise God that our sins are covered in the blood of Jesus. Your first marriage is over and you can’t go back. repent and know that you are forgiven and loved by God. Go forward and honor God in the marriage you have now. Much love to you Sister in Christ🙏🏻💜
If a husband tells you he no longer wants you to live with him and he is a believer…then is it considered abandonment/desertion? I think it is according to what I heard said around the 52-54 minute marker.
Well, I guess I might as well give up. I'm divorced after 33 years. I thought rejection of God, our Jesus Christ, and walking away from the Holy Spirit. 😢
I’m here because I’m planning to divorce my 22 years old marriage, due to my husband’s habit of adultery😢. Lord Help me this is making me unhealthy 😭
yes you may separate, or even divorce, but the options are to reconcile, or remain unmarried.....the Bible...
Pharisee Philip is wrong about this. You have freedom to remarry some day, but only to a believer.
Adultery violates the marriage not breaks the covenat. Only death dissolves a marriage. Romans. So if you get a divorce you are still married under God's eyes. So you must remain single or need to reconcile. Corinthians. Fornication is the only reason for divorce and that is an unmarried person sex sin.
I suggest we listen to David Pawson on this matter. It is a delicate issue to discuss.
I believe if spouse is verbally abusing you can get divorced what if he/she yelling streams at you saying mean and native thing and controlling you
Lol what a joke are you a pharisee. No groundsfor divorce go study your bible.
Not unless there is abusive or if there is been someone been unfaithfull
Ty 4 teaching us
Thankyou so much.. God bless you pastor. I love you jesus Christ
Excellent!! This is a great teaching!
So, if divorce and remarriage takes place during a time of a back sliddened condition of the one who was a believer , there remains no heavenly eternity for that one remarried , even after they came back to Christ years later after the remarriage ? No forgiveness after coming back to the Lord ? My second husband passed away 3 years ago . I once again repented of the sin of remarriage . You're saying there is no forgiveness for me ?
Thank you again
desertion is not a Biblical ground for divorce....the term not under bondage, is not akin to not being being bound...
@@curiouscat9204 in verse 15, there usually is a mistranslation.....surprised....of bound, rather that the proper translation under bondage....that is the answer to your question...
I know I done wrong I was married and remarried if I would have been close to the Lord I would of never got devorced but thank you preacher for your preaching God's Word
What about when a believing spouse deserts a believing spouse?
Luke 16:18 conveys a clear message: "Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery." This uncompromising statement emphasises the severe consequences of attempting to dissolve a marriage through means other than death.
We divorced and remarried each other within 6 months of divorce and 2 yrs seperation
Love this true and straight from the bible study on divirce
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
When I got married in 1981, I was not a Christian. My husband had previously been a Christian but had fallen away. When we were married we already had one child and another on the way. We did not get married in a church but were married by a Justice of the Peace at the courthouse. I gave my life to Jesus on March 10, 2007, which was the best day of my life. My husband has still not rededicated his life to the Lord. My question is, are we married in the sight of God?
Hello Maxine, I am not Tiff Shuttlesworth but I can tell you absolutely 100% you are married in the eyes of God. God has been with you from the day you were born, and everyday since, He was there at your wedding. As for your husband's rededication to Christ, I would like to pray and for you to come into agreement with this prayer.
Father, I come before you today in the name of your son Jesus whom you sent to cleanse us of all unrighteousness. Without delay I ask that you instill peace into the heart of Maxine by reclaiming that which is yours, specifically the heart and mind of her husband. Please Lord reignite in him the desire to please you through repentance and obedience to your will. Show us the Peace that comes from the Power of your Mercy. All Glory and Praise to you God of the Universe and of everything seen and unseen. In Jesus name, Amen
Amen and Amen for the Word of God
Great lesson. Full of reason. But there are as many different teachings on divorce and remarriage as there are people who teach. Some are very frightening and some very permissive. The scary ones are without mercy stating that leaving the second marriage and remaining celibate is the only thing to do. And others are figuratively a free for all. What if I get it wrong and believe the wrong guy. Now I'm under God's wrath. How can you know?
Do you believe what Christ Jesus accomplished for you on the cross? He died for the forgiveness of ALL SIN and rose again. Those who believe this truth have been transferred out of Adam (sin), baptized into Christ (righteousness) and are JUSTIFIED by His blood.
We’ve died to the law by the body of Christ so that we can be married to another, even to Him who is raised from the dead.
@@krissyyoung9264wake up we still cant continue in sin. Period.
Read the Bible. Do some research on poneia and mocheia.
@@grant2149
‘If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us [our] sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.’
1 John 1:9
I left an abusive husband. I never had any desire to reconcile with him. I saw no good reason to deprive myself of a happy life, including sexual satisfaction. I am now married to a man who loves me more than he loves his next breath, and I feel the same way about him.
You are livingbin continous Adultery. Believe what you want to.
@@grant2149 thou shalt not kill is a stronger commandment than staying together in a abusive marriage. 4 women are killed every day in the US by their husbands. FBI statistics - look it up. about 1,500 per year. God is against murder. if the women had children then the husband is in prison, the mother of the children is dead and they go to foster homes or who knows what - traffiking? God cares about the woman's life and the childrens even if legalistic Christians don't. wake up to reality and see the whole picture.
Sadly, you violated the biblical law - that is, except if your old marriage was an adulterous one and he was remarried. If that is not the case, your old marriage however was lawful and the new one is not. Then you must leave him. If possible, pray for the old husband's repentance - people CAN change! - and if it does not work, well, you must stay single
@@lindastevens2449 Do you know what legalism means?
@@holzmann- leave the man I love, who loves me, to go back to the one who abused me? Not gonna happen.
My first marriage of 13 yrs my husband cheated multiple times I tried to work this out but after the 12th woman he had been with, divorce was filed.
Now I understand the sexual immorality , but what about the abstinence of sex in a marriage. When one person has absolutely no desire for sex with anyone?
It is direct disobedience to withhold sexual intimacy in a marriage and a sin against God and the marriage covenant.
you are being defrauded, but the Bible does not allow for divorce and remarriage, in this type of condition....
@@philipbuckley759so the one being denied sex should stay celibate in the marriage and the one defrauding is free to live that way till death?
I really appreciated you sir, for helping me to understand the word of GOD. That I may live a holy life.
You will not live a holy life if you divorce and enter a marriage that Jesus calls adultery. “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery (Mark 10:11-12 NKJV).”
One question i dont think was covered in this teaching.... When people are divorced outside of what God allows and they hsve a remarriage that is considered adultey, would repentance require resolving that marriage?
You cannot remarry after divorce PERIOD.
Unless your ex spouse dies.
Peace.
Excatly💯
White truth that cannot be diluted
I Samuel 11 and 12. You can, you just need to unalive the former partner like David did in 1 Samuel. After all God forgave David. Then your former partner isn't alive, so you can remarry. Easy Peazy, lemon squeezey.
This is what does not makes sense. King David had the husband of the woman he desired killed so he was okay to marry her. So does God forgive murder but not divorce. Or do we all have to arrange for our ex-spouses to be accidently killed to free us to remarry? That would make no sense in the kingdom of God. A rule is either absolute with no exceptions or it is open to the truth that God forgives those that truly repent and frees you from your sin.
When a Christian person is free to remarry after Biblical divorce or death of spouse enters a marriage of a umbilical divorce this is adultery. Once understand this is adultery and isn't an acceptable in God's definition of marriage, would they repent and separate legally by divorce? Base on your reference to rapture they would miss heaven. Do you believe they couldn't have been saved if they enter into this marriage? That there repentance is there real conversion.
How is it that King David had Bathsheba’s husband killed. He married her but the Bible says David was a man after God’s own heart?
AfterJesus's answer to the Pharisees' first question, they didn´t then ask Him as a follow up question "Then WHY can´t divorce be allowed for any reason?" nor "Then WHY is it allowed for any reason?". Instead they asked why Moses allowed divorce at all. That´s because Jesus didn´t believe in either of the two schools of thought that the Pharisees were divided on.
This is great a dr in colorado has a marriage counseling center left his wife without telling his staff. No biblical grrounds and married daystar widow. His x wife still works in his marriage counseling center
Adultery is grounds for divorce but it's up to the betrayed spouse to decide to work things out. Also if the spouse ia trying to kill the other spouse obviously I don't think God would want that. So separation in that case is obviously okay. And if needed divorce.
God bless you,Pastor
Not sound teaching just like most big ministries though he is a pre-Trib rapture believer like me. Fornication is not the same word as adultery in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19. And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another, committeth ADULTERY: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Matthew 19:4-12 KJV
So nothing ends the one flesh covenant except for the death of the spouse. In those days the Jewish betrothal began the marriage, so divorce for fornication only applies to Jews like Joseph was going to DIVORCE Mary though she was really still a virgin- Thank you Father for sending your Son, Jesus Christ.
But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth ADULTERY against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth ADULTERY.
Mark 10:6-12 KJV (no exception)
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ADULTERY, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:19-21 KJV
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and ADULTERERS God will judge.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: that no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 KJV
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:2, 10-11, 39 KJV
And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY.
Luke 16:15-18 KJV
Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no ADULTERESS, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:1-3 KJV
I dont get it. Forst he starts by explaining fornication and adultery gaily accurately. Than goes way off further in. Adultery covers all the srxual sins in marriage from beastiallity to homosexualty. Fornication does to. Beastiality to homosecmxuality half truths are the enemys favorite tools.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Question . Since my second husband has passed away ( now 3 years ago) but my first husband does not want to reconcile, just remain friends ( We are not living together) and I have repented of all of this , where does this put me in eternity ?
@marshalynn2712 If you have repented of your sin, then go and sin no more- living single and holy. I just uploaded a testimony of a woman in her third marriage who has come to repentance if you want to check it out.
May God bless u u have teach me a lot
I can honestly tell you everyone that I am not only the one who is preaching the truth But their are other preachers that will tell you the same. Romans is very forward about this 7:1-4
I was forced to divorce for unbiblical reasons even though I didn't want it! I have since remarried to a confessed Christian after18 yrs. She is remarried several times and doesn't want to divorce without taking me to the cleaners financially! She was taught thru the Baptist church that she is forgiven and is not committing adultery. What should I do because I know I am not right with God!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear: only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us, we can get back together (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life.
No one in the Bible ever got a divorce for adultery or fornication. There was no need for divorce because those found guilty were stoned to death. All divorces were for reasons other than adultery or fornication.
Once married, always married until death do us part, with no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Could you please do a study on woman being silient in the church. I know it's because of what Eve done in the garden. Thanks
@Arbogast454. Eve sinned in the Garden. So did Adam. Ezekial 18 :4. “Behold all souls are mine. As the soul of the father, so also the soul of the son is mine. The soul that sins, it shall die.” It is also in Jeremiah. He says, quite clearly, he does not punish children for the sins of their parents. How then are women punished for the sin of Eve? This is a doctrine made by men, not God. Nowhere in Gen 3 are children of Eve mentioned. Men believed this false doctrine because their society subjugated women. Then Moses wrote about the Garden of Eden and men jumped to a Scriptural interpretation that would justify it.
Later, through two prophets, God corrected them. They did not listen, nor do they listen today. And it wasn’t just the Jews, the Greeks were worse to women. Aristotle published that women were “misbegotten”, something went wrong during conception, perhaps too much moisture in the south wind. These are the people Paul was converting. And Greek philosophers infiltrated the early church bringing their pagan vanity with them. I do not know what Paul himself thought of women though in many places he clearly worked with and admired them. But Corinth was Greek. 2Cor6:3 “ giving no offense in anything, that the ministry be not blamed.”. Some pastors try to explain that this church was out of line, people misbehaving during service. Others, like John MCArthur, actually think women are second rate citizens who have nothing worth saying. I think that Paul was not a social justice warrior. He believed Jesus would be back soon. The most important thing for him was to get the word out. He sent a run away slave back to face crucifixion. And he silenced women. And all of this in the cause of getting the word out because he didn’t think it would be for long.
One Timothy chapter 2 starting in verse nine and ending in verse 15 is without excuse. I have heard so many people try to explain it away, but it’s beyond that. First he addresses how women are clothed. He never addresses how men are clothed, and men also among the Gentiles wore costly clothing and jewelry. Then there is that silent thing again and subjugation. Finally you get to verse 13 and here you find something that is not anywhere else in scripture. He is trying to justify God subjugating women….“For Adam was first formed, then Eve “. No where in the whole Bible does anybody try to justify what God does. God is the creator he has the right to do whatever he chooses but here is justification of subjugating women because they were created after Adam. This really makes me question whether Paul wrote this. Paul was a great debater… I find it hard to believe he would fall into this trap. In the beginning there were rocks and water, then came fish, birds, reptiles, mammals then Adam, then Eve. Adam being formed first is not a plus, it puts Eve in the position of supremacy. I just can’t believe the apostle Paul would write that.
Then in verse 14 he goes on to say that Adam was not deceived but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. I’ve raised three children. A child who is disobedient because they are deceived is not nearly as bad as the child who knows exactly what they’re doing and doesn’t care enough about the parent to behave. Again we have a verse that’s supposed to make us look at Adam as supreme but which clearly shows that what he did was worse than what Eve did.
Then comes verse 15 “not with standing she shall be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety. “This agrees with no scripture at all. I have seen so many people try to make this OK but it is not OK. We are saved men and women by the sacrifice of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. By grace through faith we are saved. Nobody is saved by childbearing if they continue in essentially what is good works. Nobody is saved by good works. I have seen pastors try and say this really applies to the Virgin Mary. That’s a stretch. It’s a stretch applying it to any human being. Women are saved by grace through faith in our Lord. How these verses got into scripture is a question to me. Perhaps some scribe back 2000 years ago was trying to help Saint Paul out by clarifying what he thought he meant. We have seen Wescott and Hort change the words in scripture in the 1800s. It happens. We have seen it happen. There is no sense sticking our head in the sand and saying it can’t happen. The fact is, it does.
I would also like to see this pastor explain the “silence” of women, how the punishment of Eve is passed down to 1/2 of her children when God says he doesn’t do that. And what 1 Tim chapter 2 doesn’t agree with the rest of Scripture. And just for fun, why a run away slave was sent back to face crucifixion with nothing but a letter.
I have left my husband because he was physically and mentally abusive. He would threaten to put me in a psych ward. Am I still right with God.
Just you NOT allowed to remarry
👍👍Thanks for the post. For more on this topic, No King But Caesar & The Return Of The Melchisedec is available online at Advantage Books. Peace to all.
Guess I’ll have to be single until I die.
Iam a widpw..God was with me all the way..🙏😑