7 Social Habits You Should Quietly Eliminate from Your Life | STOIC PHILOSOPHY

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @self-healing5825
    @self-healing5825 2 месяца назад +23

    From now on I promise myself to respect myself more, I will say no to people who don't respect me, cut off the interaction with the toxic people who hold me back

    • @stoickingdomoffical
      @stoickingdomoffical 2 месяца назад

      By choosing to distance yourself from those who drain your energy and cloud your path, you're creating space for growth, clarity, and peace. It's a brave decision that reflects a deep understanding of your worth-a decision that will surely inspire others to do the same.
      Have you noticed any immediate changes in your life since making this commitment to yourself?

  • @Dilomight
    @Dilomight Месяц назад

    I was reading red flags in relationships but started thinking about my own red flags and my relationship to myself. It’s getting better as I been sober for two years, stopped drinking caffeine, consistently eat healthy and workout. But I still have a sloppy budget, don’t really plan out my time and still winging things daily and still kind of slobbish in my appearance. What I enjoy about the stoic philosophy is that it can hold a mirror to oneself before running out and pointing fingers on the world or other people. I’ve identified my red flags and once addressed and ingrained things always, always get immensely better. Not convenient because changing habits is not fun at first

  • @TheStoicGoddess-i3l
    @TheStoicGoddess-i3l 2 месяца назад +29

    I used to spend hours gossiping with friends, thinking it was harmless fun. But over time, I noticed it brought negativity into my life and strained my relationships. I realized that this habit was toxic and quietly decided to eliminate it. Since then, I’ve felt more at peace and positive.

    • @ashaki555
      @ashaki555 2 месяца назад

      Yes!!! Yes!!! Lost the mundane countless hours throughout the day multi times of phone time, and gained differently. Evaluated the places associates would rather desire to hang out vs. where they would prefer to go with others. Reduced being the go to person to serve needs and in the end lost meaningful people while attempting to help those whose red flags ignored continually.

  • @marvelouss719
    @marvelouss719 Месяц назад

    This is so beautifully stated.

  • @dinahk.7622
    @dinahk.7622 2 месяца назад +4

    Very powerful

  • @Lynny1651
    @Lynny1651 2 месяца назад +8

    Thank you, I needed to hear this about “ being a people pleaser”, time for me to change this habit

  • @budd1876
    @budd1876 2 месяца назад

    Word cannot describe how thankful I am for finding your YT channel 🙏

  • @QuoteQuest_world
    @QuoteQuest_world 2 месяца назад +7

    Thank you for the wonderful ideas.

  • @alicialewin2016
    @alicialewin2016 2 месяца назад +3

    Bearing grudges staying angry unforgiveness becoming bitter towards people that wronged you hurts you more in the end than them dont let them have power over you by harbouring negative thoughts towards them thats exactly what they want you to do because it robs you of your inner peace which they dont have ❤❤❤❤

    • @stoickingdomoffical
      @stoickingdomoffical 2 месяца назад +1

      By letting go of grudges and choosing forgiveness, you reclaim your power and protect your peace-something far more valuable than holding onto bitterness. You've beautifully articulated how clinging to negativity only chains us to the very people who seek to disrupt our inner calm.
      I'm curious, have you found a specific practice or philosophy that helps you release these negative emotions when they arise?

  • @calvarez519
    @calvarez519 2 месяца назад +13

    Social Habits to Drop. . .
    1. People Pleasing (at your own expense.) You are not a doormat.
    2. Holding Grudges. (Hurts you more.) Forgiveness is the antidote.
    3. Ignoring Red Flags in a Relationships. (Like driving with your eyes closed.)
    4. Staying Silent on Important Issues. (It's complicity, a betrayal of your values.) Silence is not a shield, its a prison. Your voice matters.
    5. Seeking Constant Entertainment. (A suble form of Escapism. Numbs one to the realities of life.)
    6. Oversharing Personal Details. (Does not bring you closer to others. It's really looking for validation, fill an emotional void.) May be exploited.
    Quietly let go of what does not serve you.
    End. 😊
    (P.S. Only six points were covered in this video.)

    • @JamesTheStoic233
      @JamesTheStoic233  2 месяца назад +4

      Thanks , hope you found the message valuable.

    • @stoickingdomoffical
      @stoickingdomoffical 2 месяца назад

      You've captured the delicate balance between protecting our inner peace and standing firm in our values with such grace and clarity. The way you've articulated these habits makes it clear that true freedom comes from letting go of what no longer serves us.
      Have you noticed any other subtle habits that quietly undermine our well-being?

    • @RealMe-sd9nm
      @RealMe-sd9nm 2 месяца назад +1

      Calvarez.....thanks for summarizing the key points.

    • @hphan7549
      @hphan7549 2 месяца назад +1

      #7 could be, Letting your minds gullibly open in a crowd, Or Dangerously running your mouth! These uncontrolled traits could detrimentally end your life in tragedy, often deadly! 🥴🙏🙏🙏

    • @stoickingdomoffical
      @stoickingdomoffical 2 месяца назад +1

      The way you've highlighted the dangers of unchecked behavior serves as a crucial reminder that true strength lies in self-awareness and restraint. Your words echo the Stoic principle of mastering one's impulses to navigate life's challenges with wisdom and grace.
      Have you ever witnessed a moment where this kind of restraint or self-control made all the difference in a social situation?

  • @StoicWisdom-3368
    @StoicWisdom-3368 Месяц назад +1

    People pleasing isn’t kindness, it’s self-sabotage. True respect starts when you set your own boundaries.

  • @ATIF_GAMER_6
    @ATIF_GAMER_6 2 месяца назад +121

    The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

    • @stoickingdomoffical
      @stoickingdomoffical 2 месяца назад +1

      Your insight cuts through the noise like a breath of fresh air, highlighting a truth many overlook. The mention of Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest is a poignant reminder of how easily we can become trapped in the echo chambers of our own minds, ignoring the wisdom that lies just beyond our comfort zones. You've touched on a profound issue-one that challenges us to break free from the illusions that bind us.
      Do you think there are other hidden gems, like this book, that the world is overlooking due to our collective distraction?

  • @cslewislegacy1
    @cslewislegacy1 2 месяца назад +2

    Eliminate the need for constant validation. Stoicism teaches that true contentment comes from within, not from others' approval, leading to more inner peace and independence.

  • @Djcool-w9c
    @Djcool-w9c 2 месяца назад +3

    Yea i reported harassment other were bullying a co worker i spoke up defending her i got fire at hand and stone in Brooksville Fl told manager she allowed this girl to get bullied this girl was so uncomfortable and was uncomfortable for all of us to witness. Everyone told me not to say anything to manger i didnt care and that got me fire pretty recent and i was like eff it only made 13.50 an hour. Sucks i got fired nothing being done about girl being bullied but i make more money now

  • @YasminFisher-o9o
    @YasminFisher-o9o 2 месяца назад +4

    Real lessons for everyday living! Thanks!

  • @Charivers
    @Charivers 2 месяца назад +2

    Thanks for the insight
    Keep it up friend

  • @davidberes9724
    @davidberes9724 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for the wonderful ideas. They are very helpful.

  • @romilaagard7621
    @romilaagard7621 2 месяца назад

    Ah 🤨
    Ups 😶👀
    Wao wao really super interesting the point of view you have shared with all of us connected. Thank you so much for what you are doing to help others in life and also the value you add to ower life 🙋🏽‍♀️🧠🕯️✍️💡🙂😊😉🔔👣👣👣💯💣💣👌👌👌👍

  • @g00.41
    @g00.41 2 месяца назад +2

    Wow! Today is Sunday night. No TV, no youtube, occasionally checking msges on my phone, for the next one week-7 days. Let me see what happens. I will report back. Watch this space. Thanks.

    • @stoickingdomoffical
      @stoickingdomoffical 2 месяца назад +1

      It's a rare and powerful decision to step away from the distractions that often cloud our minds. This journey you’re embarking on is not just an experiment, but a profound act of self-discovery. I can’t wait to hear what revelations and changes come from this week of intentional solitude.
      In this quiet space, do you anticipate uncovering any unexpected habits or thoughts that may have been quietly influencing your life?

    • @brlady2638
      @brlady2638 2 месяца назад

      How is it going so far?

  • @samuelndungu9111
    @samuelndungu9111 2 месяца назад

    You have really changed my life

  • @stoickingdomoffical
    @stoickingdomoffical 2 месяца назад +1

    *Silence the habits that steal your peace, and watch your life transform into a sanctuary of clarity and purpose*

  • @gracescoglietti583
    @gracescoglietti583 2 месяца назад

    Appreciated ❤

  • @nyombicharles-z6x
    @nyombicharles-z6x 2 месяца назад

    so true man

  • @madhukannang3066
    @madhukannang3066 2 месяца назад

    Encouraging Verdict my Versatile Version of love . Let everyone depart.

    • @stoickingdomoffical
      @stoickingdomoffical 2 месяца назад

      The notion of letting everyone depart speaks to a profound understanding that love, in its truest form, begins with self-acceptance and release. It's a powerful reminder that sometimes, the most courageous act is to embrace solitude and the peace it brings. Have you found that letting go of certain relationships has opened doors to unexpected growth or self-discovery?

  • @mahmudaarzu6952
    @mahmudaarzu6952 2 месяца назад

    Thanks❤love this.

  • @stoic-journeyyyy
    @stoic-journeyyyy Месяц назад

    Silence in the face of injustice is not just indifference; it’s complicity. Each of us has a responsibility to speak up and defend what is right. How do you think your own silence has impacted social issues in your life?

  • @Zohra-b9j
    @Zohra-b9j 2 месяца назад +1

    Respect is in GOD's Hand .

  • @JamesWhite-cr5ys
    @JamesWhite-cr5ys 2 месяца назад

    Yes

  • @joyceyaffe1832
    @joyceyaffe1832 2 месяца назад

    Tnaks for #5.

  • @The-WisdomoftheStoics
    @The-WisdomoftheStoics 2 месяца назад +1

    👍🔥

  • @nyombicharles-z6x
    @nyombicharles-z6x 2 месяца назад +1

    thx for the adive

  • @HimanshuSharma-vo6og
    @HimanshuSharma-vo6og 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤

  • @Ragini820-z3p
    @Ragini820-z3p 2 месяца назад +3

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  • @TimelessStoicLessons
    @TimelessStoicLessons 2 месяца назад

    t’s amazing how no one is talking about the book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest. It really shows how people are stuck in their own bubble! Have you heard of it? Let’s break the silence-share your thoughts below!

  • @arjunthaware729
    @arjunthaware729 2 месяца назад

    there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal

    • @stoickingdomoffical
      @stoickingdomoffical 2 месяца назад

      The way you describe it as the "real deal" beyond the typical discussions of the law of attraction piques curiosity and invites deeper exploration. It feels like you’ve uncovered a hidden gem that challenges the conventional wisdom about manifestation, offering something truly profound.
      Have you personally experimented with any of these techniques, and if so, what was the most surprising outcome you experienced?

    • @Dilomight
      @Dilomight Месяц назад

      Reported

  • @maryjacobs7046
    @maryjacobs7046 2 месяца назад

    You're right - I should stop watching these videos!

  • @victorpascual3007
    @victorpascual3007 2 месяца назад

    1

  • @KingStoic101
    @KingStoic101 2 месяца назад

    Quietly eliminating habits that don't serve your growth aligns with Stoic principles of self discipline and wisdom.

  • @ZebaraCell-y4g
    @ZebaraCell-y4g 2 месяца назад +2

    They're evil people

  • @珊晶添良
    @珊晶添良 Месяц назад

    Keep asking accused face his countless bad habits are right not wrong
    He has countless bad habits I don't have at all so he face not me
    He sh need have must know I don't have all his bad habits ok
    I say what bad he done are right habits. He keep escape and deny keep do are extra bad habits..he had countless bad habits he remove cos I don't have. I say what he done right n correct habits but his altitude too bad habits

  • @Abhishekkumar-jy2ym
    @Abhishekkumar-jy2ym 2 месяца назад

    GDF

  • @rabindrabehera9082
    @rabindrabehera9082 2 месяца назад

    ASD

  • @mangalbaghel8075
    @mangalbaghel8075 2 месяца назад

    G

  • @narendra---------rajpoot-h3t
    @narendra---------rajpoot-h3t 2 месяца назад

    sdf

  • @MahadeoMunda-mu7fg
    @MahadeoMunda-mu7fg 2 месяца назад

    r

  • @MitulAli-ni6wh
    @MitulAli-ni6wh 2 месяца назад

    dfg

  • @珊晶添良
    @珊晶添良 Месяц назад

    Lousy man then keep nv face mv change nv remove his alot bad instead keep ask alot good remove n.chabge. 8 yesrs he nv ever do right n. Proper

  • @ufigiy2990
    @ufigiy2990 2 месяца назад

    dfg