Dina mashallah you are so sweet to offer duas for your subscribers. wrt the pain of labour what worked well for me was to walk around the hospital room. laying down was annoying me. also make sure Sid packs a hospital overnight bag. so many times people focus on the new mommy but the new daddy also needs a change of clothes etc.
+runarehman Stay patient sister. Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When the child of a person dies, Allaah says to His angels: ‘You have taken the soul of the child of My slave?’ They say: ‘Yes.’ He says: ‘You have taken the apple of his eye?’ They say: ‘Yes.’ He says: ‘What did My slave say?’ They say: ‘He praised You and said innaa Lillaahi wa innaa ilayhi raaji’oon.’ And Allaah says: ‘Build for My slave a house in Paradise, and call it the house of praise.’” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1021; classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. May Allah bless you with a healthy baby and patience for your loss.
I have 2 kids and swear by the Baby Roo swing! IT is AMAZING and keeps fussy babies calm and happy. Helps when you need to get a shower or just need the baby to nap. love love love it
The only suggestion that I can give you that you will actually remember is to NOT focus on the pain! Walk it off-- I remember last year when I gave birth to my daughter I walked her out. I even asked for a portable IV. When you are confined in that hospital room the pain seems to be the ONLY thing you can think about. So stay positive and know that it's only temporarily! Plus I promise you after you have that blessing in your arms you even forget about the heck of a time you spent delivering it. Best of wishes!!
I've been away from social media for a while and this is so great to see! You are glowing, Dina! I'll be praying for a safe and smooth delivery. As for the epidural, I had one with my first child, but I was induced. My second child I labored and delivered naturally. I do have lower back pain, but I contribute that too lack of me trying to get back into shape (strength, not weight, I don't need to lose anymore weight! 😅) and having carried two babies almost two years apart. Just go with what you feel. It will all work out, God willing. I'm so excited for you and Sid. Plus now I'm getting baby fever haha.
get a baby gym ( floor play mat) they often dont want to sit ages in a baby bouncer. and outgrow them quickly, you can get a cheap one from anywhere just as a temp use for when u want them propped up it can be usefull. but id prefer to invest in a play gym, my babies spent most time on the floor from a few weeks old and they can explore and learn to roll so they use them till there atleast 1, and their just a good purchase i used the same 1 for two babies.. good luck dina, u sound very postive and a natural already mashallah. U lookd fantastic and althoug i have 2 children, you have inspired me tohave more ! hehe . nusayba xxx
also dina, it is important to go out, but please dont feel preassured either, rest is the most important thing ever the more u rest the quicker u spring back to shape physically and mentally.. pain releif, just go with an open mind, and listen to your body. Dont listen to any horror stories, its a natrual process and your young and healthy so inshallah it will be fine.. whatever happens khair anyway ..the pain is what u make it just breathe and really listen to your midwife, hopefully she is a lovely one as most of them are ! Oh yeh and a hot curry did it for me ;-)
+ridha khalfa Good advice lady! Childbirth wasn't associated with pain until last century (i think - not sure on the dates), and whilst people love to tell their horror stories I wish people spoke about the good bits as much!! My daughters birth was traumatic for several reasons but I am still able to acknowledge the good bits, the funny bits, the proud bits, and the best bit - my amazing daughter. InshAllah (sorry about my spelling) you will have more children ;) xx
I had my son on October 21st last year! He was due on the 19th. The last few days are tough but hang in there! The longer they're in there the stronger they become. For labor pains the thing that helped me the most was moving around and keeping myself distracted, if you just sit there you'll feel the pain more. And when you're actually delivering just remember to take deep calming breaths and take your time! Don't let anyone rush you, baby will come when he/she is ready. Just try to keep yourself as calm, relaxed and comfortable as possible. Good luck Dina!
I used to really hate the idea of having kids due to all the effort, pain, investment, emotional support etc. ... but watching your videos has kinda changed my view slightly. I feel like I wouldn't mind having kids now.
I totally feel you! Watching her vlogs and update videos and reading the comments has shown me that being a mom is actually something quite beautiful and that even though it's a lot of hard work, you gotta remember that you're literally carrying a human life. So worth it.
She's so honest in all of them, and the new mum ones now, it's completely put me off having kids. I wasn't ever really maternal though so I don't mind.
Your baby is going to be beautiful! I can't wait for pictures! You totally don't have to change your wardrobe into a "mom wardrobe"! Stay stylish and comfy!!
I was 2-2.5 weeks overdue and I didnt have to be induced. Try to avoid being induced unless you really need to. Patocin has some yucky side affects :( Im so happy for you. How exciting. Ive been gone in Jordan for a month and was wondering when you were due. In sha Allah your labor is smooth and such a beautiful experience. Even after 24 hours of labor it was still amazing!
Don't focus to much on the pain right now. trust me when time comes you'll just go with your body and whatever feels natural to you. breathing is key!!! I had a swing with my baby and it was the best thing ever. it would settle her and I was able to get things done.
and InshaAllah it all goes well and you have a healthy baby at the end! trust me there is no feeling in this world that comes close to seeing your baby for the first time, just keep that in mind. :)
Please make dua for me dear, I want to convert to Islam but am scared of people's reactions and that I may make mistakes. God bless you, your videos are so lovely and inspiring, and I'm so happy for y'all that your little bundle of joy will be here soo
Don't be scared honestly it's an amazing feeling and you shouldn't care about people's reaction considering this is your life and your decision. Do what you think is right :) that said, I hope you feel ready soon and go for it ❤️😊
May Allah grant you guidance and may he make your journey beautiful and full of joy! I may not know exactly what you're going through but I know how hard it is worrying about what people think; especially when it's those you love. Good luck!
Allah will forgive you with mistakes and take care of you, try not to listen to people's bad remarks because Allah will be pleased you! This life is nothing but a test. May Allah guide and forgive you, ameen habibti!
to err .. is to Be human... we all make mistakes. but the key is to acknowledge them do istaghfar.. ask for forgiveness.. and do our best to not repeat it. we probably will.. Thats human. we are forgetful.. but we are judged by our intentions.. so we must ask forgiveness.. and just do our best to not repeat our mistakes. but rather learn from them. .. the feeling will be incredible .. and if you believe in it.. your heart will have already acknowledged the oneness of God. .. ask yourself if you believe in the rest. belief comes from within.. it is never from compulsion. may Allah make your path easier and keep all troubles away from you xx duas from your sis x
Only watched a few of your videos but I can easily say you've got such a lovely personality and will be a great mum. Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy!
This is gonna be so amazing for your baby inshallah. Getting to watch what you and sid were like/ have gone through before having her is gonna be so cool.
I had my daughter almost 21 years ago. I had an epidural. There was no back pain afterwards. There was pain throughout the labor. However, when the nurse put our baby girl in my arms, I did not care about the pain. I was so thrilled and grateful for her. My biggest problem was not resting. I tried to be perfect in everything. I got so very tired. So, rest and listen to your heart. You and Sid will be amazing parents. Your baby will grow up surrounded by love. I will pray that everything goes well now, and in the future.
I had my son 7 weeks ago and I have a low pain tolerance. I spent 2 days being induced until eventually my water broke naturally and 17 hours later I pushed a baby. I'm a wuss with pain but honestly just think about the love and your baby being here. That helped me. I also am terrified of needles and just intervention in general. Hope that helps
Yay almost baby time. I was induced and had terrible back pain, opted for an epidural and having it done wasn't painful, it also helped so much with the pain. I ended up with a 4th degree episiotomy. Just know that everything will be fine in the end. You will get your beautiful baby and know the pain was worth it :)
this video made me cry. I'm so truly happy for you..and I ask for your Duahs for me as I was told that it is almost impossible for me to have children. insha Allah everything goes well for you ♡
I am super excited for the new mommy and daddy vlogs!!!! I pray that your baby comes well and you stay healthy and don't have to experience the baby blues!!!! But if you can't tell, I'm really reaaaaaalllllyy excited that you two are having a baby!!!
I am 34, almost 35 weeks pregnant with a baby girl Insha'Allah, and we are going to name her Leila or Laila I feel like you are going yo have a baby girl too Insha'Allah, Laila or Leila is almost a universal name, and Arabic too if we were to have a baby boy, we were going to decide between Adam and Yahia May Allah gives you strength to deliver your baby safely soon Insha'Allah and bless him/her
I'm soooooo excited and happy for you guys, can't wait to see this beautiful child!. 3 more days babe, good luck on the labour and inshallah everything will go smoothly. Oh and can you please make duaa on my school year being easy for me, and inshallah get accepted to my first choice Uni.
Keep me and all the sisters who are struggling to conceive or carry babies in ur duas. Iv suffered 3miscarriages in the past year (1 of which was twins) and nothing is more painful or more heartbreaking to know that the baby that was once inside of u no longer exists and u will not be able to hold them or see them. May Allah swt give us all the strength to deal with such a loss and give us strength and determination to keep trying. Please say a dua for me Dina, if not for me to have babies then for me to accept this as the decision of Allah swt and to recognise this as a blessing. Ameen obviosly I know whatever happens does so with Allah's will but sometimes our hearts are weak & make us question things. Grief does such things. Ya Allah, make this easy for me and for all the mums to be out the May Allah swt bless you with healthy pregnancies and beautiful healthy babies. Ameen x (sorry for the essay, got a tad emotional) lol x
Just the pre-labour contraction pangs are SOOOO bad. I was in extreme pain.... couldn't even sleep. The epidural was SUCH a heaven sent God's gift. Don't even worry about the catheter, you will be completely numb waist down - and you won't feel a THING. When they put in mine, I couldn't even tell. The relief associated with the epidural is so amazing and great - it gives you time to nap, breathe, smile, talk to your spouse and anxiously await the baby. If you're in a tonne of pain - how are you going to relish the most important milestone of your life? Some women are in so much pain - they don't even push properly. Sometimes pain-relief really helps women push. The epidural made my birth experience so much better - I can still remember the pre-labour contraction pains.... :'(
@dina Tokio my OBGYN told me there are no real correlations b/w epidurals and backpain. Usually the "back pain" is just an after effect of the pregnancy itself - and the fact that we are carrying a baby - we gain weight - which effects our posture and our back. Epidurals are not known to cause backpain at all and are way safer than the IV. I had an epidural and i have no issues with back pain alhamdulilah
+FeatherrBrain I had an epidural with my 2nd daughter in 1999 and I still get pain at the site. Everyone is different. I'd really say if you can go without it, do it. Keep active in labor and it will go quicker.
You're right, everyone is different. People have different levels of pain tolerance, although I'm sure all women agree birth pain is the worse! lol. I specifically brought up the back-pain issue with my OBGYN and she said its not at all proven or related to epidurals. In any case, medical science has really improved in the 16 years since then. I would ask the pregnant ladies - do you take any medications during the 'really bad' menstrual cramps, or migraines? If so, well, labour pains are 100 times worse!!!! So how the heck are you gonna bear those? I did extensive research on epidurals online because all my older relatives kept advising me against it, with backspin warnings and to go au naturale. (I was even afraid of the needle and the catheter) and one thing that struck me was - you won't get a medal for going through extra pain during birth - if modern science has made things easier - why shouldn't we avail it? The only thing I would consider is - the health & wellbeing of the baby - epidurals are not known to effect the baby at all. So if your health practitioner says they are safe for the baby - go for it! I'm so glad I did. The reason I mention this is - you'll have to pre-plan whether you want one or not, because after a certain point during your contractions, you can't have the epidural. They can only give it to you during early labour. If you say no in the beginning, and it gets really bad - you may not be able to get the epidural later.
+FeatherrBrain Every woman is different and should do what's best for her baby and her body. One of the reasons why people decide against an epidural is because with any medication, there is a risk, and any medical intervention increases the chance of baby going into fetal distress and a c-section being performed. Also, recovery is usually a lot quicker and easier, you're able to move around in labor and eat and drink, etc. That being said, an epidural isn't a bad thing at all. It's just your preferences and situation. I gave birth 6 weeks ago and was 100% dead against an epidural but I ended up being in labor for 24 hours and wasn't dilating past 7 cm with contractions hitting me every 10 seconds. My husband and I prayed istikhara and decided to get the epidural, and my midwife told me that had I opted against it, I wouldn't have had the energy to push and probably would have ended up with a c-section (I had been vomiting and hadn't eaten for more than 24 hours or slept, and my baby turned out to be pretty big lol). Alhamdulillah, everything happens for a reason and even though I didn't want the epidural at all, my birth was still positive. :) My advice for Dina would be.. labor as long as you can without an epidural, and don't beat yourself up if your birth doesn't go the way you planned. Walk, sway your hips, breathe through the contractions slowly. Also, if Sid is massaging your back, make sure he knows not to abruptly remove his hands in the middle of the contraction. Having him constantly moving his hands up and down your back and hips helps you track the movement and get through contractions easier. May Allah make your labor swift and easy and may you and baby be completely healthy.
I am one of your silent followers Dina. Please keep up the good work.You have no idea how much you inspire me by your life style. I learn so much form you. So, YES we need you baby videos because eventually we will be moms in the near future inshallah.
InshaAllah your pregnancy won't run too late. All will go well, don't worry :) Since you offered, Please make dua'a for me, I'm a childhood rape survivor and trying to really recover from that trauma years ago. Making things worse, someone recently was really cruel to me implying it was my fault and that has upset me so deeply. Thank you for your dua'a and for caring. Oh and the mum vlogs sound great! We will love anything you post :P
Hiii Dina : ) My first baby was overdue 9 days and I had to be induced ( the gel one ) . Honestly it wasnt bad at all , didnt feel any pain or anything and 3 hours after that my labor started very mild 3 min apart constantly getting stronger and stronger and probably after 3 hours again I had the baby without any epidural whatsoever . I had him naturally and he was pretty chubby baby 4 . 170 kg yeahh :D The thing which helped me throughout labor was just BREATHING deep really deep . I mean the labor is really painful but God is the greatest , we have breaks soo..I know you can do it all naturally . Will pray for you , dont panic and whenever gets really painful just tell yourself baby is coming he/she is almost here , I will see him/her soon and whenever baby comes its ALL OVER , no more pain :) ALSO have somebody with you its a big + :) good luck :)
Good luck Dina , I will be praying for you and the safe arrival of baby :) I found the best thing to help with pain is to keep moving and delivery is easier in a position that is not lying down ---- but trust me the end result is well worth it xx
+manon van bergen Insh'Allah means something like "if God wants to" and is often used when talking about the future, you never know what will happen! :)
Dina wishing you all the best! Mama Blogs would be fantastic! So lovely watching you transition to the next phase. God bless and good luck! You're going to be a wonderful mother
hey to deal with pain i took the epidural and it was amazing and helped me push the baby out and one more thing if anything happens god for bid and the doctor tells u to do the C section do it . u want the baby to be safe ! i am telling u the epidural works good. best of luck !💕💕💕
Dina please make dua that I have a productive gap year and get into Medicine at the end of it, as I missed out last year. I really want to become a doctor so please make dua that I choose a career path that's best for me. And also that I get an A in Chemistry retake. Thankyou so much :)
PLEASE BOMBARD US WITH BABY STUFF!!!! IM MEGA EXCITED. i pray inshallah you the most comfortable delivery possible and you and your new little pigeon is healthy and safe
Best piece of advice was from a nurse that I had with my second baby. She advised me to push as if I was going to the bathroom. (From the back) When you push from the front, it doesn't help the baby at all. May Allah ﷻ make it easy for you and give you ajar for any pain that you endure.
I don't have kids and tbh, I don't want to even get pregnant, but I still enjoy all these baby videos you've been posting. Love you, Dina, and good luck!
dina im so happy you're continuing with your channel! i just hope inshallah that you wont feel like overpowered with all the new baby life and maintaining the youtube channel. take it easy and don't think we as subscribers will be angry if you dont upload. inshallah have a safe delivery. keep me and my family in your prayers x
actually excited for you, hoping to be pregnant myself some time in the near future, quite happy for you and sid, don't be afraid, enjoy every minute and please do bombard us with baby videos, you make us feel you two like part of our lives, in shaa allah everything will be running smoothly and you'll both (all three of you actually) will have great stories to tell, we'll be eager to hear them, god bless you all, peace!
EEE such an exciting time! I'm a big fan- Thought I'd share a few tips based on your video! I am 32 and have an 8 year old girl. I was REALLY concerned with the catheter as well, but they placed mine in after the epidural so I didn't even feel it, nor did I feel it being removed. The beginning of labor felt like bad menstrual cramps to me, they came in waves, and so I didn't really think it was labor. Next morning it was like very uncomfortable constipation and nausea and more horrid when labor got close so I am so happy I got the epidural. I have no back pain side effects from it. Meditation or prayer along with breathing REALLY helps. Screaming wastes energy so trying to stay calm for the baby is your first fun challenge as a momma :D Don't forget your birth plan, mine included everything - most importantly, who I did NOT want in the room; my hospital frequently had med students on-site and so I'd highly recommend stating that you do not want students or any unnecessary personnel in the room viewing your birth, nor when you're 'not decent', if that's your preference. Lots of extra burp/spit up cloths are so handy, I'd keep them stashed in my glovebox, at friend's houses, etc. I'd also say to bring extra snacks for you and Sid bc hospital food is LAAAME and if you get stuck there a few extra days like I did you'll be so hungry (#itslikeramadanalloveragain) I've got a zillion more tips but this comment is way too long already. Feel free to DM me on instagram (justaskmercedes) or email me (at gmail) if you want some homemade baby food recipes or anything! Inshallah it will go perfectly and I wish you every happiness! - Sincerely, Mercedes
I was due on 16 October last year, my daughter came on 25th... 24 hrs contractions no pain relief- then had epidural. 12 hours later cervix still didn't open properly had emergency c-section but it all went smoothly. Just have lots of help!
Dina you're doing so well for your first pregnancy ma sha Allah! so well put together and keeping on top of the diet and exercise throughout your pregnancy. You almost make it look easy! I saw pregnancy as a free pass to eat whatever I liked as much as I liked!!! Didn't do me many favours! Best tip for labour is to go with the flow. Don't panic if things don't go the way you imagined. Be open to all options of pain relief. May Allah give you a quick and easy labour and a healthy baby at the end of it xxx
We have the babyjorn bouncer i used that for my second baby from birth, it grows with your child and has 3 different settings. Its folds flat so easy to take to mum and dads at the weekend it also bounces and teaches baby how to bounce on their own which i read is good for their development. Bit pricy but worth it. All the best Inshaa Allah pray it goes smoothly for you and you have a quick easy labour...its your first and you will feel nervous just do whats right for you if you cant take the pain (its a kille btw and your only human not machine) an epidural will super help. But only you know what you can cope with. All the best Dina and Sid xoxo (sorry for the essay lol)
Wow!!!!! Soooo soon!!! All the best hunni !! Can't wait to see your little bundle of joy!! Just stay calm and focused , I didn't want anything but turned out my little girl was at my back so I needed an epidural (not fun 6 fails attempts ) and had to get a second :( xx
I HAVE to recommend a water birth. Helps prevent tearing and is the next best pain relief after an epidural. It's INCREDIBLE!! I had a water birth with my first, didn't get one with my second because he came so quickly! Just had my third baby 4 months ago and I got a water birth again! So I can definitely vouch for that water. It feels great and my recovery was super with my water births! All the best, sis!
Dina I could listen to you talk for hours and not get bored lol I really do hope everything goes smoothly with the delivery and afterwards too in sha Allah. Also happy Islamic new year to you and your family Dina! 💙
hey Dina. my sister in law delivered her little boy two months ago after a long weekend of hospital induction. She got an epidural in the end, and has had no negative effects thus far. In fact, her pre-pregnancy chronic back pain hasn't returned either.... Different for everyone, I guess. But anyway, having been in the room for the delivery, I would highly suggest the epidural. You will be able to relax and concentrate and enjoy the process more. Inshallah everything will be absolutely fine no matter the means, and the end result will be you holding your perfect baby. Xoxoxoxo
Bombard us all you want, it's such a beautiful thing to have the opportunity to witness, thanks Dina :) Also please keep me in your duas, I have been married 3 years and a half with unexplained fertility, failed ivf and just recovering from a laparoscopy operation now.. Times are hard but watching you puts a huge smile on my face and cheers me up a lot alhamdulillah :)
Me and my husband are going through a really tough time in life. Were both facing challenges we didn't think we ever needed to. What should have been a blissful year has turned into a dark day that doesn't end. Please make dua for us. I hope your pregnancy goes to plan & that the baby bring barkah in your life. Ameen x
You asked about baby bouncers... I think baby swings are sooo helpful (better if you can plug them in rather than using batteries)! Also speaking of overdue... my hospital lets you go 10 days over.. and my first child was born the day I was supposed to be induced - I was so happy! :)
Hi dina... may Allah be with you... last year at this month exactly 23rd.. I gave birth to my little prince.... its the best feeling and experience... labour is very painful.. but i kept making dua and saying istighfar during my labour... i didnt take epidural... only gas and Air... they say that Allah rewards you when you handle the pain... so the more you handle the pain the more clean from sins you become... Allahu Allam... just be strong and remember the pain is temporary.. so bare it... and as soon you get your baby... all the pIn will go... Allah ma3aki
Oh wow dina Inshaallah you'll have a safe and blessed delivery!! If you see this, I hope you can pray that I do considerably well for my A levels which is in less than 2 weeks time hehe almost as long as how long your pregnancy may still last. Be safe and happy, salaams sister.
you look quite slim!! Good luck dina! My sister has 7 kids and I see her coping mechanism is internalising the pain. She says its a bad Idea to waste energy on screaming and fast breathing.
Hii, im not a mum or anything lol but I was there twice with my sister when she gave birth, the first time she had an epidural and kind of instantly regretted it as it did cause her back pain after a while. Second time she only had gas and air but before going into labour she went for walks like you are and bounced on a massive gym ball which helped a lot, so that's what I'd recommend, get a gym ball and start bouncing, it helps induce labour and helps with the pain as it softens your cervix ready for the baby🙈 hope this helped, inshallah everything turns out great!x
AoA Dina! please make sure you bring to the hospital a robe, your own favorite pillow, coconut water, and a sleep mask. watched your hospital bag vid and just thought give these suggestions! waiting to see your baby IA!!!!
Hai dina.. Im pregnant my first child too.. 27 weeks now!! And i dont know why but i feel soo happy when found out that you're also pregnant.. It's like im having a company here hehe.. And i love you pregnancy update because it feels like i get more information that i didnt know of from you.. After labour, i know it will be a beautiful mess.. But I really wish you could share your labour experience.. I really wish you could have time to do it because i'm a newbie too here and i really really want to know.. I wish Allah may grant you the easiest way and the painless one.. :) aamiin.
How exciting to experience the first week with you two - or should I say THREE! I keep checking Instagram to see if there's any news on the baby yet. Either way, wishing you a easy delivery and all the health for the both of you! PS. I couldn't be more stressed about uni. Struggling with the amount of work. Your videos (and maybe even dua) always help!
Dina, I used tonal meditation. It actually helped me. I'm not going to lie, I was induced and I had both my kids naturally without the use of medications. It hurts a lot, but the recovery is so much faster. I was up and walking around 30 minutes after birth and I liked that as soon as the baby was born, there was absolutely no pain. Good luck and I will keep you in my duaas. As my father told me, "this too shall pass" as much as it hurts, it is seriously worth it when you hold your baby for the first time. Whatever you chose to do, do what you got to do to help the birthing process. :-).
hey lovely..the secret to a good labor is.........walking!!! even during your contractions try to walk it will really help honestly..best of luck sweetheart xxx
hey dina been following you for a long while and i also found out i am pregnant i am 14 weeks and am loving these baby vids i always look forward to whats coming and a lot of things you have talked about have been really helpful. plus that baby bag u have is sooo lush didn't even know you could get one like that sooo need to invest in one. anyway insha Allah wish you all the best with whats to come its my first time too and i am swaying towards no epidural again due what i have learnt about them and how they work, i'd prefer to avoid it. You and Sid will make great parents insha Allah xxx
every mommy's endurance to pain is different once u have the contractions u will decide if u want the meds or not. I hope u did walk alot throughout your pregnancy that help's!! can't wait to meet baby!!
16th of October is my birthday!! So happy for you guys, may Allah make the rest of your pregnancy an easy one and the birth free of any complications Ameen
I dont mind being bombarded with baby videos💖
yhas, omg
Same here, I would just watch ANY of her videos because she is AMAZING
+bubbletea306 same!
Same. But wat if it's a boy not q girls
not a girl
I know we only get a peek into your life but you make pregnancy look so graceful! Best of luck over the next week 😄 I pray all goes well 💕
Dina mashallah you are so sweet to offer duas for your subscribers. wrt the pain of labour what worked well for me was to walk around the hospital room. laying down was annoying me. also make sure Sid packs a hospital overnight bag. so many times people focus on the new mommy but the new daddy also needs a change of clothes etc.
also may Allah make your delivery and labour fast and may He keep you Sid and the baby safe and healthy. Ameen.
Sharana Ali Ameen :) she's so strong and positive, and I pray all mom's-to-be stay happy and healthy. Ameen
GIRL YOU'RE GLOWING MASH'ALLAH !!! Hope it's all going good insh'allah 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🎉
please keep me in your duas I've been married for 6 years and had 3 miscarriage
May Allah bless you with a healthy baby soon. Will pray for u sis. I know your pain x
+runarehman Stay patient sister. Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said:
“When the child of a person dies, Allaah says to His angels:
‘You have taken the soul of the child of My slave?’ They say: ‘Yes.’
He says: ‘You have taken the apple of his eye?’
They say: ‘Yes.’
He says: ‘What did My slave say?’
They say: ‘He praised You and said innaa Lillaahi wa innaa
ilayhi raaji’oon.’
And Allaah says: ‘Build for My slave a house in Paradise, and
call it the house of praise.’”
Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1021; classed as hasan by al-Albaani
in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.
May Allah bless you with a healthy baby and patience for your loss.
Never lose hope in the mercy of Allah x
In sha Allah i will remember u in my duas
+runarehman InchAllah God will bless you with a beautiful child my sister. I will pray for you.
I have 2 kids and swear by the Baby Roo swing! IT is AMAZING and keeps fussy babies calm and happy. Helps when you need to get a shower or just need the baby to nap. love love love it
The only suggestion that I can give you that you will actually remember is to NOT focus on the pain! Walk it off-- I remember last year when I gave birth to my daughter I walked her out. I even asked for a portable IV. When you are confined in that hospital room the pain seems to be the ONLY thing you can think about. So stay positive and know that it's only temporarily! Plus I promise you after you have that blessing in your arms you even forget about the heck of a time you spent delivering it. Best of wishes!!
Dina you're so helpful! All these maternity updates is so helpful for first time mothers like me
Im so glad you're not stopping youtube. Inshallah everything goes well once the delivery happens, so happy for you and Sid :) xx
I've been away from social media for a while and this is so great to see! You are glowing, Dina! I'll be praying for a safe and smooth delivery. As for the epidural, I had one with my first child, but I was induced. My second child I labored and delivered naturally. I do have lower back pain, but I contribute that too lack of me trying to get back into shape (strength, not weight, I don't need to lose anymore weight! 😅) and having carried two babies almost two years apart.
Just go with what you feel. It will all work out, God willing.
I'm so excited for you and Sid. Plus now I'm getting baby fever haha.
get a baby gym ( floor play mat) they often dont want to sit ages in a baby bouncer. and outgrow them quickly, you can get a cheap one from anywhere just as a temp use for when u want them propped up it can be usefull. but id prefer to invest in a play gym, my babies spent most time on the floor from a few weeks old and they can explore and learn to roll so they use them till there atleast 1, and their just a good purchase i used the same 1 for two babies.. good luck dina, u sound very postive and a natural already mashallah. U lookd fantastic and althoug i have 2 children, you have inspired me tohave more ! hehe . nusayba xxx
also dina, it is important to go out, but please dont feel preassured either, rest is the most important thing ever the more u rest the quicker u spring back to shape physically and mentally.. pain releif, just go with an open mind, and listen to your body. Dont listen to any horror stories, its a natrual process and your young and healthy so inshallah it will be fine.. whatever happens khair anyway ..the pain is what u make it just breathe and really listen to your midwife, hopefully she is a lovely one as most of them are ! Oh yeh and a hot curry did it for me ;-)
+ridha khalfa Good advice lady! Childbirth wasn't associated with pain until last century (i think - not sure on the dates), and whilst people love to tell their horror stories I wish people spoke about the good bits as much!! My daughters birth was traumatic for several reasons but I am still able to acknowledge the good bits, the funny bits, the proud bits, and the best bit - my amazing daughter.
InshAllah (sorry about my spelling) you will have more children ;) xx
I had my son on October 21st last year! He was due on the 19th. The last few days are tough but hang in there! The longer they're in there the stronger they become. For labor pains the thing that helped me the most was moving around and keeping myself distracted, if you just sit there you'll feel the pain more. And when you're actually delivering just remember to take deep calming breaths and take your time! Don't let anyone rush you, baby will come when he/she is ready. Just try to keep yourself as calm, relaxed and comfortable as possible. Good luck Dina!
I used to really hate the idea of having kids due to all the effort, pain, investment, emotional support etc. ... but watching your videos has kinda changed my view slightly. I feel like I wouldn't mind having kids now.
+Fatima Hussain omg me too. Watching these videos has made me reconsider my perspective, haha!
I totally feel you! Watching her vlogs and update videos and reading the comments has shown me that being a mom is actually something quite beautiful and that even though it's a lot of hard work, you gotta remember that you're literally carrying a human life. So worth it.
She's so honest in all of them, and the new mum ones now, it's completely put me off having kids. I wasn't ever really maternal though so I don't mind.
mee too
Your videos are such a blessing to your viewers! I am praying for you and Baby to have a safe delivery!
Your baby is going to be beautiful! I can't wait for pictures! You totally don't have to change your wardrobe into a "mom wardrobe"! Stay stylish and comfy!!
Your video is the only that kept me smiling all the time. Bless you and your baby!
Dina one advice keep praying loads anything that comes to mind... the reward of giving birth is immense, Allah make it all easy for u x
Sorry I forgot to say at the time of labour your duas are highly accepted so ask for anything u desire x
I was 2-2.5 weeks overdue and I didnt have to be induced. Try to avoid being induced unless you really need to. Patocin has some yucky side affects :( Im so happy for you. How exciting. Ive been gone in Jordan for a month and was wondering when you were due. In sha Allah your labor is smooth and such a beautiful experience. Even after 24 hours of labor it was still amazing!
Don't focus to much on the pain right now. trust me when time comes you'll just go with your body and whatever feels natural to you. breathing is key!!!
I had a swing with my baby and it was the best thing ever. it would settle her and I was able to get things done.
and InshaAllah it all goes well and you have a healthy baby at the end! trust me there is no feeling in this world that comes close to seeing your baby for the first time, just keep that in mind. :)
I stumbled upon these videos about a month ago and I can't stop watching! Dina is so funny and seems so nice I love it!
Please make dua for me dear, I want to convert to Islam but am scared of people's reactions and that I may make mistakes. God bless you, your videos are so lovely and inspiring, and I'm so happy for y'all that your little bundle of joy will be here soo
Don't be scared honestly it's an amazing feeling and you shouldn't care about people's reaction considering this is your life and your decision. Do what you think is right :) that said, I hope you feel ready soon and go for it ❤️😊
May Allah grant you guidance and may he make your journey beautiful and full of joy!
I may not know exactly what you're going through but I know how hard it is worrying about what people think; especially when it's those you love.
Good luck!
Allah will forgive you with mistakes and take care of you, try not to listen to people's bad remarks because Allah will be pleased you! This life is nothing but a test. May Allah guide and forgive you, ameen habibti!
to err .. is to Be human... we all make mistakes. but the key is to acknowledge them do istaghfar.. ask for forgiveness.. and do our best to not repeat it. we probably will.. Thats human. we are forgetful.. but we are judged by our intentions.. so we must ask forgiveness.. and just do our best to not repeat our mistakes. but rather learn from them. .. the feeling will be incredible .. and if you believe in it.. your heart will have already acknowledged the oneness of God. .. ask yourself if you believe in the rest. belief comes from within.. it is never from compulsion. may Allah make your path easier and keep all troubles away from you xx duas from your sis x
Only watched a few of your videos but I can easily say you've got such a lovely personality and will be a great mum. Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy!
I think a weekly new mum/dad vlogs won't just help you, it'll help _other_ new parents, too!
I like 'all-over-the-place-pregnant-woman-Dina'. :D
This is gonna be so amazing for your baby inshallah. Getting to watch what you and sid were like/ have gone through before having her is gonna be so cool.
I think the baby is a girl bc some of the clothes are pink and those boots were a bit girly😊💕❤️ Love how you're still gonna upload after baby Dina!
I had my daughter almost 21 years ago. I had an epidural. There was no back pain afterwards. There was pain throughout the labor. However, when the nurse put our baby girl in my arms, I did not care about the pain. I was so thrilled and grateful for her. My biggest problem was not resting. I tried to be perfect in everything. I got so very tired. So, rest and listen to your heart. You and Sid will be amazing parents. Your baby will grow up surrounded by love. I will pray that everything goes well now, and in the future.
weekly vlogs like common this is the best thing evaaaa
4 youtubers i love are having kids. so excited!!!love u dina and I pray you have an easy labour n more blessings to come!!
Loool when dinas 9months pregnant n shes exactly the same weight as you whose not
I had my son 7 weeks ago and I have a low pain tolerance. I spent 2 days being induced until eventually my water broke naturally and 17 hours later I pushed a baby. I'm a wuss with pain but honestly just think about the love and your baby being here. That helped me. I also am terrified of needles and just intervention in general. Hope that helps
You look SOO beautiful here!
Your skin looks amazing! Love the hijab color and style
Yay almost baby time. I was induced and had terrible back pain, opted for an epidural and having it done wasn't painful, it also helped so much with the pain. I ended up with a 4th degree episiotomy. Just know that everything will be fine in the end. You will get your beautiful baby and know the pain was worth it :)
this video made me cry. I'm so truly happy for you..and I ask for your Duahs for me as I was told that it is almost impossible for me to have children. insha Allah everything goes well for you ♡
Any thing is possible if you trust ALLAH..just never loose hope and you will see how your patience would be rewarded 😇
+Musa Baloch thank you so much ♡
You look so happy and literally glowing in this video, In sha Allah everything goes well with your pregnancy! x
How cute will it be when he/she grows older and watches back at this video thinking hey that was all for me.. Haha x
I am super excited for the new mommy and daddy vlogs!!!! I pray that your baby comes well and you stay healthy and don't have to experience the baby blues!!!! But if you can't tell, I'm really reaaaaaalllllyy excited that you two are having a baby!!!
I am 34, almost 35 weeks pregnant with a baby girl Insha'Allah, and we are going to name her Leila or Laila
I feel like you are going yo have a baby girl too Insha'Allah, Laila or Leila is almost a universal name, and Arabic too
if we were to have a baby boy, we were going to decide between Adam and Yahia
May Allah gives you strength to deliver your baby safely soon Insha'Allah and bless him/her
I'm soooooo excited and happy for you guys, can't wait to see this beautiful child!. 3 more days babe, good luck on the labour and inshallah everything will go smoothly.
Oh and can you please make duaa on my school year being easy for me, and inshallah get accepted to my first choice Uni.
Keep me and all the sisters who are struggling to conceive or carry babies in ur duas. Iv suffered 3miscarriages in the past year (1 of which was twins) and nothing is more painful or more heartbreaking to know that the baby that was once inside of u no longer exists and u will not be able to hold them or see them. May Allah swt give us all the strength to deal with such a loss and give us strength and determination to keep trying. Please say a dua for me Dina, if not for me to have babies then for me to accept this as the decision of Allah swt and to recognise this as a blessing. Ameen obviosly I know whatever happens does so with Allah's will but sometimes our hearts are weak & make us question things. Grief does such things. Ya Allah, make this easy for me and for all the mums to be out the May Allah swt bless you with healthy pregnancies and beautiful healthy babies. Ameen x (sorry for the essay, got a tad emotional) lol x
I don't know what it is but you've got such a lovely personality it makes me happy☺️
Just the pre-labour contraction pangs are SOOOO bad. I was in extreme pain.... couldn't even sleep. The epidural was SUCH a heaven sent God's gift. Don't even worry about the catheter, you will be completely numb waist down - and you won't feel a THING. When they put in mine, I couldn't even tell. The relief associated with the epidural is so amazing and great - it gives you time to nap, breathe, smile, talk to your spouse and anxiously await the baby. If you're in a tonne of pain - how are you going to relish the most important milestone of your life? Some women are in so much pain - they don't even push properly. Sometimes pain-relief really helps women push. The epidural made my birth experience so much better - I can still remember the pre-labour contraction pains.... :'(
@dina Tokio my OBGYN told me there are no real correlations b/w epidurals and backpain. Usually the "back pain" is just an after effect of the pregnancy itself - and the fact that we are carrying a baby - we gain weight - which effects our posture and our back. Epidurals are not known to cause backpain at all and are way safer than the IV. I had an epidural and i have no issues with back pain alhamdulilah
+FeatherrBrain I had an epidural with my 2nd daughter in 1999 and I still get pain at the site. Everyone is different. I'd really say if you can go without it, do it. Keep active in labor and it will go quicker.
You're right, everyone is different. People have different levels of pain tolerance, although I'm sure all women agree birth pain is the worse! lol. I specifically brought up the back-pain issue with my OBGYN and she said its not at all proven or related to epidurals. In any case, medical science has really improved in the 16 years since then. I would ask the pregnant ladies - do you take any medications during the 'really bad' menstrual cramps, or migraines? If so, well, labour pains are 100 times worse!!!! So how the heck are you gonna bear those? I did extensive research on epidurals online because all my older relatives kept advising me against it, with backspin warnings and to go au naturale. (I was even afraid of the needle and the catheter) and one thing that struck me was - you won't get a medal for going through extra pain during birth - if modern science has made things easier - why shouldn't we avail it? The only thing I would consider is - the health & wellbeing of the baby - epidurals are not known to effect the baby at all. So if your health practitioner says they are safe for the baby - go for it! I'm so glad I did. The reason I mention this is - you'll have to pre-plan whether you want one or not, because after a certain point during your contractions, you can't have the epidural. They can only give it to you during early labour. If you say no in the beginning, and it gets really bad - you may not be able to get the epidural later.
I did my 1st daughter without anything and I thought that turned out better. But, if you say they've improved that much, then go for it.
+FeatherrBrain Every woman is different and should do what's best for her baby and her body. One of the reasons why people decide against an epidural is because with any medication, there is a risk, and any medical intervention increases the chance of baby going into fetal distress and a c-section being performed. Also, recovery is usually a lot quicker and easier, you're able to move around in labor and eat and drink, etc.
That being said, an epidural isn't a bad thing at all. It's just your preferences and situation. I gave birth 6 weeks ago and was 100% dead against an epidural but I ended up being in labor for 24 hours and wasn't dilating past 7 cm with contractions hitting me every 10 seconds. My husband and I prayed istikhara and decided to get the epidural, and my midwife told me that had I opted against it, I wouldn't have had the energy to push and probably would have ended up with a c-section (I had been vomiting and hadn't eaten for more than 24 hours or slept, and my baby turned out to be pretty big lol). Alhamdulillah, everything happens for a reason and even though I didn't want the epidural at all, my birth was still positive. :)
My advice for Dina would be.. labor as long as you can without an epidural, and don't beat yourself up if your birth doesn't go the way you planned. Walk, sway your hips, breathe through the contractions slowly. Also, if Sid is massaging your back, make sure he knows not to abruptly remove his hands in the middle of the contraction. Having him constantly moving his hands up and down your back and hips helps you track the movement and get through contractions easier. May Allah make your labor swift and easy and may you and baby be completely healthy.
So keen for a baby haul. Congrats dina, really happy for you and Sid.
Hi Dina. Can you please make dua for my grandad as he is in a really bad state and is really poorly. Thanks
I am one of your silent followers Dina. Please keep up the good work.You have no idea how much you inspire me by your life style. I learn so much form you. So, YES we need you baby videos because eventually we will be moms in the near future inshallah.
InshaAllah your pregnancy won't run too late. All will go well, don't worry :) Since you offered, Please make dua'a for me, I'm a childhood rape survivor and trying to really recover from that trauma years ago. Making things worse, someone recently was really cruel to me implying it was my fault and that has upset me so deeply. Thank you for your dua'a and for caring. Oh and the mum vlogs sound great! We will love anything you post :P
Hiii Dina : ) My first baby was overdue 9 days and I had to be induced ( the gel one ) . Honestly it wasnt bad at all , didnt feel any pain or anything and 3 hours after that my labor started very mild 3 min apart constantly getting stronger and stronger and probably after 3 hours again I had the baby without any epidural whatsoever . I had him naturally and he was pretty chubby baby 4 . 170 kg yeahh :D The thing which helped me throughout labor was just BREATHING deep really deep . I mean the labor is really painful but God is the greatest , we have breaks soo..I know you can do it all naturally . Will pray for you , dont panic and whenever gets really painful just tell yourself baby is coming he/she is almost here , I will see him/her soon and whenever baby comes its ALL OVER , no more pain :) ALSO have somebody with you its a big + :) good luck :)
We want mommy vlogs 😂❤️
Good luck Dina , I will be praying for you and the safe arrival of baby :)
I found the best thing to help with pain is to keep moving and delivery is easier in a position that is not lying down ---- but trust me the end result is well worth it xx
What is Inshallah?? You say it quite often soo i was curious 💋💋
Means God willing
+manon van bergen Insh'Allah means something like "if God wants to" and is often used when talking about the future, you never know what will happen! :)
god willing
This is your 3rd time saying this so yea
Dina wishing you all the best! Mama Blogs would be fantastic! So lovely watching you transition to the next phase. God bless and good luck! You're going to be a wonderful mother
What is Inshallah?? You say it quite often soo i was curious
+manon van bergen it just means if god wills .
if Allah wills/ wants. :)
hoi manon, het betekent : Met de wil van God. ^^
inshallah means hopefully 😊
it means if God/Allah wills
hey to deal with pain i took the epidural and it was amazing and helped me push the baby out and one more thing if anything happens god for bid and the doctor tells u to do the C section do it . u want the baby to be safe ! i am telling u the epidural works good. best of luck !💕💕💕
Dina please make dua that I have a productive gap year and get into Medicine at the end of it, as I missed out last year. I really want to become a doctor so please make dua that I choose a career path that's best for me. And also that I get an A in Chemistry retake. Thankyou so much :)
Omg Dina can't believe you're so close to being a mum! I hope you the best from the bottom of my heart :) 💖
I think it's a girl judging the colours from the wadrobe
PLEASE BOMBARD US WITH BABY STUFF!!!! IM MEGA EXCITED. i pray inshallah you the most comfortable delivery possible and you and your new little pigeon is healthy and safe
i got a name idea hannah 😂😂
Natasha Ahmed LOL
Best piece of advice was from a nurse that I had with my second baby. She advised me to push as if I was going to the bathroom. (From the back) When you push from the front, it doesn't help the baby at all. May Allah ﷻ make it easy for you and give you ajar for any pain that you endure.
complaing how much she weighs 71 kg is nuffin I'm 15 and not fat I'm an athlete and I weigh 72kg
I don't have kids and tbh, I don't want to even get pregnant, but I still enjoy all these baby videos you've been posting. Love you, Dina, and good luck!
dina im so happy you're continuing with your channel! i just hope inshallah that you wont feel like overpowered with all the new baby life and maintaining the youtube channel. take it easy and don't think we as subscribers will be angry if you dont upload. inshallah have a safe delivery. keep me and my family in your prayers x
doing dua for you, Dina! iA, your delivery goes smoothly and baby and you are healthy! ♡
Love your updates dina. Looking forward to your new mum and dad videos. Can't wait!!!!!!!! Good luck x
So excited! In Sha Allah. Can't wait for baby! Do dua that I get through the competitions I've applied for please:) thank you.xxxx
actually excited for you, hoping to be pregnant myself some time in the near future, quite happy for you and sid, don't be afraid, enjoy every minute and please do bombard us with baby videos, you make us feel you two like part of our lives, in shaa allah everything will be running smoothly and you'll both (all three of you actually) will have great stories to tell, we'll be eager to hear them, god bless you all, peace!
EEE such an exciting time! I'm a big fan- Thought I'd share a few tips based on your video! I am 32 and have an 8 year old girl. I was REALLY concerned with the catheter as well, but they placed mine in after the epidural so I didn't even feel it, nor did I feel it being removed. The beginning of labor felt like bad menstrual cramps to me, they came in waves, and so I didn't really think it was labor. Next morning it was like very uncomfortable constipation and nausea and more horrid when labor got close so I am so happy I got the epidural. I have no back pain side effects from it. Meditation or prayer along with breathing REALLY helps. Screaming wastes energy so trying to stay calm for the baby is your first fun challenge as a momma :D Don't forget your birth plan, mine included everything - most importantly, who I did NOT want in the room; my hospital frequently had med students on-site and so I'd highly recommend stating that you do not want students or any unnecessary personnel in the room viewing your birth, nor when you're 'not decent', if that's your preference. Lots of extra burp/spit up cloths are so handy, I'd keep them stashed in my glovebox, at friend's houses, etc. I'd also say to bring extra snacks for you and Sid bc hospital food is LAAAME and if you get stuck there a few extra days like I did you'll be so hungry (#itslikeramadanalloveragain)
I've got a zillion more tips but this comment is way too long already. Feel free to DM me on instagram (justaskmercedes) or email me (at gmail) if you want some homemade baby food recipes or anything! Inshallah it will go perfectly and I wish you every happiness! - Sincerely, Mercedes
Dina good luck in everything and keep the baby videos coming, so excited to be on this journey with you. Good luck xoxo
I was due on 16 October last year, my daughter came on 25th... 24 hrs contractions no pain relief- then had epidural. 12 hours later cervix still didn't open properly had emergency c-section but it all went smoothly. Just have lots of help!
Dina you're doing so well for your first pregnancy ma sha Allah! so well put together and keeping on top of the diet and exercise throughout your pregnancy. You almost make it look easy! I saw pregnancy as a free pass to eat whatever I liked as much as I liked!!! Didn't do me many favours!
Best tip for labour is to go with the flow. Don't panic if things don't go the way you imagined. Be open to all options of pain relief.
May Allah give you a quick and easy labour and a healthy baby at the end of it xxx
We have the babyjorn bouncer i used that for my second baby from birth, it grows with your child and has 3 different settings. Its folds flat so easy to take to mum and dads at the weekend it also bounces and teaches baby how to bounce on their own which i read is good for their development. Bit pricy but worth it. All the best Inshaa Allah pray it goes smoothly for you and you have a quick easy labour...its your first and you will feel nervous just do whats right for you if you cant take the pain (its a kille btw and your only human not machine) an epidural will super help. But only you know what you can cope with. All the best Dina and Sid xoxo (sorry for the essay lol)
Wow!!!!! Soooo soon!!! All the best hunni !! Can't wait to see your little bundle of joy!! Just stay calm and focused , I didn't want anything but turned out my little girl was at my back so I needed an epidural (not fun 6 fails attempts ) and had to get a second :( xx
Congratulations!!!!! Hana Khan will be a little fashionista just like her mummy! 😘😍 ️xx
I HAVE to recommend a water birth. Helps prevent tearing and is the next best pain relief after an epidural. It's INCREDIBLE!! I had a water birth with my first, didn't get one with my second because he came so quickly! Just had my third baby 4 months ago and I got a water birth again! So I can definitely vouch for that water. It feels great and my recovery was super with my water births! All the best, sis!
Dina I could listen to you talk for hours and not get bored lol
I really do hope everything goes smoothly with the delivery and afterwards too in sha Allah. Also happy Islamic new year to you and your family Dina! 💙
hey Dina. my sister in law delivered her little boy two months ago after a long weekend of hospital induction. She got an epidural in the end, and has had no negative effects thus far. In fact, her pre-pregnancy chronic back pain hasn't returned either.... Different for everyone, I guess. But anyway, having been in the room for the delivery, I would highly suggest the epidural. You will be able to relax and concentrate and enjoy the process more. Inshallah everything will be absolutely fine no matter the means, and the end result will be you holding your perfect baby. Xoxoxoxo
Bombard us all you want, it's such a beautiful thing to have the opportunity to witness, thanks Dina :) Also please keep me in your duas, I have been married 3 years and a half with unexplained fertility, failed ivf and just recovering from a laparoscopy operation now.. Times are hard but watching you puts a huge smile on my face and cheers me up a lot alhamdulillah :)
Me and my husband are going through a really tough time in life. Were both facing challenges we didn't think we ever needed to. What should have been a blissful year has turned into a dark day that doesn't end. Please make dua for us. I hope your pregnancy goes to plan & that the baby bring barkah in your life. Ameen x
You asked about baby bouncers... I think baby swings are sooo helpful (better if you can plug them in rather than using batteries)! Also speaking of overdue... my hospital lets you go 10 days over.. and my first child was born the day I was supposed to be induced - I was so happy! :)
You're so great Dina! Thanks for making me laugh. I hope your delivery goes well (God willing)
Hi dina... may Allah be with you...
last year at this month exactly 23rd.. I gave birth to my little prince.... its the best feeling and experience...
labour is very painful.. but i kept making dua and saying istighfar during my labour... i didnt take epidural... only gas and Air... they say that Allah rewards you when you handle the pain... so the more you handle the pain the more clean from sins you become... Allahu Allam... just be strong and remember the pain is temporary.. so bare it... and as soon you get your baby... all the pIn will go... Allah ma3aki
Oh wow dina Inshaallah you'll have a safe and blessed delivery!! If you see this, I hope you can pray that I do considerably well for my A levels which is in less than 2 weeks time hehe almost as long as how long your pregnancy may still last. Be safe and happy, salaams sister.
you look quite slim!! Good luck dina! My sister has 7 kids and I see her coping mechanism is internalising the pain. She says its a bad Idea to waste energy on screaming and fast breathing.
Hii, im not a mum or anything lol but I was there twice with my sister when she gave birth, the first time she had an epidural and kind of instantly regretted it as it did cause her back pain after a while. Second time she only had gas and air but before going into labour she went for walks like you are and bounced on a massive gym ball which helped a lot, so that's what I'd recommend, get a gym ball and start bouncing, it helps induce labour and helps with the pain as it softens your cervix ready for the baby🙈 hope this helped, inshallah everything turns out great!x
Such an inspiring lady. Love your videos and personality mashallah. All the best for motherhood xxxx your gonna be amazing x
AoA Dina! please make sure you bring to the hospital a robe, your own favorite pillow, coconut water, and a sleep mask.
watched your hospital bag vid and just thought give these suggestions!
waiting to see your baby IA!!!!
Hun take whatever you can. It's bloody painful but promise you will not care once baby is here. Good luck to both of you xxxx
Masha'Allah you are gloooowing! I'm so excited for baby to come :) good luck with it all, I'll definitely keep you in my duas xx
Hai dina.. Im pregnant my first child too.. 27 weeks now!! And i dont know why but i feel soo happy when found out that you're also pregnant.. It's like im having a company here hehe.. And i love you pregnancy update because it feels like i get more information that i didnt know of from you..
After labour, i know it will be a beautiful mess.. But I really wish you could share your labour experience.. I really wish you could have time to do it because i'm a newbie too here and i really really want to know..
I wish Allah may grant you the easiest way and the painless one.. :) aamiin.
love going through my pregnancy with you!!! keep doing the pregnancy videos!!
How exciting to experience the first week with you two - or should I say THREE! I keep checking Instagram to see if there's any news on the baby yet. Either way, wishing you a easy delivery and all the health for the both of you!
PS. I couldn't be more stressed about uni. Struggling with the amount of work. Your videos (and maybe even dua) always help!
Yay excited about the new mum and dad vlogs love the idea of weekly videos so you can still be connected
Dina,
I used tonal meditation. It actually helped me. I'm not going to lie, I was induced and I had both my kids naturally without the use of medications. It hurts a lot, but the recovery is so much faster. I was up and walking around 30 minutes after birth and I liked that as soon as the baby was born, there was absolutely no pain. Good luck and I will keep you in my duaas. As my father told me, "this too shall pass" as much as it hurts, it is seriously worth it when you hold your baby for the first time. Whatever you chose to do, do what you got to do to help the birthing process. :-).
hey lovely..the secret to a good labor is.........walking!!! even during your contractions try to walk it will really help honestly..best of luck sweetheart xxx
Can't wait for the new mom / new dad weekly vlogs! Such a great idea : ) Ps. The colour of your hijab looks amazing on you!
hey dina been following you for a long while and i also found out i am pregnant i am 14 weeks and am loving these baby vids i always look forward to whats coming and a lot of things you have talked about have been really helpful. plus that baby bag u have is sooo lush didn't even know you could get one like that sooo need to invest in one. anyway insha Allah wish you all the best with whats to come its my first time too and i am swaying towards no epidural again due what i have learnt about them and how they work, i'd prefer to avoid it. You and Sid will make great parents insha Allah xxx
congratulation Dina.. Alhamdullillah...another cute member in family now.
every mommy's endurance to pain is different once u have the contractions u will decide if u want the meds or not. I hope u did walk alot throughout your pregnancy that help's!! can't wait to meet baby!!
Praying that all goes well for you and your baby! Have a safe delivery
I really hope you guys vlog more after the baby comes, i really reaaally enjoy your vlogs, they are amazing ☺️
16th of October is my birthday!! So happy for you guys, may Allah make the rest of your pregnancy an easy one and the birth free of any complications Ameen