FAMILY, FAITH & FEAR: Resolving Feelings Before Bottom Surgery (AMAB & TransAndrogynous)
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
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Ashley Adamson: The Last Time You See My Face: • The Last Time You See ...
HOW CHRISTIANITY AFFECTED MY TRANSITION: • HOW CHRISTIANITY AFFEC...
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Oh how I've missed you. So few transgender and non binary people to see on the internet. I appreciate your example/your thoughts.
Also, panic attacks are terrible. They are so distressing. I have them more often than I can logically recognize.
Also I'm 36 and I have a Benjamin bunny stuffed animal still. I understand that piece.
💛 I’m always happy to share my feelings and thoughts 💛 and that makes me feel good to know other people still have their comfort stuff animals 💛 I’m sorry you have panic attacks so often. Not a fun experience at all.
@@brynavery yeah it sucks. Is it selfish of me that I kind of like it when I see people I know finally have one so they know how I feel?
Anyway, you're beautiful. Have a good night!
@@Starmander I don’t think that’s shitty at all. It can give us a sense of comfort to know that other people understand our feelings and experiences. And thank you 💛
Hey. So I needed to rewatch this video a couple of times for it to sink in and let it hit home. I wanted to say as always thanks for putting your thoughts and experiences out there. It really does benefit ppl like myself that are too shy to. The way you got help from Ashley Adams is the way you have helped me in my journey. That being said I went to Catholic school for 8 yrs. I dealt with repression/depression surrounding my sexuality. My mom is now a born again Christian (former Baptist). It sucks to have heard from both of your parents that things are either black or white, wrong or right. That if I chose to live a certain way it's because of the devil's influence so I totally get it. Lastly, it has been increasing infuriating to hear from my mom and dad that their son is dead and keep referring to my old name when have repeatedly corrected them. It's sucks when your family who you were close to rejects your life choices especially when you feel you are just being the way you were supposed to be all along. All I can say is that I no longer need theirs or anyone's validation. I let go of organized religion as well and have never been more content with my life. You can see it in my smile everyday versus the years where I was miserable. Best of luck with surgery and I wish you a speedy recovery.
First off, I’m so glad I can be that person for you. That makes me incredibly happy. Im sorry you’re going through that with your parents, I know all too well how that feels. Even when you don’t “need” them to accept you, it can still hurt so much when they don’t. Im glad you’ve gotten to a place where you don’t need their validation. I know that can be so hard but you should be proud of yourself that you’ve been able to get there. I feel the same about feeling content. Going through leaving organized religion is so hard, but coming out on the other side is so peaceful. Thank you so much for reaching out and thank you for your support. 💛
Thank you so much Bryn. Good to hear about the surgery date. Sending all the good vibes your way. The tips are always helpful for overcoming those layers!!! 🌈💜❤️🩹☺️🏳️⚧️
Thank you!!! I’m glad my tips help! 💛
Once again a great video! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us!
I, too, was raised Christian and was aware that, at least for me, that did damage to me in various ways. However, the realization that this can lead to simply not trusting yourself (because a thought could be from God or Satan) is something I only realized through your video. It certainly applies to me as well.
You discussed so many other topics in the video and I can only agree with a lot of it, but then the comment here would become even longer than it already is ;-)
Just one thing about the stuffed animals: that is so cool! I also still have a stuffed elephant ("Fanti") from my grandma who died very shortly after I was born, so unfortunately I didn't get to meet her. I am already older (50) and therefore it would never have occurred to me to take a stuffed animal to my surgery, because it would be "inappropriate" for such an old person like me. But, what the heck! Now my elephant is coming with me in any case!
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I’m glad my video helped you realize the struggles with learning to trust yourself (the battle between god and satan). That’s something that only clicked recently for me as well.
Yes bring Fanti! I know it can seem strange but honestly comfort items can be so helpful and help keep you grounded and feeling safe. Good luck with your surgery as well 💛
Yourself don't worry God knows every hair on our head he loves you just the same boy girl or whatever your color is God loves you
Thank you 💛
I just finished watching this. I watched the first 4 1/2 minutes yesterday and rest today.
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I also have a similar upcoming surgery that I have complicated feelings about. This video was timed incredibly well, thank you. I want to try some of the things you mentioned as having been helpful for you, but I have to wait til I've moved out since where I'm living rn I don't have any privacy and don't feel safe to be vulnerable in the way I suspect these things would require.
I really REALLY related to having to push aside emotions and intuition for a long time, and resorting to logical defenses because of that. It's something I've also been working on a LOT over the past year or so, and my girlfriend has helped me with it a lot as well by just giving me space to do so, and not making me feel like I have to defend myself logically.
I honestly originally was planning on not filming this video until a while after surgery but decided to do it beforehand, since I felt as though I worked through the bulk of my fears and everything. Im glad I posted it now, since it’s something that really helped you! I hope you’re able to move out soon and have more privacy. That can be incredibly frustrating having to share a home with people who invade your space, especially if they don’t agree with certain parts of your life.
That makes me happy to hear that I’m not alone when it comes to neglecting feelings & intuition and using logic to match ahead. It’s something I’ve struggled with for a long time and not something I’ve really known how to talk about because I feel like the people around me couldn’t relate. So thank you for sharing that you’ve had a similar experience. That’s awesome that you have someone in your corner who gives you the space to heal and grow. It’s so important to have that safety net and I’m glad you have someone who can be that for you. Best of luck, I know it can be tough dealing with these things, but just take it one step at a time 💛
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I love your videos Bryn ! My heart feels so close to your experiences and when you mentioned your spiritual journey and re integrating your spiritual side really resonated with me. It would be so cool to know someone like you but I do feel like an intimate friend with these videos. Thanks so much for your open heart 💖🤗😊
Aw that makes me so happy! The spiritual part of my journey and transition has been something I’ve only recently been reflecting on, but it’s been helping so much. That makes me so happy that you feel like an intimate friend. I know how that can feel to feel like you know someone just from hearing them speak, and I’m so glad I can be that for you 💛
I just finished watching/listening to this a 2nd time. If you don't mind me asking, what is the title of the book you were given?
I believe it was called “Transgender to Transformed” and the authors name is Laura something. If you’re going to read it, just know it’s incredibly transphobic and can be really triggering. But for me it helped me face my triggers, but definitely was not an easy read.