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My husband committed adulteries and has filed for divorce but lying and said I had an adulterous relationship. He is also an elder in the church, SMH. I do not want to reconcile but I do pray for him and his deliverance.
@@em77775 I went to them with concrete evidence but they refuse to do anything. If anything they are taking his side making me out to be the villain. SMH.
He have a long and successful career, find a younger partner to screw. Divorce him get custody of the kids and half of whatever he has. Evil takes very good care of itself, especially if it’s within the Chuech.
Here’s what I don’t understand: why would you encourage the betrayed spouse to help the unfaithful spouse with grieving their affair loss? That is not a weight a betrayed spouse should ever need to be a part of. The unfaithful spouse needs to get therapy yesterday and grieve in that space, not with their betrayed spouse
@@loversonly I think I even stop praying for my marriage after my husband told me that he wanted to be free and he was not in love with me anymore. But I will pray more and let GOD work on my husband while we are separated I want my marriage 💑 🙏
@@user-xq6ji3mt4z we got back together to try to fix things, but here we are again separated a week now. I don't know anymore all I can do is move on and ask God to give me strength during my divorce cause I am tired of the back and forth mess every 90 days ugh!
@@martinsfredman2722 God gives us common sense I will not keep running behind my husband especially if he has shown me over and over he want to be a single man I am wasting my time and life his mind is made up my health and sanity is more important
@@martinsfredman2722 it is his fault he cheated on me several times and lie so much he told me he's not in love with me anymore so how is that my fault? I love my husband i forgive him but I will not tolerate his behavior and I'm not going to running behind him especially if he is showing me he has moved on
Glad it was helpful! Can you try accessing the toolkit via this link? Let me know if that works for you friend! Free Toolkit: your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-course Also, don't forget to subscribe to our Channel here friend!
I truly respect the work that y’all are doing. But I’ve seen more than just a few women cheat on men, sob oceans of tears, guilt the dude into staying, and then within a year or two divorce the dude, take the kids, the house, and way too much alimony. Do you have safeguards against this in your program. My main advice for reconciliation is it get married in an at fault divorce state, get the most solid prenup you can, and if he or she cheats, get a solid postnup before trying to get back together. Especially if you are the man, because the court system sincerely hates you. I wouldn’t do anything toward reconciliation until the cheater has no financial motivation in the matter and will get nothing at all if he or she cheats again. Sound harsh and unfair? Well,evidently promising fidelity in front of God means nothing to you, so perhaps the strong hand of the law can slap some sense into you.
For me I only ask questions that are helpful to recovering, specific details don't seem to be helpful for me. I have such a difficult time with triggers, I don't need more. I have asked the questions that I need, why? What did she give you I didn't etc... I know the kind of lover my husband is and this is difficult enough.
My wife's first husband was YOUNGER...he wanted to do everything...but he had no knowledge. Her second husband was OLDER...he knew how to do everything...but he could not do anything. She is now married to me...her third husband...a former IBM Salesman...Pam's complaint is all I do is sit on the edge of the bed...and tell her "How good it is going to be!" :) :) Sometimes...a little humor...WORKS!!!
My husband and I live in the same house but we don't sleep in the same bed, but we do hug and kiss if I ask him. He does have a violent Irish temper. When he gets mad he will say I don't need u in my life and it hurts deeply. He lies to me all the time and denies that he has anything to do with her. I know bc he texts her,bc he was texting on his phone minutes ago! I just want him to be more patient with me and not compare me with her.
Oh what a terrible fight we just had over his stupid fk phone. It went off and he accused me of wanting to know who it was!!! Which I.didnt ask, u see he is so deceiving of wanting his privacy bc he knows he's doing something wrong. He wouldn't believe me that I wasn't checking on him.
You have every right to check on him. I wouldn’t even begin reconciliation without complete transparency-access to online accounts , all passwords for all devices. no unaccounted for excursions (he goes to work, he comes home, period) Complete block of the AP. If she is a co-worker, he transfers or quits and finds a different job. Grieving for the AP is to be done before he’s allowed back in the house. If he takes more than a couple weeks, serve him up a nice warm meal of divorce papers. Reconciliation is under control and grace of the betrayed. You did it, you own it, you eat it. You work and earn your way back into the family you risked.
I have purchased other marriage helpers and spent alot of money on them, and nothing has made a positive affect on him, he has made his mind up, so he says
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YES! All things are possible with God. God is the God of Reconciliation. It's what He wants.
Your right Donna but unfortunately some people don’t want to admit that
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@@donna62016 I really appreciate you being a great listener. Thank you !
@@artross9836 Thanks for the kind words.
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He was the person who helped me manifest my ex back three days ago without daley🌹
My husband committed adulteries and has filed for divorce but lying and said I had an adulterous relationship. He is also an elder in the church, SMH. I do not want to reconcile but I do pray for him and his deliverance.
if he's an elder, his higher-ups need to deal with him on this
@@em77775 I went to them with concrete evidence but they refuse to do anything. If anything they are taking his side making me out to be the villain. SMH.
@@yvettecain7447 so sorry to hear that. That is not what you need 😔
He have a long and successful career, find a younger partner to screw. Divorce him get custody of the kids and half of whatever he has. Evil takes very good care of itself, especially if it’s within the Chuech.
Ah this is a good topic. Great video guys. I'm always encouraged listening to your videos
Thank you so much for taking/discussing burning questions like this. Looking forward to more of these posts to come☺.
There is a point of no return. Once that line is crossed, all bets are off.
Sorry, the betrayed eats shit and the cheater gets away w it.
Very informative video, thanks for sharing this.!
I liked this video. Thank you!
Here’s what I don’t understand: why would you encourage the betrayed spouse to help the unfaithful spouse with grieving their affair loss? That is not a weight a betrayed spouse should ever need to be a part of. The unfaithful spouse needs to get therapy yesterday and grieve in that space, not with their betrayed spouse
@@martinsfredman2722 my husband is a covert narcissist. At this point, I’m glad he left and I hope he never comes back.
How can I do this if he is involved and in love with someone else, he's mind is made up!
Two people have to be willing not just one person I have been fighting to save my marriage but it seems like he doesn't want it so I am giving up
Don’t give up before u appeal to God♥️
@@loversonly I think I even stop praying for my marriage after my husband told me that he wanted to be free and he was not in love with me anymore. But I will pray more and let GOD work on my husband while we are separated I want my marriage 💑 🙏
@@user-xq6ji3mt4z we got back together to try to fix things, but here we are again separated a week now. I don't know anymore all I can do is move on and ask God to give me strength during my divorce cause I am tired of the back and forth mess every 90 days ugh!
Thank you for this clarification
I truly believe this may work for some and some it want when a person has their mind up it's pretty much a wrap
@@martinsfredman2722 God gives us common sense I will not keep running behind my husband especially if he has shown me over and over he want to be a single man I am wasting my time and life his mind is made up my health and sanity is more important
@@martinsfredman2722 it is his fault he cheated on me several times and lie so much he told me he's not in love with me anymore so how is that my fault? I love my husband i forgive him but I will not tolerate his behavior and I'm not going to running behind him especially if he is showing me he has moved on
Thanks so much, this is helping me tremendously… the videos in the free toolkit are no longer online btw!
Glad it was helpful! Can you try accessing the toolkit via this link? Let me know if that works for you friend!
Free Toolkit:
your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-course
Also, don't forget to subscribe to our Channel here friend!
Trust has to be earned
Love given freely
Avoiders just keep running from themselves or the problems
Can you trust them ?
Can it be rebuilt ?
😳 this is gold! Thank you!
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I truly respect the work that y’all are doing. But I’ve seen more than just a few women cheat on men, sob oceans of tears, guilt the dude into staying, and then within a year or two divorce the dude, take the kids, the house, and way too much alimony. Do you have safeguards against this in your program. My main advice for reconciliation is it get married in an at fault divorce state, get the most solid prenup you can, and if he or she cheats, get a solid postnup before trying to get back together. Especially if you are the man, because the court system sincerely hates you. I wouldn’t do anything toward reconciliation until the cheater has no financial motivation in the matter and will get nothing at all if he or she cheats again. Sound harsh and unfair? Well,evidently promising fidelity in front of God means nothing to you, so perhaps the strong hand of the law can slap some sense into you.
For me I only ask questions that are helpful to recovering, specific details don't seem to be helpful for me.
I have such a difficult time with triggers, I don't need more.
I have asked the questions that I need, why? What did she give you I didn't etc...
I know the kind of lover my husband is and this is difficult enough.
My wife's first husband was YOUNGER...he wanted to do everything...but he had no knowledge. Her second husband was OLDER...he knew how to do everything...but he could not do anything. She is now married to me...her third husband...a former IBM Salesman...Pam's complaint is all I do is sit on the edge of the bed...and tell her "How good it is going to be!" :) :) Sometimes...a little humor...WORKS!!!
Oh I have remembered part of his name it was Mort someone
I don't see you address the question of whether you want to save your marriage or not
I absolutely would not "help" my spouse grieve after they stepped out. Nope, not me!
My husband and I live in the same house but we don't sleep in the same bed, but we do hug and kiss if I ask him. He does have a violent Irish temper. When he gets mad he will say I don't need u in my life and it hurts deeply. He lies to me all the time and denies that he has anything to do with her. I know bc he texts her,bc he was texting on his phone minutes ago! I just want him to be more patient with me and not compare me with her.
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Oh what a terrible fight we just had over his stupid fk phone. It went off and he accused me of wanting to know who it was!!! Which I.didnt ask, u see he is so deceiving of wanting his privacy bc he knows he's doing something wrong. He wouldn't believe me that I wasn't checking on him.
You have every right to check on him. I wouldn’t even begin reconciliation without complete transparency-access to online accounts , all passwords for all devices. no unaccounted for excursions (he goes to work, he comes home, period) Complete block of the AP. If she is a co-worker, he transfers or quits and finds a different job. Grieving for the AP is to be done before he’s allowed back in the house. If he takes more than a couple weeks, serve him up a nice warm meal of divorce papers. Reconciliation is under control and grace of the betrayed. You did it, you own it, you eat it.
You work and earn your way back into the family you risked.
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