I have literally never seen someone more genuinely in love on this show than Rachel was with Clayton. She deserves so much better and I really hope she finds it
Ah…everyone who has ever made it to the final 3 believes they’re really in love. It’s silly when u think about the actual time that these people have spent together during the laughable 6 week filming schedule. This is cringey to watch, the way she’s carrying on, it’s like they’re breaking up from a yrs long relationship!
@@cakerbaker9965 That is why I’m saying this.. I rarely believe people fall in love on this show for real. But Rachel is different, so genuine and such a big heart that’s rare to find on TV nowadays
I totally agree. The way she was able to so passionately articulate her feelings and reasons for loving Clayton to his parents and how genuinely heartbroken she seems here feels more intense and genuine than almost anything I’ve seen on the many many seasons of this show I’ve watched. You can also tell that in this moment, her pain is coming from losing him rather hurt about how she’s been mistreated. I’m glad she got to express her anger about that part on AFR cause those feelings are also very warranted.
You can tell she really loved him. It was genuine for her. She's great and will find a man who cherishes her and respects her. So many women can relate to her in this moment. Giving everything you have to an emotionally immature and emotionally broken man who breaks your heart. Wow.
Emotionally immature? Try emotionally *selfish* He never told them Suzie was his 1st choice & then allowed them to stay or not knowing that. Not cool is an understatement 😡
The fact that Clayton could not even shed one tear and was just stone cold to her while she’s breaking down and in tears, you can tell he was never truly in love with her
I agree - in other seasons you always see the leads get distraught and upset when they are sending their runner ups home & often in those seasons the lead hasn't even said that he or she loves them but he's told them both he loves them but still has no emotion letting them go. I'm really confused.
He just didn’t even look like he acknowledged how she felt. It’s almost like he was looking through her. It seemed like he just wanted her to hurry up and finish talking so he could leave.
I don’t even watch this show anymore, my tv has a Walmart antennae- yet here I am on RUclips at 12:10am…where did they find this guy? He’s so boring! Wtf? Booooooooo poor girl
It was obvious that she loved him the most during the season. She was crazy about him. He just simply wasn't as crazy about her, and he really hurt her. But oddly, the way the season was edited, it wasn't until the overnight dates that I realized he preferred Susie. He seemed so into Rachel, that I really thought most of the season she would be his pick. If I thought that, I can see why she was confused.
@@Teacupdogz yea the editing this season REALLLLLY made us feel like she was the one. This was just a disastrous season overall but cannot wait for this queen to shine on the bachelorette👏🏾👏🏾
the way he stares at her like a dead, emotionless zombie while she basically rips her heart out of her chest… I wish it was possible to slap someone through a screen
The fact he didn't shed a single tear shows he wasn't in love with nor did he love her. I don't even know her and I'm crying for her, it's heartbreaking to see her pain.
As much as I was rooting for Gabby and how she ended things with Clayton, I much more relate to Rachel. That gut wrenching vulnerability it takes to tell someone you still love them and that they'll regret it is hard to look back on. But with growth, and alot of self love eventually we'll all be Gabbys ♡
Totally agree. She was so genuine and vulnerable in this moment and being able to tell some insensitive jerk you still love them after he treats you like garbage is such a pure and beautiful thing really. She's totally speaking from the heart. Unlike him, she had no ego here and was so genuine. I wish her so much happiness.
That only time that has happened to me was when I was a relationship addict. When I got rid of the codependency that resulted in a lot of anxiety. Not only did the anxiety go away but I was able to just-be-myself! With that, I look back at moments that did hold a lot of shame (which is human) now I process it as humor. I do love that Gabby spoke up for herself but as also happy Susie and Clayton found each other too. Suzie and Clayton needed that break to take a step back.
I honestly think they both handled it incredibly well. Rachel showing that vulnerability and raw emotion is just as powerful as Gabby dropping those hard boundaries. Sometimes growth and self love manifests in being able to openly display your hurt in a respectful, leveled way. Rachel did that and honored how she was feeling with grace.
How is he not sobbing, I'm crying and I don't know the girl. She's too good for him, I hope this doesn't harden her heart. He didn't deserve her love. She articulated it perfectly, he gave her nothing. He didn't fight and I actually think he only wanted Susie when she left.
Rachel, he’s a narcissist and is incapable of loving anybody but himself. I’ve also been there before with someone who is selfish and who only thinks of themselves. Your person is on his way. It may or may not be on The Bachelorette, but you will find each other.
"I'm sorry you feel this way" stfu Clayton, what you needed to say was "I'm sorry I put you through that". Ugh I'm so frustrated. She deserves so much better! What a boy
Rachel is a total sweetheart. You can feel her heart breaking through the screen. Clayton really convinced himself that he actually cared about these women when he only truly cared for himself. He doesn't even have the mental capacity or introspection to admit his wrongs. He will truly regret letting the woman who loved him the most go.
I felt so bad, she was so genuine and you can totally tell she really loved him. In a way I literally never seen before on this show. She expressed her self so well and she literally was the only girl that showed the most emotion towards him, she did love him the most. Even more than Susie tbh. She deserves the best, and ik shes gonna find someone so much better! I love her, she was the most vulnerable which he asked for and then he does that..
This was truly heartbreaking. You can feel her pain through the screen and she continued to fight for him even as he tried to put her in the car!! This is what true love is.
Agree with everything but the last part. It’s not true love. True love is mutual. It’s also not supposed to give so much pain and tears more than happiness.
This is the most heartbreaking break up on here! Even up to the very last second she fought.. she was like you’re REALLY doing this? Youre putting me into this car? She hoped until the last moment he’d choose her. Ugh!!
I think Rachel was seriously hurt by her experience with Clayton. Compare her demeanor now, on the Bachelorette, to what it was when she was with Clayton last season. She does not have that sparkle in her eyes like she used to.
rachel is such a beautiful woman inside and out. i could FEEL the love she had for clayton. she deserves so much better. i really felt clayton and her were going to be it by the end cause their connection was something else, but susie and the illusion of "the chase" that her exit created completely changed everything. clayton just couldn't handle that rejection and strung rachel along in the process. she is very deserving to be the bachelorette and is going to do amazing.
I can totally relate to her. She deserves WAY better. But the fact that he’s just sitting there with no emotion. Blows my mind. When they were walking to the car and she said “you gave up on us” broke my heart.
I think it will haunt him. I honestly think he loved Susie because she was the unattainable one and Susie will leave him. Rachel will be the bachelorette and find love and Clayton will know what he lost.
100% right. The unattainable one for a man is like the hunt. Men are primal they need the hunt. What they can't have they want! She played two smart moves but it won't last cause she will find out he's boring!
When Rachel was expressing her love to Clayton you could feel it through the screen. She's loves hard and I pray that she finds a man who will do the same for her.
She's right he never fought for once it was final 3. I am happy she and Gabby are the next bachelorette but I hate how nonchalant he is. He really does care😞😔
The difference between Rachel and Gabby was that Rachel way more emotionally all in with Clayton and was willing to go to whatever lengths she needed to go to be with him no matter what he said or did. Until here when he shattered her heart into a million pieces. Not that Gabby didn’t love him as much as Rachel but after that fiasco happened at the rose ceremony she was already checked out and it was him smooth talking her and choosing the right words to get her to stay even though she was still not all the way with him.
This girl is in shambles bearing her soul and breaking down and Clayton looks at her blankly…y’all can’t tell me this man loved her. I stab the gabby breakup I would not have given him the time to see me cry cz he doesn’t care. Good luck Susie…blink twice if u need our help sis
Ugh I can remember that feeling of desperation and confusion on how my heart could be wrong when I was so sure…..when you can literally feel your heart breaking.
Susie will figure out that his heart is about 6 inches long and that his words mean nothing. Actions speak much louder than words. This idiot has spent this entire season apologizing to the ladies. Rachel and Gabby have both dodged a bullet. In a few months we will hear about Susie and Clayton's breakup ( or divorce) Clayton has no idea how to love or care for a woman. Clayton needs professional help. God help Susie.
This is why you don’t sleep with someone unless you know they are committed to you only. Clayton had two other ladies in the running for his commitment.
lmao nah, those don't correlate. sex isn't always defined as the end all be all of a relationship or something you share solely with a single person. sure, they probably regret doing it. but they're not at fault for following their hearts. though you do have a point, he had other women in the running and i'm going to assume (i haven't seen all the bacehlor/bachelorettes) it's common for multiple fantasy suites? i dunno. i guess for me it's the importance of knowing what you had with the other person and not letting someone else define what you guys held specia. all that being said, this is a clusterfuck. but not because they chose to sleep with him.
@@fableSimmer yes it does women get emotionally attached with sex of course you will say it doesn’t matter as a guy you don’t know how it feels for a woman don’t dismiss or silence her experience. Women shouldn’t sleep with these men that’s why he’s so egotistical now disgusting
@@kitejohnson515 first of all, 5 G's. Second, I'm not dismissing her experience and i'm 100% on her side so don't get it twisted lol. Third, I agree one hundred percent that he's disgusting. What I'm saying is that she has the right to sleep with him if she wants and she SHOULDN'T be blamed for his asshat attitude and making a decision that she felt was right for her in the moment. So what are you on about. I fully support her choice to sleep with him because ,pro choice, and she wanted to! she shouldn't be blamed for it. and she doesn't need to justify it. and there's no such thing as "This is why you don’t sleep with someone unless you know they are committed to you only" because a) that's not the way of the world for everyone and b) every one, regardless of who they are, has the right to decide if they want to and it doesn't always matter about commitment for some. obviously they thought he was committed to them and I don't blame them for that. it's his fault. no one has the right to say what someone shouldn't be doing
@@hillyholly9004 That's what I'm saying lol. I think if you were in this situation, regardless if you're the contestant or bachelorette/bachelor you should be having these conversations with each other before fantasy suites. especially if he was "falling in love" with all three of them.
After watching the Bachelorette tonight I'm seeing the exact same pattern .Clayton will be haunted by letting her go? She has a lot of growing up to do. If he's not INTO you no amount of tears will change any man's mind!
She deserves more than this man could ever give a woman. It's a good thing he chose someone else because she will go on to find someone who really sees her, and he will always be remembered by them as what love shouldn't be and how they shouldn't be treated. He shows 0 emotion
The pain when you finally realize the person you love and have taken care of so deeply, doesn't feel the same, and will never give you the respect and love back, is maybe one of the most heartbreaking of all heartbreaks, you truly feel like you're dying and I relate to Rachel so much at this moment it's so sad to know she's worth so much more and see her fighting for a pos
I truly felt her words. What she was saying was so deep and unfortunately for clayton he can't and will never be able to feel that deeply. Her heart was all in. She deserves someone that will love her as deeply as she loves them.
he says frustration it is heartwrenching sadness, like being cut in a million pieces and then somehow, your heart is still beating, trying with all its might to form your soul and body whole back again, fighting against chaos and overarching madness and excruciating pain to finally have someone taking your heart to rip it in pieces and burn each part of it, little by little as you grieve and scream and yell until there is anything left, just numbness just solitude and then you go home and continue living but nothing will be the same again you become wiser and stronger because you know what agony is, and you survived. Susie God bless you. you will need those blessings.
Most heart breaking thing I've ever seen on this show. She had me in tears. How can he just sit and look at her crying like that & not seem to care. That's not love.
If he was AT ALL in love with her, he wouldn’t have glazed over eyes seeing her emotion here. I wish him and Susie the best. If he could hurt Rachael and Gabby with no emotion, he can do it to Susie too.
I’m a man and I was bawling when she asked him if he’s sure he wants to put her in the limo on their way out. That’s when i realized how hurt this woman was and how deeply in love she was with him. Wish you the best Rachel! I wish I was on your season to make it up to you ❤️🌹.
He's so cold...Not even try to console her. Omg he used these women and would of used Susie too had she allowed it. To make them feel so loved and then do this to them but he did them a favor.
Clayton really treated Rachel and Gabby really awful he should’ve ended up alone I hope they both fine love I think Clayton is really an awful person he is not the person I thought he was
Watching this back, I’m pretty sure Clayton never “loved” Gabby or Rachel, he just said that so he wouldn’t come off as a douche for sleeping with both of them while being in love with Susie lmaooo
I can relate to the feeling of desperation and confusion on how can my heart could be wrong when u r so sure. This is even more heart breaking to watch. That girl hoped even on the last moment that Clayton change his mind and wouldn't let her go. She is a diamond.
Saw this for the first time today. Every girl can relate so much to how they fight and fight and what they were fighting for didn’t work out. Thank you Rachel for your vulnerability.
I hope that they'll be able to work it out who they'll date between them so they're not competing for or worse, being played by the same guy again. I wish Taisha and Kaitlyn were hosting instead of Jesse. They're much better at offering support for the bachelorettes.
Watching this, is so heart wrenching. I, however, feel she has dodged a bullet. I am so so frustrated that she wasted her time, energy and emotions on this TERRIBLE EXCUSE FOR A MAN. He is quite simply a COMPLETE ARSEHOLE. I absolutely ABHOR and DETEST this so called man, with every vibe in my being. He is possibly even worse than Juan Pablo, and that is saying something. I truly hope that Rachel will recover quickly.
How is he going to tell 3 women he loves them knowing he has to send 2 home? You don’t send a women home when you ‘love’ them. Makes ZERO sense. Also how does he sit there stone faced as she’s crying her eyes out and pouring her soul out? 🤢
Poor Rachel. You can tell she genuinely loved Clayton and how heartbroken 💔 she was and this shows that he never really loved her at all otherwise he would have shown some remorse for hurting her heart. What a sociopath he was he didn’t even show any remorse, nor cried, no sincere empathy, no genuine regrets , nothing. I wished that her father would have smacked the fire out of him. FIRE! This scene has broken me down and made me deadarse heated okay 😭😡
To be perfectly honest with you Clayton's ...don't married the women you loved but get married the women truly she loved you. Love can developed after a while, i beg god to reward her a true gentle man. I can't control my emotions When some one cry i do as we'll...
This really did make me 🥲 she was so into him & he was caught with feeling he didn’t understand was mostly lust, and being lead with the bottom part of this anatomy instead of his ❤️ I wish them both all the best, I just can’t wait for the bachelorette to start tho!
Have some dignity Rachel. DAMN. The begging is sad. If a male tells you he don’t want you, leave with your HEAD HELD HIGH! All that cryin and hollerin as if he cares? Just gonna make u feel worse
Love you Rachel. You are so fortunate to move on from Clayton, who deceived you and was incapable of fighting for you. You are wonderful and deserve only the greatest love.
In Claytons word everything happens for a reason! And that's how these two ladies will now get to be the bachelorette and I hope it will be the experience they expected and than they will understand what Clayton had to go through ...wishing them the Best journey!
Clayton apologizes over and over but continues to hurt women. He is in extreme need of professional support and should absolutely stop getting himself involved with Susie or anyone. He is so unaware of what relationships require in order to be meaningful and successful. I place blame on the producers for not screening out people like Clayton. He caused way too much damage to others.
How can someone fall in love so quick like in 4-6 weeks? What kind of love is that? Like you kidding me? Is that the love u looking for while u know he’s going on dates and sleeping with other women to choose who’s the best for him? This is show is a complete BS to me
I have literally never seen someone more genuinely in love on this show than Rachel was with Clayton. She deserves so much better and I really hope she finds it
Ah…everyone who has ever made it to the final 3 believes they’re really in love.
It’s silly when u think about the actual time that these people have spent together during the laughable 6 week filming schedule.
This is cringey to watch, the way she’s carrying on, it’s like they’re breaking up from a yrs long relationship!
@@cakerbaker9965 lol well said and totally agree, it’s all BS to me
@@cakerbaker9965 That is why I’m saying this.. I rarely believe people fall in love on this show for real. But Rachel is different, so genuine and such a big heart that’s rare to find on TV nowadays
I totally agree. The way she was able to so passionately articulate her feelings and reasons for loving Clayton to his parents and how genuinely heartbroken she seems here feels more intense and genuine than almost anything I’ve seen on the many many seasons of this show I’ve watched. You can also tell that in this moment, her pain is coming from losing him rather hurt about how she’s been mistreated. I’m glad she got to express her anger about that part on AFR cause those feelings are also very warranted.
Well she sure recovered from the devastation quickly bc she’s one of the next 2 Bachelorettes.
You can tell she really loved him. It was genuine for her. She's great and will find a man who cherishes her and respects her. So many women can relate to her in this moment. Giving everything you have to an emotionally immature and emotionally broken man who breaks your heart. Wow.
Felt so bad for her. He’ll realize one day.
Emotionally immature? Try emotionally *selfish* He never told them Suzie was his 1st choice & then allowed them to stay or not knowing that. Not cool is an understatement 😡
It seemed like she was the only one truly into him the entire season.
welp she doesnt.
Too bad she didn’t AYOOO
The fact that Clayton could not even shed one tear and was just stone cold to her while she’s breaking down and in tears, you can tell he was never truly in love with her
I agree - in other seasons you always see the leads get distraught and upset when they are sending their runner ups home & often in those seasons the lead hasn't even said that he or she loves them but he's told them both he loves them but still has no emotion letting them go. I'm really confused.
He didn’t even pretend to care 💀 he was just utterly obsessed with Susie, that’s all he really cared about.
@@michaelacaleb7919 Who wouldn't be
He just didn’t even look like he acknowledged how she felt. It’s almost like he was looking through her. It seemed like he just wanted her to hurry up and finish talking so he could leave.
I don’t even watch this show anymore, my tv has a Walmart antennae- yet here I am on RUclips at 12:10am…where did they find this guy? He’s so boring! Wtf? Booooooooo poor girl
She really did not deserve this at all. Even though he loved Susie the most, She loved HIM the most..
Exactly my thoughts, you can tell she loved him the most
TRUEEEEE
It was obvious that she loved him the most during the season. She was crazy about him. He just simply wasn't as crazy about her, and he really hurt her. But oddly, the way the season was edited, it wasn't until the overnight dates that I realized he preferred Susie. He seemed so into Rachel, that I really thought most of the season she would be his pick. If I thought that, I can see why she was confused.
@@Teacupdogz yea the editing this season REALLLLLY made us feel like she was the one. This was just a disastrous season overall but cannot wait for this queen to shine on the bachelorette👏🏾👏🏾
Agree 10000%. She was crazy about this guy. More than the other 2 girls.
the way he stares at her like a dead, emotionless zombie while she basically rips her heart out of her chest… I wish it was possible to slap someone through a screen
Aw why does it matter? He's listening like a gentleman. What more expectation do you expect from men.
The fact he didn't shed a single tear shows he wasn't in love with nor did he love her. I don't even know her and I'm crying for her, it's heartbreaking to see her pain.
Clayton was only in lust after the ladies. Clayton doesn't know what love is.
Rachael will be good his lost he will get what he deserve
exactly
DEE ..MEN DONT CRY..WE DONT HAVE THAT GENE..SOWWY BUT ITS TRUE
@@leelunk8235 Well this man had no trouble crying for himself when he lost Susie so...
As much as I was rooting for Gabby and how she ended things with Clayton, I much more relate to Rachel. That gut wrenching vulnerability it takes to tell someone you still love them and that they'll regret it is hard to look back on. But with growth, and alot of self love eventually we'll all be Gabbys ♡
Totally agree. She was so genuine and vulnerable in this moment and being able to tell some insensitive jerk you still love them after he treats you like garbage is such a pure and beautiful thing really. She's totally speaking from the heart. Unlike him, she had no ego here and was so genuine. I wish her so much happiness.
That only time that has happened to me was when I was a relationship addict. When I got rid of the codependency that resulted in a lot of anxiety. Not only did the anxiety go away but I was able to just-be-myself! With that, I look back at moments that did hold a lot of shame (which is human) now I process it as humor. I do love that Gabby spoke up for herself but as also happy Susie and Clayton found each other too. Suzie and Clayton needed that break to take a step back.
This was heavy. Great comment.
He messed up badly. She was the one for him.
I honestly think they both handled it incredibly well. Rachel showing that vulnerability and raw emotion is just as powerful as Gabby dropping those hard boundaries. Sometimes growth and self love manifests in being able to openly display your hurt in a respectful, leveled way. Rachel did that and honored how she was feeling with grace.
How is he not sobbing, I'm crying and I don't know the girl. She's too good for him, I hope this doesn't harden her heart. He didn't deserve her love. She articulated it perfectly, he gave her nothing. He didn't fight and I actually think he only wanted Susie when she left.
Didn't have to cry to have regret and know he was full of shit
Yes I thinks so too. He only wanted Susie when she left. I thought Rachel was the one the whole time.
@@Lol-ru1si same exact thought
Because he is the loved one in this relationship so he is not the one in pain. The lover is in pain. ALWAYS
Rachel, he’s a narcissist and is incapable of loving anybody but himself. I’ve also been there before with someone who is selfish and who only thinks of themselves. Your person is on his way. It may or may not be on The Bachelorette, but you will find each other.
"I'm sorry you feel this way" stfu Clayton, what you needed to say was "I'm sorry I put you through that". Ugh I'm so frustrated. She deserves so much better! What a boy
He did she didn't wanna hear like she said she doesn't believe shit come out his mouth
She truly has a heart of gold and was way too good for him. Hope she finds her person next season of The Bachelorette
At the same time, Rachel is going to look back and realized this microwaved relationship and she was gullible.
I don’t know he didn’t pick Rachel.
Right
Susie is also too good for him. Everyone is too good for him.
Idk Im thinking Shenae might be evil/gross enough for him
Rachel is a total sweetheart. You can feel her heart breaking through the screen. Clayton really convinced himself that he actually cared about these women when he only truly cared for himself. He doesn't even have the mental capacity or introspection to admit his wrongs. He will truly regret letting the woman who loved him the most go.
If he chose Rachel, he'd break up with Rachel the same way Arie broke up with Becca, simply because of the existence of Susie.
I’m so sad for her in this moment but she deserves so much better than him. He’s a toad. She’s a gem and will find someone worthy of her.
I felt so bad, she was so genuine and you can totally tell she really loved him. In a way I literally never seen before on this show. She expressed her self so well and she literally was the only girl that showed the most emotion towards him, she did love him the most. Even more than Susie tbh. She deserves the best, and ik shes gonna find someone so much better! I love her, she was the most vulnerable which he asked for and then he does that..
I agree she truly loved him the most
I can see he was truly as already broken to begin with.
I feel so bad for her, even the way she cries, I felt for her. Clayton is the absolute worst. He makes Peter look like a saint.
The truth is Susie was always his number 1.
This was truly heartbreaking. You can feel her pain through the screen and she continued to fight for him even as he tried to put her in the car!! This is what true love is.
Literallyyyy I cried for her
Agree with everything but the last part. It’s not true love. True love is mutual. It’s also not supposed to give so much pain and tears more than happiness.
That feeling when you’re heartbroken by someone you fought so hard for and never gave up on but they don’t feel the same. I feel that
Clayton is totally dead behind the eyes. Zero feeling.
He did the exact same deadpan look to Gabby and Susie too.
This is the most heartbreaking break up on here! Even up to the very last second she fought.. she was like you’re REALLY doing this? Youre putting me into this car? She hoped until the last moment he’d choose her. Ugh!!
Delusional
I think Rachel was seriously hurt by her experience with Clayton. Compare her demeanor now, on the Bachelorette, to what it was when she was with Clayton last season. She does not have that sparkle in her eyes like she used to.
rachel is such a beautiful woman inside and out. i could FEEL the love she had for clayton. she deserves so much better. i really felt clayton and her were going to be it by the end cause their connection was something else, but susie and the illusion of "the chase" that her exit created completely changed everything. clayton just couldn't handle that rejection and strung rachel along in the process. she is very deserving to be the bachelorette and is going to do amazing.
Susie was always his number 1. He had soul ties with Rachel and Gabby and that is why he kept them around.
I’m on Rachel and Gabby’s side. They deserve the best Clayton doesn’t he’s a fool and this season was a flop
The sad part is, this won't even haunt him. He doesn't care
She didn't know he yelled it to Gabby too. Feel so bad for her
Dam, she's a diamond! She deserves the best! Hope she finds a great guy and someone who will give everything for her like she does for her man.
I can totally relate to her. She deserves WAY better. But the fact that he’s just sitting there with no emotion. Blows my mind. When they were walking to the car and she said “you gave up on us” broke my heart.
My heart goes out to Rachel. She definitely was there for the right reasons.
My heart broke for this girl! She deserves someone to love her!
Yes, everyone does
I think it will haunt him. I honestly think he loved Susie because she was the unattainable one and Susie will
leave him. Rachel will be the bachelorette and find love and Clayton will know what he lost.
100% right. The unattainable one for a man is like the hunt. Men are primal they need the hunt. What they can't have they want! She played two smart moves but it won't last cause she will find out he's boring!
Damn when she said “are you really about to put me in this car “…😭💔
That part was so sad😭
@@dreaa9399 and the fact that her parents saw this but it worked out now she’s gonna get her happy ending ❤️
She loved him more than he loved her. Always pick the man that loves you more than you love him
When Rachel was expressing her love to Clayton you could feel it through the screen. She's loves hard and I pray that she finds a man who will do the same for her.
Watching her basically beg him to not let her walk away was so sad to watch and to see him basically not even care was crazy
She seems really sweet. I hope she finds what she’s looking for on her season with Gabby
Rachel,it might be hurting now but trust me it's for the best. God rescued you from a Trainwreck.
He doesn't deserve any of them I hope he stays alone he needs to grow up
He had months to do that hopefully he did
Men like these don’t ever grow up they’re always looking and searching for a bigger better thing
My God, he doesn't deserve her tears. Now she is going to make me cry too.
She's right he never fought for once it was final 3. I am happy she and Gabby are the next bachelorette but I hate how nonchalant he is. He really does care😞😔
He really doesn't care.
The difference between Rachel and Gabby was that Rachel way more emotionally all in with Clayton and was willing to go to whatever lengths she needed to go to be with him no matter what he said or did. Until here when he shattered her heart into a million pieces. Not that Gabby didn’t love him as much as Rachel but after that fiasco happened at the rose ceremony she was already checked out and it was him smooth talking her and choosing the right words to get her to stay even though she was still not all the way with him.
He has no empathy or compassion for her pain. His words are empty. You may not love her but man, console her.
This girl is in shambles bearing her soul and breaking down and Clayton looks at her blankly…y’all can’t tell me this man loved her. I stab the gabby breakup I would not have given him the time to see me cry cz he doesn’t care. Good luck Susie…blink twice if u need our help sis
*stan
Whoa, this is first time I cried watching a scene from the bachelor.. that was actually heart breaking to watch😭
My first time too.
Ugh I can remember that feeling of desperation and confusion on how my heart could be wrong when I was so sure…..when you can literally feel your heart breaking.
Rachel and her family are the most genuine seen in a long tome
Crazy to see how she is today. she is hardened. She would never cry like that for a guy again I don't think.
Susie will figure out that his heart is about 6 inches long and that his words mean nothing.
Actions speak much louder than words.
This idiot has spent this entire season apologizing to the ladies.
Rachel and Gabby have both dodged a bullet.
In a few months we will hear about Susie and Clayton's breakup ( or divorce)
Clayton has no idea how to love or care for a woman.
Clayton needs professional help.
God help Susie.
Didn't people say the same about Matt James?
@@donzee6624 yep didn't age well
This is why you don’t sleep with someone unless you know they are committed to you only. Clayton had two other ladies in the running for his commitment.
To be fair, you totally can. But both of you need to know what's going on. The problem wasnt the sex, the problems were the lies.
lmao nah, those don't correlate. sex isn't always defined as the end all be all of a relationship or something you share solely with a single person. sure, they probably regret doing it. but they're not at fault for following their hearts. though you do have a point, he had other women in the running and i'm going to assume (i haven't seen all the bacehlor/bachelorettes) it's common for multiple fantasy suites? i dunno. i guess for me it's the importance of knowing what you had with the other person and not letting someone else define what you guys held specia.
all that being said, this is a clusterfuck. but not because they chose to sleep with him.
@@fableSimmer yes it does women get emotionally attached with sex of course you will say it doesn’t matter as a guy you don’t know how it feels for a woman don’t dismiss or silence her experience. Women shouldn’t sleep with these men that’s why he’s so egotistical now disgusting
@@kitejohnson515 first of all, 5 G's. Second, I'm not dismissing her experience and i'm 100% on her side so don't get it twisted lol. Third, I agree one hundred percent that he's disgusting.
What I'm saying is that she has the right to sleep with him if she wants and she SHOULDN'T be blamed for his asshat attitude and making a decision that she felt was right for her in the moment.
So what are you on about. I fully support her choice to sleep with him because ,pro choice, and she wanted to! she shouldn't be blamed for it. and she doesn't need to justify it.
and there's no such thing as "This is why you don’t sleep with someone unless you know they are committed to you only" because a) that's not the way of the world for everyone and b) every one, regardless of who they are, has the right to decide if they want to and it doesn't always matter about commitment for some. obviously they thought he was committed to them and I don't blame them for that. it's his fault.
no one has the right to say what someone shouldn't be doing
@@hillyholly9004 That's what I'm saying lol. I think if you were in this situation, regardless if you're the contestant or bachelorette/bachelor you should be having these conversations with each other before fantasy suites. especially if he was "falling in love" with all three of them.
It was obvious he was into Rachel until Susie decide to leave him. He loved Susie because she left. He just caught up on the one that got away
poor baby :( i hope she finds love being the bachelorette. she is such an angel
After watching the Bachelorette tonight I'm seeing the exact same pattern .Clayton will be haunted by letting her go? She has a lot of growing up to do. If he's not INTO you no amount of tears will change any man's mind!
The only way I can handle seeing this is because I've also seen how happy she was in the end with Gabby and the announcement
She deserves more than this man could ever give a woman. It's a good thing he chose someone else because she will go on to find someone who really sees her, and he will always be remembered by them as what love shouldn't be and how they shouldn't be treated. He shows 0 emotion
The pain when you finally realize the person you love and have taken care of so deeply, doesn't feel the same, and will never give you the respect and love back, is maybe one of the most heartbreaking of all heartbreaks, you truly feel like you're dying and I relate to Rachel so much at this moment it's so sad to know she's worth so much more and see her fighting for a pos
just her crying alone breaks my heart love rachel
I truly felt her words. What she was saying was so deep and unfortunately for clayton he can't and will never be able to feel that deeply. Her heart was all in. She deserves someone that will love her as deeply as she loves them.
he says frustration
it is heartwrenching sadness, like being cut in a million pieces and
then somehow, your heart is still beating, trying with all its might to form your soul and body whole back again, fighting against chaos and overarching madness and excruciating pain
to finally have someone taking your heart to rip it in pieces and burn each part of it, little by little as you grieve and scream and yell until there is anything left,
just numbness
just solitude
and then you go home
and continue living
but nothing will be the same again
you become wiser and stronger because you know what agony is, and you survived.
Susie God bless you. you will need those blessings.
Most heart breaking thing I've ever seen on this show. She had me in tears. How can he just sit and look at her crying like that & not seem to care. That's not love.
Girl, if he's ready to let you go - he aint worth fightin for
Yep
I'm such an empath that I could never look at someone crying and not at least get teary eyed myself.
I literally cried myself to sleep after watching that. My heart broke for Rachel.
@@steph6453 Even if I have never met the person in my life, I'll be there crying like it happened to me.
If he was AT ALL in love with her, he wouldn’t have glazed over eyes seeing her emotion here. I wish him and Susie the best. If he could hurt Rachael and Gabby with no emotion, he can do it to Susie too.
No daughter should go through this 😢
His parents look so embarrassed
I think those were Rachel's parents. Right? Did they show his too? I missed it if they did.
They should be.
I’m a man and I was bawling when she asked him if he’s sure he wants to put her in the limo on their way out. That’s when i realized how hurt this woman was and how deeply in love she was with him. Wish you the best Rachel! I wish I was on your season to make it up to you ❤️🌹.
So happy he and Susie didn’t work out either
All of these women saw through his little boy ways
This hurts so bad. He showed no remorse to her. He's not ready to be a husband and him and Susie won't last long
He's so cold...Not even try to console her. Omg he used these women and would of used Susie too had she allowed it. To make them feel so loved and then do this to them but he did them a favor.
Clayton really treated Rachel and Gabby really awful he should’ve ended up alone I hope they both fine love I think Clayton is really an awful person he is not the person I thought he was
Tbh, he really wanted the one that looked the most like Barbie.
@@Christina-pv5yq really
@@martychambers8927 really tho.
He does not understand at all, it's very hard to watch that much pain and heartbreak
Watching this back, I’m pretty sure Clayton never “loved” Gabby or Rachel, he just said that so he wouldn’t come off as a douche for sleeping with both of them while being in love with Susie lmaooo
I can relate to the feeling of desperation and confusion on how can my heart could be wrong when u r so sure. This is even more heart breaking to watch. That girl hoped even on the last moment that Clayton change his mind and wouldn't let her go.
She is a diamond.
It would kill me to have to watch my daughter get heartbroken like Rachels parents did💔
this guy is the absolute worst
Saw this for the first time today. Every girl can relate so much to how they fight and fight and what they were fighting for didn’t work out. Thank you Rachel for your vulnerability.
I could feel her pain. This was real heartbreak for her. I can’t wait to see her and gabby shine. They will hopefully find much better than him.
I literally have no watched one episode of this season and I’m over here sobbing how isnt he??
The way Rachel was me in my last relationship. Hits home for sure
Omg. I hate this guy so much. He has no emotion at all. He does not deserve you Rachel!!!
He's like, yep definitely made the right decision!!
They’re all in a better place now. Unfortunately, the 2 girls may find themselves loving the same man, yet again.
I hope that they'll be able to work it out who they'll date between them so they're not competing for or worse, being played by the same guy again. I wish Taisha and Kaitlyn were hosting instead of Jesse. They're much better at offering support for the bachelorettes.
I’m weeping 😭 mascara everywhere! I feel her pain!!!!
Watching this, is so heart wrenching. I, however, feel she has dodged a bullet.
I am so so frustrated that she wasted her time, energy and emotions on this TERRIBLE EXCUSE FOR A MAN. He is quite simply a COMPLETE ARSEHOLE. I absolutely ABHOR and DETEST this so called man, with every vibe in my being. He is possibly even worse than Juan Pablo, and that is saying something. I truly hope that Rachel will recover quickly.
Wow the total lack of emotion on his face when she is sobbing is I think the worst part
she feels so beautifully
How is he going to tell 3 women he loves them knowing he has to send 2 home? You don’t send a women home when you ‘love’ them. Makes ZERO sense. Also how does he sit there stone faced as she’s crying her eyes out and pouring her soul out? 🤢
Cause he wasn't thinking and made a mistake he said
Rachel was honest and lovely every step of the way, and he will always be nothing more than a total choad.
This is heart wrenching. Her love is genuine.
Poor Rachel. You can tell she genuinely loved Clayton and how heartbroken 💔 she was and this shows that he never really loved her at all otherwise he would have shown some remorse for hurting her heart.
What a sociopath he was he didn’t even show any remorse, nor cried, no sincere empathy, no genuine regrets , nothing.
I wished that her father would have smacked the fire out of him. FIRE! This scene has broken me down and made me deadarse heated okay 😭😡
Clayton looks like his voice puts his face to sleep
omg that’s the perfect way to describe how soulless he always looks
This breakup was as emotional to me as Desiree and Brooks. Because Desiree cried almost the same with so much pain. Those were real tears.
I think it was worse than Desiree and Brooks and worse than Becca and Blake
To be perfectly honest with you Clayton's ...don't married the women you loved but get married the women truly she loved you. Love can developed after a while, i beg god to reward her a true gentle man. I can't control my emotions
When some one cry i do as we'll...
This really did make me 🥲 she was so into him & he was caught with feeling he didn’t understand was mostly lust, and being lead with the bottom part of this anatomy instead of his ❤️ I wish them both all the best, I just can’t wait for the bachelorette to start tho!
“Can I just give you a hug and say goodbye?” Boy bye
Have some dignity Rachel. DAMN. The begging is sad. If a male tells you he don’t want you, leave with your HEAD HELD HIGH! All that cryin and hollerin as if he cares? Just gonna make u feel worse
Awww I genuinely feel heartbroken for Rachel. I believe her love for him. But she deserves someone that loves her more than Clayton does. poor girl
Damn I felt her pain. I don't know what I would do if my husband didn't love me back. I can't imagine my life without him
Love you Rachel. You are so fortunate to move on from Clayton, who deceived you and was incapable of fighting for you. You are wonderful and deserve only the greatest love.
These dads want to punch Clayton in the face
In Claytons word everything happens for a reason! And that's how these two ladies will now get to be the bachelorette and I hope it will be the experience they expected and than they will understand what Clayton had to go through ...wishing them the Best journey!
Although watching this back again is heartbreaking, can I just say her hairstyle is to die for!
Clayton apologizes over and over but continues to hurt women. He is in extreme need of professional support and should absolutely stop getting himself involved with Susie or anyone. He is so unaware of what relationships require in order to be meaningful and successful. I place blame on the producers for not screening out people like Clayton. He caused way too much damage to others.
How can someone fall in love so quick like in 4-6 weeks? What kind of love is that? Like you kidding me? Is that the love u looking for while u know he’s going on dates and sleeping with other women to choose who’s the best for him? This is show is a complete BS to me