Meshida: my ex got married.... i am going to get high and screw that bitch online.... Me: laughing 😂 every single second.... even marriage is a factory line 😂😂😂 Dude change your name “Honest Japanese man MESHIDA”
@Meshida. You said that your gf dumps you because you quit your job. That is called hypergamy. She only see you as a walking talking ATM(automated teller machine). I am also not interested in getting married. Cheers to us Bachelors 🍻
totally TRUE. My girlfriend dumped me just for planning the wedding. It got awkward When the topic War about the dowry. She practically wanted my entire savings for herself. Ramen 🙏
i worked in the japanese wedding industry as a videographer for 3 years, and it is VERY commercialized up to the point 2 ceremonies back to back at the same venue at the same day. Its like you paid 3-5million yen just to rent the place for 4 hours and do the same as everyone else did. Dont listen to the staff that said we tailored the menu the flowers just for you, NO, they say this to everyone who approach them.
There are way more than 2 ceremonies in bigger places. I have been to a place where the “chapel” had several restaurants attached, so there were a ceremony in every 30 min(!).
My experience has been quite different. Aunt's wedding was Shinto and she wasn't leaving, husband was adopted into family. Her son's wedding was Buddhist, since he is a priest. (Buddhist weddings are rare in Japan). Sister's wedding did have multiple dress changes and a 10' high wedding cake for 600+ guests though much was show for the TV stations. Luckily, I have been exempt from donating to costs as a "yabanjin" (foreign barbarian).
I married in Japan, it was a nice wedding. My only requests was that with the rental kimono came a katana. The nice lady from the rental shop never charged us for the use of the sword but now I need the exact same sword for the annual family photo book.
Your grandma was so funny! I can't get enough of her 'Amen'. 🤣🤣🤣 Ramen🤣🤣🤣. It reminds me of a video clip I saw of the English translation of Janken, じゃん拳. It went like 'Rock - Paper - Jesus' 😂😂😂😂
If I'll ever get married again (I don't think so, you know "The burnt child dreads the fire.") I would like to hire you as a fake christian priest 🤣 You're really great, keep up the good work and stay safe and healthy 😊
Maeda-san I've learned a lot about the dark sides of Japanese culture. Thanks for educating people about Japanese culture. Your videos are so entertaining. I'm looking forward on your next video. Keep it up.☝️☝️☝️
@@raventv9826 Me too! I will try to google it. But if you or anyone else has some tips…? Full disclosure: I am French and American, raised Roman Catholic (Dominican Order), and have been living in Japan for close to 25 years.
I have found it so strange when I go to the cinema here in Japan that there are so many commercials for wedding companies... like almost as many of those advertisements as trailers for upcoming movies. Its crazy.
Very good video! I’m in a similar boat, 31 and not married and for the most part happy about it. I’ve had married people tell me not to even bother with it XD
OMG! Now I'm gonna have to go through all your material. You are hilarious! Got a new sub in me Thanks 4 making me laugh mate. God Knows I needed it. 😘
I have know all this "culture" since 1999-2001 when I work in Japan. A chapel near the hotel, and/or a big banquet auditorium. The nicer the chapel decoration, the more booking you might get. Very commercialize. There is nothing bad about whatever a person chooses. A building does not symbolize happy-ever-after or marriage perfection, but whoever wish to believe so, it is their own rights/believes.
Hey, Japanese wedding is pretty cheap compared to Indian weddings in front of average country income. It's starts with ₹500,000 to the limit of family. And Indian weddings are a lot fun. Atleast 10 different kinds of rituals/ceremony and wedding lasts for 15 days atleast including all rituals and ceremony.
@@ranvir.learner It's not fun for an introvert you biased ignorant fellow. So if you're the groom you serve guests all 15 days? Crazy. Otherwise why do you care if you're just a guest? You don't have to attend at all unlike the couple.
@@slaiyfershin listen, I don't know about your wedding culture but in India. It's different because you can't be an introvert in 99.99% cases. Most of the peoples who will be with you from first day to last will be your very close relatives like your aunt, your small family, cousin.
@@slaiyfershin other less close relative will arrive 1 or 2 days before the wedding. (I am talking about marriage in Indian Villages especially in Bihar.) Those people will help you to do other stuffs.
@@slaiyfershin I am quite confused now please read articles about indian wedding if you want to know more cause I realised that I am not an expert in it.
Maybe the Nippon wedding is not so boring after its finished?? I was working and sleeping in the intercontinental hotel in Yokohama and there was a wedding ceremony... after there was many many love noise from many of the room all night long :-)
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I love your humor and jokes!😄😄😄 You always made my day! What a blessing!🤗🤗🤗 DATING IS PARADISE AND HEAVEN! (Just companionship, traveling, and shopping!)🤗🤗🤗 MARRIAGE IS HE'LL! ( hard to find a suitable partner)🤔🤔🤔 (Divorced 3 times)!😊🤗😊 Thank you you for sharing! Please take care and always be safe! 😊😊😊
Hahahahah! This was the first video of yours I watched and it was super funny and interesting. I see that most of your videos have a bit of a different topic in common, haha, but as a curious old auntie I'll watch them too. You seem very smart, doing videos in English lets you reach people all around the world (Italy here). I think if you do other ones about unusual traditions or habits in your country, your funny take will make them super enjoyable. I didn't know about the fake Christian thing and "ramen" had me laughing aloud! I'm subscribing 👍
Curiosity: Speaking of marriage..... Did you know that Japanese Prime Minister Fumio Kishida got married in an arranged marriage? He didn't marry for love and his isn't a romantic marriage. The arranged marriage isn't a forced marriage on the part of his family or his wife's family but is due to social (in favor of ties between the two families and tightening family ties and bringing economic well-being between the two families) and cultural factors (man must be married and take care of the family) and it is a marriage driven and brought about by social pressure that has an idea of a man in which at a certain age he must be married. In an arranged marriage between the two families, the future groom or bride can accept or reject the candidate, the interested party cannot choose his future husband or bride alone. Male or female children are in these arranged marriages "sacrificed" for the good of their own family and the spouse's family. Arranged marriages serve to avoid pregnancies outside of marriage, to control the sexuality of children even in adulthood and to avoid illicit relationships (not approved by parents and society), they are more stable and have a low rate of separation and divorce.
It seems to foreigners that Japanese people are religious because they are cultural and traditional, but in reality their spirituality is pretty much agnostic, not necessarily having personal relationship with God. This is why the Bible says, "Faith without work is Dead" and requires personal declaration that God exists and present inside our heart. We do this by practicing baptism.
What happened a century ago and anticipated the banns of marriage (Marriage banns serve to inform the community of the couple's intention to marry, allowing anyone with knowledge of possible legal impediments to the marriage to lodge an objection.) Weddings: what happens if someone objects during the ceremony? "Whoever has something to say, speak now or remain silent forever", this phrase is at the center of the plots of many films. What is at the origin of its entry into marriage rites? When tradition made sense A century ago, the reasons for celebrating a wedding had very little to do with love. And legality was a concept excluded from the thought of marriage. Before the 16th century, marriages were arranged and treated as contracts between two families. This changed in 1549, when the Church of England presented the first “Book of Common Prayer” and included the phrase “speak now or forever hold your peace” as an integral part of the wedding liturgy. The origin of the phrase The phrase “speak now or forever remain silent” was inserted to protect the marriage contract. It was a sort of guarantee to protect incestuous or problematic marriages. For example, if a father was unable to pay the agreed upon dowry, the question gave the groom's family the opportunity to intervene. The statement could also be used to doubt the bride's virginity, when virginity was a fundamental requirement of marriage. Around the 18th century, the Roman Catholic and Anglican churches promulgated banns of marriage. Through publications, the Church announced, approximately three weeks before the ceremony, the couple's intention to marry. This did not replace the fateful sentence, but was intended as an attempt to manage the "appeals" before the wedding.
What do you think about Japanese wedding celemonies?
Please write down your comments!!!!
Meshida: my ex got married.... i am going to get high and screw that bitch online....
Me: laughing 😂 every single second.... even marriage is a factory line 😂😂😂
Dude change your name
“Honest Japanese man MESHIDA”
For real, is there any facts on this? Or just jokes? Haha
im surprised that christian's consumerism wedding is happening in japanese society just to speak "ramen"
@@rexmalabanan9245 R-AMEN 🤣😂😂😂
@Meshida. You said that your gf dumps you because you quit your job. That is called hypergamy. She only see you as a walking talking ATM(automated teller machine).
I am also not interested in getting married.
Cheers to us Bachelors 🍻
😂 “Number 1 cause of divorce is the wedding” , this is profound in sooo many ways!!
totally TRUE.
My girlfriend dumped me just for planning the wedding. It got awkward When the topic War about the dowry. She practically wanted my entire savings for herself.
Ramen 🙏
It's one of the causes of divorce in Malaysia too 😅 Spent so much just to get divorced
It is like "cause of deaths is births".
Been married and divorced: can confirm this is true. If we never had a wedding we never would have gotten divorced. 1/10 would not recommend.
i worked in the japanese wedding industry as a videographer for 3 years, and it is VERY commercialized up to the point 2 ceremonies back to back at the same venue at the same day. Its like you paid 3-5million yen just to rent the place for 4 hours and do the same as everyone else did. Dont listen to the staff that said we tailored the menu the flowers just for you, NO, they say this to everyone who approach them.
There are way more than 2 ceremonies in bigger places. I have been to a place where the “chapel” had several restaurants attached, so there were a ceremony in every 30 min(!).
My experience has been quite different. Aunt's wedding was Shinto and she wasn't leaving, husband was adopted into family. Her son's wedding was Buddhist, since he is a priest. (Buddhist weddings are rare in Japan). Sister's wedding did have multiple dress changes and a 10' high wedding cake for 600+ guests though much was show for the TV stations. Luckily, I have been exempt from donating to costs as a "yabanjin" (foreign barbarian).
One of the few perks of being a barbarian lol
We need more comedians like you! 😂
😂🤣😆🤩. Greetings from Scotland, your sarcasm is approaching British levels 👍🏻
arigato!!
OMG this is extremely funny! I watched it multiple times. Awesome content delivered in a very entertaining way. Thanks ^_^
Thanks a lot!!!!!
My new favorite channel. This is such great comedy. I love every minute of it
The 'Ramen' got me🤣🤣 I'm a fan from Kenya in Africa🙂
Wow!!! Thanks a lot from Tokyo!!
You got me 🤣🤣🤷♀️
I really love your videos as much as I love your honesty.
you are in a class of your own👍🏼 i love your stuff👏🏼
You have great sense of humor Meshida.
I like your videos.
One day you will become a very big youtuber
Man you’re hilarious!, this shit is so funny and so true
Thanks!!!
@@Meshida what in japan .the mixture religion or non religious?
@@ardibarrudin1880 shintoism is the majority religion
I married in Japan, it was a nice wedding. My only requests was that with the rental kimono came a katana. The nice lady from the rental shop never charged us for the use of the sword but now I need the exact same sword for the annual family photo book.
Wow, that's interesting.
You rented sword for free!! That's awesome!!!!
Your grandma was so funny! I can't get enough of her 'Amen'. 🤣🤣🤣 Ramen🤣🤣🤣. It reminds me of a video clip I saw of the English translation of Janken, じゃん拳. It went like 'Rock - Paper - Jesus' 😂😂😂😂
Excellent and very funny. Thank you very much 🎉😂
Dude, you're hilarious 🤣
Subbed
I was cracking up at you saying "even if he looks like a slave" 😂
Wow! Thanks!!
This was very hilarious , interesting and knowledgeable
Thank you I enjoyed it 👍
thanks!
I love the way you deliver the information.
Love the videos, want to know more about Japan.
=)
WOW!!! An eye opener, thanks for the revelations!!! You are GREEEAAAATTTT!!!
don't worry. we're all married to your channel
If I'll ever get married again (I don't think so, you know "The burnt child dreads the fire.") I would like to hire you as a fake christian priest 🤣
You're really great, keep up the good work and stay safe and healthy 😊
thanks!
This is the funniest of Michido’s videos I’ve seen so far 😂🤣😅
Maeda-san I've learned a lot about the dark sides of Japanese culture. Thanks for educating people about Japanese culture. Your videos are so entertaining. I'm looking forward on your next video. Keep it up.☝️☝️☝️
So funny 😆 you made my day. Thank you very much🙏🏻
Everything is fake, even their love
me : 🤔😮🤣
I learned so many things from this vid. 🤣🤣🤣 btw, I love the way you delivered the information. It is hilarious and soo entertaining 🤣🤣🤣
If I was not already married, I would absolutely be interested! Good video, I laughed so much.
LOL Everything he says is FACTS and it's funny AF.
Lol. Thanks for your video. It's my first time watching your video and know this about Japanese wedding
thanks a lot!
You’re so funny ! And so right about the virgin road! 😅😰🥶
Awesome, truly awesome.
Thanks for your efforts.
I think this is the funniest one ever!
Ramen!😂😂 I'll say that in church next time!
😂😂 Thumbs up!!! Had so much fun.. "Ramen."
Zamen!
Virgin road jock cought me off guard man 🤣🤣🤣
I've done the priest thing. Basically, you're an actor in someone else's dumb fantasy. I've got better fantasies to run with.....
Wow!!! Ramen!!
Brother can u hook me up for the job?
I wanna/am going to go to study abroad in 2, 5 years for a semester.
Would be the ultimate sidehussle
@@raventv9826 Me too! I will try to google it. But if you or anyone else has some tips…? Full disclosure: I am French and American, raised Roman Catholic (Dominican Order), and have been living in Japan for close to 25 years.
@@tellyintokyo hmm... so you are happy to disrespect God and sacrament od matrimony just for money? Is Christianity a joke for you?
@@rozaogrodowa8686 everything is a joke in the West
The funny part jesus said who are you 😬😬😅😅
Arigato!
I love this guy. He is hilarious!
The virgin road cracked me up hahahaha
Too funny seems like I'm crazy laughing alone while watching this
I love your comedy!
😊 Thx for sharing ..Wedding Ceremonies are SERIOUS - they hv got to be ne
Arigato!!
🤣🤣🤣that was the good one man
Meshida, you're becoming one of my favorites.
thanks!
Thank you for sharing insights 🙏. You cleared my long time question on the Christian custom in japanese marriage.
Hilarious and informative :)
Thanks!
😅🤣😂 May god save their souls "Ramen" pfft... hhahahaha
100% similar to Egypt 😆
thanks!
😂 Dude you are halarious
Dear Meshida-San, what about the gunshot weddings in Japan?
We don't have that culture!
Katana wedding perhaps?😄
Big fan from India... Thanks for information.
Thanks a lot! Big hug from Tokyo!
Haha so funny!! Especially the "fake love" and "ramen".
I would marry you Meshida!I love funny cute guys.
Your grandma is a Pastafarian 👍🏻. That's awesome 😀
Mr Ishida
Your video are great
arigato!
Bro literally sacrificed everything for this video. 🤣🤣🤣
I have found it so strange when I go to the cinema here in Japan that there are so many commercials for wedding companies... like almost as many of those advertisements as trailers for upcoming movies. Its crazy.
Nice culture sharing through funny video.. but it really works, thanks dude!
Thanks! Your kind comment made my day!!!
3 million yen??? 😱 That's 5x more expensive than the usual weddings in our country!
R-Amen destroyed me. Brilliant!
Classic comments, Meshida-san. Love the comment about the couple cheating on their gods, before cheating on each other.
Good one!!
Very good video! I’m in a similar boat, 31 and not married and for the most part happy about it. I’ve had married people tell me not to even bother with it XD
Soooo funny 🤣🤣🤣. I can relate 👍🏻❤️
OMG! Now I'm gonna have to go through all your material. You are hilarious! Got a new sub in me
Thanks 4 making me laugh mate. God Knows I needed it. 😘
Where else can I come and laugh at a Jesus asking “Who the #¥!? are you?” Comedy gold!
Family-"😭Love you soo much😢😙💨byeeebye😁!"👍
You are hilarious 😂
The one night stand got me. 😂
Honeymoon is their one night stand! Hahaha!
cracked me up!! very funny......笑笑
Arigato!
nice vlog
I have know all this "culture" since 1999-2001 when I work in Japan. A chapel near the hotel, and/or a big banquet auditorium. The nicer the chapel decoration, the more booking you might get. Very commercialize.
There is nothing bad about whatever a person chooses. A building does not symbolize happy-ever-after or marriage perfection, but whoever wish to believe so, it is their own rights/believes.
Oh my goodness, that is so true.
hahaha😁
Hey, Japanese wedding is pretty cheap compared to Indian weddings in front of average country income.
It's starts with ₹500,000 to the limit of family. And Indian weddings are a lot fun.
Atleast 10 different kinds of rituals/ceremony and wedding lasts for 15 days atleast including all rituals and ceremony.
@@firstLast-jw7bm But it's a lot of fun. If you are an introvert you can work there to server guests or help in wedding.
@@ranvir.learner It's not fun for an introvert you biased ignorant fellow. So if you're the groom you serve guests all 15 days? Crazy. Otherwise why do you care if you're just a guest? You don't have to attend at all unlike the couple.
@@slaiyfershin listen, I don't know about your wedding culture but in India. It's different because you can't be an introvert in 99.99% cases. Most of the peoples who will be with you from first day to last will be your very close relatives like your aunt, your small family, cousin.
@@slaiyfershin other less close relative will arrive 1 or 2 days before the wedding. (I am talking about marriage in Indian Villages especially in Bihar.) Those people will help you to do other stuffs.
@@slaiyfershin I am quite confused now please read articles about indian wedding if you want to know more cause I realised that I am not an expert in it.
Marrying in chapels is so last millennium. Castles and open air weddings are much more modern.
Hahahah "RAMEN" 2:32
Maybe the Nippon wedding is not so boring after its finished?? I was working and sleeping in the intercontinental hotel in Yokohama and there was a wedding ceremony... after there was many many love noise from many of the room all night long :-)
that's our one night stand!hahaha😁
"And Jesus must also be surprised. Who the f* are you?" 😂😂😂
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
I love your humor and jokes!😄😄😄
You always made my day! What a blessing!🤗🤗🤗
DATING IS PARADISE AND HEAVEN! (Just companionship, traveling, and shopping!)🤗🤗🤗
MARRIAGE IS HE'LL! ( hard to find a suitable partner)🤔🤔🤔
(Divorced 3 times)!😊🤗😊
Thank you you for sharing!
Please take care and always be safe!
😊😊😊
Thanks!
Hilarious as hell.
I'm very surprised 🤣🤣🤣 or may be shocked
Mr Mechida is funny indeed . Pls stay single till you got tired of it.♥️
lol
I'm a Filipino in the Philippines divorce is not allowed.
I see many single filipino mothers on facebook what are you talking about 🙄
Meshida san, maybe you could do videos in japanese one day ? It would be so interesting to hear you talking in japanese !
this is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahahahah! This was the first video of yours I watched and it was super funny and interesting. I see that most of your videos have a bit of a different topic in common, haha, but as a curious old auntie I'll watch them too. You seem very smart, doing videos in English lets you reach people all around the world (Italy here). I think if you do other ones about unusual traditions or habits in your country, your funny take will make them super enjoyable. I didn't know about the fake Christian thing and "ramen" had me laughing aloud! I'm subscribing 👍
Ultimate roast of Japanese weddings!
First thing i thought while he introduced himself: if you had children they would be so cute looking 😊
After the wedding ceremony, it’s Godzilla vs Gamera. Monsters fight!
Very funny when you're talking about god hahahaha
Best video, funny as all hell
Curiosity:
Speaking of marriage.....
Did you know that Japanese Prime Minister Fumio Kishida got married in an arranged marriage?
He didn't marry for love and his isn't a romantic marriage.
The arranged marriage isn't a forced marriage on the part of his family or his wife's family but is due to social (in favor of ties between the two families and tightening family ties and bringing economic well-being between the two families) and cultural factors (man must be married and take care of the family) and it is a marriage driven and brought about by social pressure that has an idea of a man in which at a certain age he must be married.
In an arranged marriage between the two families, the future groom or bride can accept or reject the candidate, the interested party cannot choose his future husband or bride alone.
Male or female children are in these arranged marriages "sacrificed" for the good of their own family and the spouse's family.
Arranged marriages serve to avoid pregnancies outside of marriage, to control the sexuality of children even in adulthood and to avoid illicit relationships (not approved by parents and society), they are more stable and have a low rate of separation and divorce.
You should add one more custom. Give the groom a blindfold and a cigarette.
マレーシアからの愛❤️
Ceremonies are a big pain all over the World 😂
We need more funny people in this serious world
It seems to foreigners that Japanese people are religious because they are cultural and traditional, but in reality their spirituality is pretty much agnostic, not necessarily having personal relationship with God.
This is why the Bible says, "Faith without work is Dead" and requires personal declaration that God exists and present inside our heart. We do this by practicing baptism.
What happened a century ago and anticipated the banns of marriage
(Marriage banns serve to inform the community of the couple's intention to marry, allowing anyone with knowledge of possible legal impediments to the marriage to lodge an objection.)
Weddings: what happens if someone objects during the ceremony?
"Whoever has something to say, speak now or remain silent forever", this phrase is at the center of the plots of many films. What is at the origin of its entry into marriage rites?
When tradition made sense
A century ago, the reasons for celebrating a wedding had very little to do with love. And legality was a concept excluded from the thought of marriage. Before the 16th century, marriages were arranged and treated as contracts between two families. This changed in 1549, when the Church of England presented the first “Book of Common Prayer” and included the phrase “speak now or forever hold your peace” as an integral part of the wedding liturgy.
The origin of the phrase
The phrase “speak now or forever remain silent” was inserted to protect the marriage contract. It was a sort of guarantee to protect incestuous or problematic marriages. For example, if a father was unable to pay the agreed upon dowry, the question gave the groom's family the opportunity to intervene. The statement could also be used to doubt the bride's virginity, when virginity was a fundamental requirement of marriage.
Around the 18th century, the Roman Catholic and Anglican churches promulgated banns of marriage. Through publications, the Church announced, approximately three weeks before the ceremony, the couple's intention to marry. This did not replace the fateful sentence, but was intended as an attempt to manage the "appeals" before the wedding.