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  • @tonytheparamorestan
    @tonytheparamorestan 3 года назад +3446

    Jade is intimidating but like in a way that makes you respect her. She's not an aggressive bully that attacks you for no reason, she's like a bouncer that will punch you only if you go too far

    • @liz4652
      @liz4652 3 года назад +52

      She definitely made me sit a little straighter in my seat

    • @holymoly9903
      @holymoly9903 3 года назад +39

      She kinda feels safe in a way as she is straightforward which makes her kinda trustworthy. Like she is pretty clear about her intentions

    • @NinKiwi007
      @NinKiwi007 3 года назад +21

      I agree , but wanna amend the analogy a little - Ruby would do the punching, but by the gods I imagine Jade would give someone the dressing down of their *lives.*
      Then again, maybe not; thinking more maybe she'd be brutally direct as was required of her in the situation to protect the system, and only dress someone down if they persist in whatever behavior triggered her to front.

    • @joyin9852
      @joyin9852 3 года назад +16

      Like two of my littles are so mesmerised by her. They thin shes so pretty. She seems firm and blunt but not means, she’s just doing her job

    • @xsargantxshaftx7997
      @xsargantxshaftx7997 3 года назад +9

      @@joyin9852 be careful online, little. 💕 dont forget the rules.

  • @saigiridhar2147
    @saigiridhar2147 3 года назад +3128

    When Jade looks into the camera I feel like she is talking straight to my soul..

    • @Daniella404
      @Daniella404 3 года назад +163

      I feel like she could just slap me and it'll be justified for some reason lol

    • @jadendiaz3615
      @jadendiaz3615 3 года назад +70

      It's her eyes she sees through our souls.

    • @annelievanroom839
      @annelievanroom839 3 года назад +28

      @@Daniella404 YES EXACTLY THIS

    • @whitediamonds444
      @whitediamonds444 3 года назад +2

      Ikr 😂

    • @saigiridhar2147
      @saigiridhar2147 3 года назад +11

      @@Daniella404 😂 Ya....you put it in words better than I could😂😂

  • @sophy5669
    @sophy5669 2 года назад +1907

    I really have to admit I'll miss Kyle calling us babe. But hey, pleased to meet you Kya. Thank you for returning, all of you. Missed you so damn much. All the best for everything

    • @sophy5669
      @sophy5669 2 года назад +228

      Yeeeaaaah I commented both on the community post aNd here. I want Kya to notice me TT
      ( Are we still your babes? )

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  2 года назад +693

      Ofc you are babe ❤️😘

    • @Akkesama
      @Akkesama 2 года назад +76

      We will be babes forever!!!!

    • @sophy5669
      @sophy5669 2 года назад +88

      Oh my goshhh- Kya actually noticed me!! I got a heart aNd a reply?? ❤️❤️❤️
      -I actually screamed again- Thank god I'm alone in my room rn >

    • @kalielik
      @kalielik 2 года назад +29

      Well, Kyle is still there, he is just part of Kya now.

  • @babe1035
    @babe1035 2 года назад +2174

    I see we've all rushed here to comment. Nin and Kyle will be missed but we fully support you and wish you all the best! 🖤🖤🖤

    • @gracesadventures7485
      @gracesadventures7485 2 года назад +94

      So Kyle and Nin intergated. I will definitely miss Kyle he was funny and caring.

    • @Emnms68
      @Emnms68 2 года назад +30

      Absolutely! We love and support you Kya and co.!

    • @thursdaybrunch9633
      @thursdaybrunch9633 2 года назад +7

      I’m pretty new here, may I ask what is being meant by Kyle and Nin being integated?

    • @Rain-ye6dn
      @Rain-ye6dn 2 года назад +32

      @@thursdaybrunch9633 so pretty much they were two different people in the system but pretty much fused together in a way where it become one alter as is now called Kya

    • @Emnms68
      @Emnms68 2 года назад +54

      @@thursdaybrunch9633 yes, so two alters in the system, Nin and Kyle, basically fused into one alter, Kya. My understanding is that, the mental wall between sets of memories (Kyle’s memories, and Nin’s memories) that DID creates to protect the individual is basically broken down so that both alters have both sets of memories, effectively making them one alter. That’s my understanding of it, but I am not an expert.

  • @bellapowers7546
    @bellapowers7546 3 года назад +756

    I absolutely adore how Jade doesn't do anything she doesn't want to. She has such a strong sense of who she is that she won't let anyone push her boundaries.

  • @christinatyree2280
    @christinatyree2280 3 года назад +5587

    Jade is that person who let's two or more people argue while she sits quietly, letting them make themselves look foolish, and then when she finally speaks up everyone including the pets and the birds outside stop in the tracks like 😲😲😳

  • @lfisher1523
    @lfisher1523 2 года назад +1103

    Sorry to hear what has happened to the system, hopefully everything will be good after the legal stuff is done. I wish you guys well. Stay strong, all of you make it through this.

    • @14mirjam
      @14mirjam 2 года назад +7

      This. Sending positive thoughts

  • @eviolinarts5014
    @eviolinarts5014 2 года назад +847

    I’m so relieved you’re all ok, stay strong guys I’m so sorry this all happened to you

    • @SparklyOrangeSoda
      @SparklyOrangeSoda 2 года назад +3

      What happened to them? :(

    • @eviolinarts5014
      @eviolinarts5014 2 года назад +17

      @@SparklyOrangeSoda I was referring to the situation they talked about with the copyright claims and manipulation they had to face in their newest video, it seems they’re handling it really well though, hopefully it all goes smoothly

  • @rosenrot234
    @rosenrot234 3 года назад +879

    I love that Jade aged for awhile then stopped. It's like she decided "No this is foolish"

  • @girlwiththeblueglasses8284
    @girlwiththeblueglasses8284 3 года назад +4462

    Hearing Jade describe the inner world is absolutely eerily fascinating. That’s all I can say. Great video Jade.❤️

    • @thebirdbrained.
      @thebirdbrained. 3 года назад +17

      Agreed.

    • @justicemillz4238
      @justicemillz4238 3 года назад +8

      🎯

    • @queerlittlecactus8749
      @queerlittlecactus8749 3 года назад +14

      @Addison Domine I think there is a video on the channel where the inner world is replicated in the sims, but some parts in this video I do not remember being mentioned, like the carousel... but most everything else is. I haven’t watched the vid in a while so I don’t know how old it is
      Edit: never mind the video isn’t showing up anymore... they must have privated/removed it. Sorry.

    • @squiggles7833
      @squiggles7833 3 года назад +12

      @@queerlittlecactus8749 it was privated because some of the littles names were mentioned by accident and weren't noticed until someone told chloe at the time

    • @queerlittlecactus8749
      @queerlittlecactus8749 3 года назад +2

      @@squiggles7833 ah, makes sense. Thanks!

  • @alexandraf.6921
    @alexandraf.6921 2 года назад +98

    Jade inspires me to be more direct, set boundaries, and know my worth.

  • @ellec5317
    @ellec5317 2 года назад +408

    Oh goodness, it must be really rough to have to go through so much legal trouble. Your system has been really missed and it’s really heartwarming to see you all saying something! I wish you the best of luck!

  • @liamwalker0919
    @liamwalker0919 3 года назад +2543

    I have autism, and it's hard for me to understand what people mean sometimes. I appreciate how honest and blunt Jade is. She isn't rude, she isn't sour. She simply tells the truth without sugarcoating it. Thank you, Jade.

  • @ninreck5121
    @ninreck5121 3 года назад +1239

    I love how Jade said "lot's of love everybody" because Nin always dose but Jade's was more like " ugh gotta do that" but with like the tiniest hint of a smile

    • @whatlenalikes1674
      @whatlenalikes1674 3 года назад +32

      i definitely noticed that too, so glad someone else did!

    • @CraziCutie
      @CraziCutie 3 года назад +15

      Thought I was the only one who noticed

    • @kittypewpew
      @kittypewpew 3 года назад +10

      I even think nin might have been in the backround, because that "sliding" tone to a happier one seems so out of place for jade

  • @Raven-wr4we
    @Raven-wr4we 2 года назад +415

    Sorry about what's happened... I've been watching this channel for a while now and it sucks that you guys have to go through this. :/ Wishing you all the best

  • @chloemay9953
    @chloemay9953 2 года назад +132

    I have to say... HOW INCREDIBLE IS JADE'S MAKE-UP?!?!

  • @youbettergetyourlife
    @youbettergetyourlife 3 года назад +381

    I love how jade was like “I just want NIN to know I have s*** to do. I don’t have time for these videos.” Lol I love it

  • @ilyem999
    @ilyem999 3 года назад +2226

    I imagine being a gatekeeper is hard because one sees so many horrible things happen to other people. It must be hard to not just conclude that the whole world is a terrible place because of all the horrible things you've seen not only happen to yourself but to people you love and then having to think about it constantly. Jade does a really hard job and it's honestly inspiring that she isn't more angry about it.

  • @annawang7095
    @annawang7095 2 года назад +156

    I am so overwhelmed with the feeling of strength, compassion, grace, and sheer utter will and determination that you put forth after speaking your truth. You are empowering and inspiring and I love your system dearly. DO NOT GO SILENTLY INTO THIS GOODNIGHT. We are here for you all.

  • @katiegill3338
    @katiegill3338 3 года назад +326

    Every time Jade talks I get choked up. I see the pain in her eyes, she’s seen and experienced some dark things. She deals with so much in the inner world. Nobody could do Jade’s job better than her, she is one of a kind. She’s strong and sophisticated and beautiful with so much depth to her although limits how deep she goes and I respect that about her. Beautiful video Jade thank you for your time ❤️

  • @harperm1389
    @harperm1389 3 года назад +595

    I can't even describe how much respect I have for Jade. Her job (and the memories she has access to) sound incredibly difficult and draining, but she carries herself with such poise and control. Her strength of mind and personality is just incredible.

    • @echofromafar
      @echofromafar 3 года назад +8

      I can only agree. It was very very interesting to learn about her and her job in the system and I respect her soo much

  • @eleanorsherry4620
    @eleanorsherry4620 3 года назад +995

    "Do no harm, take no shit."
    -Jade, probably

  • @sarapaull2986
    @sarapaull2986 2 года назад +69

    Knowing Jade is still a strong part of the system makes me feel calmer and more stable for the dissociadid system. She is such a consistent and stable and strong part of the system and it makes me feel good knowing she is always there ❤️

  • @catobelle
    @catobelle 2 года назад +271

    I just saw your most recent video, and I'm so sorry to hear about all that you've been going through as a collective. My heart goes out to you all and I hope everything works out as it should and you can remain safe and feel free enough again to post content on here. Although I cannot relate to your story entirely, I appreciate the honesty that goes into your content and as someone who deals with depression and anxiety, I applaud you for your bravery.

  • @WhiteRaven696
    @WhiteRaven696 3 года назад +503

    I love Jade. She can be a little unnerving as she mentioned, but that's only because she's so direct and honest. I love dealing with honest, direct people. You always know where you stand with them.

    • @daniellac.7588
      @daniellac.7588 3 года назад +11

      As someone who always speaks directly, I can tell your that usually, people who are uncomfortable or intimidated by bluntness tend to not be the kind you can rely on. I had to learn how to speak with more tact over time but it can get so exhausting so it's easier to simply not say anything at times.

  • @bethanytim1402
    @bethanytim1402 3 года назад +1796

    I've always looked up to how wise Jade is. Her presence is very calming to me, maybe not in the way Sally is calming, but calming none the less. I'm very proud of her, and appreciate her doing this video for us. Thank you.

    • @searching_scout
      @searching_scout 3 года назад +56

      I get what you mean. Sally is calming in the way of making you feel like everything is alright, Jade is more calming in the way of feeling very safe around her

    • @miriamhappe1066
      @miriamhappe1066 3 года назад +1

      here here

    • @Sonita888
      @Sonita888 3 года назад +5

      more than calmly, she feels safe.

    • @absolute-creature
      @absolute-creature 3 года назад +4

      Her voice is so soothing and i feel a sense of stability and safeness when she talks, it's always nice to hear her talking about herself, i could listen her for hours and hours and still, i would be stunned and unable to say anything while she talks

    • @nikkibella1607
      @nikkibella1607 3 года назад +4

      I think it's how blunt she is. You know she wouldn't do anything that she thought was wrong and would not take anyone else doing something she thinks is wrong. That's just what I think though

  • @danielzhou2972
    @danielzhou2972 2 года назад +139

    I'm so upset right now, why is it always the sweetest beings that suffer. I want all of the dissociadid system to know your fans love all of you❤️missing Kyle and nin and hoping the legal system does what's right

    • @mech0p
      @mech0p 2 года назад +1

      In the end itll make them stronger and smarter when dealing with certaing things. While it will cost a bit of money for a lawyer theyll most likely win this case easily and even if they dont and he does get the disclaimer thats going to accomplish literally nothing. Plus they have proof that he said he would work for free and ask for nothing in return so its gonna be hard for him to get anything based on that statement alone. From now on though if they deal with anyone then they need a contract.

  • @Daiwie44
    @Daiwie44 2 года назад +247

    As hard as it may seem to believe, there are in fact good people in the world. You are a shining example of this, and i just hope you have some good friends to back you up and support you through these stressing times! Best of luck with the case (cases?) It appears you have this covered, but it could still take a while, and he probably won't make it easy on you. YOU GOT THIS!

    • @indigowendigo8165
      @indigowendigo8165 2 года назад +1

      Sigh... I have to admit, there are times I have trouble believing there's good people in the world myself, or that there's very many of them anyway, or if I myself am even a good person or not... I've had a lot of people in my life that just came and went for starters... :(

  • @IrfanDoesWhat
    @IrfanDoesWhat 3 года назад +434

    I like to imagine Jade as this good witch in an abandoned but clean library filled with books that is actually memories.

    • @imaginationfox0453
      @imaginationfox0453 3 года назад +13

      Jade, the Memory Witch, is also nicknamed by the magic community as "The Book Collector"

    • @ewynrilcaldin6153
      @ewynrilcaldin6153 3 года назад +1

      ME too :o

    • @Duck-mn8xp
      @Duck-mn8xp 3 года назад +1

      Tell me why this made me think of Lucretia from taz

    • @anitaaranceta780
      @anitaaranceta780 3 года назад +1

      Sameeee

  • @elizabethelliott7966
    @elizabethelliott7966 3 года назад +9879

    It’s evident that Jade takes her role very seriously, and I’m honored she took time to speak to us. Thank you!

    • @annadewitt4556
      @annadewitt4556 3 года назад +38

      Agreed. Nice name.

    • @zekecalloway2659
      @zekecalloway2659 3 года назад +9

      Same

    • @lillyppz86
      @lillyppz86 3 года назад +11

      I’m glad jade felt like this would help x

    • @Joy6168
      @Joy6168 3 года назад +39

      @City Sushi, what’s wrong with Elizabeth saying she’s honored? I don’t get why this would be considered disgusting.

    • @Joy6168
      @Joy6168 3 года назад +3

      @@sdrawkcabmiay I'm glad I'm not the only one who's confused, lol!

  • @aguilacoco7652
    @aguilacoco7652 2 года назад +94

    I'm so sad about everything you had to go through. Your channel has helped me notice my disorder, validate my trauma and recognize how much it has affected me in order to work with it. I'm finally diagnosed and on treatment but big part of it is thanks to the system. I'm so grateful for your existence on RUclips, you have helped me in so many ways to finally feel like I'm in control. Just thank you for everything.

  • @tahiria2270
    @tahiria2270 2 года назад +187

    I’m so glad I found this channel from Anthony’s interview, it’s been amazing to learn so much more about DID. Saw people saying lots of the channels videos have been removed.. Personally I look forward to the videos coming back so badly! Thank you for bringing back the channel

  • @beelz42
    @beelz42 3 года назад +431

    I just want Jade to know she has done a terrific job in answering these question and that I am thankful for her effort and time

  • @manifestationsofasort
    @manifestationsofasort 3 года назад +625

    Personally, I think a video about the dungeon and basement would be fascinating. That is, if Jade deems it okay. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with.

    • @miriamhappe1066
      @miriamhappe1066 3 года назад +52

      same here, im very interested on it. it sounds fascinating indeed, and i think its so cool and brave that she explained a bit more about the carrousel

    • @lithiumkid
      @lithiumkid 3 года назад +4

      she wouldn't.

    • @bellap.7038
      @bellap.7038 3 года назад +37

      I think it would be very interesting! Even if she didnt go into details, but just knowing more about the mechanics of the dungeon and how it works as a tool for all the work she does in there

    • @mahimakarmokar3119
      @mahimakarmokar3119 3 года назад

      Yes

    • @evavecek5297
      @evavecek5297 3 года назад +6

      i would find it interesting too with Jades approval

  • @signofthecrimes1534
    @signofthecrimes1534 2 года назад +90

    The comments for the last video is off but I must say I'll miss Kyle so much! 😭 But it's great to meet Kya! They're beautiful! ♥️

    • @dwarfplanets533
      @dwarfplanets533 2 года назад +10

      I agree, I'm glad they're all back. Hopefully this all gets resolved quickly

  • @lunmaeessan9003
    @lunmaeessan9003 2 года назад +153

    I hope the System is getting better and are staying safe. Much love to you all, stay strong!!

  • @kait33
    @kait33 3 года назад +338

    Idk how to describe it but jade makes me feel so sure, just her presence is so strong and secure it makes me feel very understood and stable just hearing her speak

    • @ms_minna
      @ms_minna 3 года назад +4

      Same. I wish I had a Jade in my life.

  • @allyfiedler9800
    @allyfiedler9800 3 года назад +488

    Gosh, just hearing how protective Jade is over the system makes me honestly feel safer myself. But it’s also comforting, in a way, to see an individual such as Jade apart of the system, or something idk how to explain it☺️☺️☺️

    • @bekahbabie
      @bekahbabie 3 года назад +4

      I feel the same way!!! I’m glad I’m not the only one!

  • @qualityofmuck134
    @qualityofmuck134 3 года назад +120

    I'm honored you decided to speak to us, Jade.

  • @robinbli3221
    @robinbli3221 2 года назад +128

    In regards to your most recent video, I think you took the right decision to raise your voice and not stay silent, I wish you the best and I hope this will be over soon! lots of love❤️💚

  • @880-4
    @880-4 3 года назад +472

    I do want to know more, but only if you wish to tell us more. I’m intrigued about your inner world and all because although I don’t have DID I do have a world of my own I go to in my dreams or daydreams. It’s extremely well developed, and I’m interested in yours just because no one else has ever related to me in that level. I understand that your world must have a lot of trauma beneath the surface though, so feel free to disregard this comment.

    • @judithm.gabriel7140
      @judithm.gabriel7140 3 года назад +31

      Hey! Based on your comment, I recommend you check out the channel “Silent Souls”. She does videos on maladaptive daydreaming and sounds like you might also have a paracosm (vs an inner world like with DID). I don’t know much about this myself but I find Silent Souls videos very educative and there’s always lots of people in the comments who share how they relate to her experience of maladaptive daydreaming. ☺️

    • @gilliath87
      @gilliath87 3 года назад +4

      I have the same thing, and I also deeply recommend Silent Souls. You might find it very interesting.

    • @Larissa-ji6sw
      @Larissa-ji6sw 3 года назад +1

      me too!!

    • @Joy6168
      @Joy6168 3 года назад

      Oh wow, do we have a very similar extremely well developed inner world like I do? I hope so 880, I’ve always wanted to meet someone who also has a rich, vivid inner world like I do. Please pm me if you want to talk about our inner worlds where we daydream.

  • @wizzzard999
    @wizzzard999 3 года назад +205

    Jade living in a cave, having a base with computers and keeping order within the system? AND she's intimidating, straight forward and holds past trauma? She is your system's Batman, didn't think she could get more badass XD

  • @kassiddyavery2593
    @kassiddyavery2593 2 года назад +33

    I met you as Chloe here on RUclips in 2019, it's a pleasure to meet Kya, you seem so strong, confident, and secure. I wish you all the best in your legal proceedings... I'm so sorry to hear of how that all happened. Nothing can make me sadder than seeing someone's fear to trust be justified by such a distressful turn of events.
    I pray that you make it through this all the better for it. We are so grateful for you letting us in on your truth and look forward to your success story.
    All the love to you Kya

  • @persie9276
    @persie9276 2 года назад +50

    You probably got this a lot already, but we're glad to see you again. I hope everything gets sorted out, and everyone in the system remains safe and healthy. Wishing you all well.

  • @donovon9187
    @donovon9187 3 года назад +3451

    Anybody else wanna see each of the alters take a personality test ?

    • @fryviewer8336
      @fryviewer8336 3 года назад +137

      That'd actually be super cool

    • @harpist.vanessa
      @harpist.vanessa 3 года назад +168

      I think myer Briggs would be fun!

    • @vihmapisarzobel2250
      @vihmapisarzobel2250 3 года назад +11

      An amazing idea!

    • @arlert4396
      @arlert4396 3 года назад +103

      Worried they might take 16personalities like most others. I'd like to see them take an accurate one that types by functions. (Though i still would like MBTI!)

    • @jelly2584
      @jelly2584 3 года назад +37

      If they are okay with it I would love them do that it’s like there Harry Potter house video.

  • @backtomills
    @backtomills 3 года назад +349

    Jade’s straightforwardness is really comforting. The honesty she radiates is very reassuring and listening to her feels like one would be safe around her

  • @bn9246
    @bn9246 2 года назад +262

    No matter what people say about you, I'm really glad that you are back.❤️

    • @Reth_Hard
      @Reth_Hard 2 года назад +2

      Yeah, I don't know who she is, but I was really missing her and her friends!
      (OK, I know it might sound weird, but it's true...)

  • @kaibakoi
    @kaibakoi 2 года назад +41

    I MISS YOU! I was so happy to see you in your recent vid. Kya, it's a privilege to meet you. Nin, Kyle, and the system are stronger together and are a force to reckon with! I personally dealt with lawsuits when I was 21 (probate with my dad's passing that lasted over 5 yrs). It is mentally, emotionally, and financially draining with loads of backstabbing from the ones you least expect from. This is a learning experience that makes us stronger and wiser and helps us understand where we stand in the world. I wish you the best in life and I hope court ends smoothly and quickly in your favor.

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  2 года назад +29

      I'm so sorry you experienced that. We send our best wishes your way, and thank you for supporting us ❤️ - Kya & Jade

  • @treebred
    @treebred 3 года назад +458

    I wonder how she processes other alters' memories. It must be overwhelming to say the least. No doubt she needs to be less emotional than average. Otherwise it would be an impossible job in the long run. Much respect.

  • @anwogan3
    @anwogan3 3 года назад +1684

    “I am bitter, but logical” I felt that in my soul

  • @spy6205
    @spy6205 2 года назад +76

    Hey Kya, comments are switched off on your newest video so I wanted to show support here. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with all of this. I hope the trouble is gone soon and doesn’t cause you too much further stress. I hope you guys are doing well! Sending lots of love and endless support to you guys

  • @MsGdlove
    @MsGdlove 2 года назад +58

    Can't wait to get to know kya even better. This probably wasn't the way you wanted to introduce yourself. But very necessary. I was afraid we would never see the system again. Thank you all so much for what you all do. I hate that there are people who want to take advantage from you, knowing very well about your mental health struggles. I hope good will rise above evil in this slow justice system.
    Good luck to the system, I'm so proud of you all for fighting so hard. Lots of love

  • @toni5543
    @toni5543 3 года назад +2524

    I would 100% read a book about what it's like to be you.

  • @jaymer123
    @jaymer123 3 года назад +776

    Hello everyone in the system. I am sorry this video was difficult for Jade to do but know that it’s an important video to make especially for those of us that are still learning about DID, like me. Thank you as always for the education you give to us all. I hope you are all doing well despite anything going on.

  • @Jayjay4ever194
    @Jayjay4ever194 2 года назад +49

    I miss you guys😢 kyle and nin will be missed terribly, but its nice to see you kya🥰 i can see both nin and kyle in you. May everything goes in your favor dissociadid❤️

  • @sammiiannn9961
    @sammiiannn9961 2 года назад +42

    I'm so glad you decided to make your most recent video to explain the facts. I'm completely blown away. It's honestly quite embarrassing on his part as it appears he is throwing a massive tantrum that Nin was not interested in the relationship he wanted. I'm so proud you/Nin stood their ground and are not letting yourselves be silenced by his childish actions. I wish you all the best, lots of love ❤

  • @lorreads.8255
    @lorreads.8255 3 года назад +654

    It’s really interesting to learn about all the alters and their jobs and the inner world.

  • @honestlytragic
    @honestlytragic 3 года назад +123

    Ugh the way Jade carries herself is REGAL! What an icon!

  • @Lysandra_Bouquet
    @Lysandra_Bouquet Год назад +3

    Being the first type of gatekeeper that Jade mentioned, it was really interesting to hear from the perspective of and about the duties of a gatekeeper who deals with memory filing and the like. Thank you very much Jade for being willing to share this with us.
    Susy.

  • @MrMann163
    @MrMann163 2 года назад +33

    Didn't realize how much I missed your videos! I hope that whole situation gets resolved soon :( Sending love your way

  • @bananamanchester4156
    @bananamanchester4156 3 года назад +146

    I really admire people who can be honest and upfront without being rude or insensitive. I feel like you'd be the person I'd want to talk to when I needed advice on how to resolve an issue. No wooly platitudes, just straight up sensible advice.

  • @flo._.doodles
    @flo._.doodles 3 года назад +521

    Jade is such a strong alter, even though her role is more internal it’s fascinating to hear her talk about her responsibilities in your system. Happy she felt comfortable talking to us about her. She might not read this but you guys have an amazing gatekeeper😊✨

    • @kittypewpew
      @kittypewpew 3 года назад +7

      You gotta remember that everyone has their one "jade" in one form or another :)

    • @bubbacosta8758
      @bubbacosta8758 3 года назад +1

      Wow,you dopes are so gullible to believe this nonsense 😂😂😂

    • @Prettymapleleaf
      @Prettymapleleaf 3 года назад +1

      @@bubbacosta8758 you are an awful human being.

    • @mamamoomademegay5891
      @mamamoomademegay5891 3 года назад

      Who are you to judge someone without any proof bich

  • @madongseoksbiceps
    @madongseoksbiceps 2 года назад +21

    Oh my god. Hearing Jade speak to us is so comforting. We will miss Kyle and Nin, but we hope you will experience the joy of uploading content again, Kya! 🥰🥰

  • @tereselapree222
    @tereselapree222 3 года назад +27

    Thank you Jade for taking the time to so eloquently describing your role as gatekeeper. Your system is lucky to have someone as dedicated as you.

  • @hunnybee_
    @hunnybee_ 3 года назад +834

    “i’m bitter, but i’m logical”
    that hit me in such a relatable way

  • @emmadonovanmarshall1834
    @emmadonovanmarshall1834 3 года назад +667

    Yes, I would like to hear about what's in the basement and dungeon, what they're for and what goes on in the basement and dungeon, if you are comfortable sharing that with us. This video was very informative and you make things very clear and understandable. Thank you for sharing. You help so many people. No one with DID has a better channel than you.

    • @leighreinhart6185
      @leighreinhart6185 3 года назад +2

      I'd be interested to know if the basement/dungeon has levels (Dante's seven circles of hell is the best analogy that comes to me at the moment), and if there are alters that hold memories of singular traumatic events. From past videos they've said that some alters, like Omega, were created as a result of a specific traumatic incidence, but it would be interesting to know if there are some dormant or even imprisoned or "banished" alters who exist only to house a single memory, perhaps one so difficult that the governing alters know it can't come out anytime soon.

    • @bellap.7038
      @bellap.7038 3 года назад +36

      I think it would be very interesting! Even if she didnt go into details, but just knowing more about the mechanics of the dungeon and how it works as a tool for all the work she does in there

    • @Joy6168
      @Joy6168 3 года назад

      @@leighreinhart6185, from what I know of PTSD, the dungeons and basement most likely hold severely traumatic memories that both Ruby the protector and Jade the gatekeeper guard.

  • @Luna-zh5pp
    @Luna-zh5pp 3 года назад +110

    I’m a little late so idk if you’ll see this comment, but I just wanted to tell Jade how much I respect her (/you if Jade’s the one reading this). I’ve experienced a lot of trauma myself, and while I didn’t develop DID, I know how hard it is to survive let alone thrive with the damage those experiences caused.
    I’m still working on being able to cope and protect myself - it’s really hard and I’m struggling, but seeing how strong Jade is gave me a sort of comfort that it’s possible.
    I hope you’re all well❤️

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  3 года назад +46

      Hey lovely, sorry to hear you're going through a tough time but glad you felt comforted by Jade. Sending love and strength to you ❤️

    • @Luna-zh5pp
      @Luna-zh5pp 3 года назад +16

      @@DissociaDID thank you so much. I hope you’re keeping well x

    • @DLCS-2
      @DLCS-2 3 года назад +1

      @@Luna-zh5pp hope that you are ok now.

  • @myuijia5828
    @myuijia5828 2 года назад +22

    Seeing Kya smile at the end of last video gave me such a bittersweet feeling... Hoping that things for the system will start getting better and that these legal issues can be resolved soon! 💪

    • @i_am_pickle8869
      @i_am_pickle8869 2 года назад +3

      That smile and wink melted my soul. Kya has so much resilience to go through all that adversity and harassment and still remain warm

  • @pranjalkumar4708
    @pranjalkumar4708 3 года назад +1818

    Her diction is so damn good. Makes me embarrassed to speak in english.

    • @-astronomer6216-
      @-astronomer6216- 3 года назад +21

      Same! I got taught Russian and English at the same time when I was young and it mixed up my English! lol

  • @alexfarquhar7275
    @alexfarquhar7275 3 года назад +260

    I always loved seeing Jade. She's so strong willed and calming. When she talks, she talks with a purpose and when she looks at you it's like she's staring at your soul. I admire how much she takes on in the system despite it being so stressful. Thank you for this video Jade! Sending love to everyone in the system!

  • @kateyscreativeside7369
    @kateyscreativeside7369 2 года назад +27

    i dont know if you will see this but i just wanted to say putting all of the stuff you al have going on you guys and your channels and socials have helped e and educated me so much an di will forever be greatful for all of that i say please stay stong and know we will be here after it all

  • @junebug97
    @junebug97 2 года назад +50

    DissociaDID, y'all have no idea how much your videos have meant to me over the years. Your videos coming back up is such a significant thing for me. I really have loved your content, I have learned so much, I am so invested in your system and y'all's health. Thank you ALL. Missed you all :)

  • @sardsvib
    @sardsvib 3 года назад +199

    I noticed that Jade talks differently than Nin or anyone else. She's firm, sort of monotonous, she's blunt, she's very serious.

  • @AlishaCatxo
    @AlishaCatxo 3 года назад +49

    Jade is the perfect rolemodel for setting boundaries and respecting your wishes while also being caring and kind to others. I have so much respect for her,

  • @Something_creative.1615
    @Something_creative.1615 Год назад +5

    As a gatekeeper in my system, this helps a lot. Im newer to my role, and am still learning about it! Thank you :) -Soyar

  • @CainEverest
    @CainEverest 2 года назад +43

    So essentially a Gatekeeper is like the Administrator of a PC system. Wow. Ive been learning so much about DID in the past few hours

  • @winterdreller5840
    @winterdreller5840 3 года назад +2119

    I like her. She keeps order. Even if it hurts her. She is necessary

  • @virginiabrennan2314
    @virginiabrennan2314 3 года назад +434

    The kiss at the end felt like jade was asked to do so. It felt...out of character. But I so appreciate her willingness to make a video❤️❤️❤️

    • @mathewoliver2566
      @mathewoliver2566 3 года назад +64

      Exactly. It felt like, "I'm doing this for Nin and I hate it but here it is."

    • @kaixavier2
      @kaixavier2 3 года назад +3

      RIGHT!! I literally just said that!

    • @lowercase_ash
      @lowercase_ash 3 года назад +16

      I think it's awesome that she did it for us :) Thank you Jade

    • @skeetsmcgrew3282
      @skeetsmcgrew3282 3 года назад +15

      She almost didnt do it, you could see her brief struggle lol

    • @Hunter_VanderMatthews
      @Hunter_VanderMatthews 3 года назад +11

      She just said she wouldn't do something if she wasn't okay with it.
      Also, she's not a character, so don't compare her to one, she's a being just as complex as the rest of us, and you haven't even met her, how can you judge whether or not she's being herself or not? Just because she's more logic-driven than emotion-driven doesn't mean she can't "express affection"(for lack of a better term), maybe she struggles to do so.

  • @r_ya2919
    @r_ya2919 2 года назад +59

    I just jumped in here to say that Jade is probably someone who I would look up to and respect a lot as kind of a... role modal figure? I just feel a lot of awe when I watch or listen to her in the videos hehe. Okay, that's all. Hope you're safe and happy whoever it is that's reading this.

  • @arsonanarchybunny5541
    @arsonanarchybunny5541 Год назад +7

    The makeup is phenomenal and stunning . Thank you so much for all the videos you all have made as they have helped immensely within my systems' as well as my own journey.

  • @jalen920
    @jalen920 3 года назад +265

    Question for Jade: How do you file a memory? Like... can you touch them?

    • @orange2787
      @orange2787 3 года назад +39

      yes, I'd also be curious to know more about memory filing! I didn't think that it would be a role dedicated to an alter. it baffles me as someone without DID, since the process is entirely automatic in my own mind.

    • @AliceTheChaosWitch
      @AliceTheChaosWitch 3 года назад +4

      Yes I would love to know more because now, I can only imagine it as kind of an Inside out situation 🙈 I think it's fascinating and would love it if Jade were to be so kind as to educate us on the matter

    • @Bloodangel_444
      @Bloodangel_444 3 года назад +9

      Idk how it is for the dissociadid system, but for us we have two gatekeepers and the one who handles memories handles them through books and has a large library that he has access to

    • @jalen920
      @jalen920 3 года назад +4

      @@Bloodangel_444 Wow that's surprisingly complex! And how can they be filed as books? Are they like... writen down? Narrated? Described? Omg haha im so sorry i just find this subject to be super interesting.

    • @Bloodangel_444
      @Bloodangel_444 3 года назад +2

      @@jalen920 it's okay! I myself don't really understand it because I'm not the one who handles it but from times I've asked our gatekeeper directly (even though it was still very confusing) I was able to kind of understand it as minecraft enchantment books or the goosebumps books which still isn't very accurate. Sorry if that doesn't help ^^ its confusing and complex for me too.

  • @bella8196
    @bella8196 3 года назад +188

    I love hearing Jade talk about her role within their system. She's very direct and very much to the point when she's talking. She doesn't like to sugarcoat things and is very honest. I feel we all need someone like Jade.

  • @kadeorade5296
    @kadeorade5296 3 года назад +25

    Jade is like, intimidating, but like in a way that makes you feel safe.

  • @SvenHeitland
    @SvenHeitland 2 года назад +13

    Hi Jade, thanks for taking care of the system, espacially the little ones. Keep them safe. Love you and sending hugs to all of you.

  • @vagiterianbogmonster3268
    @vagiterianbogmonster3268 3 года назад +531

    Jade has the ambiance of Morticia Addams. But more professional and I would literally follow her into battle

  • @guac903
    @guac903 3 года назад +338

    It's so interesting learning about jade's role and she seems so strong and protective but not rude and very intelligent, thank you for making this Jade! Sending love to you guys!

  • @LieutenantByrd
    @LieutenantByrd Год назад +3

    I love how direct Jade is and how when she sets boundaries only she can move them and won't let herself be pushed around. It's also really interesting to know how all the diff roles work together to better a system. Wish y'all the best

  • @Sefenite101
    @Sefenite101 2 года назад +16

    This channel helped me through some dark times. You deserve to be heard. Stay strong x

  • @alyce_in_tokyo2081
    @alyce_in_tokyo2081 3 года назад +104

    I just want to say that I have very much respect for Jade. I cannot even begin to imagine what she and the system has gone through, but I’m sure Jade has done as much as she can to help. Thank you for this video, Jade 💜

  • @WithersStan
    @WithersStan 3 года назад +240

    Jade comes across like this absolute boss who expects to be respected and all that is needed when someone underestimates her abilities is her raising her eyebrows for someone to go like 😳

  • @kharmacreature
    @kharmacreature 3 года назад +77

    Normally I always talk myself out of leaving comments especially when I feel drawn to expose myself and what I'm getting ready to say. I feel strongly like I should do this anyway. I am an empath in levels which are so strong that I can be convinced that everything I see and feel actually belong to me. This can be extremely debilitating in my day to day life. That being said... I would like to apologize to your entire system. I will not go into detail of what I have seen & felt. I am devastated of all of the trauma you experienced that caused you to have to had created alters just to be able to survive. I hurt in my soul for you all. On a brighter note, I would like to commend you on being brave enough to educate us all and really helping very many people. You are strong. You are brave. You have a friend in me. You are loved.

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  3 года назад +30

      Thanks so much, your kind message really means a lot to us.

  • @melinanakahira2213
    @melinanakahira2213 2 года назад +14

    Nice to meet you Kya! I wish you all all the best and I hope that RUclips and the courts are able to settle things correctly. Best of luck.

  • @emanuela6518
    @emanuela6518 3 года назад +533

    Jade I could listen you for hours, you speak calmly, eloquently and even as a non native English speaker I can understand every single word you pronounce, also you sound like you take your role very seriously and you handle it responsibly, this video was really interesting thank you

  • @eldri7ch
    @eldri7ch 2 года назад +97

    Thank you, Jade, for your moment of vulnerability. And thank you, DissociaDID for working to get these video back up, they are extremely informative!

  • @Black4Fae
    @Black4Fae Год назад +2

    My system's Gatekeeper is called Oracle. Very similar role but we now understand more about this. Thanks, Jade. That was very brave.

  • @Jay.T4NA
    @Jay.T4NA 3 года назад +45

    I feel like jade is the type of person to not care or be nonchalant about how much we love her and this makes me love her more.

  • @Voldycat
    @Voldycat 3 года назад +551

    Did anyone else sit up straighter when Jade looked straight into the camera, feel like she would tell me off for slouching.

  • @bryn7987
    @bryn7987 2 года назад +40

    Literally crying, I’m so happy some videos are back up 💜 you deserve control of your content!

  • @doreimi
    @doreimi 2 года назад +19

    Stay strong, I know you guys will get through this and I am so sorry for what had happened.

  • @EVISims
    @EVISims 3 года назад +47

    Just from the way she is looking at the camera in the beginning you can already see it isn't Nin. It's so crazy how all alters differ so much from each other.