how I told my boyfriend I self harm

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @custardcreambaby
    @custardcreambaby 5 лет назад +656

    He’s such a supportive KING! Haha

  • @arianneclinette
    @arianneclinette 5 лет назад +417

    this might sound weird but your relationship just seems so healthy...it warms my heart and really shows that mental health doesn’t make relationships toxic, it’s the way people choose to handle it.

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  5 лет назад +36

      I love this so much, Thankyou ❤️

  • @MariamTheAlien
    @MariamTheAlien 5 лет назад +279

    Marry him sis

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  5 лет назад +28

      😂😂😂😂

    • @curtisbemis6640
      @curtisbemis6640 4 года назад +5

      Truly that would be a beautiful thing you can tell he loves her soo much .

  • @myawatkins8149
    @myawatkins8149 5 лет назад +510

    THE best couple don’t even @ me.

    • @mu-wc7ut
      @mu-wc7ut 5 лет назад +6

      @ u 😂

    • @TheTaterTotP80
      @TheTaterTotP80 4 года назад +1

      Shame it's interracial.

    • @sariahjohnson7237
      @sariahjohnson7237 4 года назад +6

      @@TheTaterTotP80 how is that a shame?

    • @Tinneas_poite
      @Tinneas_poite 4 года назад +3

      @@TheTaterTotP80 Haha SOO funny. Go see if you can find a dog that can appreciate that language.

    • @kai-fo8jn
      @kai-fo8jn 3 года назад

      @@TheTaterTotP80 how is that a shame .

  • @gmurredo
    @gmurredo 5 лет назад +111

    wow this video really made me feel like someone could love me despite all my mental health issues. it seems silly to say i didn't think that was possible but i really didn't. he doesn't see your self harm or disorders, he just sees you.

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  5 лет назад +19

      I honestly thought the same. There are people who are out there who will love you for you! I promise. Don’t settle for any less ❤️

  • @jesswittsss
    @jesswittsss 4 года назад +26

    He’s definitely a keeper, he’s just so kind and supportive and open like wow 🥰

  • @kamrankhan4874
    @kamrankhan4874 5 лет назад +162

    Can you please do a 'How I Told My Mum I Self Harm' with your Mum?

    • @sophiagabriella3701
      @sophiagabriella3701 4 года назад +3

      it's her choice to tell her mom. She doesn't have to if she doesn't want to.

    • @varvarakrylova1877
      @varvarakrylova1877 4 года назад +9

      @@sophiagabriella3701 but her mom already knows tho

    • @peachtokkii863
      @peachtokkii863 4 года назад +2

      My mum read my texts to a driend she didn't know I have

    • @meishaapplewaithe9630
      @meishaapplewaithe9630 3 года назад

      @@peachtokkii863 I chose not to tell my parents when I started and I don’t know if I ever will

  • @rhysmyatt5136
    @rhysmyatt5136 5 лет назад +30

    One thing I would say to those who are people with mental health issues, is not to forget about yourself and admit when you struggle.

  • @adarshprasad3157
    @adarshprasad3157 4 года назад +11

    I can clearly see how much you love him..... that is so good to see such a fine relationship.....
    Stay together..

  • @roisinelsaa8567
    @roisinelsaa8567 5 лет назад +385

    Your babies are gonna be INSANE

    • @ninac7471
      @ninac7471 5 лет назад +7

      Hiiiiiii rosin I didn’t know you watched marie!!!

    • @LollyisaWolly
      @LollyisaWolly 5 лет назад +5

      @@ninac7471 THE CUTEST!!!

    • @sophiescrace971
      @sophiescrace971 4 года назад +7

      TheTaterTotP80 you need to think about what you’re saying before you actually say it as it hurts people and it’s not needed

    • @curtisbemis6640
      @curtisbemis6640 4 года назад +3

      @@TheTaterTotP80 I hope your not referring to dillion ,he's obvious a great man

    • @user-ly4gn5ml3j
      @user-ly4gn5ml3j 4 года назад +4

      @@TheTaterTotP80 get some help. i know you're pressed cause they're a happy and leng couple and you're insecure and lonely. keep you in my prayers x

  • @dpiswife
    @dpiswife 5 лет назад +40

    This is so cool to see!! I struggle to stay healthy when in really close relationships with people - ya'll are such a great example of being healthy and coping together!

  • @podraje
    @podraje 4 года назад +8

    I told my bf about me having mental disorder at our 4th meeting. It just slipped from my lips that "I'm on antidepresants". I was lucky enough to know that he was open about stuff like that, he wanted to be a psychologist but didn't got in uni for that. It went alright. I would recommend to test the water early on, and don't wait with telling your potential partner about your disorder. So you won't waste yours and the other person's time if they would not be in for it.

  • @charliemaryann1654
    @charliemaryann1654 5 лет назад +45

    This is literally the video I wanted from you Marie, I’m so proud of you 💗💗

  • @Jessicajasminm
    @Jessicajasminm 5 лет назад +6

    Awe him planning a surprise to make it to your anniversary is absolutely so helpful. What a loving supportive soul! Thank you Dylan for being there, to show other woman there are men out there that will understand

  • @SarahDawesFilms
    @SarahDawesFilms 5 лет назад +3

    What a lovely young man Dylan is. I'm so pleased he's so supportive and looks after you well, Marie. You deserve nothing less xxxxxxxx

  • @meghanmccarthy5913
    @meghanmccarthy5913 5 лет назад +27

    Can I get a supportive boyfriend like Dylan please 💁🏻‍♀️

  • @rebeccagriffin2515
    @rebeccagriffin2515 5 лет назад +6

    He is absolute goals. I know we've only seen a snippet but to find someone who loves you just for being you ❤❤❤

  • @cloud8001
    @cloud8001 5 лет назад +30

    Oh gosh is it just me or did your editing got 10x better
    Marie is editing queen

  • @charlottehooton6378
    @charlottehooton6378 5 лет назад +94

    The vlog he was in was the zoo vlog!!! Been here ever since love u Marie and Dylan! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  5 лет назад +9

      OMG YOU REMEMBER #OG

    • @charlottehooton6378
      @charlottehooton6378 5 лет назад +1

      marieroseeee it was legit a lit vlog!😂 xx

    • @sophiedorrington
      @sophiedorrington 5 лет назад +1

      omgggggg i remember the zoooo🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

    • @amylouise3294
      @amylouise3294 5 лет назад

      Yh it was

    • @Ma-cn7yn
      @Ma-cn7yn 5 лет назад

      marieroseeee such an attention seeker. Only immature kids self harm for attention! So cringe

  • @michellefisher282
    @michellefisher282 5 лет назад +10

    really good hearing it from the "other half" as my hubby has had mental health probs so interesting to see how others deal with it,, im very glad for u that Dylan is the way he is as that was the best ive seen you in a video, he's a keeper cuz

  • @hele4299
    @hele4299 4 года назад +3

    I need a man like yours.
    After my ex found out, he took every opportunity to publicly humiliate me and generally make fun of me.
    Don't let anyone ever talk you down like he talked me down. There's something wrong with THEM.

  • @emmalouise3880
    @emmalouise3880 5 лет назад +65

    Cutest couple. And wasn’t he in your prom vlog? That’s the earliest one I remember

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  5 лет назад +17

      Yes he was actually, you’re right!!

    • @mialikesfud2264
      @mialikesfud2264 4 года назад +1

      @@TheTaterTotP80 nothing cute about leaving a disgusting comment .

  • @Unicorns
    @Unicorns 5 лет назад +78

    "Am I allowed to swear?" LOL

  • @billiejostorey8902
    @billiejostorey8902 4 года назад +13

    I can't remember how but my boyfriend figured it out and said U struggle with Ur mental health don't u

  • @i12356cool
    @i12356cool 5 лет назад +8

    Oh my goodness, this was precious. Loved this video so much 💛 thank you for being so amazing !!!!

  • @LIZZYBANKSS
    @LIZZYBANKSS 3 года назад +1

    It’s a hard thing to do but I’m so proud that you found the courage to share it w your partner! That takes skill, keep doing you Marie.
    I’m glad your partner is so understanding and wants to help you and understands! You got a keeper 💗🥰☺️

  • @hxpnxs
    @hxpnxs 5 лет назад +21

    You guys look amazing 💕 thank u for this vid

  • @jessicasmith8473
    @jessicasmith8473 5 лет назад +3

    you look absolutely stunning in this video, love you xx you've helped me with so much acceptance of my own mental health and I appreciate it so much ❤❤

  • @meganmatravers5212
    @meganmatravers5212 5 лет назад +3

    Ngl the world need more guys like Dylan, he is so sweet and amazing

  • @beckyhyams8314
    @beckyhyams8314 5 лет назад +5

    Dylan is so sweet and a good boyfriend, I hope to find a supportive boyfrind like him some day x ❤

  • @nicolajohanna7883
    @nicolajohanna7883 5 лет назад +11

    Hey, could you maybe make a video on how to deal with relapses?

  • @sjoukjeposthumus
    @sjoukjeposthumus 2 года назад +1

    the family of my best friend thinks I'm the one causing his self harm, because I do it too. And my best friend said that if his self harm is getting worse, we can't hang out together anymore.

  • @caitparker1603
    @caitparker1603 5 лет назад +7

    Very grateful and appreciative you let us see this part of your life,bravest thing to do 💚 even better when you go through life and have an understanding partner

  • @jmilligan3050
    @jmilligan3050 5 лет назад +21

    I love and appreciate you very much ❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you for the incredible person that you are.

  • @hopebashford2645
    @hopebashford2645 5 лет назад +11

    Yes another video from Marie 😊 love you Marie❤️ your such an inspiration and I have always looked up to you x thanks for this video 😍💖 it’s so helpful ☺️

  • @sixlittlecavies5946
    @sixlittlecavies5946 5 лет назад +41

    um well #couplegoals 😥😂😂 Dylan seems so sweet, you are such a cute couple

  • @alannaskai
    @alannaskai 3 года назад

    I dont know why this video is flagged. It’s very helpful and encouraging to see as someone with scars on my arms that I deeply regret and feel shame over. Thank you for sharing 🙏

  • @Lee_.Writes
    @Lee_.Writes 2 года назад +1

    My parents found out not long ago and my dad told me no one will ever love me because of my scars… and that no one will hire me or want to be my friend😅 this video gave me a little hope that someone may still love me…

  • @caitlinmurray2963
    @caitlinmurray2963 5 лет назад

    The world is a brighter place when you have a best friend and a partner who believes in you that much. Everyones talking about how good he is for you (don't get me wrong he's a legend clearly) but just think how much you've broadened his mind to all sorts of illnesses and changed his way of thinking towards any disability whether mental or physical, that's something you should be proud of for sure ❤️ mental and physical health doesn't define you!

  • @lesleysmith7897
    @lesleysmith7897 5 лет назад +1

    Dylan seems such a great guy, very supportive and caring. You two make a lovely couple!! You're both so right MH issues are really common. I've had MH issues for about 25 years. My brother had Bipolar Disorder and passed away in 2017....I wish he had been able to open up about his struggles as he may still be here today. You're relationship will go from strength to strength. Love being sent to you both ❤❤❤❤

  • @aynnamarie8164
    @aynnamarie8164 5 лет назад +3

    Marie you look so happy and healthy in this video. 💕 luv you

  • @billieavocardo6097
    @billieavocardo6097 5 лет назад +11

    Love you Marie u help me so much u don’t even understand 💗💗

  • @ruemace
    @ruemace 5 лет назад +5

    “Tell them to fuck off” “tell his parents to get in the bin” I chOKED 😂

  • @simplybrii6762
    @simplybrii6762 3 года назад

    I wish I can find someone that would put with me and my mental health issues. My ex almost two years ago broke up with me because of my mental health. I’m not as upset about it now but it still hurts. But I’m glad you’re happy and so supportive.

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  3 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry. It must hurt you so badly. Just know that Dylan and I broke up because of my mental health. It’s something I’ve worked on but it’s also something Dylan and decided to invest in. You will find your Dylan one day ❤️

  • @womanboss8213
    @womanboss8213 5 лет назад +8

    Dylan is every woman’s dream man🤷🏽‍♀️ He’s such a great guy! You’re so so lucky to have him💗

    • @TheTaterTotP80
      @TheTaterTotP80 4 года назад +1

      Not at all, it's a sad waste of her genes and White skin.

  • @sarasunflower3369
    @sarasunflower3369 5 лет назад +3

    Dylan is wonderful and wholesome and I love him

  • @ainedolley5438
    @ainedolley5438 5 лет назад +6

    So proud of you girl I love you

  • @amyrebecca5312
    @amyrebecca5312 5 лет назад +6

    Hey Marie it’s @amyrcxo from Twitter! I’ve been watching since you were 17! i remember the first vlog that Dylan was in, I’m pretty sure you went to some sort of zoo or animal wildlife park? Or it could have been your prom vlog, I can’t remember which one you uploaded first! I love this video and how much insight it provides to viewers, you and Dylan are the sweetest couple. Lots of love Marie

  • @helloktmccm9381
    @helloktmccm9381 5 лет назад

    OMG I will never settle with anyone less supportive than Dylan now

  • @Vanessa-kw1xh
    @Vanessa-kw1xh 5 лет назад +3

    The zoo vlog!!! You are so lucky to have someone like Dylan in your life xx

  • @ellisesanchez-garci7216
    @ellisesanchez-garci7216 5 лет назад +1

    You look so stunning Marie !!!! So glad you have such a good support system

  • @raspberrydream7329
    @raspberrydream7329 5 лет назад +2

    What a lovely guy Dylan is ❤️ you two are just so sweet together 😀

  • @kamrankhan4874
    @kamrankhan4874 5 лет назад +5

    Dylan also appeared in the 'Amsterdam' video

  • @Theodora._.loveshappiness
    @Theodora._.loveshappiness 10 месяцев назад +2

    Can't believe she's gone now 😭

  • @corvus1963
    @corvus1963 5 лет назад +38

    Yes Marie! Hi Dylan welcome 😂😂

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  5 лет назад +5

      Welcome to the fammmmm ahahah

    • @corvus1963
      @corvus1963 5 лет назад +1

      Also on that video that showed Dylan on your bed ages ago what is the song in the background?

  • @kamrankhan4874
    @kamrankhan4874 5 лет назад +3

    Dylan was in the Zoo volg! Yep I have been with you longer than that!

  • @TheMaddyallen
    @TheMaddyallen 4 года назад

    I think with dating, it’s important to tell the person if you like them but not early on as it’s not something that should define you if that makes sense. They should get to know YOU first, mental health is just an accompaniment to that 😊

  • @ninac7471
    @ninac7471 5 лет назад +3

    You guys are such sweeties. My heart is so fucking full❤️

  • @shawnabarnett7008
    @shawnabarnett7008 5 лет назад +2

    You guys are beautiful together. Wow.

  • @jmilligan3050
    @jmilligan3050 5 лет назад +7

    You guys are extreamly cute by the way 😭😭😭😍😍😍

  • @daynajadex4993
    @daynajadex4993 5 лет назад +2

    Goalllsss welcomeee Dylan hope we see more of ya😂 I wanna see this anniversary surprise 😂

  • @atree4487
    @atree4487 3 года назад

    This is beautiful. When I told my parents they seemed like they didn’t really care and only one of my friends found out because she noticed the scars and she SH herself. I’m too scared to tell any of my other friends.

  • @millienewman136
    @millienewman136 5 лет назад +1

    Dylan is an angel in disguise💕

  • @meganmilburn7686
    @meganmilburn7686 5 лет назад +6

    Please do a how I told my friends xx

  • @lunashadow1521
    @lunashadow1521 5 лет назад +11

    I 💓💓 love ❤️❤️ them 💗💗 so ✨✨ much ❄️❄️

  • @leenaheikal9068
    @leenaheikal9068 5 лет назад

    I love you guys together, and although I haven't been watching your channel for long, I have been going through a moment of watching every video I can find of yours. You inspire me and I love you.

  • @blueswinds
    @blueswinds 5 лет назад +7

    aw ily

  • @hollyhenderson4993
    @hollyhenderson4993 5 лет назад +1

    could you please do a video on opening up about mental health

  • @strawberrytam98
    @strawberrytam98 5 лет назад +5

    great video! you two seem like a lovely couple 😊 hope youre doing ok x💕

  • @curtisbemis6640
    @curtisbemis6640 4 года назад +3

    Dylan is an incredible man hes so loving and understanding . I'm so glad that marie is with him . if Dylan reads this I respect him so much thank you for being so awesome to marie .🙏🙏🔥🔥💯💯

  • @Izzfizzwizz1003
    @Izzfizzwizz1003 5 лет назад

    He was in your PROM VLOG!!
    Such an inspiration 💓💓💓

  • @shadow12264
    @shadow12264 4 года назад

    You guys are lucky to have each other ,I have self harm scars and I'm afraid I won't find anyone but I'm not afraid of being alone anymore

  • @Julia-de2in
    @Julia-de2in 5 лет назад +1

    Oh you look so happy with him. I am so happy for you❤️❤️
    Thank you for this vid. It really helps me❤️

  • @soph852
    @soph852 5 лет назад

    Really really loved this video. 💜 It was very interesting to hear two different points of view on the topics brought up. Also y’all are super cute together

  • @ILoveMakeUp153
    @ILoveMakeUp153 5 лет назад +2

    Love your videos!! You’re so inspiring💗
    I wanted to ask, are you clean at the moment? And if you are, for how long?

  • @tiramaisu
    @tiramaisu 5 лет назад

    Awwww, he’s so supportive! You both really are the best 💕💕

  • @sylviahastenteufel363
    @sylviahastenteufel363 5 лет назад +1

    I cry for your scarred heart.

  • @meganbaxter1386
    @meganbaxter1386 5 лет назад +2

    Find me a bf like him please 😩 he's so supportive

  • @ayeeeesha
    @ayeeeesha 5 лет назад +2

    I diddnt even realise it had been 27 minutes wow!! I could watch you for hours🥰🥰

  • @cjtaylor1977
    @cjtaylor1977 5 лет назад +1

    You guys are great together. Best wishes to you both.

  • @bubbles1310
    @bubbles1310 5 лет назад +5

    I dmed my friend when I was having a really bad night , I can’t even remember it , I was just asking for advice. And her mum has been checking her phone and read what I said and she won’t let my friend see me anymore. It just makes me feel really ashamed and guilty. And she’s my best friend and the only person who I felt I could talk to and now I have no one to talk too. What should I do ?

    • @charlottehunt294
      @charlottehunt294 5 лет назад +3

      The fact that her mum stopped her from speaking to you when you just asked for advice is so unfair. If you have any other close friends or family members please try and reach out to them as hard as it may be. Don’t keep it bottled up x

    • @kelliebannister4100
      @kelliebannister4100 5 лет назад +1

      So sorry babe

    • @billieeilish1284
      @billieeilish1284 4 года назад

      Sorry u can talk to me my Instagram is @icryoverbillieeilish just dm I will help u ❤️

  • @user-bj9ci3uy9s
    @user-bj9ci3uy9s 5 лет назад

    you guys are literally the cutest couple and dylan seems really amazing!!! i remember the zoo vlog xx love u so much

  • @laurenstratton9461
    @laurenstratton9461 Год назад

    Who's watching in 2023 and so proud to see Marie in a happier place

  • @cripsycrabsoap
    @cripsycrabsoap 5 лет назад +1

    Your boyfriend is too precious 😭😭 any time I’ve ever relapsed my fiancé scolded me and made me feel bad

    • @marieroseeee
      @marieroseeee  5 лет назад +2

      I’m so sorru that happens. Don’t settle for anything less than your worth xxxx

  • @coralmore3568
    @coralmore3568 5 лет назад

    It’s so hard having such an amazing partner and being in the hospital. I have so much guilt and shame about it.

  • @alisonmurraytennick7114
    @alisonmurraytennick7114 Год назад +3

    will miss u girlie xx

  • @imiexo5424
    @imiexo5424 5 лет назад +1

    u two are too cute i cant

  • @ge0rgiatalks
    @ge0rgiatalks 5 лет назад +1

    this restores my faith in men

  • @buu.888
    @buu.888 5 лет назад +1

    He seems really lovely xox He's lucky to have you and you are to have him :)

  • @nagon5793
    @nagon5793 4 года назад

    My boyfriend know i self harmED but he dont no i self harm rn and Im really scared to tell him and What he Will think about it but this really helped, Thankyou for being so open it helpes so many people.
    ❤️

  • @curtisbemis6640
    @curtisbemis6640 4 года назад +1

    I'm glad you found a great man to share your life with and someone who is so understanding and loves you 💯💯🙏🙏thank you Dillon. Your an awesome person brother 💎💎💎

  • @charlottesmith8561
    @charlottesmith8561 5 лет назад +5

    Brave girl 💕

  • @arivalduga5224
    @arivalduga5224 4 года назад

    I have a boyfriend who really really hates when I cut, which I totally get. But for me a way that helps me not cut is telling him when I want too. But he gets so upset when I do that I’m thinking maybe I should stop, he tells me it’s fine but I just hate how upset he gets. I can’t really mention my cutting or scars without him getting so upset. I don’t know what to do. Do I stop telling him? Stop mentioning self harm completely? Is there a way for him to understand? Help!

  • @maddysontiffani7700
    @maddysontiffani7700 5 лет назад +2

    Yes Marie I know it’s a bit late but love you so xx

  • @tilynia
    @tilynia 2 года назад +1

    i wish i have a person like him

  • @laurenflana
    @laurenflana 5 лет назад +5

    Marie: “Welcome to Dylan...”
    Dylan: “He’s licking my feet”
    EWW 😂😂

  • @itsalex37
    @itsalex37 5 лет назад +2

    Been here since day 1 xo

  • @seannethomson7001
    @seannethomson7001 5 лет назад +2

    i really needed this

  • @SaraH-xc1df
    @SaraH-xc1df 5 лет назад

    He’s everythingggg

  • @simplybeautyx1482
    @simplybeautyx1482 5 лет назад +1

    Can you do a music playlist video or link it please xx