How to STOP saying UMM when you speak

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
  • Do you say UMM & AHH when you speak? 🥹
    This is considered auditory clutter when you are talking to others and it distracts them from the message you're trying to convey to them.
    The problem is that most people aren't even AWARE that they do this.
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Комментарии • 35

  • @askvinh
    @askvinh  3 месяца назад +9

    Join my FREE 2 hour LIVE masterclass starting TOMORROW:
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  • @Wheres_Bunny
    @Wheres_Bunny 3 месяца назад +81

    I love how I got a Vinh Ad before this

  • @Thelobster269
    @Thelobster269 3 месяца назад +22

    I wanted to adjust my glasses one time,then I noticed I wasn't even wearing them😂

  • @anthonycash6820
    @anthonycash6820 3 месяца назад +31

    Ummm interesting question🤔

    • @askvinh
      @askvinh  3 месяца назад +12

      umm, interesting for sure 😅

  • @skaterdude14b
    @skaterdude14b 3 месяца назад +12

    umm is for keeping your turn in the convo, bc the other person may steal your talking turn if you pause silent

    • @vrts
      @vrts 3 месяца назад +5

      Create more presence in the conversation.
      Notice the way Vinh is talking: he looks away, closes his eyes, or gestures if he's at a pause that someone might use an 'umm'. It's communicating with body language that there's more to come.
      You can do similarly with your breathe or the tone of your voice to suggest that you're not done.
      All that said, it may not help if your conversation partner is rude or your message is deeply uninteresting.

  • @ej7052
    @ej7052 3 месяца назад +17

    After you noticed/identify your Umm's habits, one way to stop the Umm's is to intentionally replace it with a silent pause.
    Pausing still give us time to process what's in our mind, just as an Umm does

  • @ManFromBogota
    @ManFromBogota 3 месяца назад +6

    What about if English is my second language and I still have to think what I am saying? Pls give me an advice, I will appreciate it

  • @filicefilice
    @filicefilice 3 месяца назад +2

    Fantastic channel - we found about you from RUclips add after watching a fellow Ukrainian blog. Your methods and courses may actually really help to Ukrainians abroad now - those who know English language but struggling to present themselves effective in business etc.!!! Will definitely follow your videos and hopefully get a course tuition ❤ Thank You 💕 Save Ukraine ❣️🌈❣️🌈❣️

  • @yessmile8
    @yessmile8 2 месяца назад +1

    Another annoying word is "basically" 😖

  • @Farquad76.547
    @Farquad76.547 3 месяца назад +2

    People who say “like” are the most irksome individuals I’ve ever come across.

  • @vonpredator
    @vonpredator 3 месяца назад +1

    Please get in touch with Justin Trudeau. To get him to stop doing that. 🙄

    • @lb765
      @lb765 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

  • @exploringfindeverything
    @exploringfindeverything 3 месяца назад +9

    I love that he said his habit of touching his glasses

  • @brtoneal6339
    @brtoneal6339 3 месяца назад +5

    Since watching your video, I have been very sensitive to the filler words used by the others, which actually becomes a real distraction. HAHAHA

  • @PeggyAhadzi
    @PeggyAhadzi 3 месяца назад +2

    Please can you make a video on how to handle an impromptu speech 🙏🙏🙏 a competition is at stake here

  • @Luhhpronto
    @Luhhpronto 3 месяца назад +2

    Bring the hair back vinh !

  • @care2crochet
    @care2crochet 3 месяца назад +1

    Am staying up til 1230am to be there, soooo excited!

  • @DarraghQuinn-d8o
    @DarraghQuinn-d8o 3 месяца назад +1

    1:45 A swale. Nice!

  • @user-bl8uu6rq4z
    @user-bl8uu6rq4z 3 месяца назад +1

  • @madmike987655
    @madmike987655 3 месяца назад

    I hate 'like' more than 'umm' and 'ahh' combined. People who say like every 3 or 4 words drive me insane

  • @louispearson8306
    @louispearson8306 3 месяца назад

    I just came to your channel to downvote all your videos for spamming me with adverts for like 3 weeks.

  • @Ivanos-p4n
    @Ivanos-p4n 2 месяца назад

    Is that your back garden Vinh?
    Good short clip. I wasn’t aware of my umm until I watched your video. I can see it in all people now when they talk.

  • @kyawzinhtet3707
    @kyawzinhtet3707 2 месяца назад

    Can you give me some video links to practice because my voice is still small?

  • @Jonderbar
    @Jonderbar 3 месяца назад

    Hey bro just wanted to say you interrupt nothing with your ads, as i keep on scrolling every time. Please go away