This is so well written. The person who is writing this must've been in a toxic relationship themselves. The atmosphere, the snide comments, the tension, the gas lighting, the lies .... so realistic. Well done.
Yup! He reminds me of many abusive men and the way he weaponizes her mental health reminds me of being Belle in certain situations sadly, so I hope given her disorder they writers keep it 💯 and don't try to make her turn bad and blame her disorder again as that just helps real life Toms have ideas when they don't base it on reality of life with someone with bipolar instead of a stigma riddled one as other soaps have *coughs* Hollyoaks...b
@TheSpiciestGinger totally agree. Exposing one's vulnerabilities to people like that is such a bad idea. You have to be very certain about someone's intentions before exposing yourself like that.
He doesn't even have the decency to help. Instead he just stands over his crying wife, who is on her knees, trying to gather up her mother's remains, refusing to accept any blame. This guy just makes you hate him more and more with every episode.
the time when belle stood up to tom- I love how she spoke to him in this. she had comebacks, but now she doesn’t speak up, and it’s really sad to see…but I understand, this is what this kind of abuse is like.
Tom is constantly belittling Belle .. this is her second time being treated badly by a boyfriend. I really hope Tom doesn’t drive Belle to a breakdown and Tom will blame Belle .. saying she is imagining it all.
@@bussusacheesetoasty8750 Well that's what controlling people are like for u their nature's like that they don't show their true colours at the start but then at the end they show it slowly slowly
Omg he smashes her mum's urn and then has the nerve to say its not his fault and to top it off he doesn't even care I'm sorry but if I was Belle I would leave him like what he just did is disgusting and unforgivable like how many more bad things does he have to do until Belle wakes up.
this reminds me of every abusive relationship i have been in my whole life. I was an idiot to stay in them because I thought they would realise they were wrong and change. Their type never change. i no longer see the good in people but the real
One thing i always hate in abues storylines is that the victims just shrug it off. Like sabotaging yr work, scrutinising yr family destroying yr mothers ashes is ok. WAKE UP BELLE!
Bell should have left Tom on the Wedding night after he was so nasty. The abuse is her fault because she is staying for it. She already knows he is nasty. Asking a nasty abuser if he did something nasty is insane.
I’m literally hoping that if Belle finally speaks out against Tom, hopefully the Dingles’ response will mean revenge for her. Because he’s a nobody after all.
God. He getting worst everyday. He smashes her mum’s ashes and he shows no remorse. I hope Belle leave him soon. He to controlling and loses his temper a lot and all this is only the first stage. How long will it be till the next stage. You know when the hitting and punching starts all because he lost his temper.
Even if Belle tries to leave he’ll just convince her that he’s changed and she’ll go back. It may not go to the hitting stage , this is conceive abuse. The constant belittling and making Belle believe that she’s not good enough, her career isn’t as important as his. Isolating her from family by putting them down. Eventually she probably won’t see her family isolating her further so she HAS to “rely” on him. If she’s not working he’ll control money too. Trying to make her have a family instead of concentrating on her career meaning, that she will be at home all day, Tom knowing exactly where she is. The next stage will be technology to watch her every move. We’ve already seen Tom injure himself just to get Belles attention then belittle her for wasting the docs time.
Tom Is scum literally couldn't hate anyone more than him right now but belle should of had lisa's ashes somewhere safe NOT outside really but tom is vile and the quicker he leaves the village the better he won't be missed
Who keeps the ashes of there mom outside you keep Something like that inside and tom didn't know what was in there and why did they have to ruin the character of tom for and well done mandy for ruining Marlon's birthday party you didn't need to get drunk and make a scene in front of people
What he is saying that it is not his fault is not true it is his fault he just can’t stand of thought of letting Belle be happy and I am so sick and tired of him hurting her and being so horrible and nasty to her and even controlling her and thinking that she is not good enough for him and making her life a misery I hope that this is a wake up call that Belle can finally break up with him and divorce him for what he has done too
She won’t see through it though, she’ll just apologise (again) each time he belittles her will chip away at her confidence until she’s a shadow of her former self. That’s wat cohesive abuse does.
@@Tiggysmum That’s true but I just still don’t understand about why she is still with him after the way he is treating her and just can’t see for what he is and just break up with him already 😰
@@CharlotteChallis-cb2ms i think that’s the thing isn’t it, if she spoke to anyone in the village they would probably be able to see wats going on and make her see sense. But when u are in it u just see it as Toms having a sulk rather than it being abuse and control.
He being a nasty bully too Belle right now we all know he kicked lisa ashes too get back a Belle because Tom thought Belle keep on talking back to him all the time he did not like that one bit I don't know why he made Belle his wife if doesn't like any of her family members in the family 🌳 tree line.
It’s all about control belittling her family aswell as her is part of isolating her from them. He wants total control over what Belle does, her every move, doesn’t want her having a career he’s already saying he earns enough without her working. All part of keeping her at home and slowly eating away at her confidence. She will gradually become a shell of herself.
Belle would you please stand up to him you’ve got to report him for what he did to you you can’t just live a lie forever and not talk to your family about it they need to know
I like the acting it's good, I have nothing against the actor who plays tom, but tom is a joke he puts up a front for friends and family but all he is, is a stroppy kid (yes even tho he is an adult) looking for attention. He is like a kid who wants all the attention from his mother
That’s exactly what he wants all Belles attention doesn’t want her to mix with family or friends,have a career. He wants her to have to completely rely on him. He’ll start watching everywhere she goes and everyone she’s speaks to, gradually turning her away from family and friends.
He literally kicks the urn then has the cheek to say "its not my fault!" If someone done that to mine, I dont care, I would be doing time!😡👊 the sooner cain finds out the better!
Thomas that's too far now that's enough enough is enough I don't think belle can take it no more that's just really disgusting kicking belles dead mom lisas ashes and swearing at her dead mom Lisa ur supposed to show respect to the dead people
Tom is just like a spoiled child and needs too grow up bell could do better than that next week she finds out that she is Pregnant and she doesn't know whot too do let's hope she gets rid off it as having a baby with a crazy man like Tom and she can have a good life first having a baby wxith him would be a nightmare she could do a lot more better than Tom he is like a child that can't get its own way very seriously twisted in his head getting boring with him bell can do so much better with out him acting like a crazy child 🥴🤛
I just can't stand tom after he cut himself and call belle at her work and he told her client daniel oh watch out for the owner leyla she did cocaine tom hello this happen before u came onto the scene how dare make belle upset after she lost her mum I just don't like tom at all and he gets jealous with vinny like her own blood grow up tom for God sake somone please put me on here I cant stand tom attitude towards belle it's just disgusting ❤ makes my blood boil he's brain washing poor belle 😢😢😢❤❤😩😩😩😩💕💕
Rubbish! He's a brilliant actor. Truthfully, he would make a brilliant James Bond. 🇬🇧 They wouldn't consider him, because he is 'just a soap actor' - but, he's way more than that. He would be a perfect Bond.
I'm glad 'Tom''s going. He's not a very good actor anyway. Some of the storyline is a bit superficial. If the writers are going to include domestic abuse, controlling behaviour, the build up should be much more complex, darker, and insidious. Never mind, it's a soap, and Caine,Sam and Aaron will sort the worm out, good and proper😂
Or her leaving him, how about that? Kicking the shit out of him wouldn't be justified, especially from a groomer like Cain Dingle, who has done far worse in his time.
@@stevenhighams4190 Oh absolutely! I'm waiting for Belle to kick him in the groin and say, "I'm divorcing you", and throw his stuff out in the mud 😄. More woman power to her too!
I just can't stand tom after he cut himself and call belle at her work and he told her client daniel oh watch out for the owner leyla she did cocaine tom hello this happen before u came onto the scene how dare make belle upset after she lost her mum I just don't like tom at all and he gets jealous with vinny like her own blood grow up tom for God sake somone please put me on here I cant stand tom attitude towards belle it's just disgusting ❤ makes my blood boil he's brain washing poor belle 😢😢😢❤❤😩😩😩😩💕💕
This is so well written. The person who is writing this must've been in a toxic relationship themselves. The atmosphere, the snide comments, the tension, the gas lighting, the lies .... so realistic. Well done.
Yup! He reminds me of many abusive men and the way he weaponizes her mental health reminds me of being Belle in certain situations sadly, so I hope given her disorder they writers keep it 💯 and don't try to make her turn bad and blame her disorder again as that just helps real life Toms have ideas when they don't base it on reality of life with someone with bipolar instead of a stigma riddled one as other soaps have *coughs* Hollyoaks...b
Why did they have to ruin his character for tom was never like that I feel sorry for the actor who plays tom
They just work with charities and professionals in that field.
That’s a really nasty thing to write. Emmerdale couldn’t stoop any lower.
@TheSpiciestGinger totally agree. Exposing one's vulnerabilities to people like that is such a bad idea. You have to be very certain about someone's intentions before exposing yourself like that.
The thought of Cain finding out is the only thing getting me through this storyline.
Yeah I thought that to
well Tom doesn't have any teenage daughters for him to groom so I think Tom will be pretty safe from him lol.
Same here
He doesn't even have the decency to help. Instead he just stands over his crying wife, who is on her knees, trying to gather up her mother's remains, refusing to accept any blame. This guy just makes you hate him more and more with every episode.
I ready for it to end
the time when belle stood up to tom- I love how she spoke to him in this. she had comebacks, but now she doesn’t speak up, and it’s really sad to see…but I understand, this is what this kind of abuse is like.
Tom is constantly belittling Belle .. this is her second time being treated badly by a boyfriend. I really hope Tom doesn’t drive Belle to a breakdown and Tom will blame Belle .. saying she is imagining it all.
Let's see what Jimmy will think
Seeing this comment now, and that's exactly what he's done he is sick
Tom: kicks Lisa’s ashes
Also Tom: tHaT wAs NoT mY fAuLt
So who's fault was it God's did god put Thomas up to it no I don't think so excuses after excuses don't wanna listen to it
WTF were Lisa's ashes doing there in all fairness though lmao
Tom is such a prick, don’t know what Belle saw in him!
He wasn’t like that at the start and that’s how many abusers get them to fall in love with them.
Its not real u know 😮
Oh don't act like you're so perfect.
He's gone too far now it's time the dingles taught him a lesson
@@bussusacheesetoasty8750 Well that's what controlling people are like for u their nature's like that they don't show their true colours at the start but then at the end they show it slowly slowly
Belle please leave his sorry behind and get out of the abusive marriage.
Eventually he is going to start slapping and hitting Belle and will tell her it's her fault for him hurting her
He is a real manipulator.
They have ruined the character of tom there was no need for this storyline
@@BlueAndWhiteAreRighthe would been boring without it
If someone kicked my mothers ashes an tried to blame it on me. They would see a different side of me 😡
SOMEBODY GET RID OF HIM
If I could climb into the screen, believe me I would.
“Not my fault.” You literally kicked it.
He had a point who leaves ashes outside on the floor😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@MsJoshyy123 someone who wants their parents to be somewhere that mattered to them,
He really is Dodgy Tom, isn’t he?
Awful character.
Why did they have to ruin his character for he was never like this
Yeah exactly
He is a disrespectful……….I shouldn’t swear online but he is doing my head in
I get it I was the same lol
Poor belle 😢
Omg he smashes her mum's urn and then has the nerve to say its not his fault and to top it off he doesn't even care I'm sorry but if I was Belle I would leave him like what he just did is disgusting and unforgivable like how many more bad things does he have to do until Belle wakes up.
wait till cain finds out JUST WAITTT HAHAHAHA
Tom is just like his dad Carl! Belle deserves better than this🥺🥺
Well carl wasn't like that not til the end
Carl wasn't like that he wasn't controlling he wasn't a pyscho either but at the end of it what he did to chas
bloody hell! run belle for god sake!
Wake up belle you shouldn't married him
this reminds me of every abusive relationship i have been in my whole life.
I was an idiot to stay in them because I thought they would realise they were wrong and change.
Their type never change. i no longer see the good in people but the real
he should be lucky he is a part of the dingle family and good wife
I knew from the moment he came back then things would go downhill, never trusted him for one fleeting moment
One thing i always hate in abues storylines is that the victims just shrug it off. Like sabotaging yr work, scrutinising yr family destroying yr mothers ashes is ok. WAKE UP BELLE!
Wake up call belle
How dare he kick Lisa’s ashes!!!😤😤😤
Yeah that's out of order
Belle should have yelled at him then.
@@melgrant7404 well she told him to get stuffed
@melissafox7257 needs a bit more than that. Hopefully she will let him have it at some point.
@@melgrant7404 he thinks he's better then her men should treat women equal right
Tom will be developing a new phobia of packed lunches after Cain’s got hold of him
Cains gone downhill over the years the story writers have ruined emmerdale
Or maybe he could teach him how to groom underage girls and interbreed.
This was so sad😢
Bell should have left Tom on the Wedding night after he was so nasty. The abuse is her fault because she is staying for it. She already knows he is nasty. Asking a nasty abuser if he did something nasty is insane.
Poor belle
I’m literally hoping that if Belle finally speaks out against Tom, hopefully the Dingles’ response will mean revenge for her. Because he’s a nobody after all.
You need to left him bell
Belle, leave him now !
I really hope cain gives him what he deserves
Yeah, the guy grooms jailbait and romps with his cousins. A fine role model.
I absolutely hate Tom, but that means that his actor is doing BRILLIANTLY.
It’s only going to get worse and Tom better run for the hills when the Dingles find out what’s he’s being doing.
Why don’t belle just leave Tom she knows what his like his controlling her and making her think she’s got her illness back
God. He getting worst everyday. He smashes her mum’s ashes and he shows no remorse. I hope Belle leave him soon. He to controlling and loses his temper a lot and all this is only the first stage. How long will it be till the next stage. You know when the hitting and punching starts all because he lost his temper.
Even if Belle tries to leave he’ll just convince her that he’s changed and she’ll go back.
It may not go to the hitting stage , this is conceive abuse. The constant belittling and making Belle believe that she’s not good enough, her career isn’t as important as his. Isolating her from family by putting them down. Eventually she probably won’t see her family isolating her further so she HAS to “rely” on him. If she’s not working he’ll control money too.
Trying to make her have a family instead of concentrating on her career meaning, that she will be at home all day, Tom knowing exactly where she is. The next stage will be technology to watch her every move.
We’ve already seen Tom injure himself just to get Belles attention then belittle her for wasting the docs time.
That's already happened before they married!
@@gabrielmoody1708 I missed that.
Tom is so twisted and toxic
Yoooooo! Kicking Lisa's ashes?? Writers that's a tad far! Anyone, even Belle would have send him back to Jesus if that happened irl😮😮😮
Why did they bring him back? Please get rid of him ASAP
Love a fella like Tom unfortunately I never be that lucky 🙄
Maybe one day you will x
Ooh he better be ready to face the wrath of Cain & Aaron!
Belle, can you not see the red flags?
No and she won’t see them for a long time.
Belle needs to stand up to tom.
But she wont cos he’ll just keep chipping away at her until she believes wat he’s saying.
All the warning signs of a control freak get rid.
Tom Is scum literally couldn't hate anyone more than him right now but belle should of had lisa's ashes somewhere safe NOT outside really but tom is vile and the quicker he leaves the village the better he won't be missed
Who keeps the ashes of there mom outside you keep Something like that inside and tom didn't know what was in there and why did they have to ruin the character of tom for and well done mandy for ruining Marlon's birthday party you didn't need to get drunk and make a scene in front of people
Cant feel sorry for her
She was warn ahead of time
All the time 😂😂😂😂
Girl please
You did this to yourself
Girl when are you gonna wake up
Sadly she won’t see wats going on.
I feel like she is going to snap and kill him, and you can't blame her. Tom is twisted and dangerous .
Kym Tate is FIT ❤❤❤❤❤❤
What he is saying that it is not his fault is not true it is his fault he just can’t stand of thought of letting Belle be happy and I am so sick and tired of him hurting her and being so horrible and nasty to her and even controlling her and thinking that she is not good enough for him and making her life a misery I hope that this is a wake up call that Belle can finally break up with him and divorce him for what he has done too
She won’t see through it though, she’ll just apologise (again) each time he belittles her will chip away at her confidence until she’s a shadow of her former self. That’s wat cohesive abuse does.
@@Tiggysmum That’s true but I just still don’t understand about why she is still with him after the way he is treating her and just can’t see for what he is and just break up with him already 😰
@@CharlotteChallis-cb2ms i think that’s the thing isn’t it, if she spoke to anyone in the village they would probably be able to see wats going on and make her see sense. But when u are in it u just see it as Toms having a sulk rather than it being abuse and control.
Right ok that’s a good point
Tomboy Tom at it again!
He being a nasty bully too Belle right now we all know he kicked lisa ashes too get back a Belle because Tom thought Belle keep on talking back to him all the time he did not like that one bit I don't know why he made Belle his wife if doesn't like any of her family members in the family 🌳 tree line.
It’s all about control belittling her family aswell as her is part of isolating her from them. He wants total control over what Belle does, her every move, doesn’t want her having a career he’s already saying he earns enough without her working. All part of keeping her at home and slowly eating away at her confidence. She will gradually become a shell of herself.
That is so disgusting 😲😲😲 and out of order one of the most vile characters worse than geoff
I will say this ..those ashes of Lisa was scattered in the river 4 years ago. 😂
@CarlyHawthorne For real, look it up, Zak scatters Lisa's ashes. It wasn't even in a piggy jar. They made a right boo boo there. 🤣😂
Why can’t belle have someone who really loves her and doesn’t treat her this way
Belle would you please stand up to him you’ve got to report him for what he did to you you can’t just live a lie forever and not talk to your family about it they need to know
Tom is an abuser. Next up hitting Belle. What a nightmare. I was glad when she finally stuck up for herself.
I like the acting it's good, I have nothing against the actor who plays tom, but tom is a joke he puts up a front for friends and family but all he is, is a stroppy kid (yes even tho he is an adult) looking for attention. He is like a kid who wants all the attention from his mother
That’s exactly what he wants all Belles attention doesn’t want her to mix with family or friends,have a career. He wants her to have to completely rely on him.
He’ll start watching everywhere she goes and everyone she’s speaks to, gradually turning her away from family and friends.
I hope Tom won’t kick Zak ashes
This will End in tears for belle either way
He's a narcissist
Its times like these you wish zak was there to witness this. Also brothers butch and ben were still alive to help belle alongside cain and sam.
WTF is her ashes out in the mud
Thomas showed his true colours to belle many times now it's time belle tells her family about thomases true colours when they find out he's dead meat
Can't wait till Cain finds out belle deserves better then Tom he didn't even care that he broke it
Cos nothing is his fault in his eyes. Can’t do anything wrong only Belle does. 🥲
Uh yes it is your fault
hows she acting so calm after he's destroyed her mums ashes? if i was her idve dumped him right there
Oh no, he didn't!!! OMG!!!😲 😮😢😢
tom is so tight 😪
He literally kicks the urn then has the cheek to say "its not my fault!" If someone done that to mine, I dont care, I would be doing time!😡👊 the sooner cain finds out the better!
He certianly is the clone of Carl King
Carl was nothing like this…
@@terrortower666 he never let Chas go and he killed his dad
@@abbieroseholden4174But he wasn’t an abuser though...
@@terrortower666 You're right, patricide is chicken feed. What warped values we have these days...
Someday this couple maybe separate,and cheat soon
Why would you leave your mams ashes outside in a pig jar anyway
Thomas that's too far now that's enough enough is enough I don't think belle can take it no more that's just really disgusting kicking belles dead mom lisas ashes and swearing at her dead mom Lisa ur supposed to show respect to the dead people
Sorry but don’t like these sick stories
Tom is just like a spoiled child and needs too grow up bell could do better than that next week she finds out that she is Pregnant and she doesn't know whot too do let's hope she gets rid off it as having a baby with a crazy man like Tom and she can have a good life first having a baby wxith him would be a nightmare she could do a lot more better than Tom he is like a child that can't get its own way very seriously twisted in his head getting boring with him bell can do so much better with out him acting like a crazy child 🥴🤛
Just like his Dad Karl.
Emmerdale is boring .. actors in that cant act .. box ticking ...storys are mad.. stpopped watchijg it
Hate Tom so much
This whole storyline has been rushed to death and the robot playing Tom is bizarre.
Boy bye
I just can't stand tom after he cut himself and call belle at her work and he told her client daniel oh watch out for the owner leyla she did cocaine tom hello this happen before u came onto the scene how dare make belle upset after she lost her mum I just don't like tom at all and he gets jealous with vinny like her own blood grow up tom for God sake somone please put me on here I cant stand tom attitude towards belle it's just disgusting ❤ makes my blood boil he's brain washing poor belle 😢😢😢❤❤😩😩😩😩💕💕
Ot oh when cain finds out
Tom king is I of control after you done you can't miss the Dingles family you know that Cain sister want ate doing 😮
The actor that plays Tom is atrocious. The sooner he goes the better. So wooden
But he is a convincing bully.
Rubbish! He's a brilliant actor. Truthfully, he would make a brilliant James Bond. 🇬🇧 They wouldn't consider him, because he is 'just a soap actor' - but, he's way more than that. He would be a perfect Bond.
Narc behaviour right there
I'm glad 'Tom''s going. He's not a very good actor anyway.
Some of the storyline is a bit superficial. If the writers are going to include domestic abuse, controlling behaviour, the build up should be much more complex, darker, and insidious.
Never mind, it's a soap, and Caine,Sam and Aaron will sort the worm out, good and proper😂
Or her leaving him, how about that? Kicking the shit out of him wouldn't be justified, especially from a groomer like Cain Dingle, who has done far worse in his time.
@@stevenhighams4190 Oh absolutely! I'm waiting for Belle to kick him in the groin and say, "I'm divorcing you", and throw his stuff out in the mud 😄.
More woman power to her too!
I just can't stand tom after he cut himself and call belle at her work and he told her client daniel oh watch out for the owner leyla she did cocaine tom hello this happen before u came onto the scene how dare make belle upset after she lost her mum I just don't like tom at all and he gets jealous with vinny like her own blood grow up tom for God sake somone please put me on here I cant stand tom attitude towards belle it's just disgusting ❤ makes my blood boil he's brain washing poor belle 😢😢😢❤❤😩😩😩😩💕💕