I'M A DAD! | Q&A + Vegan Meatballs

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  • @imjennim
    @imjennim 3 года назад +3025

    I love you.

  • @ShowerSomeStars
    @ShowerSomeStars 3 года назад +629

    Jenn's videos are like tea - soothing, calming, puts you in a good warm fuzzy mood. Ben's videos are like coffee - gives you so much energy, you feel all positive & perked up and ready for your day!
    Congrats on baby Lennon and thank you both for making our days brighter

  • @WeCouldntFindNameYet
    @WeCouldntFindNameYet 3 года назад +450

    After watching Jenn's video, i hope my future husband would be like you. You were soooo involved with this pregrancy from day 1, you were full of love, patient, supporting, excited, understanding, mature... I have 0 doubt that you'll be a fantastic dad! Little Lennon is soo lucky to have Jenn and youas parents. I respect you so much as a person and i wish the three of you a fulfilled, healthy warm life! 💐

    • @stephq4008
      @stephq4008 3 года назад +10

      I agree! Jenn is someone who may feel anxious and self critical, and having an emotional rock like Ben would be SO good for her, or ANY partner. He's so sweet and loving and they make such a good pair!

    • @HaveAGoodOne
      @HaveAGoodOne  3 года назад +18

      Thank you!! I'm going to try my best and hopefully that's enough. Take care! X

  • @madeinbusanjkjm
    @madeinbusanjkjm 3 года назад +225

    "Responsibility - ability to respond". Thank you Ben for blowing my mind every time. I love that part of the video so much.

  • @fatbunss
    @fatbunss 3 года назад +611

    I love the way you look at each other, this is the cutest thing in the world. Little Lennon is in such good hands, if I can feel the happiness and love all the way through a screen then I can't imagine how much flowing positivity Lennon feels in person. Congratulations to you both! :)

    • @InesAxusAmmarkhodja
      @InesAxusAmmarkhodja 3 года назад +1

      wouldn't have said it better. So much love love love!

    • @HaveAGoodOne
      @HaveAGoodOne  3 года назад +7

      Lori, you're too kind! Thank you for these lovely words. X

  • @stephq4008
    @stephq4008 3 года назад +26

    Responding to stuff is KEY as a parent!! My parents FREAKED out whenever something bad happened, and would also yell at me for it. It's left me with such anxiety and took years as an adult in therapy to get over it.

    • @HaveAGoodOne
      @HaveAGoodOne  3 года назад +16

      I'm sorry to hear that, Steph. It's important not to blame them as they are trying their best from their conditioning from their parent's. The fact that you know and you're seeking help about it are all massive steps! Keep working on your mental health, meditate and remind yourself often that everything is going to be ok. X

    • @stephq4008
      @stephq4008 3 года назад +4

      @@HaveAGoodOne thank you for the reply Ben! I am in a far better place now. ☺️

  • @cutepinksocks
    @cutepinksocks 3 года назад +83

    i can't stop admiring jenn's skin like wow it is glowing and flawless

  • @juuljooo992
    @juuljooo992 3 года назад +259

    Just came here after watching the birth! First of all, CONGRATS!! I thought the perspective on the fact that kids live in tomorrow is so beautiful, it was such a nice thought. In a couple of years I want to start having children, but I have only ever been excited about the younger stages - such as infant, toddler etc. But hearing your guys' thoughts on kids growing up and keeping you informed and modern was honestly soooooo refreshing!! Growing up is a beautiful thing and every age group will have its advantages and downsides. Enjoy him while he's little ;)))

  • @jinnysanchez5040
    @jinnysanchez5040 3 года назад +88

    I absolutely appreciate how much you understand (as much as you can) what women go through physically, mentally and emotionally when bringing a life into this world. It’s different for everyone, no two experiences are the same, even with each pregnancy it’s not the same. Support, listen and get involved (as much as you can). Not everyone out there empathizes the way that you seem to. Very refreshing and amazing. I’m a mom to two wonderful boys and this is how I want them to be with their future partners. Teaching them and having open conversations about what others go through without having to go through it yourself is how we create a better relationship with ourselves and with the world.

  • @chloerosewood
    @chloerosewood 3 года назад +39

    There needs to be more partners like Ben like wow. Its so important to be a good father but some forget about how to be a good partner!

  • @vanessakwan5237
    @vanessakwan5237 3 года назад +170

    I've never clicked on a video this fast. Congratulations Ben, Jen, Len and of course Cheeki!

    • @lalalalaland84
      @lalalalaland84 3 года назад +33

      If they had a daughter she might be named gwen

    • @HaveAGoodOne
      @HaveAGoodOne  3 года назад +38

      @@lalalalaland84 That's a fantastic idea!

  • @jozcprs
    @jozcprs 3 года назад +8

    Jenn is glowiiiiiing my god. SHE JUST GAVE BIRTH. you guys are literally my definition of a contented and happy relationship. God bless you and your modest family

  • @roire
    @roire 3 года назад +2

    just from this video, you can already tell ben is going to be the perfect dad. lennon will be so happy and loved by you and jenn!

  • @pinkmarmalade
    @pinkmarmalade 3 года назад +56

    Jen looks so good here! shes glowing 💕 you both will be amazing parents!

  • @annalisaroberts6519
    @annalisaroberts6519 3 года назад +1

    You are an incredible role model for so many people

  • @kaiju_k5042
    @kaiju_k5042 3 года назад +304

    You and Jen look like you've been on a vacation, not giving birth haha. Such a gorgeous, glowing family. So happy for you guys! And the food looked amazing, now I'm hungry!

    • @HaveAGoodOne
      @HaveAGoodOne  3 года назад +11

      The glow is my sweat most likely, haha. Thanks, Kaiju!

  • @hamstjul14
    @hamstjul14 3 года назад +5

    I noticed that at multiple points throughout the video you talked about how it was so important to stay calm and be that pillar of strength and peace for your family, but just know that it’s perfectly fine to feel stressed and overwhelmed every now and then, you’re only human! Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, it’s clear to all that you’re a great dad 😊

  • @Jessica-wt2sm
    @Jessica-wt2sm 3 года назад +76

    Watching this after Jenn's birth vlog and just wanted to say congratulations to you guys on baby Lennon! He's so lucky to have you two as parents!

  • @Tiffany56765
    @Tiffany56765 3 года назад +116

    I believe you when you say you’re tired, but you certainly have a lot of enthusiasm and excitement of parenthood giving you an energetic boost in this video! Lots of love to you guys!! 💙

    • @HaveAGoodOne
      @HaveAGoodOne  3 года назад +1

      Haha, thanks Tiffany! It's all about mental energy!

  • @doingeven5196
    @doingeven5196 3 года назад +4

    Thanks for the response ability ben. I'm always gonna remember that.
    Jenn looks soooooooo amazing. And literally GLOW.
    you two have such great partnership.

  • @Wra8h
    @Wra8h 3 года назад +10

    You're so right for each other. I realized this watching the birth video and then yours. It's not just love that you have for each other, but like lego, you fit together right in the way you think, learn, listen, try, and live life. Lenny's very lucky to have you, and you're lucky to have each other and him.

  • @cathywhang
    @cathywhang 3 года назад +25

    haha i could see the tiredness in your eyes and you called it right out!! that made me laugh. congrats to you and jenn!! such a beautiful family and i've been watching you guys for years so happy for you guys

  • @SundayswithJamie
    @SundayswithJamie 3 года назад +5

    My heart is exploding with happiness for your fam! Congratulations 😍✨🌸 Lennon is so lucky to have you and Jenn as parents!!!

  • @lofa275
    @lofa275 3 года назад +2

    Loved your video. With our daughter we had the same scares, we would very often check to make sure she was breathing. For some reason even after months we would always check to make sure. God bless your baby and you guys!

  • @arianeoconnor6719
    @arianeoconnor6719 3 года назад +12

    Congratulations! Ahh, the postpartum anxiety is awful. It’s so interesting that there are actual physical changes to the mothers brain during this time. Mama bear is awakening. I didn’t sleep for 6 months at all because I had to keep checking if my son was still breathing. Probably should have gone to therapy to help deal with that at the time but didn’t have the support I needed to feel taken seriously or understood. It’s great you bring it up and I hope it settles fast for you.

  • @kiaramcneal8667
    @kiaramcneal8667 3 года назад

    Congratulations on your baby boy. As a newly mom myself I agree 100% and I think you will both make amazing parents.

  • @dianariconda7659
    @dianariconda7659 3 года назад

    Congratulations! He is beautiful! Enjoy, and don't blink it goes by very quickly!

  • @ayanomar1408
    @ayanomar1408 3 года назад

    my kids are 5 and 2 now but you and Jen remind me of that exciting thrilling and exauhsting phase of being parents for the first time and aaaah all I could say is time will fly so fast live every feeling and moment🌸

  • @justsugarsweet
    @justsugarsweet 3 года назад +3

    I never knew you had a channel. Congratulations to you both 💙

  • @facialdiva21
    @facialdiva21 3 года назад +2

    I remember bringing my daughter home and looking at her realizing WOW this tiny human is reliant upon me for everything. Beautifully terrifying. Congratulations you two are going to be amazing parents.

  • @chrisgriffiths3629
    @chrisgriffiths3629 3 года назад

    It takes time to adjust to being parents for the first time . I remember the anxiety over my first born son worried over is he still breathing too think most mothers go through that one , by the time I had my daughter 22 months later I was far more relaxed and as a result so was she , so Ben is right the baby does pick up on stress levels . Your doing an amazing xxx

  • @tungyanso944
    @tungyanso944 3 года назад +1

    I'm so glad to see you and Jenn entering a new phase of life with a lovely baby. It can be messy and overwhelming to be parents for the first time. Wishing you all the best along the way!

  • @zanna69
    @zanna69 3 года назад +2

    Jenn looks so calm and her energy is amazing as well as Ben's; I'm SO HAPPY FOR U GUYS, glad Lennon is having you as parents

  • @elizabeth-leavesandreads2890
    @elizabeth-leavesandreads2890 3 года назад +1

    I watched the birth video and it was just so beautiful. I’m glad the labor and delivery was positive. Congratulations to both of you! 💖

  • @charismapruitt4377
    @charismapruitt4377 3 года назад

    just imagine the growth you guys are gonna go through as your baby grows.❤ so cute to see the beginning stage as new parents

  • @taz7562
    @taz7562 3 года назад +1

    Seeing how you treat Jen so beautifully, little Lennon is gonna have the greatest papa! Congratulations and welcome to parenthood

  • @Monalisa-ls5tt
    @Monalisa-ls5tt 3 года назад +1

    The atmosphere of the vlog has brightened so much....the energy has tripled .Baby Lennon is so blessed. Godbless😇🥰

  • @teadora99
    @teadora99 3 года назад +5

    You guys are just everything to me. I'm so glad to have found you guys a few years ago now, you've become the people that are raising me through my twenties and now giving me advice for the future when I reach the stage you are at now. I couldn't be more thankful for you guys and I'm so genuinely happy for you two. Thank you so much for taking us along on your journey through everything, I'm only 22 but I hope when I get to where you guys are now, I'll be half as prepared, wise and kind as you two have been for all of life's challenges. Congratulations again on Lennon, and your wonderful family. ❤️

  • @daisynmama
    @daisynmama 3 года назад +1

    Baby Lenny is so lucky to have you guys as parents!! You guys are truly so beautiful! Congratulations on your new addition! 💙

  • @mihaelaclaudiap..2
    @mihaelaclaudiap..2 3 года назад +134

    Lennon is blessed to have you guys as his parents, he had chosen well (they say that we choose our parents before our birth, and I must say Lennon it's a smart boy :) ! Congrats! 🎉🎊

    • @jdoe5873
      @jdoe5873 3 года назад +28

      That’s cute and he is indeed very lucky to be born to Jenn and Ben. But we don’t choose our parents. No one would choose abusive ones. No one would choose neglectful ones. No one would choose ones living in a war zone. How do you explain those? I get the cutesy sentiment though hahaha just saying romanticism is blissfully ignorant indeed

    • @natascha8028
      @natascha8028 3 года назад +3

      @@jdoe5873 agree, I would have never chosen my father if I had the chance

    • @lc7034
      @lc7034 3 года назад +1

      @@jdoe5873 yes agree with u 100%. My mom is emotionally abusive and manipulating and makes life hell for everyone around her. Growing up, I’ve always asked god why I have a mother like her. I would’ve NEVER chosen her as my mother if I had a choice

    • @SatieSatie
      @SatieSatie 3 года назад

      @@natascha8028 Yeah, same. Why would I have "chosen" an emotionally instable and physically violent narc father?

  • @ms.23
    @ms.23 3 года назад +1

    You sound like a wonderful father. Congratulations

  • @tinadx8194
    @tinadx8194 3 года назад

    Jenn is so cuuuuuute my god, your family is so precious 🥺 I can so imagine Jenn freaking out over baby Lenny, super normal ! Wish you the best !

  • @adriennealine
    @adriennealine 3 года назад

    You were MADE for the camera, Ben! Your natural charisma and storytelling really draws us in! Congratulations on being a dad! So happy for you and Jenn! 🥰🥰💕

  • @milicamilenkovic7104
    @milicamilenkovic7104 3 года назад

    You can see how happy and excited he is to be a dad. Jenn and Ben are so sweet people and they are a lovely family. Congrats to both!! Much love all the way from Serbia!

  • @eurekapomar
    @eurekapomar 3 года назад

    I’m a nursing students doing labor and delivery rotations right now. Sometimes babies will forget to breathe while they’re eating! It’s normal. When it happens you can take out the nipple and try again. They get so hungry that they suck and suck but forget to breathe. Just make sure baby is sucking, swallowing, and breathing when feeding. Good luck guys ❤️

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 3 года назад

    Hello Ben & Jenn, hope you guys are settling well into parenthood, I always feel so inspired by you guys so much. 😊💜🌸

  • @sloo6027
    @sloo6027 3 года назад +1

    Congrats to you both! I work in a typical corporate job in Australia and it just made me realise the typical 2 weeks parental leave fathers take is nothing! We're trying to encourage more men to take up longer parental leave and it's really nice to see that you, as a man, can support Jenn in this journey (day and night, not just after work)!

  • @danielaaldrete3215
    @danielaaldrete3215 3 года назад

    Ben let me tell u something u have an awesome personality n energy. Love that u are so connected with ur fam. U can give that through the video !! Love this couple !

  • @chrissytu6197
    @chrissytu6197 3 года назад +9

    Jenn looks great!!! (As always, another great video!!!) CONGRATS on the arrival of Lennon!!!😘😘😘

  • @emmaisabelle17
    @emmaisabelle17 3 года назад

    Both of you are an inspiration. Best mom and dad.

  • @NizleyAlferez
    @NizleyAlferez 3 года назад +2

    The way Jenn looks at Ben is soo heartwarming!! Love you guys!

  • @miha6373
    @miha6373 3 года назад

    Ben! Can you make a video for how to make the tea time sandwiches that you made for Jenn?

  • @feliciabourque
    @feliciabourque 3 года назад +4

    Food looks incredible as always congrats on the birth of baby Lennon he is so precious. I cried watching jen's video.

  • @dewivangreuningen5494
    @dewivangreuningen5494 3 года назад

    Congratulations to both of you! You will become great parents.. Little Lenon will grow up to be a great person just like his parents

  • @bona.1993
    @bona.1993 3 года назад +1

    Ben, congratulations first off. But also, cannot wait for the day when you will upload a father son cooking show off.
    Lots of love to your newest addition, and Jenn as well! xx

  • @celiaamador2397
    @celiaamador2397 3 года назад

    Congratulations to you and Jenn!

  • @Bnice2any1
    @Bnice2any1 3 года назад

    Omg a current generation’s parent, I agree with you both in youth values & perspective. That’s what I’m excited about too, to be able to learn from our children in the future. I’m learning a lot from my primary sch age daughter already, and continue to learn with my baby boy right now🌱

  • @AVLZOfficial
    @AVLZOfficial 3 года назад

    congratulations!!!!!!!!!

  • @mammtagrg9174
    @mammtagrg9174 3 года назад +3

    I always love the way Jenn watches Ben when he is talking to the camera....♥️so happy for you guys .. congratulations on being a dad♥️...you will be a great super Dad♥️

  • @sbabb6708
    @sbabb6708 3 года назад +1

    You 3 are bless to have each other congrats. Ben can you share your meditation and breathing exercises you seem so full of life . I could use some that right know .

  • @natalyasawicki1059
    @natalyasawicki1059 3 года назад +1

    I loved this video! You two have such good energy. Also, Jenn looks amazing!

  • @leenarai9669
    @leenarai9669 3 года назад +2

    Congratulations!!!!! Welcome baby!! 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @yeshel7183
    @yeshel7183 3 года назад +3

    Congratulations Ben and Jen! I am so happy to have known you and see you grow as parents ❤️

  • @serenityydanielle
    @serenityydanielle 3 года назад

    Oh my goodness, I'm so happy for you guys! Congratulations!

  • @samzbeautystudio6768
    @samzbeautystudio6768 3 года назад

    Firstly congrats ben and jenn . I think its just so beautiful on how you changed people's perspective that Labour dosent have to be hard , just be calm and present and everything will be okey. I love how you guys teach us so much and cant wait to see lenny more ✨❤️ we love you guys
    OH AND YEAH THE FACT THAT JENN LOOKS SO GORGEOUS RIGHT AFTER BIRTH IS SMACK ON , GIRL YOU ROCKIN' IT

  • @marammaaroufi6093
    @marammaaroufi6093 3 года назад +1

    CONGRATULATIONS AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN! Welcome to the world Lenny!❤️❤️❤️✨

  • @wahalwali8361
    @wahalwali8361 3 года назад +1

    Congratulations guys I hope he would grow up in health and love and grace and jenn thank good that your healthy and well after your labor and Ben congratulations for your little baby and You are the best who would analyze things and advising people 💜💜💜💜💜

  • @anyabeus7266
    @anyabeus7266 3 года назад +1

    Congratulations, Ben!! I really appreciate your perspective when you talk about women and what you’ve learned a man should strive to be for his woman, when she’s pregnant and after she gives birth. Good for you, man.

  • @yae-joonkim7465
    @yae-joonkim7465 3 года назад

    Literally my fave couple on RUclips! Welcome to the world Lennon! Xx
    I wish more men were like you Ben!!

  • @Sarah-ul9ec
    @Sarah-ul9ec 3 года назад

    Jen is GLOWING ✨✨✨ Congrats to the new addition to the family!!!!!

  • @lizagrace8888
    @lizagrace8888 3 года назад

    Ben and Jenn you guys will be great parents and you are so blessed with Lennon! Love you guys!

  • @ClarisseDeGuzman
    @ClarisseDeGuzman 3 года назад +4

    Just came from Jenn's video on giving birth! I can't congratulate you both enough and I love seeing how happy you both are as full blown parents!

  • @gothicfury
    @gothicfury 3 года назад

    This was such a warm video. Congratz ben, jen and lennon ❤🍓

  • @janicetong1173
    @janicetong1173 3 года назад

    It truly goes by fast.. my toddler is running and starting to talk and I really miss the newborn cuddles. Enjoy the moments ❤️

  • @HONEYCHEERIO5
    @HONEYCHEERIO5 3 года назад +3

    Oh man the postpartum anxiety is a real thing!! You guys are doing amazing. Lenny is so lucky to have you both as parents. All the best! Xoxoxo

  • @Meecheer
    @Meecheer 3 года назад

    love this q&a and cooking together vibe ! 🥺

  • @user-iw2md2gl4q
    @user-iw2md2gl4q 3 года назад

    Jen is positively GLOWING! You are both so beautiful inside and out. Congratulations again! Lots and lots of love!

  • @milenaioana
    @milenaioana 3 года назад +11

    I’m so incredibly happy for you two. It just feels more real now that you’ve posted videos about the birth. Congratulations ❤️

  • @ryushizu17
    @ryushizu17 2 года назад

    1:52 What was it like when you first held your son?
    2:26 Do you feel like a father yet?
    2:47 What changes are you making in your daily routine now as a father?
    3:49 The best and worst things about being a father?
    4:19 Since the birth of Lennon, how has your life changed?
    4:57 What can I do as a husband/father to help my s.o during the pregnancy?
    5:32 What do you think is the most challenging thing about being a new parent?
    6:18 How do you juggle everything?
    7:49 How was the labor experience for you?
    8:39 Had any scary moments with Lennon yet?
    9:58 What are you looking forward to most as Lennon grows up?

  • @TenzinMinkey
    @TenzinMinkey 3 года назад

    First of all congratulations to both of you… been following jenn since 2018 but the love and the connection I have is more than you imagine…. I really admire both of you and now with our lenny I can’t be more happy… Lennon gona be a healthy man when he grows up coz I can see how much you care for him and this can grow him a lot… congratulations and can’t wait to see him growing up together

  • @pasang2256
    @pasang2256 3 года назад

    I love you guys so much! I have been watching Jen since her first video and i was 15 and then ben came to her life and now you guys have a baby 🥺🥺🥺 I can’t even………. *happy tears*

  • @Alexa-uf9uw
    @Alexa-uf9uw 3 года назад

    you are amazing parents!! I would love to be born in the family like yours

  • @OurRosesGarden
    @OurRosesGarden 3 года назад +1

    You're going to be such great parents! I mean.. you already are🌱💕

  • @Aibok
    @Aibok 3 года назад

    Congratulations Ben and Jenn! Hope baby Lennon is healthy and happy, as both of you are too!

  • @jennyjiyuewang
    @jennyjiyuewang 3 года назад +2

    No words! Congratulations again Ben and your perspective and your approach to life is amazing and you will be a great role model for Lennon!!

  • @yjas9999
    @yjas9999 3 года назад

    Lenny boy is so blessed!!💖

  • @sarahalmodovar843
    @sarahalmodovar843 3 года назад

    There is a smart sock for babies called an owlet. It monitors oxygen levels and the baby’s heart rate and you can check it from your phone. You could try looking into it if it helps your peace of mind. I am so happy for you and your family. Sending love and light ❤️

  • @lisalocey
    @lisalocey 3 года назад

    y'all are the best. truly

  • @NhiVo-mk9xn
    @NhiVo-mk9xn 3 года назад

    Omg you sound so excited. I'm so happy for you and Jen

  • @kaicyr4337
    @kaicyr4337 3 года назад

    I’ve been waiting for this day. Kept thinking little one should be here soon. SO SO HAPPY TO YOU AND JENN. Congrats papa and mama 💖💖🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @LitziaBeltran
    @LitziaBeltran 3 года назад

    What a lovely way to raise a child. Congratulations on your baby. 😄

  • @nicolecmoucheron
    @nicolecmoucheron 3 года назад +5

    This video was lovely!! Congratulations on becoming a father and growing your beautiful family, the food looked delicious and it was fun hearing about your experience. Seeing the excitement and passion in your eyes when you talk about parenthood makes me excited to experience it one day. Have a great day!

  • @kiratk6321
    @kiratk6321 3 года назад

    Ben is such a great role model, little Lennon has a wonderful dad to look up to!!!

  • @MrsAnnerepeater
    @MrsAnnerepeater 3 года назад

    Jenn is glowing 🥰 congrats on your baby. ❤️

  • @Emxo333
    @Emxo333 3 года назад +1

    You can tell you’re so happy to be a dad ☺️

  • @stephaniealexander3452
    @stephaniealexander3452 3 года назад +4

    Congrats Ben and Jen!! I’ve been following y’all for so many years and I’ve grown to love you more and more!! Im so happy Jen has you and I’m so excited for y’all!! :) we love you guys!! 💓💓

  • @OLEINNOC
    @OLEINNOC 3 года назад

    Ben, i love your mindset so much 💗

  • @JessGuan
    @JessGuan 3 года назад

    Ben! Your enthusiasm is so contagious. Congrats to you and Jen ❤️

  • @jellyjelly8525
    @jellyjelly8525 3 года назад

    Best dad ever! Bless this family!

  • @claredegraw7803
    @claredegraw7803 3 года назад

    So happy for both of you and your families. Aren’t babies like little packets of love? They are little love bombs!