Toxic Marriage | Ayesha Jahanzeb | Vlog
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- Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
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2 bar tootna asaaan nahi hota,she is such a brave, outstanding, very intellectual lady. First time I got impressed by a limelight lady. She is very genuin and true inside out. I want to spend few hours in courageous positive conversation with her whenever I would visit Pakistan or she would be here. She is jussssst a True Inspiration ❤ More Power to you Ayesha!
Feeling so sad for her jo keh rhi hain tamasha na lgayen un k husband ny aj un k sath yhi kr dia for sure she's the strongest and bravest lady loads of prayers and wishes for you may you over come the trauma soon 💖
Salute the young lady , sister Ayesha Allah aapko sehet o aafiyyat waali zindagi ataa farmaae . Beautiful video , good advice for Parents to be & everyone. Duniya mein kitna gham hai , mera gham kitna kam hai
Mashallah beta salute to your strengths struggle for own life and kids ❤❤❤
Allah Pak apko har mushkil waqt se bachaye, aap ko aur apkay ghar walon par apni rehmat nazil farmae... apko sabr ata farmae Ameen. Stay strong sis...
I have never met her, but can say Ayesha is extremely gentle lady. She is brave and practical with emotions, sensitiveness and is very human she understands pain in relationship and struggle in life and is always willing to share & help as far as possible. I wish her best of everything in her life.
Well educated but highly redicalised muslim.
Very beautiful but full of hatred towards other religions
@@sureshsharma8221 how do you know that? She isn't wearing hijab; not talking about jehad. When did she give statements about other religions????
We all educated lady respect and love other religions. I have many loving,caring and supportive hindu and sikh friends,we eat and sometimes live together during holidays. Humanity is Superior Religion. All other things are minor. I used to go and attend Cathedrals, Gurdwara and Mandar. I feel God's vibes all around. I am a proud muslim, love all ,no time for hate or any negativity in the nane of religion, caste,culture etc. These are Out-dated in modren world. So please try to get rid of these. Just spread love and ✌️ peace ✌️ ❤️ ✨️
@@sureshsharma8221
Besharam insan !
Us ne tu kisi religion k barey mein koi bat nhein ki . Kya us ne kisi Hindu ko goli mar di hey ??? Ya phir tumhein goli mar di hey ??? Derasal gundgi or nafrat tumharey apne dimaghon or dilon mein hey musalmanon k khilaf ..jb k koi b acha musalman kisi ghair muslim se nafrat nhein kerta us ko insan samajhta hey lekin tum log nafrat se bhurey hooey ho musalmanon k khilaf or humein insan nhein samajhtey .
More power to you Ayesha.May Allah bless you and your beautiful kids Ameen
Am a German-Pakistani and i'm watching ur this Video, out of the Blue u almost started to cry and i swear by God, i also got some Tears in my Eyes, but i had to control myself.I wish u all the Best and be Strong.😢🇩🇪🇵🇰❤️
Absolutely right Mrs Harris Ali aap ki baaton se 100% agree hoon
Main aap ka aik nalaik student hoon lekin Alhamdulillah happy married life guzar raha hoon ups and down saath saath chalte rehte hain overall sab perfect hai.
V nice 👌 👍 v log sahi kaha apne apne ander ehsas paida ho jaye tu aisa kabhi na ho
GREAT MESSAGE! God bless you Ayesha!
Courageous i salute you because of facing odds with determination
اللہ اپنی امان میں رکھے بےشک مشکل ہے بھلانا لیکن زندگی ان ہی مدوجزر کا نام ہے میرے رب نے آپ کو اولاد سے نوازا ہے ان کی اچھی تربیت کریں انشاء اللہ وہ اپ کے تمام زخموں پر مرہم رکھیں گے
I hear you Ayesha! Stay strong.
True sad 😢story
If i can start do more care of my family ❤after listening it hope more people do so thanks 🙏🏻
Ayesha
Ayesha, you are a strong lady. Show this to others as example.
1st comment with lot of respect and love from -Germany
Sahi kaha aapne a continuously suppressed life is never a happy life .
I can understand your pain. Stay blessed for rest of your life because you can't change your past.
رشتے احساس سے بنتے ہیں" احساس والے انسان کیلئے بیگانہ کوئی نہیں ہوتا سب اپنے لگتے ہیں، جبکہ احساس مر جائے تو انسان فقط غرض سے مشروط تعلق بناتا ہے!
انسانیت کیلئے احساس کو محسوس کرنا بھی لازم ہے:
راہِ الفت میں نبردِ حرم و دَیر نہیں!
چشمِ انصاف سے دیکھو تو کوئی غیر نہیں!
In the moslim world there are to much violance against woman Why ? Because the Quran justifies this. Man has power against a woman. Discusting is this.
Eminent words you have conveyed perfectly said true lines of today's scenario harsh realities۔۔Heart throbbing speech ۔۔۔really appreciate your strength and patience
Great massage Ayesha Allah bless you
Masa Allah
Ap joyo hzaro saal
Bahut ahcha lga
Ap jitni hosiyar h
Kash hr ledy ap jesy ho jaye
assalamualaikum.... ap ney bilkul theek kaha aj Kal log shadi ko seriously ni latey qk unko love marriage ya arrange marriage ho koi ehsaas ni hota rishtoo ka... bachoo pr zulum hota hy bs is mamlay mai...
After the mama's tuning to kids, the kids are calling thr divorced dad a pig and hate him the most. The kids are now from 5-9 years old. My divorced brother cried a lot as he went through this traumatic stage.
Alhamdolillah God granted him patience and now he wouldn't like to c his ex and kids anymore.
Stay blessed dear Ayesha
Excellent message 👍
Great talk Aysha , God bless you
I can completely relate my life my current situation with each and every word of this vedio
You are such a gift beta
May Allah bless you
Uffff so true so true Ayesha.
Pray all should be ok at your end, khala jee u should clarify first na 😊
Asalam alaikum,i salute you for atleast talking about this very important and common matter of our society.but,i have something to share with you about me.i got into separation with my wife few years back,we had a beautiful,cute baby girl.my ex wife forced me to divorce her but because of her decision our baby which she allowed me to meet/see her after 6 years of her birth suffered alot.my ex dragged me into court case.due to unknown reasons she never allowed me to meet her again.i met my baby before COVID-19,after tht i never meet my child and my ex wife don't allow me to see my baby.now in this situation what should i do and what is my fault? Infact,my ex wife brain washed my baby tht her father means,i am a bad person.
Thanks for sharing your side of the story. Since most men stay quiet after divorce so no one doubts the story his ex-wife. On top of that, the world readily believes whatever a crying woman says. Story of the 3rd wife of Amir Liaqat is in front of us. I never used to like Amir Liaquat but when his videos were leaked, and Amir Liaqat cried for mercy, the reaction of public made me realize how helpless a man really is when he is up against a cunning woman.
Aoa,you know i left Pakistan in 1994 when i was just 22.I have a father who is Retd.Lt.col.but he was Saddist from nature.I dont even remember a single moment when he showed his love.Since my mother died,he with my younger brother clearly told me that we are not willing to host you when you come to Pakistan.The elder brother wrote me that he will ensure that i could not get a penny from Father inheritance.So i go every year stay at hotel in ISB and meet other relatives and friends and come back.So the point is if somebody is mentally ill and God has put stamp on his heart,you can tell him whatever you want,he will remain the same and there are very few exceptions.
In the beginning,i wasted my time with ill natured persons as i was thinkinking,may be they think like me or any other person who accepts if you argue things but it is waste of time.Better to avoid the company of such ppl and find the right ppl who has the same mental level aur jin kay dilo per Allah nay mohar nahi lagaee.Being too sensitive and thinking why ppl do wrong things or hurt ppl,one gets depressive.There will always be bad ppl and good ppl and Pakistani society nurses bad mentality.
Allah pak apky liye asanian kren👍
Bhi ab ap ky father khan hoty hj
So true. Even if the parents seperate they shud share the responsibility of their kids
Mahira and her husband has done good job. And so have syra and her husband. Good examples
Excellent analysis
Don't worry about your future inshallah Allah will never leave you alone inshallah Allah ko friend bana lo
عائشہ سلام و علیکم! آپکی ویڈیو دیکھی اور سنی ایک بات جو بحیثیت مسلمان کہوں تو وہ یہ کہ گو کہ آپکا زخم اپنے والدین کی تلخیوں کیوجہ سے مند مل ھونے والا نہیں لیکن اللہ سبحان وتعالے کی یہ سنت ھے کہ وہ ذات اپنی مخلوق کو کبھی تنہا اور بے یار و بے مددگار نہیں چھوڑتا آپ اللہ سبحان وتعالے سے اپنے اس غم و تکلیف کے مداوے کیلیئے اسکی بارگاہ میں سر بسجود رھیئے اسکے سامنے ھاتھ پھیلا کر مانگیئے اپنے والدین کیلیئے مغفرت طلب کیجئے اور جو نعمتیں اس پاک ذات نے آپکو عطا کی ھیں انکا خلوص دل سے شکر ادا کرتی رھیں ۔ یقین جانیں اپکے دل کا یہ بوجھ ہلکا ھونے لگے گا اور آپ اپنے آپکو پرسکون محسوس کریں گی ۔ یقین نہ ھو تو آزما کر خود دیکھ لیں
Ayesha I think its not the fault of parents solely, sometimes fate comes to play its role, the birth of child or children itself shows, that there is some sort of mutual understanding is definitely there between parents, but when the unfortunate events happens its actually happens from both sides, you cannot clap with one hand, can you.. yes I do agree consequences of breakup on children are immense but I think life has to go on and we must be brave enough to face all the challenges... Always remember life is never be in a straight line, ups and downs are the part of life.
It's very sad we should take very big hold before taking big step
Please think and take conservation, discuss with friends before taking any action please please and please
Bhool jaen past ko future pr concentrate kren...
Thanks for sharing this information 👍 best wishes for you 💖 stay connect thanks 💐
2:46 once I needed my father too but he loves to love other paternal family members other than us n now he Left us n our mother his 1st wife for another woman having 3 kids from another man those 7 years were hell for me too traumatized I was but Allah helped me us and support us even when we used to live with his 2 wife it's too hard to digest those time too but my mother didn't left him they're separated but not divorced kafi ajeeb h alhmdulilah v r happy now.
No one in our dadiyal thinks of us but makes us feel so kamtar, v aren't invited for eid nor for parties all of cousins, phopis but allah is there v r strong now
آپ کا کرب میں محسوس کر سکتا ھوں عائشہ ۔ میں جانتا ھوں کہ ماں یا باپ کے بغیر بچوں کی روحوں میں وہ دراڈیں پڑ جاتی ھیں جو کبھی ٹھیک نہیں ھو سکتیں
So sad and real !
ٹھیک باتیں کیں آپ نے۔
😊I respect you and your mom and dad
Very good kia bat ha ji 🌷👈
اسلام علیکم ڈاکٹر صاھب اپ کی بات بہت خوب صورت ھیے شکریہ جناب
Ap na bohat achi bat ki
You are right
Asalam o Alaikum Ayesha G Maa Bap ki larai mein khumiaza ullad ko bhogatna parta hy mein to soch kr kamp uth ta ho k ullad aur biwi k begair koi waqt guzray meri shadi Abu ne apni marzi se karwaye aur kaha k mein Mr jao tb bhi meri izzat rakhna aur mjhe apnay waldain ki izzat sb se zayada pyari hy
Sada Hussain Kazmi from Karachi ❤
Really very painful topic..
Ayesha G ma ap sa agree karti hi , and I liked your personality , u are so gorgeous ❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹
Zabrdst
Very strong women you are❤
Brave woman
You are absolutely right 👍
Yes Good
really wahldien both bary Allah Pak ky nihamt hoty hien
Yes you are right one can have kids only in a healthy environment.
Plz make a video on Sania Mirza also a complete n separated video
جب آپکے والد جا چکے تھے پیدائش سے پہلے تو آپکو کیسے پتا ساری غلطی انکی تھی ؟ کیا پتا والدہ نے زچ ہی اتنا کیا ہو کہ انکو جانا پڑا ہو دوسری طرف کی کہانی سنے بغیر یہ زیادتی ہوتی ہے
Pain full store take care GOD bless you (UAE ABU DHABi)
May you live long; ayesha jahanzeb
Right mam
Very very true ❤❤❤❤
Being lonely is different from being alone in life.
Good g
Pain full.
valid points
My favourite person
Hello sister why's did you separated from your first husband , you mentioned that you have children from first marriage, then why's you blamed your mother, your first marriage was toxic,? it's my question ⁉️.
Her first husband died after seven years of marriage.
You say right mae b jb 7 sal ka tha mere maa bap ni thy I understand your feelings
Chronically unhealthy mental, physical, and emotional problems that are left unsolved and grow into bigger concerns are the hallmarks of a toxic marriage. A marriage is clearly in peril if there is physical, verbal abuse, adultery, desertion, cheating or other serious offenses. However, more often than not, the warning signs are much more subtle. But you lack the means to escape the loop you're in and are paralyzed by unpleasant emotions or feel suffocated. You're feeling heartbroken, depressed, suicidal and have little energy to fight the good fight (either to repair or flee). It's common to experience heartbreak, sadness, and hopelessness. A toxic marriage is much more than just a sporadic argument or a tense moment between two people who are otherwise content with their relationship. Signs you might be in a toxic marriage or relationship. 1. Lack of Support 2. Toxic Communication 3. Envy and Jealous 4. Controlling Behavior 5. Feelings of Resentment 6. Disrespect for You and Your Feelings 7. Negative Financial Behavior 8. Constant Stress 9. Ignoring Your Needs 10. Fights and Arguments 11. Filthy, language/bad mouthing 12. Humiliating you in public 13. Deliberate torture 14. Cursing and blaming you for everything 15. Constantly praising other women while demeaning you 16.Insults and slanders 17. Making fun of your appearance .... Ayesha, I hope and pray that you would continue this noble cause to help persecuted women who lack the means and courage to leave their poisonous relationships.
Quite painful
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This concept was first given in heera panna Indian movie. Then after 40 yrs we understood and made a movie raising such real issue. But It's too late now for our people in socio- economical destitute and where even literates are ignorant. Times of Emotions, altruism and feelings of happiness, optimism and satisfaction have gone by. and we have lost now and last time when we cherished prosperity was not later than 2016. Now nature would take its cruel due course and more and more families'd be broken than ever before. (God forbid).
ماشاءاللہ جی
Ayesha 💕Beautiful 👌
Bahut hi bhawuk parstuti. In our society there's no time to see value of life and futuristic type of time to face, i think this is natural hab to be,,,,,,,, Sheoran India
But Ayesha time never be the same..apne kids kiye second marriage se aj apke husband itne toxic hogye kis ko pata tha
Same answer by me bt hints milty hn koi b wrong person ho pta tu hota h bandy ka bt hm apni eyes band krlety hn trust krty hn
So 😔 😢😭
Allah sab Muslims ki mushkil asaan kare aur zindagi mei asaani peda kare. Ameen
دل کے دکھڑے سہہ کر بیان کر دینا بھی بہادری کے زمرے مں آتا ھے .
ھاں !
مگر یہ لمحہ لمحہ گزرنا اھی مشکل ترین ھوتا ھے .
ھمت ، حوصلہ بھی قیمتی اثاثہ ھے !!!!!!!!
یہ ٹاپک بہت پیچیدہ ہے اور آپ بھی اس پر غیر جانبدار رائے نہیں دے سکتیں۔۔ اس پر صحیح رائے تب ہو گی جب دونوں اکٹھے بیٹھے ہوں اور دونوں کی کہانی سنی جائے
Ap blkl shi keh rh hen 😢
True n tragedy
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So sad😢
Mam me apsy bat krna chahti hu
اس بات پر کبھی کسی کو مشورہ نہ دیں ۔۔ سب کے حالات الگ ہوتے ہیں ۔۔ اور سب سے بڑی بات جن بچوں کے ماں باپ الگ ہوتے ہیں انکی اپنی شادیاں بھی ناکام رہتی ہیں
10 % maybe has no problem . But 90 % is true. Chappooo Ayesha.❤❤
MaM you so Great lady 🌹🌹🌹
If feroz and alizay is not right then I must say shehroz and saira is also not right being a Muslim what message they are giving to society after divorce meet and greet with each other and doing movies and romance what the hell is this....yes we must they are co parenting but one must understand their limits
Salam
Sister ap boht Azeem hn ap ko Malik ny Azmyesh k liey chuna ap ko boht mazbot banaya ta k ap sb logo k liey meesal bany or unhy is mushkil sy nikalny my un ki help kr sakey
Very nic sister
Sister ap madina ai thi hm ne buhat rabta kia lekin rabta ni hoa
So beautiful
Meri payari Baji ji ki birthday bhi ha is month?
Bachy paida honey k baad toxic relation hojaye to kia karain???😢
Madam doesn't matter pain problems son daughter parents in this world or life we come in Earth just exam so just worry about after death life because after death na parents husband wife or na bachy khuch kam ni aye ga 😂 ham mazay krne nahi aye duniya mae 😂
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