so, i watched my "straight" videos...

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  • @alexryan1492
    @alexryan1492 3 года назад +4907

    this was just 13 minutes of connor hatecriming himself

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 года назад +891

      pain....so much pain

    • @collinanthonycyster7310
      @collinanthonycyster7310 3 года назад +67

      @@ConnorFranta obsessed with this growth

    • @somduttasengupta1738
      @somduttasengupta1738 3 года назад +22

      I kinda always sensed he was gay, from his videos. Not stereotyping or offending anyone, I just kinda sensed it. Don't hate on me please 🙏🏻🥺

    • @Shngster
      @Shngster 3 года назад +9

      Connor now “your gay sweetie” minutes later
      Connor now “Proof right there, Gay!”

    • @Becksnnc
      @Becksnnc 3 года назад +3

      @@somduttasengupta1738 It's fine. Most people can usually tell when someone is gay. They have a vibe and their voice usually gives it away as well. People don't like to say out loud because it's deemed offensive or whatever but we all think it and those people that give you shit for it know exactly what we are talking about. It's just virtue signalling when they give you grief for thinking it.

  • @riverlily5983
    @riverlily5983 3 года назад +2992

    i used to watch the “how to tell if a guy likes you” video religiously to see if boys liked me. i’m a lesbian now.

    • @mylifeascasi
      @mylifeascasi 3 года назад +75

      I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS LMAO

    • @elsagranquist9755
      @elsagranquist9755 3 года назад +48

      SAME!!! was just about to comment the exact same thing. is this a Thing for lesbians???

    • @heather489
      @heather489 3 года назад +45

      and then mysteriously liking no boys who had those signs....hm....that's suspicious, that's weird

    • @courtneysteiner6995
      @courtneysteiner6995 3 года назад +9

      I WAS ALSO ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS I-

    • @kaialexus8635
      @kaialexus8635 3 года назад +5

      SAME

  • @dt67889
    @dt67889 3 года назад +5261

    the level of character development is literally out of this world

  • @bellamariedrew3964
    @bellamariedrew3964 3 года назад +1620

    The reason I’ve dated so many closeted gay guys is because I followed his dating advice

    • @asdfgh123456978
      @asdfgh123456978 3 года назад +70

      Dead 😂😂😂

    • @jelenamitrovic1265
      @jelenamitrovic1265 3 года назад +35

      HAHAHAHA SAME WHAT😂

    • @aimizaini5427
      @aimizaini5427 3 года назад +6

      Lol l lip meeting

    • @samanthaclevenger9376
      @samanthaclevenger9376 3 года назад +10

      Same! They said it was that they just wanted to take things really slow. Like sloths get freaky before we would slow. (we never did anything but small smooches)

    • @Hale-sz7ox
      @Hale-sz7ox 2 года назад +3

      Hahahahaha

  • @jaxonjames5160
    @jaxonjames5160 3 года назад +2986

    Internet: “Connor what do you look for in a girl”
    Closeted Connor: “um they need to wear clothes”
    Welp

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 года назад +732

      & stuff

    • @writingishard6112
      @writingishard6112 3 года назад +252

      Because he wouldn't want to see them not wearing clothes

    • @sweeperboy
      @sweeperboy 3 года назад +31

      Said no straight boy…ever.

    • @emilyscloset2648
      @emilyscloset2648 2 года назад +3

      @@ConnorFranta this reply makes it x10 better xD

  • @joshdove
    @joshdove 3 года назад +2611

    Why do I remember watching the “Im not gay” video and thinking “yah he for sure is gay”

  • @backtoearths
    @backtoearths 3 года назад +2799

    my therapist: straight connor is not real. he can't hurt you
    straight connor: 1:33

  • @justepaula5387
    @justepaula5387 3 года назад +825

    "what feels gay and homophobic at the same time"
    the im not gay video by connor franta certainly does

  • @its_edlol
    @its_edlol 3 года назад +1367

    “u could say that i know a few things about girls” GIRLLLLL😭

    • @AmarisOIkimi
      @AmarisOIkimi 3 года назад +24

      HAHAHSHSHA

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 года назад +365

      don't ! please ! i ! am ! aware !

    • @its_edlol
      @its_edlol 3 года назад +21

      @@ConnorFranta bby the face i made when i heard that💀

  • @sweeperboy
    @sweeperboy 3 года назад +965

    I love the fact the “I’M NOT GAY” video was shot during Pride Month 2012, with a literal closet in the background…and then 2014 happened 😂

  • @ConnorFranta
    @ConnorFranta  3 года назад +1782

    The like button deserves a click after reliving all this PAIN.....hope you enjoy this 🥲❤️

    • @Legend410c
      @Legend410c 3 года назад +14

      Normally: "Asking for likes = no." After seeing this pain: SMASH

    • @andrecurenton5878
      @andrecurenton5878 3 года назад +5

      I am proud of what you have became

    • @JonathanChuter1996
      @JonathanChuter1996 3 года назад +8

      I came out BECAUSE of your video. The very same night. In my final year i had enough and came out to my family :) thank you Connor

    • @connorlove5836
      @connorlove5836 3 года назад +3

      You've come a loooong way! It must be oddly satisfying to have proof of how much you've changed and just like your last video - you look good! You look happy - it makes me happy 😊

    • @showmoke
      @showmoke 3 года назад +2

      Hi Connor - I guess this has to be the most embarrassing video that you've ever made? Yer just have to get out of your comfort zone before you're comfortable getting back in!! Whatever the fkcu that means! Have a nice day from a UK fan.

  • @GracieBN
    @GracieBN 3 года назад +714

    I remember being genuinely interested in your “things I look for in a girl” video, and now I’m a lesbian... we’ve come a long way my guy

    • @shafaalya884
      @shafaalya884 3 года назад +26

      we love a character development

  • @xoviolet32
    @xoviolet32 3 года назад +1104

    I can’t believe this is what we all accepted and thirsted over (at least in my case lol) back in the day… 2013 feels like one big SNL skit sometimes

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 года назад +368

      welcome to the circus

    • @rionaevans2803
      @rionaevans2803 3 года назад +27

      Aye! I’m pretty sure my first Connor video was the girls one 😂

    • @tony4012
      @tony4012 3 года назад +36

      Oh gosh I actually watched his vids in hs and took some of the advice bc I thought I liked a girl...the girl thought I was weird but turns out I’m gay 😂

    • @riya-ky7ev
      @riya-ky7ev 3 года назад +7

      omg I used to have the biggest crush on 2013 Connor....WHY

    • @shaelynbradfield1427
      @shaelynbradfield1427 3 года назад +2

      I…I’m right there with you😂

  • @miabermudez1756
    @miabermudez1756 3 года назад +270

    “It’s so painful to be alive
    I don’t wanna live
    And I don’t wanna die
    It’s so painful to be Alive”
    This is the most meaningful and like relatable thing that I’ve heard….
    AND IT RHYMES

  • @mandyholliday7998
    @mandyholliday7998 3 года назад +633

    ending pride with an absolute BANG

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 года назад +182

      going in with a book announcement and out with....whatever this was

    • @mandyholliday7998
      @mandyholliday7998 3 года назад +14

      @@ConnorFranta as you should king, as you should

  • @mariatrinidad1370
    @mariatrinidad1370 3 года назад +618

    The fact that I was watching all of this and was STILL surprised when you came out is beyond me 😂 I should’ve known

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 года назад +199

      it's okay no one in my life had a clue either

  • @elizabethlee902
    @elizabethlee902 3 года назад +381

    The audacity of straight Connor to say he likes a girl who knows how to wear clothes when he’s dressed like that with a row a snap backs behind him

  • @maddieward6911
    @maddieward6911 3 года назад +88

    his arrow that says "not gay" reminds me of amazingphil's thumbnail for his coming out video where he has an arrow pointing at him that just says gay lmao

  • @funnybunny402
    @funnybunny402 3 года назад +310

    I watched your videos religiously in middle school for the dating advice and such lmao. My brother saw me watching one of your videos and was instantly like “he’s gay” and I’m like there’s no way. Cut to Connor coming out a year later and I’m just 👁👄👁

    • @animalfinatic9366
      @animalfinatic9366 3 года назад +8

      Can I ask you how he knew? I'm really curious

    • @zomaqurashi1741
      @zomaqurashi1741 3 года назад +38

      I had a friend tell me the same thing. And the day he came out..this girl literally called me and said "did you see his new video ? HA . I told you" and then she hung up😃

    • @funnybunny402
      @funnybunny402 3 года назад +19

      @@animalfinatic9366 I really don’t know honestly he just has a good gaydar I guess 😂😂

    • @mayaturner5759
      @mayaturner5759 3 года назад +7

      I literally had the same thing with my best friend. Going into school the day after his coming out video all I got was ‘I told you so’

  • @jamesmanley9427
    @jamesmanley9427 3 года назад +350

    "Has to wear her clothes and all that stuff" I left

  • @maxz.2286
    @maxz.2286 3 года назад +380

    we stan a king with a self-critical growth trajectory

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 года назад +151

      it's not easy being this self-aware

  • @amandab4733
    @amandab4733 3 года назад +51

    the fact that 12 year old me believed EVERY WORD YOU SAID about boys is insane to me. i would literally rewatch your "how to tell if a boy likes you" video every time I had a crush and thought he liked me back 😭😭😭

  • @anshreadsandrants
    @anshreadsandrants 3 года назад +352

    Connor Franta: “Things I look for in a GIRL”
    Also Connor Franta: “Im gAY😎✨”

  • @wyattp8479
    @wyattp8479 3 года назад +189

    Haven't watched your vids in YEARS. Get this in my recommended and smiled and laughed so hard because I remember watching these when I was a kid. This was the TOP TIER content back in the day god damn. How far we've come

    • @creativecredence850
      @creativecredence850 2 года назад +2

      I
      don't
      miss
      all
      THE
      random-ass
      jump
      cuts, that's for sure! Who even started that trend? Why was it so popular?

  • @lovehumanity5172
    @lovehumanity5172 3 года назад +92

    'hey girl whatsup' Connor I'm scared

  • @DomeLara
    @DomeLara 3 года назад +104

    “The original was so much better” “proof right there! Gay!” 😂😂😂 i love him so much

  • @sawyerhartman
    @sawyerhartman 3 года назад +1200

    This is was incredible! The state of the dorm tho lol miss u man!

  • @DavidWDunlap
    @DavidWDunlap 3 года назад +117

    Your willingness to examine the arc of your life so publicly shows your maturity, humility, self-awareness, and good humor. There’s no cause for embarrassment, just pride. You’ll help far more young people by acknowledging the awkwardness of the journey than you would by making it look easy. I have carbon copies of letters I wrote in my 20s, when I was still pretending to be straight for certain audiences. And I would never have the courage to post them on social media - even 45 years later. Thank you, Connor, for your generosity.

    • @jamessanders145
      @jamessanders145 2 года назад

      How does this only have 70 likes.... smh

  • @jillicn
    @jillicn 3 года назад +564

    IM ALREADY LAUGHING SO HARD I REMEMBER WATCHING THESE WHEN THEY CAME OUT

    • @nat9405
      @nat9405 3 года назад +18

      when they came out just like him

    • @Tarrinix
      @Tarrinix 3 года назад +14

      we’re living the reactions with him

    • @annnaaabel
      @annnaaabel 3 года назад +13

      I am cringing remembering who I was while watching them :D

    • @HeyyJillian
      @HeyyJillian 3 года назад +1

      SAME 😩😂

    • @MsCupcakeloveer
      @MsCupcakeloveer 3 года назад +2

      Right? Same! I haven't even watched Connor in so many years (just kinda stopped watching RUclipsrs in general for a while) and just got this in my recommended. It's so crazy to see how much he's changed.

  • @isingchristiancovers3418
    @isingchristiancovers3418 3 года назад +247

    Young Connor: IM NOT GAY 😐
    also young connor: what i look for in a girl.. um.. that they wear clothes and stuff.

    • @allydef
      @allydef Год назад +2

      “I like when girls wear clothes, have good personalities, and uhhhh…yeah when they’re playful. That’s cool I think.”

    • @e.h.5129
      @e.h.5129 Год назад

      Sassy! He literally used the word sassy 😂

  • @obedbhiziki
    @obedbhiziki 3 года назад +230

    my body was literally curling in cringe at the straight videos

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 года назад +70

      this is just the tip of the iceberg too....

    • @AdorkableArtist92
      @AdorkableArtist92 3 года назад +6

      I usually can't handle secondhand embarrassment/cringe...but this was worth it. Connor's commentary on his old video cracked me up!

  • @amandalarssontv1385
    @amandalarssontv1385 3 года назад +67

    2014 really doesn't seem that long ago. But then I realise it's 7 yeas ago.

  • @kmjc1213
    @kmjc1213 3 года назад +410

    Wait, it's been SEVEN YEARS since Connor came out?! I feel old now.
    Also I'm not sure how much of this is 2013 Connor being cringey or just 2013 RUclips being cringey. Like we all thought this was normal back then.

    • @juibelly2318
      @juibelly2318 3 года назад +4

      absolutely

    • @ablbelle8953
      @ablbelle8953 3 года назад +1

      No he misspoke, it was 7 months ago... surely it wasn't 7 years ago.

    • @nakamotorskrskrvroom8038
      @nakamotorskrskrvroom8038 3 года назад +3

      Stuff people do now will seem more cringe in the future, its a chain effect.

  • @nuzaarfatima1326
    @nuzaarfatima1326 3 года назад +127

    I want him to release a video with "I'm not gay" as a title just for the irony

    • @GlamourCat1920
      @GlamourCat1920 3 года назад +1

      That would be content I’d love to see!

  • @prioskakharsani7222
    @prioskakharsani7222 3 года назад +498

    connor, you are my safe place, wtf is this

  • @lovemealwaysofficial
    @lovemealwaysofficial 3 года назад +43

    This kinda feels like watching myself pretending to be straight ngl
    "she has a pulse, she wears clothes and she sometimes moves" is literally me but talking about men lmao

  • @nat9405
    @nat9405 3 года назад +119

    in my head, connor and straight connor are two completely different people if that makes you feel better

  • @mimimicamica
    @mimimicamica 3 года назад +151

    Connor coming out was such a cultural reset, it changed my life, I was in the deep deep closet and it helped me figured out a few things. It was a long ride, but watching that video was one of the first step in my very gay journey. I'm always thankfull to you for it and proud of seeing you become this lovely person

  • @cloudofreverie786
    @cloudofreverie786 3 года назад +929

    This is just Connor cringing at himself for 13 minutes gay.

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 3 года назад +3

      Me the ALPHA M*LE of this comment section and me command RESPECT. Right now me telling you to NOT observe any of me nice cool sweet videos. Instead just look at me awesome good powerful thumbnails. Thank you, dear cl

  • @koolaidjamies
    @koolaidjamies 3 года назад +87

    it's ok we all had an "i'm straight I swear" phase 😭

  • @niko1228
    @niko1228 3 года назад +105

    the fact that i do actually remember where i was when you came out - just got home from an aerobics class and decided to watch your video before showering but then slipped into a sexuality crisis immediatelly after. anyways happy pride from this lesbian lol

  • @jackiepeel7933
    @jackiepeel7933 3 года назад +21

    “She has a pulse” IM LITERALLY DECEASED 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @housewifeyoongi7694
    @housewifeyoongi7694 3 года назад +175

    "straight boy" Connor certainly was something 💀💀

  • @Justin-kz1mv
    @Justin-kz1mv 3 года назад +162

    I had a huge crush on Connor back in the day when he was "straight." It was mind-blowing when he came out. Not just because I liked him, but mostly because I was in a similar situation in the closet. In some ways his coming out set a clear path for my own.

    • @alexhornsey8129
      @alexhornsey8129 3 года назад +3

      i would upvote but its at 69

    • @HSMfanatic17
      @HSMfanatic17 Год назад +1

      I wish I had discovered him back when I either didn't realize I was in the closet or when I knew I was in the closet, before his coming out video (I discovered him because of his coming out video, which was released shortly before I started coming out). Then I might've recognized myself sooner haha.

  • @Mol0c
    @Mol0c 3 года назад +355

    Connor: *says he's not gay*
    Me at 13 years old: Oh, then I might not be gay either
    .....
    Connor: *says he's gay*
    Me: *already out of the closet and fully proud gay* I know right?

    • @asdfgh123456978
      @asdfgh123456978 3 года назад +2

      So cute. We all really grew up with Connor didn’t we

    • @Mol0c
      @Mol0c 3 года назад

      @@asdfgh123456978 Yeah!! I'm form south america and I remember that one time my sister went to the USA and I asked her to buy me "work in progress" haha. My gay ass had to have that book.

    • @killager6767
      @killager6767 3 года назад +1

      This might literally be me

    • @Mol0c
      @Mol0c 3 года назад

      @@killager6767 you had the same experience??

    • @killager6767
      @killager6767 3 года назад

      @@Mol0c Yeah🤣 Except that when connor came out I was like okay maybe I am a little gay too

  • @maycee_reed
    @maycee_reed 3 года назад +67

    I REMEMBER THESE SO VIVIDLY
    side note: connors coming out video was a cultural reset for me tbh

    • @alyssadyer4096
      @alyssadyer4096 2 года назад +1

      I remember watching the second video, how to know if a guy likes you.

  • @leshaunlewis8465
    @leshaunlewis8465 3 года назад +144

    “how do i know if a guy likes me” *just lists everything he didn’t do*

  • @lethopeane4365
    @lethopeane4365 3 года назад +61

    "I WAS A FUCKBOY!" That was a pretty apt description but seriously though back in those days dudes voice was different (deeper even),his hairstyle was generic. The "How to know a guy likes you" video and the "I'm not gay" video made me laugh for all the wrong reasons it was mostly that Justin Bieber hair

  • @elenadrouin5910
    @elenadrouin5910 3 года назад +63

    i was literally at a catholic church when u came out. i was at catechism when my friend told me you came out and i literally cried bc i had a “crush on you.” i came out myself like 5 years later

  • @jujuliette147
    @jujuliette147 3 года назад +80

    When you discovered Connor from the "How do you know if a guy likes you" video because at that age it really was the sort of stuff you were searching for on RUclips 😬 I'm gonna jump in the pit of shame with him if that's alright

    • @liviaolivia43214
      @liviaolivia43214 3 года назад

      okay literally same but its fine

    • @probably_not_jim
      @probably_not_jim 3 года назад +3

      I'll join you. That's how I found him when I was a stressed baby in freshman year. I'm also very not heterosexual now.

    • @chiyamilu6851
      @chiyamilu6851 3 года назад

      Same bestie 😩

  • @lovehumanity5172
    @lovehumanity5172 3 года назад +99

    'how to know if a guy likes you' uno reverse card it on yourself connor

  • @Epiphani100
    @Epiphani100 3 года назад +20

    it’s the fact that I watched all these when they came out, it makes this so much better

  • @thiagomestres579
    @thiagomestres579 3 года назад +259

    Don't worry, Connor. We all had our "straight" phase.

  • @tabitha3861
    @tabitha3861 3 года назад +5

    the "mean girls 2" comment is so funny because it has to be made-up like WHO would've said the sequel is their favorite movie 😭 anyways this is amazing and I'm extremely glad I didn't have a way to post/film videos because I can barely even handle Facebook memories from my closeted high school days.

  • @emstersawesomesauce3960
    @emstersawesomesauce3960 3 года назад +38

    oh my goodness the amount of second hand embarrassment im feeling rn is astronomical- 😭

    • @Suman-nn2nv
      @Suman-nn2nv 3 года назад

      Oh my god astronomical is accurate I'm dying rn -

  • @katjonez4683
    @katjonez4683 3 года назад +6

    When you came out in 2014, I was in class in high school and I screamed and threw my phone to my best friend to see. I loved watching this haha you are so truly yourself now and GLOWING. LOVE TO SEE IT!! ❤️

  • @labibarithika5099
    @labibarithika5099 3 года назад +83

    Now people THIS is called character development.

  • @bellabb13
    @bellabb13 3 года назад +12

    “It’s so painful to be alive I don’t wanna live and I don’t wanna die” SIR WE SEE WHAT YOU DID THERE

  • @kat.h00
    @kat.h00 3 года назад +43

    straight connor: i'm not gay
    connor today: 11:30
    can we appreciate the character arc

  • @isabelmartinez4410
    @isabelmartinez4410 3 года назад +3

    oh my god 😭😭 im sorry to be laughing at your pain but i just can’t help it😂💀💀

  • @GG-vz3pb
    @GG-vz3pb 3 года назад +70

    I'VE BEEN WAITIN FOR THIS ONE

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  3 года назад +42

      the things i do for y'all.....

    • @GG-vz3pb
      @GG-vz3pb 3 года назад +6

      @@ConnorFranta bestie you really took one for the team. You're a legend 🧚‍♀️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @dramaqueen2451
    @dramaqueen2451 3 года назад +5

    i remember being in middle school watching him saying something is up bc he understands girls too well and is way too respectful lmao

  • @tifuhnche
    @tifuhnche 3 года назад +66

    Bestie, I’m a little upset you didn’t mention “The Quiff”

    • @1618jamie
      @1618jamie 3 года назад +11

      NOT THE QUIFF

  • @anandiganguly3086
    @anandiganguly3086 3 года назад +4

    I've been following you for years and I can't believe I never realized back in the day that you said your criteria for liking girls is them wearing clothes. AND I WAS MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. Bruh.

  • @RaheemD
    @RaheemD 3 года назад +237

    RUclips may have had a vendetta against you a couple of weeks ago because these videos came up in my recommended videos out of the blue, uninvited and I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it. I watched them as I hadn't seen them since your coming out video (I'm messy) and Connor... Let's just call it an amazing evolution.

    • @im.notsober
      @im.notsober 3 года назад +2

      you fr quoting "someone like you" ? 😭 because that's magnificent

    • @RaheemD
      @RaheemD 3 года назад +2

      @@im.notsober We love an iconic song!

  • @randomhuman_1999
    @randomhuman_1999 3 года назад +62

    the phrase "the other gender" made me so uncomfortable with the underlying gender binary enforcement. and the stereotyping of both guys and girls in the old videos catered so well to misogyny. xD
    makes me think... goodness knows what kinds of dumb shit i've said in the past year let alone in the past decade. but y'know, that's why character growth is great.

  • @maidaavdic4654
    @maidaavdic4654 3 года назад +28

    I remember watching these videos back in the day while being in denial about my own sexuality... and when you came out I kind of broke down cause I realised I couldn’t keep hiding a part of myself. Anywaays thank you Connor! Just for being yourself and being there for me in this parasocial relationship when I needed someone hahaha love yaa king!

  • @jhazscx
    @jhazscx 3 года назад

    I have been a fan of OG youtubers for a LOOONG (i have been here since 2011 y’all) time and I literally screamed when you came out like I LIKE YOU SO MUCH AND I FEEL LIKE IF I HAVE A CRUSH ON YOU AND YOU’RE STRAIGHT IT JUST won’t WORK AND WHEN YOU CAME OUT I WAS LIKE “BIIIIIIITCH 🥲”

  • @nathanj23
    @nathanj23 3 года назад +24

    when you said “i came out in 2014” i remembered that i had came out a few months after you and i realised how old i am now. i was 15 in my living room trying not to yell out of excitement lmaooo

  • @SuperJezzara
    @SuperJezzara 3 года назад +13

    Remember how Joey, Connor, AND Shane all said they weren't gay way back when... And now they're all out of the closet 😂

  • @abbybyerly993
    @abbybyerly993 3 года назад +21

    I watched this growing up.. the betrayal 💀

  • @davidhparker
    @davidhparker 3 года назад +3

    I was “there” when you came out… I had just gotten home from high school one day and it was at the top my FEED AND I SCREAMED FOR THE DURATION of the video. Happy about who you’ve become and how you’ve impaired me :)

  • @emilyschettlers
    @emilyschettlers 3 года назад +22

    Connor calling his past self out is the drama I live for

  • @LeahDino32
    @LeahDino32 3 года назад +13

    This makes me so sad thouuuugh like I think it's great that he's able to find humor in it but it's actually heartbreaking that the way society and the entertainment industry were at the time set gay kids up for not only failure but ridicule. I'm glad he seems to be thriving now though.

  • @dew7103
    @dew7103 3 года назад +25

    the title sounds fun 😂 also brings me back to the old days 😭😭😭😭
    edit: I used to watch those videos and actually enjoyed them!!! I'm so happy to see how much you've grown ☺️💜

  • @sabripatience
    @sabripatience 3 года назад

    I vividly remember seeing the notification of your coming out video while at my part time job in high school and I refused to watch it until I was comfy and cozy in my bed later that day.

  • @olive7043
    @olive7043 3 года назад +49

    THE MOMENT WE HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR FOR YEARS! HAPPY PRIDE MONTH BBY

  • @BookishLish
    @BookishLish 3 года назад +1

    Your coming out video came out on my 16th birthday and I remember feeling so proud of you and admiring how much more comfortable you were just being your entire self without apology. I got to go see you on book tour a few years later and I remember telling you that these videos were how I started watching you even though you said that you were so embarrassed by them. Thank you for being someone I can watch when I need to listen to someone familiar and having a fun time. As a 22 year old now it is crazy to think that I’ve been watching your videos for so long!

  • @tallactordude
    @tallactordude 3 года назад +27

    We should all be kind to our former selves and realize that life is a journey and it takes some of us longer to get to certain points on that journey than others. I think everybody has times in their past that they would now cringe at, but with any luck we grow and we change and we come to terms with who we are, as you have done. Well done, Connor!

  • @cameronfife
    @cameronfife 3 года назад +4

    I LITTERLY SAW HOW HE HAD A THOUSAND PLANTS AND WAS LIKE “yep he’s a virgo” IN MY HEAD AND THEN HE LITERALLY MADE A VIRGO JOKE RIGHT AFTER- Jbdjehjejwiidie

  • @BearTeddy27
    @BearTeddy27 3 года назад +14

    THIS MAN DID NOT JUST SAY HE GOOGLED WHAT TO SAY IM CRYOSKSKSKS

  • @inndranmuniandy8326
    @inndranmuniandy8326 3 года назад +18

    Rate:
    Love Simon . 6-10
    Love victor . 6.5-10
    Love connor. 10-10

  • @pinnedcomment8614
    @pinnedcomment8614 3 года назад +70

    Random fact: There’s a village in Nebraska with a population of 1. She acts as mayor and also pays taxes to herself.

  • @user-hb2bw5hy7m
    @user-hb2bw5hy7m 3 года назад +2

    seeing these first hand when u released them back then and then now makes me so emotional. love to see the growth baby i also thought i was straight back then

  • @everydaysam3547
    @everydaysam3547 3 года назад +8

    Omg I actually remember exactly where I was when you came out haha. I had just gotten home from school and was eating with my family when I got the notification. I remember watching the video under the table... didn't even know what "coming out" meant yet and I remember gasping very loudly when I found out. It's actually really cool how you were my favorite youtuber at the time and how you basically introduced me to what the LGBT community was. Because of you, I got educated... became an ally... and just recently this year I came out myself ✌️

  • @ellekawe
    @ellekawe 3 года назад +3

    i think i just had an out of body experience watching this omfg but i appreciate it so much that you keep these videos up!! they really do show your growth and how far you’ve come and i am very sure that you’ve helped many people by sharing your process online🥺🥺

  • @GrowingPothos
    @GrowingPothos 3 года назад +14

    This is like straight Holt IRL

  • @niajones7222
    @niajones7222 3 года назад +3

    the editing is the only thing stopping me from crying

  • @lillywantsheranchovypizza107
    @lillywantsheranchovypizza107 3 года назад

    lmaoo the how you know a guy likes you video took me back. so many videos were like that back in this era of youtube and only 1 guy actually acted that way that i knew. now either i was really ugly or those tips are incorrect. but knowing you’re gay it’s even funnier because i took those tips to heart.

  • @alma1530
    @alma1530 3 года назад +18

    as someone who's been here since 2013 i'm so happy to see you thriving showing off your true self♥

  • @rosietb06
    @rosietb06 3 года назад +2

    this coming out video literally feels like yesterday .. the fact that it was in 2014 absolutely blows my mind, but what truly blows my mind is that i was surprised! why do i remember being like 13 listening to these tips about guys liking you 😭

  • @sandiamelonification
    @sandiamelonification 3 года назад +8

    When you came out I hadn’t discovered that I’m bisexual. I felt selfhatred till I was 21. I just came out last year to my mom and brother. I feel for your younger self, he did what he could and evolved to the incredible person you are. I used to watch your videos back then. I still do right now and I’m just glad to see you thriving. Love you Connor!

  • @zabaratimes5031
    @zabaratimes5031 3 года назад +6

    Need another so badly. This gave me unprecedented amounts of dopamine.

  • @trystanchance
    @trystanchance 3 года назад +7

    the memories you just unlocked. i remember my first time watching these videos 😭

  • @madeniquevanwyk
    @madeniquevanwyk 3 года назад +1

    Oh wow, what a flashback this was for me as well! I used to watch Connor around 2012/2013 when I just discovered RUclips really, and I saw all these "what do I look for in a girl" type videos, and I just soaked it all in, thinking that this was the epitome of content back then. I stopped watching him at some point and I didn't even know he came out, but seeing him now, and seeing the evolution and growth? We love it. I'm so happy for my boy after all these years 💖🥺💖

  • @sp691
    @sp691 3 года назад +1

    I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE WATCHING YOUR OLD VIDEOS MAKES ME CRY OF LAUGHTER

  • @dawnevanson7082
    @dawnevanson7082 3 года назад +6

    6:27 I’M SO READY TO USE THIS AS A MEME WHEN HOUSE FIRES CAME OUT

  • @caseyadelaide1370
    @caseyadelaide1370 3 года назад +2

    The sad thing is I remember exactly where I was when you came out in 2014. I was at theatre rehearsal and I screamed when I saw the tweet notification of the video. I then sneakily started looking up the connor franta tag on tumblr while in rehearsal.

  • @latishavivian8673
    @latishavivian8673 3 года назад +8

    Connor slowly losing it and saying "It's so painful to be alive, I don't wanna live and I don't wanna die" lmao
    This would've been a great senior yearbook quote

  • @bernie2010
    @bernie2010 3 года назад

    watching connor franta as a kid and analyzing the old videos and now being gay is it’s own right of passage