[Hello Counselor Sub: ENG,THA/2018.06.04]
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Hello Counselor EP.367
Guests : WJMK's Yoojung & Seola, .Kim Youngchul, Park Jiseon,
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"I wanted to die and be with my baby" hits me hard
Meanwhile, the father doesn't care the slightest bit
to all my fella single ladies out here, lets do _ourselves_ a precious favor and _never_ give ourselves away too easily... especially to guys from places where its *_clear_* things are supposed to be a *one-night-stand thing* only like nightclubs etc etc Let us _Love Our selves_ more, _give Respect & Honor_ to our _Self_ beings... and _set our standards _*_higher_* . *xoxo*
sirōjan munīīro my sisters taught me that you can't have a good relationship with a person you met at the nightclub...
That’s so true. Because women will do so much for love. Just make sure he is worthy first before you love him.
So true
Thumbs up
Ehh that’s just a very old and kinda misogynistic kind of thinking tbh lol have sex with whoever you want just make sure to wear protection
nomoredickpics people r not getting married just to have sex
Marriage is bigger than this
To build a family and hace someone to rely on and care about
Relationships are way important than just sex!!!
Imagine a world without families just unknown people unrelated to each other
Having family has never been an old concept
Once he said can I sleep while she was giving birth to a stillborn I don't care how many test he had I would've divorced him.
Same
Unless he has narcolepsy or something, that is completely unforgivable.
same here ... !!!
29BW
'I had to stay up all night' is a really good excuse in his 'defense' I guess.
Please divorce him. Like please.
Divorce is stigmatized in Korea. You know how people treated unwed mothers centuries ago? People treat single mothers like shit there. They wont let their kids play with kids without a dad. Its really a society where people are easily victimized.
sammies well then, I will play with my kids by myself and who cares about other people? It’s better to just divorce a trash like him. If you don’t want to raise your kids then gtfo I’m not going to raise you to. I’m not you mom. Pay child support and get the fuck out smh
Lorena Francesca AMEN TO THAT
@@lorenafrancesca6918 so true
Men like this shouldn't exist! He always countered the argument with "She's better than this...", " She's been doing it for a while now so...". Man, get a grip of yourself.
He's saying like the girl was begging for his sperm so he had pety and gave her. Like after that it isn't his business tho. His only work was to give sperm and then he dgaf
This Sungjae reminds me of Ko Sungjae. They are both eloquent, smart, and has stage presence. Maybe if I name my future son Sungjae, he is going to be as smart as them? 😅
carolyn torrecampo exactly my thought too
I feel so bad bc i think most of the korean couples are together just because of pregnancy or fear of getting lonely and not love ...why are the women so afraid of getting a divorce? Its sad
Maria fernanda
In Korea, dads end up taking care of the kids after a divorce most of the time. Since the wifes truly care about their children and want to be there for them, they don't get a divorce even if the husband is awful.
That's my hypothesis about the situation but I was thinking just like you before knowing how the Korean society works.
@@riveting10it's like to gain something u have to loose something(sorry I'm Indian)
In the comments a lot of people are saying that she should divorce him. You fail to understand that single moms in Korea are most of the time cast out by their own family and by the society also they re derided. And while it s tough all year around it is far more paintful during the holiday season. When you become a social outcast it s difficult to make a living, to make friends, meet a new partener and so on. She needs courage to take such a big decision and a back up plan.
That man doesn’t deserve the kindness and patience of his wife and a family
Why kids with name Seungjae is really talkative and smart? 😂. this Seungjae, and Ko Seungjae (TROS)
Yesss🙆
This is why women shouldnt give themselves away so easily because you don't really know how your partner is in the beginning. Make sure it is with someone that you know will be fully there if anything happenes because yes, pregnancy is always a risk. I know society is making it okay to just sleep around, but please don't.
Yesss it's a decision for ur whole life
I’m not even old enough to understand how hard it is to have a miscarriage, but looking how sad they look, then it must’ve been hard. Losing a baby after taking care of it and anticipating the baby for a long time must’ve been hard. I would divorce him if the girl was me, like my babies doesn’t deserve him :’(
It's like crazy she came with her hole family and discussed in front of the camara!
Seungjae is like seungjae 😬😍😍
It's very obvious he doesn't want any part of their life,except sex (hence the other children). He doesn"t show any intrest in her not even when she delievered still born!! ,wants to have single life and they are obstacles.
Girl you deserve more,divorce and save yourselves from this manchild
cant wait for seolbo as guest tomorrow 😍
I can't believe that Park Ji-Sun is no more 😢😢😢😢
A child should never be devoid of father's love. Younja must have seen her in the story. The wife should leave him.
I just feel so bad for her. She loves her husband so much, she even tried to look prettier for him, all she need just his compliments.
The yellow shirt actress is very blunt for the right reason - she is correct people will divorce right away
Ahhhhhh it was a one night stand he doesnt love you
Seungjae ???? Suddenly my mind goes to Ko Seungjae my fav child from the TROS .
lmao, "this/love is unknown territory to me" "me too" me three.........lolz
bruh if i was him i would be disgusted hearing these things come out of my wife’s mouth and try immediately to fix myself... how can you just sit there and not care????
He’s still immature
Josee Rodriguez has
seola i don't know who you are but girlllll PREACH
If I was her I would not say it was because of the children, because we already determined that he seems to be already out of there lives now, and I don't think that would change in the near future, you are just prolonging the inevitable, your children would probably wish you have divorced him before and found the courage to stand up in life. They have very solid evidence in this video of what kind of person their father is and IF he never changes, your children would have understood you and would not feel you in wrong with what you have decided on. Your just punishing yourself and your children living with a very violent, indifferent, unsympathetic, lying husband. I know this because I came from that kind of family and I had wished that they would have ended it before it really had damaged all of our lives. Now I don't trust people especially men because of the kind of family life I had.
Sis, the divorce papers are looking mighty fine if we say so ourselves
ladies never marry a guy you met at a nightclub or bar its just an extended one night stand to them
R.I.P
what happened
@@shye8477 she died
why now have no subtitle? I can understand...
This is heartbreaking...
I am so appalled. His reaction to the stillbirth was the final straw. Everyone was shedding tears while he was shedding excuses
yup
Exactly
Yes!
Honestly, they need to get a divorce. Just imagine how the kids are going to grow up and see their relationship and think it's okay to live like that. If it doesn't change, I really hope that she finds the strength to leave him and take the kids with her.
Host: what do you want from him?
Me: I want a divorce... period.
*(crowd gasps)*
Host: Th-Then why did you come on this show?
Me: To expose him.
*(crowd gasps again)*
Host: I-I see..
I would LOVE to see this lmaooo these trash men don't deserve women like this smh
MEEEEEEE
YES I HAVE WAITING FOR SOMETHING LIKE THIS TO HAPPEN ON THE SHOW!!!!!
then people all around the nation know who to look out for
Ok I'm glad I'm not the only one! At least maybe do an update on pass guests!
Me too!
Cringe
Wohwww how did a beautiful and kind girl end up with someone like him
She could do so much better
It’s a shame divorce is so stigmatized in sk
Many people hesitate to divorce just because they wanna give their child a complete family but please bear in mind that it doesnt mean that its a happy family, so whats the point in hanging onto a person that doesnt give a shit about you and your kids? Just get a divorce and lead a happy family with your kids you don't need no man yo!
Hilary rie
I was thinking about it but I think the problem is that the 'dad' would keep the boys if she divorced him. I think that's why she can't really divorce him...
Avril Cadeul I don't think that would ever happen. He's made it perfectly clear she's a better parent, and kids usually go to mothers anyway in my experience.
Lucy Stuart
In Korea it's the opposite. Kids usually go with their father and sometimes even with the parents of the father before the mother.
The best solution for her would be to leave with the kids but I don't know if she can technically do it.
Avril Cadeul oh right I see, thanks for correcting me. That seems insane to me considering how much more the mothers seem to care for the children compared to the fathers.
Lucy Stuart
Ikr ! In many concerns where the parents are divorced, the kids seem to miss their mom so much it's heartbreaking. 😢
The reason is that many women work part time or don't work at all so the kids go with the father because he earns money.
So let me get this straight. This man has been neglectful of his duties as a husband and father, was not supportive when they lost their child not knowing how hard pregnancy is, drinks every day, verbally insults his wife, goes on temper tantrums, hit his wife with an object, does not keep up with his duties at home... and they still believe he will change?.. 🙄What👏🏽is👏🏽this👏🏽
In most Asian culture divorce is wrong or frowned upon most are willing to stay in unhappy situations just to say that the family stayed whole..its sad but they rather have both parents in the home then have happiness
It's called faith. Can't believe you don't know that.
I know. But afaik the program doesn't just let them go after this. Ig they kinda support them? Not sure though
I’ll never forget the episode of got7 Jb where he spoke about how much better his family life got once his parents divorced. That was the closest I feel anyone on the panel came to telling the wife to get a divorce.
I really want to give the wife a hug :(
melanie benavides and i want to punch and slap bitch her husband so bad.
I want to give her the lottery so she can dump his ass and move into a nice house and own her own business so she can make money and not have to depend on no sorry ass loser like him as a husband
J N honestly depend on him for what? He literally started working 6months ago 😂😂 poor woman been raising two kids and a grown teenager smh
48mavemiss2 are you illiterate I never said she should depend on him. Idc when he worked. He's a bum and chances her meeting another man who will take care of her and her kids in Korea is slim to none. Korean women don't become single mothers because its hard for them financially. Men are not reliable so don't rely on them. Idk where tf you saw me say "depend on him." I never ever wrote that
J N they weren’t being rude
They were making a joke off of what you said
When he basically lied from the first meeting, it's the highway to hell. Imagine living with your in laws alone without your baby and husband around. You practically live on your own already sis, go ahead take your kids and taught them not to become like their own useless father. Teach them a man's responsibilities. You'll do good. Find your more deserving loves out there.
True. She’s basically a single mom already.
I can't wait to hear from them again. How he'll treat her and the kids. I mean everyone started with zero knowledge in child rearing. You can't just leave it to your partner because she's better at it. All the stress.
I was already on my last straw but when I heard he got violent with his wife I wanted to STRANGLE him through my phone I'm not messing my brother had to hold me back from breaking my phone.
😂
SAME HAPPENED TO ME
I threw my phone lol I'm sad now i have a crack T^T
Same
He'll 'let' her go out on sundays
wtf is this
Cycra Lisa like seriously he needs to stop his patriarchal bullshit when he can’t even act like a real man 🤦🏻♀️
Michelle Lee AMEN
@@sobegirl13 👏👏🙏
Moral of the story, if you're going to have a one night stand, be protected because you may end up with a monster like this guy for a husband.
Thang Vuong condoms break tho... birth control is really the only guarantee as far as pregnancy goes. I’m just glad she didn’t catch anything from him.
The husband is just so irresponsible and insensitive. This is so aggravating. He should not have entered into a relationship, did the deed, and married her if he doesn't want to have kids to take care of.
He is physically and emotionally abusive! He threw a remote at her! That is grounds for restraining order and divorce with full custody since he is an endangerment to children !
He takes for granted such a beautiful (inside and out) wife and adorable children like she should leave him since he so neglectful.
everything about her situation just hurts to hear... i will never understand why people who have no interest in taking care of kids have kids like it would be easier if you didn’t put your significant other through so much pain but also the kids are adversely affected too
but she's not his "significant" other though. I don't think he even loves her which is why he's so indifferent to her and the kids.
damn that's a good point... I hope she realizes it soon to end this toxic relationship
Because they do it so they have someone to wait on their every need
i started crying when she said that he hit her in the face with a remote :(
Sage Wagner funny my first urge was to throw the whole damn TV at him
Who else comes to the comment section to see others comments and like them because they express the feelings you had.
Jungkook oppa me
I think this is the worst husband I have ever seen on hello counselor. How can he say that he had a test that’s why he wanted to leave?! Your child died and the only thing you care about is a test? Homegirl needs to leave ASAP with the kids.
Ciara T girl then you need to watch more hello counselor. There's actually a husband that can't even remember his child's name. There are too many concerns in this show that actually need a professional help
If the husband can't change after come to this show, I support the wife that she need to end it and move on for herself and her kids for the future!
Hello counselor-killing oppa fantasies one concern at a time.
C S fr!! When I see girls saying how they wanna marry a Korean dude, mainly because they think Korean guys are like the idols and actors they see in kpop and kdramas, I just wanna tell them " girl watch a few episodes of hello counselor and you'll see that not all Korean men are like your 'oppas' "
Looking at the timeline, she probably got pregnant the night they met and it's obvious the husband doesn't even love her or the kids, just getting married for the sake of it... that's the saddest. She and her kids would probably be happier if she'd just raise them on her own! Then again, Korea is such a judging society and I can imagine how difficult it is for a single mom... sigh...
This is exactly when I love-hate watching this show! I end up getting sooooo angry!
Did you just reply to your own comment as if you were another person? Wow.
@@tiffanyk980 or they could've forgotten to add that in to the first comment lol
He didn't once look remorseful to me ...
one night stand...knocked up...with a stranger..then shotgun wedding...DISASTER! writing this barely sentence gives me headache!!
mimi word. I couldn't even muster the energy to write it. Thank you ❤❤❤❤
I would've left him immediately. Poor excuse of a man and human being
Omg I literally cried out my eyes. That poor woman she should get immediately divorced. I really hate that men. That make me think how greatfull I am having great loving parents that love their children and eachother
Why is no one talking about how the kid is scared of him? Like he's scared to go even near him or only acts like a kid and has fun when he's sleeping. Poor kid, he was crying for his mom to come back home.
I wonder how his father was treating him tho poor child
He can make babies but can't take care of them?! She needs to remind him of this when next they are about to have sweet times together.
Yeongcheol (Idk if I got his name spelled correctly) is really the king of advice
Yusra M they didn't have to diss him like that in the beginning...I know they meant it for fun...still
@@MsShadowfaxglamdring he always gets dissed in knowing bros
once again another concern where a divorce is highly necessary, but the wife is scared of being a single mom and doesn’t think a family is complete without the husband even though he does absolutely nothing.
lmao my family tho
Same with mine lmao
The moment he said he will like to sleep when they lost the baby. I would of divorce him right away. I won't stay with a bastard that didn't care for the baby they have lost it's a bright symbol that he will never care. Instead of wanting to die I would make him hurt as much as I am. No matter how much I love someone I wouldn't stay with someone that didn't even care for their dead baby that just a horrible person. I'm beginning to think that she doesn't love him but more like feel secure with him
I really mad right now. The wife is pretty and the kids is cute, God, please give them happy life
Ugh this reminds me of my family, except my dad was a lot more abusive. He used to hit my mom when I was about 3 or 4, I have no idea how I still remember it. I dealt with it for 15 years and I decided I had enough. I had the guts to actually call the cops and kick him out. I’m just happy my mom doesn’t go through abuse like that anymore.
Ladies that are in this type of relationship, it’s hard to deal with people like them. It’s no use trying to change someone that’s just going to do the same stuff over again. No matter what they say, “I’ll change, I love you, I’ll get a job...etc” it’ll still be the same. It’s going to be hard alone but it’ll help you realize the torture you had to go through. I hope none of y’all are going through anything like that.❤️❤️
You're so brave. People go crazy over film heroes, they should understand, the ones we need to appreciate and applause...are the real life heroes like you. Because raising voice against voilence is no joke. It takes lot of courage n guts to do that. Salute you.
개찐따같아 저사람 안바뀔것 같아
도망쳐요 그만울어 뭐가 모자라서 저사람한테 기대하고 있어요 실은 알잖아요 저 인간 안바뀔거라는걸요 생긴것도 모자라지만
하는짓이 너무 모자라 왜 애를 낳았지
여자는 마음을 줘야 몸을 주지만 남자는 몸을 취하면 마음이 떠나기 때문이겠죠. 굳이 저 남자의 변호를 해주자면.
What's the point she had a husband if she lives like single parent? Just divorce, she can do it alone. She already do it all of this time
I would have divorced him a long time ago. I will not even leave my children with you. He doesn't want to be a father let's be really honest here. It will be hard for him to change and progress will come very slowly. He is bad at being a father plus he has temper issues, lawd take control. Sister, I say divorce him and take your children with you. There are men out their who will accept you for who you are and accept you with your kids and treat you like the queen that you are. 1 in a billion you will find a good man from the club. It's very rare so don't risk it at all. Unfortunately, this one is from the pit of hell so throw him far away and run away. if he can hit you with a remote control he can hit you with a chair and then a knife. I'm appalled by how quick they said he has changed because of his last statement to his wife. Change doesn't come through sentences but with action. How can you say he has changed when everything he said was a lie to cover up his excuse of being a father? Maybe it's just my thinking.
i could never imagine being married and raising my kids like im a single parent. i know she said she’s staying with him because of her children, but she should get a divorce asap tbh. no kid should have to be around someone that disregards them and care so little about them.
I really think that she's trying hard to stay with him because of her children, but most parents don't realize how growing up in that kind of environment feels like. When I was younger my parents fought excessively, it honestly scared me to death. I would hide behind the couch until I thought they were done because they used to drag me into their fights. My memories of when I was younger are filled with me sobbing being asked repeatedly if I wanted them to be divorced. I was kid and of course I said yes, because we had happy memories together despite all the fighting, but what hurt me the most was hearing them say it was all my fault. Later on, once I got a bit older, I started telling them that it was okay if they decided to get divorced as long as they were happy, because I couldn't stand watching my mom cry and tell me that the reason she was so miserable was because she was staying with my father for me. Now that I'm older the fights aren't as often and we're so much happier, but that's only because my parents were able to change. I honestly don't think this father is going to change, he really doesn't seem to care about his wife or child, but I'm praying he does because she feels so attached to him. If he doesn't change after this, I hope she finds the strength to leave him for both her sake and her children's. Sorry for the essay, but I could just relate to this so much.
He's abusive, a liar, irresponsible, and not good looking either.
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Love is extremely blind
Not good looking either😂
I'm sorry but right now I'm mad at the wife like what did she see in him??
Why u mad at the wife the heck she was young
I feel so bad for her. You can tell she wants to divorce him but because of the kids and because of the stigma in Korea about divorce, she probably feels scared to. They probably got married because she got pregnant so they more than likely weren't even in love when they married. It's really admirable of her for sticking this crappy marriage out for so long but sis, especially after the miscarriage incident, it's time to take them kids and dip out.
Omg that husband is so useless! That poor woman!
He's a terrible husband & father. She deserves so much better because she's a really good Mom. He better change or I think she needs to Divorce him.
Do u really believe he will change?
What a piece of trash, honestly.
Makes me grateful for my partner, that tells me he is proud of me. For doing most of the chores around the house, for carrying his child. He helps where he can, but he's gone for 13+ hours a day. I feel bad for asking him to do something. Yet, he does it out of love.
Never settle for less, ladies.
Sometimes man can look innocent..point out their problem and still doesnt change...but the fact they can act like this is so frusrating..one word..heartless
“If you think this is a concern, please press the button.”
*breaks the remote*
왜이런사람들은 불행하면서 왜자꾸 애를낳죠???
This is sad but this is also why u shouldn’t marry someone u don’t know it’s sad too because Korean society is so conservative that raising children on your own is looked down upon so it forces women to marry people they don’t know.
*Divorce* *is* *better* *than* *Living* *a* *life* *like* *hell* .
15:18 the bruise(?) On the back of her hand makes me believe that she really was blocking punches or serving them hehe 😂💕she's so cool.
Wow he has the energy and time to make babies but he doesn’t even make effort to take care of them
I really want to punch that damn husband!!!! 😤😤😤😤 His wife been through a lot, miscarriage is a nightmare for every woman and he supposed to be there for her! His son also seems longing for his love! He is such a horrible jerk!!
I am not sure that the husband will change.
This is totally unacceptable for me. I rather take the kids away and divorce him.
Dear @KBS World TV, Is there any follow up about this couple and their children? Have the relationships improved? Has the husband began taking more interest in his family and stopped being as selfish? Please update us, or where can we find that update?
와. 진짜 남자 너무 별로네
My friend have this kind of husband, she divorced him, and now lead a happy life with her new husband and kids
무조건 이혼하고 다신 마주치지 않을 곳으로 떠나세요 제발
Wow. How can she love him? I would’ve been too tired to love someone like him. Love is a really strange thing
omg theres so many handsome people with good personality and good heart . hes terrible ! whyyyyy chose him ..
Ikr
Girl get a divorce . This man is trouble .
This is one reason why I am too scared to go for a relationship or getting married..as independent woman,i cannot tolerate a husband like him but as much as possible I don't want to have a broken family(divorce) especially when have kids in order to give my kids a complete family....but in her situation,I think it's better to divorce him while you are still mentally healthy. The wife look so stressed😢😢😢
Honestly I don't think this man will ever change. The mother and kids deserves so much better. I don't think it will be better till they divorce.
I don't understand when they say "because of the kids" I don't leave, shouldn't it be "because of the kids I had to leave" ?
Why would you destroy their soul & give a completely twisted and sick representation of family and relationship while telling yourself it makes them happier since appearances are saved ? 0.o
Having a miscarriage is enough of a torture, but he adds to it the pain of not being by her side... She should take the kids and leave. It's not like he has any dad presence or something 🙄🙄 She's young and would be WAY happier witout him, she could even find someone else, someone that really loves her 😒
Sadly this Is the result of a pair of people being made to marry without any actual love or want to marry..
She accidentally got pregnant after meeting at the club, and he was made to share responsibility of the child and they were made to marry and ended up having another child "just because"...
This won't simply be solved by a session of talking, they need proper counselling since their relationship had such a rocky start.
Divorce this man before he ruins your life !! Divorce doesn't mean your child will automatically be unhappy...
I know there's a strong stigma against divorcees but still... you'd all be better off seperate
This man had me cursing like I’m not Christian omg 💀😡
Wth is wrong with this show why are they illustrating it in such a animatic manner ,I mean it’s a serious concern , this show has gone if grid many times and I’m bout to throw some fists man
When the root is bad, everything will be bad, that’s why he won’t change.
MAYBE - but just MAYBE - BEFORE MARRYING/HAVING KIDS with someone, know them better. What do you think, korean friends? Marrying after few months of dating is the perfect way to a fast divorce. In the end, the partner and the children are in danger. It is exhausting to hear some girls saying they got pregnant immediately. Unless you are an ignorant - in a way that you do not have the access to education - you cannot just ignore the fact that, if you do not use precaution, that what happens eventually...
Anyway when your partner throws objects at you or aim to your health, is called ABUSE. The abuser needs therapy, cannot change just because you say "I AM SAD, SOB SOB". Life is long, and luckily we live in a period we, as women, can choose better. If he does not make you happy, leave him. (not talking about cases where the subject is too poor. In that circumstance, help needs to be provided)
Diana Martorelli its not only korean people that do that though. People from so many different countries meet, spend a few months together and get married
girl leave right now😒