How to perform in front of others without getting nervous

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  • Опубликовано: 27 окт 2024

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  • @SumailDota
    @SumailDota 7 лет назад +136

    performing guitar player here. audience do not see your mistakes on stage the same way you remember them. the audience however gravitate towards how your stage presence makes them feel.
    on small gigs most audience are musicians. theve been on the stage before they know its not easy to perform. so dont go hard on yourself they dont hold high expectations over you.

    • @Acehan
      @Acehan 7 лет назад +1

      Yeah and if you have your shit together, people will see and remember that you have your shit together.

    • @joshuachadmorris5178
      @joshuachadmorris5178 6 лет назад +1

      Sumail I needed that I'm a grunge guitar player and I can play all the time in front of rockers but my stepmom gets me to play with her in church and that kind of music I'm.not used to and I screw up Everytime

    • @neo_______
      @neo_______ 5 лет назад

      Sumail thanks for the advice

    • @x._cosmicz._x5837
      @x._cosmicz._x5837 4 года назад

      Sumail On Friday I’m playing at a prep rally with everyone at school watching me :/

  • @ItsAriaFord
    @ItsAriaFord 5 лет назад +85

    I was always had terrible stage fright until I told and told and finally convinced myself I was turning my nervous energy to excited energy and believed in myself and felt truly comfort. Now I play BETTER in front of people as opposed to just by myself. Positive self talk and belief is all it takes. You’ll be surprised when I tell you, you are fully, I mean 100% in control of your stage fright.

    • @jacobbarnes1453
      @jacobbarnes1453 3 года назад +4

      Wow, I just FEEL more confident playing alone thanks!

    • @BATMADZ_
      @BATMADZ_ Год назад +1

      Doesn’t “believing” go against what he said about “lowering your expectations of the situation”? Sorry, I just want to get a better grasp of what you said. Also, since he says that I WILL be less nervous the better I get and the more I practice, does that mean I should wait to perform in front of my family until I get GOOD good? They all want to see me play guitar, but I’m always so afraid that I’ll mess up :’)

    • @ItsAriaFord
      @ItsAriaFord Год назад +1

      @@BATMADZ_ Do it whenever you feel ready to! Everyone has a different reason for their stage fright, so it really comes down to finding what YOU truly need! For me, I had a mental block and kept telling myself I was stage freight, and wasn't going to do well that I ended up manifesting it. It was when I finally decided "I don't care if I mess up, nobody is perfect, and it's not the end of the world" when I finally just went ahead and did it. I said I was excited to show others what I had practiced, and that my goal was to have fun performing, to be excited to perform, instead of being scared of not being perfect. Then, the more I performed, overtime I became more and more comfortable. I started off shaking trying to just perform in front of my mom, and now, three years later I can perform on a stage in front of a whole audience without messing up (tho I am still nervous/excited a lot of the time). In the end, stage fright is an obstacle that many people have to face. It's okay, you can do it, I believe in you and it IS okay to mess up. We all do!! Best of luck and don't be so hard on yourself. Prepare till you feel confident ENOUGH in your skills so you aren't stressing quite as much, then, just do it! It'll be okay, you got this!!

    • @ItsAriaFord
      @ItsAriaFord Год назад +1

      @@BATMADZ_ Also, it really helped me when I learned that there is science that can actually help as well. Studies show that excited and nervous energy are experienced in the body the same way! It is only up to your mind to decide which one you are feeling. So next time you feel nervous, just channel those butterflies into excitement instead and it might actually become more enjoyable!

    • @BATMADZ_
      @BATMADZ_ Год назад

      @@ItsAriaFord Wow, that’s amazing how you you’ve overcome your fear and are now playing for a whole audience!! Much respect to you 👏😮
      So basically what I need is to practice performing in front of a few people at a time and a change of mindset?

  • @krelbar
    @krelbar 7 лет назад +57

    I suffer from stage fright as well...but I do the opposite. I try not to be afraid to make mistakes. I improvise in uncharted territory and try to pull myself back into my comfort zone. I fail quite a bit...but some moments are magical...especially that point (that lasts only about 10 seconds) where you see the whole neck and realize you couldn't play a wrong note if you tried. Then you think too much about it and lose it...lol

  • @GamingGuyKen
    @GamingGuyKen 4 года назад +9

    I always mess up when playing in front of anyone, not just little mistakes either. On my own, when I nail something well... I feel a huge emotional burst and I know THAT'S ME! I did that, I can do that and I want to share it. That first couple of mins of this video changed my approached after 17 years of playing. 8 years ago, I had a huge set back after a brain injury. This made my hands shaky and my little finger on my left hand weak.
    After years of picking the guitar up and feeling like I've started all over again, I'm now back on a good level. My little finger is more controlled again and my general skill is higher than it ever has been. It's amazing how a few mins of video can up your whole approach on another area, that you once found massively daunting. Let's see how this changes things over the next few months. Thanks!
    TL;DR - Subscribed.

  • @michaelhtritter
    @michaelhtritter 2 года назад +7

    I totally love the switch of going up on stage to impress people into going up there, basically, to show where your training and mastery is at currently. If you've trained hard (which I have), that is plenty impressive enough, I don't need to play better than I can, because basically that's impossible (or rare and based on luck). Brilliantly perceived and shared and communicated. Love this. Really really love this.

  • @DanDelVecchio
    @DanDelVecchio 2 года назад +1

    You have no idea how many people (including myself) need to hear this! Thank you.

  • @willhudson5534
    @willhudson5534 7 лет назад +8

    i think your an awesome guitar teacher because unlike other peoples videos that explain technique, you speak the truth that every musician can relate to. thank you for the inspiration to improve :)

  • @stvrsstavridis
    @stvrsstavridis 7 лет назад +11

    Amazing advice, it's probably the first time I hear something like this articulated that well. I think it goes the same when you're trying to record something complex and getting it wrong every time regardless if you can play it alone.

    • @fernandoaiello4362
      @fernandoaiello4362 6 лет назад

      I was going to comment the same! Great teacher over here!

  • @realboltfan
    @realboltfan 3 года назад +2

    This psychological approach is great! Im fairly seasoned but still get nervous. I find the subject fascinating. Thank you.

  • @UzumiAsh
    @UzumiAsh 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much.
    I have a stage performance tomorrow.
    And this really gives me the motivation i need to play without being nervous.

  • @HyperspeedMedia
    @HyperspeedMedia 7 лет назад +52

    every day by day Claus is turning into a zombie... but, I love his video, I'll be here even during the Zombie Apocalypse.

    • @siccbastard4580
      @siccbastard4580 5 лет назад +2

      I couldn't help but notice his uh... facial features

    • @DJDmusicasart
      @DJDmusicasart 4 года назад +3

      Hi, this is 2020 speaking. You might be able to enjoy that experience very soon now. Stay tuned.

  • @malilowden4802
    @malilowden4802 3 года назад +6

    Perfect pitch for where I am at right now. Thanks so much for putting your own experience out there and sharing what you have learnt. It all makes so much sense and I really look forward to putting it into action

  • @mikenoble690
    @mikenoble690 Год назад +1

    Thank you for your advice, really helps me feel more confident!

  • @jonathanreynolds1579
    @jonathanreynolds1579 Год назад +1

    Thank you, sir!!! This is going to help. I play pretty decent when I'm alone or in front of my wife, but I'm dropping the ball every single time I have multiple people listening to me play. I feel judged, even though they tell me I did great.

  • @milt3663
    @milt3663 7 лет назад +1

    You're teaching style is one of the best on Utube. Great, great personality and just extremely witty. All you're analogies are fun, and the teaching content is very original. Much thanks

  • @rp1526
    @rp1526 Год назад

    Best video I’ve seen about addressing nervousness. And I will watch it multiple times. Thanks.

  • @ianwheeler8764
    @ianwheeler8764 7 лет назад +1

    I really like Claus' enthusiasm and down-to-earth advice. The fact that he is also an amazing player helps too. Thank you sir for sharing your skills and advice with us.

  • @Joelicholas
    @Joelicholas 7 лет назад +7

    Followed you like yesterday. Prolly one of the best and underrated guitar channels. Good job and good information!

  • @kenlelon369
    @kenlelon369 7 лет назад +1

    I am very happy you stuck with us here on RUclips. I have learned so much from your straight-to-the-point teaching methods and own a number of your courses. I also know how brutal the comment section can be at times. Keep it up, Claus!

  • @theaztec1568
    @theaztec1568 4 года назад +6

    Don’t practice until you can get it right, practice until you can’t get it wrong

  • @revolution51
    @revolution51 10 месяцев назад +1

    This is important to learn as one progresses in guitar skills.
    Thank you for this very important vid. For me anyway.!

  • @math8137
    @math8137 4 года назад +1

    Thank you guitar elon

  • @Terbie36
    @Terbie36 7 лет назад +4

    Get well soon, Claus. My favorite guitar teacher.

  • @DavidCatalanoGuitarPlayer
    @DavidCatalanoGuitarPlayer 7 лет назад

    He gives good advice. Andy James told me the same thing. When playing for others, stay in our sweet spot.

  • @Olive-xf6nd
    @Olive-xf6nd 2 года назад +8

    im actually here for singing i have a solo in less than a week performing in a giant concert hall in front of over 100 people and ive never done a solo before im really taking anything i can get at this point

    • @sprintsutilities7669
      @sprintsutilities7669 Год назад

      i know its a year later hah! how did it go?

    • @Olive-xf6nd
      @Olive-xf6nd Год назад

      @@sprintsutilities7669 i actually got sick and lost my voice 2 days before so i didnt get to sing but since then i have done multiple solos, duets, and groups and i perform at venues on a regular basis. im usually scared before each one but once i get up there i pretended its a rehearsal and it always goes great!

  • @spherecat7740
    @spherecat7740 Год назад +1

    Such great advice!

  • @waynelazar1236
    @waynelazar1236 7 лет назад

    Claus I am a guitar teacher and I think this video is so helpful for those who will play in front of others (whether it be the family or a general audience.) Great ideas so well presented!

  • @JohnnyGuitarRocks
    @JohnnyGuitarRocks 7 лет назад +3

    Just purchased your Fretboard Freedom program and am excited to get started. I love your philosophy and instruction Claus!

    • @stephenpenwolf
      @stephenpenwolf 2 года назад +1

      I took this course years ago - it was a game changer for me.

  • @OldTelecasterMan
    @OldTelecasterMan 7 лет назад +7

    I have been playing for years.. Playing guitar, singing..for over 40 years yes in front of a lot of people. This guy makes a lot of sense. Very cool video. One thing he didn't mention, not that many people actually listen. I have gone into a solo and grabbed a handful of wrong....oops... made the correction looked out into the crowd and not a single person noticed... My bass player and drummer laughed but he is correct, it's not the end of the world. Practice practice practice...play on stage below your level of ability....words of wisdom from Glenn Tipton..read that in an interview. smart man.

  • @rohan-ghosh
    @rohan-ghosh 3 года назад +1

    Forget stage fright, I had severe studio fright all by myself yesterday!!!!
    Had the song so well practiced. The moment I turned on the lights and camera - oh my god!
    Watched this video and I'll keep trying
    :D

  • @stevehightower8906
    @stevehightower8906 7 лет назад +1

    Perspective... Indeed. I appreciate your angle on things, Claus.... and the right perspective is the difference between cool and, well, not.

  • @jerg83
    @jerg83 7 лет назад +1

    It makes sense. Totally agreed. 👍🏼

  • @nerminabbasli7574
    @nerminabbasli7574 4 года назад

    Philosophy of guitar playing.....nice

  • @ClarisseOfficial
    @ClarisseOfficial 7 лет назад +4

    Thank you so much for another great lesson, it was exactly what I was looking for! Great method of teaching, you are revolutionizing education! By the way, I tried your method on the scales, and it worked perfectly! Thank you for sharing!!

  • @BlackUnicorn1111
    @BlackUnicorn1111 7 лет назад

    Yes, this is exactly right..! Claus.. I have gigged for many years in the past, and in the beginning it was some kind of very hard, but after a while when you start to know what really works for you and the audiences, it's becoming more easy. When you begin to experience success, and did know why it happened, it begin slowly to turn around, and become very exiting and relaxed feeling to play live gigs. I could almost be high days after.. But many thing have to come together, it's not only your skills/mastery that will do it, also your sound/gear, kind of music, the other musicians and some times also the stage/place you are playing. But every word is correct in this video..

    • @BlackUnicorn1111
      @BlackUnicorn1111 7 лет назад

      Oh, forgot to mention.. and a good singer.. ;)

  • @thetrentmeister
    @thetrentmeister 7 лет назад +1

    Your videos are great, Claus! Thanks.

  • @iggyward
    @iggyward 7 лет назад +2

    This is perfect advice

  • @martycann1
    @martycann1 3 года назад

    Great information! Thanks! I will apply some of these ideas to my RUclips channel when I film in the future! Marty Cann

  • @kderby2204
    @kderby2204 2 года назад

    I always suck when anyone walks into the room I am playing in. Thanks for that perspective.

  • @Marshall50w
    @Marshall50w 7 лет назад

    Great advice Claus. I think you are right in that the audience is not really judging you, except of course if they are another guitarist ! and thankfully the majority are not !! Perhaps playing within yourself is what keeps the nervousness down and that for me comes from practice, practice and more practice.

  • @Griz1961
    @Griz1961 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @lelandmatsuda5716
    @lelandmatsuda5716 3 года назад +2

    You know you’re really hitting home on the points about what you are doing wrong when it feels like someone is pricking a needle into you several times a minute! Great advice. Got to recognize what the problem is and how to fix it. Basic, but you explain it so well in a musical performance situation. Thanks so much, I feel your video is going to help me a lot!

  • @malcolmdeere1692
    @malcolmdeere1692 7 лет назад

    Great points made in the video. The best way to overcome fear of speaking or playing to other people is indeed to build up. If you can address 6 people, 60 is no problem either.

  • @johnnybasco5860
    @johnnybasco5860 7 лет назад

    great advice Claus. You are the Mr miagi. of you tube guitar lessons. keep up the great work

  • @zool38
    @zool38 7 лет назад

    you' re right man it's one of my biggest problem, happy to apply your advice. keep on posting those great videos.

  • @remyQuillmeister
    @remyQuillmeister 7 лет назад

    Good info. I'm glad I stuck it out to the end.

  • @bestboy897
    @bestboy897 7 лет назад

    Such great practical tips thanks Claus

  • @LeroyYue
    @LeroyYue 7 лет назад

    Great speech! Applies to all things in life.

  • @DeekJohnson
    @DeekJohnson 7 лет назад +1

    great vid, great info...thx for the perspective..."drop to your level of training"...perfect.

  • @chase36chase
    @chase36chase 7 лет назад +11

    "just play what you are really able to"

  • @Jasmine-Jeane-H
    @Jasmine-Jeane-H 3 года назад

    This is great advise.

  • @Abheek
    @Abheek 7 лет назад

    Great advice ClausLevin!

  • @billhenderson8340
    @billhenderson8340 7 лет назад +1

    Thanks Claus !!!

  • @hosain_awad
    @hosain_awad 7 лет назад

    ClausLevin very nice teacher thankful 👍

  • @babaniyiiyanu3425
    @babaniyiiyanu3425 7 лет назад +2

    wish you speedy recovery.

  • @petert7449
    @petert7449 7 лет назад

    Very well put into perspective. Thanks very much for that

  • @mcmadman51canada
    @mcmadman51canada 7 лет назад +1

    Great video, great advice. Thanks for sharing.

  • @lordjubei9829
    @lordjubei9829 7 лет назад +1

    Good message !

  • @bartnettle
    @bartnettle 7 лет назад

    Go with what works! Great Video advice! I feel a lot better about practicing the very fundamentals of my bass technique. Much of what I love to learn from your videos and others never comes in to play in front of others 95% of the time. But on bass you have to do your job and there is pleasure in that for most genres. When you get a solo often being less flashy sounds better. The level of mastery applies to standards too! Good advice! Thanks

  • @travisryan8548
    @travisryan8548 7 лет назад

    Well expressed Claus, as always you are spot on. Great advice!!

  • @jonislow
    @jonislow 7 лет назад

    Thanks for the pep talk coach!

  • @juliciencia
    @juliciencia 2 года назад

    Great video, thanks✨

  • @shygalaxyyt2400
    @shygalaxyyt2400 3 года назад +4

    I'm very nervous I was asked to play the piano at my grandfather's furnral and I don't want to say no but I am so scared of messing it up that it makes me sick....

    • @fallingfalls9981
      @fallingfalls9981 3 года назад +1

      can i know how it went if u did plau

    • @shygalaxyyt2400
      @shygalaxyyt2400 3 года назад +1

      @@fallingfalls9981 oh yeah!
      I did pretty good didn't mess up to bad, after I was done I could stop shaking for like an hour. But I was able to get through it!

  • @karlbork6039
    @karlbork6039 7 лет назад

    Johnny b good is a great example. So many simple things sound great on guitar. No reason to over think the situation.

  • @santiagoaguirre4258
    @santiagoaguirre4258 Год назад

    great video, thank you

  • @SQadir
    @SQadir 7 лет назад

    Very impressive, all your uploads are very practical and useful
    I have very few coming out with topic as you do

  • @michaeltaylors2456
    @michaeltaylors2456 7 лет назад

    Thanks for explaining this ! You are so right ! Looking back, I now realize that my degrees of stage fright with guitar playing were proportional to my mastery at the time . The worst case was when I tried to wow the audience with some evil voiced metal -Phrygian thing I concocted , and I actually went a little numb all over my body and lost track of the band and where I was so painful for everyone I'm sure . While the most joyful whoops and yelling of encouragement I ever got from the audience was when I improvised a simple solo for Wipeout ( the Safaris ) I was completely unselfconscious, like I was listening and watching someone else play it, I could look the audience in the eye and feel like I was with them watching some guy play . Thank you .

  • @loopie007
    @loopie007 7 лет назад

    Thank you Claus!

  • @ScottJGarvey
    @ScottJGarvey 7 лет назад +1

    Amazing advice

  • @100reck
    @100reck 7 лет назад

    good advice man, I appreciate your videos

  • @edbowles5497
    @edbowles5497 7 лет назад +14

    Will definitely start brushing my teeth again.

  • @levonbagdasarian7918
    @levonbagdasarian7918 5 лет назад

    Oooh man, I was laughing so hard up to the last second of your video. Your charisma busrts out when you speak about that Johnny B good solo. Hahaha I can't get enough of it, I'm watching this moment over and over again. This is such a good video, honestly.

  • @alexdunneguittff
    @alexdunneguittff 4 года назад +1

    Great video, helped a lot but I'm a big video and colour guy so the lack of saturation and contrast in the video itself was painful

  • @codytaylor7310
    @codytaylor7310 7 лет назад

    Great videos I'm really getting alot out of them! Thanks alot.

  • @nigel134679
    @nigel134679 7 лет назад

    great teacher glad i subscribed to your channel

  • @THEPUNCHPIT
    @THEPUNCHPIT Год назад

    Awesome video 🤘🤘🤘

  • @LaszloMetal
    @LaszloMetal 7 лет назад +1

    You have many good points in your videos. I play the guitar since 10 years, and gathered a lots of experience, that nobody said to me before, and these important tips, and tricks, I found a lot of them in your videos. And also new ones, so keep up the good work!
    And dont care of the morons who are bullying you because of humid/sweaty face skin. Actually you can make a video of experiences about sweating on stage, and playing on wet guitar. I had a lotsa cool memories about this on summertime shows... :)

  • @babaniyiiyanu3425
    @babaniyiiyanu3425 7 лет назад

    love your approach. thank you for this video

  • @walterweimer1333
    @walterweimer1333 7 лет назад

    so good advice and so right

  • @roxiethecockapoo1138
    @roxiethecockapoo1138 2 года назад

    I composed a song on the piano for my mom many months ago. Still too worried to perform it haha! I know it's just my mom but I've worked so hard on it that just messing up will destroy me internally.
    I can't imagine how it must feel to those performing it on stage...

  • @zacharymiller6397
    @zacharymiller6397 7 лет назад

    thank you your video was very helpful 👍😊

  • @congorianso
    @congorianso 7 лет назад

    Great Advice!

  • @olmonk
    @olmonk 6 лет назад

    A good talk.

  • @HTNT9
    @HTNT9 7 лет назад

    great tips here...I get so nervous when I play at guitar stores. Feels like my hands freeze up and I even struggle playing basic pentatonic licks.

  • @johnnygodel7531
    @johnnygodel7531 7 лет назад

    Sounds very familiar. Great video. Thx.

  • @lilbanana6159
    @lilbanana6159 3 года назад +1

    Me: Plays in front of others
    My parents who should be supporting me: What have you been learning

  • @Ranametalera
    @Ranametalera 7 лет назад

    Bro, i was waiting for this video a long time a go, in fact i'm sure i aksed about it a couple times in another of your videos, anyways... Thanks a lot, and i hope you get well pretty soon!

  • @cihancakal4963
    @cihancakal4963 7 лет назад +1

    GOLLUM! GOLLUM!! That thumbnail image 😂😂😂

  • @emmanuelwolf6568
    @emmanuelwolf6568 4 года назад +1

    I remember someone saying ,you’ve got to be good enough to play whilst people are throwing things at you whilst standing on your head lol.

  • @augustinechinnappanmuthria7042
    @augustinechinnappanmuthria7042 2 года назад

    Super 💓❤️

  • @dlees8432
    @dlees8432 7 лет назад +5

    its all about ego ive found. still trying to master that myself

  • @tylerpeacock7113
    @tylerpeacock7113 5 лет назад

    Thanks

  • @andrewjames7493
    @andrewjames7493 8 месяцев назад +1

    Amateurs practice until they get it right. Professionals practice until they can't get it wrong.

  • @miaouew
    @miaouew 4 года назад

    The bottom line is that fine motor skills go out the window when you're nervous or anxious. The end goal is to get over the anxiety of stage fright. Easier said than done, but once you get past the anxiety you're fine.

  • @chucktrier
    @chucktrier 7 лет назад

    Super god video. Jeg føler mig totalt ramt.. tak.

  • @w8ting2feel29
    @w8ting2feel29 4 года назад

    thnx dewd

  • @sledtobed
    @sledtobed 7 лет назад +1

    this guy is too cool ..really lays it out there ..I agree with him on the critical people thing ...there out there .. screw their opinions ..theres no easy way.....thats the way ..its easy

  • @beenforgiven2003
    @beenforgiven2003 7 лет назад +1

    Bro thank u man

  • @raawenergydogfood8281
    @raawenergydogfood8281 4 года назад

    I never realized this was a human condition. Thanks for making the video i know its 2+ years gone by, you should know it will help me today. Hope all is well to you.

  • @MrMarcusko
    @MrMarcusko 3 года назад

    I learn and play finger-style, acoustic guitar versions of songs I love - I do it to make videos that I put on-line for my friends and family (and of course my ego). I am strictly an amateur hobbyist and DO NOT expect the videos to be at a professional level, but I find it EXTREMELY hard to get to where I play a song thru completely on video, without mistakes. Playing in a band is one thing as mistakes can get lost in the mix, but with a solo performance it's ALL on you, and if you blow a measure or two the video is ruined and you need to start over. While I love doing this, it takes an INCREDIBLE mount of work and gets very frustrating. I choose pieces consistent with my skill level so I don't think I'm being unrealistic . . . I just need help getting 'over the hump' to where I'm calm and comfortable enough to make it thru the song without breaking down. I would greatly appreciate any words of advice!!

    • @guitarmastery
      @guitarmastery  3 года назад

      Pick just two songs and aim at being able to play them perfectly 50% faster than you need to! The problem is that you are “good” at playing them. You need to aim for mastery in order to be able to perform them well.

    • @MrMarcusko
      @MrMarcusko 3 года назад

      @@guitarmastery I truly appreciate your response and like your suggestion. Many thanks for taking the time!