My Fibroid Story Pt 2
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 2 фев 2021
- #smbc #blacksmbc #heavyperiod #fibroidsurgery
Main Channel: / justcallmewah
Collection plate for IVF:
Venmo: Wahima-Lino
CashApp: $Wahima
Paypal: wahimalino@gmail.com
SEND ME MAIL:
P.O. Box 7266
San Bernardino, CA 92411
![Sean Rii, Karyon, Sharzkii - Taungule [My Love] (Official Visualizer)](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/eJoMuypbSzQ/mqdefault.jpg)
I just turned 36. No partner and no kids. I'm starting to think about the journey of having kids on my own.
Any suggestions or options for a man who wants a kid? Lol
So I’m watching and my heart hurts as I struggle with fibroids. I’m 39 about to be 40 and I have no kids yet. I had an ectopic pregnancy when I was younger along with 2 miscarriages so I only had one Fallopian tube which make pregnancy twice as hard. In 2015/16 I had to get a myomectomy as the bleeding was crazy not to mention the pain was unbearable. That’s helped a lot with the pain and bleeding However only now to find out my one single tube is now blocked 😔. I was like why me ..... I cried for days and was so depressed. Fast forward to 2019 to find out that after taking out 10 fibroids they grew back and what was left grew bigger. Now I got a partner wanting kids and idk how to explain all this so now I’m trying to figure out how to have kids ...... it’s a rollercoaster of emotions and I’m praying that God sees it fit to grant me a child cause I really want to be a mom. I’m praying for you that your dreams to a mom comes to reality 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Hello sis,use Dr Omo herbal medicine to unblock your tubes very active with no side effects he also help me shrink my fibroids fibroids, my baby is just 3months old...
I am very interested in hearing about your IVF/IUI journey. I am a thirty something with no kids who is strongly considering being a Single mom by choice. Thank you for sharing. I hope everything with the fibroids goes ok for you.
My bleeding got so bad I became anemic, had a hysterectomy. But I had my daughter already. Big hug and prayers
I have been where you are. I had two myomectomies. I had several large fibroids and have endometriosis and I did IUI before I had the second myomectomy not knowing that something was wrong with my left tube. After my second myomectomy where the removed the tube, I waited 6 months and did IVF at 38. I have a 5 year old now as a SMBC. I wish you all the best.
I am very proud of you for being so brave to post your journey. We are here rooting for you as well :)
As if we couldn't love you anymore Wah. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. These videos will help so many women out there. Wishing you all the best beloved ❤️
Thanks so much for sharing your story, I completely know how you feel! I had my myomectomy at 24 which is really young. They removed 10 fibroids, the biggest one being 11cm. I always had really, REALLY painful cramps in school and throughout Uni, thinking that was normal. But when I tell you, my cramps and period flow post surgery vs the one I used to have.... it is like night and day. Wish I had done it earlier. All the best for your way to motherhood, sending you positivity and success in your journey.
Omg Wah. I kno ur not dropping any tears but im dr dropping them for you. Thank you for sharing and being so brave and transparent. Im praying for goodnews from all angles 🙏🏾
I know exactly how you feel, please dont feel discouraged you will get through this. I had an open myomectomy in 2017, they removed 6 fibroids, it was the best thing i ever did. I was also bleeding profusely and haemmorhaged on holiday in Cuba which got me hospitalised and given a blood transfusion. Get yourself healthy first. Lots of love
Wah this is exactly my story. Everything you have said is me. So many black women suffer with this in silence. So proud of you
I actually had the Open Myomectomy surgery in December 2020. Best decision ever although my doctor said it will take 6 months before I can start trying for children
That lighting tho!!! U look fabulous! My mother in law had fibroids. She had the procedure to have them removed before she got pregnant with my husband. She was able to get pregnant, she didn’t wait a year.. don’t think they had that rule back then. She had some pain at the end of her pregnancy because she had some grow in and around the uterus while she was pregnant with him. She carried him to term and he was born healthy! My old bosses wife had them removed got pregnant had them removed again and had another baby. There is hope girl! You will be an amazing Mama. 😍
I won't go into my fibroid story here but since you're going into surgery, I will share two things that really helped my recovery. If you can, get an elevated toilet seat - trust me, it will make life easier. Also ask your doctor/hospital to get you an abdominal binder (what they give women after childbirth or even a girdle). The binding really helped me feel secure since my organs shifted a bit during surgery and it helped keep things in place as I was recovering. Sending prayers to guide your surgeons hands. Also praying that you have no complications and that you recover quickly
Girl!!! I know exactly how you’re feeling. My story isn’t as complicated but I teared towards the end of your video. Anyway, like you said we can’t let tears fall.
I feel you Wah,you try so hard for years not to get pregnant then when you actually want to you find out you have issues....thank God I have my baby now it took me more than a year to balance my hormones and get pregnant.
Thank you sharing your story . I can relate so much being 37 and doing things right. My last obgyn appt the doctor was blunt and directly referred me to fertility without doing any tests. Her bluntness felt like a punch to the gut. Thank you for being brave 🙏🏽❤
Sending you hugs!!! I had fibroid removal surgery for 4 of them and then during the recovery of this my appendix exploded and damaged my uterus. The doctors told me I'd likely never have another child, I had 1 son at that time. Welp...8 months later I got pregnant...wasn't planned...and carried him to a week late. Keep praying!!!
I have been thinking about doing this and people are always directing me away from this and watching this i feel like i should move forward and at least look into having a child by myself. Have you thought about what you would tell your chld about where they come from?
It's your life, no one else's, so do what makes YOU happy. God bless.
That question about "telling a child about where they come from" is not a question my mind ever conceived tbh. That's an interesting one. 🤔 I could be wrong, but maybe the truth is the best option. I know it's a definite non equalvelant, but I never appreciated my parents lying to me about the existence of Santa Clause 😅 often times people underestimate a child's capacity to process and deal. Children are amazing.
@@someblaqguy yes you are right. I guess maybe I just get to thinking about things out of control like how others would treat "my child" in a non conventional family. I wouldn't want them to go through any undue teasing or bullying that would potentially fuck them up 😅
@@afiamanuwats that's a really good point too. Maybe it's a "play it by ear" kind of thing.
It is best to take them all out. They opened me up to take them all out. People who have c-sections and still have to look after babies, i salute you. I couldn't do anything!
The only reason we still take care of babies after cutting them out is because the maternal urge to keep your kid alive is stronger than our need to take care of ourselves. Pain killers help. What makes it worse is that the cut open organ is also shrinking. Oy. My only advice to first time c-section mamas is to say yes to all the help you are offered. It doesn't last long, but its a rough start.
@@Angel-hm9so I completely agree and understand. i just didn't think it would be that bad because I've had a surgery before and i see these mommas doing their thing after their babies are born... i couldn't dress myself, bathe myself without help.. thank God for my mum. but it is good prep because once I do have children, i will have to have a c-section, so it was very much a learning experience and mum will be moving in! lol
Wah, if you see this, please let us know when exactly the surgery will happen. On that day, I'll be sending you positive vibes and energy for the surgery to be successful. Much love. ❤️
I had my MRI today. I have to get the surgery as well. My AMH is low too but at least I have a plan. Blessings on our collective journeys. Being a Black woman is hard and now fertility issues on top of everything.
Good luck and blessings!
Thank you for sharing, all the best Wah!
Love your mindfulness attitude!! So encouraging
😔❤ I'm sorry girl! Don't give up!
Thank you for sharing your journey with us, Wahima!
I'm so happy for you and I hope all goes well. I do have a fibroid. It was discovered when I was pregnant 7 years ago. Fast forward to now I'm 39 and pregnant with my second child. So now my fibroid has calcified but it is 2cm and does not interfere with my pregnancy. My mother did suffer from fibroids. She had 3 big ones that were painful and big. It made her look pregnant. She did have my youngest sister with them. They became unbearable and in her 40's and she got a hysterectomy. Which put her in early menopause and she developed osteoporosis. I often wonder if they really needed to go the hysterectomy route. Once again good luck and I'll be watching. 😊
🙄 Doctors are quick -especially when it comes to women of color- to suggest a hysterectomy
Hey Wah, I just had that surgery in August. My down time was about 2 weeks and got pregnant in September. However they just removed one fibroid and my pregnancy is going well. Plus I'm 36 years old. I don't think your down time should be a year. Good luck. Feel free to reach out!
❤️ My love, thoughts and prayers are with you! Going to watch and like every video you pump out on both channels!
Look into CNY fertility you will have to travel but it’s very low cost.
Your makeup is so pretty in these videos :) I really appreciate you sharing this part of your life with us and I’m glad that you’re back to making videos consistently 💕
Sis I am so privileged to come across your channel You’re not alone I am going through the same Situation I have Multiple fibroid I am 37 years old no child yet. The Lord is our strength l am wishing you good luck in any step you take In your journey the Lord will surely see your through Children are blessing and you will have yours all the best my love 😍
Hello sis,use Dr Omo herbal medicine to unblock your tubes very active with no side effects he also help me shrink my fibroids fibroids, my baby is just 3months old.,,
Sending you so many healing and hopeful vibes! My mother had a similar fertility journey before finally adopting me when she was 40 years old. No matter how it happens, I hope you have a child and get to experience motherhood. All the best to you and I will keep watching every video you put out!!!
Yes I have to kids and have the arm implant to control the bleeding!! So proud of you!! Go after your dreams!!
Best wishes to you ✌
Hi Wah! Thanks for sharing your journey. I had 3 fibroids that grew to the size of grapefruits. They all out grew the blood supply in my uterus and started to die/degenerate inside of me. I’ve never felt pain like that before and thought It was my appendix bursting. I wish you all the best and much success in your journey to motherhood! ❤️
My bleeding was horrible!!! I suffered for years and it just keep getting worse and worse. Till I just couldn't take it anymore and had no chose but to have a hysterectomy, which was devastating to me because all I ever wanted was to be a wife and a mother ....and didn't get either 😖 ....but I hope ur fate is better than mine and u are blessed with a little baby🤗
Hello sis,use Dr Omo herbal medicine to unblock your tubes very active with no side effects he also help me shrink my fibroids fibroids, my baby is just 3months old.,,
U go girl. Thank u for sharing ur story. I am 35 with fibroid plus im overweight. I csn not afford all that invtro so I have been using that app just a baby
I appreciate your honesty and transparency. I’ve often felt alone, confused, and frustrated with my gynecological issues. I started following your 90day content and am now following this channel to hear about your fertility journey. You go, Wah!
Hello sis,use Dr Omo herbal medicine to unblock your tubes very active with no side effects he also help me shrink my fibroids, my baby is just 3months old..
I totally understand i had to have 12 removed last January. Three were the size of a softball and they got smaller. My doctor suggested we remove them all so I agreed. The recovery went very well. Im soo excited for your journey.
I’m 25 and was told i have fibroids. My doctors didn’t make it seem like a big deal and they didn’t really explain everything fully. This video made me get a second opinion and learn more. Thank you for the content!
Girl I feel you. IVF (and the drugs needed) is super expensive and most insurance companies don’t cover it so I understand you hustling. Though my struggle is unexplained fertility issues. Oh that test to see if your tubes are blocked....not comfortable at all!
I love you wah and i hope all goes well and you become a mother soon
Hcg hurtsssss, and it took 7 diff speculms to finally see the uterus 😐
Sending love and hugs
My daughter just informed me that the medication I bought for her from Dr Aluda on RUclips worked that her multiple fibroids has be shrunk and I am so happy for her and I am thankful to Dr Aluda for his help!!
Thank goodness for Dr Barret. I like huh🙌
Wah can you share with us more about the WHY. Like why is it so important for you to be a mom, to be a biological mom, etc? We love you Wah!
In another video :-) This video is about my Fibroids
Just throwing it out there. But if you have a 401k you can borrow from that and pay yourself back instead of taking out a loan. Be your own bank. Of course if this doesn't apply/work for you then disregard. If you decide to sell your stocks again pay yourself back its the same thing and you can still save towards your retirement. I hope this helps.
I have a case currently where my period would not stop and i am some hormone pills, but hoping it stops, i also have fibroids
Hello sis,use Dr Omo herbal medicine to unblock your tubes very active with no side effects he also help me shrink my fibroids fibroids, my baby is just 3months old. ,,,
His channel ruclips.net/channel/UCZJJR-LpB1SVD09hQkt1-GA
I only have 1 fibroid that I know of, they found it in my first pregnancy. It’s about 3cm and at the top of my uterus so it didn’t affect any of my pregnancies thankfully. I had my 3rd child in October and I asked them to remove it because I was having a scheduled c-section and I’m convinced that’s why I have heavy, painful periods now. (I used to not!) But they said they can’t do it during a c-section because I would loose too much blood. Very frustrating as I was already being cut open. I just hope I don’t get more or it doesn’t worsen because I’m hoping to never need surgery on my uterus again. Good luck with your surgery. Regardless of your parenthood journey you deserve some relief!
Hello sis,use Dr Omo herbal medicine to unblock your tubes very active with no side effects he also help me shrink my fibroids, my baby is just 3months old..
A possibility could be to start banking your eggs after the myomectomy and not wait for one year to start. After one year you could then use your frozen eggs for IVF.
Can you get a personal loan for the treatment? It's not ideal, but people borrow $50,000 for college, cars, or cosmetic surgery, so $16,000 for IVF seems reasonable and an important investment for your future.
I wish you well on your journey. I hope to see you one day soon with a little one!!!
💙💙💙💙💙
Hey girl, I'm here from 90 day fiance! Have you looked into doing this in Mexico? Might be cheaper. Also, would you be open to receiving someone's egg (if needed)?
💕
Maybe a GFM? I’m sure your followers will donate
You are my womb sister. Everything you mentioned as far as procedures, I was familiar with. I did that Fallopian tube procedure too and it was painful, I cried like a baby but you will get there and I don’t know what your faith is, but everything will fall into place. You will not need IVF (the money can go towards purchasing the home for your family 🙂)...you will embark on this journey with a man who is going to support you.
♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🏿
Out of curiosity, would you be open to adoption if you are unable to conceive? Good luck on your journey to motherhood
I was wondering the same thing but I’m almost CERTAIN that she’s going to exhaust her natural options as long as she can!!
Whether she can adopt as a single person varies from state to state also country to country. There are some places where a single parent adoption isn't even an option.
Keeping you in my prayers. Maybe the IVF clinic has a payment plan or you can take out a personal loan? Or get some free sperm, you have options. Stay in good spirits
Hi Wah, sorry if its too personal to ask but have you considered adoption instead of this journey?
Yes, I have considered all options. ☺️
I'm so sorry....all of this is so emotionally taxing. F*ck fibroids. Really. I watched your previous video as well. I've read some articles that link Vitamin D deficiency to fibroids which may be why so many black women suffer with this. I really hate that the Mirena didn't work for you. I have 3 fibroids and it took 2 years for my periods to stop altogether. I think that your original doctor was trash. Everything that I read has said that it takes 6 months, so the fact that he told you 3 months is bull.
I know that you have already met with your doctor, but have you researched Uterine Fibroid Embolization? It's an outpatient procedure that pumps small particles into the arteries that connect your fibroids to your uterus. It cuts the blood supply to the fibroids and starves it and causes it to "die". I'm not a doctor and I don't know if this procedure would be appropriate for you, but it's something to look into.
Best of luck to you.