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Wow. I think visualizing every object around me as if it's talking to me ~might~ just drive me crazy... but I can't un-watch the video... So I might as well just get rid of everything. I think this video just engraved minimalism into my soul. 20 minutes later: rocking back and forth in a corner, hearing the voices of every single speck of dust.
That’s exactly how I feel. That’s why I don’t like buying things anymore. Because it’s adding even more tasks in my life. I already have to maintain what already own. That’s stressful enough
I say the exact thing to my husband. He has a hard time letting go of things. I told him it is a huge mental task for me to keep all of this maintained single handedly.
Everytime I put on my wintergloves I think about how much I hate the tag inside one of them and how I need to remove it. But I always put my gloves on outside and by the time I get back home, they are either already back in my pockets or I have forgotten. Listening to this video made me get up and cut those tags off immediately! Such a little thing that has been bothering me every day for the several winters I have used them, I don't know why I didn't just do it sooner.
I know exactly what you mean! I now try to say to myself "just do it" and it's so satisfying to just do it, rather than listening to that voice inside your head constantly saying "I must do so and so" :-)
From a GTD perspective when you think you have something to do, like cut the tag, you should write it in a inbox List (digital app, paper, bujo,etc) and then revise this list At the end of the day and do the action when is the right time (now, tomorrow, scheduled it, reminder, whatever you want). So you take action intead of thinking the same thing over and over
I love that term! It’s the perfect description. When the house sass is deafening I crawl into a shell. That just raises the sassy house anxiety level. Time to hush the sass! Thank you for the new lingo for my inner voice. 😘
This also reminds me of some dreams/visions I had when I was a child. My father has allowed his beautiful house to decay, and both my parents are hoarders (not full-blown dysfunctional hoarders). When I was a child I could feel the spirit of the house asking me to care for it and take care of it-until finally I imagined myself yelling back “stop haunting me, you’re not my house, I can’t take care of you I’m only a teenager!!” In a way our things do have spirits and that spirit is born out of the relationship we have with that thing
I have a darling messy friend whose house full of stuff jabbers at me so hard that every time I visit her I come home and feel compelled to clean my own house.
Interesting concept! Now I want to read that book... and as I know myself, it will sit an awful amount of time on my tray table, sending me silent messages like "READ ME!" 😂
@@aleale1883 Hope you found the free download or you can listen to it read on RUclips. Enjoy it and I was happy to help you. Kind greetings from a Swiss minimalist.
Yes!! I research every single thing of interest to me for hours on end...like a change in haircut might result in 2,000 pins on Pinterest and hours of RUclips videos. Then after the haircut, I think “why on earth, did I invest all that time!?” It really is such a burden to have insatiable curiosity/goals. Too much info out there, too little restraint/ability to prioritize what is truly important. :(
I resonated with your comment so much. I saved so much time over the last 18 months by choosing 1 hairstyle and 1 hairdresser, it felt soooo good not to spend hours each month deciding what to do with my hair...and the insatiable curiosity goals...Gosh! I constantly have to remind myself that what I know is enough (and I haven't even used a 10th of it yet)
wow this video just opened up my eye and this comment takes a double hit. I didn't realize I've been researching so much for 1 little thing. To find the cheapest but great item for example, I'm actually paying more out of my time and mental space.
@@supercrazydesi me too. Overkill with info because I wanted to optimize my choices and make the right decisions. It is actually backwards as a time consuming lifestyle :o
I dont have social medias i quit facebook instagram and everything else i had and now i only have whatsapp for work im happy and peaceful i work a lot and do go out often but thats because i am introvert.I have group of friends i meet sometimes i like them.I love my life.The only thing i am willing to happen soon is to find boyfriend and eventually husband.Once i started living simple i became peaceful.
This rings true for me. I have several areas of the house that need tidying, and I think of it whenever I look at them. Due to disability I can’t just tidy them but I have to wait for my next time of energy.
I have felt this when I have been pregnant or just had a baby. That’s one reason I now have a desire to be a minimalist. It’s so hard to not be able to physically move and take care of everything. I started my journey about 5 years ago and even though I still feel like I have too much I am so grateful for the progress. I can’t imagine where I would be if I still had all the stuff I gave away over the last 5 years.
Great point of view and very true... these is where all my stress are coming from, from the things I’ve accumulated over time that just occupies space.
When one cleans ect when one is suppose to fx work on a more time consuming/difficult project, it is your brain that is trying to take a short cut to satifacion/gratification. Heard a neuro sicentist talk about this.
What a lovely video. Thank you for sharing the silent to do concept. I think that’s why I feel so far behind even if everything gets checked off my list. 💙
It's so lit. My stuff sez, "Please keep us, we love it here". I said, "K, guys, I love you too." Please don't get on RUclips & tell the world, I'm keeping you".🤗
Hi, thanks to putting into words what kept me on edge for past few days! I just returned home/parents house for the holidays aaand... the stuff all around drive me crazy. Several bags of old clothes/sheets/hats/scarfs waited for me at my room to sort through them... and every time I went to my room this silent task just worsened my mood. Thanks to you I realized why do I feel so uncomfortable in my parents house. This place is always packed with tons of things, knick knacks, and stuff waiting for me for this reason or that. And it's super frustrating. But now I know why do I feel this way and thank you for that!
3:05 I feel you. Yesterday I got rid of two bags of little pieces of fabric "in case of I need this" and I kept them for two years and I never used them so time to let it go. Great video and perspective.
This makes so much since. This will give me the focus to become a minimalist being with my busy 2 jobs the list of tangle and silent is becoming overwhelming
So true! I have a lot of piles of things that are silent to do lists - mostly projects I want to start or finish. I leave them out because if I put them away it will be harder to start or finish them. But they are always “yelling” at me! So when I finished this video I added them to my real to do list. It might not be a total solution, but at least now they’re on the list so I can consider when/if I actually have time to do them. Btw I also started taking labels off a lot of things/putting things in plain containers so I don’t have to so many things advertising to me/yelling at me all the time :)
This makes sense to me and thank you so much for this information! I have been having trouble focusing and getting into my creative motivation because my silence to do list like my clothes, environments is unorganized. I have to get the silent to do list first!
I forgot all about this concept. Thanks for the reminder! I feel like the messages only get bad if there are too many and I get to the point of ignoring my things instead of caring for them. I have a low capacity for paying attention to things though, so I think it may be time to declutter again.
I just got into minimalism, and it really is a life changer. I became less lazy because I became more aware of my surroundings. I learned I work efficiently when my surroundings are tidy and my things organized. It has helped me take good care of the things I own. Often times, I tend to forget to take care of my things. I used to be the person who doesn't care about things at all. I would just use them, and when they're old and dirty or broken, I'd throw them away. Now, after I use something, I clean it and put it back to a safe place. That way it'll last longer. My family members are even shocked when they saw how organized and clean my room was. They just couldn't believe it.
This video is a nice reminder. I've been meaning to get around to posting items to sell on eBay but there's the excuse that it's too cloudy to take the photos... But tomorrow I'm actually going to recycle two very old laptops I've been meaning to get rid of for years...... I'll also be doing returns and donating boxes that have been sitting around for months... and if I have time and it's sunny I will try to post at least 5 items 😊
Thank you this was very helpful. I can get really overwhelmed in a cluttered space and now I know why. Minimalism has been wonderful for me in this area and many others.
Hi Vi ... This is a good topic. I feel the same. It's like wherever i see something. It's like a voice automatically whisper that i have to get action on it. It's make me feel uncomfortable. So ... "the silent to-do list" is bothering me a lot more than my actually to do list. So ... thanks Vi for bring that up and reminder us to more sensitive and finish our "silent to-do list".
I am new to your channel. I am in the process of decluttering my flat, and I have been working to rid myself of the overwhelming problem of 'stuff', and trying my damnedest to go zero waste. I went to my sister's for Christmas Day, and whereas before, I always had in my mind that her house was minimalist (she stays very tidy, she has a beautiful home), but her home actually made me anxious because there is so much! The second thing was ALL THE CHRISTMAS PAPER after opening gifts!!! I only used what paper (old magazines, atlases, amazon packaging, etc) I had in my home to wrap presents (thrifted, crafted, regifted), and only used sticky tape on ONE present that was too heavy to stay in the wrapping tied with twine/wool etc. I really need rid of the 'silent noise' in my home, it's almost life or death, I just need to be careful that I don't overdo it, and just keep decluttering because it can become AN ADDICTION!! 😁 😁 😁 😁
What a great video! I live in Sweden and I am feeling the urge to move from a town to a house on the countryside surrounded only by trees and water. I don't understand the popularity of smart watches at all! I got the first apple watch years ago and used it for I th two years and then it broke - at first I thought I had to get a new one but I had begun to feel a lot more calm and I didn't get those stressful messages all the time. So I never got one!
I’ve had a lot of messages from stuff this weekend! This time of year, it’s X10 on top of your physical to-do list! 😖 Time to rid myself of some of those things. Too much noise!
It might seem obvious but It wasn't for me, never saw it being talked like you did! Now I know that many of my things have been playing a big role on making me anxious and I can now work on it. Thank you!
Me pasa desde que abro los ojos a la mañana hasta que los cierro. Me siento completamente abrumada y creo que por eso empecé a ver al minimalismo como una solución, pero todavía me falta avanzar un montón. No conocía el término. Voy a tener que regalarme el libro para Navidad!
Thank Victoria. What a great explanation of this phenomenon. This is causing me a lot of problems right now as I try to get rid of all the things I do not need & keep up with life at the same time. Cheers & best wishes from Lorraine
That was really intriguing!I am going to read this book!Could you make a video about books that made an impact to your life and transformed your way of thinking?Thank you.Efi.
i never notice anything. Also "chores" as they used to be called take me seconds because i've been working class all my life so practise makes perfect, i don't even notice i've done the dishes
OMG So true! I feel so overwhelmed! I am slowly getting rid of stuff and I have so much clutter it's ridiculous. I also have chronic pain and fatigue conditions. It makes it more difficult to get through my things. It's frustrating, but it is what it is. Acceptance isn't always easy.
awarenessvillage I have chronic fatigue and anxiety too and it is so hard to declutter, slow and steady will win the race tho, just keep going. I’ve just started a new channel about exactly that. Minimalism and decluttering when you have chronic ill health. I don’t know how to link it (steep learning curve, this is my music chaneel) it’s called Simple. Happy. Healthier. x
@@amygoddardmusic Amy, that's wonderful! I will definitely look it up! I'm a yoga teacher and writer. I plan on starting a RUclips channel of my own. My business is at The Pain Guru dot com, all one word. I teach meditation for chronic pain, journaling, and gentle movement. When I get things decluttered I won't have the constant reminders on what I have to do, nor will I have the feelings of overwhelm, shame, nor anxiety. (I deal with anxiety and depression.) Since we are both going through very similar things, it might be nice to keep in touch. Julie Hodges 🙂 P.S. I like your music channel! I've played the ukulele for a year and love it. Heggy Sue is adorable!
Yes...yes...yes!!!! Absolutely true! I had not even realised that! Great video, useful concepts. I see that you read Garcia Marquez ! My favourite! Thank you!
Hi Victoria this is the first vid of yours that i watched and i love it! I think this is a huge source of stress for me. Realizimg this may make it easier to let go of some of my possessions. Thank you for making this for us!
I bought a ton of yarn from a company with a generous return policy. I returned one box and *almost* put this group in the box, but then ended up forgetting and the return window lapsed. So I was stuck with $80 worth of yarn, and every time I looked at it I was reminded of my stupid mistake, how much money I wasted, and felt angry. I finally realized I needed to part with the yarn, and now that’s it’s sitting in a thrift store somewhere I am not constantly reminded.
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Wow. I think visualizing every object around me as if it's talking to me ~might~ just drive me crazy... but I can't un-watch the video... So I might as well just get rid of everything. I think this video just engraved minimalism into my soul.
20 minutes later: rocking back and forth in a corner, hearing the voices of every single speck of dust.
I like this broad concept
😂 ...hope you found your way out of that corner again ;)
Lol, how you doing now?
Lol
I swear my apartment is the cleanest when I need to finish an academic task 😅
Lol..absolutely..anything not to get on with homework, etc!! 😁 😁
lmao same. Suddenly cleaning is really fun when I have to study
Hahahaha soooooooo trueeee 😆
Me too!!!
Or when I'm about to go out of town!
That’s exactly how I feel. That’s why I don’t like buying things anymore. Because it’s adding even more tasks in my life. I already have to maintain what already own. That’s stressful enough
I say the exact thing to my husband. He has a hard time letting go of things. I told him it is a huge mental task for me to keep all of this maintained single handedly.
Great video. Thank you.
Everytime I put on my wintergloves I think about how much I hate the tag inside one of them and how I need to remove it. But I always put my gloves on outside and by the time I get back home, they are either already back in my pockets or I have forgotten. Listening to this video made me get up and cut those tags off immediately! Such a little thing that has been bothering me every day for the several winters I have used them, I don't know why I didn't just do it sooner.
I know exactly what you mean! I now try to say to myself "just do it" and it's so satisfying to just do it, rather than listening to that voice inside your head constantly saying "I must do so and so" :-)
From a GTD perspective when you think you have something to do, like cut the tag, you should write it in a inbox List (digital app, paper, bujo,etc) and then revise this list At the end of the day and do the action when is the right time (now, tomorrow, scheduled it, reminder, whatever you want). So you take action intead of thinking the same thing over and over
I totally did this with a pair of shoes with a little tag on this inside...three years 😂
I call it house sass. When the things in my house talk back. I pitch them.
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Please donate them to thrift stores so poor people or others can enjoy them or benefit. Thank you.
I love that term! It’s the perfect description. When the house sass is deafening I crawl into a shell. That just raises the sassy house anxiety level. Time to hush the sass! Thank you for the new lingo for my inner voice. 😘
Bahahaha! 😍 Yes!!
Cleaning's my favorite procrastination technique!
Interesting perspective. I never thought of it this way before.
Now I'm looking around and hearing all my objects making demands for my time!
This is very interesting to think about. I agree. These "silent messages" can be incredibly overwhelming.
This also reminds me of some dreams/visions I had when I was a child. My father has allowed his beautiful house to decay, and both my parents are hoarders (not full-blown dysfunctional hoarders). When I was a child I could feel the spirit of the house asking me to care for it and take care of it-until finally I imagined myself yelling back “stop haunting me, you’re not my house, I can’t take care of you I’m only a teenager!!”
In a way our things do have spirits and that spirit is born out of the relationship we have with that thing
I have same kind of experience and often realize things have energies
I have a darling messy friend whose house full of stuff jabbers at me so hard that every time I visit her I come home and feel compelled to clean my own house.
Interesting concept! Now I want to read that book... and as I know myself, it will sit an awful amount of time on my tray table, sending me silent messages like "READ ME!" 😂
It is a great book. You can download it for free and it is
also on RUclips. Enjoy it.
@@111-w9d7y Thank you :)
@@aleale1883 Hope you found the free
download or you can listen to it
read on RUclips. Enjoy it and
I was happy to help you. Kind
greetings from a Swiss minimalist.
It a good book! Good luck :-)
Lol
Yes!! I research every single thing of interest to me for hours on end...like a change in haircut might result in 2,000 pins on Pinterest and hours of RUclips videos. Then after the haircut, I think “why on earth, did I invest all that time!?” It really is such a burden to have insatiable curiosity/goals. Too much info out there, too little restraint/ability to prioritize what is truly important. :(
I resonated with your comment so much. I saved so much time over the last 18 months by choosing 1 hairstyle and 1 hairdresser, it felt soooo good not to spend hours each month deciding what to do with my hair...and the insatiable curiosity goals...Gosh! I constantly have to remind myself that what I know is enough (and I haven't even used a 10th of it yet)
I'm just like you. Over kill myself with information to make the right decision. I struggle because there is too much info on each option.
wow this video just opened up my eye and this comment takes a double hit. I didn't realize I've been researching so much for 1 little thing. To find the cheapest but great item for example, I'm actually paying more out of my time and mental space.
@@supercrazydesi me too. Overkill with info because I wanted to optimize my choices and make the right decisions. It is actually backwards as a time consuming lifestyle :o
Sounds like analysis paralysis... I share this trait!!
Came here from Minimal Mom's video on Silent To Do List... ❤️❤️
I dont have social medias i quit facebook instagram and everything else i had and now i only have whatsapp for work im happy and peaceful i work a lot and do go out often but thats because i am introvert.I have group of friends i meet sometimes i like them.I love my life.The only thing i am willing to happen soon is to find boyfriend and eventually husband.Once i started living simple i became peaceful.
Same! Not missed Fb and Insta even for a day.
Same, no Facebook, no Instagram, no twitter... simple life...
Peaceful is so good and so necessary for me.
This rings true for me. I have several areas of the house that need tidying, and I think of it whenever I look at them. Due to disability I can’t just tidy them but I have to wait for my next time of energy.
Me too Cathy but I’ve learned to tune them out.
I have felt this when I have been pregnant or just had a baby. That’s one reason I now have a desire to be a minimalist. It’s so hard to not be able to physically move and take care of everything. I started my journey about 5 years ago and even though I still feel like I have too much I am so grateful for the progress. I can’t imagine where I would be if I still had all the stuff I gave away over the last 5 years.
Yep, I agree. I feel like at times my pile of unread books is looking at me and saying "Please, read me." :)
Great point of view and very true... these is where all my stress are coming from, from the things I’ve accumulated over time that just occupies space.
This is so eye opening! There are a few little things, I get annoyed of every day, that can get done easily. Thank you!
So true, great video! The silent to-do list definitely takes up a lot of mental space and energy... Thanks, Victoria
When one cleans ect when one is suppose to fx work on a more time consuming/difficult project, it is your brain that is trying to take a short cut to satifacion/gratification. Heard a neuro sicentist talk about this.
Like the part about wasting time on stuff we don't even have yet😮 we just don't realise it huh.
You are so right! I get so stressed with all the same things.
I stopped watching this video and took care of some things on my silent to do list in the kitchen/living room. Thank you! Feeling much better now! 💪🏼
What a lovely video. Thank you for sharing the silent to do concept. I think that’s why I feel so far behind even if everything gets checked off my list. 💙
This was a new concept for me. I’m glad you shared it. Thank you. This really changes my thinking towards material possessions. 👌🏼
Glad it was useful❤️
Yes same
When I'm sitting down to study, I wanna do the cleaning, organizing and all the other to-do I've been putting off or been neglecting
Dawn, from the Minimal Mom, referred her viewers to this video.
It's so lit. My stuff sez, "Please keep us, we love it here". I said, "K, guys, I love you too." Please don't get on RUclips & tell the world, I'm keeping you".🤗
Hi, thanks to putting into words what kept me on edge for past few days! I just returned home/parents house for the holidays aaand... the stuff all around drive me crazy. Several bags of old clothes/sheets/hats/scarfs waited for me at my room to sort through them... and every time I went to my room this silent task just worsened my mood. Thanks to you I realized why do I feel so uncomfortable in my parents house. This place is always packed with tons of things, knick knacks, and stuff waiting for me for this reason or that. And it's super frustrating. But now I know why do I feel this way and thank you for that!
You explained the mental load that comes with owning possessions very well!
Fantastic video explaining this concept! Thank you! The shirts that need tailoring in my closet...
THIS! So eye-opening! And this is why I love minimalism - less stuff = less worries :)
3:05 I feel you.
Yesterday I got rid of two bags of little pieces of fabric "in case of I need this" and I kept them for two years and I never used them so time to let it go.
Great video and perspective.
This makes so much since. This will give me the focus to become a minimalist being with my busy 2 jobs the list of tangle and silent is becoming overwhelming
So true! I have a lot of piles of things that are silent to do lists - mostly projects I want to start or finish. I leave them out because if I put them away it will be harder to start or finish them. But they are always “yelling” at me! So when I finished this video I added them to my real to do list. It might not be a total solution, but at least now they’re on the list so I can consider when/if I actually have time to do them. Btw I also started taking labels off a lot of things/putting things in plain containers so I don’t have to so many things advertising to me/yelling at me all the time :)
This is a common challenge for a melancholic and introvert person. I so can relate to you.
This makes sense to me and thank you so much for this information! I have been having trouble focusing and getting into my creative motivation because my silence to do list like my clothes, environments is unorganized. I have to get the silent to do list first!
This is literally me when buying things. I always go for less / low maintenance items. I find it so stressful having a silent list of things to do.
I forgot all about this concept. Thanks for the reminder! I feel like the messages only get bad if there are too many and I get to the point of ignoring my things instead of caring for them. I have a low capacity for paying attention to things though, so I think it may be time to declutter again.
I just got into minimalism, and it really is a life changer. I became less lazy because I became more aware of my surroundings. I learned I work efficiently when my surroundings are tidy and my things organized. It has helped me take good care of the things I own. Often times, I tend to forget to take care of my things. I used to be the person who doesn't care about things at all. I would just use them, and when they're old and dirty or broken, I'd throw them away. Now, after I use something, I clean it and put it back to a safe place. That way it'll last longer. My family members are even shocked when they saw how organized and clean my room was. They just couldn't believe it.
Now I'm understanding the reason for all my stress
Hiii yes I understand this perfectly I didn't know it had a name. I will look more into it, thank you! Have a nice day 💖
This video is a nice reminder. I've been meaning to get around to posting items to sell on eBay but there's the excuse that it's too cloudy to take the photos... But tomorrow I'm actually going to recycle two very old laptops I've been meaning to get rid of for years...... I'll also be doing returns and donating boxes that have been sitting around for months... and if I have time and it's sunny I will try to post at least 5 items 😊
Thank you this was very helpful. I can get really overwhelmed in a cluttered space and now I know why. Minimalism has been wonderful for me in this area and many others.
That’s why minimalism. Less stuff, less stress. Have what u need and use. ✌️
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Hi Vi ...
This is a good topic. I feel the same. It's like wherever i see something. It's like a voice automatically whisper that i have to get action on it.
It's make me feel uncomfortable. So ... "the silent to-do list" is bothering me a lot more than my actually to do list.
So ... thanks Vi for bring that up and reminder us to more sensitive and finish our "silent to-do list".
I am new to your channel. I am in the process of decluttering my flat, and I have been working to rid myself of the overwhelming problem of 'stuff', and trying my damnedest to go zero waste. I went to my sister's for Christmas Day, and whereas before, I always had in my mind that her house was minimalist (she stays very tidy, she has a beautiful home), but her home actually made me anxious because there is so much!
The second thing was ALL THE CHRISTMAS PAPER after opening gifts!!! I only used what paper (old magazines, atlases, amazon packaging, etc) I had in my home to wrap presents (thrifted, crafted, regifted), and only used sticky tape on ONE present that was too heavy to stay in the wrapping tied with twine/wool etc. I really need rid of the 'silent noise' in my home, it's almost life or death, I just need to be careful that I don't overdo it, and just keep decluttering because it can become AN ADDICTION!! 😁 😁 😁 😁
What a great video! I live in Sweden and I am feeling the urge to move from a town to a house on the countryside surrounded only by trees and water. I don't understand the popularity of smart watches at all! I got the first apple watch years ago and used it for I th two years and then it broke - at first I thought I had to get a new one but I had begun to feel a lot more calm and I didn't get those stressful messages all the time. So I never got one!
This is something I had never considered this but have definitely experienced it
I’ve had a lot of messages from stuff this weekend! This time of year, it’s X10 on top of your physical to-do list!
😖 Time to rid myself of some of those things. Too much noise!
It might seem obvious but It wasn't for me, never saw it being talked like you did! Now I know that many of my things have been playing a big role on making me anxious and I can now work on it. Thank you!
I totally relate to this video. Thanks
This makes so much sense ✨💕 thank youuuu
Me pasa desde que abro los ojos a la mañana hasta que los cierro. Me siento completamente abrumada y creo que por eso empecé a ver al minimalismo como una solución, pero todavía me falta avanzar un montón. No conocía el término. Voy a tener que regalarme el libro para Navidad!
Thank Victoria. What a great explanation of this phenomenon. This is causing me a lot of problems right now as I try to get rid of all the things I do not need & keep up with life at the same time. Cheers & best wishes from Lorraine
Good vlog! Well said. I wish everyone in my family had to watch this. But, I’d hate to contribute to someone else’s list!
Superb nd a new concept ....luv it
Love your video so much.it so lofi and aesthetic daebak
This is just what I needed right now. Thank you for presenting me with your perspective!
I'm here from the minimalist momma. Tfs 🙏💕😘
That was really intriguing!I am going to read this book!Could you make a video about books that made an impact to your life and transformed your way of thinking?Thank you.Efi.
Loved the way you explained this. I’ve thought about this before but could not put it into words, thank you! 💜 Really makes me wanna declutter.
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Thank you❤ My silent to do list makes is almost impossible to be productive at home!!
This is interesting .....I’ve never thought about this silent to do list....I’m going to listen more for it and act on it....thank you
So true. Totally agree. Is adding to my ocd even worse. Thanks for this. 2020 here i come~ 💕
This is my fave among all your videos. I like the message. It hit me. Thanks.
I really need to see this. Thank You.
Thanks for this!
What a great message!
glad you liked it!❤️
I love this concept! ❤️ Thank you
your welcome my friend❤️
Muy interesante el video. Y cuanta razón. Esas cosas pendientes que nos saturan la mente. Gracias por el video y por dar a conocer el libro. Besitos
Interesting concept. I’ve never thought of it that before but it makes so much sense!
Thank you miss, i understand now why im stress cause too much stuff, i even ever think to see psychiatry
Great video. And, best, most comfortable sandals ever -. Clark’s. 😁
i never notice anything. Also "chores" as they used to be called take me seconds because i've been working class all my life so practise makes perfect, i don't even notice i've done the dishes
You're very fortunate
OMG So true! I feel so overwhelmed! I am slowly getting rid of stuff and I have so much clutter it's ridiculous. I also have chronic pain and fatigue conditions. It makes it more difficult to get through my things. It's frustrating, but it is what it is. Acceptance isn't always easy.
awarenessvillage I have chronic fatigue and anxiety too and it is so hard to declutter, slow and steady will win the race tho, just keep going. I’ve just started a new channel about exactly that. Minimalism and decluttering when you have chronic ill health. I don’t know how to link it (steep learning curve, this is my music chaneel) it’s called Simple. Happy. Healthier. x
@@amygoddardmusic Amy, that's wonderful! I will definitely look it up! I'm a yoga teacher and writer. I plan on starting a RUclips channel of my own. My business is at The Pain Guru dot com, all one word. I teach meditation for chronic pain, journaling, and gentle movement.
When I get things decluttered I won't have the constant reminders on what I have to do, nor will I have the feelings of overwhelm, shame, nor anxiety. (I deal with anxiety and depression.)
Since we are both going through very similar things, it might be nice to keep in touch. Julie Hodges 🙂
P.S. I like your music channel! I've played the ukulele for a year and love it. Heggy Sue is adorable!
awarenessvillage thanks so much for being my first subscriber! Yes, do keep in touch. Xx
@@amygoddardmusic You are welcome!
Yes...yes...yes!!!! Absolutely true! I had not even realised that! Great video, useful concepts. I see that you read Garcia Marquez ! My favourite!
Thank you!
this tips are very helping! and also another videos too❤ thanks a lot, dear victoria😊
Hi Victoria this is the first vid of yours that i watched and i love it! I think this is a huge source of stress for me. Realizimg this may make it easier to let go of some of my possessions. Thank you for making this for us!
This pops up in my recommendation as i postponed my clean up sched 😅 a good thing to be reminded 👍
So inspiring! I am reading that book atm and with this video the point comes across wonderfully. Thanks! :)
As usual, very on point!
I bought a ton of yarn from a company with a generous return policy. I returned one box and *almost* put this group in the box, but then ended up forgetting and the return window lapsed. So I was stuck with $80 worth of yarn, and every time I looked at it I was reminded of my stupid mistake, how much money I wasted, and felt angry. I finally realized I needed to part with the yarn, and now that’s it’s sitting in a thrift store somewhere I am not constantly reminded.
So true.
Oh great! My silent to do list is now chewing my ear off!
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Thanks for sharing 🌻
Here from Dawn’s link over at the Minimal Mom
So interesting!!! Love it
Lov e this concept. Well done.
I never though about it this way! 👍🏽 thank you for sharing
Very good explanation 👌
Awesome & so true!
Your English is so good 😊, I am watching your video to improve my English
I like this concept a lot. Maybe I can get rid of some stuff and get some of my silent to do list done.
Loved the book ✨
Definitely got me thinking !
This is really interesting! I realized a lot from this! Now I wanna read the book
Wow! It’s so true I’ve never think this before. Thanks for sharing. You’re amazing 😘
one of the best videos i have ever seen! so so brillant, thanks a lot for sharing and creating such wonderful content ❤️
Loved this video! 💙