He wasn’t so smart that he left parts of the IV drip he administered lying around on the staircase and a fresh needle mark on her arm. Plus when the officer arrived he said they had a shower together but he was still in his hospital scrubs, major red flag. 🚩
DON'T agree to this 'one last talk' with the partner you're about to divorce, if you are a woman (and if there have been violence and abuse in the relationship before, I probably should add...) That's very likely to be the last day of your life - sad but true, according to statistics.
yeah, there's no point in 'confronting' someone who is violating your trust and breaching your relationship contract - accept the relationship is over and plan your escape in secret. when someone who has been treating you poorly all of a sudden treats you well they're probably luring you into something bad.
@@Daniel_Capital there are no official stats other than these shows that have a similar pattern of violence occurring at break up. it's not a good idea to threaten someone who's bigger and stronger than you - even if they're not a 'criminal' they could still lose their temper and do something stupid. (women need to escape without drama and go no contact except through lawyers)
@@Daniel_Capital Sorry, I just remember having read an interview (in quite a reliable and serious German newspaper) with a scientist from a forensic institute in Germany (where I live), and he claimed that connection to be a well-known and frequent phenomenon in his field. I suppose, you can find several articles on that topic, also in English ...
@@Daniel_Capital The OP didn't say if a wife asks for divorce... they said when the partner asks for "one last talk". And we see that is true in many many cases.
From him to go from choosing the other woman to then wanting to talk & feels bad…hours later she’s dead! Yeah…he’s GUILTY AF!!!! My mom was given propofol for about 3wks in the hospital! She had fallen at home, laid there for 3days…she laid on the bathroom floor with a shattered femur! We saw her grimace in pain but she didn’t remember a thing 🙏🏻 she remembered being on the floor but not being able to get up and to her phone & then everything after the hospital visit…month & a half in the hospital…month & a half in rehab! She became a left BTK amputee…I sold my house, moved in with her…took care of her for 8yrs…she’s now at peace, painfree & walking whole again…we lost her this past March 😔 I’m lost but getting by ❤️💔 He also said they had sex, took a shower & he put his scrubs back on?!? She taped an encounter with him…you walk out that door, it’s over & he so coldly said…ok & got up n left!! When will women understand the guy you love/loved & loved you can turn on you in a second! He already left, chose the new flame over you, doesn’t want to get lawyers involved(to expensive) & he then has a change of heart, wants to “talk”…then she ends up dead, same day of the talk! 🤔 She even asked her friend to pray for her, they were going to talk! It’s always greed & lust!!
If your spouse cheats then it’s over. 99% of the time it doesn’t work out. I stayed with a cheater for 6 years after his affair thinking I could fix it. So many people waste time or end up like Maria. Please think of yourself and your kids and not settle for a cheater. This man didn’t want her and for several years had another women and Maria knew it and still held on. Divorce!!
Yes I'm literally going through it now he got caught cheating . I literally just told him it's not going to work once you cheat I'm gone . If I forgive it it will give him a pass to do it again . She can have you ✌️
@@Imthatgirl90Yikes.. don’t announce it. Get an attorney, make a plan, wait ’til he’s out of the house; pack up and GO! Good luck and God’s blessings to you.
Greedy fools always use the same stupid plan; get rid of the spouse and keep the money,the kids,the girl friend and the house .But the twist is they got caught and they lose every thing.
Not much of a twist, because they get caught and lose it all nearly every time. You'd think in knowing this these perps would do it differently, like avoid taking a life, and just walk away. 😢
It only feels that way. A LOT of people don't get caught. You don't hear of them as often because THEY didn't get caught. How many people have done in multiple wives before they get caught because they just didn't quit soon enough.
@@zedsodeadthat’s true and was also my first thought on this comment. But that the spouse is the first one law enforcement have their eyes on is also true. Because, like you also know, statistically the spouse in fact did it. Edit: it’s crazy that it’s said many murders even don’t get recognized as such. So nobody’s looking for the murderer
How people steal away the opportunity of a child to have their parent in their life is beyond me. You can hate your partner, but if you love your children, you just don't do that. 😢
I would never wish a child to having no mother for the rest of the lives. There is a lot of difference between not having a father vs not having a mother. I loved my father more than my mom, but can never compare my father's love with my mother's. She is kind of special, the relationship with a mother is so different on so many levels. I am 54 and my mother is 75, and she still treats me as if I am her little boy. Depriving children of their parent, is so wrong. Those children will now have to live and suffer because of this maggot's decision. I didn't like one bit about children's custody being granted to the perpetrator's family.
He sounds like a narcissist. I am going through a divorce from my narcissistic husband of 7 years. Listening to how he spoke to Maria reminds me of how my husband would talk and yell at me. My husband also cheated on me numerous times. The emotional abuse is so awful. Maria is a beautiful woman and didn't deserve the terrible treatment of her husband. She gave him two wonderful boys, forgiveness and love, all of which he tossed in the garbage. Emotional abuse is devastating because you can't see the deep wounds. I am on permanent disability due to my husband's abuse. God bless and be with Maria and her two boys till they meet again.
I'm just happy that in this Era, secrets are no longer being uphold. Doesn't matter if he was a great employee,coworker,friend etc. They reached out to authorities. I applaud all of them, I grew up in a time when things/ evils were swept under rug.( Even in my fam,abuse of baby that lead2) No More SILENCE.
I’m surprised there is as no mention of *where* propofol came from. Didn’t anyone investigate shortages of that medication at hospital where he worked? Or thefts from other sources like area ambulatory surgical centers? Enough anesthesia for two surgeries doesn’t just fall off the radar easily…
He's a nurse anesthetist. Therefore, he has access to all these surgical drugs. These aren't street drugs. He had to have been stealing these drugs from the hospital he worked at. There are many red flags. This beautiful woman deserved way better than this guy. May she rest in peace.
How do you have an affair - let the guy move in - when he has a wife with two small children? In fact, his wife had just given birth to their second child. Incredibly self-serving B. I am not sure what either woman saw in this awful man.
My bil left his wife right she gave birth in the hospital. Dissapeared fo 3 months. Finally found at house they bought together and when he saw her, he came straight to her and told her to leave and taker trash. right as his kids were unbuckling their seaatbelts to hug him. at that the time he also had a 2 year old that wasnt eating the whole was gones. She tought he dead and was worried, so the kids still got out of the vehicle to hug him crying. He rejected them and kept telling her and the other woman also started screaming at her to get off “their” property. he even was helping his other woman bring her stuff in the house.🤬🤬 She got so mad that she slapped the other woman, because she overheard the other woman say take her trash (she was alking about my sil kids she had with. him) and leave my property, I am the owner now and his wife. He even went ahead and crashed his truck unto her car.🤬🤬🤬🤬 and kept screaming a her tomleave before the cops got there. My sil wasnt. afraid so she stayed for the copss to take her, so she thought. she explained the whole thing and the leet her go
Such a narcissistic, arrogant, selfish monster. You want you wife out of the way & you’ve openly cheated on & disrespected her for 2 yrs. Don’t even get me started on his gf. He didn’t stop to think what his actions would do to his beautiful, young kids who now are essentially orphans.
The girlfriend shouldn't be allowed to work in hospitals or close to any patient. She did not mind her boyfriend misusing drugs. Her professional ethics is questionable.
In as much as Janet wasn't an angel in this story, I'm actually delighted that she testified against him. So often, you'd find the other woman sticking with these awful men in this situation or refuse to come forward. The type of men such as Joel, are narcissistic and VERY manipulative. From the outside it's difficult to see why she never left. But I think he finally realised that she would no longer participate in his circus and he wanted it to end on HIS terms. Narcissists have the most sensitive ego and why they cover it up as constantly displaying mental abuse and extreme manipulation. RIP Maria. You never felt love from your husband, but you were and are LOVED by your family, friends and legal team❤
Nothing good comes of affairs and this was the worst case scenario. It ends up hurting so many more people, i.e.: children, relatives, friends than the principal players involved. That poor woman Maria. Greedy creep of a husband should have just gotten a divorce.
I can relate to Maria’s struggles and suffering. Survivor of severe abuse, 17 years of mariage. A monster, who pushed me to trying to end my own life , bc I couldn’t bare anymore, as I had become very I’ll bc of the abuse. 10 years divorced this year. Still suffering from the traumas and consequences. Beautiful Maria, rip .
What these shows don’t mention is that society allows this behavior. ,does little to protect and save the wife and children things need to change. The courts also let the men have child custody partial or otherwise
So happy you are making your way back and held onto life. Your value is not just to you but to those that love you as well. You were caught up in someone's sick mind. You are free now to recover. Sending you hugs! ❤
I dont think it works like that. It would clear her receptors, but it would also block them from any other opiates. So he would have had to give her the narcan first & then wait about 8-12 hrs for it to clear itself from her system before any opiates would even take effect.
So i just got to the part with the tox results. What is narcan doing in there? Counterintuitive, no? Is it possible that maybe she actually did like to get high, but when he saw she was overdosing he gave her narcan?
?!?! Your comment argues with itself?! And everyone is raised by someone! But doesn’t mean they raised them to be killers or rapists! Some people just have their wires crossed parents have nothing to do with that!!
@hubes96 You're correct, I know a guy who's the best guy, but he had the worst parents. I also know a terrible guy, his parents were saints. It's crazy. I know a lot of different people that are all in between. But yeah, parents realy don't have that much to do with who the person is or is going to be. They're gonna be who they're gonna be regardless, I believe.
@@wesleyalan9179I always wonder how siblings turn out so differently when raised by the same parents, one turns to drugs or crime and the others are normal adults. Something in the brain?
The immunity deal seemed unnecessary, but that’s often the case. Regardless, I’ll bet Joel was shocked that the woman who shamelessly gave it up to a married father would serve him up in court. And that the jury wasted a whole hour before finding him guilty with that preposterous defense. It’s just sad when the only person doing the right thing ends up losing her life over a little bit of money.
Some of us haven’t heard of this story. I go to bed every night with stories like these and this is my first time hearing this one. If you have already heard it, scroll on. You’re not the only person in the world.
Or don’t get involved with a roid head But sure. Blame what we will 😂 Not everyone who wants a stay at home wife is a drug user and abuser and Cheater…. That’s on user error then. Don’t blame traditionalism with an extreme example of poor behavior. An exception doesn’t make the rule
What? It’s a privilege to focus on raising your kids and your family without working… now this guy was a complete nut job and did this for power but a lot of men wish they could provide for their spouse and kids. It’s a luxury these days and a status symbol to not have to work.
@@lauracurtin631 No. Men who want women to not work do it cuz they want to control them. Can't leave him if you got no money to leave him. They know that. BTW, OP typed 'doesn't want you to work'. It's implying a one-sided ideology.
What the hell is wrong with the first respinder at the beginning? He is smiling from ear to ear like he is relaying a joyous event, as opposed to seeing a deceased woman?
poetic justice that it was a team of women that put him behind bars for life! his mom telling maria to come to her house when she decided her limit kinda puts HER over her son. he came across as arrogant with little regard for women in general imo.
Absolutely stunning lady, she had such a unique natural beauty to her, inside and out. It’s a shame she passed so young and by someone who absolutely did not deserve her. RIP.
In very few cases have the investigators and prosecution impressed me as much as this one. They did their job very well and it seems like they genuinely care
It was patently clear he did not give sh** about her or salvaging a relationship. Never try to keep a marriage together, especially when the partner shown his true self
One of the prosecutors said the video in the car was "very painful to watch". Well, when she gave her husband an ultimatum (which never works by the way), I saw that as her taking her power back and trying to get some control. So, to me it was positive because its seems she was saying she was no longer willing to be his doormat.
Maria didn’t love Joel too much she just didn’t love herself enough. We need to teach our daughters to love themselves first, I’m thankful my grandmother taught me that so if red flags showed up I’m out so I always had very loving relationships.
I know it’s prob not important to the story but that cop smiling all the way through actually irritated me so much , I know it’s probably nerves just found him hard to watch
Great story follow up. The ending with Maria possibly sending signals, gave me chills too! I believe God allows us to send messages to our loved ones, when they need it, so why not. They said she was seeking help from the church, so she must have been a true believer
That bothered me too, but I think it was meant like 'She loved him too much for her own good!' I know it's hard for some people to understand, but in a toxic relationship, it's difficult for the abused to realize that they would be better off on their own then they would be staying with that person. You love them so much & think that you really don't want to lose them. You love the person you fell in love with, not necessarily the person they've become. But there's always that thought that, no matter how bad the relationship has gotten, they will go back to being the person you fell in love with if you can treat them better or be less confrontational & let things slide. Then before you know it, you've let so much slide & their treatment of you just gets worse & worse, but you're still holding on to the relationship becuz you believe the person you love is still in there somewhere! The more you let things slide in a relationship like this the more it's going to keep escalating until you decide it's not worth living this way anymore & you leave or the other person decides they are better off without you...but no one else can have you either! It's terrifying, but it happens all the time.
I really appreciate the professionalism and I respect the wonderful and superb job that police officer DE LA CRUZ did from when he was called to the scene, for his immediate well trained observations from the moment he had arrived to help revive her, and for doing an excellent and fantastic job throughout the whole investigation from the beginning to the end. Thank you, Sir. We need more police officers like you. God bless you and your family. Be safe and well.
Maria's friends did nothing to save her. I also find it strange that they smile all the time during the interview. What's so funny? I also don't understand how it's possible to steal drugs in a hospital and has never been caught?
Very easily, when they use a vial of drugs that let's say holds 5ml, and the dr orders 3ml. The leftover 2ml are thrown away. They are supposed to have a witness, that sees that it's disposed of correctly. But I work at a hospital and I know that nurses sometimes are so busy that they ask some other nurse to sign off that they witness the disposal. Even though they didn't, they do this fir each other. In fact one nurse got caught giving people nursing care with drugs/opiates at people's home with stolen drugs from work. Someone tricked on her and they made a sting and caught her.
This is why surgical patients are intubated. It’s not possible to breathe voluntarily while under anesthesia , but anesthesia drugs are necessary in order to invasively cut into the body and perform surgical procedures. Surgery before this revolution was almost always fatal. So much so, the doctors used to accept payment upfront. Yay 1800s😮
This girl was too beautiful to be so sad..you can just see it by looking at her, that her beauty wasn’t just outside, but inside too. It’s not fair that he made the decision to take his kids mother away…We don’t always understand why things happen but that’s why The Lord tells us, not to lean on our own understanding..Not only is not fair, but it’s not right that these kids have to grow up without their mother..But even though she count be saved to stay in this world, God saved her & took her with him. Where she deserves to be, more alive than any of us here on earth. For that, God will make sure her children are ok & she will too, will watch over them & always be in their hearts. I pray that God gives her family & loved ones know, that she is with him..and also, that he is with them. Allowing them to feel his arms wrapped around them. Giving them his peace, that surpasses all understanding..filling their hearts with his everlasting love & his strength to get thru each moment & may he carry them thru the darkest of times. May his blessings, his comfort & protection be upon them always. In The Powerful Name Of Jesus Christ Our Lord & Savior, I pray. 🙏🏻 Amen ✞🕊🤍✨
His wife is ten times more beautiful than his side chick, really willing to keep her family and so selfish not to think about his kids
You got that right , his wife was stunning❤
The wives are always prettier than the side piece. Not so smart husbands.
He wasn’t so smart that he left parts of the IV drip he administered lying around on the staircase and a fresh needle mark on her arm. Plus when the officer arrived he said they had a shower together but he was still in his hospital scrubs, major red flag. 🚩
Cheating is usually about a lot more than looks.
Cheating is never ok, but let's be real, sometimes it's about more than looks. Beauty does NOT guarantee you won't get cheated on, ladies and gents!
DON'T agree to this 'one last talk' with the partner you're about to divorce, if you are a woman (and if there have been violence and abuse in the relationship before, I probably should add...) That's very likely to be the last day of your life - sad but true, according to statistics.
Yes, agree. If you reallly want to or need to talk and arrange things, you can meet at a therapist's or lawyer's office. Never on your own alone.
yeah, there's no point in 'confronting' someone who is violating your trust and breaching your relationship contract - accept the relationship is over and plan your escape in secret. when someone who has been treating you poorly all of a sudden treats you well they're probably luring you into something bad.
@@Daniel_Capital there are no official stats other than these shows that have a similar pattern of violence occurring at break up. it's not a good idea to threaten someone who's bigger and stronger than you - even if they're not a 'criminal' they could still lose their temper and do something stupid. (women need to escape without drama and go no contact except through lawyers)
@@Daniel_Capital
Sorry, I just remember having read an interview (in quite a reliable and serious German newspaper) with a scientist from a forensic institute in Germany (where I live), and he claimed that connection to be a well-known and frequent phenomenon in his field. I suppose, you can find several articles on that topic, also in English ...
@@Daniel_Capital The OP didn't say if a wife asks for divorce... they said when the partner asks for "one last talk". And we see that is true in many many cases.
That man's eyes show it all : darkness and deceit. Maria's eyes showed her luminous soul. Darkness can't stand light. RIP.
I don't know about that, but the presence of Propofol in her system certainly shows it all.
Absolutely true!
So,true
He gives off super bad vibes.
From him to go from choosing the other woman to then wanting to talk & feels bad…hours later she’s dead! Yeah…he’s GUILTY AF!!!!
My mom was given propofol for about 3wks in the hospital! She had fallen at home, laid there for 3days…she laid on the bathroom floor with a shattered femur! We saw her grimace in pain but she didn’t remember a thing 🙏🏻 she remembered being on the floor but not being able to get up and to her phone & then everything after the hospital visit…month & a half in the hospital…month & a half in rehab! She became a left BTK amputee…I sold my house, moved in with her…took care of her for 8yrs…she’s now at peace, painfree & walking whole again…we lost her this past March 😔 I’m lost but getting by ❤️💔
He also said they had sex, took a shower & he put his scrubs back on?!? She taped an encounter with him…you walk out that door, it’s over & he so coldly said…ok & got up n left!!
When will women understand the guy you love/loved & loved you can turn on you in a second! He already left, chose the new flame over you, doesn’t want to get lawyers involved(to expensive) & he then has a change of heart, wants to “talk”…then she ends up dead, same day of the talk! 🤔 She even asked her friend to pray for her, they were going to talk! It’s always greed & lust!!
If your spouse cheats then it’s over. 99% of the time it doesn’t work out. I stayed with a cheater for 6 years after his affair thinking I could fix it. So many people waste time or end up like Maria. Please think of yourself and your kids and not settle for a cheater. This man didn’t want her and for several years had another women and Maria knew it and still held on. Divorce!!
Yes, I speak from experience, get out of the relationship.
I couldn't agree more!
Yes I'm literally going through it now he got caught cheating . I literally just told him it's not going to work once you cheat I'm gone . If I forgive it it will give him a pass to do it again . She can have you ✌️
@@Imthatgirl90Yikes.. don’t announce it. Get an attorney, make a plan, wait ’til he’s out of the house; pack up and GO! Good luck and God’s blessings to you.
Her cheating husband never deserved her.😢😢😢
Thete are ALWAYS red sorry. I guarantee you things were going on she refused to face. Ignore them and you'll always be sorry and end up like her.
Janet was totally involved and its absolutely disgusting she got immunity to give evidence because detectives wanted more on 1 person 😮
It is. But sometimes you have to pick your poison/ lesser evil. Cuz the thought of them losing whole Case because not enough evidencia.
@@orlandoromero22spot on!💯
she wasnt in the house how was she involved?
I think they could have up charged her. I’m going to check to see if she’s still licensed in the state of Texas. God I hope not, no one is safe if so
They say Karma a hell of a thing lol
16:49 He was married so he was not your boyfriend.... you were his mistress
Damn skippy!
Agree, where is her self-worth?!
I love that. So simply said ❤
Greedy fools always use the same stupid plan; get rid of the spouse and keep the money,the kids,the girl friend and the house .But the twist is they got caught and they lose every thing.
Not much of a twist, because they get caught and lose it all nearly every time. You'd think in knowing this these perps would do it differently, like avoid taking a life, and just walk away. 😢
@@kellykapowski1969
Well said.
You think by now they would know theyll get Caught . Malignant narcissists. Arent so smart . Just annoying .
It only feels that way. A LOT of people don't get caught. You don't hear of them as often because THEY didn't get caught. How many people have done in multiple wives before they get caught because they just didn't quit soon enough.
@@zedsodeadthat’s true and was also my first thought on this comment. But that the spouse is the first one law enforcement have their eyes on is also true. Because, like you also know, statistically the spouse in fact did it. Edit: it’s crazy that it’s said many murders even don’t get recognized as such. So nobody’s looking for the murderer
Reading her journal entries was absolutely heartbreaking. It’s horrible what her husband did
The mistress was quick to give him up when she learned she might go to prison. Poetic justice at its best.
He had a very poor understanding of people. The ladies turned on him. The medical board and coworkers turned on him for his dirty work.
How people steal away the opportunity of a child to have their parent in their life is beyond me. You can hate your partner, but if you love your children, you just don't do that. 😢
I would never wish a child to having no mother for the rest of the lives. There is a lot of difference between not having a father vs not having a mother. I loved my father more than my mom, but can never compare my father's love with my mother's. She is kind of special, the relationship with a mother is so different on so many levels. I am 54 and my mother is 75, and she still treats me as if I am her little boy.
Depriving children of their parent, is so wrong. Those children will now have to live and suffer because of this maggot's decision. I didn't like one bit about children's custody being granted to the perpetrator's family.
That Latina Legal Team was beast!!! They're some top notch women..
He sounds like a narcissist. I am going through a divorce from my narcissistic husband of 7 years. Listening to how he spoke to Maria reminds me of how my husband would talk and yell at me. My husband also cheated on me numerous times. The emotional abuse is so awful. Maria is a beautiful woman and didn't deserve the terrible treatment of her husband. She gave him two wonderful boys, forgiveness and love, all of which he tossed in the garbage. Emotional abuse is devastating because you can't see the deep wounds. I am on permanent disability due to my husband's abuse. God bless and be with Maria and her two boys till they meet again.
I am so sorry. Hang in there friend!
I'm just happy that in this Era, secrets are no longer being uphold. Doesn't matter if he was a great employee,coworker,friend etc. They reached out to authorities. I applaud all of them, I grew up in a time when things/ evils were swept under rug.( Even in my fam,abuse of baby that lead2) No More SILENCE.
His mistress didn’t care about any body but herself
When a women choose to be mistress rather then dignified role ,she doesn't care about "herself " but her " whims"
I watched 15 seconds.
Husband guilty.
Yep, same👍
I knew right away.
Absolutely
Of course.
I win !! I came to that realisation 5 seconds in. Thanks to your comment ruining the video for everyone else.
1st part of the show usually tells what its about… i doubt if she did it to herself they’d be a whole show….nice detective work there sherlock
These killer husband's don't fool anyone anymore you know he's the monster
I’m surprised there is as no mention of *where* propofol came from. Didn’t anyone investigate shortages of that medication at hospital where he worked? Or thefts from other sources like area ambulatory surgical centers? Enough anesthesia for two surgeries doesn’t just fall off the radar easily…
I had the same question
He's a nurse anesthetist. Therefore, he has access to all these surgical drugs. These aren't street drugs. He had to have been stealing these drugs from the hospital he worked at. There are many red flags. This beautiful woman deserved way better than this guy. May she rest in peace.
Thank you for the no commercial episode 😊
How do you have an affair - let the guy move in - when he has a wife with two small children? In fact, his wife had just given birth to their second child. Incredibly self-serving B. I am not sure what either woman saw in this awful man.
My bil left his wife right she gave birth in the hospital. Dissapeared fo 3 months. Finally found at house they bought together and when he saw her, he came straight to her and told her to leave and taker trash. right as his kids were unbuckling their seaatbelts to hug him. at that the time he also had a 2 year old that wasnt eating the whole was gones. She tought he dead and was worried, so the kids still got out of the vehicle to hug him crying. He rejected them and kept telling her and the other woman also started screaming at her to get off “their” property. he even was helping his other woman bring her stuff in the house.🤬🤬 She got so mad that she slapped the other woman, because she overheard the other woman say take her trash (she was alking about my sil kids she had with. him) and leave my property, I am the owner now and his wife. He even went ahead and crashed his truck unto her car.🤬🤬🤬🤬 and kept screaming a her tomleave before the cops got there. My sil wasnt. afraid so she stayed for the copss to take her, so she thought. she explained the whole thing and the leet her go
Her alter ego.
Such a sweet and precious woman. He is a monster.
I will never understand why people gamble with their freedom for lust and greed !?
Evil
It’s simple. Lust and greed drive them, more so than freedom… until their freedoms taken away, of course.
@@ramel79 6ft X 8ft, 3 hots and a cot is all they get.
Narcissistic
Because they are that narcissistic they believe that they will get away with it 🤦🏻♀️
Such a narcissistic, arrogant, selfish monster. You want you wife out of the way & you’ve openly cheated on & disrespected her for 2 yrs. Don’t even get me started on his gf.
He didn’t stop to think what his actions would do to his beautiful, young kids who now are essentially orphans.
If he went totake a shower why would he have on scrubs?
Maybe he got ready for his shift
What ist the meaning of scrubs ? in german, please
It can mean: Bush, peeling, Lappen. For a Shift? A scrub?
Does he go to work with a peelingmask on his face? Help
medical sterile clothing. Green.
The girlfriend shouldn't be allowed to work in hospitals or close to any patient. She did not mind her boyfriend misusing drugs. Her professional ethics is questionable.
Such a beautiful woman with a great soul. So sad how he treated her.
In as much as Janet wasn't an angel in this story, I'm actually delighted that she testified against him. So often, you'd find the other woman sticking with these awful men in this situation or refuse to come forward. The type of men such as Joel, are narcissistic and VERY manipulative. From the outside it's difficult to see why she never left. But I think he finally realised that she would no longer participate in his circus and he wanted it to end on HIS terms. Narcissists have the most sensitive ego and why they cover it up as constantly displaying mental abuse and extreme manipulation. RIP Maria. You never felt love from your husband, but you were and are LOVED by your family, friends and legal team❤
I love Maria’s legal team ❤ thank you!!
Nothing good comes of affairs and this was the worst case scenario. It ends up hurting so many more people, i.e.: children, relatives, friends than the principal players involved. That poor woman Maria. Greedy creep of a husband should have just gotten a divorce.
She looked so oppressed. Not depressed. Poor lady.
The mistress gets $10,000 European trips, and the wife gets a $500 Vegas trip?? No mam.
Don't forget the Valentino bags too or whatever it was. *Maria* was so much *prettier* than Janet.
Not to mention the wife gets a death sentence. ☠️
I was thinking the same thing, and those bags were probably knock offs.
The husband is in the medical field and having an affair = Guilty AF
Regardless of how she loved him, he decided , planned and indeed killed her
All of Maria's friends are beautiful. Edit - some of them are her lawyers lol
Yes Lawd Like damnnn
THEY ARENT ALL THAT..REMOVE THE POUND OF MAKEUP AND FAKE LASHES..BINGO ALL 5 ON THE SCALE OF 10
@@leelunk8235 Well I think they are prettier than 5's.
@leelunk8235 yes Lawd
So tragic. His wife was stunning.
❤ Absolutely ❤
So, it's not as bad if you don't find the woman sexually appealing?
@@aquachonkagreed... 😢
Better looking than his side thang
@@aquachonkthey said nothing about sexual appeal.
If he's trying to bring her back to life, why didn't he explain that to the officers in the first place, he's guilty as sin.
What a loss she was so beautiful plus the poor kids are now orphans.
Her list of fears read like a list of things an abusive spouse would say. Coincidence?
I can relate to Maria’s struggles and suffering. Survivor of severe abuse, 17 years of mariage. A monster, who pushed me to trying to end my own life , bc I couldn’t bare anymore, as I had become very I’ll bc of the abuse. 10 years divorced this year. Still suffering from the traumas and consequences. Beautiful Maria, rip .
What these shows don’t mention is that society allows this behavior. ,does little to protect and save the wife and children things need to change. The courts also let the men have child custody partial or otherwise
Sending you hugs! Hope you know your life has meaning and is a gift to those around you as well. Hope you flourish as your confidence is restored! ❤❤
So happy you are making your way back and held onto life. Your value is not just to you but to those that love you as well. You were caught up in someone's sick mind. You are free now to recover. Sending you hugs! ❤
You are free!!!
Joel gave Maria the Narcan, not to save her life but to clear her receptors to fully absorb his lethal cocktail.
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I dont think it works like that. It would clear her receptors, but it would also block them from any other opiates. So he would have had to give her the narcan first & then wait about 8-12 hrs for it to clear itself from her system before any opiates would even take effect.
So i just got to the part with the tox results. What is narcan doing in there? Counterintuitive, no? Is it possible that maybe she actually did like to get high, but when he saw she was overdosing he gave her narcan?
Or to make it look like he was trying to save her. Narcan doesn't help with the drug that killed her
He wanted it to LOOK like he was saving her
This horrible, horrible man hoped that the Emergency Responders would just believe his word that she took pills. - Thank God he was so stupid!
Devil leaves you as soon as you commit evil.
I hate that the kids are with his parents. I don’t know why they may be amazing people and it’s not always the parent’s fault but they raised him.
?!?! Your comment argues with itself?!
And everyone is raised by someone! But doesn’t mean they raised them to be killers or rapists! Some people just have their wires crossed parents have nothing to do with that!!
@hubes96
You're correct, I know a guy who's the best guy, but he had the worst parents. I also know a terrible guy, his parents were saints. It's crazy.
I know a lot of different people that are all in between. But yeah, parents realy don't have that much to do with who the person is or is going to be. They're gonna be who they're gonna be regardless, I believe.
@@wesleyalan9179I always wonder how siblings turn out so differently when raised by the same parents, one turns to drugs or crime and the others are normal adults. Something in the brain?
The Apple never falls far from the tree. I hate to know that they’re being raised by HIS side of the family, as well.
@@bjbrown
You bring up a GREAT point. Yes, it's something in the brain, id agree with that.
a nurse who can't even wear his mask right ... come on ...
Good for his boss stepping up
The immunity deal seemed unnecessary, but that’s often the case. Regardless, I’ll bet Joel was shocked that the woman who shamelessly gave it up to a married father would serve him up in court. And that the jury wasted a whole hour before finding him guilty with that preposterous defense. It’s just sad when the only person doing the right thing ends up losing her life over a little bit of money.
All of that stuff in her system was a way way overkill
Some of us haven’t heard of this story. I go to bed every night with stories like these and this is my first time hearing this one. If you have already heard it, scroll on. You’re not the only person in the world.
Wdym?
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This is my first time seeing this episode.
RIP to a soul taken too soon.
once a spouse doesnt want you to work....run. I will never live off another money and give up my freedom.
Or don’t get involved with a roid head
But sure. Blame what we will 😂
Not everyone who wants a stay at home wife is a drug user and abuser and Cheater…. That’s on user error then.
Don’t blame traditionalism with an extreme example of poor behavior. An exception doesn’t make the rule
What? It’s a privilege to focus on raising your kids and your family without working… now this guy was a complete nut job and did this for power but a lot of men wish they could provide for their spouse and kids. It’s a luxury these days and a status symbol to not have to work.
I had MORE freedom to be who I wanted to be while I stayed at home. A loving husband supports his wife and cherishes her. I hope you find that.
@@lauracurtin631 No. Men who want women to not work do it cuz they want to control them.
Can't leave him if you got no money to leave him. They know that.
BTW, OP typed 'doesn't want you to work'. It's implying a one-sided ideology.
With a father like that, it’s even more important that the healthier parents spend as much time with these children as possible!
What the hell is wrong with the first respinder at the beginning? He is smiling from ear to ear like he is relaying a joyous event, as opposed to seeing a deceased woman?
As a medic. Why would you pass on CPR to the cop? And he immediately gets his excuse in, SMH
NOT UNCOMMON TO GET TIRED AND PASS THE CPR TO SOMEONE NEXT TO HIM
It's physically exhausting
@@leelunk8235yeah but when it’s the person you LOVE, you’d keep going
@@stargazngyou could look at it that way, but I would also imagine it’s harder to do CPR on someone you love because of the heartache
@@stargazng IM JUST SAYING MANY PEOPLE CANT. HES A DRUG ADDICT. HIS CARDIO IS SHOT
I hate how this is so much about the suspense over whether or not he’ll be held accountable. I hurt for his wife.
poetic justice that it was a team of women that put him behind bars for life! his mom telling maria to come to her house when she decided her limit kinda puts HER over her son. he came across as arrogant with little regard for women in general imo.
we are put on earth to help people, not hurt them.
Thanks for posting, I like watching these old or not! ❤❤❤
Exactly!
Me too! I love watching these episodes! ❤
Me too as long as I haven't seen it already
Me too! 🙋🏾♀️
Absolutely stunning lady, she had such a unique natural beauty to her, inside and out. It’s a shame she passed so young and by someone who absolutely did not deserve her. RIP.
Lovely lady with exquisite eyes. ❤
In very few cases have the investigators and prosecution impressed me as much as this one. They did their job very well and it seems like they genuinely care
She was a beautiful woman. That helps too..
I totally agree
Maria descanza en paz, no hay más dolor.
It was patently clear he did not give sh** about her or salvaging a relationship. Never try to keep a marriage together, especially when the partner shown his true self
If the unbelieving spouse wants to leave, let them go! See 1 Corinthians 7
One of the prosecutors said the video in the car was "very painful to watch". Well, when she gave her husband an ultimatum (which never works by the way), I saw that as her taking her power back and trying to get some control. So, to me it was positive because its seems she was saying she was no longer willing to be his doormat.
Maria didn’t love Joel too much she just didn’t love herself enough. We need to teach our daughters to love themselves first, I’m thankful my grandmother taught me that so if red flags showed up I’m out so I always had very loving relationships.
Omg he gave her a cocktail for preop 😮
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I know it’s prob not important to the story but that cop smiling all the way through actually irritated me so much , I know it’s probably nerves just found him hard to watch
Officer de la Cruz is a funny guy, smiling the whole time
came for this comment. Wtf is that.
Funny or strange? What does he find so funny?
😂😂creepy
He finds nothing funny
Smiling or laughing doesn't always mean you find something funny.
You are a bit dense..
I can’t help but smile when any kind of attention is on me. It’s like a nervous thing. I hate it because people always take it the wrong way.
He's utterly gross and she was beautiful. What on earth did she see in him?
AHHH! When I first saw his face, that was exactly my thought 🤗🤗
His career.
Some women like to pick the bird with a broken wing.🤷🏼♀️
His money
Probably his money and by the way,is it better to be gorgeous or gorgeous and wise?
Beauty alone doesn't mean much🤷🏽♂️
He thought he was untouchable
Because it discusses suicide.
NO MORE BIG MONEY OR GF..😂
The 48hrs music always freaks me out 😱
Me too !😱
I wish they would get rid of it. I listen using ear buds while working in my garden and that music is very annoying.
I love that how a Police officer laugh's threw his lies 😅😅😅
How did the officer lie?
Through
How come she was not taken to hospital immediately? She was declared dead at home 3 hours after that 911 call was made. Shame on all of them.
She was already doa.
@@LoVe-kl4zl doesn’t add up. Why would she be declared dead after 3 hrs if she was already dead?
Alaniz is a top notch DA! Watched a recent trial and WOW! He is brilliant.
He did not deserve that beautiful woman both inside and out. Now the children have no mother.
Haven’t we heard that before on 911s “ It’s my wife,she’s not breathing “
So heartless and cruel,no wonder he stayed with the other woman. They're just alike!
“Where would he get that propofal?” Erin, he worked in a hospital 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
God bless Maria and her family especially her boys.❤❤❤❤
Wow that attempt to cry was really badly done😂😂
I haven’t seen a lot of these yet, and I am really appreciating the post-mortem component, just to weigh in.
Post mortem = rerun 😂
The needle hole told alot
Great story follow up. The ending with Maria possibly sending signals, gave me chills too! I believe God allows us to send messages to our loved ones, when they need it, so why not.
They said she was seeking help from the church, so she must have been a true believer
No such thing as "she loved him too much". how dare that atty say that about Maria. People love period. No one can judge anybody how 1 loves.
That bothered me too, but I think it was meant like 'She loved him too much for her own good!' I know it's hard for some people to understand, but in a toxic relationship, it's difficult for the abused to realize that they would be better off on their own then they would be staying with that person. You love them so much & think that you really don't want to lose them. You love the person you fell in love with, not necessarily the person they've become. But there's always that thought that, no matter how bad the relationship has gotten, they will go back to being the person you fell in love with if you can treat them better or be less confrontational & let things slide. Then before you know it, you've let so much slide & their treatment of you just gets worse & worse, but you're still holding on to the relationship becuz you believe the person you love is still in there somewhere! The more you let things slide in a relationship like this the more it's going to keep escalating until you decide it's not worth living this way anymore & you leave or the other person decides they are better off without you...but no one else can have you either! It's terrifying, but it happens all the time.
I really appreciate the professionalism and I respect the wonderful and superb job that police officer DE LA CRUZ did from when he was called to the scene, for his immediate well trained observations from the moment he had arrived to help revive her, and for doing an excellent and fantastic job throughout the whole investigation from the beginning to the end. Thank you, Sir.
We need more police officers like you.
God bless you and your family.
Be safe and well.
Maria's friends did nothing to save her. I also find it strange that they smile all the time during the interview. What's so funny?
I also don't understand how it's possible to steal drugs in a hospital and has never been caught?
Those are her lawyers. Also drugs are often left over from short surgical cases.
Very easily, when they use a vial of drugs that let's say holds 5ml, and the dr orders 3ml. The leftover 2ml are thrown away. They are supposed to have a witness, that sees that it's disposed of correctly. But I work at a hospital and I know that nurses sometimes are so busy that they ask some other nurse to sign off that they witness the disposal. Even though they didn't, they do this fir each other. In fact one nurse got caught giving people nursing care with drugs/opiates at people's home with stolen drugs from work. Someone tricked on her and they made a sting and caught her.
This is why surgical patients are intubated. It’s not possible to breathe voluntarily while under anesthesia , but anesthesia drugs are necessary in order to invasively cut into the body and perform surgical procedures. Surgery before this revolution was almost always fatal. So much so, the doctors used to accept payment upfront. Yay 1800s😮
Janet had to have known, she had to!!!! Social media, close knit workplace situations. She knew and is an accomplice
I dunno the mixture of 8 deadly highly controlled medications and just to point out non of those have a regular use case scenarios.....
Joel is soft. He’s going to have a tough time in prison.
I love this show
Moriarty's voice just grates on me.
So tragic what a beautiful woman
Very sad poor kids
Maria may you rest in the arm’s of Jesus Amen.
She is so beautiful 💔
Huge red flag when he said he took a shower yet he still had his scrubs on
How could he divert so many controlled medications without his employer being suspicious? They let Maria down as well.
I always get Propofol here in The Netherlands when I need surgery.
Pretty standard, as long as administered under the care of an anesthesiologist or nurse anesthetist.
It’s good stuff in my experience. When they wake you up you don’t have a nasty hangover.
Well done to all those who brought justice to Maria! Out of sight but NOT out of mind and forever in our hearts 💝 rest in peace angel xx
This girl was too beautiful to be so sad..you can just see it by looking at her, that her beauty wasn’t just outside, but inside too. It’s not fair that he made the decision to take his kids mother away…We don’t always understand why things happen but that’s why The Lord tells us, not to lean on our own understanding..Not only is not fair, but it’s not right that these kids have to grow up without their mother..But even though she count be saved to stay in this world, God saved her & took her with him. Where she deserves to be, more alive than any of us here on earth. For that, God will make sure her children are ok & she will too, will watch over them & always be in their hearts.
I pray that God gives her family & loved ones know, that she is with him..and also, that he is with them. Allowing them to feel his arms wrapped around them. Giving them his peace, that surpasses all understanding..filling their hearts with his everlasting love & his strength to get thru each moment & may he carry them thru the darkest of times. May his blessings, his comfort & protection be upon them always. In The Powerful Name Of Jesus Christ Our Lord & Savior, I pray. 🙏🏻 Amen ✞🕊🤍✨
She seemed so beautiful inside and out! Sorry this happened to Maria