I Got Surprising News From The Doctor… (Health Update)
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- This video was a hard one for me to make. If it encourages one person to go to the doctor, then it was worth it.
Also, I want to note that it can be hard to find a doctor that a good fit for you. Just because one doesn't work out, doesn't mean you should never go again. You are worthy of good medical care, and I want to acknowledge it might take some work to find the best fit for you. To find my doctor I did a ton of research using zocdoc and other medical review sites to find a doctor who had a track record of listening to and working with patients. That worked out really well for me.
This is a perfect example how social media can be toxic!
I know receiving a diagnosis is scary and you definitely have to process the information. Now that you know your enemy (or are on the way to knowing), you will know exactly where to focus your fight. That can be empowering! I personally found that being able to look back at my life and say “Oh, that makes sense now” to be unburdening. I hope you will too. Much love Anna! ❤
You are not a mess, you are getting the help you need. Listen to what your heart and mind are telling you and not anyone else. You are the best judge of your body and how you feel.
Why would you say it's none of our business when we did not ask.
"Now that I feel better, I didnt' know how sick I was" very profound and I found this out for myself several years ago when I did the same thing you just did. Bravo to you! for taking care of yourself and not the needs of everyone else. You're a champ!
A lot of people have this hindsight perspective. Especially when it comes to undiagnosed, chronic illness like depression or the side effects of underlying issues.
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Proud of you for not listening to random strangers and going through all the work to find the right Dr. For you. ♥️
Well said hun
I'm so glad you found the courage to go to a doctor. Having a doctor that advocates for YOU regardless of weight is so important. I also think just the shear cost of treatment/doctor visits keeps people away.
I had fibroids that caused me to almost bleed to death. Literally. I was diagnosed with severe anemia & had to have a hysterectomy & get several blood transfusions. The anemia caused my getting Hashimoto's & being exhausted. I am so happy you finally went. Sending you positive vibes Anna!
Damn that’s terrible. Sorry to hear that.
I experienced everything you did minus the blood transfusions. However, I did get a DVT and had 5 days in hospital on IV blood thinner. And 3 more months on Coumadin.
@@karendewillers5190 I feel for anyone going through all of that. Scary times for sure!
I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. My friend at the age of 19 had to get a hysterectomy because of severe endometriosis, she was in total agony. She was planning her wedding and hoping to hold out. They got married two years later because of other complications.
Same. Since my hysto my quality of life is💯% sooo much better. Doctors and dentists are scary but they’re here to help-most of them. ALWAYS GET A SECOND OPINION!!
Anna, you are not alone. I have been doctoring for the past 3 years. Tired, no energy, dizziness, loss of balance, joint pain, excessive weight 377 lbs. Finally have a dx of a relatively new condition that has no cure. I look to have a simpler life, and am determined to be content. I appreciate life more now than ever. I hope you aspire for the same.
As someone with autoimmune disorders, they are exhausting, but can be managed. You will have good and bad days. You have to listen to your body and rest. When your body tells you to rest, you need to listen to it. I had the hardest time myself learning to do that.
I agree completely,, both my kids have suffered with CFS/ME. So we know fatigue! But rest is your friend! That’s how you heal.
Knowing is the first step. You can’t find solutions to what you don’t know.
absolutely! Hashimoto's over here. Tiresome AF
I have RA, fibromyalgia, early onset osteoarthritis, and degenerative disc disease. I'm only 47 and was diagnosed years ago. Some days are harder than others, but you still have to live your life. It is so easy to let the negative of an autoimmune disorder consume you, I try to stay as positive as I can, and make the most out of the good days, so they outweigh the bad.
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There is a doc in CA that can treat the fibromyalgia.. let me know if you’re interested in his info
@@Ginmabes Same!
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Thank you so much for putting this out there! I did the same thing and I too found out I had legitimate reasons for feeling the way I did. Dont beat yourself up for too long. We all need you. Now begins the healing process! There's light at the end of your tunnel, I am truly excited for you!! Take care love... 💖
Bless you hun
The honesty of your videos has kept me coming back time after time. This video hit hard! Why is it ok to share an opinion about someone you don’t know just cause they’re on social media? What we see on our screen is such a small snippet of what your life entails. As someone who deals with a chronic “hidden” illness and is plus size I deeply resonated with that anger and frustration you expressed in this video. Listening to my body was the best change I’ve ever made. I will never be a size 2, but my goals are far more reasonable…being able to walk comfortably for longer periods of time and walking upstairs without getting so out of breath. I wish you the continued courage to listen to your body and do what you need to do for your well-being regardless of anyone else’s opinion. 💕
You share your opinion about anyone - thats what people do. And those who are on social media double so. Why are you even surprised. 😊
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This was terribly vague and has left me feeling 2 words =
confusion
Frustration
Girl you had me in tears. Honestly I finally did the same thing you did and went to a PCP in July found out some serious scary blood work results too. I cried for days so embarrassed and ashamed of myself for letting my weight and symptoms get out of control. Hang in there Anna, it will get better i promise. Take care of yourself and I will be sending prayers your way from your san antonio neighbor :)
Hey I love where you live…That’s my city too!
As a plus size older woman I understand the tiredness and the self blaming of failure of not getting skinny. I am now having mobility issues that will effect my last few years in my body.
I’m really proud of you for getting to the Dr! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
We love you Anna, get better soon! And it's better late than never ❤️ sending flowers your way girlie 💐💐💐
I wish you all the best. Getting a late diagnosis is always infurating, tbh. You did what you could with the tools you had. Sending love to you.
You are a beautiful and kind person I love you for who you are that is what makes you you ❤
The whole point of this video was to say that she wants to change but she listened to youtube comments which have NO clue wtf is going on with her health. She wants to change because she feels like shit. Im not overweight but i do have other shitty health problems and i am working on those so i can actually feel and function better for myself
Thank you for sharing your story and experience. It's a very important message you are sending - not everything is about your weight. Shame on everyone saying your weight is the cause of your illness. Glad you went to the doctor and found out what really is your issue. Get well soon ❤️
Thank you so much for making this video. My heart goes out to you. I know this was so hard for you and you ARE saving lives with your courage and vulnerability. ❤️
So, you're not going to say the diagnosis? It might be helpful. I would guess Type II Diabetis. Many have it and don't realize it. Forgive me if I missed it.
She said in the video she isn’t diabetic
@@babushkacat95 That's good. I missed that. Thank you.
I figure it's a thyroid issue.
I have Hashimotos autoimmune thyroid disease. And I’m around the same size as you.
Whatever autoimmune problems you have, I feel for ya ❤❤❤
This is an important message, thank you for using your platform to encourage women to visit their doctors. We all get there in our own time, but seeing someone else share their experience is a great motivator. Love your content! Thanks for sharing!
I think it's a complex issue you really can't blame yourself for.
As an example, I was finally diagnosed with celiac disease about 5 years ago. I told myself for a long time I was just eating too much junk food, or it was just stress.
Finally telling doctors about my angry poops felt embarrassing. I already had anxiety issues that were made worse with weeks of tests and seeing specialists. Then of course living in the US, I ended up spending thousands of dollars, even with decent insurance. Should I have gone earlier? Yeah for sure. But I finally did, and now I can take better care of myself.
At the end of the day we're all just doing the best we can.
Every time you talk about this in your videos, it sounds SO MUCH like the inside of my head, and I've had some bad experiences with doctors who had terrible bedside manners that just made things worse. I am glad you found a good doctor and are getting answers.
If you are diagnosed with a form of vasculitis, please reach out to me. I've had it for like ever. If it's autoimmune, you go to a rheumatologist. Don't panic, ok? You'll get through this, sweetie.
I'm glad you finally went to the MD. I appreciate this video because you do have a lot of influence. I have several autoimmune disorders myself. I take lots of medication. But I'm still tired all the time, but it'd be so much worse without the medication.
I am so happy you finally started listening to yourself. It took me years to do the same and I am going through similar things. It's a total mind fuck. Once you get to a good place in the way you feel physically, and it takes time, you'll feel better mentally. We all take advise from others when we don't know what's going on ourselves. Love you. Proud of you and wishing you the most amazing outcome.
There is many reasons for plus size people I have pcos n my daughter who is 12 has just been diagnosed with it the problem is with pcos is there us no cure or medical treatment like thyroid problems. My daughter is also anemic. As I have told my daughter u take life day by day n make ur choices on food exercise etc.
Anna, you are passionate for a reason and this statement is true for so many ways of life: don t live your life on the internet based on opinions of other people you don t know and communites where you are just a member, not a person.
I was feeling quite similar and was diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder two years ago. I started eating an autoimmune protocol diet (AIP). Medication helped to regulate my system but the diet did wonders for my body’s symptoms. I also naturally lost some weight because I reduced the inflammation in my body. Best wishes to you on your health journey.
Yay! I'm glad you're finding answers so you can feel better! Thanks for sharing!
You are courageous and creative. I’m so proud of you for taking this step. Take care of yourself and know that people admire you for who you are.
As someone with “how are you even functioning” anemia & several autoimmune issues I feel every word of your video. You are courageous and honest - now please show yourself forgiveness and grace. Take time to process your diagnoses but also know it’s something you’re likely to always have moments of being pissed off about - especially when you feel them acting up. Sending good vibes your way.
Going to a doctor can be so terrifying, but it's so much better to hear something is getting caught early then hearing it's too late.
Thank for you sharing your story, for creating this video.
Some doctors seriously can be awful 😢😔 make you feel like you're wasting their time. I still struggle and feel judged when going into a doctor's room. So proud that she is advocating for herself!
It is not easy
I just heard the same thing about my anemia. Had my first infusion and while my side effects were typical of me, it was an oddball for about 10 days and now I feel human again. I've got some other autoimmune stuff too and it hurts to hear you verbalize that it's a relief - those words speak volumes and gave my feelings a voice. Process what's going on and we'll be here to love and support you through it
I feel like you are talking in circles and aren't saying a darn thing. If you aren't ready too tell us what you found out then don't say anything at all.
Really?
Are you so annoyed because she didn't satisfy your curiosity?
This is what you have to say, from the whole video?
@@totukimou I'm not annoyed as it would take a lot more than a video to annoy me. I don't let insignificant things bother me. I just don't feel there is a need for passive/aggressive bullshit, which is what this is, from a mature adult. Be straightforward with the issue and if you cant then there is no need to mention it. If she wishes to share her issue great, if not that is also fine, but if she doesn't wish to share then why even bother to bring it up?!!
She gave you some details she doesn’t have to give u 100%. Dont watch her then
You don’t need to push yourself to the point of breaking, you just need to put down the fork, just put it down, just face reality. Stop with the obfuscating, continuous self diagnosing & needlessly over pathologising to avoid the truth.
Thank u Anna for sharing about your dr. visit. I’ll be praying for and PLEASE KEEP UPDATING US ABOUT THIS JOURNEY. I love because I know this took AMAZING COURAGE TO SHARE . You’re beautiful inside and out love u take of yourself. All HATERS F-k off. 🙏🥰❤️🌺
Happy for you. This reminds me of life pre my adhd diagnosis. I thought the way I was behaving was personality or my astrological sign. No, I needed to see a whole psychologist.
It's been my experience that it takes a little time to get over the shock of being told you have a medical condition but truly you get used to it in time and then it just becomes a part of your life.
Rest easy dear girl. You're on the right road.
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Thank you for making this video. I’ll call and make an appointment, I’ve been avoiding it for years now. I love all your content. (And that outfit is the bomb). *hugs*
Congratulations for taking your health in your own hands, and kudos to your doctor. 🎉
I'm so glad you got checked out. Diagnosis is the first step to getting better. For those of you looking for a doctor, my advice is to see a family nurse practitioner. I've had better success being heard and felt less judged and more cared for by an NP than a doctor. Just my experience.
Thank you for making this video. So many people listen too much to what others have to say, and don't seek their own answers from knowledgeable sources. Going to the doctor can be scary. Your message will help people do what is best for them to feel their best. That is a wonderful thing!
Wishing you all the best Anna. I know all this feels overwhelming now, but once you have answers, then you will know how to deal with this. I have chronic health issues myself.
The title went from my own damn fault, to I got surprising news. Yikes. She’s that sensitive over even thinking slightly that she has even a little control over her life in whatever way.
I'm so sorry and sad that you are going through this. Hope you feel better everyday. Do what you feel is right for you not what anyone other than maybe your dr says. Hugs and prayers
First of all you are not a mess ! Send you Hugs ! ❤❤❤❤ thank u for sharing ! Love u.
No, no one should go to a mean doctor. There are great doctors all over. You can go and if you don't like the doctor, find another.
I really feel for you because I've been there! I have Hashimoto's disease and it took a few years to figure out. Gained 50 pounds. I had to take at least 1 nap every day for those years, and I felt like such a lazy POS and thought I just couldn't handle life like others. Nope, I was actually pretty sick! You've done amazingly to have this vibrant and hard-working life even though you've been struggling with health issues. You're awesome.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, sweet lady. I too recently found out I have some serious health issues. It's very scary, my anxiety has taken a huge hit. Most people will tell you to take it one day at a time, honey sometimes I have to take it one minute at a time. You got this though! You're a tough cookie! ❤️ 😉
I had to advocate for my health for many years especially when I was gaining weight and kept trying diet after diet. I finally had a diagnosis after many years of suffering. Healthcare in the states is expensive , what makes it more frustrating is when you’re spending money, taking time off work and continue to get dismissed by the medical community. I went through 4 different doctors before I found 1 who listened.
Why did you change the title? I was feeling good for you that you took accountability but now it seems like it’s back to the “it’s not *really* my fault tho”. I hope your progress gets better and you keep feeling better though
I had this moment recently too. We have a very similar story. Prayers for you. ❤
I’m sorry your going through this. I pray you get better. Bravo for your speech!
I saw a reaction video to this on another channel, and I decided to follow you because I have not seen another video I relate to more. I'm proud of you for coming to these realizations, and I support you 100%. Much love
This took strength to share with the world, but we are glad you did! A lot of people need a boost of confidence or tough love or almost a sense of permission to make scary decisions for themselves…so I’m sure you have helped hundreds of viewers already. Thank you 💞
So stunning, so brave
You have every right to grieve this and also be angry and sad for what you didn't know.. But now you can make your changes and get back on track and be healthier than ever x sending love
Thank you for sharing something so personal so that you may help others. Please know that anyone, regardless of their intentions, that tells someone not to be proactive in their own healthcare ( mental, physical, emotional) is not helping. Good on you for putting yourself first!
Thoughts, prayers, positive vibes and love sent your way!!!❤
I’m glad you went to the doctor and did the tests. I went through a similar thing. I’m scared of doctors as well. Every time I would try to run or push myself too hard physically I would literally feel like I was dying and for years I just believed it was because I was out of shape. When I finally worked up the nerve to do a treadmill test it was revealed that I had a legitimate issue with my heart. Fast forward years later, after treatment I can now do all those things I couldn’t do before. It’s scary hearing something is wrong with you,but it feels so good once you get the treatment your body needs. I bet one year from today you feel a million times better❤ best of luck on your journey. You got this
You got this, girlie! I'm here in your corner. One of your proud supporters. Thank you for your transparency.
@10:39 everyone including Anna, quit investing so much time and heart in social media if you are that easily influenced or impressionable.
Don't you love how it's everyone else's fault but hers?
But that's part of the grift. Views start tanking, make a sob story video to get a$$pats and clicks. She's almost 40, she needs to get with the program 😂 She's not a teenager or someone in their early 20s. I could have given people those ages a pass, but not her. She's middle aged. No excuse for this.
Rooting for you. Proud of you. I needed to hear this. Thanks.
Here from Obese2Beast. Much love to you Anna ❤❤❤❤❤
My dear you are so brave and hard-working. I avoided doctors for over 60 years, for similar reasons. I also had horrible mean voices in my head putting me down. Congratulations for taking the first steps and taking responsibility-which is not about blame it’s about taking back your power from being ignorant. You are a lovely shining light and I’m so happy to see you giving yourself the love and care you so deserve. 😍😍😍
Love you Anna, so proud of you for making the decision to see a doctor. You are a smart funny lady and I look up to you on so many levels. Feel better soon my friend.
Booking an appointment today. Thank you :)
Thank you for being vulnerable with us. And for using your powerful voice to help people get help.
Your message is important. Thank you.
I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis and severe severe anemia in January of 2020. I had several rounds of iron infusions and the last round was like a really intense round of infusions and literally to the day 2 weeks after I got it, I felt like I could run a marathon. I hope you can get something similar! And know how it feels to be in your shoes and get these diagnoses. And I'm so sorry, but you are strong and fierce and you're going to find a way through it. Much love!
Rooting for you, Anna. Thank you for sharing your story, I hope others who have been nervous about going to the doctor, are encouraged by you. I always tell friends and friends of friends and family that if they are afraid, that I will go with them. Sending you all the positive vibes ❤
The world needs more good friends like you 💛
The message here is so vital for all women especially as our concerns tend to be downplayed and minimized by doctors. We deserve to feel good in our lives and bodies and to be listened to, and not scolded by medical personnel. I can relate to so much of what you said. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
You are a very smart and honest person. Thank you for opening up to us. Stay strong!!!
Bless your heart ❤️. I’m so sorry you felt that way about yourself. Now you know you are sick. Don’t let people tell you that crazy self. I’m so glad your doing this so others will know what to do. I really enjoy watching your channel. I would never have known you were sick bc you always have great energy. Everything will be alright. You take care of yourself. ❤😊🌸🌺🦋.
Bless you, Anna! ❤️ I wish the healthcare system was more accepting. I'm glad you are listening to yourself, you deserve happiness.
If you don't want to talk about it don't who cares
Thank you for your honesty, I’m glad you found a doctor your comfortable with, I started being tired all the time at 20, I thought it was me not trying hard enough, it was actually fibromyalgia ( another autoimmune disorder), I wasn’t diagnosed till I was 39 , I’m a size 28, and 45 now. I am sending positive thoughts your way.
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Girl..... the same happened to me! Right down to perfect heart ...no diabetes or cholesterol problems....and the strangers....I'm behind you I love you and I support you!
I’ve watched you the last couple of years! You’re a fighter! You’re real! Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for sharing!!!! I wish you all the best on your journey with whatever this is. Don't dwell on the time you've 'lost' or 'wasted' but focus on what you can do with your time moving forward. You're such a beast and now that you know where to channel that energy, you're going to feel so much better. I'm rooting for you!
I’m glad you found the right doctor to go with! Ah and now you’re making me cry!!! 💜💜💜
Anna I hope you see this comment- Lipedema can cause iron deficiency anemia (I myself need iron transfusions). It's also a connective tissue disorder which can cause a lot of symptoms & have comorbidities. Please look more into Lipedema & EDS
Hope you feel better soon sweetie, love and prayers.
I'm so sorry you are going through this. Give yourself time to process the information you got. You'll get through this. Thanks for sharing. Love your channel.
Bravo! We in the healthcare profession internally eye roll every time someone references what they “learned” on “Dr. Google”. Excellent advice.
Don't worry, sweetheart, you're gonna get better. You're gonna feel better? It's good you found out now. I thought I knew later because you do get Sicker With this stuff, it leads to other things. I'm so happy for you because it's a breakthrough. My God, be with you and give you strength. I feel like I was on video. Say everything you're saying. It's amazing just how many people out there have? The same story. Thank you for sharing my story.😢
I am severely anemic too. You will start to feel better quickly, once treatment is underway and consistent.
I am to. I have Lupus too!!!
Prayers for you. Kuddos for the bravery it took to be vulnerable and encourage others to seek medical attention.
So PROUD of you !!! It will make a difference!!
You are so brave Anna! Keep walking towards your health and don't let any "influencers" keep you from what's best for you. Thank you for reminding us all to take care of ourselves.
Sweetheart , we all do the same things you did in the past . It's okay that's in the past. It's a new day for you ,and probley some of the people watching .Good job ! Stay strong 🖒
I was diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis last fall. I have dealt with it for 20 years before getting diagnosed.
I live in constant pain and my life sucks right now.
I go to bed every night thinking tomorrow will be better. 😢
Thank you❤❤ I'm still struggling here and it's nice to hear someone say this. Hope you start feeling better💗💗
“…because it’s none of your business”. Girl. Why even make this video at all 😂😂😂😂. Get a real job and you won’t have to make any videos at all if it’s such a burden.