My dear brothers, I take God beg you, if she says no, MOVE ON. Talk to God, He has other daughters. As for the ego part, humble yourself before God and before your wife. Be a leader yes, but let her play her role as a help meet. Accept help. I enjoyed this. Thank God for these great women!
I just shazamed the intro song: "JayMikee - By My Side" - What a beautiful song! I always wondered where the soundtrack came from but never really shazamed it. God bless you all ❤
This episode is insightful and powerful 🔥. Never journey with someone when they've not made their intentions known. Kai, that's powerful. Thank you for being passionate and intentional about us. God bless you, Mama Darasimi, Mama Tolu, Mama Ella. I love you❤
Well done with this episodes to add perspective on the topics bring in 3 matured men(brothers) with different experiences as regards to relationship 1. Brother who has never been in a relationship before or had no female friends around while growing up. 2. A brother who has had failed relationship in the past before his marriage. 3. Lastly a brother who got married on first attempt with a sister. That will add perspective to the discuss that's if they'll be willing to share or answer some of the questions why some guy do what they do. It's like guy trying to analyse women or ladies they may get some facts right but not indepth. Thanks for your helpful insight of the do & don't.
Darasimi is so full of wisdom!.. I have learnt a lot from the experiences of others that she shared. Never journey until intention is made known clearly God bless everyone of you in Jesus Name. 🎉
God will also take care of marriages that springs from His hands and there not be divorce. That does not necessarily means that there will not be challenges or problems. But the truth is when they come, they cannot win.
One month is the max I can go, it's cruel to keep someone waiting for too long, you know that you're mature to be proposed to, you ought to have been praying before anyone even come to you...and you should have your preference of the person you're looking forward to, which aligns with God's purpose for your life...praying for three months after i came to ask you out shows you're not serious 😮
thank you for this episode. on the matter of sisters saying no, where does a brother draw the line, because sometimes we hear that a sister says he didnt even persist when i said no, why do sisters have to keep complicating things and saying what they dont really mean, a brother also doesnt want to be seen as a person who doesnt here word or sturborn
Great question! You can go back to God and if she's still the one, ask God to convince her. Still greet her, be kind to her. Don't impose physically. Impose in the place of prayers. Fire her there😂😂. If it's the will of God, She'll come around. If you're persistent, do that with the understanding that God is still involved in it but don't be a stalker.
A godly sister shouldn't say a fake no to stress somebody's son. With that out of the way, you can go back to God in prayer and stay as brethren. If she is not ready, God will guide you to another viable daughter.
A prayerful lady gave me a NO after 3 months of telling me to wait as she sought to seek the Lord. God does not go on a sabbatical! I am not sure she was really praying the whole time. But I have learned my lesson... once she's beginning to take more than 1-2 months to decide, I will decide for her...
One month is the max I can go, it's cruel to keep someone waiting for too long, you know that you're mature to be proposed to, you ought to have been praying before anyone even come to you...and you should have your preference of the person you're looking forward to, which aligns with God's purpose for your life...
Praise Jesus, I greet you in the name of Lord Jesus Christ. Ive been a club member for sometime now and i got a question but its on Ladies side. As a 25yrs lady Christian and Fully engaged in knowing the will of God in friendship and more😅 between a brother and sister, I find it hard to open up to a brother and tell him that IM STILL PROVING MYSELF AS A WOMAN WORTH OF MARRIAGE. How do i deal with that while knowing that He is the One? Your beloved sister 🇹🇿
I think we’re never fully prepared for anyth (by our standards)- but God is our perfector.. take a step with the knowledge you have.. trust God all the way
Brothers should always know that, God created the garden of Eden before creating Adam. 2. God made provision for Adam before before bringing in Eve. 3. Eve was not a problem to Adam as long as she had all she needed in the garden until she broke boundaries by going after pleasure. Genesis 3:1
@@GODWARD-k5n but the society has changed, so rules of engagements are now different. We cannot always refer to Adam and Eve as a good setting in modern time dating.
Someone once gave me a month to give an answer and didn't even say hello or hi until a month after to check in on his answer ..in the most unfriendly way possible. It screamed RED FLAG😂
I agreed with you. He probably was giving you time in order not to becloud your reasoning and the likes. I would not take it for red flag.@@adekunleifeoluwa9215
The fact that he gave one month is already a RED FLAG. Lack of patience is not a fruit of the spirit. This is not to say ladies should delay too, but brothers are not supposed to give you deadline for response. The Lord help us all o
Please TED How can I relate with someone dat love to seeing me be Sad, They don't like seeing me being happy or doing fine, What can I do to dis cand of people. I use to live in darkness and sadness before since long time ago, but Jesus revival me now! I have peace in Him. But to dis cand of people, I don't know what to do. Please help me out
If you and a guy aren't in a relationship and he his giving a green flag but as a lady your intention are pure ,is it proper to collect a gift from him especially on valentine's day as mentioned?
28:24 Did your entire family prayerfully see the issue with your brother? Let’s be careful and sensitive because the brother in question was he living in holiness? Sometimes family members can be very wrong in misjudging their intended spouse based on their bias….
Someone had proposed to me and before I even started praying, the friends were meeting me one by one to congratulate me. 😮😮😮. Of course my answer was a no at the end of the day.
Yes.. exactly We want an edition of this topic with Mr Dami Bamiloye,Mr Joshua Bamiloye and Pastor Oyor please...let's hear from the married men too for an all around knowledge. Thanks dear sisters. More Grace
So what you are saying is you want to hear from married brothers so you can agree with what they are saying? Are yoy people not the one always complaining about how they only focus on the sisters and they should also talk to the brothers? There are different programs held by men, go and watch those ones or yoy want this one by TED and digest it.
Is like pe we will have to invite our brothers (your husbands) to give us some enlightened in part 2 of this 😂😂. Thanks so much mas, more grace and more wisdom in Jesus name
The No is not always a straight way out, one of my fathers in the Lord received a No and for the second time, she still said no but later came to ask him whether he still had her in mind and they got married.
I know a father that had to keep going for about seven times, before the mummy gave him a yes. All those while, it was a no. They are now married for over 25yrs. What do we say in this case.
Wow, thanks to the TED
I'm getting values to build my home. My marriage will thrive, Amen ❤❤
My dear brothers, I take God beg you, if she says no, MOVE ON. Talk to God, He has other daughters. As for the ego part, humble yourself before God and before your wife. Be a leader yes, but let her play her role as a help meet. Accept help. I enjoyed this. Thank God for these great women!
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How should a brother get prepared to receive a 'no' as an answer from a proposal to a sister?😂
This one sank in my head.🤣🤣🤣
But I'm really blessed.
I just shazamed the intro song: "JayMikee - By My Side" - What a beautiful song!
I always wondered where the soundtrack came from but never really shazamed it. God bless you all ❤
Thank you. I've been looking for it
This episode is insightful and powerful 🔥.
Never journey with someone when they've not made their intentions known. Kai, that's powerful.
Thank you for being passionate and intentional about us. God bless you, Mama Darasimi, Mama Tolu, Mama Ella. I love you❤
Today's for the brothers 😂.
May God help us all. Thanks TED!
Well done with this episodes to add perspective on the topics bring in 3 matured men(brothers) with different experiences as regards to relationship 1. Brother who has never been in a relationship before or had no female friends around while growing up.
2. A brother who has had failed relationship in the past before his marriage.
3. Lastly a brother who got married on first attempt with a sister. That will add perspective to the discuss that's if they'll be willing to share or answer some of the questions why some guy do what they do. It's like guy trying to analyse women or ladies they may get some facts right but not indepth. Thanks for your helpful insight of the do & don't.
God bless you mamas!
My brothers must hear😊
Tolu is looking different
Hope nah wetin I dey think
Safe delivery in Jesus name
I miss you, your pics and that smile especially
May God bless you all and more anointing in the name of Jesus amen❤
This is a great episode surely
Wooow!
Very good teaching! God bless you Sisters!
Thank you TrueTalk with TED! Enjoyed this message, especially with the part on prayer 🙏🏾
Thank you so much mas. This blessed me. More Wisdom mas in Jesus name.
Darasimi is so full of wisdom!..
I have learnt a lot from the experiences of others that she shared.
Never journey until intention is made known clearly
God bless everyone of you in Jesus Name. 🎉
God will also take care of marriages that springs from His hands and there not be divorce. That does not necessarily means that there will not be challenges or problems. But the truth is when they come, they cannot win.
I was massively blessed
GOD Bless You Ma's ✌️
🎉🎉it's so good to be back here🎉🎉i have missed True talk with TED ❤❤
Thank you so much TED❤ for another set of Wisdom
God will continue blessing you ❤❤
Dara understands when the question Ella asked "How should a brother say no?"
Who else sees D-baba in how Darasimi talks and gesticulates??😂
Very insightful. God richly bless you
Thanks for shedding more light here Sisters 😊
It's a privilege to learn these ❤
God bless you all my beloved sisters for this programme for highlighting us
One month is the max I can go, it's cruel to keep someone waiting for too long, you know that you're mature to be proposed to, you ought to have been praying before anyone even come to you...and you should have your preference of the person you're looking forward to, which aligns with God's purpose for your life...praying for three months after i came to ask you out shows you're not serious 😮
"A woman appreciate your efforts..... As a man don't be passive"
thank you for this episode. on the matter of sisters saying no, where does a brother draw the line, because sometimes we hear that a sister says he didnt even persist when i said no, why do sisters have to keep complicating things and saying what they dont really mean, a brother also doesnt want to be seen as a person who doesnt here word or sturborn
True talk bro!
Great question! You can go back to God and if she's still the one, ask God to convince her. Still greet her, be kind to her. Don't impose physically. Impose in the place of prayers. Fire her there😂😂. If it's the will of God, She'll come around. If you're persistent, do that with the understanding that God is still involved in it but don't be a stalker.
@@wordsfromheaven You are right 👍🏿. May God help us.
A godly sister shouldn't say a fake no to stress somebody's son.
With that out of the way, you can go back to God in prayer and stay as brethren. If she is not ready, God will guide you to another viable daughter.
If she says no, pls believe her oooo
Nice topic right here. All are commentary are well noted.. Thank you
Tolu, you will be missed in Abbatoir 😮😮😮
I think she's still coming back😂
@@EstherAdeoye-hd7uc😂
How will dey wed without the present of there parents
@@EstherAdeoye-hd7uc She’s not rambo now
@@Techwithernest But I still feel she will come back to life...let's just cross hands and see
I was blessed!😊 Thank you! 😊
This is great.
More grace
This is so interesting and insightful. Thank you for this episode.
Thank you so much for this! God bless you
Wooow!!!! Thank you so much TED. I really learnt a lot though I'm a sister 😂😂😂
Thank you so much for this episode. I Love you Mamas ❤
I love this episode. Please what should a brother do if he has received "NO" for an answer twice from different ladies at different occasions.
Keep trusting God for your own. Also, keep developing yourself.
How long can a relationship last before marriage....?
I suggest you discuss on this as well....
By the way, Thank you so much, I've been blessed
Thank you so much ma (s) TED ❤
Great information
Thank you so much
Tolu at 21:54😂
God bless you, TED! 🙏
A prayerful lady gave me a NO after 3 months of telling me to wait as she sought to seek the Lord. God does not go on a sabbatical! I am not sure she was really praying the whole time. But I have learned my lesson... once she's beginning to take more than 1-2 months to decide, I will decide for her...
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Please once you decide for her, let her know so she will stop praying
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😂😂 your last statement cracked me up 😂 😂 Don't worry yours will come in time.
Please don't use the past to judge the next
One month is the max I can go, it's cruel to keep someone waiting for too long, you know that you're mature to be proposed to, you ought to have been praying before anyone even come to you...and you should have your preference of the person you're looking forward to, which aligns with God's purpose for your life...
You are here for us am ready for you ma'am 💖 love you all
Thank you for sharing ma
Tolu is so funny😂😂😂
God bless TED
😂😂😂 thank you my beautiful sister's TED
Praise Jesus, I greet you in the name of Lord Jesus Christ. Ive been a club member for sometime now and i got a question but its on Ladies side. As a 25yrs lady Christian and Fully engaged in knowing the will of God in friendship and more😅 between a brother and sister, I find it hard to open up to a brother and tell him that IM STILL PROVING MYSELF AS A WOMAN WORTH OF MARRIAGE. How do i deal with that while knowing that He is the One? Your beloved sister 🇹🇿
I think we’re never fully prepared for anyth (by our standards)- but God is our perfector.. take a step with the knowledge you have.. trust God all the way
The later can never be leaser than thr former 🎯
God bless you all
Brothers should always know that, God created the garden of Eden before creating Adam. 2. God made provision for Adam before before bringing in Eve. 3. Eve was not a problem to Adam as long as she had all she needed in the garden until she broke boundaries by going after pleasure. Genesis 3:1
@@GODWARD-k5n but the society has changed, so rules of engagements are now different. We cannot always refer to Adam and Eve as a good setting in modern time dating.
Great content!
21:07 That side eyeee
Someone once gave me a month to give an answer and didn't even say hello or hi until a month after to check in on his answer ..in the most unfriendly way possible.
It screamed RED FLAG😂
probably he was doing so to give you space to pray without affecting your emotion
I agreed with you.
He probably was giving you time in order not to becloud your reasoning and the likes. I would not take it for red flag.@@adekunleifeoluwa9215
@@faithosarugue5490Not a single hi for the whole month?
@@promiseekanem4780 yeah, I think it's better to give the lady space to think and pray with a clear mind.
The fact that he gave one month is already a RED FLAG. Lack of patience is not a fruit of the spirit. This is not to say ladies should delay too, but brothers are not supposed to give you deadline for response.
The Lord help us all o
Thanks, I am blessed
More grace
TED when are we having dami and Joshua on the show?
Dami and Joshua are truly long overdue to show up on the show
Please sisters when are having dami and Jaymikee on the show
I agree. When?
Why are you eager to see them🌚🌚🤪
I just felt I have never seen them on the show that is why I am asking?@@oluwatosinolowookere7046
Am blessed ❤❤❤
Her gesticulation says it all
😂😂 that look at 21:10 is priceless..
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See Titilope's eyesssssssss
let me comment before i watch, i am certain it will impact me
Now I know it's a general thing. They don't like "no" as an answer. Lol😊
Please TED
How can I relate with someone dat love to seeing me be Sad,
They don't like seeing me being happy or doing fine,
What can I do to dis cand of people.
I use to live in darkness and sadness before since long time ago, but Jesus revival me now! I have peace in Him.
But to dis cand of people, I don't know what to do.
Please help me out
i wish some brother will listen
What about if the Brother go back to God and tell God please help me to convince her, if you are the one who truly say she's the one.
Brothers accept NO and move on.
If you and a guy aren't in a relationship and he his giving a green flag but as a lady your intention are pure ,is it proper to collect a gift from him especially on valentine's day as mentioned?
AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
Most times we do not know maybe it is science culture or not yes so if I me include . I will say is of no need telling us the place
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Lol.... I reserve my comments
I am also here
28:24 Did your entire family prayerfully see the issue with your brother? Let’s be careful and sensitive because the brother in question was he living in holiness? Sometimes family members can be very wrong in misjudging their intended spouse based on their bias….
Someone had proposed to me and before I even started praying, the friends were meeting me one by one to congratulate me. 😮😮😮. Of course my answer was a no at the end of the day.
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😂😂😂
We are not living in an angelic
world.
Ladies you need to have another edition of this topic handled by married brothers.
Yes.. exactly
We want an edition of this topic with Mr Dami Bamiloye,Mr Joshua Bamiloye and Pastor Oyor please...let's hear from the married men too for an all around knowledge. Thanks dear sisters. More Grace
So what you are saying is you want to hear from married brothers so you can agree with what they are saying?
Are yoy people not the one always complaining about how they only focus on the sisters and they should also talk to the brothers?
There are different programs held by men, go and watch those ones or yoy want this one by TED and digest it.
Is like pe we will have to invite our brothers (your husbands) to give us some enlightened in part 2 of this 😂😂.
Thanks so much mas, more grace and more wisdom in Jesus name
First to view this video 😂😂😂😂
What about when she likes me and wants our friendship it to move to next level and am not in to that what should I do
Let her know and give her a lot of space
It's not ancient time ooo, in my church if you want to propose to a sister you must meet her spiritual head.
Even in mine and personally I think it is the best method
The No is not always a straight way out, one of my fathers in the Lord received a No and for the second time, she still said no but later came to ask him whether he still had her in mind and they got married.
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I know a father that had to keep going for about seven times, before the mummy gave him a yes. All those while, it was a no. They are now married for over 25yrs.
What do we say in this case.
Mummy And Daddy Bamiloye, with all due respect ma and sir. Please I need your help in terms of finances for my studies and feeding sir
stop begging....these people have been investing in lives for decades for free, send money to them, not ask
@@kingsegunakindoyin2286 thanks sir but if not necessary I won't ask sir.
More grace
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