Thank u thank God my guy NEVER sees his x over20 years Wouldnt put up with that shit kids we see n are grown Glad I dont have 2 deal with that Drama my guy hates his X n no going back or talking or seeing just us the Way it should be no X s In The future take care of u I hope they Makeup Laters🤗
@ann-mariehuggins-hikel919 She's not the one to give advice to anyone less alone Ben. She was messing all over men (husband and co-star boyfriend) in her pursuit after Ben. He's got family, friends, and brother to discuss his issues with J-Lo. You wouldn't want your man talking about your issues to his ex would you? This is how Garner got him in the first place pretending to be his shoulder to cry on. He should be smarter this time when he knows he wasn't happy with her in the beginning. Couples fight, but they calm down before they do things they can't take back. He's forgetting how miserable he was without J-Lo. They need a "all holds barred talk" about J-Lo cutting down on performing; the media, paparazzi, and public relations; and J-Lo staying quiet about their personal life. More importantly, Ben needs to limit his time and association with Garner except about the kids. She'll use this to her advantage and when he's stuck with her, he'll remember why he left her in the first place bc she's not honest with integrity but pretends to be "queeky clean" while she does her dirt undercover. He's gonna be miserable when his anger lessens and he's stuck with her again. The media is using this situation to keep drama to sell news when much of this may not even be true.
@@octavia9464and obsession! Garner got pregnant when he n JLo took a break. Now uses the kids to keep him tethered to HER. Garner is manipulative n interfering bc so obsessed!
Garner managed to get pregnant from Ben back in 2002 when Jlo was still engaged to Ben. Jlo found out and left Ben. Garner was obsessed with Ben since she met him when they filmed the movie Pearl Harbor...Garner divorced her then husband, then in 2002 she did another movie with Ben (daredevil movie), that's when she purposely got pregnant from Ben . Ben then married Garner , then chaos broke loose in their marriage. Ben told Howard Stern he felt trapped in his marriage to Garner. As soon as Ben would tell Garner he wanted a divorce,Garner would get pregnant over and over again🤦🏼♀️...Garner is immensely OBSESSED with Ben and she'll take his leftover crumbs as long as he comes back to her ( Garner told her bff she'd take Ben back in a minute)... If Ben returns to Garner again, I wouldn't doubt it she gets pregnant AGAIN 🤦🏼♀️.. Garner is not a glamour kind of person,she dresses very thrift style and with plain clothing, (jeans,shirt, and Birkenstock sandals).. one thing she is good at is ,she's a great mother to her kids. One thing I see bad in Garner is how she snatched Ben from Jlo back in 2002! Garner knew Jlo and Ben were engaged and she didn't respect that engagement ( to me that says alot about her character),, just as long as she got Ben and had his children ,that was her main goal. Garners now boyfriend is just a side kick she has for meanwhile , until Ben returns to her... Ben will NEVER ever be happy with any woman until he 🛑 stops drinking!!!! Jlo has tried very hard to help Ben quit the habit, but she's getting tired,she feels like she's hitting against a wall. Jlo is a 24/7 workaholic,and Ben is a layback kind of guy who just wants to be home drinking his liquor🍷🥃🍸. Ben comes from a long family of alcoholics. His father was a hardcore alcoholic , he finally quit after 13 years in rehab, and Ben went thru a tough childhood with his alcoholic father. Bens grandmother and uncle were both hardcore alcoholics and both committed suicide. Right now Ben is taking medication for depression and anxiety. Jlo wants to get Ben back into producing movies, something he's very good at, but Ben has to put in an effort first... When Ben was with Garner, many times you'd see Ben super drunk and wasted in their backseat car and Garner driving. That's one thing we all admire from Jlo, she's a tough and strong person, she doesn't take crap from anyone! some say she's a diva or too much into herself??!!! Hey, this is Hollywood, everyone acts the part, ... There's another side to Jlo many don't know about...Jlo has a compassionate heart, she's donated millions to help women succeed in life . No woman should take mental or physical abuse from ANY man!! My heart does go out to both Jlo and Ben ♥️🫶🏼♥️
I'm sick of this scenario bc it's sickening. Garner is not planning on giving up on Ben and will do all she can to stay in his life more than she needs to be while he's married to someone else.
@lesleymaner2851 So what? It was Mother's Day which is just what Garner wanted anyway. John Miller should have been there too since he is her fiance. But she doesn't want him and uses him to make it look like she doesn't want Ben. But it doesn't matter bc Ben is just as fickle as he can be and he'll be tired of her AGAIN too.. He'll be tired of her in two months and show himself to be a real jerk and fool to be fooled again by this conniving "snake in the grass". I'm done with this soap opera!!! So you can go bother someone who gives a damn bc these people are dumb playing games with each other. Ben doesn't really want Garner either and never did. But she's got her crutch using his kids to stay in his life!!! J-Lo better run and take her time being with family & kids while Mr. RIGHT comes along bc it IS NOT Rodriguez either!!!
Absolutely. She had a new man before she breaks up with the one she is with. Ben is the FIRST to want to leave her. She has hurt and cheated on several husbands. "KARMA" never forgets an address"
IAgree Poor John n Poor Jolo u dont Going Running to your x Ben's wrong that's disgusting shows No Respect for Jlo n John Jeng shpuld be Running to John not Ben's house I be pissed 2 it's not jealousuy it's called respect 4your wife Jlo n poor John
How do you know anything has even happened? It's celebrity gossip. He treated Jen Gardner pretty badly as the mother of his kids. It would surprise me otherwise. I'd say it's bordering on disrespect but that's between John & Jen. Not John, Jen & the whole world. It's Jen's life to make decisions with. Same with Ben & Jlo. Rumor Jlo tried getting back with Arod... I wonder if any truth to it? Don't see why she would other than make Ben jealous...or at least try to. 🤷♀️
This what the problem is, why are you taking tabloid bs gossip as facts ...what do they or you know about what's really happening ..its called SPECULATUON AND ASSUMPTIONS ..SMH
I AGREE SO DISRESPECTFUL 2 JLO N JOHN I FEEL4 THEM N DONT EVEN HIM BUT JLO MUST BE HURTING INSIDE N WONT SHOW IT WE ALL DO THAT WHEN WE ARE HEARTBROKEN💔💔 TAKE CARE OF U LATERS
Garner, stay out of Ben. Once your husband is a cheater will still be a cheater. He didn't cheat on Jlo, because he know he has always been in love with Jlo. Problem with their relationship is Jlo, it's very demanding and to much publicity and Ben can't stand all the publicity, Ben knows it was still going to happen. If Garner think going back that Ben I'd goiing to change his bad habits, Garner better star praying that he will change his bad habits, at list for his children. Jlo shouldn't be jealous of Garner she's cute lady, Garner couldn't stand next to Jlo. Jlo is prettier, and better body. They should just stop arguing and get all their life's together, get their divorce done already. There's children involved in this relationship on both side. STOP ALL THREE OF YOU Jennifer Lopez Ben Aflak Jennifer Garner
Garner managed to get pregnant from Ben back in 2002 when Jlo was still engaged to Ben. Jlo found out and left Ben. Garner was obsessed with Ben since she met him when they filmed the movie Pearl Harbor...Garner divorced her then husband, then in 2002 she did another movie with Ben (daredevil movie), that's when she purposely got pregnant from Ben . Ben then married Garner , then chaos broke loose in their marriage. Ben told Howard Stern he felt trapped in his marriage to Garner. As soon as Ben would tell Garner he wanted a divorce,Garner would get pregnant over and over again🤦🏼♀️...Garner is immensely OBSESSED with Ben and she'll take his leftover crumbs as long as he comes back to her ( Garner told her bff she'd take Ben back in a minute)... If Ben returns to Garner again, I wouldn't doubt it she gets pregnant AGAIN 🤦🏼♀️.. Garner is not a glamour kind of person,she dresses very thrift style and with plain clothing, (jeans,shirt, and Birkenstock sandals).. one thing she is good at is ,she's a great mother to her kids. One thing I see bad in Garner is how she snatched Ben from Jlo back in 2002! Garner knew Jlo and Ben were engaged and she didn't respect that engagement ( to me that says alot about her character),, just as long as she got Ben and had his children ,that was her main goal. Garners now boyfriend is just a side kick she has for meanwhile , until Ben returns to her... Ben will NEVER ever be happy with any woman until he 🛑 stops drinking!!!! Jlo has tried very hard to help Ben quit the habit, but she's getting tired,she feels like she's hitting against a wall. Jlo is a 24/7 workaholic,and Ben is a layback kind of guy who just wants to be home drinking his liquor🍷🥃🍸. Ben comes from a long family of alcoholics. His father was a hardcore alcoholic , he finally quit after 13 years in rehab, and Ben went thru a tough childhood with his alcoholic father. Bens grandmother and uncle were both hardcore alcoholics and both committed suicide. Right now Ben is taking medication for depression and anxiety. Jlo wants to get Ben back into producing movies, something he's very good at, but Ben has to put in an effort first... When Ben was with Garner, many times you'd see Ben super drunk and wasted in their backseat car and Garner driving. That's one thing we all admire from Jlo, she's a tough and strong person, she doesn't take crap from anyone! some say she's a diva or too much into herself??!!! Hey, this is Hollywood, everyone acts the part, ... There's another side to Jlo many don't know about...Jlo has a compassionate heart, she's donated millions to help women succeed in life . No woman should take mental or physical abuse from ANY man!! My heart does go out to both Jlo and Ben ♥️🫶🏼♥️
@@almavelgara3696 Looks do Not keep a man. Ben moved out. He looks miserable with Jlo. There are women far prettier & better than Jlo. You have a lot to learn if you think that keeps a man. It is shallow & superficial.....
Garner did it once and is doing it again. Keep away from a man you divorced and is married, children should not be an excuse. Very disrespectful from both for the children and other partners. Hope Jlo does not reconsider him and dump the narcissist and his ex.
@aidazayas69 There might be something to what you're saying bc Garner still loves Ben he knows that. But he's forgetting how she got him and how mean she was when she found out he still loved Jlo after the time and kids as well as how many years he longed for Jlo. I think this movie Jlo made was a mistake bc Ben going back to her and marrying her was enough proof that he always wanted her but she keeps worrying about what people say too much. She should have been quiet and enjoyed her relationship. Her tears while introducing the movie showed how hurt she was over losing him and how people talked about her hurt her feelings but people talk. But to hell with those people and people she found out weren't really her friends. Now, her relationship may really be in trouble when she should have remembered how Ben is about too much attention from the paparazzi and lessining her gimmick bc she doesn't need it anymore. She knows Garner's schemes and should have put her foot down when she knew Garner would use her kids to get to him. It's sad; and Garner is about to get hurt again too. So this is a hot mess!!!
@@lrmiller-pz3jr Garner has been using Ben for years ever since they divorced. She still loved him but couldn't stop him from drinking! She thinks she's the only woman with children & all I hear about is these 3 kids! What about Jlo's twins. Nothing is heard about them..they're keeping out of their mother's affairs as long as they know she loves them & has been taking care of them herself without any co parenting from their dad Marc Anthony. He doesn't even pay any money for their child support. Everything was put on Jlo's responsibility to raise them & financially care for them. In contrast to Garner who expects Ben to be financially responsible for his 3 kids even though she makes her own money. She takes the term co parenting to the next level. It should be called co mingling with kids & ex wife!!!
@jeanrita4618 I wouldn't call JG using Ben since the divorce. However, she's played a con game in getting him and keeping him within her reach through the kids. This is what she planned from the very beginning. Most all of her fans think she's the ever-suffering wife but she caused a lot of her own pain with Ben tricking him to marry her; treating him like dirt bc he still loved J-Lo after all the time and kids in their marriage until he fought back by cheating on her and not sleeping with her anymore to avoid unwanted pregnancies with; and finally realizing that she had to treat him better and help him with his drinking hoping it would change his attitude towards the marriage. But it was too late. Ben has forgotten all about this but he will remember when J-Lo is gone.Yes, Lopez has taken on everything with her kids minus the help of Marc Anthony and tried to function without his help. But no one mentions this besides you. They still act like Garner's kids are the more long-suffering than Lopez's kids while they are much better off not having to see their dad drunk; arguing with their mother; or being an absentee dad when he worked all the time to stay away from Garner. While they watched their mom run behind their dad's cheating with other women and leaking lies or mistruths to the press regarding those women. Yeah, she was showing them great honorable traits of integrity (sarcasm) while she kept the charade of a decent wholesome woman. But the truth will all come out sooner or later while her fans ignore her actions that exposes her con game. This is why I am sick of this hot mess story that Ben will feel like a fool later on bc he didn't just tell J-Lo that she needed to stop or decrease performing; posing for the camera; and stop trying to prove to everyone that he really loved her the whole time; and tell people to kiss her butt about her beauty, glamor, and whatever as well as treat her subordinates better and they would be okay.
Jennifer Lopez is not jealous of Jennifer Garner because Lopez is a star and she will always be. Ben is not acting like a grown up man and his ex wife that he divorced must get out of Ben's face and mind her own business.
Its CALLED RESPECT U WOULDNT WANT YOUR HUSBAND RUNNING TO HIS X N SPILLING ALL YOUR PRIVATE STUFF TO HER THAT DISGUSTING Nomen do that here thank hod it not jealousy it love n Repect 4 your wif jlo not your x 😊
SHE DIDN'T SEEM SO SENSIBLE AND DOWN TO EARTH WHEN HE WAS LEAVING HER AND ENDED UP GOING BACK WITH "J.LO.". MISS GARNER SHOULD REMEMBER , WE HAVE VIDEOS OF HER , SERIOUSLY, "NOT LIKING", THE FACT AND SAYING SO ,. THAT BEN HAD REKINDLED HIS ROMANCE AND INDEED HIS ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH MISS LOPEZ.!!!!!..
J Garner should keep away if only to keep her image squeaky clean……if she gets involved with this people will turn on her. JLo should just kick him to the curb he’s not worth the love of either woman……
@@DebbieMarthey-jn2kh If the men buy rings worth millions then lucky Jen……and remember she can well afford to ‘buy herself flowers’ and or anything else come to that……
Because Jennifer Garner is a good person. JLo should be jealous. Some of the horrible first account stories about JLo are horrendous. JLo is about JLo no matter what.
No she Jenifer garner should move on,she’s always there,waiting and watching like a snake,she just uses the children to stay close to Ben, she should get a life of her own 😡
Does not matter what the reason for Ben n Jlo issues, that between them, but Garner should be ashamed of herself, shes always up Ben balls, the kids are one thing, but this Garner always treating Ben like a man/child, n Ben always running to Garner crying to her about everything, its not nice nor healthy its very disrespectful for Miller n Jlo
You have a point but JG is a human being sharing 3 Children and that's not something you just shove aside. She genuinely wants to help him, nothing else
@@ann-mariehuggins-hikel919 whatever. Jennifer Garner is slick and sneaky. She thought having kids would change the way he felt about her. She seems slick always playing this innocent sweet lady she's fake as f***. She should stay out of his marriage.
Jlo love you girl 💖 listen be the strong woman that you are think clearly what to do don't jump into anything try hard to make it work ask God to help you, just hold on don't pay attention to negative rumors many blessings for you and family 🙏🙏 stay looking beautiful love ❤️🦋🌹
I wouldn't like it either if my man's ex was constantly coming around. It's plain to see that Garner still wants him. I hope Ben thinks this thing through before acting on it bc he wasn't happy without Lopez.
It’s evident that JLO is a raging narcissist. She’s jealous that Ben is happier when he’s hanging around his ex. Jennifer Garner has her own S.O. They share 3 children, and Jennifer has been there for him through his alcohol addiction.
If that were true then she should keep away from him and just have the kids involved and only consult him regarding the kids nothing else. Miller might dump her. I suspect they want to be together again.
Jennifer move on and don’t worry about him. He seem to be so unhappy with you so let him go let him be free. Let him be with Jennifer Garner if that’s where he want to be - you will be OK. You are J Lo. Jenny on the block, who’s always on the clock ❤
a quarter between her knees for a few years, singing and acting lessons and raising her children . . . maybe she will come out the other side as a female. 😂
Jlo is Right No past xs in your Marriage its called Respect 4 jlo NO MEN RUN 2THEIR X S N TELLS THEM ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE VERY WRONG HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH JEALOUSEY ITS RESPECT 4 JLO BEN SHOULD HAVE IF HE LOVES JLO U DONT DO THAT RUN TO YOUX THATS YOUR PAST YOU DONT GETT THEM INVOLVED I BE PISSED OFF 2 IM GLAD MY HUBBY DOESNT DO THAT NEVER SER HER M WHO CARES THATS Y CALLED AX PAST TENSE U DONT DEAL EITH THEM ONLY THE CHILDREN WE BELIEVE IN THAT HERE FRIENDS THEIR MEN. DONT SER THEIR X EITHET XS STAY OUT OF MARRIGE THATS Y ITS YOUR PAST U DONT BRING YOUR PAST INTO YOUR FUTURE N JEN G SHOULD BE WORRYING ABOUT JOHN HET PRESENT HIS AND NOT HANGINGOUT WITH HER X HUSBAND BEN SHOULD BE WITH JOHN NOT YOUR PAST ITS JLO JOB TO WORRY ABOUT BEN NOT U WORRY ABOUT YOUR NEW MARTIAGE 2 JOHN ITS CALLEDD RESPECT 4 THE1 U LOVE❤❤
@@octavia9464 thanks I know I feel 4jlo my friend threw that till she put her foot down X s are nothing but trouble it'd children only see the fathers here no hanging out n spending holidays that's spent with your current wife not A X laters we shall see takcare of u🤗
@@idabaca3218 thank u N did u know he Brought his X Jen G her A car today did u see that post omg IF MY husband brought his x A Car I'll filing 4 Divoice that's .Theres no boundaries with them .I'm So Happy We dont deal with the x Here in NY n the same with my friends None of our men see or deal with their X s that our past we live in the future n put the past behind only the children see.None of this buying gifts or hanging out with a X Everything is separate thank God that's Drama n Trouble I feel 4jlo n John so disrespectful but guess that's how they roll out there X s are Trouble I dont care who u Are A x has No place in your x s life or his current wife are private that takes Alot of balls n Nerve 2 run 2 your X n talk about your wife Jlo behind her back n spill things about your marriage is sickening no men do that OMG guess we are lucky dont have 2 deal with X s we shall see I guess I sure wouldnt put up that shit well take care of u n thanks laters from NY❤
You guys keep forgetting that Garner was married when she went after Ben who was engaged to Lopez. J-Lo needs to stop trying to prove that Ben always loved her which was evident in his actions all along as well as when he went back to her and married her which includes revealing about the letters. But more importantly, J-Lo needs to decrease all the public relations bc she knows Ben doesn't want all this all the time and she's married now with all the money she could ever need for the rest of her life. She needs to stop trying to prove to everyone that Ben loved her all along bc everybody knows that now and demand that Ben put Garner in check bc Garner is still after her man and using the kids to keep him in her life; otherwise, she would have married John Miller. She's using that poor guy which is no different than what she did to Scott Foley and Michael Vartan. She isn't truly a nice person and went after J-Lo's man 17-20 years ago and locked herself in his life with children he didn't agree to have
@@lrmiller-pz3jr 💯% only Ben doesn't seem to realise it. Garner is pretty smart, always pretending to b so goody goody. Not so classy running after compromised men like that. She once said she didn't get her earrings pierced without her dad's permission.... because of her "extremely strict" upbringing.... but did she ask her parents if it was a good idea to cheat on her then husband with a guy who was engaged and then fall pregnant just a few months into the relationship? Was that ok for strict parents? I doubt it!!! Garner needs people to think she is perfect. There's a letter that she wrote to her son's teacher about how the school had been a safe place for the kids (really beautiful) .... But u don't publish those things.... if u are genuinely a good person u don't need the media to know and publish it. Plus, every time she does a good deed.... there's the paparazzi right there to film it. C'moooooooon. At least JLo doesn't pretend to b a saint. Also several interviews..... check out Jennifer Gardner and Regina King.... that was crazy. You could see her true colours there.
@@raquelrodriguez8423You guys spend entirely too much time daydreaming about strangers private lives . Jennifer Garner is family to Ben. They had a life together, children, their families and friends and neighbors. Jennifer Garner is in a 6 year relationship with a cute Attorney. JG wants Ben and his issues out of her life. She put up with his BS for years. She's done. We have no control over what other people do. Ben bugging Jen. They have kids together. She probably feels some obligation. Also if you have ever lived with an alcoholic or addict for years. You'd understand. When it's over. You are done. Done done. These AI videos are all bullshit. It's some random person's opinion piece. Put out uploaded by a computer to generate clicks likes and views. It's not real. Just like you cackling hens just making shit up and feeding off of it. You're entitled to speculate, your opinion. But doesn't make it true. Are you close friends with all four of them? Do they spill their guts to you? Right. So you make up a bunch of BS based on a bunch of stupid 30 year old rumours
Ben will never ever be happy with ANY woman until he gets his act together and 🛑 STOPS DRINKING!!! it's a miracle Jlo lasted this long with him. He's not a bad person but he needs to put a stop to his addictions before getting into any relationship. This is why his relationships don't last. Women get burned out and get tired trying to help him stop his addictions. Many times we've seen Ben with a sweaty red face and really upset, it's because he needs a drink!!! Garner told her best friend she would take Ben back in a minute. It all started back in 2001 when Ben and Garner were in the Pearl Harbor movie. This is when a married Garner became obsessed with Ben. Then Garner asked her husband for a divorce immediately. Then in 2002 Ben proposed to Jlo. They were engaged. Then it so happens that Ben was called to be in the movie called Daredevil with Garner. Garner knew Ben was engaged to Jlo but she didn't care as long as she got Ben for herself. That's when Garner got pregnant, then Jlo found out and broke the engagement with Ben. Ben married Garner. Violet was born. Then Ben wanted out of the marriage with Garner. Garner got pregnant again. Ben stayed. Every time Ben asked for a divorce,Garner held him back by getting pregnant. Ben told Howard Stern that he felt trapped in his marriage to Garner. Ben wanted a divorce, but Garner didn't want Ben to leave,so she proposed Ben stay at their back house and he could have his side kicks as long as he was discreet. Then paparazzi caught ben with the nanny, then Garner finally signed the divorce papers. Garner has always been obsessed with Ben🤷🏼♀️... And the latest is that Ben will be in a movie with Garner?🤦🏼♀️ (all hell will break lose if this happens!) . Garner will dump her present boyfriend if Ben decides to hook up with her again. Garner is totally obsessed with Ben! Garner reminds me of the old movie called FATAL ATTRACTION with Michael Douglas and Glenn Close!!😂If Ben returns to Garner then he's not a real man, he's just a wimpy alcoholic who needs a mother figure like Garner who will turn the blind eye with his affairs. Ben needs to 🛑 stop with his addictions!!! Ben comes from a long family of alcoholics. Ben's father was a hardcore alcoholic and Ben went thru a tough childhood with an alcoholic father. His father finally stopped his addiction after 13yrs in rehab! Bens grandmother and uncle were both hardcore alcoholics and both committed suicide. Ben is a train wreck ready to crash! He doesn't realize how bad his addiction is. He is presently taking depression and anxiety medication. Jlo is a 24/7 workaholic. She's constantly busy with her business engagements , her cosmetic line, her Delola wine products and many other investments she currently has....ect, . She's always on the go, she's a health fanatic, and Ben is the total opposite, Ben is a immensely layback man who loves being home sipping on his liquor 🥃🍷. Many times, opposites do attract, just like Gwen Stefani and Blake Shelton, Gwen is glamour, and Blake is a dress down layback type of person ,BUT they don't have addictions like Ben does. Jlo wanted Ben to get back busy filming or directing movies which he's very good at doing. But it's hard when you have an addiction you can't let go of. At least he's managed to do the sequel for the movie THE ACCOUNT #2. Jlo just wants the best for Ben! Whether Ben is with her or not, she truly wants the best for him, she also cares deeply for him as a best friend. Ben is also very protective of Jlo. Jlo truly loves Ben, but she could only do so much for him, he first needs to make an effort to stop his addictions.... Jlo has a compassionate heart and some may see her as a diva, but remember that in Hollywood you have to play the part, just like many celebrities do with the social media and paparazzi ..My heart goes out to BOTH Ben and Jlo... ♥️🫶🏼♥️ All we hear is that they're divorcing one day , and the next day we hear they're remaining married ,then the following week we see Jlo with Violet Affleck out together, having a good time.... So in reality "NO ONE" really knows Jlo's and Ben's situation right NOW. The social media/paparazzi are just taking pics of Jlo and Ben and are ONLY ASSUMING they're headed for a breakup...but in reality NO ONE really knows🤷🏼♀️🤦♀️
@victoriaromero3587 I said this entire situation was a hot mess. I can't disagree with anything you said bc I know Garner still wants him. He's her kyrptonite and karma for how she played with hearts of Scott, Michael, and now John; poor John got dumped when Ben decided to let the kids meet Ana De Armas during COVID-19. So I'm surprised he went back and got re-engagged to Garner. But I am done with Ben bc I can't believe he is falling for the same old con that Garner has going again bc he knows he doesn't want her. But he's using her shoulder to cry on again. He doesn't care about anyone but Ben. J-Lo should move on bc he's not facing his issues.
Ben needs to go back to his ex-wife not that he will change his ways he's still going to be the little jerk that is boring and selfish man Jennifer Lopez's too much of a woman for him I hope that she lets him go at least for her own sake and her kids they don't need that kind of negative energy around Jennifer Lopez I'm right behind you I believe in you and women like you it's hard to get a man because they can't handle the competition❤
Jennifer Garner is totally different than Jennifer Lopez there is no comparison they're both beautiful but actually Jennifer Garner is a natural beauty she deserves to be happy
I could tell that JLO was making the biggest mistake when she get back Ben Affleck once you date a man an broke up and he go get married with kids have nothing to do with him that’s gonna be a problem there you go
I can't stand Lopaz for tons of reasons but I feel it's tacky to talk about present wife to a x wife. But yet I'm g.iggling!! Lopaz wanted everyone cosy I thought?
Omg. Jennifer Gardner should leave both of them alone…. Just co-parent and don’t get involved with this mess. They are extremely troubled people that should spend some time alone figuring out their crap instead of jumping into relationships. I really hope Gardner can move on with her life cause Ben is not it.
I wish Jennifer wouldn't of gotten back with Ben. He's not marriage material. He doesn't know what he wants. He dumped her years ago and now he is doing it again. He even was unhappy with his first marriage. He's crazy and an alcoholic. No good for JLo. He knew how JLo was before so why is he using this as an excuse to leave her again. He is the one who sought JLo when he was his wife divorcing him and dumping him. He should of left JLo alone. He knew she loved him and he took advantage of that. JLo just date and don't get married again; not worth all the trouble and heartbreak. Jen Garner needs to keep her nose out of Ben and JLo's business too.
I don't understand why everyone thinks Jennifer Garner is so great, as far as I remember, she was married before Ben Affleck to someone else, was already in marriage number 2, then had the nerve to say..."" They fell in love while filming Daredevil, but wasn't he madly in love with JLo and engaged to her? JLo being at the set with him as it was filmed. Wasn't Jennifer Garner the instigator? Then JLo decided not to marry Ben!! ......then all of a sudden Ben Affleck was low key .....healing.......but then was married to Jennifer Garner? And had kids? Now who is in the back seat trying to tell you how to drive.....your car. She should just focus on her boyfriend/fiancee....it's overrated for her to mend Ben, let's not forget the story of the nanny shopping with Ben with our Jennifer Garner. Her kids are old, she needs to let Ben figure it out on his own, with our having your ex wife to cut up your meat in your plate before you eat. 💗💗💗💝
Jlo has been divorced about 4 times. Common denominator is JLO. Has to be in the limelight, center of attention. Afleck should just divorce. He seems happier alone.
Very disrespectful to J Lo. Great job Ben. You started writing her letters the minute she was broke up with A-Rod, then professed your love to her! Then you made her believe that this was the real deal and then you run away within 24 months. Wonderful. Great job not sticking it out and giving it your all.
why can’t she just change and get rid of her stupid rules. If she loves him that much. She probably couldn’t stand doing that after a week. Jlo isn’t it worth trying and living like a normal couple?❤
Ben needs to grow up. Jennifer G. has moved on with a handsome lawyer and CEO. Ben probably thought Jennifer G. was going to sit around crying about him going back to Jlo. Some men feel powerful when ladies are jealous over them so they do things that make them jealous. Jennifer G. probably has low self esteem from the way Ben treated her so bad when they were married. She was running after him crying and looking pitiful. Ben, Jlo, & Jen G. all need therapy. People are tired of this. Ben and Jlo start giving back to the less fortunate. You got all that riches & fame and just think about yourselves. That’s why you are miserable. You were in rehab. A lot of AA & NA facilities only survive by donations. An addict can sometimes stay up to 18 months for free. You and Jlo go there and visit and help out with money, clothes and food. Go to a assistant living home and take some flowers 🌺 to a lonely person who gets no visitors. Join a church, pay tithes, read your Bible and pray together. Ben you are the man and head of your home. Take responsibility and grow up.
I saw a video yesterday where Garner put her foot down. She's done being in the middle of it. She told Ben no more. Jen's fiance John Miller said enough. Glad someone finally did that.
Maybe jlow should spend more time worrying about and giving attention to her own kids. She doesn’t seem to give two farts about them unless she needs a publicity shot.
Jo is loose and no respect for commitment so she is a perfect fit for Ben , he has no back bone and has not taste love just moving around looking for comfort .
I think it's safe to say that Ben Affleck had a midlife crisis. All time & money just thrown away, not to mention the impact it must have on their kids‼️
I FEEL SOOO BADLY FOR JLO! SHE IS GETTING SO MUCH HATE FOR WHAT EXACTLY?? NOTHING! SO WHAT IF SHE LIKES THE ATTENTION! SHE'S A DAMN STAR, DUH! I HATE THAT EVERYONE IS QUICK TO SAY THAT THIS IS HER FAULT, NO! IF ANYTHING HE HAS USED AND ABUSED BOTH THESE WOMEN FOR 20 PLUS YEARS!! FOR JLO BEN IS THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY, WE ALL HAVE ONE OF THOSE, I FEEL SO BAD FOR HER!! JLO DESERVES BETTER BOTH JENNIFERS DO!! WTF??
Jlo is jealous of JG leave her alone it’s not her fault. He is the father of her children of course she needs him to be well for the kids, stop the jealousy she’s a great mom and knows how to co- parent with her ex.
I don’t believe for a minute that Jennifer Garner even wants Ben back, I think it’s good they get along for the kids they have together, last I read was she was pushing Ben and Jlo to try and get along.
Ben and Jennifer Garner are friends with each other and co parenting their children together. Jennifer Garner has her own Man and Jennifer Garner was trying to save their marriage ( Ben's and JLO's) there's no cheating there with Ben and Jennifer Garner
I'm not a fan of JLo however I don't blame her for being jealous. JLo is still Ben's wife & he can do whatever he wants after they get divorced. Garner should step back from these two unless she still has "feelings " for Ben. Isn't Garner engaged? Well, this is HOLLYWOOD, not surprised. 😂😂😂
Jlo needs to stay single not even divorced yet and already moving on to other men Jlo is giving herself a BAD name and Garner is just beautiful inside and out she's not a trashy person she's all about her kids Jlo is all about herself, Jlo turn your trashy into classy
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I would hate it too if my husband went back to his ex for advice.
This is why you marry for life❤
Thank u thank God my guy NEVER sees his x over20 years Wouldnt put up with that shit kids we see n are grown Glad I dont have 2 deal with that Drama my guy hates his X n no going back or talking or seeing just us the Way it should be no X s In The future take care of u I hope they Makeup Laters🤗
Ben looks run down. Vices do that to you.
Maybe because she is stable and understanding in the situation who can calm him down to do the right thing.
@ann-mariehuggins-hikel919 She's not the one to give advice to anyone less alone Ben. She was messing all over men (husband and co-star boyfriend) in her pursuit after Ben. He's got family, friends, and brother to discuss his issues with J-Lo. You wouldn't want your man talking about your issues to his ex would you? This is how Garner got him in the first place pretending to be his shoulder to cry on.
He should be smarter this time when he knows he wasn't happy with her in the beginning. Couples fight, but they calm down before they do things they can't take back. He's forgetting how miserable he was without J-Lo. They need a "all holds barred talk" about J-Lo cutting down on performing; the media, paparazzi, and public relations; and J-Lo staying quiet about their personal life.
More importantly, Ben needs to limit his time and association with Garner except about the kids. She'll use this to her advantage and when he's stuck with her, he'll remember why he left her in the first place bc she's not honest with integrity but pretends to be "queeky clean" while she does her dirt undercover. He's gonna be miserable when his anger lessens and he's stuck with her again. The media is using this situation to keep drama to sell news when much of this may not even be true.
JLO has every right to how she feels of Garner who has no business meddling
Have to kick him to the curb. That's very disrespectful.jen Garner a third wheel .
Advice from ur ex about ur current relationship is recipe for divorce. lolz 🤷🏻♀️ Ben ain’t the smartest….
Ben and Garner should remarry again. It seems they love each other.
@@Nycgirl-5 That definitely is NOT LOVE!!!! That's called CO-DEPENDENCY!!! LOL!!! 😆🤣🤣😂😅🤣😄
He probably did it on purpose to upset her or he genuinely misses the other Jennifer. Either way, Jennifer Lopez can't stand it
No Jen, should stay away from this mess of a man 🐶
@@octavia9464and obsession! Garner got pregnant when he n JLo took a break. Now uses the kids to keep him tethered to HER. Garner is manipulative n interfering bc so obsessed!
I will not be happy either if my husband is so close to his ex. I'm with J.Lo on this.
Yeah Gardner got her husband back that's for sure
They both need serious therapy
Garner DEFINITELY DOES!
Exactly
And jesus...
Garner managed to get pregnant from Ben back in 2002 when Jlo was still engaged to Ben. Jlo found out and left Ben. Garner was obsessed with Ben since she met him when they filmed the movie Pearl Harbor...Garner divorced her then husband, then in 2002 she did another movie with Ben (daredevil movie), that's when she purposely got pregnant from Ben . Ben then married Garner , then chaos broke loose in their marriage. Ben told Howard Stern he felt trapped in his marriage to Garner. As soon as Ben would tell Garner he wanted a divorce,Garner would get pregnant over and over again🤦🏼♀️...Garner is immensely OBSESSED with Ben and she'll take his leftover crumbs as long as he comes back to her ( Garner told her bff she'd take Ben back in a minute)... If Ben returns to Garner again, I wouldn't doubt it she gets pregnant AGAIN 🤦🏼♀️..
Garner is not a glamour kind of person,she dresses very thrift style and with plain clothing, (jeans,shirt, and Birkenstock sandals).. one thing she is good at is ,she's a great mother to her kids.
One thing I see bad in Garner is how she snatched Ben from Jlo back in 2002! Garner knew Jlo and Ben were engaged and she didn't respect that engagement ( to me that says alot about her character),, just as long as
she got Ben and had his children ,that was her main goal. Garners now boyfriend is just a side kick she has for meanwhile , until Ben returns to her... Ben will NEVER ever be happy with any woman until he 🛑 stops drinking!!!!
Jlo has tried very hard to help Ben quit the habit, but she's getting tired,she feels like she's hitting against a wall. Jlo is a 24/7 workaholic,and Ben is a layback kind of guy who just wants to be home drinking his liquor🍷🥃🍸.
Ben comes from a long family of alcoholics. His father was a hardcore alcoholic , he finally quit after 13 years in rehab, and Ben went thru a tough childhood with his alcoholic father. Bens grandmother and uncle were both hardcore alcoholics and both committed suicide. Right now Ben is taking medication for depression and anxiety. Jlo wants to get Ben back into producing movies, something he's very good at, but Ben has to put in an effort first... When Ben was with Garner, many times you'd see Ben super drunk and wasted in their backseat car and Garner driving. That's one thing we all admire from Jlo, she's a tough and strong person, she doesn't take crap from anyone!
some say she's a diva or too
much into herself??!!! Hey, this is Hollywood, everyone acts the part, ... There's another side to Jlo many don't know about...Jlo has a compassionate heart, she's donated millions to help women succeed in life .
No woman should take mental or physical abuse from ANY man!!
My heart does go out to both Jlo and Ben ♥️🫶🏼♥️
@@victoriaromero3587..toxic and sooo stupid
I'm sick of this scenario bc it's sickening. Garner is not planning on giving up on Ben and will do all she can to stay in his life more than she needs to be while he's married to someone else.
He went to spend Mother’s Day at HER house, not the other way around
@lesleymaner2851 So what? It was Mother's Day which is just what Garner wanted anyway. John Miller should have been there too since he is her fiance. But she doesn't want him and uses him to make it look like she doesn't want Ben.
But it doesn't matter bc Ben is just as fickle as he can be and he'll be tired of her AGAIN too.. He'll be tired of her in two months and show himself to be a real jerk and fool to be fooled again by this conniving "snake in the grass".
I'm done with this soap opera!!! So you can go bother someone who gives a damn bc these people are dumb playing games with each other. Ben doesn't really want Garner either and never did. But she's got her crutch using his kids to stay in his life!!! J-Lo better run and take her time being with family & kids while Mr. RIGHT comes along bc it IS NOT Rodriguez either!!!
J Lo clearly cannot keep a relationship. Maybe she’s the problem.
or maybe it’s Ben confiding in his ex????
@PsychicRenegadeTarot
Hes a grown man! He will end up doing what he thinks it's right for him! That's why he's staying away from jlo!
Or maybe is the alcoholic POS .. I know an alcoholic when I see their action so common was married to 2!
Absolutely. She had a new man before she breaks up with the one she is with.
Ben is the FIRST to want to leave her.
She has hurt and cheated on several husbands.
"KARMA" never forgets an address"
U think?
Devote your life to something meaningful don’t waste time observing those who don’t care for you
You just gave some wise advice ❤
This is so disrespectful to Miller and Jlo
IAgree Poor John n Poor Jolo u dont Going Running to your x Ben's wrong that's disgusting shows No Respect for Jlo n John Jeng shpuld be Running to John not Ben's house I be pissed 2 it's not jealousuy it's called respect 4your wife Jlo n poor John
How do you know anything has even happened? It's celebrity gossip. He treated Jen Gardner pretty badly as the mother of his kids. It would surprise me otherwise. I'd say it's bordering on disrespect but that's between John & Jen. Not John, Jen & the whole world.
It's Jen's life to make decisions with. Same with Ben & Jlo. Rumor Jlo tried getting back with Arod... I wonder if any truth to it? Don't see why she would other than make Ben jealous...or at least try to. 🤷♀️
This what the problem is, why are you taking tabloid bs gossip as facts ...what do they or you know about what's really happening ..its called SPECULATUON AND ASSUMPTIONS ..SMH
Exactly!
I AGREE SO DISRESPECTFUL 2 JLO N JOHN I FEEL4 THEM N DONT EVEN HIM BUT JLO MUST BE HURTING INSIDE N WONT SHOW IT WE ALL DO THAT WHEN WE ARE HEARTBROKEN💔💔 TAKE CARE OF U LATERS
HE LOVES HER (GARNER) SO MUCH THAT HE SLEPT WITH THE BABYSITTER 😂😂😂PLEASE
Está como jlo cada día una boda y un
Divorcio 😂😂😂😂
Garner, stay out of Ben. Once your husband is a cheater will still be a cheater. He didn't cheat on Jlo, because he know he has always been in love with Jlo. Problem with their relationship is Jlo, it's very demanding and to much publicity and Ben can't stand all the publicity, Ben knows it was still going to happen. If Garner think going back that Ben I'd goiing to change his bad habits, Garner better star praying that he will change his bad habits, at list for his children. Jlo shouldn't be jealous of Garner she's cute lady, Garner couldn't stand next to Jlo. Jlo is prettier, and better body. They should just stop arguing and get all their life's together, get their divorce done already. There's children involved in this relationship on both side.
STOP
ALL THREE OF YOU
Jennifer Lopez
Ben Aflak
Jennifer Garner
Was it said that he loves J Garner or that he confides in her?
Garner managed to get pregnant from Ben back in 2002 when Jlo was still engaged to Ben. Jlo found out and left Ben. Garner was obsessed with Ben since she met him when they filmed the movie Pearl Harbor...Garner divorced her then husband, then in 2002 she did another movie with Ben (daredevil movie), that's when she purposely got pregnant from Ben . Ben then married Garner , then chaos broke loose in their marriage. Ben told Howard Stern he felt trapped in his marriage to Garner. As soon as Ben would tell Garner he wanted a divorce,Garner would get pregnant over and over again🤦🏼♀️...Garner is immensely OBSESSED with Ben and she'll take his leftover crumbs as long as he comes back to her ( Garner told her bff she'd take Ben back in a minute)... If Ben returns to Garner again, I wouldn't doubt it she gets pregnant AGAIN 🤦🏼♀️..
Garner is not a glamour kind of person,she dresses very thrift style and with plain clothing, (jeans,shirt, and Birkenstock sandals).. one thing she is good at is ,she's a great mother to her kids.
One thing I see bad in Garner is how she snatched Ben from Jlo back in 2002! Garner knew Jlo and Ben were engaged and she didn't respect that engagement ( to me that says alot about her character),, just as long as
she got Ben and had his children ,that was her main goal. Garners now boyfriend is just a side kick she has for meanwhile , until Ben returns to her... Ben will NEVER ever be happy with any woman until he 🛑 stops drinking!!!!
Jlo has tried very hard to help Ben quit the habit, but she's getting tired,she feels like she's hitting against a wall. Jlo is a 24/7 workaholic,and Ben is a layback kind of guy who just wants to be home drinking his liquor🍷🥃🍸.
Ben comes from a long family of alcoholics. His father was a hardcore alcoholic , he finally quit after 13 years in rehab, and Ben went thru a tough childhood with his alcoholic father. Bens grandmother and uncle were both hardcore alcoholics and both committed suicide. Right now Ben is taking medication for depression and anxiety. Jlo wants to get Ben back into producing movies, something he's very good at, but Ben has to put in an effort first... When Ben was with Garner, many times you'd see Ben super drunk and wasted in their backseat car and Garner driving. That's one thing we all admire from Jlo, she's a tough and strong person, she doesn't take crap from anyone!
some say she's a diva or too
much into herself??!!! Hey, this is Hollywood, everyone acts the part, ... There's another side to Jlo many don't know about...Jlo has a compassionate heart, she's donated millions to help women succeed in life .
No woman should take mental or physical abuse from ANY man!!
My heart does go out to both Jlo and Ben ♥️🫶🏼♥️
@@almavelgara3696 Looks do Not keep a man. Ben moved out. He looks miserable with Jlo. There are women far prettier & better than Jlo. You have a lot to learn if you think that keeps a man. It is shallow & superficial.....
Ex's are Ex's for a reason!!!
A Rod made it clear that he doesn't want her back and is enjoying the messy show 🤭😬
He doesn’t want her back because she won’t take him back. He’s a well know serial cheater.
@@shellyt1983 THE truth be known!!! LOL 😆
@@octavia9464 Right, Joe Canseco knows everything! 😎
Horrible Narcissistic to say that!
AROD CHEATED ON JLO n she find out that's y Jlodumped him
Garner did it once and is doing it again. Keep away from a man you divorced and is married, children should not be an excuse. Very disrespectful from both for the children and other partners. Hope Jlo does not reconsider him and dump the narcissist and his ex.
She will learn things don't change.Smile now cry later.
@aidazayas69 There might be something to what you're saying bc Garner still loves Ben he knows that. But he's forgetting how she got him and how mean she was when she found out he still loved Jlo after the time and kids as well as how many years he longed for Jlo.
I think this movie Jlo made was a mistake bc Ben going back to her and marrying her was enough proof that he always wanted her but she keeps worrying about what people say too much. She should have been quiet and enjoyed her relationship. Her tears while introducing the movie showed how hurt she was over losing him and how people talked about her hurt her feelings but people talk. But to hell with those people and people she found out weren't really her friends. Now, her relationship may really be in trouble when she should have remembered how Ben is about too much attention from the paparazzi and lessining her gimmick bc she doesn't need it anymore. She knows Garner's schemes and should have put her foot down when she knew Garner would use her kids to get to him. It's sad; and Garner is about to get hurt again too. So this is a hot mess!!!
@@lrmiller-pz3jr Garner has been using Ben for years ever since they divorced. She still loved him but couldn't stop him from drinking! She thinks she's the only woman with children & all I hear about is these 3 kids! What about Jlo's twins. Nothing is heard about them..they're keeping out of their mother's affairs as long as they know she loves them & has been taking care of them herself without any co parenting from their dad Marc Anthony. He doesn't even pay any money for their child support. Everything was put on Jlo's responsibility to raise them & financially care for them. In contrast to Garner who expects Ben to be financially responsible for his 3 kids even though she makes her own money. She takes the term co parenting to the next level. It should be called co mingling with kids & ex wife!!!
@jeanrita4618 I wouldn't call JG using Ben since the divorce. However, she's played a con game in getting him and keeping him within her reach through the kids. This is what she planned from the very beginning. Most all of her fans think she's the ever-suffering wife but she caused a lot of her own pain with Ben tricking him to marry her; treating him like dirt bc he still loved J-Lo after all the time and kids in their marriage until he fought back by cheating on her and not sleeping with her anymore to avoid unwanted pregnancies with; and finally realizing that she had to treat him better and help him with his drinking hoping it would change his attitude towards the marriage. But it was too late. Ben has forgotten all about this but he will remember when J-Lo is gone.Yes, Lopez has taken on everything with her kids minus the help of Marc Anthony and tried to function without his help. But no one mentions this besides you.
They still act like Garner's kids are the more long-suffering than Lopez's kids while they are much better off not having to see their dad drunk; arguing with their mother; or being an absentee dad when he worked all the time to stay away from Garner. While they watched their mom run behind their dad's cheating with other women and leaking lies or mistruths to the press regarding those women. Yeah, she was showing them great honorable traits of integrity (sarcasm) while she kept the charade of a decent wholesome woman. But the truth will all come out sooner or later while her fans ignore her actions that exposes her con game.
This is why I am sick of this hot mess story that Ben will feel like a fool later on bc he didn't just tell J-Lo that she needed to stop or decrease performing; posing for the camera; and stop trying to prove to everyone that he really loved her the whole time; and tell people to kiss her butt about her beauty, glamor, and whatever as well as treat her subordinates better and they would be okay.
I agree 100%
Ben cud be a lil more respectful by not going to his ex Everytime they hav an argument
This is so true 👍 👏
He was going there before he married jlo ..he only goes because he wants to go
No one forcing him to see jg and children
He loves his family..
We all know how it feels to have a problem & want to talk to someone about it. It has to be someone we trust & for Ben that is Jen Garner....
I can see it now. Jen Garner and her boyfriend hiding behind the couch. Not wanting to answer the door. Hoping Ben will just go away.
Jennifer Lopez is not jealous of Jennifer Garner because Lopez is a star and she will always be. Ben is not acting like a grown up man and his ex wife that he divorced must get out of Ben's face and mind her own business.
SÁBIAS PALAVRAS❗👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Agreed
JLo is a horrible person....hello she's a NARCISSIST!
Too bad for you 😅😅 Jlo is shallow narc. Makes Ben miserable. Ben is happy around sweet Jennifer Garner 😊
@@cynthiaa2782if he was so happy with sweet Jennifer Garner why did he divorce her? Lol he's obviously the problem
Its CALLED RESPECT U WOULDNT WANT YOUR HUSBAND RUNNING TO HIS X N SPILLING ALL YOUR PRIVATE STUFF TO HER THAT DISGUSTING Nomen do that here thank hod it not jealousy it love n Repect 4 your wif jlo not your x 😊
@@user-gb1it8vf8z what is all that jibber garish
SHE DIDN'T SEEM SO SENSIBLE AND DOWN TO EARTH WHEN HE WAS LEAVING HER AND ENDED UP GOING BACK WITH "J.LO.". MISS GARNER SHOULD REMEMBER , WE HAVE VIDEOS OF HER , SERIOUSLY, "NOT LIKING", THE FACT AND SAYING SO ,. THAT BEN HAD REKINDLED HIS ROMANCE AND INDEED HIS ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH MISS LOPEZ.!!!!!..
J Garner should keep away if only to keep her image squeaky clean……if she gets involved with this people will turn on her. JLo should just kick him to the curb he’s not worth the love of either woman……
I think she collects outrageous Engagement Rings & that’s that! Get away Ben & continue with your sober, private & good professional life ❤
@@DebbieMarthey-jn2kh
If the men buy rings worth millions then lucky Jen……and remember she can well afford to ‘buy herself flowers’ and or anything else come to that……
@@caseymcgrath9305exactly 👏👏👏
Jlo kept Ben in her and Arod's business! Did you forget that?
@sherylscott3892 Because they spoke, that doesn't mean Ben was in Arods business.
Because Jennifer Garner is a good person. JLo should be jealous. Some of the horrible first account stories about JLo are horrendous. JLo is about JLo no matter what.
Jlo right No X s involved thats your past worty about poor John your disrespecting x dont run to their house dishusting thats bad n crazy
Its not appropriate for ex-wives to be Meddleing into her Ex husbands new marriage period.
I would not like if my husband's ex gave advice in anyway shape or form
I ❤ ARod he was much better for her 😂😂😂😂😂🫠🫠🫠🫠 And he always looks very happy no matter what 😊😅🫠🤣😁
AROD cheated on her2 with the girl from FROMSouthern Charm
Oh please .. those 2 have become friends they have kids
No she Jenifer garner should move on,she’s always there,waiting and watching like a snake,she just uses the children to stay close to Ben, she should get a life of her own 😡
@PamelaGlasgow-ll5ur three natural kids whats wrong with you?
Ben trusts Jen Garner & feels comfortable with her. I think that's why he confides in her.....
Does not matter what the reason for Ben n Jlo issues, that between them, but Garner should be ashamed of herself, shes always up Ben balls, the kids are one thing, but this Garner always treating Ben like a man/child, n Ben always running to Garner crying to her about everything, its not nice nor healthy its very disrespectful for Miller n Jlo
You have a point but JG is a human being sharing 3 Children and that's not something you just shove aside. She genuinely wants to help him, nothing else
@@ann-mariehuggins-hikel919 whatever. Jennifer Garner is slick and sneaky. She thought having kids would change the way he felt about her. She seems slick always playing this innocent sweet lady she's fake as f***. She should stay out of his marriage.
@@ann-mariehuggins-hikel919 and you believe that? And you know what's going on in her head?😳🥴
Jlo love you girl 💖 listen be the strong woman that you are think clearly what to do don't jump into anything try hard to make it work ask God to help you, just hold on don't pay attention to negative rumors many blessings for you and family 🙏🙏 stay looking beautiful love ❤️🦋🌹
I wouldn't like it either if my man's ex was constantly coming around. It's plain to see that Garner still wants him. I hope Ben thinks this thing through before acting on it bc he wasn't happy without Lopez.
It’s evident that JLO is a raging narcissist. She’s jealous that Ben is happier when he’s hanging around his ex. Jennifer Garner has her own S.O. They share 3 children, and Jennifer has been there for him through his alcohol addiction.
I didn't know Garner was married previously, before her marriage to BenAfflick.
Somehow it makes me feel a little better knowing these millionaires have BM and BD drama too. 🤭🤫
Jen number one ...rather stay away from Ben ...you have a wonderful new man ...now...an alchoholic never changes trust me
Lies.. Millions do
Enough with this negative campaign against Jlo. This article is a lie. Jenifer Garner want Ben with Jlo.
If that were true then she should keep away from him and just have the kids involved and only consult him regarding the kids nothing else. Miller might dump her. I suspect they want to be together again.
@aidazayas69 You are so right!!!
You're so right.@@AZayas23
Jennifer move on and don’t worry about him. He seem to be so unhappy with you so let him go let him be free. Let him be with Jennifer Garner if that’s where he want to be - you will be OK. You are J Lo. Jenny on the block, who’s always on the clock ❤
a quarter between her knees for a few years, singing and acting lessons and raising her children . . . maybe she will come out the other side as a female. 😂
Jlo is Right No past xs in your Marriage its called Respect 4 jlo NO MEN RUN 2THEIR X S N TELLS THEM ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE VERY WRONG HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH JEALOUSEY ITS RESPECT 4 JLO BEN SHOULD HAVE IF HE LOVES JLO U DONT DO THAT RUN TO YOUX THATS YOUR PAST YOU DONT GETT THEM INVOLVED I BE PISSED OFF 2 IM GLAD MY HUBBY DOESNT DO THAT NEVER SER HER M WHO CARES THATS Y CALLED AX PAST TENSE U DONT DEAL EITH THEM ONLY THE CHILDREN WE BELIEVE IN THAT HERE FRIENDS THEIR MEN. DONT SER THEIR X EITHET XS STAY OUT OF MARRIGE THATS Y ITS YOUR PAST U DONT BRING YOUR PAST INTO YOUR FUTURE N JEN G SHOULD BE WORRYING ABOUT JOHN HET PRESENT HIS AND NOT HANGINGOUT WITH HER X HUSBAND BEN SHOULD BE WITH JOHN NOT YOUR PAST ITS JLO JOB TO WORRY ABOUT BEN NOT U WORRY ABOUT YOUR NEW MARTIAGE 2 JOHN ITS CALLEDD RESPECT 4 THE1 U LOVE❤❤
AMEN, EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS FACTUAL TRUTH!!
You are absolutely correct. Great text!!!
@@octavia9464 thanks I know I feel 4jlo my friend threw that till she put her foot down X s are nothing but trouble it'd children only see the fathers here no hanging out n spending holidays that's spent with your current wife not A X laters we shall see takcare of u🤗
@@idabaca3218 thank u N did u know he Brought his X Jen G her A car today did u see that post omg IF MY husband brought his x A Car I'll filing 4 Divoice that's .Theres no boundaries with them .I'm So Happy We dont deal with the x Here in NY n the same with my friends None of our men see or deal with their X s that our past we live in the future n put the past behind only the children see.None of this buying gifts or hanging out with a X Everything is separate thank God that's Drama n Trouble I feel 4jlo n John so disrespectful but guess that's how they roll out there X s are Trouble I dont care who u Are A x has No place in your x s life or his current wife are private that takes Alot of balls n Nerve 2 run 2 your X n talk about your wife Jlo behind her back n spill things about your marriage is sickening no men do that OMG guess we are lucky dont have 2 deal with X s we shall see I guess I sure wouldnt put up that shit well take care of u n thanks laters from NY❤
@@idabaca3218 thanks so sweet🤗
Good for JLO's health! No more stress with dealing with alcoholism and carcinogenic cigarette smoke exposure.
You guys keep forgetting that Garner was married when she went after Ben who was engaged to Lopez.
J-Lo needs to stop trying to prove that Ben always loved her which was evident in his actions all along as well as when he went back to her and married her which includes revealing about the letters.
But more importantly, J-Lo needs to decrease all the public relations bc she knows Ben doesn't want all this all the time and she's married now with all the money she could ever need for the rest of her life.
She needs to stop trying to prove to everyone that Ben loved her all along bc everybody knows that now and demand that Ben put Garner in check bc Garner is still after her man and using the kids to keep him in her life; otherwise, she would have married John Miller. She's using that poor guy which is no different than what she did to Scott Foley and Michael Vartan. She isn't truly a nice person and went after J-Lo's man 17-20 years ago and locked herself in his life with children he didn't agree to have
@@lrmiller-pz3jr 💯% only Ben doesn't seem to realise it. Garner is pretty smart, always pretending to b so goody goody. Not so classy running after compromised men like that.
She once said she didn't get her earrings pierced without her dad's permission.... because of her "extremely strict" upbringing.... but did she ask her parents if it was a good idea to cheat on her then husband with a guy who was engaged and then fall pregnant just a few months into the relationship? Was that ok for strict parents?
I doubt it!!!
Garner needs people to think she is perfect.
There's a letter that she wrote to her son's teacher about how the school had been a safe place for the kids (really beautiful) .... But u don't publish those things.... if u are genuinely a good person u don't need the media to know and publish it.
Plus, every time she does a good deed.... there's the paparazzi right there to film it.
C'moooooooon.
At least JLo doesn't pretend to b a saint.
Also several interviews..... check out Jennifer Gardner and Regina King.... that was crazy. You could see her true colours there.
@@raquelrodriguez8423You guys spend entirely too much time daydreaming about strangers private lives .
Jennifer Garner is family to Ben. They had a life together, children, their families and friends and neighbors. Jennifer Garner is in a 6 year relationship with a cute Attorney. JG wants Ben and his issues out of her life. She put up with his BS for years. She's done. We have no control over what other people do. Ben bugging Jen. They have kids together. She probably feels some obligation. Also if you have ever lived with an alcoholic or addict for years. You'd understand. When it's over. You are done. Done done.
These AI videos are all bullshit. It's some random person's opinion piece. Put out uploaded by a computer to generate clicks likes and views. It's not real. Just like you cackling hens just making shit up and feeding off of it. You're entitled to speculate, your opinion. But doesn't make it true. Are you close friends with all four of them? Do they spill their guts to you?
Right. So you make up a bunch of BS based on a bunch of stupid 30 year old rumours
Ben will never ever be happy with ANY woman until he gets his act together and 🛑 STOPS DRINKING!!! it's a miracle Jlo lasted this long with him. He's not a bad person but he needs to put a stop to his addictions before getting into any relationship. This is why his relationships don't last. Women get burned out and get tired trying to help him stop his addictions. Many times we've seen Ben with a sweaty red face and really upset, it's because he needs a drink!!! Garner told her best friend she would take Ben back in a minute. It all started back in 2001 when Ben and Garner were in the Pearl Harbor movie. This is when a married Garner became obsessed with Ben. Then Garner asked her husband for a divorce immediately. Then in 2002 Ben proposed to Jlo. They were engaged. Then it so happens that Ben was called to be in the movie called Daredevil with Garner. Garner knew Ben was engaged to Jlo but she didn't care as long as she got Ben for herself. That's when Garner got pregnant, then Jlo found out and broke the engagement with Ben. Ben married Garner. Violet was born. Then Ben wanted out of the marriage with Garner. Garner got pregnant again. Ben stayed. Every time Ben asked for a divorce,Garner held him back by getting pregnant. Ben told Howard Stern that he felt trapped in his marriage to Garner. Ben wanted a divorce, but Garner didn't want Ben to leave,so she proposed Ben stay at their back house and he could have his side kicks as long as he was discreet. Then paparazzi caught ben with the nanny, then Garner finally signed the divorce papers. Garner has always been obsessed with Ben🤷🏼♀️... And the latest is that Ben will be in a movie with Garner?🤦🏼♀️
(all hell will break lose if this happens!) . Garner will dump her present boyfriend if Ben decides to hook up with her again. Garner is totally obsessed with Ben! Garner reminds me of the old movie called FATAL ATTRACTION with Michael Douglas and Glenn Close!!😂If Ben returns to Garner then he's not a real man, he's just a wimpy alcoholic who needs a mother figure like Garner who will turn the blind eye with his affairs. Ben needs to 🛑 stop with his addictions!!!
Ben comes from a long family of alcoholics. Ben's father was a hardcore alcoholic and Ben went thru a tough childhood with an alcoholic father. His father finally stopped his addiction after 13yrs in rehab!
Bens grandmother and uncle were both hardcore alcoholics and both committed suicide. Ben is a train wreck ready to crash!
He doesn't realize how bad his addiction is. He is presently taking depression and anxiety medication. Jlo is a 24/7 workaholic. She's constantly busy with her business engagements , her cosmetic line, her Delola wine products and many other investments she currently has....ect, .
She's always on the go, she's a health fanatic, and Ben is the total opposite, Ben is a immensely layback man who loves being home sipping on his liquor 🥃🍷.
Many times, opposites do attract, just like Gwen Stefani and Blake Shelton, Gwen is glamour, and Blake is a dress down layback type of person ,BUT they don't have addictions like Ben does.
Jlo wanted Ben to get back busy filming or directing movies which he's very good at doing. But it's hard when you have an addiction you can't let go of. At least he's managed to do the sequel for the movie THE ACCOUNT #2.
Jlo just wants the best for Ben! Whether Ben is with her or not, she truly wants the best for him, she also cares deeply for him as a best friend. Ben is also very protective of Jlo. Jlo truly loves Ben, but she could only do so much for him, he first needs to make an effort to stop his addictions.... Jlo has a compassionate heart and some may see her as a diva, but remember that in Hollywood you have to play the part, just like many celebrities do with the social media and paparazzi ..My heart goes out to BOTH Ben and Jlo...
♥️🫶🏼♥️
All we hear is that they're divorcing one day , and the next day we hear they're remaining married ,then the following week we see Jlo with Violet Affleck out together, having a good time.... So in reality "NO ONE" really knows Jlo's and Ben's situation right NOW. The social media/paparazzi are just taking pics of Jlo and Ben and are ONLY ASSUMING they're headed for a breakup...but in reality NO ONE really knows🤷🏼♀️🤦♀️
@victoriaromero3587 I said this entire situation was a hot mess. I can't disagree with anything you said bc I know Garner still wants him. He's her kyrptonite and karma for how she played with hearts of Scott, Michael, and now John; poor John got dumped when Ben decided to let the kids meet Ana De Armas during COVID-19. So I'm surprised he went back and got re-engagged to Garner.
But I am done with Ben bc I can't believe he is falling for the same old con that Garner has going again bc he knows he doesn't want her. But he's using her shoulder to cry on again. He doesn't care about anyone but Ben.
J-Lo should move on bc he's not facing his issues.
So sad … money & beauty & fame isn’t a guarantee of a good life.
I can't believe they actually got back together. It feels like last year they were miserable together.
Ben needs to go back to his ex-wife not that he will change his ways he's still going to be the little jerk that is boring and selfish man Jennifer Lopez's too much of a woman for him I hope that she lets him go at least for her own sake and her kids they don't need that kind of negative energy around Jennifer Lopez I'm right behind you I believe in you and women like you it's hard to get a man because they can't handle the competition❤
No one wants their X interference!!!!!! I would not put up with tgat either !!!!!.Ben should grow up and put his wife first ❤
JLo should kick him out, he insults her by running to his ex, how would he feel if it’s the other way around!
Why does this occupy all of us. I hit the wrong site lol!
No need for Jen López to be jealous! She’s gorgeous and she does not have time for drama…Jennifer is a busy working mama and has no time to babysit!!😂
Jennifer Garner is totally different than Jennifer Lopez there is no comparison they're both beautiful but actually Jennifer Garner is a natural beauty she deserves to be happy
Not sure why J LO was so stupid to marry him!!! Maybe she wanted attention or publicity????
I could tell that JLO was making the biggest mistake when she get back Ben Affleck once you date a man an broke up and he go get married with kids have nothing to do with him that’s gonna be a problem there you go
Never get back with an ex don’t do that
Jlo needs to grow up and realize that her life is passing her by all to quickly and if she doesn't wake up ,shes going to be old and alone
I wouldn’t he confide with the women who’s the mother of his children… she needs a reality check! Not everyone revolves around Jlo.. 🙄
She wants the world to revolve around her. Ben is going to trust Garner more, for whatever reason.
You know you wouldn’t like it if your husband was doing that 🙄
I can't stand Lopaz for tons of reasons but I feel it's tacky to talk about present wife to a x wife. But yet I'm g.iggling!! Lopaz wanted everyone cosy I thought?
Both Jenn’s look almost exactly alike. One is more American looking, that’s all.
Omg. Jennifer Gardner should leave both of them alone…. Just co-parent and don’t get involved with this mess. They are extremely troubled people that should spend some time alone figuring out their crap instead of jumping into relationships. I really hope Gardner can move on with her life cause Ben is not it.
Well Gardner is a stable person , plus is smart, very pretty,a good mother. She is the mother of his kids . Jlo needs help her self.
I love Jennifer Garner ❤❤❤❤ that is the father of her Kids. Of course she is there for him.
You call Garner sensible , Garner is not the person to meddle,
He is wrong in doing that!!!!!!
I wish Jennifer wouldn't of gotten back with Ben. He's not marriage material. He doesn't know what he wants. He dumped her years ago and now he is doing it again. He even was unhappy with his first marriage. He's crazy and an alcoholic. No good for JLo. He knew how JLo was before so why is he using this as an excuse to leave her again. He is the one who sought JLo when he was his wife divorcing him and dumping him. He should of left JLo alone. He knew she loved him and he took advantage of that. JLo just date and don't get married again; not worth all the trouble and heartbreak. Jen Garner needs to keep her nose out of Ben and JLo's business too.
It's hard to keep a marriage when you're famous and wants to stay famous. She has to learn to balance.
She needs to stay out of it
Disrespectful to j.lo and miller
If I may ask 'is Ben a baby? If Garner is an Angel 'why did her 1st and 2nd marriages crash?????
JLO YOU LOST ANOTHER MARRIAGE!!! FILE FOR DIVORCE, GEEZ!!!
Sorry but I love Jennifer Garner, more beautiful, very smart and a lot nicer.
I don't understand why everyone thinks Jennifer Garner is so great, as far as I remember, she was married before Ben Affleck to someone else, was already in marriage number 2, then had the nerve to say..."" They fell in love while filming Daredevil, but wasn't he madly in love with JLo and engaged to her? JLo being at the set with him as it was filmed. Wasn't Jennifer Garner the instigator? Then JLo decided not to marry Ben!! ......then all of a sudden Ben Affleck was low key .....healing.......but then was married to Jennifer Garner? And had kids? Now who is in the back seat trying to tell you how to drive.....your car. She should just focus on her boyfriend/fiancee....it's overrated for her to mend Ben, let's not forget the story of the nanny shopping with Ben with our Jennifer Garner. Her kids are old, she needs to let Ben figure it out on his own, with our having your ex wife to cut up your meat in your plate before you eat. 💗💗💗💝
Jenn you are losing ALL YOUR CLASS unfortunately. Get it together girl. Bring back Jenny from the Block please 🙏🏻
He's a jerk at times.
Alex hacia buena pareja cn ella es elegant cmo ella
Si y son caribenos! Pero le puso el cuerno a Jlo. El tuvo la culpa que ella lo dejara. Se dice que a el le gustan las hueritas! Jlo no es huera!😂
@@theempresss2020 es peliteñia en huera😅
which song is playing in the video? Does anyone know that?
Starting to hate JLo so glad to hear that Ben doesn't need to be around that negativity and narcissism everyday❤😊
Ben was engaged to JLO and dump her for Garner while filming Daredevil... You can't trust this Affleck
Jlo has been divorced about 4 times. Common denominator is JLO. Has to be in the limelight, center of attention. Afleck should just divorce. He seems happier alone.
Very disrespectful to J Lo. Great job Ben. You started writing her letters the minute she was broke up with A-Rod, then professed your love to her! Then you made her believe that this was the real deal and then you run away within 24 months. Wonderful. Great job not sticking it out and giving it your all.
Exactly and signed his letters NOT.GOING.ANYWHERE.
Why don’t JLO ask herself why Ben needs to confide with JG….??
Don’t you need to hands to make a sound ??
Grow up please
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why can’t she just change and get rid of her stupid rules. If she loves him that much. She probably couldn’t stand doing that after a week. Jlo isn’t it worth trying and living like a normal couple?❤
Ben needs to grow up. Jennifer G. has moved on with a handsome lawyer and CEO. Ben probably thought Jennifer G. was going to sit around crying about him going back to Jlo. Some men feel powerful when ladies are jealous over them so they do things that make them jealous. Jennifer G. probably has low self esteem from the way Ben treated her so bad when they were married. She was running after him crying and looking pitiful. Ben, Jlo, & Jen G. all need therapy. People are tired of this. Ben and Jlo start giving back to the less fortunate. You got all that riches & fame and just think about yourselves. That’s why you are miserable. You were in rehab. A lot of AA & NA facilities only survive by donations. An addict can sometimes stay up to 18 months for free. You and Jlo go there and visit and help out with money, clothes and food. Go to a assistant living home and take some flowers 🌺 to a lonely person who gets no visitors. Join a church, pay tithes, read your Bible and pray together. Ben you are the man and head of your home. Take responsibility and grow up.
I saw a video yesterday where Garner put her foot down. She's done being in the middle of it. She told Ben no more. Jen's fiance John Miller said enough. Glad someone finally did that.
I feel bad for Jennifer Garner. She's probably so exhausted from his BS.
BOTH JLO AND BEN NEED JESÚS 🙏🏼God help them🙏🏼
Maybe jlow should spend more time worrying about and giving attention to her own kids. She doesn’t seem to give two farts about them unless she needs a publicity shot.
What a nightmare.. adults need to get a grip off your self centered assets and focus on your present ❤ children
Jo is loose and no respect for commitment so she is a perfect fit for Ben , he has no back bone and has not taste love just moving around looking for comfort .
And ARod will take her back? These men need help.
I think it's safe to say that Ben Affleck had a midlife crisis. All time & money just thrown away, not to mention the impact it must have on their kids‼️
He always looks angry 😡 I don’t see how she deals with him.
I FEEL SOOO BADLY FOR JLO! SHE IS GETTING SO MUCH HATE FOR WHAT EXACTLY?? NOTHING! SO WHAT IF SHE LIKES THE ATTENTION! SHE'S A DAMN STAR, DUH! I HATE THAT EVERYONE IS QUICK TO SAY THAT THIS IS HER FAULT, NO! IF ANYTHING HE HAS USED AND ABUSED BOTH THESE WOMEN FOR 20 PLUS YEARS!! FOR JLO BEN IS THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY, WE ALL HAVE ONE OF THOSE, I FEEL SO BAD FOR HER!! JLO DESERVES BETTER BOTH JENNIFERS DO!! WTF??
Jlo is jealous cus she has no relationship with any of her ex's
JLO exes probably wanted to milk her for money, who would keep in touch them.
Jlo is jealous of JG leave her alone it’s not her fault. He is the father of her children of course she needs him to be well for the kids, stop the jealousy she’s a great mom and knows how to co- parent with her ex.
Ben Affleck doesn't have a crumb of jealousy towards JLo he's probably saying Thank God now she's somebody else's problem
These people, especially JLo, have the sickest arrangements with their relationships. It’s like musical chairs and they’ve all worn it out.
I don’t believe for a minute that Jennifer Garner even wants Ben back, I think it’s good they get along for the kids they have together, last I read was she was pushing Ben and Jlo to try and get along.
Jlo your children deserve better jlo where is your Dignity
Too much Info 😂❤
Let him see stay with Garner count your losses and cut
Ben and Jennifer Garner are friends with each other and co parenting their children together. Jennifer Garner has her own Man and Jennifer Garner was trying to save their marriage ( Ben's and JLO's) there's no cheating there with Ben and Jennifer Garner
I'm not a fan of JLo however I don't blame her for being jealous. JLo is still Ben's wife & he can do whatever he wants after they get divorced. Garner should step back from these two unless she still has "feelings " for Ben. Isn't Garner engaged? Well, this is HOLLYWOOD, not surprised. 😂😂😂
Jlo needs to stay single not even divorced yet and already moving on to other men Jlo is giving herself a BAD name and Garner is just beautiful inside and out she's not a trashy person she's all about her kids Jlo is all about herself, Jlo turn your trashy into classy
This has to be the saddest story - ever told. ( pun intended )
When ben with you he became so old but with Jen he had a very lovely smile
She can’t be alone. It’s embarrassing! He should know dating her is being alone. Not sure why his self esteem is so low.
Garner should go ahead and marry this new guy who is is perfect 👍 for her period.???.❤️✅👀.???.😅😮😢.