LGBTQ+ Love Note: A Conversation With Elissa Steamer | Jeff Grosso’s Loveletters to Skateboarding

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024

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  • @only1symo
    @only1symo 4 года назад +73

    Props for all involved in making this. Grosso admitting like the majority of us being part of the problem is a massive thing. Be an ally is what I am taking from this.

    • @johnfodo4129
      @johnfodo4129 4 года назад +1

      🤘🤘🤘

    • @flexxmobil
      @flexxmobil 4 года назад +8

      I brought up this video series at my local skate park. Just the same as Jeff (RIP) I admit that I was once part of the problem and it warms my heart to see other skaters supporting the message and the movement.

    • @ShockTheMonkey35
      @ShockTheMonkey35 18 дней назад

      ​​@@flexxmobil I was doing it a little bit too without even knowing i was doing it lol We just gotta make sure we're solid parents and teachers (from here on out)
      🤘☠️🤘

  • @kohinoir7202
    @kohinoir7202 4 года назад +26

    Always liked Elissa a lot and the older I get the more I respect her.
    Twenty years ago I didn't really think how unusual it was for a woman to be a pro skater because one of my best friends in skating was a girl, but especially now with a new generation of awesome female skaters really ripping it out there, who grew up with her as an example I realize how monumental her contribution to skateboarding probably was.
    That and she just oozes style.

  • @charl12
    @charl12 4 года назад +16

    Six Stair and Grosso have left a very special legacy with Love Letters. Thank you for investing the time and effort to bring us this magnum opus.

    • @only1symo
      @only1symo 4 года назад +2

      Adam Priest don’t forget Vans for their funding of it too!

  • @gustawkefqd2848
    @gustawkefqd2848 4 года назад +41

    This wil probably be the last time for grosso to tell us to go skate. Im going to miss that

    • @theramplocal
      @theramplocal 4 года назад +2

      Im going to skate this weekend, thanks Jeff

  • @firstlast4516
    @firstlast4516 4 года назад +19

    This video should have way more views. I'm a straight white guy and could watch this kind of stuff all day. Two super rad people having a pretty honest and revealing conversation just like we should probably all try to do. RIP GROSSO

  • @wikionthisfreestyle
    @wikionthisfreestyle 4 года назад +5

    Damn Grossman my eyes where getting sweaty from your intro . It's like you're still here and I'm still waiting for the next loveletters and geeking out when the next episode drops ❤❤

  • @logojones96
    @logojones96 4 года назад +18

    so awesome theyre uploading all the full interviews that got cliped in the video

  • @Ari2_cute
    @Ari2_cute 3 года назад +4

    Elissa Steamer is a fucking gem I love her so much and always look up to her she ran with the most important skaters and she's just as if not MORE IMPORTANT in the skate community ❤️💯💪 love you girl keep being you and never stop!

  • @leorey2649
    @leorey2649 4 года назад +7

    That fucking feeling of hearing someone talk and think: "He should have been talking 20 more years..."

  • @MrSyabilLopez
    @MrSyabilLopez 4 года назад +5

    Thank you for shedding Light unto the LGBTQ 🏳️‍🌈 Community ✊🏻🌈

  • @mr.farmerskatesandcreates6848
    @mr.farmerskatesandcreates6848 4 года назад +8

    Cut Elissa off at 10:17 and proceeded to take an epic run leaving Elissa on the deck, so to speak. Notice how she leans in and allows him the space to process. Part of being an ally is checking yourself and listening without feeling the compulsion to sound off about your own truth. I really want to know what Elissa was going to say. So grateful for Grosso using his platform the way he did. I mean no disrespect.

    • @bs48267
      @bs48267 4 года назад +1

      lol yeah conversations be like that. 2 way streets

    • @ShockTheMonkey35
      @ShockTheMonkey35 18 дней назад

      Did u mean at 10:07? I kept rewinding it and didnt know what u were talkin bout til i finally rewound to 10:00 then saw the sceeen slide right at 10:07........but i saw Grosso get amped up about a thought and Elissa let him continue, thats prolly what u meamt then huh

  • @Cubehead666
    @Cubehead666 4 года назад +20

    Elissa's so damn cool, and Grosso died a saint. I love youse guyse. 🌈🙏

  • @matejamatic1329
    @matejamatic1329 4 года назад +16

    probably my favorite love letter interview ever. jeff really just listens and takes it all in, it's so awesome to see. RIP Grosso, thanks for everything you did :)

  • @TJGAMINGSCOTLAND
    @TJGAMINGSCOTLAND 2 года назад +2

    I literally had a picture of Elissa steamer in Tony hawks pro skater 3 taped to my lunch box in primary school and I was so proud and happy. I wanted to be just like Elissa and hopefully I’ll learn to skate soon. Love you Elissa and keep smiling, we love you ❤️🤘

  • @KumQwatt42
    @KumQwatt42 4 года назад +3

    Grosso is the fucking man!!! I love that he stood up for something he believed in so strongly, even though you can see he struggles with the verbiage, Im sure it mean so much to so many people, that its OK just to be you. RIP Jeff Grosso

  • @kw6466
    @kw6466 4 года назад +2

    There has been a lot of posts taken down about rollerbladers and I want to set this straight. Jeff never cared I was rollerblader. Elissa treated me amazing in Fort Myers. Jamie Thomas stopped filming in Miami to watch me skate and clapped. I worked woodward for many years and most of my friends skateboarded. This isn't about hate on rollerblading. That is like us bad mouthing bmx riders for chunky ledges. Kids did say bad things to everyone at times and it sucks. Tony Hawk and I talked about how rollerblading got a bad deal. The best thing I've ever heard was Matt Milligan say "I like rollerblading because it is hated just like how skateboarding was when I started." So yes.... there is love all around. Go be you, and have fun doing it

  • @chasekoobi2366
    @chasekoobi2366 4 года назад +8

    Elissa!!!!!!

  • @cjnorfla7632
    @cjnorfla7632 4 года назад +3

    We love you Grosso, we love Lyon Steamer! Heroes in my youth, heroes forever! Praise the Letters!

  • @mahoney1360
    @mahoney1360 4 года назад +8

    I don’t know if I sound crazy but I could see Elissa as Phelps’ successor

  • @bargerkenneth
    @bargerkenneth 3 года назад +3

    I don't know man, this might be Grosso's best work. He is clearly uncomfortable at times but he has the courage to just be there and be uncomfortable and do it anyway. Because it's important. RIP.

  • @johnnyc.3261
    @johnnyc.3261 4 года назад +8

    Just a couple legends talking. RIP Grosso 🖤❤️

  • @sloveniesta
    @sloveniesta 2 года назад

    Why are both my eyes sweating!?! We miss you, Jeff, and Elissa is still a superstar!!!

  • @witchywoods267
    @witchywoods267 Год назад

    I miss Jeff so bad. I need him to still be here.

  • @kyleschwake5021
    @kyleschwake5021 4 года назад +9

    Elissa is so dope! 🙌

  • @morgellon9449
    @morgellon9449 4 года назад +18

    Oh, man. If they still have any other longer interviews he did for Loveletters over the years they should upload them. Or maybe just some highlights. I'm sure there's a lot of great stuff that just couldn't fit on the episodes.

    • @gorryman
      @gorryman 4 года назад +3

      True but it has to be part of some pc agenda , and that’s what’s sad , Jeff is gone all the love letters edits should drop not just the ones that fit the new narrative

    • @morgellon9449
      @morgellon9449 4 года назад +1

      @@gorryman I doubt there'd be a lot in his interviews that wouldn't fit within the scope of modern cultural sensibilities. The most controversial stuff would no doubt be about freestyle. Some of those interviews might be considered inflammatory just because of his treatment of a certain much-beloved professional skateboarder.

    • @morgellon9449
      @morgellon9449 4 года назад

      Oh, wait, there's also Jason Jessee. Yeah, he's probably cancelled for the time being. Hindsight's 2020!

    • @fartspoo4244
      @fartspoo4244 4 года назад +1

      Morg Ellon any more grosso is good. I miss em even though I never met him.

    • @Jordan-oi5vk
      @Jordan-oi5vk 4 года назад +4

      @@gorryman you're a complete idiot. Showing respect to those who are different is not 'pc agenda.' It's called being a decent human being and important for the culture so more people aren't as stupid as you are.

  • @jonredifer3224
    @jonredifer3224 2 года назад

    Elissa shreds and she is an absolute legend and class act on and off of her board.

  • @sess845
    @sess845 Год назад

    Grosso's definitely done some of the hard work by the time of this interview. Thanks, man. RIP.

  • @lancedavidson2995
    @lancedavidson2995 2 года назад +2

    Hands down best female skater ever

  • @jeffcon123
    @jeffcon123 3 года назад +1

    She seems chill dude.. def a rad Skate legend from a time when skating blew the fuck up! Thank tony hawk for that! Lol I remember the style taking hold! lol I’d die for some old birdhouse or world industries gear now.. CCS WAS MY JAM

  • @yasko_jasko
    @yasko_jasko 4 года назад +4

    I think we can all agree that this dude will leave a huge hole in our world... but mostly for myself i hope oliver is ok! and i hope he feels the love from us all spreading towards him!!!

  • @Quesly1
    @Quesly1 4 года назад +6

    I honestly don't think they could have done this without Elissa and BA. They're the two most respected LGBTQ+ skateboarders imo. Elissa's point about skateboarding not being as inclusive on the inside as we think it is interesting.I don't know if that has a deeper meaning like how skaters are marketed or if shes talking about dudes at skateparks not being welcoming enough. I honestly think it comes from a lack of communication on both sides. going to the skatepark where you don't know anyone is intimidating to everyone not just women and LGBTQ people(granted I would imagine its worse) but I could be wrong, but I think its a "they're as scared of you as you are of them".

  • @philliph.p.1985
    @philliph.p.1985 4 года назад +2

    Oh shit the og, triple og, Steamer

  • @fattzo_films
    @fattzo_films 4 года назад +3

    Simply amazing👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @greedygreggor
    @greedygreggor 4 года назад +3

    That was an epic conversation. Miss you Mr Grosso x

  • @scottieskatan4219
    @scottieskatan4219 4 года назад +3

    thank you...

  • @alanaday
    @alanaday 4 года назад +5

    these full length convos are my favorite!! Elissa Steamer you're a legend, love y'all forever #B4L 🤙🏼🦋💖🌈

  • @RappinAcoustic
    @RappinAcoustic 2 года назад +1

    Skateboarding lost a piece of its soul the day Grosso passed.

  • @johnfodo4129
    @johnfodo4129 4 года назад +2

    There's never going to be a another Jeff Grosso RiP Brother 🤘🤘🤘

  • @jessevanderkolk7902
    @jessevanderkolk7902 3 года назад

    I realise language is everything! Sometimes I realy dont want to offend anyone but feel like i am walking a tightrope with the other person and this creates tension which i wish that wasnt there. As in i want to hang out and be apreciated for my vibe, not the conotation that somebody else has with a certain word.

    • @sess845
      @sess845 Год назад

      The more you do it, the easier it gets.

  • @gorryman
    @gorryman 4 года назад +5

    Skateboarding used to be way more inclusive actually if you skated you were crew now it’s a bunch of jocks wearing Nike skating smooth parks and hating on newcomers

  • @the_ancient_ways
    @the_ancient_ways 3 года назад

    Miss you Grosso

  • @julenoa4289
    @julenoa4289 4 года назад +4

    Gonna miss him sending us away to skate... R.I.P. Jeffrey

  • @paulstephens9703
    @paulstephens9703 2 года назад

    Grosso is my favorite.. legend!! It's all about acceptance I think that's the word that these two were looking for in many points in this interview.. acceptance.. grosso sucks,!! grosso forever ,!!! Rip my friend....it's a lifestyle go out and fucking shred

  • @DeviantSkateboards.
    @DeviantSkateboards. 4 года назад +3

    🌈❤️🖤

  • @adambravo2353
    @adambravo2353 4 года назад +5

    At local parks in Seattle, the biggest homophobic brutes are the rich kid scooter riders. Of course they suck.
    I miss you Mothra. Thank you Elissa.

  • @barrenwasteland7782
    @barrenwasteland7782 19 дней назад

    Growing up i never experienced an overwhelming feeling of inclusion. From the skate community and outside. Everyone has always only treated me decent when i had something to offer. And as a poor kid, you have nothing so therefore youre treated as nothing. Dogged for your ride, dogged for your clothes dogged for your lack of skill. My only inclusive feeling ever was alone. Isolated and away from anyone. Nights skating is the best skating.

  • @sonnypadilla9681
    @sonnypadilla9681 3 года назад

    Six stairs gotta make a grosso documentary

  • @gforcethomas
    @gforcethomas 3 года назад +1

    Props to Elissa for doing all the emotional labour in this interview, geez dude, let her fucking talk!

  • @Ari2_cute
    @Ari2_cute 3 года назад

    This is so fire 🔥💪

  • @sbarbozag
    @sbarbozag 4 года назад +2

    RIP Grosso, legend

  • @theramplocal
    @theramplocal 4 года назад

    Fucking love Grosso, RIP

  • @tao_2015
    @tao_2015 4 года назад +2

    Love this ❤️❤️

  • @cy_b0r
    @cy_b0r 6 месяцев назад

    ngl i teared up a bit there

  • @user-kt1kb7rm7o
    @user-kt1kb7rm7o 4 года назад +3

    ❤️

  • @K-FOREST_Original
    @K-FOREST_Original 4 года назад +2

    As always, it's probably a story from a long experience.

  • @leorareagan5704
    @leorareagan5704 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for this.

  • @nerifish2
    @nerifish2 4 года назад +10

    The dislikes in this video just hurts

    • @johnfodo4129
      @johnfodo4129 4 года назад +4

      Like Grosso said there's people who own skateboards and people who skateboard🤘🤘🤘agree bro there assholes

  • @matthewfaulks7116
    @matthewfaulks7116 4 года назад +3

    Now you just need to apologise to all the other action sports and riders you have put down in the past. Skateboarding has alot to answer for after years and year's of hate culture.

  • @donpettyandthespacefakers1798
    @donpettyandthespacefakers1798 4 года назад +1

    Alva story was that a joke Vans you’re not really putting that out ?

    • @vans
      @vans  4 года назад +1

      It's coming in September. Sorry for the delay.

    • @69DildoPileup
      @69DildoPileup 4 года назад

      There is A LOT of story / stories to the TA story. Legend Status dictates its own time. (But yeah, I'm dying to see it too)...

    • @donpettyandthespacefakers1798
      @donpettyandthespacefakers1798 4 года назад

      LoResViscera ....I hear you it’s just it was teased for June the movie has already been shown like a year ago was just wondering what is all the delay for I literally do not understand how all that works I’m not mad or anything I was a little chapped it didn’t come in June but what are you gonna do

    • @69DildoPileup
      @69DildoPileup 4 года назад

      stanaclausisanalien 101 i’m on the same page w/ u, Brother!

    • @donpettyandthespacefakers1798
      @donpettyandthespacefakers1798 4 года назад

      I’m talking about the documentary that they teased for June why do you have alternative way to watch it?

  • @dealwithitsf
    @dealwithitsf 4 года назад +3

    "and the last thing i want to do is beat up on somebody else and make them uncomfortable or make them not feel safe "
    like skateboarders have been doing to bladers (and now scooters) for decades when they go to a skatepark. they say all this then champion a magazine or brands that outwardly have been teaching generations for decades to hate others because they brought the wrong toy to the skatepark. love the sentiment but you cant have it both ways

    • @13Clicks
      @13Clicks 4 года назад +1

      Don’t forget the hate on bmx as well. I hope we all can be more accepting to others in the future. I’m going through things in my head that I’ve said in the past... I regret them but now know I need to be a better loving human. Learning is powerful. Thanks to all for this video.

    • @jonathonhayes2293
      @jonathonhayes2293 4 года назад +1

      Fuck You

    • @Dylan-li2nf
      @Dylan-li2nf 4 года назад

      I see your point but to compare homophobia to making fun of a stereotype of scooter riders getting in skaters way isn’t fair. Yeah we could be more accepting of everyone.

    • @dealwithitsf
      @dealwithitsf 4 года назад +1

      @@Dylan-li2nf i wasn't trying to compare the two. i was pointing out the hypocrisy of saying your inclusive and for all people then promote magazines and brands that go out of their way (for decades) to do the complete opposite

    • @Dylan-li2nf
      @Dylan-li2nf 4 года назад

      But it’s not hypocritical. Hating people for something that’s not their choice is different for hating someone for what they choose to do. Honestly most skaters I know don’t care unless it’s a little kid getting in the way. If they do it’s usually also a homophobic person who makes fun of people for wearing helmets. But yeah I agree those people suck

  • @mikearisbrocken8507
    @mikearisbrocken8507 4 года назад

    We need more of these!!!!

  • @emmanueljames9029
    @emmanueljames9029 3 года назад

    R.i.p Jeff Grosso

  • @jamesleakey247
    @jamesleakey247 4 года назад +1

    'Turn this shit off. . . .go skate'

  • @buddytrail
    @buddytrail 4 года назад

    Who the fuck is down voting this?!!

  • @johndef5075
    @johndef5075 4 года назад +1

    Who gives a fuck about who somebody else loves?

  • @starrealm2621
    @starrealm2621 4 года назад

    8:18 quick!!! whats the average age kids develop an awareness of their own sexuality !?

  • @GegeOneBMX
    @GegeOneBMX 3 года назад

    Like 567. Boa noite!

  • @element19961
    @element19961 4 года назад +4

    Skateboarding isnt or shouldn’t be politics, just skate and have fun

    • @sess845
      @sess845 Год назад

      It's easier to have fun when you're not oppressed or bullied.

    • @element19961
      @element19961 Год назад +1

      @@sess845 thanks for the insight Karen is what I want to say but on a real level I don’t care what race, religion, creed or gender you are as long as you’re not insufferable.

    • @sess845
      @sess845 Год назад

      @@element19961 Thanks for helping make my point. 😉

  • @kyddshine
    @kyddshine 3 года назад

    Fucking great.

  • @hookkups
    @hookkups Год назад +3

    "today on skateboarding topic, lets talk about where we like to put our genitals"

  • @Seqaa
    @Seqaa 4 года назад +2

    First

  • @skaterboistarterpack
    @skaterboistarterpack 4 года назад +1

    You guys are weird

  • @shiatafoya
    @shiatafoya 3 года назад +1

    Ewwwwww

  • @StormWatcher313
    @StormWatcher313 2 месяца назад

    Rip in peace Grosso

  • @tidezzz4222
    @tidezzz4222 4 года назад

    First