I've learned so much from it and now I realized that I've been making some good decision for myself as a single 33 year old with no kids. I'm not allowing no man to give me kids and ruin my body and mental health then leave me stress out and looking crack like Erica. I'm so proud of myself for not settling with any no good man, seeing how safare chase her then ruin her is crazy
Do you have any tips on how to avoid such situations? My ex did the same thing and I can’t figure out how exactly I can avoid that. He used to shower me with affection and love and open up to me about everything and anything and the after 6 months into dating, everything changed.
Ugh, Safaree is so cringe! He’s the type of man who’s only interested in the hunt. The monute he has what he wants, he loses interest immediately. He’s an immature, anti-social narcissist. Not and never marriage material!
Wanted her so bad and was so persistent to get her pregnant, marry, cheat, and then divorce her. What a joke. I always say if you're intentions are ill leave the female alone!!!!! She was fine without u.
I love how she respected him and herself enough to say we can try that afterwards but stay focused for what you here for. Another chick would've used that to the fullest advantages they could.
Look at him how he was chasing Erica and now that he has her and they have two babies he's so checked out of the relationship it's so crazy how much he's changed
Erica knew Safaree fucked Tiffany in the house That's why she was acting tough on Safaree the whole time thru out the game But she kind of liked him thou
I get it now when she said he wasn't into her as he was before. His demeanor with her is completely different. He was actually adorable when it came to her. He did a complete 180. I feel bad for her.
U ever wonder why that is something had to happen in that house to make him switch up no dude gonna switch up like that for no reason if everything is all good and she treating the man accordingly
And them's married noooow!!! Lol I love it. You can speak things into existence. Maybe not in the moment but you be patient. What's for you won't pass you
In hindsight, Safari showed his true colors. He played her and she knew it but she wanted to believe in Love. He wanted to prove he could get what he wanted.
I had to come back and re watch this to see where Safaree and Erica started to know where they're at now. It's sad now cuz he used to say Erica is the closest thing he'll have to a family
Do we all realize how powerful Words are? This man had a vision of him and Erica Mena together, and it came to pass. She's engaged to him, and about to have his child. I hope they go all the way and get married. No need for them to half step, when the love is already there.
Looking at this November 2022 it's truly tragic watching Erica and Safree. He chased her, did everything is his power to convince her to change her mind and give him a chance. He got in her head and she fell in love. She believed it was love but it was honestly about lust for Safaree, he just took it too far bc he didn't want to let her go. Now she is trapped with 2 babies, a single mom of 3, completely publicly embarrassed and she looks it. I hope she grows and heals from this, nobody deserves this esp the children
Safaree and Erica are so adorable together. My boi knew she was the one. Now, she pregnant. Glad he found his future wifey. Love his personality he is hilarious. 😂😂🤣
When he leaned in for a kiss, was so cute. Even though she played him he didnt stop. Now that's not being thirsty GENTLEMEN that's a man knowing what he wants and not giving up. AND woman know when a good man is in front of you. All YALL GROW UP!!!
@For the love of bonnie deffiantly, they were very toxic for eachother, those 12 years of being together was a domestic on both ends💯 im happy for both of them.
Watch Erica & Safaree react to their time together on Scared Famous 😍: ruclips.net/video/aJ6k5BbMz_8/видео.html
Ageing badly
True true
@@calebilhan3669so sad that it did no one's perfect but life is for real and unfair
I'm so glad this was recorded. It's almost unreal where they are today. Ladies, be careful.
He chased her down like a puppy dog.
Vice versa
It takes one person to ruin your whole life smh
Men too
I've learned so much from it and now I realized that I've been making some good decision for myself as a single 33 year old with no kids. I'm not allowing no man to give me kids and ruin my body and mental health then leave me stress out and looking crack like Erica. I'm so proud of myself for not settling with any no good man, seeing how safare chase her then ruin her is crazy
She should’ve trusted her intuition….never deny your thoughts the first time it tells the future for you.
Do you have any tips on how to avoid such situations?
My ex did the same thing and I can’t figure out how exactly I can avoid that. He used to shower me with affection and love and open up to me about everything and anything and the after 6 months into dating, everything changed.
Never deny your intuition I have one of the smartest intuitions .
@@wompwomp1099 be careful when they’re super affectionate with you in the beginning of the relationship. it’s called love bombing.
Yep a love that starts with to much affection will most likely not last a love that gets build will most likely last longer
I was thinking that too , from the start she wasn’t with it at all you could tell :/ that was her intuition all along
erica: just jump in the shower
safaree: with?
erica: the soap... and the water....😂😂😂
SubZero J lmao I was cracking up
🤣🤣🤣🤣
SubZero J 😩✅
I died 🤣🤣
Classic
Awwww Ericas old face....BEAUTIFUL
Right! Now her teeth smile area looks much too big for her frame.
@@bellucigucci and she got buccal fat removal which will make you look older.
She looked way better back then yeah her old face lol was beautiful
The way Safaree begged to have her, she trusted him with her heart, fell in love and he acted a fool the entire marriage 🤦♀️
🎯💯
Right. I still can’t get over how he thirsted over her just to play with her like that. It’s beyond me, for real smh.
who’s here after they’re engaged with a baby on the way 😩😩
heaven bankss meeeeee
Meeeee
Me and it’s hilarious. He was determined.
Meeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!😂😂😂
Me!! And just got married too
She read him straight so many times..I don’t get why she have him a chance 😢 when people call us mean-let them. Protect your peace!!!
THIS!!? Her gut instinct was spot on!!
She said her father had passed during that time
Idk why I just watched this again but he literally wore her down with all those sweet nothings and empty promises. He love bombed her basically. SMH
@@Watermelonchiliso she was vulnerable and he took advantage?
Look how free she looked and happy! He ruined her life 😢
Literally!! She looks so exhausted and ran down now
Yep, she looks bad at the reunion.
It sucks the life out of you!
SHE ALLOWED IT
@@sheritadavis9228 that was not their point, we get it you hateful, but that wasn’t her point lol
“I ain’t cooking for nobody but you” my husband better have this energy 😂😂😍
morgan badd u must be basic 😂
No that’s selfish as hell
What man have this energy?
Period pooh.💖✨
Ain’t yah supposed to cook?
Ugh, Safaree is so cringe! He’s the type of man who’s only interested in the hunt. The monute he has what he wants, he loses interest immediately. He’s an immature, anti-social narcissist. Not and never marriage material!
So is Erica. They're a reflection of each other
@@evethenor(I’m late, but) Very correct, both narcissists..
You can't even deny it they look so adorable together😍😍😍
Yassss! Adorbs!
Speak into the universe he said “I’ll rub her feet I need her to be healthy to carry my baby for 9months” he loves her very much now...
And here I am 2 years later ... they have a child together
@@zamokuhlengwenyeni6330 and rumours of divorce all over the place
🤔
This is the sort of prophesying I need in my life
And there still together
Why did this man pulled up WITHOUT A SHIRT ⁉️
Bahamian Doll Face this is what I’m trying to figure out. He must’ve took his shirt off right before he got out
Am glad am not the only one confused by this
Why not loll
Ummm....it’s ok
Cz he's lookn Rite! 👍 & loves to shw it off!😍
Manifestation and speaking things into existence is real. 😭🥰🙏🏽❤️
karissa lubin totally ❤️🥰
No its the power of the tongue
@@sparkle_gold8192 I agree
It was a lose lose situation no matter what....he sucks
@@sparkle_gold8192😂😂😂 ok sure
Safari is VH1 gold, he need a show with Erica.
That might be coming next...a whole spin off into the wedding an all....
Fraink White YESSSS!!😍🙌🏾🙌🏾
omggg I would soo watch that!!
How do you guys find these two entertaining? Black people we can do better
I would watch that show. It would be hilarious & The arguments will b epic. It Would B Love & Hip On Steroids & I'm Here For It!!!!! Ijs
Erica : “just jump in the shower!”
Safari: “with?”
Erica:” the soap and the water. “ lmao
🤔
I liked her so much more here than on L&HH
💀
😂😂
Safari personality is everything😍😍 idc wat nobody say! Dude is mad funny
Hey I have a question for you... Will you be my valentine 😍😍😍
K_ Marie I agree and I love them together.
K_ Marie 💯
He is funny cuz he so corny....lol
Big Facts!!
Now he's treating her like garbage.
Fr
Did all that to treat her like that after telling him she pregnant....
And she’s treating him the same 🤷🏾♀️
Wanted her so bad and was so persistent to get her pregnant, marry, cheat, and then divorce her. What a joke. I always say if you're intentions are ill leave the female alone!!!!! She was fine without u.
He fetishized her
Periooddddd
Exactly. It's so stupid, I still can't understand why some men do that. What a waste of time
I think she was calling him racial slurs behind the scenes like she did to Spice. He just didn't say anything.
I believe that and I think Safaree had a deeper connection with Spice then Erica
I love how she respected him and herself enough to say we can try that afterwards but stay focused for what you here for. Another chick would've used that to the fullest advantages they could.
ShaQuieshia Prosser yes I believe that’s why he fell in love with her men love women that are a bit hard to get the ones that have boundaries
Look at him how he was chasing Erica and now that he has her and they have two babies he's so checked out of the relationship it's so crazy how much he's changed
These reality-based tv relationships are fake. They're all clout chasing
He's a narcissist
Classic Narc behavior
He's a textbook narcissist.
That’s how a lot of men are!
Awwww they ended up together in the end and she's pregnant. Lol
Ikrrrrrrrr mad cute
...and now married.
@@michaelgrocher4442 I'm married lol
Michael Grocher dam thirsty 🤣
You don't even know her
And now he says marrying her is the biggest regret of his life 💀 and y’all praising this LOL 😂
😭😭😭
You’ve never lived with Erica and her antics . It probably was the biggest mistake . Erica is no prize 🤷🏾♀️
I smell your 3 trash bags.
And now he has some new woman. (sigh)
@@Tootsieroll22 and Safaree is even less of a prize.
Those playful men like Safari really be waiting on the opportunity to treat their crush like a Queen.
J’adore Alexis yes we do crush
YES THEY DO
@Alexander Metzler How would you know, you ain't getting none
Alexander Metzler lol yup! These girls stay in lala land
J’adore Alexis why is this sooo true 🥰
I need her to be healthy to carry my baby for 9 months LOL!!!!
Where !!!!
😂😂😂
blacc chyna 7:25
Isn’t this cute they really got married he was being real with her
is she pregnant now?🤣
When he tells you he loves you and you dont believe him and then he shows you😍
Then embrasses the life out of you after two children
Now look…😑 No matter how wrong Erica was in her past relationships she was truly tricked into her marriage.
“This guy Safaree brings roses to Erica’s grave and I’m like are you serious rn, bro you’re the one that put her out” 😂😂😂🤣
When a man knows his wife it's from DAY ONE Ladies take note he chased her and waited. Now she pregnant and about to be his wife. I'm here for it 🙌🏾
AfricanBrit Junior me too
Love it 😍
You said it baby!!! Omg you said a man knows a man knows!!!!! PERIOD
Right! 😍 Erica tried to run, but she couldn’t 🙌🏽😊
Period
He's the first n probably only conceited man that I actually like lol
Probably cuz he's not arrogant with it
@@TheDeboross and hes funny
@@TheLbeebe7 aaah if you say so
@@TheDeboross Welp I think he is lol
@@TheLbeebe7 i guess
So this is where it all started. I thought them being together was the most random thing
Lol same... But this was sweet
Right ! Was trying to figure this out
me too. i had no idea. lol
Erica: "the way to my heart is rubbing my feet"
Safaree: "yeah I can tell I've gotten no where with u"
💌💌💌💌
😭😭
Erica knew Safaree fucked Tiffany in the house That's why she was acting tough on Safaree the whole time thru out the game But she kind of liked him thou
I love how Safaree is proud of his native island #Jamaica .
I get it now when she said he wasn't into her as he was before. His demeanor with her is completely different. He was actually adorable when it came to her. He did a complete 180. I feel bad for her.
U ever wonder why that is something had to happen in that house to make him switch up no dude gonna switch up like that for no reason if everything is all good and she treating the man accordingly
I wonder what she did ?? He seems to be disgusted by her
Safaree so dang dramatic, when he put those roses on erica's grave then yelled NOOOOOOOOOOO
I hollered
The walk before he got there 😂😂😂😂 "I just can't believe.. That I'm the one who.. *gulps dramatically*.. Had to take her out "😂😂😂
Wow it's crazy watching this cause she's pregnant now
Lmao yeahhh
And them's married noooow!!! Lol I love it. You can speak things into existence. Maybe not in the moment but you be patient. What's for you won't pass you
The fact he said I need her healthy she will be carrying my baby for 9 months, and now she really is has got to be the cutest thing ever ♥️!!
Manifestation is a real thing! I love it 🙌🏾🙌🏾 & their signs are super compatible lol Scorpio & Cancer ❤️
No that’s not cute. That’s like saying I need her healthy so she’ll be my baby mother. What is wrong with you you guys?
@@yumiko0017 They got married. She didn't end up a baby momma...lol.
@@bxvs2732 they’re divorced now so…
I like Safaree though I hope him & Erica works out
Jazxs they’re getting married. I’m pretty sure it’s working out lmao
The people's champ 1983 difference is bow wow never respected her.
Y'all really be falling for this hollyweird okie dokes, none of these hollyweird relationships are real. It sells. That's all it does. Wake up u ppl
One Quirky Individual so what you’re saying is people from Hollywood can’t love..? Right?
Oh, it did. They're engaged, hun.
This makes me so mad to see how he chased her so hard and she finally gave in only to be mistreated typical male behavior
I ain’t cooking fo nobody but choo!😂😂😂
Cake Face lol 😀
hahahah
In hindsight, Safari showed his true colors. He played her and she knew it but she wanted to believe in Love. He wanted to prove he could get what he wanted.
Exactly.
I had to come back and re watch this to see where Safaree and Erica started to know where they're at now. It's sad now cuz he used to say Erica is the closest thing he'll have to a family
"Erica gives me a warm tingly feeling on the inside so when it comes to a foot rub.. IMMA DO IT"💀💀
I think its cute how cheesy and romantic and confident safaree is. They both deserve happiness and love. ❤❤
Erica looks so much better here than she does now with all that surgery.
He was more in love with the chase then her.
He was always in LUST with Erica!
Safari is a sweet Hart I’m glad he found love
Hart as in a member of Kevin hart's family?
@@MrCwow lmfaooo
In a hopeless place
This didn’t age well
Lol he was actually playing the game😳😬😭.. She was the only one who actually fell in love aww😭😭
"Your my closest hope to having a family" lmao
Do we all realize how powerful Words are? This man had a vision of him and Erica Mena together, and it came to pass. She's engaged to him, and about to have his child.
I hope they go all the way and get married. No need for them to half step, when the love is already there.
Chocolate Thunder they are officially married now!
@@CandyxXCain89 I know that's right.
They have a baby now!
Lols this did not age well 😂
@@aj8124 Ain't that the Truth 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I support this relationship....fake or real. I think they're a great match.
😂😂😂
They do come come to poppa 😂😂😂
ConnectTheDots W/Liv I do too
Me too 💪💪💪💪
This show was in 017 they been dating just goes to show you how fake all this reality TV is
Erica’s face was so much more natural and pretty.
Yo lmfao those two play too much. I see why they work
Olivia Sandhu lmao
Looking at this November 2022 it's truly tragic watching Erica and Safree. He chased her, did everything is his power to convince her to change her mind and give him a chance. He got in her head and she fell in love. She believed it was love but it was honestly about lust for Safaree, he just took it too far bc he didn't want to let her go. Now she is trapped with 2 babies, a single mom of 3, completely publicly embarrassed and she looks it. I hope she grows and heals from this, nobody deserves this esp the children
At the reunion she looked frail and tired😭 he sucked the life out of her
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Man I love Safaree. He's super funny. Erica is super lucky and I'm super happy for her
Shani Shay your super cute
@@Hush_ent well Thank you
Shani Shay snap chat mrwalker2u
If someone use super one more time ! Gadamnit😂I’m gunna flip.. nah I’m playing but yea I like safaree he’s pure tv
Yodre 800 ok u sound hella thirsty 😂but get it 😂😊👌🏾
“Just jump in the shower it’ll come right off”
“Just jump in the shower”
“Wiiiiiiith?”
“The soap and water??”
Adrienne Neal 😂😂😂
who here after they about to get married and they having a baby ❤️!!
Safaree is something else 😂😂😂
“The soap & the water” 😂😂
*The way Safaree screamed “Whhhhhhhhhyyyyyyyy?” at Erica grave. I hollered so damn loud until my teacup puppy ran fast out my room.* 🤣🤣🤣😭
Safaree is a #typical Jamaican -wear a lot of Jamaican colors all the time just so you know and remember he’s a #Jamaican 😀👏🏾🤷♀️
🇯🇲
Lol for real!!
Straaaaaaaaaight
🤣🤣
Safaree and Erica are so adorable together. My boi knew she was the one. Now, she pregnant. Glad he found his future wifey. Love his personality he is hilarious. 😂😂🤣
whew. look what time does.
Erica face before the work is so beautiful!!
Who’s here after they were married had 2 kids then got divorced?
Me
Me smh sad 😩😭
Whew chile!
Look how healthy Erica looked how happy she was now she looks sick and defeated
It's called stress.
"come to papa " I love safaree
When he screamed...wwwhhhyyyy!!! ...at ericas grave....I died 2 😂😂😂😂😂
Safari BABYYY that rap was a MESS 😂 oo chile my edges ...LAWD I have a headache now where my Aleve I’m logging off
Safaree can't rap
🤣🤣🤣
Shaking it nice🤣🤣🤣
Misz Bella Levi Israel rite 😭😭
he can't rap... real trash
Erica found her a good man, who is ready to settle,
😬...
This didn’t age well
Didn’t go well
Lol your comment is hilarious.
Erica Mena is Beautiful
She really is but do you think thats why Safari is trying so hard or do you think its a front?
Jan-Michael Vincent yeah she looks like my mom it’s so weird
Safaree spoke everything he wanted from Erica and ended up treating it like trash😕💔
When he leaned in for a kiss, was so cute. Even though she played him he didnt stop. Now that's not being thirsty GENTLEMEN that's a man knowing what he wants and not giving up. AND woman know when a good man is in front of you. All YALL GROW UP!!!
This is actually a perfect match Scorpio and Cancer is a perfect love MATCH! Both water signs.. They understand each other very well
Look at where they are now. This is why I think astrology/signs is complete nonsense.
@@mahinaoterangi93 lmao fr issa joke
Safaree......with
Erica. ....DE soap and DE water.......
The worst thing for a woman is to be in a relationship with a narcissistic man. They way he love bombed her hurts.
0:21 what he meant to say was "or you may know me as Niki Minaj's ex boyfriend" 😂
I just knew that's what he was going to say. 😂
I thought it was only me that he was gonna say it
Ex husband
@For the love of bonnie deffiantly, they were very toxic for eachother, those 12 years of being together was a domestic on both ends💯 im happy for both of them.
I was sooo waiting for it...
Her and sky was sooooo lit for each other 🥰🙌🏾🤗
Safaree is hilarious . I can't take anything he does serious . such a cornball lol but it's great
Man I don't care what nobody say I like them together lol
Who's here after safaree failed miserably as a husband?
Me
This was very cute. To see where they are right now is saddening to see.
Now they getting divorced after they second kids and safaree haven't grown up not one bit SMH
She looked soo good 😢 and not stressed
NOW HE DOESN’T WANT HER OR RESPECTS HER !!!
Erica was so pretty before the face surgeries
I love to come back and watch all theses recaps 2023
Dam New York is a hoooooeee. 😂
lol true
nothing new 🤣😭
She’s a player. Cuz if a man did that he’s a player.
I can't lie I probably try the shut too 🤷 no cap
I would try New York 🤷🏾♂️😌
Erica and sky has the same vibes 😂❤️I love them😩😘
Erica has always been a favorite her heart is pure. I like safari he is a nice genuine guy
He definitely helped Nikki with her bars. FACTS!
Toya she should get him to write for her..
I see why him and Juju never worked out. She is much too classy for his personality. Juju needs a mature man, him and Erica make a great match.
Ki Wright I think he could’ve helped juju loosen up a little LOL
Juju need to laugh a lil
Well she's a Scorpio and Juju is an Aries. He's a Cancer. So the Scorpio is much more compatible with him.
By classy you mean boring right?
Juju was boring
I had to go back and see how this messy relationship started
😂 same
Sky was out😂😂
Wangu Bareki right 😂😂😂 Sky was not with the shenanigans at all 😂😂😂
She was gone🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Fast forward 2022: traumatized by a loser that left her with 2 kids. Keep your head up, Mena.
It's so weird watching this now, during the divorce....smh.
When people say Safaree was Nicki Minajs ghostwriter I’m going to show them this clip.
Erica messed up her face that surgery wasn’t necessary
Right