Just this morning my parents well meaning friends were like 'oh you look so manly!' and my dad, without missing a beat, said 'yeah, he's a man...?' and my heart exploded.
I wouldnt get mad though, Id take it as a compliment. Imagine fighting dysphoria all day because of the smallest details and then there comes this random person that cant comprehend that youre trans because you pass so well. It would make me feel great tbh.
I once was very good friends with a transguy and sometimes i would use the wrong pronouns, because my old memories would whisper "trans", but i was so used to calling him "he/him" and seeing him as a male person, the "trans"-whisper made use the other pronouns.
The only "regret" I have about my top surgery is that I didn't immediately turn to my mam after waking up and say 'Well, really glad I got that off my chest.'
I love that Christian mum because my family still refuses to accept me as a guy and I've been on T for 6 months.. so hearing her tiktoks help me get through "what's the point?" Moments
The point is your identity and gender are important! You are amazing just how you are and now you're a part of a worldwide family of other LGBT+ people. I'll be your trans brother! Live life authentically and always be the best version of you. I love you! 🥰💕
I litterly cried because of the Christian Mother. She's just so, supportive. Really, that woman made my day without even knowing it. Thanks Jamie for sharing all this positivity!
When my brother came out as trans, my dad was nervous to tell my 80-something grandma so I did instead. She was a whole lot less surprised than I thought she'd be and after a few questions said "so you're the only girl in the family now!" I was pretty shocked and very happy that it only took her a few minutes to wrap her head around the idea. Ever since then, any time I speak with her she asks me how "the new boy" is lol.
I remember coming out as a lesbian to my grandmother before her dementia got really bad and she said to me "I wouldn't want you to be with a man and be unhappy. As long as you are happy I am happy" and I think this is such a beautiful mindset. Just unconditional love. I hope that more and more families react this way as our society progresses further.
i'm a trans guy with unsupportive parents and you can't imagine how happy that made me and if i heard that from my own parents i would cry happy tears for an hour
When I was visiting my family in England, my grandpa and great aunt got into an argument about gay people. My aunt believes in conversion therapy, and my grandpa was insisting that sexuality is an inherent thing according to science, and that people are born that way and can't be changed. He's almost 90.
Me too. It's so sad that all christians don't think like she does. What breaks my heart is that whilst believing that they are acting with love, those christians who are so deeply homophobic and transphobic don't understand how much destruction they are actually causing... this mum is amazing and I hope she inspires others to have a positive change of heart 💜
I brought 4 sons up almost only own, and when it came time for 'the talk' I told all my boys that I didn't care if the decided that they liked men or women, I would love them just the same. Three of them just said "ok", but #3 son said "but I want to marry a girl. Turns out #3 son is gay. 😄😄. And yes I still love him the same as the others.
I was near tears, I'm non binary with supportive parents, but it brought goosebumps all over me. I know so many who really need this sort of affirmation who don't get it from those who should provide it most.
Before I started medical transition I was in a college course and I ended up “coming out” because we were talking about trans stuff on this very conservative texas campus and people were like “why do you care?” So I dove on in and the guy who I’d been sharing a table with that semester turned to me after everything was done and went “I thought you were the other way” (mtf instead of ftm) and he followed up with a bro shoulder punch. That was the last we talked about it but that guy sticks with me in my head every day. Plus he never snitched that I spent almost every class playing WoW
My grandma turned 95 this year and moved in with my family. She is trying so hard to call me my name and use the right pronouns. She doesn't quite understand, but she loves me and my whole family so she does what she can. She was one of the people going to feminist rallys and never, as far as I know, descriminated against anyone except those who almost hurt her children. In the time she grew up, the hight of racism, sexism, and the great depressionand, she still grew up to be so accepting and kind. I am so lucky to have her she has shaped my life in so many ways.
You don't have to understand someone to accept them, you just need to love and trust them. My learning process started when I stopped using Grumpling's dead name and pronouns.
My younger brother is gay, and two years ago, my 90 (now 92) year-old grandfather asked me if I thought my brother would like to hear from him that he accepted him and loved him no matter what. He wanted to make sure my brother knew that, but he didn’t want to say the wrong thing. So wholesome!
The christian mother video has me in tears. I've wanted to hear those words from my mother since I was 17. I'm now 30 and having to live my life without any family members. I just needed to hear those words.
I’m so sorry, it must hurt to bad to have to cut family members off simply because they can’t accept you for you...incase you needed to hear this, YOU. ARE. VALID! I love and support you for who you are and I’m extremely proud of you, you’re such a strong person.
same except i still live with my parents who misgender me every day and seriously I HAVE JUST ABOUT HAD IT. I'VE LIVED WITH YOU ALL FOR 20 YEARS AND ALL I EVER WANTED WAS YOU TO CALL ME SON OR BROTHER AND MADE IT VERY CLEAR AND YOU HAVE NEVER DONE THAT
Listen to me, You are beautiful and/or handsome and no one can change that. You are amazing and talented and wonderful. I'm so sorry you had to end up with family members like that. You are out there and proud about who you identify as and that is amazing, okay? Don't focus on all the bad people, focus on the people that love you. Have a good night/day/afternoon/morning.
I'm not ashamed to admit I cried at that part as well, I'm still wiping tears off my face actually :') That was just so wholesome and sweet!! I can only imagine how many trans boys really needed to hear that, bless that woman
Mama Jill is truly the most wholesome person. Like, she's amazing. So supportive of everyone. Her son came out as trans the other day and her reaction was like "we're going to get you a haircut" and I wish all parents were like that.
The Christian mum one I'm genderfluid and that actually brought me to tears 💖♡💜🖤💙 Edit 10mins later: kept re-watching it and it still makes me tear up a bit
I've been following @mamajillwallace since the beginning and she is just like what she seems. Absolutely loving and accepting and just a lovely person.
Oh my gosh I’m genderfluid and it made me cry too. I came out to my parents but they didn’t really understand and they don’t talk about it so it definitely made me emotional
Before I came out as trans to my family I was eating lunch with my great grandma who is in her late 90s turned to me and asked “Do you have a gf?” And I almost spit my food everywhere because I wasn’t out as Pan yet either and I said no and then she just calmly said “Oh well I don’t see you having a boyfriend so I asked about a girlfriend” and I thought it was amazing and it’s one of my favorite stories to share today
My dad has the same problem, being mistaken for a woman over the phone because of his voice. He does that thing Jamie was talking about where he answers the phone with the deepest "hello" he can manage 😂. I wonder if trans men feel any better knowing that some cis men have the same problem.
HA that's what we call cis-phor-i-a it's so funny when cis people get misgendered they're like WHAAAAAT and when i get misgendered i'm just like -_- ok.
I'm a cis woman, have long hair, dresses in pretty typical 'casual women's clothing'. This guy at McDonalds one morning said 'Hi Sir' to me so idk anymore🤷♀️
The Christian mom one got me crying. My mom is not convinced that I'm trans and she still actively refers to me as her daughter. Hearing those things said, directed towards me/people like me just broke me down.
The video where she said "son" made me cry...my parents said there's no way I could be trans and that I'm only trans to fit in with friends. That made my day...
Best friend just had top surgery 2 weeks ago. He keeps sending me pics and I love every one of them. He's so happy and proud. I am just as happy and proud. I watched my bestie turn into the handsome idiot I know today and I couldn't feel more privileged to watch him on his journey.
even though this is a year later i want you to please tell your friend that i said congratulations!! one day i hope to be able to do the same! God bless
The woman who said if you were ftm close your eyes, that one was my favorite. I'm trying to socially transition and I'm 15, but my parents don't accept me and my mother said she never wanted a son, so that was so meaningful to me and it nearly brought me to tears. I love people who go out of their own way to make others feel better, even if they don't know if anyone will receive it on the other end. That was beautiful.
Living with dysphoria, a TERF mother, and a transphobic father just kinda stinks. I'm glad that a lot of parents out there do accept their children for who they are, and do let them be who they want to be.
Hey, words of affirmation here, but you are valid! Biological family is a starting point if it works out, but family consists of people who care about you. If your biological family don't care about you, then you've gotta find your own family. If you haven't found those people yet, I believe in you that you can and will find friends and people who you will consider family down the road. Whether or not that's in a year, two years, or even 10 years, if you want happiness, you'll find it!
bad not-compliments I got: “You run well, for a girl”. (my track and field teacher) “You look good on overalls, for a girl.” And “you know how to use tools surprisingly well”(My neighbor when I was helping install some cupboards) “Wow I didn’t think girls could code” (another student at coding afternoon club in school) “You are surprisingly girly for a gay person” (to many people who think I’m basically a man) Edit: Turns out I’m actually Bi.
My bf's dad, *sees I got gendered correctly* : "Oh my god I'm so happy for you. You really don't look like a chick anymore." Me, *has facial hair and hasn't been misgendered for many months* : Thank you...?
The grandma was the cutest thing. My heart just melts seeing supportive grandparents. Her offering food is like the most precious thing, my grandma does that too. (No I’m not trans, I just want people to support each other and live happily. I know it’s too much too ask)
Hey spuds! My name's Rhyder and I honestly want to thank Jamie for just doing what he's doing. I'm still currently in the closet, but his videos always make me feel so comfortable and happy. So, thank you Jamie.
I reacted to the Christian mom one on my tik tok and I was literally crying, as a trans man who doesn't have a supportive mom that meant the world to me
Regarding older generations: I once watched a german documentation about trans* people and one story was about a young man/boy who had came out aus ftm trans and his mother explained how she was on the phone with her father trying to explain the whole situation and after she was done explaining her father didn't say anything for minutes, the mother was scared that he wouldn't support his grandson and therefore asked if him if he wanted to say anything. After another minute of silence he just said: 'Well that's alright with me, I wish the best for him! And tell him "welcome to the man's world" from me!'. I think this is a really cute and funny response :D
Omg when the Christian mother started saying “I’m so proud of you son” I legit started crying. Like my own family isn’t supportive and just hearing that made me just start bawling 😂😂
My Southern Christian mom is just like that other Southern Christian mom. My mom tells me everyday how much she loves me. She is the main reason I didn't commit suicide during my incredibly difficult transition. She is amazing and I'm so lucky to have her in my life. I only wish other trans people had moms like her. Then nobody would ever feel unloved, unsupported, or worried about coming out.
I’m proud of your mother! I’m not sure my mother would like it, but my dad said just to be myself and used LGBTQ+ terms such as “Have you got a boyfriend or girlfriend?” so I think he’d be fine with the idea + he’s the only Male in my house so...
My southern mother was one of many reasons I tried to kill myself, unfortunately When she found out I’m trans, she bought be a bunch of bras that actually draw attention to my chest, and very girly clothes I identify as a man
I was casually watching some trans/lgbtq cute videos on your channel, and I came across this one. I’m a trans boy and my parents are unaccepting, but specially my mom. She’s said many mean things to me, including how she’s ashamed of me. I was disowned because of the name I chose for my registration and etc. And I started crying the moment that Christian mom started saying those amazing things. I love my parents, but I cannot stress how much I wish I’d hear that from them...thank you for this. I feel accepted and loved.
7:05 both my parents died before I came out, so I never got to hear my real name or correct pronouns or anything resembling support (only one of them would probably have been supportive anyway), so I literally have that tic tok saved. It's the closest thing I'll get.
I'm so sorry to hear this, just know you are loved and validated by people from around the world and whatever you are doing it is most definitely amazing. Have a good day, i hope everything gets better because you deserve it!
When that Christian mom spoke.. I sat here and cried the entire time she spoke. my mom and I fell off and we were never close. we have been in each other's lives all this time, we just don't have a positive bond. i needed that and I didn't know I did until I listened to that. my heart is melting
I reeeeally needed this today, one of Swedens most known feminist have just shared EXTREMLY transphobic stuff and many people are critical of it and showing their support of the trans community but way to many agree with what she is saying and as an enby/pangender person in the closet i felt horrible seeing all the extrem transphobia. So this was very needed ❤
Just curious, what does enby mean? Sadly the world still has a long way to go when it comes to acceptance and love. I hope someday soon you can feel comfortable enough to come out of the closet and live the life that makes you happiest and just be able to be yourself
everytime I see that Christian mom, I cry everytime she speaks. she makes me feel more valid than my own parents. I love her and just the energy she radiates💕💕
One of my favorite moments was being so confused when my trans co worker (FTM) was being bad mouthed by a customer while he wasn't present and my manager, me, and my other coworker all collectively just told him that he was mistaken and we didn't "have a girl dressed as a guy" who worked with us we had "a man". I also constantly hype him when we work together. I fucking love my trans coworker. He's my hero
5:47 I closed my eyes and listened to it, and as a trans guys who isn't out to my transphobic parents and is pre everything, I almost cried. Thank you to whoever made that tiktok ❤️❤️❤️
I came out to my entire class a few weeks ago, they’ve all been working to keep my safe and not out me, while also using my pronouns and name outside of class!! A friend helped to get me a binder too, and it’s going to arrive in a few weeks! I’m planning on coming out to my family once I get it!! I’m so excited!! I just hope they don’t make fun of my name choice (Virgil). Wish me luck guys! :) EDIT: well, it’s been five months and I came out to my family. They didn’t really like my name so we all decided on Rune, which means Mystery, and honestly I’m a lot happier with it! I recently got my first two binders too :))
As a Latin teacher, I fully approve of Virgil! You probably know this, if not: This Roman poet's most important work starts with the words "Arma VIRUMque cano", "I sing of weapons and THE MAN"! So great choice.
The grandma towards the end made me so happy, I am personally cis gender female and I love seeing people being supportive and I love being supportive, I especially love seeing parents and family or friends being accepting and asking questions so they can understand better, it gives me hope that one day the lgbtq+ community can be happy and accepted by so many more people
My friend is going to start to transition. We are in a dance class together. Neither of us are out of the closet for the dance studio. (Im non binary) So we were looking at the pink frilly dresses we have to wear and we were like joking with each other " im to gay to wear that" and what . then thistles girl was like " GoD mAdE yOu a GiRl sO yOu hAvE tO dReSs lIkE oNe" we went silent walked away and never spoke to her again.
Mama Jill is amazing! I nearly cried in front of my not accepting family. I’m genderfluid and I’m a male currently, so that TikTok hit me like a ton of bricks.
Im legit crying over the Christian mom being so so supportive and giving positive messages to transguys. Im not trans but imagining all the kids and everyone that needs to hear that kind of message that will discover that tik tok has me crying happy tears
5:48. I actually teared up by that. Such a small act of kindness yet I can't help but think of how incredible important and impactful it will be for some to hear her say this.
I've been having a really bad week, but this video made me feel a lot better. Especially the Christian mom bit. Literally sat on my bed bawling my eyes out.
3:38 Last year I had a phone appointment with the access and equity services people at my school cuz I was just starting to medically transition and I was seeing a lot of doctors/specialists for various reasons so I wanted to make sure I could keep up with school. At the end of the appointment, the person asked me "is there another name you want to use, aside from Anna?" I had been doing voice training for a few months and I guess my voice passed well enough that she thought I was a trans guy instead. It was funny and very validating!
I just wanna say that I'm trying to find new friends bc the only one I had was shit-talking LGBT people everytime she could while knowing damn well that I'm bi ._.
oh, if she does that knowing youre bi, then she wasnt your friend to beging with. i really hope you get to find irl friends who love and support you, but in the meantime jamie's community is a pretty good place to start 💖💖
Yo, trans woman here. I don't know if you're looking for online or offline friends, and I'm a bit shy at first, but I'm always available for friendship. Even if I do make for an awkward friend.
well get out from under the bed and come chill! but seriously, i know those feels, sucks so much, and im looking for friends too I know we will both find what we seek :)
Hey i know it can get kinda stuffy under the bed, you should come get some fresh air from time to time! (Also love your profile pic, so cute!) Sorry about your friend, i understand how much it sucks for others to not be able to see what a great community it is! If you need a friend, even if it is just to chat up from time to time in video comments, im always up for meeting new people and would love to take up that role if you want :D Have a good day whatever it is you are doing, because you are doing great :)
8:07 That's my mom! She's 64 and she doesn't always say things the right way but she's learning and 100% supportive of trans ppl. (And other LGBTQ+ peeps.) 😌
The christian mom one I did close my eyes and started tearing up I wasn’t expecting that. My mom looked at me with utter disgust whenever I talked to her about being trans and I’ve never been spoken to like that once and she has always been emotionally distant since I was little even way before I told her. Hearing someone say that to me brought instant tears
Yeah, that's sadly has been extremely common, historically every great achievement done by women was "that's a great (achievement)... for a woman" and so on. It's condescending
5:57 I started crying because my mom and the rest of my family wouldn't say that to me and hearing this just makes me feel so happy I cried happy tears
I like the “stay confused” part at 2:05. I think everyone deserves rights and transgender TikTok are so educational especially for my trans brother who’s 9 and is literally the only other gay person in my family like 🏳️🌈. Also I’m so confused about my sexuality and that stay confused is literally what I say to myself and all the homophobic people in my school! Stay safe, stay loved, stay you, don’t change for anyone! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
i was not prepared to cry today, I saw that Christian mom, and I got so happy I started sobbing because I just started picturing my mom saying this. this made me so happy thank you
I like to watch Jamie’s videos when I’m sad, or just generally upset about something. It takes my mind off of things, and makes my heart feel better. For one thing, the yellow is really calming. It makes me feel good because I think of yellow as a good and a happy colour, especially soft yellows like his chair in the background. I also love to watch LGBTQ+ because it makes me feel better about me planning to come out to my parents and others (who are all *very* Christian.) I like his positive reviews and it just makes me happy. So, thank you, you beautiful, beautiful, person. 💖💛💙 Edit: I started crying at 5:45 because that’s what I wanted to hear. It was so impactful, even if I didn’t know her.
I'm a trans male, the christian mum one made me legit cry. this is what keeps me going. Love you, Jammi! Yes I'm 3 years late, I like watching your vids.
When I first found your channel and it said in your thumbnail "trans guy" my first thought was "Oh cool. He says he's trans, so he must be trans. Imma sub" so I did
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Just this morning my parents well meaning friends were like 'oh you look so manly!' and my dad, without missing a beat, said 'yeah, he's a man...?' and my heart exploded.
this is so wholesome 🥺
Your dad is great!!
ObsessedWithOverthinking
Omg 🥺
that's great
aww that's amazing
"I'm trans"
"Oh so you want to be a boy"
"No silly, been there, done that, got dysphoria"
A nice problem to have.
I wouldnt get mad though, Id take it as a compliment. Imagine fighting dysphoria all day because of the smallest details and then there comes this random person that cant comprehend that youre trans because you pass so well. It would make me feel great tbh.
@@Chuckiele yeah, honestly same, if I told person I was trans and they said, “oh, so you want to be a woman?” I would take it as a compliment
@@Chuckiele same
I once was very good friends with a transguy and sometimes i would use the wrong pronouns, because my old memories would whisper "trans", but i was so used to calling him "he/him" and seeing him as a male person, the "trans"-whisper made use the other pronouns.
If elmo says trans rights, then trans rights are vallid
I thought this said emo and not elmo-
@@lmc2696 emo also says trans rights-
TinyWhales As an Emo, I approve of this message
and the wholesome (me) people say trans rights too!
If anyone says trans rights, then trans rights are valid.
Junko Enoshima aka the Ultimate Despair, says Trans Rights
The only "regret" I have about my top surgery is that I didn't immediately turn to my mam after waking up and say 'Well, really glad I got that off my chest.'
I am so looking forward to being able to make that joke
I need someone to remind me to do that xD since I'm not English i won't be able to say that word for word but still stanks 😌
That is such a dad joke. You are ready.
Ok only 5 years to go and I can say this 🤣🤣
OKAY WHENEVER I GET TOP IM DOING THIS
"I'm so proud to call you my boy!"
Me, a trans man: I'm not crying, you're crying!!!
Me a fellow trans man : yes I am crying
Same
that made me happy, im enby but it was still nice
I wish I had a mom.
yeah i am crying lol all i ever wanted was to hear those words but i never have
I once said to a transphobic person “You look pretty... for a cis person” they got so confused
UNO reverse card lmfaooo
omg yesss
What the fuck is cis sound like a pimple.
They probably don’t even know what that is
My entire family of 6 wouldn’t even know except maybe one of them
omg my new line!!!
I love that Christian mum because my family still refuses to accept me as a guy and I've been on T for 6 months.. so hearing her tiktoks help me get through "what's the point?" Moments
You are worth it! You are amazing! You can do this! You are who you are and we love and accept you for it.
Momma Jill Wallace accepts us all, and I love her so much for it.
We love you, of course you're valid ❤️
That’s really shitty of them...but often, transphobic people won’t accept you even after you’ve finished your transition.
The point is your identity and gender are important! You are amazing just how you are and now you're a part of a worldwide family of other LGBT+ people. I'll be your trans brother! Live life authentically and always be the best version of you. I love you! 🥰💕
The Christian mom: literally just says son
Me, immediately: sobbing
AY UNUS GANG
sameeee
Memento mori!! I’m an unus too lol
Memento Mori
I agree with your YT name Unus Gang😎
I litterly cried because of the Christian Mother. She's just so, supportive. Really, that woman made my day without even knowing it.
Thanks Jamie for sharing all this positivity!
MammaJill is the most wholesome person on tiktok. Her videos really bring a little bit of joy in your everyday life
Me too. Sometimes it’s a little scary because she is like I’m a Christian mother and I feel like it is a little weird, but the surprise is the best.
right??? I'm still crying and I'm not even christian
Her own son came out as a trans man and that video had me in tears. ❤️😭
Same! She made my day!
When my brother came out as trans, my dad was nervous to tell my 80-something grandma so I did instead. She was a whole lot less surprised than I thought she'd be and after a few questions said "so you're the only girl in the family now!" I was pretty shocked and very happy that it only took her a few minutes to wrap her head around the idea. Ever since then, any time I speak with her she asks me how "the new boy" is lol.
That’s so sweet
That is so sweet. This is also something that confirms that age does not mean knowledge, it's your mindset and understanding that does
jamie is turning into one topic: You Don't Talk About His Hair When It's Bad
Yellow One Topic :D
@@oijosugay5864 banana one topic
so does that mean one topic is blueberry jamie!?
@@kirfluff YES
I'd really like to see more collabs of the two of them
Me too!!
I remember coming out as a lesbian to my grandmother before her dementia got really bad and she said to me "I wouldn't want you to be with a man and be unhappy. As long as you are happy I am happy" and I think this is such a beautiful mindset. Just unconditional love. I hope that more and more families react this way as our society progresses further.
THATS SO CUTE OH MY/
MY HEART-
y’all-
I’m a cis girl but when that Christian Mom started talking I legitimately bawled
that woman was amazing ❤️💕
and the grandma too ❤️❤️❤️🥺
Same
Me too. It touches orphaned and abandoned people too.
i'm a trans guy with unsupportive parents and you can't imagine how happy that made me
and if i heard that from my own parents i would cry happy tears for an hour
Same
When I was visiting my family in England, my grandpa and great aunt got into an argument about gay people. My aunt believes in conversion therapy, and my grandpa was insisting that sexuality is an inherent thing according to science, and that people are born that way and can't be changed. He's almost 90.
Your grandpa is very wise
Jamie I'm a 62 Yr old mother to 4. The Christian mother had me in tears.
I'm not even trans, I'm pan, but thats really sweet
Debbie youre amazing and i love you, keep being awesome ♡
Me too. It's so sad that all christians don't think like she does. What breaks my heart is that whilst believing that they are acting with love, those christians who are so deeply homophobic and transphobic don't understand how much destruction they are actually causing... this mum is amazing and I hope she inspires others to have a positive change of heart 💜
I brought 4 sons up almost only own, and when it came time for 'the talk' I told all my boys that I didn't care if the decided that they liked men or women, I would love them just the same. Three of them just said "ok", but #3 son said "but I want to marry a girl. Turns out #3 son is gay. 😄😄. And yes I still love him the same as the others.
I’m not crying you’re crying.
Who else closed their eyes and cried while the christian mom was talking..
Me except I wasn't able to keep them closed bevause I was sobbing
Me
Awwww😢 You guys get my support
I was near tears, I'm non binary with supportive parents, but it brought goosebumps all over me. I know so many who really need this sort of affirmation who don't get it from those who should provide it most.
@Emily Dularee me too.
the grannie saying 'he shouldn't do that, should he, really' @ g o d sent me
"Do you want sausages?" 😆 Granny, I can see where that train switched tracks and I like the way you think, ol' gal!
He really shouldn’t do that, I got y’all back. Down here it’s full of gays
@@TrueBeelzebub a w e s o m e news for me! thanks devil
Grannies will literally drag god for hurting their grankids, and they'll do it while cooking tasty meals for them
Does that mean I’m supposed to be unisex? Non-binary here!
Before I started medical transition I was in a college course and I ended up “coming out” because we were talking about trans stuff on this very conservative texas campus and people were like “why do you care?” So I dove on in and the guy who I’d been sharing a table with that semester turned to me after everything was done and went “I thought you were the other way” (mtf instead of ftm) and he followed up with a bro shoulder punch. That was the last we talked about it but that guy sticks with me in my head every day. Plus he never snitched that I spent almost every class playing WoW
My grandma turned 95 this year and moved in with my family. She is trying so hard to call me my name and use the right pronouns. She doesn't quite understand, but she loves me and my whole family so she does what she can. She was one of the people going to feminist rallys and never, as far as I know, descriminated against anyone except those who almost hurt her children. In the time she grew up, the hight of racism, sexism, and the great depressionand, she still grew up to be so accepting and kind. I am so lucky to have her she has shaped my life in so many ways.
Damn your gran sounds badass!
THATS LITERALLY THE SWEETEST THING EVER
@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo what’s genderqueer? Sorry I’m just curious and I’ve never heard the term
You don't have to understand someone to accept them, you just need to love and trust them. My learning process started when I stopped using Grumpling's dead name and pronouns.
@@keeleyrasche4039 It's a nonbinary gender
My younger brother is gay, and two years ago, my 90 (now 92) year-old grandfather asked me if I thought my brother would like to hear from him that he accepted him and loved him no matter what. He wanted to make sure my brother knew that, but he didn’t want to say the wrong thing. So wholesome!
The christian mother video has me in tears. I've wanted to hear those words from my mother since I was 17. I'm now 30 and having to live my life without any family members. I just needed to hear those words.
Sending you so much love ❤️ I'm so sorry, that must be so incredibly difficult for you
I’m so sorry, it must hurt to bad to have to cut family members off simply because they can’t accept you for you...incase you needed to hear this, YOU. ARE. VALID! I love and support you for who you are and I’m extremely proud of you, you’re such a strong person.
same except i still live with my parents who misgender me every day and seriously
I HAVE JUST ABOUT HAD IT. I'VE LIVED WITH YOU ALL FOR 20 YEARS AND ALL I EVER WANTED WAS YOU TO CALL ME SON OR BROTHER AND MADE IT VERY CLEAR AND YOU HAVE NEVER DONE THAT
So sorry you've lost your family, I hope you'll find a new family ❤️💕
Listen to me, You are beautiful and/or handsome and no one can change that. You are amazing and talented and wonderful. I'm so sorry you had to end up with family members like that. You are out there and proud about who you identify as and that is amazing, okay? Don't focus on all the bad people, focus on the people that love you. Have a good night/day/afternoon/morning.
when Jamie smiles he does it with his whole being, and it feels like a hug
Jamie's imitation of Elmo sounded more like Stich
It was kinda like Gollum too.
i was thinking yoda
I think Stitch says trans rights too :)
@@tuesdaywithanh Absolutely!
Just as adoreable and wholesome tho
Trans people when they start taking hormones: Puberty 2, electric boogaloo
I can’t wait for puberty 2 but I have to wait two years because my mother refuses to consent to me being on t
I get it, but why is that funny?
I can’t explain the pure joy I felt after listening to a Christian mum call me a young man
I legit cried at that part
I'm not ashamed to admit I cried at that part as well, I'm still wiping tears off my face actually :')
That was just so wholesome and sweet!! I can only imagine how many trans boys really needed to hear that, bless that woman
I cried, her voice is similar to my mom’s and it briefly made me hope that she’ll accept me as her son someday
I love that lady she and her husband are super sweet
Hey she has a RUclips aswell BTW she's @mamajillwallace on all social media
Mama Jill is truly the most wholesome person.
Like, she's amazing.
So supportive of everyone.
Her son came out as trans the other day and her reaction was like "we're going to get you a haircut" and I wish all parents were like that.
The Christian mum one I'm genderfluid and that actually brought me to tears
💖♡💜🖤💙
Edit 10mins later: kept re-watching it and it still makes me tear up a bit
Her videos always make me tear up
She's @mamajillwallace on all social médias btw
I've been following @mamajillwallace since the beginning and she is just like what she seems. Absolutely loving and accepting and just a lovely person.
Oh my gosh I’m genderfluid and it made me cry too. I came out to my parents but they didn’t really understand and they don’t talk about it so it definitely made me emotional
Same here! Genderfluid too, and I almost cried
For the one with the christian mom: I'm not even a trans guy and I'm actuallly crying? Wtf?
Me too. I'm a cis girl, and I was really tearing up when she started... Love her
Before I came out as trans to my family I was eating lunch with my great grandma who is in her late 90s turned to me and asked “Do you have a gf?” And I almost spit my food everywhere because I wasn’t out as Pan yet either and I said no and then she just calmly said “Oh well I don’t see you having a boyfriend so I asked about a girlfriend” and I thought it was amazing and it’s one of my favorite stories to share today
I love this story ❤
Your grandma is awesome
@@Marshiethemarshmallow hi fellow ally!
"do you want sausages?'
"Yeah I want a sausage, that's the whole point!"
I'M DYING LOL
But seriously, I loved all the wholesome tiktoks.
True story: My boyfriend, a cis man, always gets confused for an old woman on the phone lol He has a very high pitched voice.
My dad has the same problem, being mistaken for a woman over the phone because of his voice. He does that thing Jamie was talking about where he answers the phone with the deepest "hello" he can manage 😂. I wonder if trans men feel any better knowing that some cis men have the same problem.
My mom gets mistaken by a man on the phone or intercoms 😂 what 30 years of elementary teaching does to the voice...
HA that's what we call cis-phor-i-a
it's so funny when cis people get misgendered they're like WHAAAAAT
and when i get misgendered i'm just like -_- ok.
I'm a cis woman, have long hair, dresses in pretty typical 'casual women's clothing'. This guy at McDonalds one morning said 'Hi Sir' to me so idk anymore🤷♀️
The Christian mom one got me crying. My mom is not convinced that I'm trans and she still actively refers to me as her daughter. Hearing those things said, directed towards me/people like me just broke me down.
Got a black trans empowerment ad before the vid and almost cried and then wholesome ass jamie comes on and I died
I got that ad on Skeppy video two days ago I loved it.
Rhymes
The video where she said "son" made me cry...my parents said there's no way I could be trans and that I'm only trans to fit in with friends. That made my day...
LGBTQ+ TikToks are the ONLY tiktoks I’m willing to watch
same, honestly
tiktok has some dark corners and some disturbing content but the lgbtq+ tiktoks are sweet
Same
That, witch tik tok, Harry Potter tik tok, and Sanders Sides tik tok.
WHAT ABOUT FROG TICKTOCKS
MJ Wildy *rik tok*
Best friend just had top surgery 2 weeks ago. He keeps sending me pics and I love every one of them. He's so happy and proud. I am just as happy and proud. I watched my bestie turn into the handsome idiot I know today and I couldn't feel more privileged to watch him on his journey.
Is wanting a flat chest specifically a trans thing? Bc I don’t like my boobs and would like to get top surgery
even though this is a year later i want you to please tell your friend that i said congratulations!! one day i hope to be able to do the same! God bless
Jamie's "Elmo says trans rights" sounded more like "Stitch says trans rights" lmaoooo
well then now elmo and stitch have saif trans rights, and that works for me hfjfj
The woman who said if you were ftm close your eyes, that one was my favorite. I'm trying to socially transition and I'm 15, but my parents don't accept me and my mother said she never wanted a son, so that was so meaningful to me and it nearly brought me to tears. I love people who go out of their own way to make others feel better, even if they don't know if anyone will receive it on the other end. That was beautiful.
Living with dysphoria, a TERF mother, and a transphobic father just kinda stinks. I'm glad that a lot of parents out there do accept their children for who they are, and do let them be who they want to be.
Hey, words of affirmation here, but you are valid! Biological family is a starting point if it works out, but family consists of people who care about you. If your biological family don't care about you, then you've gotta find your own family. If you haven't found those people yet, I believe in you that you can and will find friends and people who you will consider family down the road. Whether or not that's in a year, two years, or even 10 years, if you want happiness, you'll find it!
"yeah I want a sausage that's the whole point" OH MY GOD I AM DYING
SAME I STARTED LIKE CHOKING THINKIN "ME TOO MAN ME TOO" 😂😂
That Christian mom telling all trans men she loved them made me cry and I’m not a trans male❤️🥺
I was just thinking after hearing “you look gorgeous for a x” there’s no instance where anything sounds like a compliment in this sentence format.
bad not-compliments I got:
“You run well, for a girl”. (my track and field teacher)
“You look good on overalls, for a girl.” And “you know how to use tools surprisingly well”(My neighbor when I was helping install some cupboards)
“Wow I didn’t think girls could code” (another student at coding afternoon club in school)
“You are surprisingly girly for a gay person” (to many people who think I’m basically a man)
Edit: Turns out I’m actually Bi.
The only good case is “You do x well, for a human”
@@Eosinophyllis you make funny comments, for a human.
My bf's dad, *sees I got gendered correctly* : "Oh my god I'm so happy for you. You really don't look like a chick anymore."
Me, *has facial hair and hasn't been misgendered for many months* : Thank you...?
he surely means well, right?
Trans tiktok is the best tiktok. I just texted my trans friend 'DAD UPLOADED!'
This fanbase is becoming the most wholesome cult
awww
@@felicvik9456 Have you seen, the One Topic at a Time cult?
Most cults have a harismatic and authoritarian leader, so atleast one of those boxes is checked
@@mjwildy2359 I watch one topic as well. Yes, the cult is cool.
The grandma was the cutest thing. My heart just melts seeing supportive grandparents. Her offering food is like the most precious thing, my grandma does that too.
(No I’m not trans, I just want people to support each other and live happily. I know it’s too much too ask)
Hey spuds! My name's Rhyder and I honestly want to thank Jamie for just doing what he's doing. I'm still currently in the closet, but his videos always make me feel so comfortable and happy. So, thank you Jamie.
thats a cool ass name, dude!
@@elvenbugs
Thanks! I picked it myself!
You win name of the year
give this man a best name award
Name of the Century
I reacted to the Christian mom one on my tik tok and I was literally crying, as a trans man who doesn't have a supportive mom that meant the world to me
last time i was this early, i thought I was cisgender
i just s h a t
Lol, same
m e t o o
Lmao, yeah
Yooooooooo
Regarding older generations: I once watched a german documentation about trans* people and one story was about a young man/boy who had came out aus ftm trans and his mother explained how she was on the phone with her father trying to explain the whole situation and after she was done explaining her father didn't say anything for minutes, the mother was scared that he wouldn't support his grandson and therefore asked if him if he wanted to say anything. After another minute of silence he just said: 'Well that's alright with me, I wish the best for him! And tell him "welcome to the man's world" from me!'.
I think this is a really cute and funny response :D
You speak German too?????
@@julzbehr6696 Jup :D
I hab keine Ahnung Sarum much das so glücklich macht.
@@julzbehr6696 ich bin auch immer super aufgeregt wenn ich sowas sehe
This has turned my day from terrible to wholesome in 1 second.
Hope you're alright, dude
:) sand you good vibes
saaammmeee hope ur doing well :)
EXACTLY- I hope you're doing alright mate! We be vibin
Same, Jamie always makes my day better
I'm not even trans (I'm pansexual), but the Christian mom one had me crying immediately.
Omg when the Christian mother started saying “I’m so proud of you son” I legit started crying. Like my own family isn’t supportive and just hearing that made me just start bawling 😂😂
I think you used the wrong emojis haha
@@kiiturii maybe it's laughing about the happy crying?
I don't normally cry while watching Jamie's videos but I'm tearing up
My Southern Christian mom is just like that other Southern Christian mom. My mom tells me everyday how much she loves me. She is the main reason I didn't commit suicide during my incredibly difficult transition. She is amazing and I'm so lucky to have her in my life.
I only wish other trans people had moms like her. Then nobody would ever feel unloved, unsupported, or worried about coming out.
I'm glad that you have an amazing supportive mom!
yeah.....i wish my parents were like that.....
I’m proud of your mother! I’m not sure my mother would like it, but my dad said just to be myself and used LGBTQ+ terms such as “Have you got a boyfriend or girlfriend?” so I think he’d be fine with the idea + he’s the only Male in my house so...
My southern mother was one of many reasons I tried to kill myself, unfortunately
When she found out I’m trans, she bought be a bunch of bras that actually draw attention to my chest, and very girly clothes
I identify as a man
@Lucy M. No, unfortunately
I hope I can have a better experience with my more accepting father and stepmother
I was casually watching some trans/lgbtq cute videos on your channel, and I came across this one. I’m a trans boy and my parents are unaccepting, but specially my mom. She’s said many mean things to me, including how she’s ashamed of me. I was disowned because of the name I chose for my registration and etc. And I started crying the moment that Christian mom started saying those amazing things. I love my parents, but I cannot stress how much I wish I’d hear that from them...thank you for this. I feel accepted and loved.
7:05 both my parents died before I came out, so I never got to hear my real name or correct pronouns or anything resembling support (only one of them would probably have been supportive anyway), so I literally have that tic tok saved. It's the closest thing I'll get.
I'm so sorry to hear this, just know you are loved and validated by people from around the world and whatever you are doing it is most definitely amazing. Have a good day, i hope everything gets better because you deserve it!
I am so sorry
THE CHRISTIAN MOM WAS SO PAINFUL MY HEART MELTED AND IT HURT SO MUCH.
I accidentally addressed my class as spuds-
Did anyone know what it was from???
@@catelynsinclair7455 no, and it made me sad-
I dont see a problem
@@finn2828 The problem is that nobody understood where it was from
@Zim Likes Pastaa
Absolutely
When that Christian mom spoke.. I sat here and cried the entire time she spoke. my mom and I fell off and we were never close. we have been in each other's lives all this time, we just don't have a positive bond. i needed that and I didn't know I did until I listened to that. my heart is melting
I reeeeally needed this today, one of Swedens most known feminist have just shared EXTREMLY transphobic stuff and many people are critical of it and showing their support of the trans community but way to many agree with what she is saying and as an enby/pangender person in the closet i felt horrible seeing all the extrem transphobia. So this was very needed ❤
vänta vad har jag missat
What’s her name?
Cissi Wallin, right? I was so upset when i saw that.
Cissi nu igen? Nu får hon väl ändå ge sig
Just curious, what does enby mean? Sadly the world still has a long way to go when it comes to acceptance and love. I hope someday soon you can feel comfortable enough to come out of the closet and live the life that makes you happiest and just be able to be yourself
everytime I see that Christian mom, I cry everytime she speaks. she makes me feel more valid than my own parents. I love her and just the energy she radiates💕💕
"Yeah I do want a sausage...that's the whole point!"
I'm dead 😂😂😂
One of my favorite moments was being so confused when my trans co worker (FTM) was being bad mouthed by a customer while he wasn't present and my manager, me, and my other coworker all collectively just told him that he was mistaken and we didn't "have a girl dressed as a guy" who worked with us we had "a man". I also constantly hype him when we work together. I fucking love my trans coworker. He's my hero
All of Mama Joe Wallace's tiktoks are so wholesome and I always cry even if they don't apply to me. She's so sweet and nice and aaahhhhh
That one about the mother expressing her support made me tear up!! Even the Nana one! Awww so kind of them!
Mama Jill Wallace makes me cry so hard, oh my god
Same, she’s so sweet and accepting 🥺 (we need more people like her tbh)
ahhhh i love her so much😭💖
I love her so much. She has one for enbies too and I always cry 😭
I love her so much it genuinely made me cry
Same, i cant help smiling everytime is see her tiktoks, she so sweet
5:47 I closed my eyes and listened to it, and as a trans guys who isn't out to my transphobic parents and is pre everything, I almost cried. Thank you to whoever made that tiktok ❤️❤️❤️
I'm a simple human, I see Jamie and mama Jill and I click
I've heard the christian mother one so many times and it still doesn't fail to make me cry my eyes out
I came out to my entire class a few weeks ago, they’ve all been working to keep my safe and not out me, while also using my pronouns and name outside of class!!
A friend helped to get me a binder too, and it’s going to arrive in a few weeks! I’m planning on coming out to my family once I get it!! I’m so excited!!
I just hope they don’t make fun of my name choice (Virgil). Wish me luck guys! :)
EDIT: well, it’s been five months and I came out to my family. They didn’t really like my name so we all decided on Rune, which means Mystery, and honestly I’m a lot happier with it! I recently got my first two binders too :))
As a Latin teacher, I fully approve of Virgil! You probably know this, if not: This Roman poet's most important work starts with the words "Arma VIRUMque cano", "I sing of weapons and THE MAN"! So great choice.
Fantastic name. Great choice😊😊😊
I'm happy for you and very proud that you found the courage to come out. I hope your doing well💛
The grandma towards the end made me so happy, I am personally cis gender female and I love seeing people being supportive and I love being supportive, I especially love seeing parents and family or friends being accepting and asking questions so they can understand better, it gives me hope that one day the lgbtq+ community can be happy and accepted by so many more people
Me seeing Mama J 🥰 even though I don't have Tiktok when I did, she made me feel so valid.
FELLOW FANDER
@@bigsimp3659 yup😁
This makes me so happy and just proves that the people that say they can always tell when someone’s trans doesn’t know wtf their talking about ❤️
the accepting mother tiktoker makes me cry🥺💞 i love what she does,, she's amazing
My friend is going to start to transition. We are in a dance class together. Neither of us are out of the closet for the dance studio. (Im non binary) So we were looking at the pink frilly dresses we have to wear and we were like joking with each other " im to gay to wear that" and what . then thistles girl was like " GoD mAdE yOu a GiRl sO yOu hAvE tO dReSs lIkE oNe" we went silent walked away and never spoke to her again.
Mama Jill is amazing! I nearly cried in front of my not accepting family. I’m genderfluid and I’m a male currently, so that TikTok hit me like a ton of bricks.
5:47
This one actually made me cry. I'm not accepted in my family and I cant express how emotional I actually became hearing this
Im legit crying over the Christian mom being so so supportive and giving positive messages to transguys. Im not trans but imagining all the kids and everyone that needs to hear that kind of message that will discover that tik tok has me crying happy tears
5:48. I actually teared up by that. Such a small act of kindness yet I can't help but think of how incredible important and impactful it will be for some to hear her say this.
I've been having a really bad week, but this video made me feel a lot better. Especially the Christian mom bit. Literally sat on my bed bawling my eyes out.
3:38 Last year I had a phone appointment with the access and equity services people at my school cuz I was just starting to medically transition and I was seeing a lot of doctors/specialists for various reasons so I wanted to make sure I could keep up with school. At the end of the appointment, the person asked me "is there another name you want to use, aside from Anna?" I had been doing voice training for a few months and I guess my voice passed well enough that she thought I was a trans guy instead. It was funny and very validating!
I just wanna say that I'm trying to find new friends bc the only one I had was shit-talking LGBT people everytime she could while knowing damn well that I'm bi ._.
oh, if she does that knowing youre bi, then she wasnt your friend to beging with.
i really hope you get to find irl friends who love and support you, but in the meantime jamie's community is a pretty good place to start 💖💖
Yo, trans woman here. I don't know if you're looking for online or offline friends, and I'm a bit shy at first, but I'm always available for friendship. Even if I do make for an awkward friend.
well get out from under the bed and come chill!
but seriously, i know those feels, sucks so much, and im looking for friends too
I know we will both find what we seek :)
Hey i know it can get kinda stuffy under the bed, you should come get some fresh air from time to time!
(Also love your profile pic, so cute!) Sorry about your friend, i understand how much it sucks for others to not be able to see what a great community it is! If you need a friend, even if it is just to chat up from time to time in video comments, im always up for meeting new people and would love to take up that role if you want :D
Have a good day whatever it is you are doing, because you are doing great :)
8:07 That's my mom! She's 64 and she doesn't always say things the right way but she's learning and 100% supportive of trans ppl. (And other LGBTQ+ peeps.) 😌
7:53 This. Woman. Must be protected.
The christian mom one I did close my eyes and started tearing up I wasn’t expecting that. My mom looked at me with utter disgust whenever I talked to her about being trans and I’ve never been spoken to like that once and she has always been emotionally distant since I was little even way before I told her. Hearing someone say that to me brought instant tears
I dont get the “for a trans [gender]” like people complement ur painting then add something like “oh its great.....for a trans girl” like wat
Yeah, that's sadly has been extremely common, historically every great achievement done by women was "that's a great (achievement)... for a woman" and so on. It's condescending
IMO, the "for a trans (gender)" part of a "compliment" turns the entire thing into an insult.
@@laum5371 it really is
@@someone-yd9pq true, its so frustrating
the christian mother literally made me cry so much. I can barely cry one single tear most times. and now the tears just keeps flowing...
i instantly started smiling at the Christian mom one like ahHHHH praise?? for me??
5:57 I started crying because my mom and the rest of my family wouldn't say that to me and hearing this just makes me feel so happy I cried happy tears
Mama Jill Wallace is so sweet and ive cried during her videos
I like the “stay confused” part at 2:05. I think everyone deserves rights and transgender TikTok are so educational especially for my trans brother who’s 9 and is literally the only other gay person in my family like 🏳️🌈.
Also I’m so confused about my sexuality and that stay confused is literally what I say to myself and all the homophobic people in my school! Stay safe, stay loved, stay you, don’t change for anyone! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Moral of the story: “I love trans tik to toks”
i was not prepared to cry today, I saw that Christian mom, and I got so happy I started sobbing because I just started picturing my mom saying this. this made me so happy thank you
When you said "Elmo says trans rights" it sounded like dobby from Harry Potter XD
I like to watch Jamie’s videos when I’m sad, or just generally upset about something. It takes my mind off of things, and makes my heart feel better. For one thing, the yellow is really calming. It makes me feel good because I think of yellow as a good and a happy colour, especially soft yellows like his chair in the background. I also love to watch LGBTQ+ because it makes me feel better about me planning to come out to my parents and others (who are all *very* Christian.)
I like his positive reviews and it just makes me happy. So, thank you, you beautiful, beautiful, person. 💖💛💙
Edit: I started crying at 5:45 because that’s what I wanted to hear. It was so impactful, even if I didn’t know her.
I just got out of class and I see "44 seconds ago"
tHe NAme anD tHe pRofILE pIc oMH
@@ivarr789 this is honestly perfect because I got this notification when I was about to get another band tee from HotTopic.
I'm a trans male, the christian mum one made me legit cry. this is what keeps me going.
Love you, Jammi!
Yes I'm 3 years late, I like watching your vids.
I'm not even trans and the Christian mom made me cry 😭
That Christian mom that was very supportive give me so much serotonin I am going to explode
never clicked on a video so fast in my life
Moood!😀
When I first found your channel and it said in your thumbnail "trans guy" my first thought was "Oh cool. He says he's trans, so he must be trans. Imma sub"
so I did