If the defendant's answer to why he kicked in the door is "I was violent because of what she did", the plaintiff better run, not walk away from this "relationship" ASAP! She needs to protect herself and her child.
exactly! the only defense for using violence is for self defense/defending the people around you. he had plenty of non-violent options to remedy the situation but chose to be violent. no man or woman should stay with a partner who is quick to violence & blames their violent actions on others. he needs some serious help.
bad verdict . the judge did not take into account the fact that he was purposely locked out and kept from his property . if he had called the cops then the cops would have told him he would have to leave without his property because he is not on the lease so the judge is being tricky because she knows damn well if he is not on the lease then the cops would not have helped him . plaintiff is at least half responsible and this bad verdict will encourage others to lock out people who are not on a lease but have their property in the home . once again , bad verdict .
Why is he even asking about them working out their relationship??? She need to RUUUUUNNNNNNN not walk away from him. His whole energy is disgusting. God forbid he takes the violence even further!!!! Domestic violence ALWAYS escalate!!! Prayer to her and the baby 💙
That would be the smart thing but odds are she won't. History already shows she goes back to him. Especially since they have a kid they'll be around each other. All it will take is him acting right a couple months and she will forgive him. Hopefully she doesn't but statistically she probably will. He is a scumbag. If she has brothers/dad/cousins they should handle this dude. I pray my daughter never falls into one like this but the first time he's out of line like that she won't have the option of being with him anymore. We will both make the news.
I may be wrong, but im pretty sure Doug wasn't talking about working it out as in being together. They have a child together so naturally they need to have a co-parenting relationship.🤷🏽♀️ I hope they can work things out and be great co-parents.
His attitude is terrible. He needs to be left alone for good. But her response to the question definitely made it seem like she would come running to him if he wants
The case hasn't started and Xavier's demeanor is telling me all I need to know. I wonder why these youngins make children and then play house thinking they have their sh-t together? It angers me to no end. And the child(ren)have to deal with it.
Listen up people… She is speaking truth and let all of us that have ears, HEAR these facts. Your playing with another innocent person(s) life. These actions become an generational issue that go from one generation to the other.
his demeanor told me he is tired of her bs and once again he has to deal with her now in court . she aint scared of him and she should pay for the door because she purposely locked him out knowing he needed to access his property .
No, they are not toxic to each other. He is abusing her, she is reacting to the abuse. Considering the way he used violence, locking him out may have saved her life. Domestic violence and rape are the only two crimes people blame the victim for. It is just as ridiculous for blaming a person whose home was burnt down by an arsonist just because the person owned a home. Or telling a person that was mugged it was their fault for having a purse. We need to stop blaming victims or labelling them as toxic. That only adds support to abusers and denigrates victims. The focus should be on the violent crime committed by the abuser.
With an attitude like his, he will end up killing her, she needs to get as far away from him, as possible, yet when Doug asks her 'do you think you can work things out', she sadly answers 'I'm not sure', whereas her answer should have been 'no way, I have more self-respect than that!'...
Anybody that come on national TV with dusty neck braids, a Cosby sweater, and a flat sheet for a door don’t give af about life 😂 run sis, u deserve better
He’ll be here soon if not already. He’s just getting his crazy thoughts together. But maybe Adrian will surprise us today- I can’t see how anyone could support the defendant’s actions on this one. Edit: 🫢😳 I just read his comment. I’m shocked!
CONTROL YOUR FERTILITY LADIES!!! For the love of whoever you believe in- 18 + years co-parenting with someone like this, equals nothing but drama, gray hair, no peace, zero benefit for your child(children) and possibly your life. Toss those gym shoes on and 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️! Poor girl- talking about she don't know if she can work it out with him. After he kicked in the door to the roof your child lays his head- she's a little special 🙄
No! People that abuse others do not have an anger management problem, they have a power and control problem. Most abusers do not abuse people at their work, churches, etc. They are in control when they commit abusive actions. Co-parenting would continue the abuse. Parallel parenting would be safer and better for the children.
Can't wait to hear this one..sir this is not her fault rather she locked you out or not you had no reason kicking that door this man is crazy i hope he don't jump on her for bringing him to court he's probably not gonna pay her the money anyways
they come to PC cause the show pays the judgement..that's how they get people to agree to share their mess w us 😂 (u notice the nice sheet he put up behind him foe court -classy guy)
😧 it's not that hard file a police report n have a gun share 50/50 coustody drop the baby or kids off at his mother or sister or aunt house during the Weeknd's
I understand and feel you. Been through it as a child and adult. If a person cant find the strength to do it for themselves, I hope they can for the children. Ill keep you in my prayers and that God will help you do what’s right vs what’s easy. I know that easier said than done but with God, everything is POSSIBLE 🕊
@@robinking6342 I just want to give you a hug and wish you well. Dont listen to nonsense and these trolls out here. I got you girl and if you need to talk, you got my ear!
This is another case of another beta male that can't control his emotions or keep his hands to himself, if the relationship is toxic walk away take your stuff and get out the first time why keep going back and forth. This is exactly why you should never be shacking up you're not married and not on the lease it's a recipe for a disaster.
These girls in my opinion don't get good advice or examples growing up. Many tend to gravitate to bums like this. Although it is not your job it will take women like yourself to educate and guide these young girls.
Love is blind, or either this woman is a pain freak he is both abusive, and arrogant as hell , why continue taking him back and having more children with him, SMH 💯
Yall need to keep checking on her and that baby. He is dangerous. He blamed his actions on her. For real she need to get herself some protection and take a restraining order out on him. He get angrier by the sec. Girl let him go for good. Girl make sure he stay off the lease. In fact she need to move & make sure no one know where and meet him at a public place for their child. Honestly should he be trusted with the child. Girl! Don't have no more babies by him or any man for a while. He feel entitled to hit women.
Lmfao at Doug laughing at the defendant's response to his question about "who takes a 1 yr old to school" 🤣🤣 He's childish for that question but I needed that laugh 😂
On a serious note, this case is sad. The defendant's behavior is psychotic. I hope the plaintiff leaves this toxic situation and finds a safe place for her and her child. Nothing good is going to come to her if she stays in this situation. The poor child 😕
This guy is violent and a problem. Anyone that says it’s your fault I reacted violent… is someone to stay far away from. I hate it for their kid to be raised by someone that way.
Smh.....run and run fast. And they have procreated together. And yet her answer at the end is that she's "not sure" if she will work on their relationship.
He said I did it because she made him, this is a common vocal use in domestic violence abusers/attackers. They blame the victim for their actions, and often do not care unless their freedom is taken away. I hope the young lady will never return to him. Those struggle braids and that sheets in the back tell me he has little to offer, and what he does has to offer you do not want. If she goes back he will hit her again, and she might not live. It's sad because she looks very young. Black women are more likely to experience domestic violence via their black male counterparts than any other race of woman in this country, let's hope she makes it out and stays out.
6:48 That's a sign of a weak-minded person. It's clear he's a women's beater and will teach his son it's also okay to do it. As a black man with sons, I taught my sons to respect women and NEVER raise their hands to a woman. Unless she's trying to do great harm to you or your loved ones. I had an ex-girlfriend throw a knife at me once doing an argument... I looked at her and proceeded to powerwalk my ass out the front door! We broke up after that and remind friends. My freedom is more important to me than slapping a woman. If you can't resolve your problems just by talking them out, then you need to talk to someone that can help.
Why did she not ask for money for her phone too? Glad the child wasn't around to see the violence. When the relationship is toxic remove yourself from the relationship
Unfortunately, some women think it's cute or okay to be with a violent man when they're literally putting their lives on the line. There should never be a second chance with a "man" who thinks it's okay to fight/beat a woman. You can't avoid narcissistic psychopaths, but you have the duty to leave once you figure out you're dating or married one.
He said you can't pick battles you can't win. This is very true, and I do not believe anyone should hit another person. However he seems very removed from society and almost hardened! It is so hard to be soft in this society but this kind of "masculinity" is so toxic for everyone involved; most importantly the children witnessing this kind of destructive behavior! This is so sad,
Anyone else see the obvious woman beater! What 1 year old goes to school......? My 5 year old was able to go to early start so where was that kid going exactly.....?
@@kellyannr4171 You are so right. DV crosses all racial and socio economic levels. As a 27 year veteran nurse, I have seen it all. Rich people can just afford to keep their business to themselves, but they are just as angry and violent as poor people. Rich women are also smarter to have abortions when their relationships/marriages are crap.
@@kellyannr4171 Okay, self-proclaimed mind readers. Do people ever tell you not to jump to conclusions? I wasn’t referring to DV at all. I was looking at the picture they presented of the apartment hallway/door (which looks like some disgusting public bathroom in Kazakhstan I saw back in the Soviet days), their sad-looking apartments, the stress they seem to be facing on the daily basis, etc. etc. It is abominable that we have people living in such deplorable conditions in the RICHEST nation in the world.
@@nondescriptnyc ahhh, you’ve confirmed your bigotry. While I can’t read minds, I can see through BS! Don’t feign ignorance now that you’ve been called out. No country on the planet has solely wealthy, or solely poor. Each country, including your own, is affected by both states of poverty and wealth. Kick rocks!
Idk why whenever there's real serious criminals or abusive men, the judge talks very calm, patient and respectful with them, but when there's a nice person who tries to be good she goes off in a frenzy and yelling and rude disrespectful and trying to mock them
She's 'not sure'" if she wants to get back together? She needs to think about her son. He obviously totally disrespects her, the child, the judge and the police. It's sad but many times these women are the victims of fatal domestic violence incidents.
This A hole reminds me of my ex and his brother . DV solves everything to them and beating doors , property, cars , etc. He’s insecure inside and she needs to get a RO . I pray to God she does get help asap. I’m praying for her .
It is. Between bums, abusers, men who still want to be rappers/producers/beat makers/ club promoters, and left over baby daddies, the dating pool is sewage. Quality women have to do a lot of work to find quality men. We also have to compete with instagram models, or the “for hire, booking info is in my bio” women.
Don't worry Judge Milian, she'll go back to him. He'll beat her up again, he'll tear up stuff again, they'll continue to fight each other and they will both stay stuck-on-stupid. This is the result of low I.Q.'s. Let's hope they stay together forever because the rest of the world has enough problems.
Unfortunately, this is what often happens…women will end up going back to the abusers. I don’t think it’s about their IQ, but many women DO make these shockingly poor decisions.
@@nondescriptnyc Agreed; to a point. It is a shame when the internet has been available for 25+ years and remains at a woman's fingertips, that she doesn't choose to use it to learn from the stories and experiences of other women. Instead she chooses to be used, abused mentally and physically, bring children into a chaotic, faux relationship for some dude who fed her smiles and his game-of-lies. Being young has nothing to do with being dumb anymore. I have watched many court shows, including Judge Mathis, where there are many, many older people, 40 years old and up, who continue to exhibit mindless behavior. People with low I.Q.'s think that when they do the same thing, over and over again, they'll get a different result. It appears like humanity is taking big steps backwards instead of growing... intellectually.
Dude is your typical bully, a pure jerk. I agree Iam, that girl needs to run, and Doug asks some of the most ridiculous questions sometimes. It’s funny when the case is light and silly but not when your talking about things like domestic abuse.
"Do you think you can work this relationship out?"
"I'm not sure"
And that is how domestic violence continues, generation after generation.
Exactly.....what more evidence does she need to understand that this man has and will continue to abuse her if she doesn't leave?
I can tell she’s afraid of him.
Pathetic
No I think it’s because abusers will abuse it why it’s a generational problem
@@nancebug23 a visit to a funeral home to get fitted for a casket..
If the defendant's answer to why he kicked in the door is "I was violent because of what she did", the plaintiff better run, not walk away from this "relationship" ASAP! She needs to protect herself and her child.
That’s how it start
exactly! the only defense for using violence is for self defense/defending the people around you. he had plenty of non-violent options to remedy the situation but chose to be violent. no man or woman should stay with a partner who is quick to violence & blames their violent actions on others. he needs some serious help.
I hope she’s okay. Please leave before he puts you in a casket. The sad thing is that he isn’t taking any responsibility.
He is frightening. His whole demeanor was that of someone who has no remorse. I feel for her and hope she gets away from him and gets help!
They never do. They always blame the person they abuse.
Something missing with this girl.
@@merdynes self worth, I think. That’s what’s missing.
bad verdict . the judge did not take into account the fact that he was purposely locked out and kept from his property . if he had called the cops then the cops would have told him he would have to leave without his property because he is not on the lease so the judge is being tricky because she knows damn well if he is not on the lease then the cops would not have helped him . plaintiff is at least half responsible and this bad verdict will encourage others to lock out people who are not on a lease but have their property in the home . once again , bad verdict .
Why is he even asking about them working out their relationship??? She need to RUUUUUNNNNNNN not walk away from him. His whole energy is disgusting. God forbid he takes the violence even further!!!! Domestic violence ALWAYS escalate!!! Prayer to her and the baby 💙
That would be the smart thing but odds are she won't. History already shows she goes back to him. Especially since they have a kid they'll be around each other. All it will take is him acting right a couple months and she will forgive him. Hopefully she doesn't but statistically she probably will. He is a scumbag. If she has brothers/dad/cousins they should handle this dude. I pray my daughter never falls into one like this but the first time he's out of line like that she won't have the option of being with him anymore. We will both make the news.
I may be wrong, but im pretty sure Doug wasn't talking about working it out as in being together. They have a child together so naturally they need to have a co-parenting relationship.🤷🏽♀️ I hope they can work things out and be great co-parents.
I bet he’s one of those High Value Men 😂
His attitude is terrible. He needs to be left alone for good. But her response to the question definitely made it seem like she would come running to him if he wants
@@ki9206 I agree. He doesn't gaf but seems like she isnt fed up yet.
I'm sure he will wind up behind bars for domestic abuse one day. What a loser.
The case hasn't started and Xavier's demeanor is telling me all I need to know.
I wonder why these youngins make children and then play house thinking they have their sh-t together? It angers me to no end. And the child(ren)have to deal with it.
Listen up people… She is speaking truth and let all of us that have ears, HEAR these facts. Your playing with another innocent person(s) life. These actions become an generational issue that go from one generation to the other.
Because getting pregnant is easy
Its immediately obvious that he's garbage
@@foreverever9001 I came to say this. Meanwhile learning how to read, write, or performing a skill requires training.
his demeanor told me he is tired of her bs and once again he has to deal with her now in court . she aint scared of him and she should pay for the door because she purposely locked him out knowing he needed to access his property .
Yep, it’s evident that he beats her, and says it’s her fault for provoking him. They’re both toxic to each other. I’m concerned for the child.
No, they are not toxic to each other. He is abusing her, she is reacting to the abuse. Considering the way he used violence, locking him out may have saved her life. Domestic violence and rape are the only two crimes people blame the victim for. It is just as ridiculous for blaming a person whose home was burnt down by an arsonist just because the person owned a home. Or telling a person that was mugged it was their fault for having a purse. We need to stop blaming victims or labelling them as toxic. That only adds support to abusers and denigrates victims. The focus should be on the violent crime committed by the abuser.
@@maureenerickson-robertshaw3985 ok.
True signs of an abuser
That “I’m not sure “ will have you 6 feet under! Please leave this man alone!
All that rolling off the eyes was not necessary. He doesn’t care and he’ll do it again. Runnnn 🏃🏾♀️ girl!!
Bad attitude!! Run!!
With an attitude like his, he will end up killing her, she needs to get as far away from him, as possible, yet when Doug asks her 'do you think you can work things out', she sadly answers 'I'm not sure', whereas her answer should have been 'no way, I have more self-respect than that!'...
That door and hallway are straight out of the projects
Yeah that's my sister she does
Anybody that come on national TV with dusty neck braids, a Cosby sweater, and a flat sheet for a door don’t give af about life 😂 run sis, u deserve better
Funniest comment by far 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know he was hot in that sweater with his bald headed a$$😂😂😂😂
I agree. run sis
Run please if you need sneakers let me know 😉
Man😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Once couples start putting their hands on each other, the relationship is over.
One minute in - his eye roll is everyone's first impression..... where's Adrian?
He’ll be here soon if not already. He’s just getting his crazy thoughts together. But maybe Adrian will surprise us today- I can’t see how anyone could support the defendant’s actions on this one.
Edit: 🫢😳 I just read his comment. I’m shocked!
You sure do ask about Adrian alot.
Did I miss something? Who is Adrian?
Edit: Never mind. I just read his comment too. Always a piece of work. 🙄
CONTROL YOUR FERTILITY LADIES!!! For the love of whoever you believe in- 18 + years co-parenting with someone like this, equals nothing but drama, gray hair, no peace, zero benefit for your child(children) and possibly your life.
Toss those gym shoes on and 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️!
Poor girl- talking about she don't know if she can work it out with him. After he kicked in the door to the roof your child lays his head- she's a little special 🙄
This dude is giving off “I will kill you and our son” vibes. Ol girl needs to run away from him immediately.
Right. Hope that I don't see them on fatal attraction
Yes!
“My son is smart” 😂 I don’t know why that was so funny.
Cause dude is an idiot lol. He was taking him to daycare
Right 😂
Because he (the defendant) clearly is not nor is the mother. The child probably goes to daycare, not school.
"Has he hit you?"
"Yes."
"So why do you keep letting him back in?"
"I don't know."
She sounds a little slow.
@@Imissyoulou that's the same thing I thought and the judge picked up on that too.
SMH 💯
Not slow but like a child mind state. 😢 Which is sad because she probably saw this as a child hence why she think it's OK to some extent.
@@Ischelliem If she thought it was okay, she wouldn't have called the police on him multiple times.
It's really too bad the judge can't order him anger management counseling, and the both of them co-parenting counseling.
That would fall under the jurisdiction of family court not civil court
No! People that abuse others do not have an anger management problem, they have a power and control problem. Most abusers do not abuse people at their work, churches, etc. They are in control when they commit abusive actions. Co-parenting would continue the abuse. Parallel parenting would be safer and better for the children.
“Who takes a 1 yr old to school” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Doug be trolling tf out of people and I love it!!! 😂
🤣🤣🤣right!!
Can't wait to hear this one..sir this is not her fault rather she locked you out or not you had no reason kicking that door this man is crazy i hope he don't jump on her for bringing him to court he's probably not gonna pay her the money anyways
they come to PC cause the show pays the judgement..that's how they get people to agree to share their mess w us 😂 (u notice the nice sheet he put up behind him foe court -classy guy)
*whether
@@alyssahamlett I thought the show pays the judgement. Otherwise they most definitely would not be on national tv airing out their dirty laundry!
She needs to file a restraining order from him and get full custody of that baby. Next time that door can be her face or the baby
This dude needs help!!! Should be in somebody’s Jail!!!
Hang tight, he’ll end up there soon enough.
He's on his way...
@@myshanamakisi6063 it’s ppl like him to always remind u the devil is real
@@andrejamal5438 Facts!... Reminders are for the Believers.
Omg Daycare! They are calling daycare school Doug🙄🤦🏾♀️
I feel her pain. It's so hard to leave an abusive situation and I don't know why.
😧 it's not that hard file a police report n have a gun share 50/50 coustody drop the baby or kids off at his mother or sister or aunt house during the Weeknd's
Sounds like u got it solved. Good for u.
I understand and feel you. Been through it as a child and adult. If a person cant find the strength to do it for themselves, I hope they can for the children. Ill keep you in my prayers and that God will help you do what’s right vs what’s easy. I know that easier said than done but with God, everything is POSSIBLE 🕊
@@badgurl5758 thank u.
@@robinking6342 I just want to give you a hug and wish you well. Dont listen to nonsense and these trolls out here. I got you girl and if you need to talk, you got my ear!
This guy is a real piece of work
This is another case of another beta male that can't control his emotions or keep his hands to himself, if the relationship is toxic walk away take your stuff and get out the first time why keep going back and forth. This is exactly why you should never be shacking up you're not married and not on the lease it's a recipe for a disaster.
These girls in my opinion don't get good advice or examples growing up. Many tend to gravitate to bums like this. Although it is not your job it will take women like yourself to educate and guide these young girls.
Love is blind, or either this woman is a pain freak he is both abusive, and arrogant as hell , why continue taking him back and having more children with him, SMH 💯
There’s no one answer to that. It’s hard to understand from the outside.
@That Tunisian Crochet Life I object to that description.
“Who takes a one year old to school” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 he knew that man was talking about daycare
Why is he so aggressive …… Sirrrr calm down
for real!!! he's ready to bang over breakfast it's not even noon yet damn
I hear this happens as a result of the chronic stress of living in poverty.
@@nondescriptnyc ummmmm ok
When he said "I kicked the door back in the other way" I literally fell out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sadly, she's not done with this guy... He definitely isn't "co-parenting" material...hope she and her child don't get hurt.
Yall need to keep checking on her and that baby. He is dangerous. He blamed his actions on her. For real she need to get herself some protection and take a restraining order out on him. He get angrier by the sec. Girl let him go for good. Girl make sure he stay off the lease. In fact she need to move & make sure no one know where and meet him at a public place for their child. Honestly should he be trusted with the child. Girl! Don't have no more babies by him or any man for a while. He feel entitled to hit women.
Toxic ignorance is THE WORST combination on earth 🤦🏾♀️👎🏾🙄😒
Yikes! He’s disgusting 🤮! I pray for both of them.
I completely agree. I pray more for the one year old.
And this who you chose to give a child 🤦🏾♂️
Bruh... Why dude laugh when Xavier said his 1 year old son is smart?! Doug a SAVAGE FRFR LOL!!!
He laughed because the father clearly doesn’t know the difference between daycare and school. Nothing more, nothing less.
I certainly hope that baby grows up to be smarter and more responsible than his father, but I doubt it.
@@nondescriptnyc the mother called it school too
This guy is out of pocket smh
Lmfao at Doug laughing at the defendant's response to his question about "who takes a 1 yr old to school" 🤣🤣
He's childish for that question but I needed that laugh 😂
oh the narsisstic
is strong with this one
He's a clown and a coward! She's a fool, smh!
On a serious note, this case is sad. The defendant's behavior is psychotic. I hope the plaintiff leaves this toxic situation and finds a safe place for her and her child. Nothing good is going to come to her if she stays in this situation. The poor child 😕
This guy is violent and a problem. Anyone that says it’s your fault I reacted violent… is someone to stay far away from. I hate it for their kid to be raised by someone that way.
I really hope she stays away from him. He is majorly abusive and has major anger issues.
Smh.....run and run fast. And they have procreated together. And yet her answer at the end is that she's "not sure" if she will work on their relationship.
He said I did it because she made him, this is a common vocal use in domestic violence abusers/attackers. They blame the victim for their actions, and often do not care unless their freedom is taken away. I hope the young lady will never return to him. Those struggle braids and that sheets in the back tell me he has little to offer, and what he does has to offer you do not want. If she goes back he will hit her again, and she might not live. It's sad because she looks very young. Black women are more likely to experience domestic violence via their black male counterparts than any other race of woman in this country, let's hope she makes it out and stays out.
The thug rolled his eyes at the judge.......He needs to spend some time in jail......to get a dose of reality.
Why do you keep letting him back in?😢 That's the nature of domestic abuse. Listen to him
6:48 That's a sign of a weak-minded person. It's clear he's a women's beater and will teach his son it's also okay to do it. As a black man with sons, I taught my sons to respect women and NEVER raise their hands to a woman. Unless she's trying to do great harm to you or your loved ones.
I had an ex-girlfriend throw a knife at me once doing an argument... I looked at her and proceeded to powerwalk my ass out the front door! We broke up after that and remind friends. My freedom is more important to me than slapping a woman. If you can't resolve your problems just by talking them out, then you need to talk to someone that can help.
You are STILL friends with a woman who threw a knife🔪 at you? You are good because I would have cut that B off with the quickness.
Why do women find these men who are abusive
Low self esteem maybe? 🤷🏾♀️
I really wish Judge Mathis handled this case
And what would he have done? Other than calling the plantiff a fool for being with him?
She better be very careful he needs a lot of help!!! Sad that she has to parent with this man
Ladies get yourself some self-esteem. It's FREE!!...smh
Good morning beautiful people!
Good morning!
Good morning!
Good day!
Good life!
Happiness to you!
good morning! it's already 100degrees today where I am. staying indoors with the rest of the jury
@@wontsufferfools9332 And to you as well! 😉
Why did she not ask for money for her phone too? Glad the child wasn't around to see the violence. When the relationship is toxic remove yourself from the relationship
cuz he didn't wanna get up early???!!! LOOSER ALERT!!! 🤮🤮🤮🤮
Unfortunately, some women think it's cute or okay to be with a violent man when they're literally putting their lives on the line. There should never be a second chance with a "man" who thinks it's okay to fight/beat a woman. You can't avoid narcissistic psychopaths, but you have the duty to leave once you figure out you're dating or married one.
Cuz those women be violent also
LMAOOOO
Not laughing at him when he said his son is smart 🤣🤣🤣🤣
A lock door is to prevent someone from the outside getting in … he’s a biggggg Lame 😒
This guy is DANGEROUS! She needs to run the hell away FAST
That's one sick brotha. She doesn't need to work anything out. He needs to get help
He rolled his eyes 100 times. Sassy mama😂
Why do these young people have no self respect? Don’t allow anyone to use or abuse you!!
Lord I hope someone tells her that she can do way better than that! 🙏🏼
So sad that this baby has parents like this. Mom is petty for putting his stuff by the door and he's CRAZY with his illogical thinking.
Why is anyone even talking to this dude? You would have to agree with his dusty logic just to even converse with him.
He said you can't pick battles you can't win. This is very true, and I do not believe anyone should hit another person. However he seems very removed from society and almost hardened! It is so hard to be soft in this society but this kind of "masculinity" is so toxic for everyone involved; most importantly the children witnessing this kind of destructive behavior! This is so sad,
Anyone else see the obvious woman beater! What 1 year old goes to school......? My 5 year old was able to go to early start so where was that kid going exactly.....?
Those doors are difficult to bend. Dude was going apeshit on that door. That was probably really scary
This man is crazy
All I can say after watching this episode: Poverty is HORRIBLE in more ways than just not having access to goods and services…
Explain, please. It’s my thinking that domestic violence isn’t exclusive to poor people. I’m looking forward to your response.
@@kellyannr4171 You are so right. DV crosses all racial and socio economic levels. As a 27 year veteran nurse, I have seen it all. Rich people can just afford to keep their business to themselves, but they are just as angry and violent as poor people. Rich women are also smarter to have abortions when their relationships/marriages are crap.
@@Childfree334 precisely! I thought this person’s statement was quite ignorant.
@@kellyannr4171 Okay, self-proclaimed mind readers. Do people ever tell you not to jump to conclusions? I wasn’t referring to DV at all. I was looking at the picture they presented of the apartment hallway/door (which looks like some disgusting public bathroom in Kazakhstan I saw back in the Soviet days), their sad-looking apartments, the stress they seem to be facing on the daily basis, etc. etc. It is abominable that we have people living in such deplorable conditions in the RICHEST nation in the world.
@@nondescriptnyc ahhh, you’ve confirmed your bigotry. While I can’t read minds, I can see through BS! Don’t feign ignorance now that you’ve been called out. No country on the planet has solely wealthy, or solely poor. Each country, including your own, is affected by both states of poverty and wealth. Kick rocks!
And bringing a child in to their lives did what for them?? Smh ugh!! Poor kid 😢
Honey, run for your life
She's probably already back with him.
...Right, and if she's not, then her and a herd of her ghetto friends are probably out group-fighting with the new fool, errr new 'girl.'
Idk why whenever there's real serious criminals or abusive men, the judge talks very calm, patient and respectful with them, but when there's a nice person who tries to be good she goes off in a frenzy and yelling and rude disrespectful and trying to mock them
I wish this case was on Judge Mathis so he could get read for filth! What a dirt disgrace of a man. He’s a little boy.
You can't pick battles you can't win 🤨
Why didn't he have a key to the apartment?
I can’t with this case
His mentality is soooo common in his community. High Value Man 😂
She's 'not sure'" if she wants to get back together? She needs to think about her son. He obviously totally disrespects her, the child, the judge and the police. It's sad but many times these women are the victims of fatal domestic violence incidents.
Because some women would rather have a piece of a man than no man at all. 🤷🏾♀️
Welp, im glad she was able to stand up for herself here in court.
They never wanna take responsibility for their actions.
She needs to run!! None of this will end well. Dude was so calm talking crazy on tv on a court show as if his reasoning is normal.
Dude is a punk and needs to be taught a real lesson
What does she have on her eyes? Why does she keep going back to this man?
1 year old goes to "school" but parents don't go to work??🤦
This A hole reminds me of my ex and his brother . DV solves everything to them and beating doors , property, cars , etc. He’s insecure inside and she needs to get a RO . I pray to God she does get help asap. I’m praying for her .
Where do y’all be finding these men?? I mean is the dating pool that pissy??
It is for black women because they are brain washed to only want black men. If they wake up and open up their options, they can do much better.
It is. Between bums, abusers, men who still want to be rappers/producers/beat makers/ club promoters, and left over baby daddies, the dating pool is sewage. Quality women have to do a lot of work to find quality men. We also have to compete with instagram models, or the “for hire, booking info is in my bio” women.
I hope the judge called CPS afterwards. Failure to provide a safe home for a child.
Lmfao!! This fool say he fixed the door by kicking it the other way 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@6:15 rolling his eyes.. smh, yeah he's a real catch... NOT.
Man, his logic and rationale is so off! That is scary.
his permanent home should be PRISON
That guy is dangerous and stupid. That’s a scary combo. She needs to wise up and keep that guy away. If not for herself, then for her son.
That's his home training and she gave him three chances.
Don't worry Judge Milian, she'll go back to him. He'll beat her up again, he'll tear up stuff again, they'll continue to fight each other and they will both stay stuck-on-stupid.
This is the result of low I.Q.'s.
Let's hope they stay together forever because the rest of the world has enough problems.
Unfortunately, this is what often happens…women will end up going back to the abusers. I don’t think it’s about their IQ, but many women DO make these shockingly poor decisions.
@@nondescriptnyc Agreed; to a point. It is a shame when the internet has been available for 25+ years and remains at a woman's fingertips, that she doesn't choose to use it to learn from the stories and experiences of other women. Instead she chooses to be used, abused mentally and physically, bring children into a chaotic, faux relationship for some dude who fed her smiles and his game-of-lies. Being young has nothing to do with being dumb anymore. I have watched many court shows, including Judge Mathis, where there are many, many older people, 40 years old and up, who continue to exhibit mindless behavior. People with low I.Q.'s think that when they do the same thing, over and over again, they'll get a different result. It appears like humanity is taking big steps backwards instead of growing... intellectually.
He is a clown 🤡, she needs to run🏃🏾♀️ away from him...fast, that 1 year old was going to daycare and not school. Sir, you're a woman beater!! 🗑🚮
Toxic, disgusting and sad. PLUS there’s a 1 year old witnessing this…?
Dude is your typical bully, a pure jerk. I agree Iam, that girl needs to run, and Doug asks some of the most ridiculous questions sometimes. It’s funny when the case is light and silly but not when your talking about things like domestic abuse.
Look who she had a baby by. She made me doing honey please you’re responsible for your own actions. This is so embarrassing.