This man is depressed and traumatized, he has not moved past the demise of his son, he is still mourning, sometimes its difficult to move on as a man we are built different, we love deep, the love he had for his son is eating him daily, I pray that he gets courage to move on, if he got another soon soon it could have helped him move on, I feel him
@@tonnyndundahse69 I am well loved, for decades now. The current generation of millennials and Gen-Z hawajui upendo ni nini. Very selfish and self-absorbed beings! 😅
The man clearly is dying inside from survivors guilt. I wish he'd go through with therapy and take life one step at a time. There are depths of depression I've seen where people around you see you as a burden and thus will seek to detach themselves from you at your time of need because you drain them... At least that's what I thought I understood when things went sideways for me.... So you're suspended in a proverbial hole, too far from the top and never quite hitting the bottom... But you got to believe in yourself again and love yourself once more, forgive whatever and whoever you need to forgive. Otherwise, when trauma hits hard, your life is stuck at that point. Everyone else's life keeps moving but you're frozen in time
Respect women,even after being caught cheating she managed to turn herself into a victim and started crying,look at how she started crocodile tears the moment she called his mother,she's one of the most manipulative women ever.
If you want to die while living, try living on the past. Drinking will not restore the kid back. That man can't go to therapy ni matusi tu na drinking? The girl should also not cheat as a solution to their problems. First, ensure you are out of one relationship completely before you embark on the next.
There are 5 stages of grief: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and finally, Acceptance. This guy is still in the Anger stage, that's why he doesn't even want to go to therapy or listen to anyone who wants to help him. Add the fact that the woman is already sleeping with another man; that marriage is dead. Kila mtu aende njia yake
Most men & women will feel you at your current state. When you're done with it, they no longer like you, it becomes boring. Eugene might run away bcoz he doesn't want a burden in his life, while when he was 'stealing' from his fellow man it was sweet!
@@collinsgutwa283 You can only understand derrick pain if you have lost your own kid or someone close to you. People have different ways or mourning and moving on. Let him be.
Even in the world full of BILLIONS of people, the person who loves you for who you're at heart, and Someone who's willing to accept all of your past mistakes, is a difficult person to find in the world of Today 😢
You follow up with the guy umchukue. Or, umuoze kwenu, or um hook na friend/s zako. Mpaka apate dem ampendae. Make that your job. Achana na huyu. Hata wewe she does owe you Zilch. Nara!!! Kwenda ukaokoe kijana wako* Na dem aki regret later, inakuhusu nini? Tena unajua ata-regret, wewe ni Mungu mjuaji wa yote later. Na hata aki regret, regret ni part ya life yetu sote. Regrets hazikuandikuwa huyu dem tu. Wewe pia waweza regret. Unakosa songa na maisha cz ya uwoga wa regrets. Do what u believe is right, km umekosa, too bad. And do better nxt time. //Do so, hata ukianguka mara 10 or 100. If u want. Bora usi harasse mtu/watu in the process.
As i have always said, that dress code matters alot, Mimi hii mgongo wazi, siwezi fuatana nayo. Pole brother, She encouraged us to comment, ndio hizo soma msichana.
Yes, but in dwelling on it, truly what do you stand to gain? If the child is alive but hanging onto dear life, you can weep to God in prayer and He might heal him(based on His will)....but if the child is dead and gone, are you being realistic when you dwell on the issue? Isn't that shaking your fist at the very God who gave that child life and has the right to take it at will? Let's know our place, we are not God and we cannot question Him from a superior stance, why He does what He does, or mock Him by wallowing in misery through life He has given us, because of His decisions. That said, cheating is never justified no matter the circumstance.
Im sorry but i believe the girl. She also lost a kid and life has to move on. He clearly has no respect for her, imagine coming home to hear your son passed. Girl, go where you find peace and happiness. ❤
Hilda hugs mama ❤️❤️,, people can judge you but I personally know your pain,I have know you for the longest time let them judge you until they are in your shoes😢
Msee kukunywa ni hard bytheway na bado hawajafungua simu y uyo msee nashangaa naa msee anakula poa kaa alikuwa ashazoea chuma n mtu analewa wanataka achukue dildo au bt nashuku uyu jamaa hayuko safe pia
Huyu jamaa ndo ataendelea kunywa proper, na huyu dem ndo anakaa mlevi ama mimi ndo naona zangu, juu anaturn vitu around mpaka mwenzake ndo anakaa victim😂😂
Bro please sober up. Panda mbegu tena as soon as possible. You are still very young. That's the proven way to mop up the trauma of loosing that kid. Don't waste more time coz the lady still loves you but is on the verge.
For the fact that she had calling his parents wth such respect like her own parents,I choose to forgive her. Very few can talk in law parents wth such respect
There's something wrong with society if you are being sympathetic to a woman who is cheating on her husband,what if she was the one mourning the death of her child and her husband cheated on her will you also support him and feel sympathetic for him?
BMS kindly follow up on this man, he is dippresed and can loose it any moment, advice him to get help and moreso get another kid, it will help in healing
I don't support infidelity... Lakini I can relate to what she has gone through...this guy is also a narcissist.women are emotional beings and when a man is completely unavailable, it's very tricky
You can't marry a prostitute at heart and you think you've a qife...i pity this guy and anyone who's blamed of their partners promiscuity behaviour, why someone cry after knowing she has been caught
As much as this relationship sounds emotionally damaging to the couple and many of us viewers, I believe this two need serious therapy. Loosing their son put them apart and they need love, they need each other. Sometimes let’s not rush to taking sides, let’s look for solutions to the main matter. Ni hayo tu for now. Bring them back BMS if you can and see if they can leave peacefully not in chaos.
Yes people grief differently but drinking is not the solution. Uta kunywa forever kama hujai deal na mulevi you can't understand the lady .... Alafu we can't imprison the girl forever she need to move on and be happy
What's clear is that the young family was broken by the son's death.. I pray for healing..The young dad is beating himself up;he can't forgive himself;yet life just happened.. He needs guidance... I will pray BMS helps this young man find a bearing...
This guy needs help and alot of understanding. He is broken. It's only 2 years, my dad passed on in 2019, and I haven't moved on, I can't imagine loosing a son. We heal differently and in different times. She thinks the grass is greener until that guy turns to someone she never expected. She is unreasonable and a psychopath. Anapigia mama yake bt hasemi she is cheating. What an excuse of a woman.
I am confused here, who is disrespecting another? i think this girl is disrespecting this guy, despite finding out that this girl is cheating on him, he has not put hands on that lady, this lady is telling this man that she chooses Eugen not Him!! what disrect is this for a man??
@@EveIvy-y1q ni wewe sasa unacheat alafu unajifanya malaika uku, utaachwa na huyo mwingine, sasa unatrend for the wrong reason and it won't take you anywhere.
I feel for this man, the moment African men will learn to embrace therapy and not see it as weakness, that's the day they will learn to heal. It's sad how he's still harbored this pain for this long. Death of kids has caused even the best of couples to separate before, problem is not seeking help and drowning in alcohol or any other bad habit to numb the pain somehow. But truth remains, the agony of losing the child would still be there the morning after. Men need to know how to go for therapy especially African men. Learn to also seek inner healing in a good church if you cannot go for therapy. We don't want to be loosing good men to suicide or alcoholism because of problems that can be overcome. Mental health is important. Heal brother Derrick, May you heal from this.
The woman she is innocent mwenye anasababisha zote ni mwanaume,maneno yake tu inaonyesha ..woman need love,woman need a smart man not in wearing but smart mind and man he should be humble not talking aimlessly
Kwani hata mtaa kidogo tuu hivi Nairobi BMS ame zero haiwezi kuwa na ndoa ya kikweli? What about kenya? Siimeoza basi. Pole bro kwa kusalitiwa lakini unakaa bwege. Hata mtoi siwako.
I have dated a drunkard and it's harmful to the partner...I tried but the fact that they could be anywhere doing whatever its risky and diminishing...they are both wrong but drunkard for me is a big NO its traumatising
Its hard living with a drunkard who doesn't want to change no matter what you try,may the lady find peace and love.steve kindly follow up on the guy, he needs a shoulder to lean on
The guy is wrong regardless of the girl cheating....kama kila mtu angekua hawezi move on after death of closed one basi hii dunia ingekua na useless people countlessly! Move on kijanaa tunajikwaa tunanyanyuka tunaenda na maisha you burrying urself kwenye sadness hakuna kitu unasolve...ona therapist heal zalisha mtoi mwingine sivo you gon get burried as well! kaa hapo ukikaa depressed na maisha itakupita
Loosing someone to death does not give you license to drinking alcohol.. n we must accept the reality that love conquers all. The man Derek must grow up
People handle loss differently. Wewe laumu to boy child hapo while grief has not yet struck you. I don't support drinking, but that is not the reason for the lady to cheat. At least she should have walked away
If someone understands the pain of loosing a son and witnessing everything either as a man or a woman aki, haezi ongea vile huyu dame anaongea Kaa mjinga. I once encountered such and no one ever understood me. I had to move out coz I felt mmi ndio naumia
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This man is depressed and traumatized, he has not moved past the demise of his son, he is still mourning, sometimes its difficult to move on as a man we are built different, we love deep, the love he had for his son is eating him daily, I pray that he gets courage to move on, if he got another soon soon it could have helped him move on, I feel him
Eti men love deep, which men? tell us which ones LOL
@@bellaolum9768 if your partner doesn't love you deep just know he loves someone else, it happens
@@tonnyndundahse69 I am well loved, for decades now. The current generation of millennials and Gen-Z hawajui upendo ni nini. Very selfish and self-absorbed beings! 😅
The man clearly is dying inside from survivors guilt. I wish he'd go through with therapy and take life one step at a time. There are depths of depression I've seen where people around you see you as a burden and thus will seek to detach themselves from you at your time of need because you drain them... At least that's what I thought I understood when things went sideways for me.... So you're suspended in a proverbial hole, too far from the top and never quite hitting the bottom... But you got to believe in yourself again and love yourself once more, forgive whatever and whoever you need to forgive. Otherwise, when trauma hits hard, your life is stuck at that point. Everyone else's life keeps moving but you're frozen in time
The wife is worse than the death of Derrick's son......
Wueeh! Lakini kuvumilia mlevi ni ngumu. I feel this girl.
Kwenda kukulwa nje ndio solution.
Naomba unipitie please 😂❤
But kuvumilia mtu hawezi change...ni ngumi sana
Kwanza mlevi Malaya..ghai wee ni vigumu
Mwanaume hajacheat na Ako depressed since they had accident with the son and the baby passed away 😢😢@@milkawaithira8472
Respect women,even after being caught cheating she managed to turn herself into a victim and started crying,look at how she started crocodile tears the moment she called his mother,she's one of the most manipulative women ever.
Naomba unipitie please 😢😂
She should have told the Mum what she did.
She's a hypocrite
😂😂😂
She is worse than devil 😈
NEVER Envy other people's relationships and lifestyles, you don't know what's happening behind the scene 😂😂
Nipitie please 😂❤
I stopped long time a go😂😂
God knew what He was about when He said that "thou shalt not covet they neighbors wife, servant....."
That's a lesson I learned long time ago.i stay busy by minding my own business.kimeramba wengi.
If you want to die while living, try living on the past. Drinking will not restore the kid back. That man can't go to therapy ni matusi tu na drinking?
The girl should also not cheat as a solution to their problems. First, ensure you are out of one relationship completely before you embark on the next.
She cheated and trying to guilt trip the guy and the parents. Woman tell your parents you're promiscuous 🙄🙄🙄
Nipitie please 😂😮
And stevo amenyamaza as if she did nothing wrong na vile uoanishaji watu wengine. Sipoa madze.
@@kenmakau001nipitie pia nmekupitia
Mario nipitie pia nmekupitia
Give me this lady ohooo
Continue scrolling😂 I'm also looking for that comment
There are 5 stages of grief: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and finally, Acceptance. This guy is still in the Anger stage, that's why he doesn't even want to go to therapy or listen to anyone who wants to help him. Add the fact that the woman is already sleeping with another man; that marriage is dead. Kila mtu aende njia yake
Eugene your girlfriend ameachana na bwana yake now u can take over😂😂😂😂
Naomba unipitie please 😢😂
anachukua mali iko already wounded atawezana kweli...wnaume huwa tunarecycle sana
Most men & women will feel you at your current state. When you're done with it, they no longer like you, it becomes boring.
Eugene might run away bcoz he doesn't want a burden in his life, while when he was 'stealing' from his fellow man it was sweet!
Huyo Eugene ikisikia ameachana na Derrick atakimbia manze awachwe peke yake
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this man is going through hell😢,,the way dem anaongea sauti ikiwa juu na ni yeye amekosea,,gives us questions💔😪,,,may the Lord do you good derrick💖
Ni dem aliuwa mtoto? Nope. It was an accident.
Na, km dem amemtoka huyu kijana, SILAZIMA. Hata km ali cheat, ata cheat or whatever...Bye ni bye.
enda tu sleep over na usirudi go.wee ndio unafanya akunywe ju ya stress. goooo.
Naomba unipitie please 🎉❤😂
SOMETIMES BEAUTY CAN BE DECEIVING,I SYMPATHIZE WITH EUGINE AS WELL
Reading comment is interesting than the post itself, hit alike tukisonga please.
You understand it brother. Most of the videos I first enjoy reading the comments before listening to it.
You deserve better babygirl....asiyefunzwa na mamake hufunzwa na ulimwengu...let the parents take the responsibility of their son!
This woman is toxic. There is no justification of cheating. She belongs to the streets.
toxic aje, i think you are the derick type
@@collinsgutwa283sure aki alafu ni drunkard mnoma sanaaa aki kusema ukweli kukaa n mlevi ni nomaa
@@collinsgutwa283 You can only understand derrick pain if you have lost your own kid or someone close to you. People have different ways or mourning and moving on. Let him be.
Boy child,this are the other consequences of drinking. It not only affects you,but the one’s who love you. Let this be a lesson
Have you ever lost a child??
Have you ever dealt with an alcoholic??
If never shut TF up and sit TF down!
100%
No.This guy is depressed after witnessing his son die.He needs treatment rather than condemnation.@@harunaotieno2893
Aki 😢
Well said let us understand this girl
Even in the world full of BILLIONS of people, the person who loves you for who you're at heart, and Someone who's willing to accept all of your past mistakes, is a difficult person to find in the world of Today 😢
They always have a way to make you feel the victim 😪😪
she's a narcist
stivo, if this is not scripted, kindly follow up with the guy..that lady hafanyi poa, she will regret someday
What is she supposed to regret? Leaving a drunkard. Like, let's stop being biased and be realistic. He's a drunkard she's better off leaving him
You follow up with the guy umchukue. Or, umuoze kwenu, or um hook na friend/s zako. Mpaka apate dem ampendae. Make that your job. Achana na huyu.
Hata wewe she does owe you Zilch. Nara!!!
Kwenda ukaokoe kijana wako*
Na dem aki regret later, inakuhusu nini? Tena unajua ata-regret, wewe ni Mungu mjuaji wa yote later.
Na hata aki regret, regret ni part ya life yetu sote. Regrets hazikuandikuwa huyu dem tu. Wewe pia waweza regret.
Unakosa songa na maisha cz ya uwoga wa regrets.
Do what u believe is right, km umekosa, too bad. And do better nxt time. //Do so, hata ukianguka mara 10 or 100. If u want. Bora usi harasse mtu/watu in the process.
Maisha sio Nigerian movie 😂 hakuna regrets hapo
As i have always said, that dress code matters alot, Mimi hii mgongo wazi, siwezi fuatana nayo. Pole brother, She encouraged us to comment, ndio hizo soma msichana.
Naomba unipitie please 😢😂
This chick is a psycho 😢 loosing a kid you've bonded with even if it was 10yrs ago is not easy to get over it 😢😢
Exactly
Yes, but in dwelling on it, truly what do you stand to gain? If the child is alive but hanging onto dear life, you can weep to God in prayer and He might heal him(based on His will)....but if the child is dead and gone, are you being realistic when you dwell on the issue? Isn't that shaking your fist at the very God who gave that child life and has the right to take it at will? Let's know our place, we are not God and we cannot question Him from a superior stance, why He does what He does, or mock Him by wallowing in misery through life He has given us, because of His decisions. That said, cheating is never justified no matter the circumstance.
When one dies you try and move on that is the hardest bit but safest way
@@lindaokeyo9316 wanajiweka kwa hio kitu and try to manipulate you the hard way,kila time mkikosana analeta that issue of the loss.Bad
And the way this guy is cute😢
Cuteness can't control one's behavior
Im sorry but i believe the girl. She also lost a kid and life has to move on. He clearly has no respect for her, imagine coming home to hear your son passed. Girl, go where you find peace and happiness. ❤
Ghasia ya simp.
@@maxbradley2811 enda ukabweke huko mbali
@@njorogebrian4379 sawa ghasia ya simp.
SIMPson 😂😂😂
Tafuta potti ukunie kijana mdogo.
Oooh, my God, very sad indeed. Stevo this young couple need a consular and may God see them through this difficult times
This lady has some point. Despite talking too much this man should let it go and move on, get another child period
Young lady usivumilie..love yourself
Hilda hugs mama ❤️❤️,, people can judge you but I personally know your pain,I have know you for the longest time let them judge you until they are in your shoes😢
Msee kukunywa ni hard bytheway na bado hawajafungua simu y uyo msee nashangaa naa msee anakula poa kaa alikuwa ashazoea chuma n mtu analewa wanataka achukue dildo au bt nashuku uyu jamaa hayuko safe pia
@@irenecherutoh8305 people are always quick to judge,,I know the girl she is my friend na Ile madharau na pain uyo dame huwa anapitia only God knows
Ni Malaya ameshikwa akicheat now playing victim
@@dessihbryan1983 if you knew her story hungeongea vnye unaongea
Huyu jamaa ndo ataendelea kunywa proper, na huyu dem ndo anakaa mlevi ama mimi ndo naona zangu, juu anaturn vitu around mpaka mwenzake ndo anakaa victim😂😂
Ndio nimlevi 😂😂😂😂
Good actors especially the lady, she can act 😂 that fake phone call to the 'mum' was fire😂
Bro please sober up. Panda mbegu tena as soon as possible. You are still very young. That's the proven way to mop up the trauma of loosing that kid. Don't waste more time coz the lady still loves you but is on the verge.
Drinking cannot be an excuse for overcoming grief.
Wait till such a situation hits you
Wait till it happens to you. He obviously blames himself fr the accident. He didn't protect the son.
Pple grief differently
...Neither cheating..
Siku hzi kama mwanaume ni that drunkard ndio isikuwe excuse ya kupiga umalaya si angeenda and move-in with this sweet Eugene.....
ndio hata huwa nashangaa hizi kuro mbona mtu hasiende tu apanue uchafu huko nje after amamemalizana na yenye yuko in first
Move on baby girl.......
😢😢😢sad the headline but we still want Vayolense 😂😂,Aki Kenyans, Good afternoon
For the fact that she had calling his parents wth such respect like her own parents,I choose to forgive her.
Very few can talk in law parents wth such respect
That guy will follow his son to the grave if he continues like that. The lady has tried.
Sure 😢
I understand you girl
.been there
You're strong to even move on
She is cheating
There's something wrong with society if you are being sympathetic to a woman who is cheating on her husband,what if she was the one mourning the death of her child and her husband cheated on her will you also support him and feel sympathetic for him?
@@OndiekOminde
So? Utamkula na meno cz she's cheating?
@@uwemattiss880
Wewe hujui wasema nini. Umelewa? Uko mtaroni? Mbona hueleweki?
Labda ni mimi tu sikuelewi? Jifunze kuandika & *kieleweke.
This one cheats and calls the mum live ...🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅,wonders never cease
Hypocrite
reading comments while watching is fun😢❤😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
BMS kindly follow up on this man, he is dippresed and can loose it any moment, advice him to get help and moreso get another kid, it will help in healing
I don't support infidelity... Lakini I can relate to what she has gone through...this guy is also a narcissist.women are emotional beings and when a man is completely unavailable, it's very tricky
Mgongo wazi always a red flag,ubaya walevi huwa hawaoni😅😅😅
Msitufanye venye mnataka just in the name of tumezaa nawe kumamaye
This man needs urgent need aki😢
You can't marry a prostitute at heart and you think you've a qife...i pity this guy and anyone who's blamed of their partners promiscuity behaviour, why someone cry after knowing she has been caught
Alcoholism destroys family
Very very true
Losing someone is not easy. There is no duration in mourning. I have lost people and I know how hard it is, Kwanza kama alikuwa hapo😢. It is hard
I lost my dad 2021 and I still mourn
The son dying was unfortunate. But with this guy, at this point in time it seems that's an excuse he's now using to be drinking every damn time.
Piga yeye kofi moja na ujipe shuguli bro . 😡
Everybody mourns differently!...
This woman is a no!....
If no satisfaction as a lady,, the feelings flow away because you wish to feel like a woman....
This lady is toxic also. Why involve the parents without thinking. Ukichoka unaenda tu.
Big man check the guys phone he is hiding something. we need everything balanced. one phone can not rule a judgement.
Must be very painful to the mother in-law...
The man is too far gone and he doesn’t want to accept help
True
The dressing code speaks it all the way to the streets.
Ungesema all the way to between the bedsheets 😅
They look good together thou. May they find peace and solace at Jesus feet.
As a *supermarket security guard* , I wouldn't want to catch this woman shoplifting 😢
Huyu dem ni Malaya mkubwa hyo boy aachane nae bure atakuja kufa na magonjwa mbaya 🙄🙄
Uyu jamaa pia ako na ufala,here i support this girl mama enda kwa Eugine if he makes you happy
Team tap tap the screen 😅😅😅
Tap mi too😂😂
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Exactly 😂
😅😅😅😅😅...
Is there any man in the republic of Kenya who still wants to marry 😅😅😅?
Please welcome to the pool 😅😅😅
Kitawaramba Walai...
I support this lady fully, period
No she has alot of crocodile 🐊 tears
Hi koinange defense lawyer.
Infidelity is choice keep supporting one day it shall be your turn to cheated
I agree with you... It's very frustrating to live with a drunkard who is completely unavailable emotionally, physically and financily...
I do too 2021 yote hadi leo 2024 hehe ..amesaidiwa hata hataki anataka tu aendelee kulala Kwa mtaro
@@charitymutungi0013.ni ngumu saana 😢Tena analala Kwa mtaro anapatwa uchi😂😂
Eugine possibly has his own girl friend tears are loading
Malipo ya Kamnyweso weuh wasee tusipenda hii kitu Inatumaloo videadly 😩
As much as this relationship sounds emotionally damaging to the couple and many of us viewers, I believe this two need serious therapy. Loosing their son put them apart and they need love, they need each other. Sometimes let’s not rush to taking sides, let’s look for solutions to the main matter. Ni hayo tu for now. Bring them back BMS if you can and see if they can leave peacefully not in chaos.
Yes people grief differently but drinking is not the solution. Uta kunywa forever kama hujai deal na mulevi you can't understand the lady .... Alafu we can't imprison the girl forever she need to move on and be happy
Ladies who give men slight support behave like this
What's clear is that the young family was broken by the son's death..
I pray for healing..The young dad is beating himself up;he can't forgive himself;yet life just
happened..
He needs guidance...
I will pray BMS helps this young man find a bearing...
,mimi nakunywa l do buy gilbeys 1/2 box naweka kwa hao
This guy needs help and alot of understanding. He is broken. It's only 2 years, my dad passed on in 2019, and I haven't moved on, I can't imagine loosing a son. We heal differently and in different times. She thinks the grass is greener until that guy turns to someone she never expected. She is unreasonable and a psychopath. Anapigia mama yake bt hasemi she is cheating. What an excuse of a woman.
I am confused here, who is disrespecting another? i think this girl is disrespecting this guy, despite finding out that this girl is cheating on him, he has not put hands on that lady, this lady is telling this man that she chooses Eugen not Him!! what disrect is this for a man??
Kujikumbali na kukumbali any situation is the best therapy
ANA LALIWA & ANA LALANA =1-1😂😂😂😂😅
Young lady love urself and ruuun as fast as ur legs can carry u
Naombako unipitieko tafasali nafanyako comedy 😂
Kesho the girl will be in the follow up crying to be forgiven! Kosokoso
Utangoja sana.
Life is not a Nigerian movie.
@@EveIvy-y1q ni wewe sasa unacheat alafu unajifanya malaika uku, utaachwa na huyo mwingine, sasa unatrend for the wrong reason and it won't take you anywhere.
I thank God I came out from prison of relationships. Ngai huyu Dem ningekua nishamng'oa meno na hasira zangu!!!
Stivo si ungeona simu ya huyo boy
I feel for this man, the moment African men will learn to embrace therapy and not see it as weakness, that's the day they will learn to heal. It's sad how he's still harbored this pain for this long. Death of kids has caused even the best of couples to separate before, problem is not seeking help and drowning in alcohol or any other bad habit to numb the pain somehow. But truth remains, the agony of losing the child would still be there the morning after. Men need to know how to go for therapy especially African men. Learn to also seek inner healing in a good church if you cannot go for therapy. We don't want to be loosing good men to suicide or alcoholism because of problems that can be overcome. Mental health is important. Heal brother Derrick, May you heal from this.
The woman she is innocent mwenye anasababisha zote ni mwanaume,maneno yake tu inaonyesha ..woman need love,woman need a smart man not in wearing but smart mind and man he should be humble not talking aimlessly
Kwani hata mtaa kidogo tuu hivi Nairobi BMS ame zero haiwezi kuwa na ndoa ya kikweli? What about kenya? Siimeoza basi. Pole bro kwa kusalitiwa lakini unakaa bwege. Hata mtoi siwako.
And thus how safe my fifteen gs are😂😂😂that was cold stevo
I have dated a drunkard and it's harmful to the partner...I tried but the fact that they could be anywhere doing whatever its risky and diminishing...they are both wrong but drunkard for me is a big NO its traumatising
Aka kamama ni kachawi aki😢😢
I support this girl find peace madam
Oh dear this is heart breaking. The man is depressed and the wife is busy fucking around😢😢😢😢
Its hard living with a drunkard who doesn't want to change no matter what you try,may the lady find peace and love.steve kindly follow up on the guy, he needs a shoulder to lean on
The guy doesn't want help....ashadharau the person anamuongelesha so kusaidika ni noma. He has to be positive
This guy is so immature. He should know that he is a grown up man now!
The guy is wrong regardless of the girl cheating....kama kila mtu angekua hawezi move on after death of closed one basi hii dunia ingekua na useless people countlessly! Move on kijanaa tunajikwaa tunanyanyuka tunaenda na maisha you burrying urself kwenye sadness hakuna kitu unasolve...ona therapist heal zalisha mtoi mwingine sivo you gon get burried as well! kaa hapo ukikaa depressed na maisha itakupita
You are talking bullshit save yourself from embarrassment,has anyone ever died besides you, whether you know them or not
Some women aki ni Mavi ya njege, congratulations BMS. Fanya job hizi nongwe ni mob. Waaat the faaaaak. May God help this boychild aki
The rate at which this lady is defending Eugene is questionable
Mjinga mbona hajaambiana anacheat?? NKT mshenzi sana
Loosing someone to death does not give you license to drinking alcohol.. n we must accept the reality that love conquers all. The man Derek must grow up
It's amazing how a man who is grieving and is being cheated on is still criticized,a woman cheats but you blame the man and tell him to grow up?
People handle loss differently. Wewe laumu to boy child hapo while grief has not yet struck you. I don't support drinking, but that is not the reason for the lady to cheat. At least she should have walked away
His still playing a victim we acknowledge he lost someone but life has to move on
So the woman is right to cheat on him while in marriage because he drinks?
People grieve differently. The man needs support.
Men should learn to express themselves kulewa is not the solution
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She cheats then makes a call akilia saying derrick this derrick that.... She skipped kusema ameshikwa akihoe around
If someone understands the pain of loosing a son and witnessing everything either as a man or a woman aki, haezi ongea vile huyu dame anaongea Kaa mjinga. I once encountered such and no one ever understood me. I had to move out coz I felt mmi ndio naumia
Live this ladies alone
Run baby girl run 🏃♀️💨
Move on baby gal,,,,wacha huyu derrick akunywe pombe hadi alose mind....
Men are the same and you are running to another man.. taking Advantage of kulewa you hv cheated and you are the one crying hehehe kanairo
Waaaa chunguza hata mtoi si wako
Eugene was the bio. Father
@@OndiekOminde 🤣
U can never argue with a woman
They are both grieving in different ways.