Why nobody gets it ? You don’t end up with the right choice , you end up with your choice .Ben was always her choice right from the beginning.opposite attracts .
I just hate that she told him that she blacked out and doesn't remember and he shames her for it! Felicity clearly isn't a whore and would have never done that sober! He should have been more worried about her than angry!
Spoiler alert Ben had an affair with a married woman and got another woman he didn’t love pregnant both of these after he broke up with felicity 1st and 2nd times. He went on vacation with Avery when he and Felicity were getting serious. Yes he didn’t sleep with her but he shouldn’t have done that because he knew she wanted him. Arent those as bad as her cheating on him? They both made lots of mistakes. I still think the last part of the show was all a dream including the cheating. But that’s just what I think. I meant to put this on crazy girls comment but I screwed up.
@@cmrwrite when Ben had the affair - he wasn't with Felicity - so while that is bad, it didn't hurt or affect Felicity. He got the other woman pregnant while he was no longer with Felicity - so that wouldn't hurt Felicity Felicity keeps lying to Ben and messing with his life.
yet Noel had things in common with Felicity . they had similar interests, views, personalities Ben and Felicity ........never had anything other than Felicity had a fantasy image of Ben and Ben is into Felicity because she is the safe option and she's pretty. Think about it, what exactly deep down bound them together other than an illusion.
i don't understand Ben's attraction to Felicity - its never really established why HE wants HER. I understand why Felicity does - Ben is some fantasy , almost like her manic pixie guy
I’m just on season 2 but he says she makes him and others want to be better or do better. Idk. And she’s also super pretty. That scene in her red dress! And yeah I get Ben. He’s so attractive
@@sandyliliana4507 but why would she make him want to be better? she never says anything particularly insightful. she's obsessive. kind of flaky too. the reason that makes the most sense is she's pretty and that makes him want to "be better" so he can impress her...........but that isn't something that is sustainable.
@@aliali-ce3yf yes I’m noticing how flaky Felicity could be especially for someone who claims to be this mature character. But she challenges Ben and calls him out for lying or not living up to his potential (I admit sometimes crossing the line in the beginning) and she’s done some crazy out there stuff that she’s open and honest about
Like Ben was a saint 🙄 On here she didn’t cheat on him, she was sexually assaulted, the frat boys took pictures of her while she was passed drunk. Back then it was nothing in todays world this is a crime. Ben was a jerk with her instead to help her. As always Noel was the main guy.
@@star_baker idk , with the frat incident, from ben's POV it would be hard to trust Felicity problem in general with ben and felicity was they had nothing in common. i still think she saw him as a fantasy rather than a person..........and it never made sense why ben all of a sudden became interested in felicity - other than he was homesick or wanted something stable to latch on to.......either way , not good reasons.
Why nobody gets it ? You don’t end up with the right choice , you end up with your choice .Ben was always her choice right from the beginning.opposite attracts .
Wow time changes everything
90’s blackout drunk sex = cheating
2018 blackout drunk sex= rape
The plot would go so differently now
So Unsure she actually didn’t cheat on him that time
literally no correlation or sense made within this statement I-...
I just hate that she told him that she blacked out and doesn't remember and he shames her for it! Felicity clearly isn't a whore and would have never done that sober! He should have been more worried about her than angry!
And if Ben had cheated, it'd be no big deal, of course. Argh...
glittering multitude
Ben did cheat. When they were in medical school his lab partner
Spoiler alert Ben had an affair with a married woman and got another woman he didn’t love pregnant both of these after he broke up with felicity 1st and 2nd times. He went on vacation with Avery when he and Felicity were getting serious. Yes he didn’t sleep with her but he shouldn’t have done that because he knew she wanted him. Arent those as bad as her cheating on him? They both made lots of mistakes. I still think the last part of the show was all a dream including the cheating. But that’s just what I think. I meant to put this on crazy girls comment but I screwed up.
@@cmrwrite when Ben had the affair - he wasn't with Felicity - so while that is bad, it didn't hurt or affect Felicity. He got the other woman pregnant while he was no longer with Felicity - so that wouldn't hurt Felicity
Felicity keeps lying to Ben and messing with his life.
The one person who always had Felicity's heart was Ben. Noel was just a third-wheel.
yet Noel had things in common with Felicity . they had similar interests, views, personalities
Ben and Felicity ........never had anything other than Felicity had a fantasy image of Ben and Ben is into Felicity because she is the safe option and she's pretty. Think about it, what exactly deep down bound them together other than an illusion.
Noel is smart
Noel was the better choice for her
i don't understand Ben's attraction to Felicity - its never really established why HE wants HER.
I understand why Felicity does - Ben is some fantasy , almost like her manic pixie guy
I’m just on season 2 but he says she makes him and others want to be better or do better. Idk. And she’s also super pretty. That scene in her red dress! And yeah I get Ben. He’s so attractive
@@sandyliliana4507 but why would she make him want to be better?
she never says anything particularly insightful. she's obsessive. kind of flaky too.
the reason that makes the most sense is she's pretty and that makes him want to "be better" so he can impress her...........but that isn't something that is sustainable.
@@aliali-ce3yf yes I’m noticing how flaky Felicity could be especially for someone who claims to be this mature character.
But she challenges Ben and calls him out for lying or not living up to his potential (I admit sometimes crossing the line in the beginning) and she’s done some crazy out there stuff that she’s open and honest about
Not only did she cheat on Noel, she cheated on Ben tooo.....talk about messed up
Like Ben was a saint 🙄 On here she didn’t cheat on him, she was sexually assaulted, the frat boys took pictures of her while she was passed drunk. Back then it was nothing in todays world this is a crime. Ben was a jerk with her instead to help her. As always Noel was the main guy.
@@cacao123451 I agree! I never liked Ben. She should have stayed with Noel
@@cacao123451 she did lie to him
@@star_baker she cheated on Ben with Noel and her lame excuse was she was stressed out by her dad.....
@@star_baker idk , with the frat incident, from ben's POV it would be hard to trust Felicity
problem in general with ben and felicity was they had nothing in common. i still think she saw him as a fantasy rather than a person..........and it never made sense why ben all of a sudden became interested in felicity - other than he was homesick or wanted something stable to latch on to.......either way , not good reasons.