How rape can affect you 20 years later
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- Опубликовано: 31 авг 2016
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Director of Photography Ben Lunden
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AC Lawrence Abad
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This story is so sad... she is so strong ♡
I m on , ur side
I support all who have gone through this experience
Her daughter is so cute! I am proud of this woman to not give up and hope she stays strong
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4 yrs ago I was drugged then raped. My way of dealing , was that I didn’t . Now I have gone down a downed spiral . I can’t hold a job . I can’t get out of the bed . I feel hopeless, alone , and have really just given up . I’m a shell of what I used to be . I don’t even recognize myself . So , very sad .
Hang in there. Call a therapist right now as you read this and get an appointment. This is the start if a better tomorrow. Call a theraphist and o it now
@christypayton
hey how are you doing in life
So sorry to hear that 🥺, please I hope u r fine now🥺♥️
Why to be sad madam we haven't done any wrong . That guy who is responsible for such a great sin should be tortured.we should fight against everything don't breath untill u get justice.🙏 We all girls are ready to help u if u share ur incident through media.
Be strong and move strong 💪
As a 15 year old guy, i understand and im so sorry. ❤ Stay Strong.
U dont
@@ABRASILERA17bruh just cuz the poor man was trying to support her dont mean you done got to express your thoughts so directly
you are the most beautiful person i've ever seen in my life.
She and her daughter is are gorgeous!
unitato ikr
She is so Beautiful Stay strong👍🥀
You look like my sister,my heart breaks for you.My small sister was once a victim of an attempted rape.The night marevstill haunts her.
I was a victim of rape it's hurts and I can still see him everyday of my life coming to hurt me I can't sleep anymore am suffering from insomnia because of this n couple with my parents dead I feel alone I can't tell friends they will mock that a man of 50 rape a girl of 11 am 27 now it's hurt that my parents weren't wealthy to put him in prison I cry for freedom n justice because I still see him coming to hurt me I can't never enjoy sex life again I sex for money not pleasure I 😢 for God to forgive me n restore my life back
My brother did it to me and I feel so bad cuz I don't want him in jail but I hate to see him everyday
@@meow9415 And I hate to see my father everyday....I can feel you dear.
Stay strong keep fighting ladies 😈
I'm still living the same nightmare still afraid and in pain and depressed all I can think about is suicide and how I would rest afterwards, I been raped when I was 4 years old I'm 26 year old now. I can't tell anyone about it or get help. I'm glad she get her life together I know how hard it is.
i know how it feels i’m so sorry. just remind yourself that right now, you are okay.
It's incredible how mothers sometimes need to push aside or bottle up their personal emotions and sufferings to put the happiness of their kids upfront. No one should go through this type of situation in their life, and less while serving their country. Much admired.
rape is a very traumatic event, it changes brain function, causing severe anxiety and depression. Death penalty for rapers.
To those 8 dislikes, come out and fight me 👊
8 likes on ur comment and 8 dislikes
@My name is Jef and now everybody dislikes you
that's a girl!
i dislike because shes weak af , life is rough , move on
I can beat u up
I am so inspired by her strength, she has done so well to pick herself back up after such a traumatic event.
Wow she's beautiful. I know she's becoming stronger everyday by sharing her experience and receiving encouragement from kind hearted people. ❤
Thank you everyone I'm still here ! I'm thriving! Being a single woman is not for the weak! Nevertheless I have started exercising totally transformed , my girl is 8 and amazing 💯🏋️🏅🎯🇺🇲🌉👩👧🙏❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤♥️
Much love to you and stay strong
Why wasn't the attacker kicked out of the Navy ? Why was she ?
Stay Strong. Prayers from Kerala.
Sad story..
Beautiful.
You are not you’re emotions. You are the observer of the things that happen to you. You are not your thoughts. You are a beautiful individual who I loving, understanding, admiring, and so so strong.
May the universe bless you with beautiful things.
Monica mam you are very brave and great inspiration to those females who have faced the unforgiveable crime and great inspiration for all of us humans to not to giveup.
This breaks my heart, every person just deserves what she wants.
You might want change the title if you're earning money off of ad revenue, due to RUclips's new "guidelines." We have to censor words like, "rape," and anything possibly negative now. :( Just a heads up. Stay strong friend! -Ben
Salute to this lady for her struggle
The same thing happened to my ex girlfriend's daughter when she was in the Navy. I did not like the way the case was handled. The scars are with her for the rest of her life. One thing that helped with her healing was a change of scenery. She decided to settle into civilian life.
Why cannot we claim a case against those soldiers who rape, I have studied two to three comments, can't we do anything to file case against those soldiers or can government do anything for victims?
the military is a mess
This is so sad. I was raped by a colleague I trusted. I don't know how it affected me but I still need pyschological help
@arturo smith rape affects mental health, changes you completely
I was raped well kinda idk cuz I was 8 and he came to my room and told me to get naked for him and he well buy me stuff so I did it cuz he got me stuff and so I got use to it and everytime I wanted something he well tell me I already know what to do so I did it I was used and it hurts I haven’t tell my mom cuz I don’t trust her all that happen when I was 8 or 5 im 14 now and I tried killing myself my mom never notice I use to cut thinking bout starting cuz what happen Years ago is my fault cuz I let him then there was another man he treated. Me saying he was gonna cut my fingers he left my mom house when I was 7 or so and when he came back I was 13 and he was playing with my brother and he touched me down there I got mad and he said he was playing but I always stayed shut cuz it late 😩😭
20 years later, just like the video, i confronted an abuser while he was on trial from another girl he had touched inappropriately a couple years ago. If you have anyone else with a balanced moral-self, (at home, other family, a school counselor) if you ask, they will help. From that trial, I learned that the statue of limitations on victims to denounce their abusers for them to be prosecuted of childhood sexual molestation or rape is (depending I which state you live) up to 15 years, in Georgia (where I live) it's 15 years. In a couple states up to 20.
Yes, my particular situation had expired but I served as supporting testimony in that girl's case. If it wasn't for that brave little girl that spoke up, I'd be still quiet about my experience. I also did it to show my child no matter even if your own family goes against you while u are fighting to denounce someone, you keep strong and go through with it. (My father was not on my side) Who was this experience of going to trial for? Not for my dad, not to sting the perpetrators family, it was for me. To tell my youger self that "you did tell the truth, fought it trough and won."
If you have any questions about my situation or just want to reach out to vent, my Instagram handle is _jennyhn
Marie Hernandez & remember to believe in yourself. It is never the minor victims fault when an adult grooms you.
It. Is. Not. Your. Fault.
To us with trauma, it's a long journey of recuperation and acceptance. It's not impossible to get getter, just takes perseverance, self love and time. 🙏
If any men sexually assaults you or any women, you just fight no matter what. Learn self defense for your life :) it will help.
:( I hope she is doing better now with all that. Maybe she could never forgets it, but maybe she could get stronger, how she says "it is a long road" to travel :/ I am with every people who has lived the same story as she does
Made me tear up... What a strong woman. Much love to her and her daughter.
Madam ur such a brave lady . We being girls have to fight against every thing never stop till u attain justice 🙏
Aww i remember Watching this
Hello I’m Madianna I was the little daughter in the video thats my mom she is doing great now
Sorry to hear , unfortunatelly happens much than people think I was sexually abused but when i was only 7 and when you're kid you don't realise mentally could leave a damage fortunately I'm strong as a character and I didn't need any help at all but I do believe I'm not social person because of this and also mentally abusing is as bad as physical abusing I'd be totally different person than I am today.
She is beautiful...perfect
I am ex British Military and I know the Armed Forces do not like bad publicity. Now what the senior Management side (Senior Officers) try to do, is keep it covered up if that can. They have really trained cold hearts and Bastards in the know, seem to take advantage of this. Closing ranks can normally make the Victim feel alone and feeling helpless.
one disgusting man changed her life so drastically, the world is broken
Really good
You probably think I’m lying but I’m really not She is doing great now she has her own apartment. I live with my dad I see her sometimes and mom if you see this don’t want to be rude but she has really lost a lot of weight.
Shouldn't the daughter be 20 years old then?
Hi im so sory what happend it happend to me last Saturday i have no hope in life ;(
brave woman
Her name is Monica Ortiz
Ortiz O’Neill
Is it Ok if I want someone like that to be my life partner? She loves me endlessly
Dang Those 24 Dislikes
how about you Come and Fight Me
That was nice
Oh what does raped mean
20 years later? Why didn’t you get therapy!
She was struggling financially
Poor lady
Damn. Why US navy do nothing about this ???
Wait is her dad a rapist? :0 or that’s a different story
I hope men don't get rape because is that even possible
Yes, it is. Men get raped as well. But they rarely talk about it
So imagine 2 months later when it lasted 6 months or more. You can't handle America on your shoulders sorry.
I'm 11 I was 4 in the video
lol
That shit sux
666 likes
Love it but so dramatic
Clover Mint they get to be dramatic
can i get a shoutout
Lmao this is so funny can't stop laughing
Sick fuck
How is this funny you freak? This is traumatic for people who went through it.....u r sick if u think it is even funny
Joking about male on male rape is funny with jokes but if a woman get rape by another woman it not funny but funny to me because the shoe on the another foot. But for real those rape is not funny to both genders
Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures was buried and rose again on the third day according to the scriptures 1Corinthians 15:3
aaaaaand unsubscribed
good riddance.
because?
oh no something serious and unlike what she usually uploads! i'm only here for entertainment 1!!1!11 idk about u but i wish to be ignorant of the fucking world xdddddd brb unsubscribing!!!!!
wow heartless
Soulsurver what a heartless bitch.