The system didn't want Kevin Samuel's to ever come and wake us all up both men and women in the black community. They system wanted women to continue to be empowered and belittle the black man. In order to destroy the universal law of order in any community. I believe they took Kevin Samuel's out. It's strange how a man who wasn't obese, who said he was a martial artist and workout. I don't believe in coincidence because it never is.
The woman that think like Eboni K have to realize that the older they get the more pronounced their red flags are. Older men are looking for peace not chaos.
It's not just that. Eboni K is extremely attractive, but men desire peace and if they can't get it from her, they will.move on to someone they can get from, young or old.
It's only the post wall ladies complaining about age gap dating. They had no problems with it when they were eating at luxury restaurants or getting flown out to random locations when they were young. Something young men rarely can afford.
Took them long enough. And I thought they were supposed to be "highly intelligent". Why did it take them so long to reach that conclusion? It's not like men weren't telling them that for years.
Doesn’t mean anything to ANY man. A hard working middle income man would rather live his middle income life than to get with a high earning woman who won’t listen.
@@twondagreat8893We just care about how we're treated and want someone who respects us and is easy to work with. All else is gibberish. Gibber jabber.
I’m obviously not a man but her aggressive way of speaking is a turn off. Just because you are professional doesn’t mean you need to be harsh. My husband loves to reminisce about our “meet cute.” I was working as a attorney and presenting a case and caught his attention, he said my presentation was clear, knowledgeable, very articulate but still feminine and alluring. Although he likes darker skinned women who are taller, I’m 5’6” and light skinned, he likes a natural look which I have. He also likes very smart women with a sense of humor. Anyway, he made up his mind that day and never looked back - we will soon celebrate our 14th anniversary of the “meet cute.” He is very wealthy, now me too, and I gave up practicing law because I think as a profession it gives a woman too much of an edge. My blessed mother created a peaceful, serene home which was well decorated and ordered for my very successful father. I am doing the same. My mother didn’t work full time - just occasionally as a substitute teacher - until for a few years, long after we were grown , in a job my father arranged for her in order to create a social security benefit. She enjoyed spending that money in her senior years. Great dad, stay at home mom equals a feminine lady who attracts men like bees to honey.
only took her 30+ years and multiple rides on the carousel to finally come to this realization. KS said the same things she's now speaking about but they celebrated that mans passing.
blah blah blah,, 😒😒😒😒😒😒 Eboni K Williams we said the same stuff 5 YEARS AGO,,, but you were with that white man who eventually tired of you so now you doing the brothers step it up/i ve seen the light(after 40 years old)tour🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂
When men make a certain amount of money, they aren't looking for a woman who makes the same as them. But when women make a certain amount of money, they seriously believe they need to find a man who makes the same or more and that is NOT how the economy works. There will be high, mid, and low paying jobs. People do jobs that they love. In reality, people should look for connections with others, not dollar signs in their partners.
@phantombags, when women have these requirements, I always wonder why they don’t just date their boss or their bosses counterparts in the same industry as them? At least that way they can be sure they are dating UP and laterally.
@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 these wealthy men want younger prettier more fertile women. These women have been fed a lie that they can focus on career and then at 35+ years of age get a rich well educated man to marry them. Evolution, fertility science and demographics are aligned against this happening as most of these men they want don’t want them. They refuse to settle and end up alone
unfortunately their boss or their boss counterpart is most certainly not looking for women like them. they are either looking for women that came up with them i.e. they are married already OR looking for way younger early 20s sweet n tight ladies.@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229
@@t.p.m.414 its not JUST that i didnt want someone who would stil prioritize that over her personal happiness. my wife owns a business and has done so even before me. a few women ive dated have. they werent anything like eboni K because i just wouldn't be attracted to being 2nd place to a woman's career. my wife loves me and takes care of me all while handling her business and its about balance. eboni K is way out of balance because she doesn't really know what that is. she knows how to make a check come in but she doesnt understand how to keep a man point blank and NO it DOES NOT have anything to do with being submissive or what KS talked about
The value that a woman brings into your life is children and her ability to help yes help you the father raise them. But modern America women can get bored with being a wife and mother now very quickly.
I am an African black man, and poor. But I will never even saying hi to her if I encounter with her on the street or in any occasion. I encounters a lot of these women, and I always try to avoiding them by any means necessary.
It doesn't take more than 3 mins talking to her to see that. She doesnt even try to be pleasant. I bet she challenges everything. She gives me "You really think that's a Chardonnay flute?" in front of everyone instead of just drinking the drink type vibes. Lol
@@Julius29C I think is worse than that. She looks like a house that got prepped for sale, which people can obviously tell that the owner did not maintain and only recently cut the lawn, planted some artifical flowers and threw on some paint to get rid of the dog he/she can longer afford. In other words, I agree with you analolgy.
Beauty, Fertility and Youth are what she says men assess but she left out attitude. The three things she mentioned are all related to just physical attributes.
It’s funny cause now she doesn’t have nun of that no more, no youth or fertility and the beauty is fading she’s starting to get grey hairs and that attitude.
Naw she’s saying she doesn’t want men her age she wants a older man but she wants kids and most times those men already have kids and don’t want anymore so basically she’s gonna be single forever lol 😂
As a man, unless you have found your person in your youth; then women are for fun only. Don’t prioritize them and don’t fall in love with the wrong one. As a 35 year old professional man that does hit all those dumb metrics that women have been screaming about it is laughable how easy dating is
Or you find a woman willing to settle down early and not waste their youth. I was 33 and my wife was 24 when we got married. I met some wonderful women close to my age but I just didn’t want to deal with the years of accumulated baggage.
Let me get this straight. At 40 she's looking for a 56yr old (16yr age differenc). But a 24yr young lady graduating college is shamed for getting with a 40yr old successful man. Some please make this make sense. She should have married the 40yr old man at 24. Not wanting him at 56 when she's 40. The delusions. RIP Kevin Samuels.
What I can see is that because she looks younger than her age,she somehow can still get attention as if she’s in her late 20s when obviously she’s 40. It’s like her current beauty still makes her an option that can bear children even though her actual physical body cannot do so easily
It’s a manipulation tactic to coerce 40 year old men into only dating 40 year old women basically women trying to get men to abandon our options in our prime to date women who have less to offer. Imagine telling an attractive 20 year old women she’s only allowed to date 20 year old men. They’d just laugh in your face and get in an older mans car to be taken out. Men should do the same just laugh and do as we please.
Props to Eboni K Williams for discovering this "new" concept. If only this knowledge was going around town and being passed around in the past like she was.
Bottom line is women should not seek marriage. --There are plenty of good guys to choose amongst to be a sperm donor. --If great women have financial independence, they should build a village with other women, neighbors and family and successfully raise their children. --That’s how Sweden does it -a country with a high number of single parents. --If successful women desire sex there are enough decent looking men of all races to get that need met. --I am telling my daughters to design the life they want to live with or without men.
To tell the truth a man that is well to do financially, how does it benefit him to get married???? The woman can come home and say I just dont want to be married any more and leave him, while taking half of his stuff. I know 3 different situations where this happened to men all because the wife wanted to run the street.
@@mariejane1567 Even if you have a prenup, the judge can throw it out if they want. There is no safe space with government involved. Just have a ceremony, trust/wills, POA etc.
Happened to me and she took the kids too and brainwashed them against me. They are 22 and 19 and we don't even speak to this day. It was a horrible decision marrying her.
From a statistical standpoint...you are wrong. Of the 56% of marriages that end in divorce...women initiate 77% of divorces. Men, in general, tend to tough it out when it comes to marriage. For a man to leave, he has to be HELLA unhappy (in general, there's always the exception. However, the exception to the rule DOES NOT make it 'the rule'). Men with prenups who divorce...tend to do so because their wives often 'let themselves go' after having a couple of kids/after aging. Women, especially stay-at-home wives with rich husbands...have ZERO excuses for letting themselves go physically. NOR should they ever lose interest in sexually pleasuring their husbands ESPECIALLY if he's providing them the type of life that 99% of women would GLADLY trade places with them for! Wives who let themselves blow up like The Goodyear Blimp....are no different than husbands who arent able to handle their finances as the marriage progresses. Just as the husband DID NOT sign up for his wife to blow up into Shamu.....women who marry rich husbands DID NOT sign up for their husbands to mess up their finances! Rich men who do not require their wives to sign prenups....are at the mercy of their wives NOT getting 'bored/moody/emotional years down the line....resulting in his wealth being at risk! I gave up dating back in 2007 (when i was 35)...because I got sick and tired of how emotionally DRAINING dealing with women were! After that first year...I felt so relieved to be single! Fast forward to 2024 (I'll be 52 in 8 days)....I literally live life on Easy Mode! I've been able to save significant money...my expenses are low....I have loads of free time to enjoy whatever I want to do (I LOVE sports and I play poker)....I have ZERO stress, angst, worries in my life. Why would I give that up.....only to have a delusional, needy, emotionally draining, easily bored female that is high maintenance (time-wise, emotionally-wise, money-wise)? The ironic thing is that there was a time I would have had NO PROBLEM putting forth the effort in not only being a great father...but also a great father! However, that time has passed...and I made my peace with that long ago! I'll pass (and from the sounds of it...more and more men are wising up and giving up dating women PERIOD). Sure they'll always be the simps out there who'll placate women....however most women do not want to date/marry SIMPS (only use them when no other option is around). By 2030, 42% of women age 40 and older..will be BOTH single AND childless. Women will only need to look in the mirror for someone to blame for that predicament. @@mariejane1567
I feel so sorry for her because she said she was having a baby on her own! To be that rich and that beautiful and having to buy a baby? So sad. She'll be missing that joy of having the baby that looks like the Man you love! Which is why us Mothers are insane about our sons!
She could always lower her financial standards for men. She could’ve easily had a man if she didn’t want a multi millionaire. It’s plenty of single 9-5 guys she could pick from. 🤷🏾♂️
She's leaving out the part where these young women are out here throwing themselves at the man with the most money, she can't tell these young women what to do, so why the hell do she think she can tell an older man not to date a young woman who want to be with that man. You can't make someone like you, and men know this better than anyone.
Women are solipsists and narcissists by nature, they are for the most part incapable of recognizing their own failings. They have to be forced by the constant pressure of environment to engage in self-examination. Even then they only look at outward appearance, not inner character.
A very big point that many older women and men leave out is women and menopause. I know a guy that was married to his wife for 20 years and when she went thru menopause she was impossible to live with and they got a divorce.
3:10 RIP Unc Kevin Samuels. He been saying this S***! A good majority of women making 300-400k sometimes think they’re better than you. Thinking that they’re money is what will make them a kept women. A guy with their same financial means isn’t going to deal with blsht. Cooperative,respectful,feminine ladies are snatched up already.
We cant, the women dominate the culture and far too many men are born in single parent households. It will probably be disrupted in a few decades when race-mixing gets more aggressive.
The younger generation of men has had the advantage of RUclipsrs like yourself and Kevin Samuels, and everything that you have said in this video is what they have figured out. The Club scene is pretty much dead, because the younger generation of men have figured out that is a waste of time And they would rather save up their money and buy a plane ticket and head overseas where they could get more bang for their buck. The bar scene is also dead because the younger generation of men have figured out that it is cheaper and better to have guy friends over and watch sports games, or play video games and save their money and still have a good time. So honestly, I don’t know what these women are gonna do here in America because they have listened to feminism for so long that they have literally pushed the men to pursue better options, and the younger generation of men are actually happier.
It’s important that obviously women want a man with resources but also they need self awareness. A women must know they are a pleasant experience and not just a headache or a mouth. It’s sounds simple but some find it hard to do.
I would have thought Kevin Samuels came back from the grave and answered this interview himself!! Insane how his work is still hard in these streets even beyond the grave!
Been saying this to dames for years:GED,PHD,Welfare,Millionaire, if he’s paying for everything what are you going to be doing with your money & resources? Most can’t answer this.
On the flip side to what Oshay said, there are men who are on that higher level who want to get married and have multiple children. Women like Eboni can't provide that lifestyle for a man like that.
When I got divorced, I realized women either add to your life or take away from it. If a dude is knockin' down $400K what is ANY woman going to add to a man's life?
Oshay, you describe my current situation. At 54 y/o, 4 years divorce now. Work to have a home and residual income. I see no need for a girlfriend, no matter how good they look. I can get women 30 and up all day. Not hard to do. I enjoy my peace in life. Traveling alone is great....
Men want a woman that is easy to get along with whether she is career driven or not. Women generally don't know how to compartmentalize work from home. That's why women vent to their man about work after they get off work. Also a man is expected to financially carry the relationship.
Im not exactly sure what will become of bw but i do have some ideas since they are being analyzed more and more. If at any point their influential impact on other ladies is realized as a detriment you're going to see some interesting things happen. For now they have succeeded in pushing the men away from them to the point where theyve began the process of detaching themselves from them on every level. Its honestly not looking to safe for them as this continues to happen and this mentality matures itself.
You have a very valid point my bro💯 iwas thinking along these lines myself especially over the last 3, 4 yrs I see it coming miles away at this point🤔👁🤷
People saw that pride and attitude which men will not be ready to keep up with in her during her hey day but chose to ignore because she based everything on career.
A lot of women think that having a sassy attitude is cute…that’s a very fine line that most of them fail at walking. Especially women who are “accomplished.” A bad attitude is a deal breaker.
It's not 'society', it's nature, instinct. Society is what makes a woman not be married by 40, in a natural world she would have been married with kids by now.
@3:20 calling me bro and we not like that is crazy! Literally said she wanted a to feel somewhat dominated. She’s definitely an opportunist like all politicians who are able to flip the script & narrative to suit their needs even if it is primal 😂
Speaking from direct experience of highly successful single black men from 35 to 55+, successful black women are not on the "short list" for a variety of reasons. Single mature black men typically have had significant prior relationship experience. As a consequence, if we wanted to date black women who may be our chronological, professional/ economic equals we would have remained with our ex's. In fact several mature black men are still in contact with their exs. Our small group of single black men have discussed Ms. Williams in the context of the question; Should one of us hit the Sis up and give her a "shot"?
I swear she has gone through several stages to get to this point. This ain't the same Eboni Williams that put on a smug face and told iyanla that he had to own the bus for her to date him. Some reality and humbling has occured.
Her situation is an interesting one. I have 2 points: 1) Give credit for her admitting the realities and being logical/rational: The one thing I give her credit for is AT LEAST being able to say these things out loud. The biggest problem with women in her position is that their PRIDE won't allow them to admit that their choices have not put them in the ideal situation. When women continue to lie the REAL victims here are young women that are entering into the dating market and those getting close to danger zone. They need to prioritize on what they have to offer now 2) Eboni's situation is not dire...just change mentality/perspective: Eboni is lucky that for a woman in her 40s she has kept herself up. Even though she is older, her aesthetic is still okay. However, every year she ages it IS RAPIDLY declining. The key is women's WORST enemy here is their own HYPERGAMY. They feel that the core things that make a man attractive (2 P's: financial Protection / Provision) are things that make him a suitable husband. By the time a woman reaches her mid 30s, does she really need that anymore. If you are self-sufficient you really don't need that. So if a man with good inner qualitites comes along, have you really lost anything if he does not make as much money as you? It is a win still. A woman making 200k is not losing if she marries ama na that makes 60k a year. YOu now are making combined 260k a year. Live off half of your income and invest the difference. You are set. From an INVESTMENT standpoint you are winning because you are ADDING to what you already have not subtracting. But their HYPERGAMY see this as a loss, instead of it being a gain. The "better by myself" is the actual loss, because ALL of the financial responsibility falls on you. To put it another way, is it a loss to only make 15% on your money each year or to not invest at all. It is NOT SETTLING.
Sht don't get no credit for sht She didn't have no epiphany and moments of self reflection then humility. She's been kicked in the face by reality...the reality of the outcomes That sht can No longer ignore. Truth, reality has been Forced on her That's the only way women like her get it. No men on " her level"? Want her, that mouth, that attitude. Men Not on her level? Don't either She is the epitome of...I can show you better than I can tell you. The outcomes in her life..are Showing her. Noww..cones some humility This will be what happens to Allllll of them that think, move like her.
It goes against evolutionary based mating strategies ingrained in women. Most are very unhappy if they are the primary bread winner and will end up divorcing
She’s 45 and a millionaire looking for a millionaire in his 50’s. She’s doesn’t want to date younger men or men who make less than her. Plus she has a bad attitude, it’s over for her 🤷🏾♂️ lol 😂
@@neverstop2493 I agree with you.. however it is on the woman to ALSO realize that them going out and being a provider (aka making top 10% of income) is against their evoutionary biology as well. So the only real problem is them accepting the fact that they ALREADY chose not to be fuflifilled in that way. You can't reap the benefits of being masculine and then expect to get femiine/evolutionary satisfaction. If the women could just accept what thy have chosen and stop trying to "have their cake and eat it too" they can have famalies. It is strong delusion.
Yeah if she can't redefine what winning looks like by having a man with honorable characteristics beside status.. you are definitely right.@@tonymontez2358
It's crazy that a women who makes $400k/yr can still look down on a man that makes $200k/yr. The value of a man has been reduced to his earning potential. It's an unfortunate trap for women that causes an internal conflict.😢
It’s actually something that can be remedied. She thinks like a Mzungu Concubine not a potential marriage candidate. It’s a system that trains Black women to marry their jobs not Black mates, to serve Mzungu Capitalism
🤔🤔🤔. Black female celebrity are the one watching Kevin Samuels. Cynthia g hated to take back for Samuel advice. Black women can't handle hot water like this debate against black men. Black men are real repartitions whole time carry with large resources and strong wealth. What you think Asia and Latina focus on real prize. They said black men are real prize.
After all the screaming, kicking, and cussing, these birds are coming to the harsh reality of Kevin Samuels being 100% RIGHT!!!!!
YEP 💯💯💯
Amen
The system didn't want Kevin Samuel's to ever come and wake us all up both men and women in the black community. They system wanted women to continue to be empowered and belittle the black man. In order to destroy the universal law of order in any community. I believe they took Kevin Samuel's out. It's strange how a man who wasn't obese, who said he was a martial artist and workout. I don't believe in coincidence because it never is.
They'll never admit it! "WINTER IS HERE!"
Exactly, penny drop time, just stay away from stubborn independent women, who want to lead and dictate when they come into your life.
It’s because she’s insufferable. She talks like a news anchor 24/7.
💯💯💯💯💯
Yeah ngl she bad but her voice is so annoying 🙄
LMFAOOOOOOOO 😂😂😂😂😂
You are right. If she speaks like that privately no man is putting up with that.
That word you used describes all of them to a tee
Man, Kevin Samuels has been saying all this for Years. Everyone is just confirming his wisdom. Long Rest King Samuels.
They just taking his stuff they studied it and now making money off it
Correct 💯 💯 💯
The Godfather remains undefeated 💯
The Godfather wins from the grave 😊
She said K.S. points word for word.😂
You are not Humble. You are not Peaceful.
You are chaotic.
Cross the streets.
Chaotic to the core.. Shouldn't even be talking on these podcasts as if she is an expert. This kind of attention she is getting is a joke really.
"U got tht shit rt yo"
The streets already full dawg
@ RAST........
The woman that think like Eboni K have to realize that the older they get the more pronounced their red flags are. Older men are looking for peace not chaos.
And older men like younger women it is what it is
It's not just that. Eboni K is extremely attractive, but men desire peace and if they can't get it from her, they will.move on to someone they can get from, young or old.
What older man is going to tolerate a talkative, never shut up woman like her?
Rich men won't date her bc they used to drive the bus. If you can't respect the grind then you can't be here with my shine.
That sounds like obese women saying “if you’re not gonna love me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best.”
That sounds like when obese women say “if you can’t accept me at my biggest then I don’t want you at my best.”
Bingo
Oooohhhhhhh HEAVYYYYY
she never said she wouldn't date a bus driver......
It's only the post wall ladies complaining about age gap dating. They had no problems with it when they were eating at luxury restaurants or getting flown out to random locations when they were young. Something young men rarely can afford.
Pure facts
💯💯💯
On the button
On God...And Thanx for saying "flown" instead of "flewed" out.🙄😒 Folks get on my last living nerve saying that ghetto BS.😑
These modern non traditional women are realizing that their social economic status doesn’t mean NOTHING to high caliber men!!
Took them long enough. And I thought they were supposed to be "highly intelligent". Why did it take them so long to reach that conclusion? It's not like men weren't telling them that for years.
... doesn't mean ANYTHING to ...
Doesn’t mean anything to ANY man. A hard working middle income man would rather live his middle income life than to get with a high earning woman who won’t listen.
Agreed. Men value being their own man and our ego. It's the only way men are able to survive mentally and physically. It's in our nature @@crosstudio
@@twondagreat8893We just care about how we're treated and want someone who respects us and is easy to work with. All else is gibberish. Gibber jabber.
Her mouth and her attitude disqualify her.
BINGO!
I’m obviously not a man but her aggressive way of speaking is a turn off. Just because you are professional doesn’t mean you need to be harsh. My husband loves to reminisce about our “meet cute.” I was working as a attorney and presenting a case and caught his attention, he said my presentation was clear, knowledgeable, very articulate but still feminine and alluring. Although he likes darker skinned women who are taller, I’m 5’6” and light skinned, he likes a natural look which I have. He also likes very smart women with a sense of humor. Anyway, he made up his mind that day and never looked back - we will soon celebrate our 14th anniversary of the “meet cute.” He is very wealthy, now me too, and I gave up practicing law because I think as a profession it gives a woman too much of an edge.
My blessed mother created a peaceful, serene home which was well decorated and ordered for my very successful father. I am doing the same. My mother didn’t work full time - just occasionally as a substitute teacher - until for a few years, long after we were grown , in a job my father arranged for her in order to create a social security benefit. She enjoyed spending that money in her senior years. Great dad, stay at home mom equals a feminine lady who attracts men like bees to honey.
Facts!!💯
only took her 30+ years and multiple rides on the carousel to finally come to this realization.
KS said the same things she's now speaking about but they celebrated that mans passing.
blah blah blah,, 😒😒😒😒😒😒 Eboni K Williams we said the same stuff 5 YEARS AGO,,, but you were with that white man who eventually tired of you so now you doing the brothers step it up/i ve seen the light(after 40 years old)tour🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂
@@diconceptsblackhistorythey2513I’m saying she ran back because the white man ain’t want her no more
She is just sloganizing to get attention. Her other rhetoric did not work. In short, she is a grifter.
That 40 year old wall hit and now she’s desperate
@@tonymontez2358 Agreed.. All that woofying, and she knows it is only downhill from here.
She's all over the place...........bottom line..........NOBODY wants her. 😐
Facts
Certainly nobody she wants is checking for her. There's always a low-value simp out there that would give her his entire life.
Yup. Pretty much.
Kevin Samuels was right and most of these women can't prove him wrong 😔😭😔 WOW.
Not at all
@desmondmcneil496 Kevin Samuel said, "Fit, friendly and feminine.
Kevin Samuels legacy lives on, he said accountability is a woman’s kryptonite
It's so simple and easy, but women still can't understand or accept it.
Eboni K Williams.. And (Boss Chick's) like her.. Don't (Respect) Hard Working Good Men.. She's the (Problem) not the men. 🚶🙅🚶🙅🚶🙅
Fit, friendly and femine. Just a nice nice, loyal, beautiful and young girl is what is wanted.
It's not an inherent conflict. Eboni, it's the natural order of things
Order is considered chaos to a chaotic person
When men make a certain amount of money, they aren't looking for a woman who makes the same as them. But when women make a certain amount of money, they seriously believe they need to find a man who makes the same or more and that is NOT how the economy works. There will be high, mid, and low paying jobs. People do jobs that they love. In reality, people should look for connections with others, not dollar signs in their partners.
@phantombags, when women have these requirements, I always wonder why they don’t just date their boss or their bosses counterparts in the same industry as them?
At least that way they can be sure they are dating UP and laterally.
@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 these wealthy men want younger prettier more fertile women. These women have been fed a lie that they can focus on career and then at 35+ years of age get a rich well educated man to marry them. Evolution, fertility science and demographics are aligned against this happening as most of these men they want don’t want them. They refuse to settle and end up alone
unfortunately their boss or their boss counterpart is most certainly not looking for women like them.
they are either looking for women that came up with them i.e. they are married already OR looking for way younger early 20s sweet n tight ladies.@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229
@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229Does the boss want to date them ? There are only few "bosses" in Life .
Sounds nice but women are all about them security.
As ive gotten older. I value peace of mind more than a piece of ass.
haha. i concur. i agree. i second that.
The Higher Status a woman reaches, the smaller is her dating options.
Yup. Just like my sister. High paying job. She’s very wealthy. No kids and never been married. !! And very bitter. !!!
Nobody wants a career woman... It just is what it is.
@@t.p.m.414 its not JUST that
i didnt want someone who would stil prioritize that over her personal happiness. my wife owns a business and has done so even before me. a few women ive dated have. they werent anything like eboni K because i just wouldn't be attracted to being 2nd place to a woman's career. my wife loves me and takes care of me all while handling her business and its about balance.
eboni K is way out of balance because she doesn't really know what that is.
she knows how to make a check come in but she doesnt understand how to keep a man point blank and NO it DOES NOT have anything to do with being submissive or what KS talked about
@@KingJT80yes it does simp
@@AAJ23801 says a goofball who dont even get dates....
Good job brother, you broke down why 60 percent of young men are single by choice these days
This is all day KEVIN SAMUELS !!!
The value that a woman brings into your life is children and her ability to help yes help you the father raise them. But modern America women can get bored with being a wife and mother now very quickly.
I am an African black man, and poor. But I will never even saying hi to her if I encounter with her on the street or in any occasion. I encounters a lot of these women, and I always try to avoiding them by any means necessary.
Trust bm is her last option because that white kb and other groups of men ain’t want her
Good for you sir!
Yes sir, that’s how it done.
She really has to be a terrible person because just based purely off her looks, she really shouldn't be struggling in this area.
Agreed. She is the worst of the worst, but with the best war paint.
It doesn't take more than 3 mins talking to her to see that. She doesnt even try to be pleasant. I bet she challenges everything. She gives me "You really think that's a Chardonnay flute?" in front of everyone instead of just drinking the drink type vibes. Lol
@@CassCream what you've described is just a very annoying ass person, she's gotta be even worse.
She's like a house that looks good on the outside, but once you look inside, you see all types of structural damage.😂
@@Julius29C I think is worse than that. She looks like a house that got prepped for sale, which people can obviously tell that the owner did not maintain and only recently cut the lawn, planted some artifical flowers and threw on some paint to get rid of the dog he/she can longer afford. In other words, I agree with you analolgy.
Beauty, Fertility and Youth are what she says men assess but she left out attitude. The three things she mentioned are all related to just physical attributes.
She talked about that right after she mentioned those things
@@ghost_illmatic Okay...my bad
It’s funny cause now she doesn’t have nun of that no more, no youth or fertility and the beauty is fading she’s starting to get grey hairs and that attitude.
All they know is the flesh
She called that one of the "soft skills"..... but that's definitely a hard skill...cause it's hard as hell to come by🤷🏾♂️
She basically said that the man her age that makes that kind of money don’t want her… but that’s ok. Just go older to the 56 year old 😂
Naw she’s saying she doesn’t want men her age she wants a older man but she wants kids and most times those men already have kids and don’t want anymore so basically she’s gonna be single forever lol 😂
She knows it's a fact. Reality has shown her that Men in her age bracket that earn equally as her ain't checking for her.
@@tonymontez2358 exactly.. that 56 year old doesn’t want kids
I'm 58 , if I was single no way would I date her.
Not far from that age at all. BUT I can say this. Nahhh we good.
A man's definition of compromise is a women's definition of settling for less. 😂😂😂😂
That's what it is.....we all settle. People need to grow up.......
As a man, unless you have found your person in your youth; then women are for fun only. Don’t prioritize them and don’t fall in love with the wrong one. As a 35 year old professional man that does hit all those dumb metrics that women have been screaming about it is laughable how easy dating is
How did you hit the 6' metric? (j/k)
Or you find a woman willing to settle down early and not waste their youth. I was 33 and my wife was 24 when we got married. I met some wonderful women close to my age but I just didn’t want to deal with the years of accumulated baggage.
Let me get this straight. At 40 she's looking for a 56yr old (16yr age differenc). But a 24yr young lady graduating college is shamed for getting with a 40yr old successful man. Some please make this make sense. She should have married the 40yr old man at 24. Not wanting him at 56 when she's 40. The delusions. RIP Kevin Samuels.
What I can see is that because she looks younger than her age,she somehow can still get attention as if she’s in her late 20s when obviously she’s 40. It’s like her current beauty still makes her an option that can bear children even though her actual physical body cannot do so easily
It’s a manipulation tactic to coerce 40 year old men into only dating 40 year old women basically women trying to get men to abandon our options in our prime to date women who have less to offer. Imagine telling an attractive 20 year old women she’s only allowed to date 20 year old men. They’d just laugh in your face and get in an older mans car to be taken out. Men should do the same just laugh and do as we please.
Props to Eboni K Williams for discovering this "new" concept. If only this knowledge was going around town and being passed around in the past like she was.
She just study blackmanisphere and ks
@@keithwisdom1663The first sentence was sarcasm.
@@keithwisdom1663 This isn't manosphere this is old knowledge that transends race and time.
😅 right
Bottom line is women should not seek marriage.
--There are plenty of good guys to choose amongst to be a sperm donor.
--If great women have financial independence, they should build a village with other women, neighbors and family and successfully raise their children.
--That’s how Sweden does it -a country with a high number of single parents.
--If successful women desire sex there are enough decent looking men of all races to get that need met.
--I am telling my daughters to design the life they want to live with or without men.
To tell the truth a man that is well to do financially, how does it benefit him to get married???? The woman can come home and say I just dont want to be married any more and leave him, while taking half of his stuff. I know 3 different situations where this happened to men all because the wife wanted to run the street.
get a prenup and men are the ones who leave the relationship first that starts the divorce.......
@@mariejane1567 Even if you have a prenup, the judge can throw it out if they want. There is no safe space with government involved. Just have a ceremony, trust/wills, POA etc.
Happened to me and she took the kids too and brainwashed them against me. They are 22 and 19 and we don't even speak to this day.
It was a horrible decision marrying her.
@@mariejane1567 nah black men should get there passports
From a statistical standpoint...you are wrong. Of the 56% of marriages that end in divorce...women initiate 77% of divorces. Men, in general, tend to tough it out when it comes to marriage. For a man to leave, he has to be HELLA unhappy (in general, there's always the exception. However, the exception to the rule DOES NOT make it 'the rule').
Men with prenups who divorce...tend to do so because their wives often 'let themselves go' after having a couple of kids/after aging. Women, especially stay-at-home wives with rich husbands...have ZERO excuses for letting themselves go physically. NOR should they ever lose interest in sexually pleasuring their husbands ESPECIALLY if he's providing them the type of life that 99% of women would GLADLY trade places with them for!
Wives who let themselves blow up like The Goodyear Blimp....are no different than husbands who arent able to handle their finances as the marriage progresses. Just as the husband DID NOT sign up for his wife to blow up into Shamu.....women who marry rich husbands DID NOT sign up for their husbands to mess up their finances!
Rich men who do not require their wives to sign prenups....are at the mercy of their wives NOT getting 'bored/moody/emotional years down the line....resulting in his wealth being at risk!
I gave up dating back in 2007 (when i was 35)...because I got sick and tired of how emotionally DRAINING dealing with women were! After that first year...I felt so relieved to be single!
Fast forward to 2024 (I'll be 52 in 8 days)....I literally live life on Easy Mode! I've been able to save significant money...my expenses are low....I have loads of free time to enjoy whatever I want to do (I LOVE sports and I play poker)....I have ZERO stress, angst, worries in my life. Why would I give that up.....only to have a delusional, needy, emotionally draining, easily bored female that is high maintenance (time-wise, emotionally-wise, money-wise)?
The ironic thing is that there was a time I would have had NO PROBLEM putting forth the effort in not only being a great father...but also a great father! However, that time has passed...and I made my peace with that long ago!
I'll pass (and from the sounds of it...more and more men are wising up and giving up dating women PERIOD). Sure they'll always be the simps out there who'll placate women....however most women do not want to date/marry SIMPS (only use them when no other option is around).
By 2030, 42% of women age 40 and older..will be BOTH single AND childless. Women will only need to look in the mirror for someone to blame for that predicament. @@mariejane1567
Everybody is using Kevin Samuels talking points, analogies and assessments without giving him credit..... man RIP KS.....YOU ARE NOT FORGOTTEN.
I feel so sorry for her because she said she was having a baby on her own! To be that rich and that beautiful and having to buy a baby? So sad. She'll be missing that joy of having the baby that looks like the Man you love! Which is why us Mothers are insane about our sons!
I find girls more often look like dad and sons look like mom 🥰 but you make a great point
She could always lower her financial standards for men. She could’ve easily had a man if she didn’t want a multi millionaire. It’s plenty of single 9-5 guys she could pick from. 🤷🏾♂️
@@tonymontez2358ummm. Us 9-5 guys dont want her either. We dont need her money, status, or attitude
@@tonymontez2358the only man she getting is one who doesn’t get girls or haven’t in a long time
She did this to herself. She should’ve stayed within her community or when she had that white man she should’ve never left him
She's leaving out the part where these young women are out here throwing themselves at the man with the most money, she can't tell these young women what to do, so why the hell do she think she can tell an older man not to date a young woman who want to be with that man. You can't make someone like you, and men know this better than anyone.
When will she realize no Brothas of any income want her?
Women are solipsists and narcissists by nature, they are for the most part incapable of recognizing their own failings.
They have to be forced by the constant pressure of environment to engage in self-examination. Even then they only look at outward appearance, not inner character.
It's funny because Kevin Samuels was already saying this but he got hate from it
A very big point that many older women and men leave out is women and menopause. I know a guy that was married to his wife for 20 years and when she went thru menopause she was impossible to live with and they got a divorce.
Now that she came back to the obvious, now she should go back and start spreading the truth 💪🏽
I can’t keep up I’m actually watching two videos at the same time now! Hardest working man on you tube.
two words Eboni can't comprehend...BE QUIET.
The MEN that MODERN WOMEN say that they want don’t want them and the MEN that want them they don’t want ⁉️And the PASSPORT BROTHERS are out✈️💸✈️💸🌏
3:10 RIP Unc Kevin Samuels. He been saying this S***! A good majority of women making 300-400k sometimes think they’re better than you. Thinking that they’re money is what will make them a kept women. A guy with their same financial means isn’t going to deal with blsht. Cooperative,respectful,feminine ladies are snatched up already.
400K/yr?! 😂 it’s time to put these conversations to rest. It’s just getting silly now.
Right that’s not the real world. The only ones talking about gender roles is women. It’s 50/50 and I don’t care what anybody thinks about it
We cant, the women dominate the culture and far too many men are born in single parent households.
It will probably be disrupted in a few decades when race-mixing gets more aggressive.
Exactly. Try 40K a year. Can she accept a man that makes that? If not, she is destined to be alone.
@@gatchmanphoenix1418you should be making more than 40k a year to be honest. That’s only $20hr with no overtime.
Ahahaha also these women are in debt if they make less than that 55K man. Starting without net worth that is -zero.
Get your passport 😂
She's Cap'n. She ended her engagement. 😮
Not only rich man don't want to date her a wealthy man and a average man not going to want to date her either
She sounds like she understands a portion of what Kevin Samuel’s been saying about this for years
she looks like she is getting older by the MINUTE!!!
I was thinking the same thing.
This lady looks old and ruff.
Besides any many with money including myself don't want her.
The younger generation of men has had the advantage of RUclipsrs like yourself and Kevin Samuels, and everything that you have said in this video is what they have figured out.
The Club scene is pretty much dead, because the younger generation of men have figured out that is a waste of time And they would rather save up their money and buy a plane ticket and head overseas where they could get more bang for their buck.
The bar scene is also dead because the younger generation of men have figured out that it is cheaper and better to have guy friends over and watch sports games, or play video games and save their money and still have a good time.
So honestly, I don’t know what these women are gonna do here in America because they have listened to feminism for so long that they have literally pushed the men to pursue better options, and the younger generation of men are actually happier.
KEVIN SAMUELS SAID THE SAME THING SHE SAYING NOW. a lot of people attacked him for it. GODSPEED SIR! YOU ARE TRULLY MISSED!
God defines gender roles..... and this Woman is from my City which is in the Bible belt lol
Where you go, there are you are. You have to be that which you seek.
It’s important that obviously women want a man with resources but also they need self awareness. A women must know they are a pleasant experience and not just a headache or a mouth. It’s sounds simple but some find it hard to do.
I would have thought Kevin Samuels came back from the grave and answered this interview himself!! Insane how his work is still hard in these streets even beyond the grave!
Eboni, its not just our society, its the whole world.
The modern concept of whats hers is hers & wants whats his is actively rejected by men. Anything else is cope or simping
Am I the only one that found it weird that she thinks "loyalty" is a soft skill and not a requirement for men when dating?
I think at this point most are indifferent to anything bw say
Yes because she's showing it's all an act. Women aren't very authentic. They're good actors & manipulators.
Been saying this to dames for years:GED,PHD,Welfare,Millionaire, if he’s paying for everything what are you going to be doing with your money & resources? Most can’t answer this.
On the flip side to what Oshay said, there are men who are on that higher level who want to get married and have multiple children. Women like Eboni can't provide that lifestyle for a man like that.
When I got divorced, I realized women either add to your life or take away from it. If a dude is knockin' down $400K what is ANY woman going to add to a man's life?
don't look for someone else to make you happy do it yourself
Oshay, you describe my current situation. At 54 y/o, 4 years divorce now. Work to have a home and residual income. I see no need for a girlfriend, no matter how good they look. I can get women 30 and up all day. Not hard to do. I enjoy my peace in life. Traveling alone is great....
Men want a woman that is easy to get along with whether she is career driven or not. Women generally don't know how to compartmentalize work from home. That's why women vent to their man about work after they get off work. Also a man is expected to financially carry the relationship.
And she probably disliked K.S. big time!
And she is using his work
I'm a 57 year old man over 6' & a business owner. Women in their 20s are always throwing interests my way.
100% on point Oshay. Great video!
Single since 2018 😂 I just want the box then am out pookie energy activated.
Just close your eyes and listen to her voice. It’s like hearing the purge alarm.
Im not exactly sure what will become of bw but i do have some ideas since they are being analyzed more and more. If at any point their influential impact on other ladies is realized as a detriment you're going to see some interesting things happen. For now they have succeeded in pushing the men away from them to the point where theyve began the process of detaching themselves from them on every level. Its honestly not looking to safe for them as this continues to happen and this mentality matures itself.
You have a very valid point my bro💯 iwas thinking along these lines myself especially over the last 3, 4 yrs I see it coming miles away at this point🤔👁🤷
Absolutely my brOther...peace of mind is PRICELESS 🎉🎉🎉
She stole some shoes and had a car repossessed, she is not the best source for life advice. She is not delivering new information.
People saw that pride and attitude which men will not be ready to keep up with in her during her hey day but chose to ignore because she based everything on career.
Dr. Umar will come and shame black men for not dating her on her behalf 😂
😂🤣🤣 yup that part
@@theoneaboveall6768deadass without even realizing that she trying to use bm as a last resort
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Singleness is a blessing especially having been married. Give it to the young folk. 🤧😴
You better know it !
A lot of women think that having a sassy attitude is cute…that’s a very fine line that most of them fail at walking. Especially women who are “accomplished.” A bad attitude is a deal breaker.
Equally Yoked have nothing to do with money and everything to do with SPIRITUALLY 💯
Winter Is HERE!!!!
All of sudden she can talk about, what I call “malleability”…, but something is insincere on how she conveys this.
Bro, Im meeting some Ugandan women that have money..and they have the same ideology and really think they dont have to do anything but show up.
It’s cause your in there face. Be about you instead of getting caught up with ignorance.
@@massdisruption3437 oh you now know my personal business🤣🤣. I've EARNED my leisure, Be about yours, I'm not the smoke you want.
His channel is dope. Lotta good information and insight.
It's not 'society', it's nature, instinct. Society is what makes a woman not be married by 40, in a natural world she would have been married with kids by now.
Kevin Samuels for the win again!!! KS still undefeated!
My boi speaking facts in this I’m sending this clip to any woman who don’t understand why they are single bruh
@3:20 calling me bro and we not like that is crazy! Literally said she wanted a to feel somewhat dominated. She’s definitely an opportunist like all politicians who are able to flip the script & narrative to suit their needs even if it is primal 😂
You are spot on!!
Speaking from direct experience of highly successful single black men from 35 to 55+, successful black women are not on the "short list" for a variety of reasons.
Single mature black men typically have had significant prior relationship experience.
As a consequence, if we wanted to date black women who may be our chronological, professional/ economic equals we would have remained with our ex's. In fact several mature black men are still in contact with their exs.
Our small group of single black men have discussed Ms. Williams in the context of the question; Should one of us hit the Sis up and give her a "shot"?
If "Chaotic" was human.. 😂😂😂
I swear she has gone through several stages to get to this point. This ain't the same Eboni Williams that put on a smug face and told iyanla that he had to own the bus for her to date him. Some reality and humbling has occured.
No... She is a grifter.
No humbleness detected in this hyena at all.
@@ulysses8785 nah she just doing what every bw who date outside they race do. Ran to bm when they old and ugly and no man trying to be with them
Very well put.
Winter is here-KS
Her situation is an interesting one. I have 2 points:
1) Give credit for her admitting the realities and being logical/rational: The one thing I give her credit for is AT LEAST being able to say these things out loud. The biggest problem with women in her position is that their PRIDE won't allow them to admit that their choices have not put them in the ideal situation. When women continue to lie the REAL victims here are young women that are entering into the dating market and those getting close to danger zone. They need to prioritize on what they have to offer now
2) Eboni's situation is not dire...just change mentality/perspective: Eboni is lucky that for a woman in her 40s she has kept herself up. Even though she is older, her aesthetic is still okay. However, every year she ages it IS RAPIDLY declining. The key is women's WORST enemy here is their own HYPERGAMY. They feel that the core things that make a man attractive (2 P's: financial Protection / Provision) are things that make him a suitable husband. By the time a woman reaches her mid 30s, does she really need that anymore. If you are self-sufficient you really don't need that. So if a man with good inner qualitites comes along, have you really lost anything if he does not make as much money as you? It is a win still. A woman making 200k is not losing if she marries ama na that makes 60k a year. YOu now are making combined 260k a year. Live off half of your income and invest the difference. You are set. From an INVESTMENT standpoint you are winning because you are ADDING to what you already have not subtracting. But their HYPERGAMY see this as a loss, instead of it being a gain. The "better by myself" is the actual loss, because ALL of the financial responsibility falls on you. To put it another way, is it a loss to only make 15% on your money each year or to not invest at all. It is NOT SETTLING.
Sht don't get no credit for sht
She didn't have no epiphany and moments of self reflection then humility. She's been kicked in the face by reality...the reality of the outcomes
That sht can No longer ignore.
Truth, reality has been Forced on her
That's the only way women like her get it. No men on " her level"? Want her, that mouth, that attitude.
Men Not on her level? Don't either
She is the epitome of...I can show you better than I can tell you.
The outcomes in her life..are Showing her. Noww..cones some humility
This will be what happens to Allllll of them that think, move like her.
It goes against evolutionary based mating strategies ingrained in women. Most are very unhappy if they are the primary bread winner and will end up divorcing
She’s 45 and a millionaire looking for a millionaire in his 50’s. She’s doesn’t want to date younger men or men who make less than her. Plus she has a bad attitude, it’s over for her 🤷🏾♂️ lol 😂
@@neverstop2493 I agree with you.. however it is on the woman to ALSO realize that them going out and being a provider (aka making top 10% of income) is against their evoutionary biology as well.
So the only real problem is them accepting the fact that they ALREADY chose not to be fuflifilled in that way.
You can't reap the benefits of being masculine and then expect to get femiine/evolutionary satisfaction. If the women could just accept what thy have chosen and stop trying to "have their cake and eat it too" they can have famalies. It is strong delusion.
Yeah if she can't redefine what winning looks like by having a man with honorable characteristics beside status.. you are definitely right.@@tonymontez2358
Oshay nailed it
100k subscribers! Congrats!
Good summation!
She's definitely binge watching kevin samuels/red pill stuff
Good
A 35 year old man and a 35 year old woman are not equal. For the man to date the woman his age is him dating down, no matter how much she makes
It's crazy that a women who makes $400k/yr can still look down on a man that makes $200k/yr. The value of a man has been reduced to his earning potential. It's an unfortunate trap for women that causes an internal conflict.😢
That's ok cause that man making 200k/yr has a far better a chance of landing a wife than that woman making 400k has of landing a husband.
This is the universe balancing things out. It wipes the women with incompatible values off the board for you so you don't waste your time chasing them
Lol it has always been like that. Anywhere you go, most women would feel superior or more powerful to a man who earns less.
It’s actually something that can be remedied. She thinks like a Mzungu Concubine not a potential marriage candidate. It’s a system that trains Black women to marry their jobs not Black mates, to serve Mzungu Capitalism
Somebody has been watching KS videos
🤔🤔🤔. Black female celebrity are the one watching Kevin Samuels.
Cynthia g hated to take back for Samuel advice.
Black women can't handle hot water like this debate against black men.
Black men are real repartitions whole time carry with large resources and strong wealth.
What you think Asia and Latina focus on real prize.
They said black men are real prize.
You're totally right my brother
Dustina Strugglesworth.